10 SIGNS HE'S NOT THAT INTO YOU:

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  • Wassup y'all! Today we are talking about the 10 signs that he is not that into you. Hopefully this helps. Love you all!
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  • @ferdoosbaghbanian1728
    @ferdoosbaghbanian1728 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8882

    When she's the older sister we didn't know we needed

    • @Gabi-tp7fz
      @Gabi-tp7fz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      When ur the repetitive comment nobody needed smh

    • @ncncnc4725
      @ncncnc4725 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Gabiii stop being so fcking rude

    • @silverchelsea3433
      @silverchelsea3433 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Gabiii *Reverse card*

    • @shutupanddance3769
      @shutupanddance3769 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      damn yeah

    • @tireddaily
      @tireddaily 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Alisa it’s harsh but true, this comment has been used on like 4 other videos of hers.

  • @sophiawang3798
    @sophiawang3798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12675

    honey if you clicked on the title
    lets be honest
    you already know he's not that into you

    • @Sean-xg4hf
      @Sean-xg4hf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +743

      I'm insecure about everything😢

    • @r.i.3073
      @r.i.3073 4 ปีที่แล้ว +395

      That part !!! But some people self-sabotage

    • @mccndcll2847
      @mccndcll2847 4 ปีที่แล้ว +270

      Or for future references

    • @kamyiah
      @kamyiah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +135

      nah i just wanna see what that’s like neva happens lmao

    • @staliapoulard3516
      @staliapoulard3516 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Sophia Wang this hit hard 😕🥺

  • @akanksham9076
    @akanksham9076 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1808

    My Mom told me that if a man loves you, you will never be confused about your or his feelings. A man who loves would clearly show it by his behaviour. There's no room for confusion. It's a life lesson sister. Remember that. Love never confuses.

    • @ameliajohn19
      @ameliajohn19 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi friend, do you really need help in recovering your relationship back to you??????

    • @ameliajohn19
      @ameliajohn19 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      There is someone that can help you.

    • @ameliajohn19
      @ameliajohn19 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      His name:babe Eseohe

    • @ameliajohn19
      @ameliajohn19 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He helped me recover my relationship back to me.
      He can definitely help you also ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @ameliajohn19
      @ameliajohn19 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      WhatsApp him now for help.........

  • @loujeni1771
    @loujeni1771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2461

    imma try and save y’all some time haha:
    1. doesn’t chase you
    2. shallow conversations (not just wyd?)
    3. his people don’t know bout u
    4. acts different in person vs text
    5. just flirting (no substance to convos)
    6. blowing hot and cold
    7. talking about other girls
    8. y’all only chill at his house
    9. not giving undivided attention (on phone when y’all together)
    10. he doesn’t remember the little things about you
    if he is doing all these then yeah he may not like y’all but i SWEAR there is someone who will and will treat u well, u just need to have the patience before you guys meet 🤍

    • @MISS_SHERRY
      @MISS_SHERRY 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Ty

    • @aurielwasson7947
      @aurielwasson7947 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      This earth need people like you

    • @rosexx241
      @rosexx241 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It matches everything he did, I just don't see the point. He knew he wasn't getting sex from me but still put up a facade while his actions were 1-10. This went on for a year with him not getting shit from me so why didn't his ass give it up 😂

    • @kerryfitzsimmons6633
      @kerryfitzsimmons6633 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      My boyfriend is always on the phone hes around me... 😭

    • @manny1296
      @manny1296 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rosexx241 lmao

  • @picklewater2315
    @picklewater2315 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2678

    Who’s watching just for taty and ain’t even talking to anyone

    • @lisasyadom22
      @lisasyadom22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Pickle Tickle AHAHAHAHAHAHA 😅

    • @picklewater2315
      @picklewater2315 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      BTS TAETAEV are you an army

    • @Aspen_Gray
      @Aspen_Gray 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      💜💜💜💜💜💜💜YES Who is your favorite?

    • @picklewater2315
      @picklewater2315 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      MaRRsh Mylone jimin, what about you 💜💜

    • @Aspen_Gray
      @Aspen_Gray 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Pickle Tickle Kim taehyung 💜🤍💜

  • @destinydeshae6524
    @destinydeshae6524 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1963

    That one dislike is from the person who realized their crush isn’t into them .💯

    • @gen.kivie16
      @gen.kivie16 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @irisnation8466
      @irisnation8466 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      We all know that mines just be flirting and all smh

    • @destinydeshae6524
      @destinydeshae6524 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      iris's world Right I can’t stand boys that do that🙄

    • @aiyananesbitt7423
      @aiyananesbitt7423 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Cung Te Zahau ya mean 108

    • @kremfrog
      @kremfrog 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      130 people*

  • @epichighslowsofhighschoolf3074
    @epichighslowsofhighschoolf3074 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1637

    #6 has to be the most underrated out of all these. Dudes be flirting, having a good conversation and then next day have you feeling like you dont even matter. They just bored and need someone to talk to.

    • @sani5201
      @sani5201 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'd only do that if you're acting weird

    • @epichighslowsofhighschoolf3074
      @epichighslowsofhighschoolf3074 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@sani5201 explain more?

    • @sani5201
      @sani5201 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@epichighslowsofhighschoolf3074 I don't see the conversations I have with girls as "flirty" then when they start repeatedly asking me out, pressuring me even after I tell them I don't want a relationship(also I have a hard time saying no lol)

    • @epichighslowsofhighschoolf3074
      @epichighslowsofhighschoolf3074 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      @@sani5201 ok? Treating someone like they dont matter the next day isnt cool. And my comment was talking about guys who actaully DO flirt.

    • @sani5201
      @sani5201 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@epichighslowsofhighschoolf3074 ik what your comment what was talking I was saying sometimes we don't see it as flirting

  • @indeednazmi804
    @indeednazmi804 3 ปีที่แล้ว +497

    You are breaking and fixing my heart both at the same time.

    • @frankiestarot4562
      @frankiestarot4562 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whoever you want to manifest within two-day ♥️♥️♥️

    • @frankiestarot4562
      @frankiestarot4562 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He was the person who helped me manifest my ex back to me two days ago with out delay 💯💯

    • @frankiestarot4562
      @frankiestarot4562 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What"sapp him

    • @frankiestarot4562
      @frankiestarot4562 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      __+2::3::4::91::32::41::08::39..

    • @sc4raz749
      @sc4raz749 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nah babes she ain’t the one breaking ya heart is the lil mouse u talking to and I know it’s been a year but I’m just saying 😭

  • @danielleallen3294
    @danielleallen3294 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1579

    “Bread crumb you a little bit... but you never gon get the whole loaf” Taty stay with the dope quotes 😭💞

    • @latime9436
      @latime9436 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ongggg i love her the big sis ive needed

    • @V.I.V.O
      @V.I.V.O 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Danielle Allen hello

    • @ya_fav_adri15
      @ya_fav_adri15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Factssss

    • @Mystery9870
      @Mystery9870 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      W-we just wanted some bread...

    • @ezinneclare1234
      @ezinneclare1234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Deeepppp😂😂

  • @poppinsubliminals6426
    @poppinsubliminals6426 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1465

    girl this was perfect timing 😩😂😂

    • @trinitycha3333
      @trinitycha3333 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      why is it always perfect timing when she posts honestlyyyy

    • @evadis851
      @evadis851 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      poppin subliminals sameeeee i was snapping my bestie and i jumped when i got the notifaction

    • @youngnaija3x
      @youngnaija3x 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Honestly LMAOO

    • @zeeo3147
      @zeeo3147 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ikrr

    • @mryamkay5805
      @mryamkay5805 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      FR i needed this bro

  • @lollipopscarly3985
    @lollipopscarly3985 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2571

    sign 1: 1:32
    sign 2: 2:22
    sign 3: 3:03
    sign 4: 3:58
    sign 5: 5:17
    sign 6: 5:58
    sign 7: 6:51
    sign 8: 7:46
    sign 9: 8:47
    sign 10: 9:54
    this probably wasn’t necessarily but oh well😙

    • @jade7031
      @jade7031 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Thanks!!🥳

    • @WintaMussie
      @WintaMussie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Thank yuu b

    • @lanipooh2622
      @lanipooh2622 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Thank Uuuu G 😧🔥💞

    • @simransanger7736
      @simransanger7736 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I see your extremely bored 🤣🤣

    • @lanipooh2622
      @lanipooh2622 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Simran Sanger. Nah, That anit the point Lol. I don’t wanna hear the explanations just the sign. 💀😂💀😂😂😂😂

  • @devilishcreature3853
    @devilishcreature3853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +204

    If he starts the conversation and try’s to keep it going, even if he doesn’t answer quickly, he likes you.

    • @ughcati9398
      @ughcati9398 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      BROOOO

    • @Star-en2yn
      @Star-en2yn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I start the conversation but our longest conversation in text was 2 hours!

    • @ionathompson4725
      @ionathompson4725 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      WAIT A DAMN MINUTE

    • @cindyc3316
      @cindyc3316 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Explain this because I text and he texts me back like hours.

    • @halynia8646
      @halynia8646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Star-en2yn THAT’S LONG

  • @suziewithaz15thankyouforyo34
    @suziewithaz15thankyouforyo34 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2289

    me watching this vid: *realizing he dont like me*
    *sees the next vid saying: how to make him/her fall for you!!!
    me: *clicks quickly*

  • @elham9574
    @elham9574 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1467

    I swear everyone’s here saying oh “ he gotta be texting you” while I’m here sitting 👁👄👁 my crush blocked me

    • @natayeet3216
      @natayeet3216 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      OOF

    • @bitefetish7467
      @bitefetish7467 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Well he doesnt deserve u
      Trust me you can find somebody that will love u no matter what unlike that idiot

    • @lwandiswamkhize3084
      @lwandiswamkhize3084 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Ur local grandm a 😹😹😹😭

    • @Ashley-re9dd
      @Ashley-re9dd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      same happened to me 👁‍🗨👄👁‍🗨

    • @elham9574
      @elham9574 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      •Ash•Slays• me and u sis 👁👄👁

  • @renatahrickova3521
    @renatahrickova3521 4 ปีที่แล้ว +272

    Okay shut up everyone for a sec. And just focus on her face and voice😍😍😍

  • @aprilseubold2867
    @aprilseubold2867 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    I love how she is just straight up,"HE IS NOT INTO YOU HONEY!!!!"

  • @emily_walker6143
    @emily_walker6143 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1447

    Signs he's not into you:
    1. Your doing the chasing and not him (texting first), and he can go days without texting u
    2. Shallow conversations, boring conversations
    3. If his ppl don't know about u then he's not into u (his friends don't tease him abt you)
    4. If he is different during text and real life (in person), not excited to see u in person, (flirt with text but not in person)
    5. Conversations are flirt, flirt, flirt or sexually based if they are like that all the time he's not into u
    6. Hot & cold, one day flirty then the next day he's ghosting u, he just want u around (keep u around)
    7. Talking about other women (trying to get u to compete against other women to be top spot)
    8. If u only chill in his house, couch, or bed (not going on dates, FREE PICNICS, or nothing to make u feel special)
    9. Not giving u his undivided attention (unless you have been together for years) but if not,,,,, and he is not giving u attention and instead on his phone the whole time
    10. If he does not remember little things about u
    Bonus- if u are watching this video he is probably not into or why would u click on this video (unless u love her)
    Your welcome!!❤ love u taty!❤
    Thank you guys soooo much for all of the likes!!!!!❤

    • @Sakeenawatley231
      @Sakeenawatley231 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Damns I got 6 😭😭😭💔

    • @emily_walker6143
      @emily_walker6143 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Sakeenawatley231 😭😭

    • @carmzcc871
      @carmzcc871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I havent got any but really aprishate the advise💖

    • @babylove5170
      @babylove5170 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Damn all of them😫😭

    • @AaA-yy4wv
      @AaA-yy4wv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yo tha means he’s into me? Cuz he does the chasing his friends no about me our conversations aren’t dry he’s the same in person an he doesn’t make everything sexual and always gives me attention so…

  • @mariamsn5512
    @mariamsn5512 4 ปีที่แล้ว +395

    its like shes talkin bout my ex..

  • @ludorasekedi1854
    @ludorasekedi1854 4 ปีที่แล้ว +424

    Taty Cokley is such a natural beauty and she is such a good role model to young people 💖💖💖💖

    • @justynesantos2241
      @justynesantos2241 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She like my big sis😊💗

    • @neyd7056
      @neyd7056 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Justyne Santos ikrrr she’s amazing 💕

  • @marissasiegel2022
    @marissasiegel2022 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    "You can't compete where you don't compare"

    • @selrox879
      @selrox879 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Auch lmao

  • @ChaniceRich
    @ChaniceRich 4 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    The point about his friends knowing you is facts!!! i talked about that in my video

    • @anomissavage8014
      @anomissavage8014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      hey girly, i also made avideo myself! would love it if you watch mine

  • @maijakimbley6794
    @maijakimbley6794 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1307

    I know my crush does not like me he said that, he does not like.

    • @iluv2pac031
      @iluv2pac031 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      sorry buh😂😂😂

    • @keneshamarshall3062
      @keneshamarshall3062 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      Oh no.. Just move on he aint the only fish in the sea

    • @kimia_5463
      @kimia_5463 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      That's good, now you can concentrate on getting over him and bettering yourself instead of running after him like a fool

    • @rinaj1604
      @rinaj1604 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      its okay it only happens to the best of us just keep your head up youll find someone better

    • @everaldalopez7974
      @everaldalopez7974 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Move on

  • @bryannagrace519
    @bryannagrace519 4 ปีที่แล้ว +448

    already knew he wasn’t into me when he didn’t put in effort to text me first lol

    • @mariela5941
      @mariela5941 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bryanna Grace same girly same

    • @mariela5941
      @mariela5941 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bryanna Grace same girly same

    • @JJ-fo5jx
      @JJ-fo5jx 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bryanna Grace same tho

    • @abbeyemerson8956
      @abbeyemerson8956 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sadly, Same. I even told the guy I liked him then later we FaceTime. Then texted a little bit. After that he’s been ignoring me since. I even invited him to my sweet 16. Kinda regret it. Not sure how to tell him I don’t want him coming-

  • @abigailclarke6811
    @abigailclarke6811 4 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    Sigh I just started doubting my whole relationship now ....

  • @lily_721
    @lily_721 4 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    "Hes hearing you but hes not listening" "a man who cares will listen"

    • @makennamorrow8072
      @makennamorrow8072 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      My crush listens

    • @exclusivelytay4114
      @exclusivelytay4114 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/UU1q-IXTADg/w-d-xo.html How to know if he likes you 💕🦋 check my video out

    • @darnyoumadedropmycroissant7418
      @darnyoumadedropmycroissant7418 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bruh if I was a boy I would’ve been broken up with. I listen but I have a very bad memory. Currently failing History rn

    • @brookep1715
      @brookep1715 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@makennamorrow8072 lucky

  • @cheesecake8094
    @cheesecake8094 4 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    Those dislikes are people in their feels about the truth. *sips tea*

    • @sarasike8183
      @sarasike8183 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ugh fr and this girl giving me high hopes for a second he doesn’t do any of these and he always says that I mean a lot to him and that he’s glad I’m here and that he wants to hug me ughh 😔 that boy confuses me

  • @milkxtea4111
    @milkxtea4111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +297

    Tayy is and always will be the best person to go too. Her future kids should feel so happy about her parents 🙂

    • @TatyCokley
      @TatyCokley  4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      aw this was so sweet!

    • @milkxtea4111
      @milkxtea4111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Taty Cokley thank you for replying I love youu 🥰

  • @sushihonter1708
    @sushihonter1708 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love how brutally honest she is

  • @dayanacarbajal2131
    @dayanacarbajal2131 4 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    My boyfriend who had been a big part of my life for almost 4 years broke up with me a few days ago and I swear your videos are the only thing that makes me feel better ❤️ Thank you for giving me confidence and making me realize my worth! Slowly I’m understanding that this is a blessing in disguise

    • @narwhaltulip9597
      @narwhaltulip9597 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      :( come through sis, you don't need that man 💕

    • @Kaprice
      @Kaprice 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Girl how have you been during this time ?

    • @dayanacarbajal2131
      @dayanacarbajal2131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Kaprice hey girly thanks for checking up! 💓 lots has happened in 7 months but i can definitely say it has gotten better. been focusing on myself & lots of self-love! i realize now i was in love with an image i created of him- but now that i’ve fallen out of love i can see who he actually is which made moving on easier. still have hard + lonely days where i reminisce on our good memories but i know better than to go back and settle 🤍 if you’re going through it right now, trust me it gets better! it may be frustrating to hear cause it’s so cliche but it’s true.

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      @Elonmusk_Reeves ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @raniaa4658
    @raniaa4658 4 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    that "EWWW" took me out lmaooo honestly though, they just aint it.

  • @hyukangelicc3507
    @hyukangelicc3507 4 ปีที่แล้ว +674

    If he doesn’t text u first he’s not into u

    • @zoeschroeder8349
      @zoeschroeder8349 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      so if he does he is?? lol

    • @hyukangelicc3507
      @hyukangelicc3507 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Zoe Schroeder probably but like just know that if he doesn’t text u first then he’s probably not interested in you but that’s my opinion

    • @evelynmartinez464
      @evelynmartinez464 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Girl what if he's nervous like doesn't know if they should make the first move. 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @kaylajayneyoung4809
      @kaylajayneyoung4809 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      My ex always texted me first.

    • @Arya-ki5sc
      @Arya-ki5sc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      lilia aesthetics ;-;,

  • @tovoniyayazzy
    @tovoniyayazzy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thanks for this video! I met a guy that I was attracted to and I liked that he was very affectionate with me during sex but I wasn't getting the attention I wanted. I thought I was the one being clingy or overthinking it. I usually don't chase either but I attempted it and I felt like he wasn't responding with any effort. He ignored me and I just texted him "so ignoring me doesn't make me feel good. I'm just going to make things easier and wish you the best. " He responded and tried to apologize, barely and blamed his friend's recent arrival as an excuse to why he ignored me the entire day (8hours +) . It took everything in me to not respond. I just felt no effort or real affection away from his bed. Anyway, I was sad and questioned my last text to him but after watching this video it is clear to me. After watching this video it was like you shook me out of my misery. Thank you 😊

  • @jcnxlii
    @jcnxlii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +225

    damn taty whenever i need it you're like "here you go babygirl"

    • @anomissavage8014
      @anomissavage8014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hey girly! i just posted a girl talk video grwm myself. Would love it ifu go and give it a shot!

  • @ac3580
    @ac3580 4 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    *clicks on video*
    Me: Omg why is she so prettyyy

  • @nancydance1131
    @nancydance1131 4 ปีที่แล้ว +383

    Who else learned this the hard way🤣

    • @zeeo3147
      @zeeo3147 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sigh meeee😂

    • @ayemasiqwepu8692
      @ayemasiqwepu8692 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Nancy Dance please don't trigger me😂

    • @melissajohnson7252
      @melissajohnson7252 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️

    • @ire_oluwa
      @ire_oluwa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      cosmogyral indeed 😭

    • @mrealpretty
      @mrealpretty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me

  • @donthateonrosey4200
    @donthateonrosey4200 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Who else doesn’t ever need advice but watches her vids because she’s a great speaker and just in joy her videos

  • @bitchno8748
    @bitchno8748 4 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    I needed this video because I’m talking to somebody and I don’t know how he feels about me 😭

    • @madelynlewis8739
      @madelynlewis8739 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      gobblegoobleondadick Same 🥺

    • @bestfriend7778
      @bestfriend7778 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      gobblegoobleondadick yes girl same

    • @TatyCokley
      @TatyCokley  4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      i hope this helped boo!

    • @jobrmh9409
      @jobrmh9409 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sameee sis

    • @Bthe1only
      @Bthe1only 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You should just ask

  • @sashamatisse2889
    @sashamatisse2889 4 ปีที่แล้ว +272

    At this point, I'm forever single 😂

    • @jennifergasparini7187
      @jennifergasparini7187 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Army

    • @thelmamarie4304
      @thelmamarie4304 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @sashamatisse2889
      @sashamatisse2889 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jennifergasparini7187 hell yeah!! 😂

    • @nasrasyt
      @nasrasyt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Y’all don’t say dat . Ur true love out dere somewhere 😉

    • @prettyluh._hills5804
      @prettyluh._hills5804 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nasra Abdi he need or she need to hurry up cs i need love im tired of being loney 🥺💔

  • @kimandatwisted
    @kimandatwisted 4 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    Why did this come just the right moment 😭😭❤

    • @bliss7301
      @bliss7301 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Kimanda Davis - because everything happens for a reason 😇

    • @blayqueen2479
      @blayqueen2479 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

  • @sparespare6601
    @sparespare6601 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow. He did every one of these. ✨Dumped him✨

  • @linneaorourke5970
    @linneaorourke5970 4 ปีที่แล้ว +261

    When a guys words does not match his actions LEAVE, a guy Can paint a picture of what y’all could be but doesn’t make the effort, if he is sending a gm text and good night text that means nothing other then giving u a sense of reassurance this tells u how much he’s not scared of u to leave and how much power he has over u.......

  • @myasideology
    @myasideology 4 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    Queen , I've been stressing about this for a year and a few months I feel like he's leading me on, but I swear it's confusing . He keeps giving mixed signals, so this video will help me . Thank you sis💎💎💎💙

    • @LuvKitKatt
      @LuvKitKatt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Let him go. Always remember Men are ALWAYS DECISIVE

    • @akua3177
      @akua3177 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kì Glìž what does that mean exactly?

    • @xzenkaii
      @xzenkaii 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LuvKitKatt cap

    • @briannataylor2627
      @briannataylor2627 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      omg same

  • @stephanylagunas-nava173
    @stephanylagunas-nava173 4 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    that one moment when youre ina whole relationship that is healthy but you still watch these typa videos because its taty😹

  • @cutenanaxx
    @cutenanaxx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Girl I just saw this vid and ur vibe is EVERYTHING!!! Wish I had this type of mindset 😍

  • @k.f4313
    @k.f4313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    She looks SOOOOOOOO PRETTY with her natural hair omg 🥺🥺❤️❤️

  • @to0effincrazii
    @to0effincrazii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I always say ... if you ever even wonder if he’s really into you , most likely he isn’t. A man that is into you will never leave you wondering ...

  • @hannahball2427
    @hannahball2427 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    6. "leavin you a little train of snacks" I am dying, too true and hilarious thank you Taty

  • @emilypreslar9504
    @emilypreslar9504 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Who else just made a checkmark in their head to all of these lmaoo but it's ok we got options ;) love you taty

  • @ericamonet29
    @ericamonet29 4 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    Me realizing I got played last year and was lookin like boo boo the fool

    • @melody648
      @melody648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      No worries he lost a daimond 👉❤️ inshallah you will meet a nice guy who deserve you 😌 trust Allah have a faith 😊

  • @Gatito-2757
    @Gatito-2757 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    “I said what I said” energy all 2020 💯 also I love your natural hair it’s so beautiful

  • @itszahraahmed
    @itszahraahmed 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    okay but i love her energy and vibez ☺️✨

  • @simisolawale-sulaiman969
    @simisolawale-sulaiman969 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    THE BIG SISTER I NEVER ASKED FOR BUT SAVES MY LIFE💕💕💕

  • @jsjy2537
    @jsjy2537 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    I don't need this video i already know he doesn't like me😂
    Buttt i'll watch it anyways ;)

  • @whitters8944
    @whitters8944 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    “It’s about the effort being made.” ... Agreed. I stand with you Taty... on a box... that’s in a tree... growing on top of a mountain... with my hands stretched towards the heavens!

  • @RioDawson-xo2dm
    @RioDawson-xo2dm 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for being this voice for me. Don't feel super confident about myself after being rejected :( But I know I deserve the world!

    • @noelgibson5956
      @noelgibson5956 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You may deserve the world, but it doesn't mean you deserve a man.
      Men don't have to want you.

  • @babymochii5999
    @babymochii5999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Take it from me girls every single thing she said is freaking True I my ex did almost every single thing she mentioned and I wish I had a better self esteem to leave his ass sooner so really save yourself the pain and Time if he does this shit sis run

    • @thelmamarie4304
      @thelmamarie4304 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I got played by a dude for months. On new years, I confessed to him and he told me he felt the same and though we never were an official thing; I ended up getting my heart broken because he always told me how pretty I am, that he loves me, and he'd just do cute things here and there but he send me snapchat messages meant for someone else and he panicked and told me not to open them and did and found out he had another girl so, ow.

    • @taehyunsnostrils8378
      @taehyunsnostrils8378 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Army!!! ♡♡♡

    • @babymochii5999
      @babymochii5999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@taehyunsnostrils8378 army and Neverland too ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @taehyunsnostrils8378
      @taehyunsnostrils8378 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@babymochii5999 OMG YESSSS... DO YOU HAVE A WATTPAD?

    • @babymochii5999
      @babymochii5999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@taehyunsnostrils8378 yesss

  • @rohaniaallen3670
    @rohaniaallen3670 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Number 6😭 omggggg‼‼🚶‍♀️
    Sis was spitting facts tho👏🏾‼

    • @madisonl.607
      @madisonl.607 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      6 called me out so badd

    • @Vlogsdajoyyy
      @Vlogsdajoyyy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@madisonl.607 sameee

  • @mayraramirez4123
    @mayraramirez4123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    bro not even gonna cap taty is like my big sister like this b giving me advice on things that i didn’t even know i needed but realized as i hear her speak

  • @Idkk3699
    @Idkk3699 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    She she was like “you ain’t that girl.” I was like well I wanna be

    • @NaturallySpiritual
      @NaturallySpiritual 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      right lol she got me crying nd stuff lmaooo

  • @simisolawale-sulaiman969
    @simisolawale-sulaiman969 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    THE QUEEN HAS POSTED....MY LUNCH FINNA HAVE WAIT💕💕

  • @shylene7924
    @shylene7924 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    My man hates when I watch these videos because I start telling him how his friends treat their girls so bad LMFAOOOO

  • @trinitycha3333
    @trinitycha3333 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    bruh i love TATY!! she's like the big sis i never had

    • @wandaalexandra3589
      @wandaalexandra3589 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Trinity Cha lmao tell me why I’m scrolling down the comments and the moment she shout you out I see your name😭

    • @allisonvalencia6357
      @allisonvalencia6357 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      wanda salazar omgg samee 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ahanarajput5221
    @ahanarajput5221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This was just recommended to me and the first thing i saw was how drop dead gorgeous she is😍

  • @tamararaysor
    @tamararaysor 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    This happen to me back when I was in high school with this one guy. At first I thought he wanted a relationship with me and then as time went on, I had seen signs but back then I was dumb and accepted everything. I love you Taty❤️❤️❤️❤️💞💞💞All the things you said hit the spot of everything I was going through with this person..

  • @jenniferalonso2620
    @jenniferalonso2620 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I love you Taty , ALWAYS making me feel like a bad b 😂♥️♥️

  • @laurainem8314
    @laurainem8314 4 ปีที่แล้ว +267

    ive literally NEVER been this early ily taty

    • @TatyCokley
      @TatyCokley  4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      love you more boo!

  • @Star-um1sw
    @Star-um1sw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    brahhh and me over here answering him in seconds my god iam a clown

    • @ashusainisaini159
      @ashusainisaini159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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    • @AnalyzewithAstephen
      @AnalyzewithAstephen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Me too :( it takes an hour for a response or maybe a day! Red flag IM NOT HIS TYOW time to move on:/ this sucks I kinda wanna cry a little lol

  • @mia-cp4vz
    @mia-cp4vz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Omg! your voice sounds demanding and makes me feel safe :3

  • @jadamitchell1811
    @jadamitchell1811 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Gurl you is glowing!!! Just stunning😭❤️

  • @AdaOnDemand
    @AdaOnDemand 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    YO I screamedddd I hate when they start acting all hard for their boys 😂 like truly go talk to them instead

  • @thelovely961
    @thelovely961 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    sometimes they be talking to you everyday, chasing you by making all the calls towards you, he could be initiating texts, telling you he misses you and/ even loves you and still.. not be that into you

  • @phillysotieno5786
    @phillysotieno5786 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I had to pause her midconversation to block some numbers🙆 thank you for making me smell the coffee

  • @laniroyer7717
    @laniroyer7717 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The timing can not be more perfect thank u gorgeous

  • @hannahx3111
    @hannahx3111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Why is this just what I need right now 🤦🏼‍♀️ thank u

  • @happilyeverafter1528
    @happilyeverafter1528 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    - "how cool do you wanna be?"
    Taty: YES.

  • @Powerfourable
    @Powerfourable 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Girl yes I was one of those people that didn’t wanna watch this because I know I was gonna be told the truth 😂 I’m glad I watched it though helping me realize my worth & to never settle for less.

    • @TatyCokley
      @TatyCokley  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      proud of you boo!

  • @r0ach_.bra1ns95
    @r0ach_.bra1ns95 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    My guy really asks “wyd” all the damn time😭 every 10 min he’ll ask. And I needed to watch this cuz he send these “❤️” after every dam text so idk if he being real or just bored of me😂😂😂

    • @oliviabyrnes8408
      @oliviabyrnes8408 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      X_Roqchii_X same for me but not the ❤️ emojis. He did ask me out but I turned him down. 😔 sometimes boys are really desperate

    • @olamidealarape5197
      @olamidealarape5197 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      sameeee😭😭

    • @bernitrawilliams5005
      @bernitrawilliams5005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My man do that to ask all the time wyd wyd I'm lik I'm doing the same thing you asked me when you text me the first time that's the s*** I don't like but when you text they damn phone what they doing they can't say what they doing but always want to know what the women is doing that don't work like that me and you in the same boat hun hope you have a great day

    • @mamtapradhan6809
      @mamtapradhan6809 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ko

  • @madisonlewis691
    @madisonlewis691 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    when my man really do be an amazing boyfriend, girl i’m lucky 🤩🤩 and i really just be watching your videos because i LOVEEEEE your vibe

  • @ericaj1995
    @ericaj1995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Lmaoooooooo welp crushed my little feelings 😂 great video though we all needed to hear this!

  • @z.aranoor
    @z.aranoor 4 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    Lmao I need thsi cuz I’m kinda starting to talk to this guy but idkk if he’s into me and I’m jus pushing it

    • @LuvKitKatt
      @LuvKitKatt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Girl same. But I'm bout to really fall back like... idk

  • @briannasillie2407
    @briannasillie2407 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Gorgeous😍 her videos never disappoint, we respect the honesty!

  • @Soft.lips97
    @Soft.lips97 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I left him because he ignored me for months and he would called me only when he felt like it and so i stop talking

  • @olamidealarape5197
    @olamidealarape5197 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Me wishing I watched this before my last relationship

  • @yinchawithme
    @yinchawithme 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    She’s like an older sister that I never had! Love u boo💗

  • @jae5116
    @jae5116 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Taty’s mood through the whole video: The gag is sis..🤣

  • @itskirapaige
    @itskirapaige 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    the reassurance this gave me!!!!! he’s real. i’m happy

  • @shanequacarpenter5756
    @shanequacarpenter5756 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how you’re just so blunt about everything

  • @yoongilover2232
    @yoongilover2232 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Yayyyyyy she uploaded and took me out of my never ending boredom 😂😂😂 I actually kinda needed this which I just sad but I still love you so so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @trinitycha3333
      @trinitycha3333 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      ikr ive been binging youtube all day to deal with this quarantine 😂its gotten so bad that i started my own channel LMAO

  • @emilypreslar9504
    @emilypreslar9504 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Sis obviously watched that movie, "He's just not that into you"

    • @sophiawang3798
      @sophiawang3798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kimmy6654 same girl same

  • @rme8070
    @rme8070 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This why Im gonna be alone for the rest of my life. Im not very attractive, have 0 friends, never had a boyfriend, and have never be special to someone in that way.

    • @evalerole
      @evalerole 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You are special ❤

    • @MsDeydeydey
      @MsDeydeydey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      So special, please always remember that. Someone will love you for you ❤️

    • @Anonymous-js9xp
      @Anonymous-js9xp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Don’t say that. You’re beautiful and you’re needed here, I believe one day you’ll have someone who’ll see that :)

    • @faithmorena8132
      @faithmorena8132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are beautiful girl.And you should embrace that.You don't have to be beautiful like these insta models.Everybody is beautiful in their own way.Know that.❤

    • @lisaignacio2220
      @lisaignacio2220 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ☹️

  • @whocanitbenow13
    @whocanitbenow13 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for this video: I’m in my 40’s thinking some young man is interested in me and let me tell you, after watching this video, my eyes have been opened.

  • @ellaamoah
    @ellaamoah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    ILYSM OMG! You really God-sent to me

  • @thisismyoldacclol3149
    @thisismyoldacclol3149 4 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    TH-cam literally put this in my recommended I think it’s trying to tell me something

  • @AshtonScripts
    @AshtonScripts 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    me, a boy, checking these as i watch the vid:
    are we being a little avoidant to our crushes? yes, it happens because we will be embarrassed fast if we’re not confident enough, and if we’re not to confident in ourselves but really like the other, we will try to avoid conversations a bit, until we are sure you feel the same.
    do we also talk about our crushes a lot? no. but sometimes, a boy will bring it up, if he really wants to be in that relationship, but wont open it up to all his friends or a big group, as it is way to risky, unless, he wants them to tell you for him.
    a lot of us are scared to talk to you in front of others. it’s a huge risk, unless we already planned it out, and are hyped up for it, and it’s just a “here goes nothing” kinda moment.
    our conversations are sexual based? if that is the case, he’s probably a horny guy, or, he doesn’t really like you and is just trolling.
    if we talk to you about other women? there’s a possibility, that he figured out that you were a good person and started to crush on you. don’t let her tell you we ARENT, because we can, if we’re talking to u about other woman, there’s a 20% we figured out that you were the right person for him, and he thinks your a good person, he might crush on you.
    we are on social media while we’re spending time together? sometimes we have things to do, it does not mean at ALL that we don’t like you, women always misunderstand this, and it’s so annoying. we have shit to do sometimes.
    if your acting tsundere, unless he’s not a weird guy who likes anybody, he is probably annoyed by you, and by acting like you hate him, even if he understands why you do this to hide your feelings, it completely makes us not want you.

  • @izzi3403
    @izzi3403 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I dont think boys like me
    A boy bullied me for 2years
    A guy started sighting me randomly in the hall
    A guy lifted up my skirt
    They always look at me
    Talk to me when I'm washing my hands
    A boy yesterday got me talk to his sis

  • @ashatawa2807
    @ashatawa2807 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    OMG, I'M CRYING!!! Actually taty, this proves that he's REALLY into me!! Even said he missed me in class before

    • @Elonmusk_Reeves
      @Elonmusk_Reeves ปีที่แล้ว

      Congratulations 🎊✨ You’ve been selected in my Christmas 🌲 winning draw 👆Please drop me a message on telegram,(to claim your prize)

  • @oliviaandersen2188
    @oliviaandersen2188 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Am I the only one who wants to be her fwend? :3

    • @aaliyah2759
      @aaliyah2759 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      no your not girl

  • @Amore.iinaaa
    @Amore.iinaaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Taty : “ you could just be watching this because you love me” meeee sis 💖

    • @Elonmusk_Reeves
      @Elonmusk_Reeves ปีที่แล้ว

      Congratulations 🎊✨ You’ve been selected in my December winning draw 👆Please drop me a message on telegram,to claim your prize___

  • @showmesomethingrandom4163
    @showmesomethingrandom4163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    im a boy, and these are the facts as i know them
    - if he doesn't look at you at all and looks at you like you're being creepy, stop looking and look for someone else
    - he gets your name wrong
    - he isn't nervous or anything, and he talks in a monotone voice to you / he doesn't get into his interests
    - he approaches you if he needs something
    - if he doesn't look at you or he doesn't comment on you, you may as well give up
    - boys are not the same as girls, if they're not interested they'll let you know, and they won't be forgiving about it
    - confident males flirt, but honestly I don't. this varies across men confident and not confident.
    - they don't comment on you, or yell at you to do things
    - you talk to him first (this is seriously the most important part, if you talk to him first and he's already noticed you, just give up because usually males make the move. if they're not the one to make the move and you make the first move, if he does like you he'll start up a conversation immediately)
    - he talks with his friends more than you
    - he doesn't save any spare time to talk to you
    - he avoids you
    - its the same with boys as it is with girls, we hate getting simped on. if you want to date a boy, don't simp on him for 5 months and then make the move.
    - talks with other girls more than you
    if he does any of these things, give up.
    however, im the type to not show the signs that i want to be in a relationship with someone, so they may get confused.
    only a few men are like this however so if he doesn't do any of these things its an 85% chance for you to be in a relationship.

  • @leigshamiyasmile2680
    @leigshamiyasmile2680 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    been here from the beginning. Such an inspiration💗💗💗💗💗💗