10 DATING MISTAKES: How To Avoid These Top 10 Mistakes

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  • @DoseofD
    @DoseofD 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1866

    A lot of girls get so caught up in relationships that they forget themselves and it always always always ends badly. It's even worse when the guy isn't even willing to reciprocate that same energy.

    • @TatyCokley
      @TatyCokley  4 ปีที่แล้ว +132

      exactly!! so sad to see

    • @benjaminpalur7434
      @benjaminpalur7434 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      yeah its the same with my friend, her and the boy broke up but if he would ask her out again she would say yes

    • @lifestyledeb
      @lifestyledeb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Going through that really sucks I know it all too well

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      @anthonyjoshua5026 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @anthonyjoshua5026
      @anthonyjoshua5026 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lifestyledeb +2347026399847💯💯💯

  • @malaboooo
    @malaboooo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2949

    i don’t even have a boyfriend, or someone i’m talking too, i j love watching u 😭😭

  • @carolinaluvv914
    @carolinaluvv914 4 ปีที่แล้ว +889

    “If boundaries were not set, you cannot be upset” that part 👏🏻

    • @kevinfromheaven1874
      @kevinfromheaven1874 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      The way she just rhymes in EVERY video is just amazing lmao

  • @briapryor1709
    @briapryor1709 4 ปีที่แล้ว +948

    And this is why I’m staying single. I really can’t deal with all the things it takes to be in a relationship right now.

    • @TatyCokley
      @TatyCokley  4 ปีที่แล้ว +215

      and that's okay!!! it's great to also focus on yourself

    • @thatgurl__yme8427
      @thatgurl__yme8427 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same

    • @andreaciardo1182
      @andreaciardo1182 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hey Gary could you do a video . of why some girls are to needy in a relationship.

    • @andreaciardo1182
      @andreaciardo1182 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I meant Taty

    • @inalyzbaez1477
      @inalyzbaez1477 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same heree.

  • @briannau.9492
    @briannau.9492 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1111

    As a Christian I date intentionally , I date to marry not screw around with people and their heart and I will not move forward to date them if I see some toxic qualities while talking 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @FebruarysFinest22
      @FebruarysFinest22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      brianna u. Same 😭

    • @norapeace6526
      @norapeace6526 4 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      you go girl!!! You doing the right thing! TRUST ME! I'm talking from experience!!

    • @annaoops7017
      @annaoops7017 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      If you are dating for a marriage then Sis...If it goes wrong it's not the end of the world,not everyone has a satisfying and healthy relationship . Before you choose someone to date...ask yourself...are you ready for a relationship...mentally,physically or emotionally....If not then it's better if you just wait because love takes time and your boyfriend or girlfriend needs attention....are you you ready for spending so many hours and all of you with one person.
      Anyways just advice and my opinion . Love you sm Taty♥all the way from Africa ♥

    • @aamia3769
      @aamia3769 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Aileena Wuz Here lol, don't believe everyone is dating to find their true love. Some people are in a phase in their life where they are just having fun. I'm personally at that stage as a 19-year-old. If my soulmate or life partner comes now I'll settle down. But don't get in a relationship and think that's your husband. Sometimes you'll be disappointed.

    • @idek9600
      @idek9600 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I agree with her completely I’m sorry young teens aren’t dating to marry it’s just for experience and that’s okay

  • @orangeoranges6727
    @orangeoranges6727 3 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    just bookmarking this ish for myself, so don't mind me
    mistakes-
    1:14 pretending to be somebody you're not
    2:10 making them your whole life
    3:12 letting your needs become his needs
    4:46 talking to too many people at once
    5:42 not setting boundaries
    7:03 always being the chaser
    7:49 dating just because they're cute
    8:33 being in a relationship to feel whole
    9:16 always dating to marry (10:06!!!)
    10:29 not having either intimacy/passion/commitment
    11:26 settling for people
    12:02!!!! you're da queen :')
    thanks for this taty, really need to keep myself in check at times lmaoo

  • @AshantiRashad
    @AshantiRashad 4 ปีที่แล้ว +294

    I agree with your tips especially when girls drop everything for a guy and trying to change themselves instead of loving who they are .

  • @jujum6131
    @jujum6131 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1501

    *me* : man idk what to watch
    *taty* : posts
    *me* : YESSSSS QUEENNNN YESSS

    • @sydneyj5427
      @sydneyj5427 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Literally mee

    • @kalkidanalemu3003
      @kalkidanalemu3003 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      That's literally what happened to me... and I needed this video

    • @fadzi.charis
      @fadzi.charis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I GET SO EXCITED!!😂😂❤

    • @TatyCokley
      @TatyCokley  4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      LOVE YOU

    • @enchantedpurpp
      @enchantedpurpp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Baekhyun!

  • @angelashikova6572
    @angelashikova6572 4 ปีที่แล้ว +366

    her: "you are the top spot in ur life, you are the queen, you are the number one, REMEMBER THAT. DAMN!"
    me: yasss queen!!

  • @lyxx4176
    @lyxx4176 4 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    She’s just so wise😭😭

  • @danielleallen3294
    @danielleallen3294 4 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    “We are not going to be blinded by some muscles okay? Okay” 😂💕

  • @atenasupremacy
    @atenasupremacy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +384

    QUEEN!!! Your like my 'cool' big sister who gives the BEST advice!!

  • @laetitiakamao9495
    @laetitiakamao9495 4 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    I acted like I laughed cute and when I laughed my real laugh he loved it

    • @TatyCokley
      @TatyCokley  4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      yes baby be yourself!!

    • @mariafausti3128
      @mariafausti3128 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Love that 😂😂😂

    • @AL-vl5kf
      @AL-vl5kf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You’re pretty, be yourself ❤️

  • @ethiopiangurl248
    @ethiopiangurl248 4 ปีที่แล้ว +310

    Me: watching videos about dating and relationships
    Also me: never have been in a relationship or dated a guy in the last 19 years 🙄

    • @norapeace6526
      @norapeace6526 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      my first relationship was at 24. don't feel bad... you'll get there

    • @TatyCokley
      @TatyCokley  4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      you're gonna be SUPER PREPARED 😂😭

    • @ked1028
      @ked1028 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SAME!

    • @wissalmokhtari9304
      @wissalmokhtari9304 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lol girl you 19 years, i have 21 yo and still i don't have one hhhh

    • @wissalmokhtari9304
      @wissalmokhtari9304 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@norapeace6526 how was it ? Good or bad Especially you have never had an experience before

  • @legacythornton188
    @legacythornton188 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    “Let’s stop settling for people just to have someone” !!!

  • @maymunaaden3897
    @maymunaaden3897 4 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    THIS QUARANTINE HAS HURT ME AND MY MENTAL HEALTH IN ALOT OF WAYS BUT U NEVER FAIL TO BRING MY SPIRIT UP WHENEVER U POST LY LOTSSSS

    • @TatyCokley
      @TatyCokley  4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      LOVE U BABY YOU GOT THIS

    • @maymunaaden3897
      @maymunaaden3897 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@TatyCokley OML I ACC CANT BELIEVE U REPLIED, UR ONE OF THE ONLY TH-camRS THAT ACC BE DOING THAT OR THE FANS

  • @aka1104
    @aka1104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    “I love dem chicken nuggets”Taty 😂😂😂

  • @cee431
    @cee431 4 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    I’m in a happy 1 year relationship with my boyfriend so I really don’t need this but I’m watching this for entertainment bc it’s Taty 😭💕

  • @aperson3209
    @aperson3209 4 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    Who wouldn’t wanna be friends with her?

  • @rebonem
    @rebonem 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I swear I gained confidence because of Taty and I'm forever going to be grateful...made me realize that I'm a bomb ...with Love from South Africa 11:23pm

  • @maggiekeziah5095
    @maggiekeziah5095 4 ปีที่แล้ว +798

    WHO DISLIKED IMA COME TO UR HOUSE

  • @shaysplanet
    @shaysplanet 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    always follow your intuition. if your energy is desperate and not true happiness ditch it. the right person with the right energy will come to you

  • @kerranaranjo9694
    @kerranaranjo9694 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Also remember, you might have “the talk” and he might tell you that y’all are “exclusive” and in reality may be acting differently. Look out for those inconsistencies and trust your instinct!

  • @lola0202
    @lola0202 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I love you I’m actually tired of being single but all the boys I know are crusty musty and dusty! 🥺😭❤️ Thanks for the advice tho

  • @trynnady1628
    @trynnady1628 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    TATYYYY!!!! you’re a life saverrrr 😭 i’m tryna start a relationship (and yes i watched all the vids in order 😂) and i need to know what NOT to do and where people go wrong usually...you’re like my virtual therapy!!! LOVE YOUUUUUU 😭💕

    • @leak.9822
      @leak.9822 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      how’s it going?

  • @lucymurray8768
    @lucymurray8768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    We all need a Taty in our life

  • @shantoriawashington
    @shantoriawashington 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    after another failed talking stage I learned a lot lol not everything was his fault but we weren't on the same vibe and same energy.

  • @shanessamatendere5915
    @shanessamatendere5915 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Honestly Taty your like the big sister that you’ve all ways wanted even though I’m not in a relationship I still like to hear your advice as it is so key and helpful GO SIS✊🏾✨❤️

  • @tanya3819
    @tanya3819 4 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    I dont get why people date just to date and know they are going to breakup personally if you are not going to be committed then work on something else like get your money whilst you can

    • @hiiii2873
      @hiiii2873 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @T K yup..me as a capricorn people misjudge us for workaholics when really we just wanna have backup and feel safe and for that to happen you need money..people can give you butterflies and lie to you saying you're their only all day but at the end of the day whats your bank account lookin like??? Im trying to be independent nit bent in anyone and its just a wadte of time.

    • @annelieseadelina856
      @annelieseadelina856 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      YES

    • @TashaxMack
      @TashaxMack 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      from what i know about hearing other people, they like the experience of meeting people, making connections and having interactions. although i totally agree with you. if the end goal isn't commitment then ✌🏾

    • @ifeomaokeke450
      @ifeomaokeke450 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You date to gain new experiences, learn about yourself, and what you want from a relationship. Also dating is supposed to be fun! I think when you’re young it’s actually better not to date with the intention of marriage but that’s just me. That’s way too much pressure. Just go with the flow and whatever happens happens. I just think you need to communicate what you’re looking for in a relationship and listen to your partner when they say they’re not looking for something serious.

    • @bluebaby3074
      @bluebaby3074 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      FAXXXXX CHECK

  • @alexandriakennedy5502
    @alexandriakennedy5502 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    im here taty im hereeeeeee one of my friends said she hated you ..... she turned out to be super toxic and fake .... makes sense why she didnt like you xD i love yoooooooooooouuuuuuuuuu

    • @mariafausti3128
      @mariafausti3128 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Who would hate taty? She’s literally one of the most REAL people on TH-cam

    • @perfectlyanest
      @perfectlyanest 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@mariafausti3128
      that's why fake people hate her
      she exposes them and makes them feel ashamed and guilty of who they are (as they should)

  • @tigerlillysbookcorner4492
    @tigerlillysbookcorner4492 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Not even looking to date but still watching it because it’s taty and she’s speaking facts whilst her curls are popping

  • @olazurike
    @olazurike 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    not even dating anyone but using this for future reference! u look so good!!!!

    • @TatyCokley
      @TatyCokley  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you sis!!!!

  • @lacey2117
    @lacey2117 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    okay but lets just talk about how tf she is literally perfect cant even see any bad feature she stunning omg jel much

  • @cassandracano7675
    @cassandracano7675 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    hey taty i was wondering if you could upload an "everyday makeup" routine we can use for going out on a daily basis :) since i always love how your makeup looks!

    • @TatyCokley
      @TatyCokley  4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      yes love coming soon!

  • @aa-vo6tl
    @aa-vo6tl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    taty can u do a part 2 on how to glow up. it’s summer and i really wanna get a glow up n i watched ur first video about glowing up so many times but i feel like it would be more helpful if you post another one. i love youu girlll

  • @kyeshak2601
    @kyeshak2601 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    You are the big sister that EVERYONE needs 💜

  • @tarunika935
    @tarunika935 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i agree with #9 so much ! i was dating this guy a few months back, but i wasn't thinking about getting married to him - but, he was. he started planning ahead for the future like that really early into our relationship (one month in) and i told him i wanted to see how things would go between us before jumping into something so serious.
    well, he got really mad and hurt and we broke up. i was heartbroken for months because i really valued him as a person, and he started blaming me to our mutual friends, and i lost some of my bestfriends because of this too. they told me that you should always date to marry, and that what i did was awful and wrong.
    hearing taty talk about that made me feel so much better and like what my mindset is, is okay. thank you so much for your videos taty, they have always helped me through the past year

  • @fadzi.charis
    @fadzi.charis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    "Seven, se-, se-, seven" 😂😂❤ Taty likes doing funky movements with her numbers, lol

    • @TatyCokley
      @TatyCokley  4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      LMAOOO love doing the numbers

  • @orellatritman9988
    @orellatritman9988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You give me very much "big sister vibes"... Like this is shit I wish we talked. Love your energy, love your confidence, love that you motivate young queens to do and be better.

  • @janeibeneme7589
    @janeibeneme7589 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Don’t be blinded by biceps ladies ‼️ wise words from a queen! ❤️

  • @aamia3769
    @aamia3769 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great advice taty! I had to learn the hard way about ”The talking stage.” I talked to this guy for almost 6 or 7 months and I kept finding myself asking the dreadful question ”What are we?” and he kept saying ”I'm getting to know you”. I even turned down dates because I thought we were more. Terrible mistake and it only takes me one time to know...that was a terrible mistake. When I eventually get back into the dating world again I know better and I'll do better.

  • @tebellosekabate1813
    @tebellosekabate1813 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Notification Gang❤ Much love from South Africa🇿🇦😍

  • @catiagasparxx
    @catiagasparxx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    i missed seeing you on my youtube girl🥺

  • @jadamitchell1811
    @jadamitchell1811 4 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    I dropped everything for this 😭

  • @leannawiles4869
    @leannawiles4869 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I haven't been able to watch in a while, I've been busy but now I finally have time. So when she said "we will give you a couple seconds." I instantly clicked out of full screen to make sure I was still subscribed & I still have the post notifications on. I love you so much & you're extremely gorgeous. ❤️

  • @trinityrath7308
    @trinityrath7308 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you snapped !! It’s like you’re in my brainnnn !

  • @alicee_2345
    @alicee_2345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is a gift for TH-cam. Period.

  • @hananraage2944
    @hananraage2944 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The baddest is back ily u girl 🥰💯😂

  • @ruby.b6052
    @ruby.b6052 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I was bout to go to sleep then a saw taty’s video and I was like : sleep can wait😂💗

  • @meravibezz5316
    @meravibezz5316 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Nobody:
    Omgggh SHE UPLOADED A NEW VIDEO💙💙😩🥳🥳

  • @arit6086
    @arit6086 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I LOVE WHAT YOU SAID ABOUT MARRIAGE!! 👏👏 I grew up in a really religious and conservative area where I saw most guys and girls get married at a young age (19-22 years old) and I get that some do genuinely want to do that but for me I've always preferred to take it slow before getting married. I think it's a big misconception that you can't be serious about someone or be loyal and committed to someone unless you're married to that person. Because let's be real, married people can cheat or be unfaithful to you and having a ring or the title as someone's wife wouldn't make me feel like my relationship is more meaningful or that my partner is more loyal to me.

    • @TatyCokley
      @TatyCokley  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yes!! don't let other peoples standard be YOUR standard

  • @AlanaJ
    @AlanaJ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You guys should be GROWING TOGETHER!!! Yes thank you for saying this love because oh my goddess it needs to be said forever and forever. If one is not growing and the other is, you will be left and that’s that 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @debbistover8667
    @debbistover8667 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I started watching her more a few months ago and I started binge watching thw ones ive never seen. Her videos are just so good and so inspirational that I had to tell my best friend and my best friend LOVES her too .

  • @idek9600
    @idek9600 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    taty thank you so much you’ve honestly changed my perspective on myself so much, I’m so much more happy and confident within myself ur au queen xxx

  • @zanayahrobinson3765
    @zanayahrobinson3765 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You give the best advice ever. Can't wait to see what other advice you give

  • @shreksspawn2359
    @shreksspawn2359 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I know I'm usually late, but this channel has become a guide in my life to help me make wise decisions. I love that. ❤

  • @jadamitchell1811
    @jadamitchell1811 4 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    i didn’t know i could click that fast 😂

  • @zuneirahfq
    @zuneirahfq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I literally needed thissss

  • @veressia4000
    @veressia4000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Im serious i was looking up how to keep him threw text. AND YOU POSTED LIKE WTF! But thank u i needed this.

  • @towandaatasteoffashion
    @towandaatasteoffashion 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You always have the best advice!💖 You look Beautiful as Always 😍

  • @lanzmacdonald
    @lanzmacdonald 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You inspire me every time you post! Your content is what inspired me to start my own channel. THANK YOU ❤️❤️

    • @TatyCokley
      @TatyCokley  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      so proud of you ❤️❤️❤️

    • @lanzmacdonald
      @lanzmacdonald 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@anishajohal8979 I appreciate you so much!! ❤️

    • @mariafausti3128
      @mariafausti3128 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I checked out your video and they are really good! I’ll subscribe :)

    • @lanzmacdonald
      @lanzmacdonald 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mariafausti3128 wow thank you so much! I appreciate your support :) ❤️❤️

  • @potatosnacc6165
    @potatosnacc6165 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Honestly when I’m out of the relationship it’s easy for me to just let it go and know that there’s someone better and more suitable with me but when I’m in the relationship all I could think of is “oh no one is gonna love me as much as him” and now that I look back that’s NOT TRUE and low key toxic 😤overall I’m proud and glad I’m out of it

  • @celenasimmons
    @celenasimmons 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    "We cannot be blinded by some muscles" 😂 *immediately thinks of my obsession with Michael B Jordan* 💪🤤😂👀 she's speaking facts thooo 🙌

  • @menekse1759
    @menekse1759 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1. Pretending to be somebody that you’re not.
    2. Making the other person their end-all-be-all
    3. Letting go of your wants and needs
    4. Talking to too many people at once.
    5. You should set boundaries
    6. You should never always be the cat in the “cat and mouse” game
    7. The looks aren’t gonna last.
    8. If you’re insecure, focus on yourself first.
    9. You do NOT have to date to marry
    10. Intimacy, passion and commitment are three necessary things in a relationship.
    (Sorry for any grammar mistakes)

  • @aminamihai4377
    @aminamihai4377 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Always with inspirational advice ❤️and she’s always glowing

  • @meeezy
    @meeezy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i can relate to # 5 & it was definitely a lesson. im focusing on myself now. it’s so important to love yourself first before you can love/be there for someone. taty the best friend i need in my life🤍

  • @martapliszkaa
    @martapliszkaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    we need a make up tutorial cause sis is looking STUNNING!

  • @319.hisglory
    @319.hisglory 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I needed this reminder, so tired of running from myself and the love I can pour into me. Loving myself is my top priority, thank you Taty ❤️

  • @aightsis5825
    @aightsis5825 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    On #9 I see u on that. Im 14 and i've made lots of bad friends that I eventually dropped. I never regreted becoming friends with them tho in the first place bc they taught me a lesson of how a friendship shouldnt be, and now i can recognize toxic traits in future relationships. Im sure i'll meet more toxic ppl but as soon as i know they bums I can walk away and know now to mess wit ppl like them in the future. Idk if this makes any sense lol

  • @rachpiggott2091
    @rachpiggott2091 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She is like the big sister that I never had and is so helpful with everything,
    Sometimes I also find that some boys can be a bit to clingy in relationships, Its like "boy I need my own time and space to"

  • @kaylamichelle2313
    @kaylamichelle2313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Omg been waiting for sis to post again 😍❤️

  • @sashakittens9742
    @sashakittens9742 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You be the reason why I got my confidence and set my standards up so high and I have gotten so much happier by myself💜

  • @kaylagarcia8664
    @kaylagarcia8664 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your youtube has grown so much, im so proud of you!! ily Taty 💞

  • @annaoops7017
    @annaoops7017 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If you are dating for marriage then Sis...If it goes wrong it's not the end of the world not everyone has a satisfying and healthy relationship. Before you choose someone to date,ask yourself are you ready for a relationship....mentally,physically or emotionally,if not then it's better if you just wait because love takes time and your boyfriend or girlfriend needs attention...are you ready to spend so many hours and all of you with one person ?
    Anyways just my advice and opinion,love you sm Taty♥all the way from Africa♥

  • @daminiiex7387
    @daminiiex7387 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I felt like you knew my business! 😭so accurate

  • @kamiiiiia
    @kamiiiiia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There are 5 people that constantly dislike the video 🤦🏽‍♀️ I don’t know what they onnnnn because Taty is the realest ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @afiab32
    @afiab32 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    When I tell you I clicked...
    I CLICKED

  • @alanna4148
    @alanna4148 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I relate so much to #2. My ex became my world. I lost myself in the process. I loved him more than i did my own family and myself. that's why when he left me after 3 years together, I almost took my life. I didn't see purpose in my life without him. It was a very scary depression. But I'm grateful to have survived and become so much stronger because of it and most importantly LEARN from the experience and GROW from it.

  • @queenkiara9389
    @queenkiara9389 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I’ve learned my lesson girl thanks I really needed that 💜

  • @ryleerose1941
    @ryleerose1941 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how positive and happy she is in all of her videos! And she is awesome with all the advice she gives! Tysm Taty!

  • @lalalalaaAa123
    @lalalalaaAa123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    I’m 25 and Christian, I only date for marriage period 😂

  • @prettybxx
    @prettybxx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg her videos always help I really needed number 8. 💀💀💕💕💕💔😭

  • @antonellaisaia2098
    @antonellaisaia2098 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    HOW DID YOU KNOW I NEEDED THIS????
    ilysm 🇦🇷🇦🇷💖💖💖💖

  • @maggieplayz849
    @maggieplayz849 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I LOVE UR HAIR ITS SO GORGEOUS!

  • @joysworld3004
    @joysworld3004 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    GILR I NEEDED THIS ❤️🥺.

  • @nekon1sh492
    @nekon1sh492 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg the 9th oneee
    I fell in love with this one guy and we never had any intentions to eventually become anything. We just hung out a lot, vibed, and let our connection thrive. Eventually life drove us apart, but we tried to date again. It didn’t feel the same and I didn’t know why. But probably because when we rekindled things we put all this pressure to live up to what we had, and we’re forcing ourselves to constantly evolve....
    Sorry I know this just a random rant but your vids help me thanxxxxx

  • @poletteherrera9483
    @poletteherrera9483 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Omg you're literally the best

  • @hallisonpal
    @hallisonpal 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The "Get comfortable with yourself line" hit me out of the blue. I needed to hear that.

  • @hattiebennett9503
    @hattiebennett9503 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love yall taty I love you how tos so much I love supporting inspirational women like you so much stay safe girl ❤️❤️

  • @tayr4127
    @tayr4127 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    my biggest fear in a relationship is for my kindness and compassion to be taken for granted or even used as a weakness. idek how to explain it but like...yeah idk. this video is gonna help me in the future fr.

  • @yoongilover2232
    @yoongilover2232 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I missed you sooo much 🥺🥺🥺 I just realized I was watching with my other account 😂🤦‍♀️

  • @ire_oluwa
    @ire_oluwa 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really felt u on the what are we situation...I always talk bout it a few weeks into talking COs I hate wasting my time n energy...I asked n he said I don’t want anything serious...’we vibin’...I was like boy no n I caught him off. The irony was he started dating another girl a few days later...glad I really didn’t waste my time...(btw ur honestly like the big sis everyone needs girl n ur so beautiful)!

  • @nyssaaa7155
    @nyssaaa7155 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    She's the older sister I never had 😫❤

  • @greggycharles376
    @greggycharles376 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    needed to hear this!

  • @josiedinonsie769
    @josiedinonsie769 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You’re such a queeeen and always seem to post a video at the right time for meee❤️

  • @yvonnehart335
    @yvonnehart335 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Girl where have you been all my love life!! I’m so happy I’ve found you, you are so real and I’m so here for it!! 💯💯

  • @uchechiaustin
    @uchechiaustin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The Queen is back y’all 🥰

  • @eve4956
    @eve4956 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Heyyy Taty! I love your videos, I just started watching them and imma subscribe!😁

  • @zoebillion3519
    @zoebillion3519 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Just seeing your face I feel alive 😭😭🤸‍♀️🤸‍♀️

  • @daisybutterfield7824
    @daisybutterfield7824 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    so i have wavy hair (2c) and I always hated it sooo much because everyone else had straight hair and wanted to look like all my friends who had perfect straight hair. Thanks to your videos I realized that my hair is beautiful because It is my hair and its unique and beautiful. I've heard people say my natural hair is pretty but you're the first one that made me realize that i don't have to look like anyone else to be pretty. Thank you taty

    • @TatyCokley
      @TatyCokley  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      you are PERFECT the way you are ❤️