Her Uncle Made Her Childhood Miserable
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ก.ค. 2023
- In today's episode of Unfiltered Stories, we have the honor of listening to Kai Johnson as she bravely shares her personal journey with us. Kai opens up about the profound challenges she faced from a very young age, when a family member she trusted began to manipulate and exploit her innocence. At just five years old, Kai found herself trapped in a nightmare that no child should ever have to endure.
Through her courageous decision to speak out, Kai sheds light on the importance of having a strong support system when processing and healing from unimaginable trauma. She emphasizes how seeking therapy and finding the strength to share her story have been instrumental in her ongoing journey of recovery. Kai's resilience and determination to reclaim her life serve as an inspiration to others who may be facing similar struggles, reminding us that healing is possible and that we are never alone. Join us as we listen to Kai's powerful story with empathy and respect, standing in solidarity with survivors everywhere. #UnfilteredStories #SurvivorStories
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Kind of defeats the object of speaking out if you’re going to bleep the words.
07:16 I don’t even know what this is
I’m a warrior/survivor myself.
You should get in touch with mosca
I think think that’s the name
I hope you get better
@@thewhiterabbitukI agree. I couldn't figure out some of the words. However this is horrific! They ALL need to be locked up!
🫂❤️ you are an inspiration. I hope to be strong like you are.
Press charges now. Those MONSTERS need to bebehind bars.
I am just halfway through and from what I've heard so far, it is truly one of the most horrendous story, I have ever heard!! I share your pain and is truly overwhelming! This comes to you from Florida. I'm so proud of you! Thank you for surviving! If you ever need a fresh start, I would certainly help you out.... A sister in pain. Never give up on hope. You now have full control to make your life your own. I will pray for you and I wish you all the best! Never ever give up on Hope! You are an incredibly strong woman. God bless you. I honestly don't know how you ever go back there. I wouldn't be able to do it. Report this please, this guy needs to go to prison
It's her decision if she chooses to report him or not. I can not put into words just how soul crushing it is when you are not believed by your loved ones, let alone when they testify against you in court. Her family was willing to enable him*** when she was a little girl; there's no way they would accept responsibility now that she is older and "should have moved on by now." Please be kind. Sometimes, it just isn't that easy. Much love and many prayers sent everyone's way 🙏 ❤️
@@MelancholyRequiem not to be disrespectful but I think the word enable is for the uncle since he was the abuser.
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OMG THANK YOU FOR LETTING ME KNOW; THAT WAS A TYPO!!!!
Nothing will happen to them. Her shitty family won't even stand behind her.
Child molesters need to be in prison for life.
Totally agree
I would suggest death actually
@@h.s.l6875 I agree.
Death penalty.
They need death penalty here on.earth and then even worse judgement from God
Your abuser needs to in in prison for life . Children need to be protected from that monster.
I am 74 ... and I still can not sleep without a light on in my bedroom ...
When I was a senior in high school, my parents thought I had ruptured appendix , which in fact was a large ruptured an ovarian cyst. During the surgery without any warning I gave birth to twin boys. The boys only lived for 2-3 hours. I didn't even know I was pg.
My mother loved her boys n ignored my sister n myself.
She started taking me to an Ob/gyn when I was 13 yrs as she thought I would soon start my menses. Imagine a 13 yr old getting a vaginal exam and no female nurse at my side.. I started to scream. Fortunately, the doc began to ask me what was going on at home..
When I told him , my brother liked what I described to the doctor as being anal sex etc. Mainly because he felt that I could not get pregnant that way. He was wrong.!
Karma intervened when he began having a grand mal seizure.. Thankfully for me, the seizures began right in front of his schoolmates during a school basketball game .For the next 4 years, the meds began to cause him impotence. Aw poor guy...
He enjoyed being naked while he was masterbating in his room.
He did this so one too many times until our housekeeper saw him. She screamed n ran all the way all the way to her home. One time b4 a date, he anal raped me. I ran to my aunties house just as her
MSP ,in full police uniform, answered the door .I told him the whole story. He took me home and called my aunt , who was a pharmacist. She also worked for my father..
I had a date that night, and when he rang the door n my uncle answered the doorbell, n Bob saw my uncle in uniform . My boyfriend immediately asked if I was hurt. My uncle told him what happened to me. Not all...
My uncle put bro in his cruiser n took him to the MSP post,
and put him in the cage until my parents could pick him up in the am. Mother was far more concerned about the nasty ass bro than her daughter.. Go figure.
Sisters were - are used for sexual fodder. No matter what century or decade we are in..
My second semester in college I had what in 1969 ....it was called a nervous breakdown.
Thank you to all for reading my story.
Thankfully I married a loving, caring man. We were married 47 years until God took him home to heaven. Even after 19 months I still grieve for him every second of the day
RIP 10-13 -21:
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I wish you the best in life for as long as you live ❤
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what happened to your mother? did she know what your brother was doing to you? what happened to your brother ? i am just curious
How was this poor woman surrounded by so many psychopaths?
It’s often hereditary.
It’s a family affair
Mamas be phuqin up
Weird huh
Lots of families are toxic. Kai was a scapegoat in her family. She's wise not to have kids. Families that are dysfunctional like this are best left behind. I wish she could file charges against whoever did these things.
WHY DO " families" turn their backs?? I am a GROWN ASS woman now and recently called my mother out for bringing my abuser in the house.. I've told her bout what he was doing since i was 12! She called me out as a LIAR and told my siblings I was DEAD TO HER!! GOOD RIDDANCE1 SHE DOESN'T WANT TO FACE THE FACTS1
Often times parents will deny not because they don't believe but because acknowledging it forces them to take accountability and no one wants to think of themselves as a pos (even though they are).
Btw I am in no way saying this is ok, just sharing what I've learned from my own mothers denial. She is not a good mother, she is not a strong enough person and I actually think its pathetic. She can lie to the world but she can't always lie to herself. Deep down she knows it's true just as I'm sure your mother does. I hope you find healing and the love you deserve
I was tired of an ex wanting to just drop by any time he felt like it, I told my mom I was going to get an order of protection against him. I didn't want to see him anymore. She had a fit- ' *NO DON'T DO THAT!!!!* ' In my experience, narcs stick together no matter what. We have to get our army together as well & stop this abuse.
I am a mother I am 54 years old. My first instinct when watching this was to just hug and hold you and protect you. As I continue to watch I saw you evolve into young adult who knows how to protect herself I wish I could have been the person for you to just shelter you from all this pain and craziness. It's not right people shouldn't do children this way but I am so glad for you that you finally found a way. Out
As 42 year old mother of 4 I feel exactly the same as you. This world can be so cruel with these horrid people in it. It really hurts when your own family don't believe you & continue to put you in harm's way.
I was just about to type something similar. Girl, you are worthy, you are beautiful, you are loved.
Becoming a foster parent allows you to help and protect kids just like Kai.
She'll accuse you next.
I’m 34 and I wanna hug her and let her know she is loved this is so sad
Shocking that these men got away with doing this shit to tiny children. Sick.
It's almost...unbelievable
@@Oliver-Closeoff the world is full of abusers.
Ikr
Wow, this is one strong lady. I'm very sorry she had to go through that.
“You can pick your own family”, that is so healing for people who need to hear it
U cant pick ya fam
@@ceceprincess4758yes you can ,blood is irrelevant
I was molested and terrorized by my uncle as a teenager ..I never dared to confront him ..he is long dead but his terror and my f..d up youth haunted me into my 50s..I became a Blues Musician and at age 69 moved to South America w my dog and 2 suit cases ! I pray for her to find inner peace !
Kai, please don't blame yourself for this. You was innocent. You're beautiful and strong and you will get thru this🙏
Thanks for your kindness!
I went through this with my adoptive father for 12 years. You are not to blame. Shame on your mother.
She was 19 still doing the samethings, when do you change things up or do you alway play victim forever?
“Play victim”? Do you understand stuff like this at all?
How can someone be so freaking sick! To do this to an innocent baby! Bless your heart honey! There are very evil people in this world, who deserve to rot in hell! You are so brave! Congratulations on your clean time!! I pray for your justice and continued healing!🙏💖
I am so sorry this happened to you. Thank you for sharing your story. You are teaching people how common abuse is within Families. 95% of child SA is from a family relative or family friend.
SO many people fail to forget that 95% of child SA/abuse comes from loved ones. how sad and awful that many people have gone through this 🥺
@@nlwww very sad. I know that pain is too deep to heal. I never experienced that pain but I have friends and clients that have. 💙
Those family members need to go to prison for a long time, what the hell is wrong with them abusing a little girl, the monster of a mother who left should be held accountable also . Hope she gets to live a life without any family members who have hurt her. Such a Warrior Woman.
Exactly because what if he's doing the same thing to her autistic brother that the auntie is taking care of?. Everybody needs to be arrested at this point. And serve the same faith as him which I see is the death penalty.
This is breaking my heart. 28yo and doesn't know how to live without someone abusing her😢😢😢
I'm sorry you were betrayed by so many adults who didn't protect you. IMHO going to family gatherings and seeing your your uncle is putting yourself in harms way. Stay single, get another kitty and continue to heal. Congratulation on your sobriety and having the courage to make this video. Stay strong!
When I was a little kid, my mom used to examine myself and sister at bath time once in a while to be sure our hymens were intact and that we hadn't been molested. Never touched us, just looked. She was molested as a child. Now I make sure I pay strong attention to my baby when I'm changing him and to his body language. He's only 2 so not at the stage where he can exactly relay abuse but rest assured I pay attention to my child and will always put him before a spouse or bf.
There is no statute of limitations for child sexual abuse.
There is, i think
There is. There is no statute of limitations on kidnapping, but there is on abuse.
Statues of limitations on sxxual abuse need to be abolished.
My heart breaks knowing that people have to suffer like this. Death penalty to child abusers. They are evil demons who cause damage for generations. They can not be rehabilitated. This young lady is so strong and courageous. Thank you for sharing your story. ❤
You should really press charges against that socalled uncle .A monster like that will do this to others.You are a strong young lady❤
I'm soooo sorry you had to endure that. The cruelty of some people is just unfathomable! Especially to CHILDREN!!!!
How did no one see the bruises and burns? Especially a nurse? I'm so confused how no one saw anything?
They honestly don’t care.
I'm wondering where is the mom.
They didn’t want to see
@@ceceprincess4758she abandoned them entirely
@@ceceprincess4758she said her mom abandoned them.
All the adults failed you....I'm so so sorry. You survived and your clean and sober....congrats on your huge huge amount of strength and courage and persiverance. I'm sorry for all your pain. I'm 50 with grandkids and wish I could take the sweet and innocent little you and keep all the monsters away. Adults are suppose to protect children. None of it was your fault. None of it. Stay strong...your on the right road....God bless you!!! Maybe you could consider being an advocate for other children....just a thought.....sometimes sometimes it helps us to heal when we can help others heal. I wish you all the happiness you deserve, all the happiness stolen from you. God loves you !!!
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 this is brutal 😢 may she find healing and peace 💕
Omg baby girl im so sorry you were abused and failed by so many miserable adults..
you are very strong and humble.
You did not deserve any of what happened to you..
much love your way and a big big hug
You need to let go of this toxic family And start out on your own.
As a recovering addict & survivor of child sexual abuse I understand how strong you are to have come out the otherside of your brutal upbringing. I too have BPD & have some of the same traits as you. I too have pickd my own family now, all from different walks of life & I'm in a much happier space. I hope you continue on the path you are. 😘 & Hugs from Portsmouth, England 💞
God bless you!
There are some fathers out here that would love to pay this man a visit, just give a name.
Then they end up in prison because she fabricated stories.
@@Oliver-Closeoffwhy do you think she fabricated this?
Report them to the police!
To the Gallows with theses evil monsters.
I am a very easy loving mum with three beautiful sons . To here this boils my blood . Cant imagine this life . Some people get dealt the wrong card. So sad .
You are strong you are a warrior.
I can feel your pain. I care about you and I love your soul so much.
You actually don't have to go to any family functions anymore.
I’m sorry you went through this. It’s so awful and for children, SA is death. They kill the person you could’ve been. They should get the death penalty.
Absolutely!!!! That child will never be the same. 😢
How???? How can anyone hurt a little angel like this!!!! 🤬🤬🤬
She's very intelligent. She's been through hell, it's so horrible, and how no adult saw and intervened?!
Damn! You are a warrior. I have this gut feeling watching you that you are going to help victims of abuse one day. In a big way. Like save someone's life.
The trauma and Abuse that happened to a child will always stay with them forever you are forever changed sadly I know this all too well
I'm so glad that you are clean and sober kai I hope that you will find a way to heal from the trauma and find peace in your life
If abuse is all you know of love, you will miss it when it's gone. Heartbreaking to hear her articulate what too many kids have to deal with.
I never understood, until getting counseling on the subject, why I'd spend the night other places in peaceful surroundings, & miss & want to come home to my father's snide remarks and my mom yelling all the time.
Kai I'm so sorry for what happened to you your family truly failed to protect you when they should had
My blood is boiling bc no one wants to admit of sick many mothers are. Having kids in a world like this is a red flag whether you pll want to accept it or not.
I pray this young women can get to the point where she can realize her worth.. she was wonderfully made and what these monsters did was evil. There is judgement for this even though it might not be in this lifetime, but in eternity.
She is completely disassociated when talking about this. Distant and monotone. That is a severe sign of trauma. Poor girl
Like that 72yr. Old,I too,have lights on all night,turn them off at daylight. I go through a series of physical routines til I feel safe. I have to mentally prepare for certain situations,I try to discipline myself in public not to act triggered by something or someone,I mentally control myself at public outings,it's hard at times to do so,but at times I can breeze through,I never know which way I'll go,but try real hard to concentrate to catch myself to have normal reactions to any situation. SOMETIMES I feel so free or alone,at times,I freeze. It's ongoing to try to get to neutral place,to a normal pace,space,'cause I had to study other people's normal reactions,to what is normal situations. It is working,I'm humanizing myself,I want that so bad,it will happen before I die. Gotta go back to work,Folks. Peace prayer.❤✝️.
I pray you feel true God-given peace that lasts. 🕊
Please please press charges!!!!!! This is horrific
Congrats on your sobriety ! YOU ARE WORTH IT!!! You are beautiful and do not go anywhere where your uncle is Never see him again for the rest of your life!!!! U can’t blame yourself for not being “strong enough” There no such thing! He is evil monster Stay away from him and live your life!!!!! No need to see him ever!! Work at a job u love and take care of yourself!!!! Do not explain to anyone why u won’t go where uncle is!!!! It’s your truth!!!!!! You matter and your feelings matter!!!!
Please keep being strong and never give up, Karma will get your "uncle" (used lightly). Im sorry that you had to go through all of that and that you still have to see him from time to time.
You got this!!! I'm proud of you and how far you've come.
Thanks for sharing your story. I have trouble finding my chosen family. I always meet abusers and enablers. Now I met new people it does feels good to connect to them. But I'm still hyper vigilant and anxious. I'm working on that because it is negative energy I'm giving off to them. Which makes them anxious and hyper vigilant in my presence. It is a struggle
Dear God please help our children,protect them against these sick people.
No human deserves this pain.....im so hurt by this poor lady suffering so unspeakably
Kai, you are very resilient and a fierce warrior! I’m so glad you’ve asked for help to process the evil done to you. I pray you find the love and peace Jesus offers you as well! 💖🙏🕊
Devote the rest of your life to loving yourself, and finding true kindness at every opportunity. You deserve it. Just seek genuine love.
kai, you are worth all good in life. you are a strong person. take care.
Keep on going you are a beautiful and strong person! You will be the winner!
Amen sistah, DON'T LET THEM WIN!!! Y'all listen to this wisdom here! Peace
You are one of the bravest strongest women I have ever encountered. Keep telling your story because I know you are making a difference in other victims lives and your story is so inspiring. Don't ever let these monsters forget what they did to you and don't ever let them have the privilege of being a part of your life ❤
I am so sorry that this happened to you! I am so sorry my love
Oh hun, I'm so very sorry you experienced so much torture and abuse. You are a survivor and a warrior. You're travelling on the right path hun, just keep putting one foot in front of the other. I know I'm a stranger to you but I'm proud of you. Many Blessings from Australia.
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You really need to bring him to justice now he should not be walking free he is a danger to all children & needs putting behind bars for a very long time.
Omg hunny, I wish there was a way to just give you a hug and be a friend. You are so beautiful, strong, and amazing and I hope for a better life for you 😢❤
I am so sorry that you went thru all of those horrible things. My heart goes out to you.
WTF?! Why? Why would anyone do this to anyone ever? I can’t get my mind around this.
I am so sorry for you. I hope you find peace. 🙏. I hope you can find happy, thoughtful, joyful people to spend your life with.
I've heard a lot about a grandmother's generation doing this. It was just easier for a family to think you're a liar than think something like that is going on. I know a lot of negative things have been said about #metoo but I'm also grateful that we show people more support.
Abuse as a child leads to a horrible life cycle & I hope you get all the help and support you need. Just know you are a strong woman and I really hope life gets better for you.
Wow!! You have been through a lot haven't you? its a cruel ass world out there full of nut cases and yet you still standing. I hope and pray from this day on till the rest of your life you get the very best the world has to offer. stay strong my sister much love and respect.
i wish there was a law that allowed cruel and unusual punishment for these monsters. i wish they would all just be unalived.
You are beautiful and well spoken when speaking your truth. Thank you so much and I am so sorry that everyone failed you and hurt you in that way.
Kai, I love you as my sister. You are an incredible human with an incredibly strong story. My prayers for you and your health ❤️🙏
My heartbroke for her omg she is so amazing and strong
God bless this woman, this was one of the most depressing things i’ve seen
I really don’t understand why as an adult you have to go anywhere…. You do not need to be around him, ever!!!
I don't see how it would be too late to press charges against the "uncle".. there may be healing and strength in facing him in justice. I hope you find a healthy love relationship with yourself. #selflove #prayers4U❤
Pisses me off when family don’t believe them or let it go on 😠
Bless you. It’s a hard road you’ve had to travel & still traveling but you are proving that we can be better than that & don’t have to be the same lousy excuse for a human being.
This is almost hard to believe!
YOU ARE AMAZING AND CAUSE ME TO FEEL SHAME FOR WHINING ABOUT MY ABUSE. I WASN'T SEXUALLY ABUSED BY FAMILY, BUT IN OTHER WAYS, YES. I LOVE LISTENING TO YOU KEEP UP HELPING YOURSELF, THAT'S WHAT I'M TRYING TO DO. GOD BLESS YOU DEAR.
The amount of ppl that failed this poor girl just breaks my heart.
Proud of you. None of what happened to you was your fault. Yes you made it all on your own. Love and light
Girl you been through it! So proud of where you are in life now. Keep healing ❤️🩹
I’m so sorry you went through this. You’re so strong. You’re inspiring and I’m so glad you’re doing better.
Heartbreaking story.. please file charges now.. fight fight fight
You poor poor wee lamb god bless
Hi you are stronger than you know. I was also abused and I am getting through it slowly as well. With God in my life I have been able to go to therapy and deal with this. I pray you get saved and ask God if you’re real show me. ❤ Take care.
Such an incredible woman!
kai is such an amazing & well spoken woman. i don’t know what she does for a living, but she’d be a great counselor. maybe she is. i’ll pray for her
I honestly thinks she needs to focus on her own mental health rather than deal with helping others. Too many people with mental health problems seek out psychology as their profession in an effort to help themselves. It's a mentally draining job, and not the best for those healing themselves.
In someways, I actually do understand many of your feelings and thoughts on things. My story is different, but I feel I can relate to you in other ways. I’m 43, and even now I’m just realizing some of the health problems I have are because of my childhood and other traumatic events that happened to me. And when I realized these health problems are caused by that I feel so angry and hurt. I have severe Fibromyalgia, Severe Irritable Bowel Syndrome, Anxiety, Depression, Agoraphobia a form of, the list goes on…I sleep with the light on because I want to be able to see the attacker, I’m married and my husband knows I cannot sleep in the dark and he cannot sleep with the bedroom light on so we leave the kitchen light on and keep the bedroom door open to allow some light and when I get up to use the bathroom I’m not as scared. But if I go to bed early the bedroom light is on until he comes to sleep.
I’m sad that you went through so much abuse like all forms of it. And you know, we choose bad partners because we are used to the abuse and don’t realize what it abuse is until we get help and focus on ourselves more mentally.
I was divorced for many years before I dated and considered getting married again. I was trying to learn to love myself and see that I’m a good person that deserves good things. Of course, I also am realistic I’m overweight and disabled so I didn’t expect to marry a model. I just made sure when I saw any red flags in a man I just didn’t talk to them anymore. Basically, I’d talk to many guys but not get into a relationship unless I thought they were worth dating and not abusive.
And you said you didn’t want children because you didn’t want them to suffer like you did. That’s is also why I never had children and health wise I couldn’t have children either because they child could die or I’d die or both. So as you said the family has many children. So I just think with non toxic family and friends I can be like someone a young one could look up too or another adult they can come to for help. Anyways, keep working on you. You may feel broken inside or you may feel at times you don’t deserve good things in life, but that’s a lie that all abusers want you to believe. What you went through could tear you down forever or could show you how strong you are and you will know how to be compassionate towards others on a deeper level. You could really help others that have been through similar and maybe help others seek help so they don’t suffer as long. Don’t give up on yourself. ❤️
I felt scared for you as you told your story. They are not your relatives they are *DEVILS* I pray you will be in a loving & caring environment now
I grew up molested for years by my brother my dad knew and didn't do anything I had to run away
I'm so sorry all of this horror has happened to you. I pray that you find peace. God Bless you
Och dear young lady ♥ it bust my heart I had a tuff road myself . I hope you find strength.... God bless you
I am so sorry this happened to you. You are so strong and will have the life and peace you deserve.🙏
Thanks for having the courage to talk and share what you have been through. Its clear to see despite all the horrible things you have endured you are finding a path of healing. Strength and support to you Kai.
You are a brave, beautiful, and worthy human being. I hope with all my heart that you can live the rest of your life experiencing joy and peace as much as you possibly can. You more than deserve it.
I’m so sorry for what you experienced and proud of where you are today.
such a strong person! so proud of you for sharing your story! you are an inspiration💜💜💜
I just wanna give you a hug forever. you are one of the strongest people. your story is horrific and to be able to tell this story, you're amazing