I really appreciate that you approached this topic without claiming to have it all figured out. it was really refreshing to hear from another woman about where she is in her journey of learning to obey through modesty. I feel encouraged to continue putting energy toward dressing modestly even though sometimes it’s hard work and doesn’t feel like it’s worth the effort. Thanks, Anna! 😊
I'm really enjoying your videos! I feel like you are saying a lot of the same things I would say if I did a TH-cam channel. I have had the privilege of helping some newly saved women learn how to dress modestly. I enjoyed taking them shopping and helping them find some nice clothes they can wear to church. It is such a blessing to help others in their journey when they want to learn, and I am learning things from them, too. I love how you humbly share your heart and how the Holy Spirit is leading you. I am on this journey too and have noticed that as I grow, the Holy Spirit is convicting me in many of the same ways He is convicting you. I love how He changes our hearts, and I sure do need it! I'm so thankful for women like you who are sharing how God saved them and how He is gently leading them to Biblical obedience! It's a beautiful thing!
Aw, what a blessing that the Lord gave you the gift to teach girls in that way. Thank you so much for your kind words. I really don’t know what I would do without sweet encouraging people like you in this community 🤗♥️
Thank you for creating this video! I appreciate your honesty. I'm also on my modest journey and I'm so excited to build my new wardrobe that honors God
Thank you for this yet again Anna! When people realize that The Lord has everyone on a different journey and we need to support our Sisters In Christ no matter what area of our lives HE is working on us in. I am also on this journey as a 54 yr old woman, saved in 08/2020 and my whole life has been changed, including all my clothing. I have never felt like a woman and feminine before and would NEVER wear dresses. Now it is such a conviction of mine that God has put in my heart, I have fun going out looking for dresses that will please God, my Husband and that I feel like The Lord was with me and we both are happy with the style that is God honoring.
Love your natural curls! They suit you so much! ✨ Also, I love that you were humble enough to admit the woman had a point about the backless dress. You’re right, so important to be open to correction or critique as a Christian & not be quick to offense. Love it! “Whoever heeds instruction is on the path to life, but he who rejects reproof leads others astray.” Proverbs 10:17 ESV
Dear Anna, you are such a sweetheart. I love your openness to learning and growing. I grew up in the wild and crazy 60's and 70's. I was like you, all about strutting my stuff. When I got saved at 25, I floundered for a few years. When I finally settled in as a wife and mom, I wanted to be God's gal all the way. I'm 70 this year and I'm still learning SOOOO much. My personal convictions are pretty high now in clothing, (of course they better be at my age, I certainly don't want to make someone ill, ha, ha) meaning, tops that don't show stuff when I bend over, no hint of cleavage, back, upper thighs or belly. I remember watching your wardrobe video and feeling a bit uncomfortable. Not wanting to hurt your feelings I just prayed about it. I think it would be very interesting if we took a pole from men as to how much flesh revealed is difficult for them not to have lustful thoughts. If even one is triggered, perhaps it would be something to think about. I love your videos; you are such an encouragement. Blessings and hugs!
I turned 70 in late January. Still learning also, and didn't care too much about modesty in high school. But my Christian mother was right all along(as usual), and when I took God much more seriously in my 20's my tastes in clothes and makeup just seemed to change automatically. God changed me, I believe.
Anna as we find God he instills in us the way to dress and other things as we follow our spiritual heart we must walk our walk in understanding And I heard today is your Birthday my your day be Blessed with all understanding for guidance for a life time of sharing being a woman of God So happy you obeyed the call Happy Birthday to you. May God blessings rest on you ❤
Years ago "Every Man's Battle" a book on how men/boys react to immodest clothing women were wearing. My younger friend & I confirmed those thoughts with our husbands. So my friend & I did Mother-daughter talks in churches. They were well accepted. We were also invited to a University Bible study group. We were shocked that young men would be there also but we pushed through. A few men talked to us after about their struggles. I'll never forget one said, "Wow. You nailed it." All that to say by having large or small gatherings will bring in people who want to hear. No judgment ❤
But men are attracted to women who dress hot and sexy and show their bodies thought. Won’t they find their woman to be boring and unattractive if she dresses modest?
Thanks for sharing this. Was halfway through buying clothings. And i come to realise that, you humble me even more with the content. Was buying thin straps Christmas dress. And then after hearing, i changed my mind. Glad that the seller was not angry at me. But still, the convictions were strong. I didn't feel comfortable with showing my shoulders and back anymore 😂 i used to do that. And it attracted a lot of unnecessary lustful desires from a guy i was dating. That led to heartbreaks. Got convicted and reminded again. So thank you!
Anna, please pray for me. This has been an area of great struggle and confusion for me. For awhile, i was wearing more modest clothing, dresses and skirts. And gradually I've drifted back to my old ways of dressing. I feel like the enemy keeps telling me, "Nobody really cares, you can dress how you want", or "You're not being yourself if you dress modestly, you're trying to be someone else". I dont get much advice from my husbamd either, so that doesnt help. So, please, pray, i hear God's voice and follow Him in this area. Thanks so much for sharing this. It's incredibly helpful. ❤
I totally understand where you are coming from. I do think you are right in a sense that the Lord cares more about our hearts than our clothes - but still, in love and respect for Him we should aim to be modest the best we can. We can go on this journey together and I’ll absolutely be praying for you!
I think modesty is such an act love, not only for men, but also for other women. most of us struggle with comparison, and dressing modestly is a way to give up that aspect of “competition”. I can think of few better ways to show yourself and others respect than by dressing modestly.
Yes, this is so true. I am have suffered from comparing myself to others most of my life, and found it especially difficult being on holiday with so much flesh being flaunted and feeling not good enough. If everyone dressed modestly, it would open up so many more conversations and maybe friendships, as you feel you can connect and speak to others women without it being a competition or being faced with bits of flesh as you try and speak!!!! It's so easy to dress modestly. The young girls today are being so badly misled to believe their worth is in how much flesh they can show. It's very sad.
@@JmJendtimes I'm so glad that I am a young woman and I'm definitely not like that, I feel sorry for other girls that show almost all their body shape just to take men's attention, I'm so glad that Jesus had shown me my worth before I get all into that trouble
Amen to this being a journey! I grew up a Christian but I placed so much worth in my appearance and my ability to gain interest through what I wore. In the last two years the Lord has convicted me on some things but mostly it's just been a gradual, natural change. I literally woke up one day and looked at the clothes I'm now wearing and thought "Wow the Lord did a work in me" and I didn't notice the process. I only wear leggings at night at home when I'm 100% sure there's no one going to knock on the door 😅 but even the neck lines on my clothing have slowly risen higher and now I'm much more comfortable in high necked clothes which wasn't something I ever really felt convicted about
Wonderful video! Such a great reminder that we should have grace in all situations. As Christians, we are called to be like Christ, and He most definitely had grace!😊
Thank you so much for your videos. They're an inspiration for young ladies who are eager to learn how to be a biblical woman in the eyes of God. 💖 Prayers for you!
It’s hard for me to imagine you before you were saved. It’s also hard to remember my ways before I was saved. Thank you, Jesus for setting Anna on the purpose you have for her 🙌 She speaks so well to many of us! ❤ Our purposes are never easy. I’m praying for you! 🙏
I used to wear crop tops and tight clothes too and the Holy Spirit started convicting me of those clothes.. I hate how I dressed like that. Now I wear flowy dresses or clothes that cover my cleavage and stuff... and I will say since I started dressing more modest... my husband told me I am more beautiful and attractive now and than I look like I respect myself than when I used to show my body... thank you Jesus Yeshua for continuously working in my life and transforming me!
I occasionally ask my husband about what he finds modest and what are things that could be a pitfall for a man. I trust his option and it isnt coming from a jealous heart but from the love he has from me.
Hi Anna, I really admire your humility in your journey with Christ! There's a book titled, Dressing with Dignity by Colleen Hammond, that is a helpful resource on this topic with a Biblical perspective. God bless you!
Anna! You are so cute! I seriously appreciate your humility, especially in this video. I’ve said this before, but I see God doing a good work through you! Keep being obedient and leaning into Him. You are an inspiration 🤍🙏🏼 I wish we could be friends in real life! You are the type of woman I want to be surrounded by. I have joined a small group (which I am now a leader of) so I’m working on gaining godly friends 🤍
Vanity is a stumbling block for most of us (including myself) because it focuses on self-admiration and outward appearance, often leading to pride and self-centeredness. When someone is preoccupied with their looks or seeks validation from others, it can distract from spiritual growth and humility. Choosing a dress with a higher neckline maintains modesty and avoid the pitfalls of vanity by focusing more on inner qualities rather than external appearance.
Modesty is beauty. We can be beautiful in God's eyes. It is not so easy to wear properly. It took me obout 4 years to learn how to be modest. Firstly I did not believe i could wear comfortable clothes for trips without jeans 😂 now it's so funny. I feel so feminine and i can walk in more elegant way than ever
Hi Anna, Let's pray for all the women ❤🙏 I really like how you say that modesty is a journey. I follow on TH-cam a woman who made me discover modesty and it changed a lot of things for me. She was asked by a member of the church to give clear instructions so she did: knees and shoulders covered, no cleavage. When going to church, arms covered to the elbow. And a woman should dress with skirts and dresses, no pants or jeans. Fortunately we can look modest and feminine and pretty at the same time. I'm not perfect by any means but I hope this comment can help, as it has helped me 🤗 Thank you very much for your content, you are a blessing. Julie
Oh! On the topic of convictions/listening to others, the only major opinion (aside from yours and the Lord's) is your husband's! If he's a Christian too, then seeking his guidance and input on fashion choices can really help. My husband is really the one who refined my modesty journey because he (being an ex atheist) was very aware of which outfits would make men really objectifying what I was showing them
On my very own modesty journey I have had so much fun buying dresses and wearing them everyday, I feel so feminine and beautiful. It truly helps me to feel like an amazing wife and mother. I cannot imagine dressing how I once did. I wish I could go back and huge my younger self who thought she was most beautiful showing skin and wearing revealing clothing. Now all I care about it is my husband and the Lord knowing what my body looks like and respecting both my God and husband in this way. It has brought me a sense of peace and closeness to the God❤️
May I add something respectfully? Many churches and religions with either clothing requirements or modesty requirements can be extreme. I have noticed in many cases that some hide in this modesty. Many people don't take care of their bodies and are obese or poor hygiene or live in shame of their bodies. Living under modesty and cover without taking care of themselves in these areas and many spouses suffer because of it. It's a type of false pride hypocrisy and self-righteous indignation. A martyr. Some are in religious sexual shame and that is horrible for not just the individual but their spouse and children as some women leverage sex that way while shaming their husbands. These are forms of abuse. Some churches even have underwear requirements that are monitored. Modesty is important for many reasons but we also must find a healthy BALANCE. I also add MANY jealous women in the church shame beautiful women who dress attractive and desire them to be unattractive and this is also a fact. A study recently was done where older women who were hairdressers encouraged beautiful younger attractive women to cut their hair off and do very short haircuts. It was for ONE REASON ONLY to make those BEAUTIFUL women less appealing SO the unattractive women feel better about themselves. The layers of deceit the devil uses are very multifaceted and one must really be aware especially in the church as "your enemies will be among your own household". Beautiful woman, your spouse is very blessed. Peace and prayers.
Wow...that's terrible if a hairdresser would do this! I am a hairdresser and would tell someone the opposite if they wanted to cut their beautiful long hair off! Wow...this is a shock to me! But I guess, yes, I can see it would be true in this ego/image driven world 😢
Full transparency, I've always thought your backless dresses would not be appropriate church attire, but i was hesitant to mention it because they are beautiful! I remember when i was in high school, a lady at church said that a women's bare back is a sensuous part of thr body. Some girls disagreed, but i never forgot that. I'm 61 now.
Hi Anna, I started wearing more dresses because of your videos. I feel so feminine and beautiful inside and out wearing them. Sometimes when I feel convicted about something, one of your videos will pop up in my feed and speak to my heart. I’m grateful to you. I want to encourage you, sister, as you have encouraged so many of us, to keep going in your journey and obey the Lord. ❤ Then I heard the voice of the Lord, saying, “Whom shall I send, and who will go for Us?” Then I said, “Here am I. Send me!” Isaiah 6:8
There is also a point that not everyone has finances to get beautiful modest clothing. I would love to dress more feminine, but i have to get my clothes from the free clothing closets and am not able to find what I like. I wear what I have. I wear clothes that cover me and that is what is possible for me for now.
What are some clothing brands you like? I’ve been on my own journey to Modesty and always looking for good feminine modest brands. I currently love Gal meets glam dresses but it has been discontinued so I can only buy them on eBay.
I think a good take on what you were saying was, “ Follow me as I follow Christ…” like the Apostle Paul said to the Corinthians in 1 Cor 11:1. Your words are good wisdom too.
I've heard a teaching about the Greek word, "kastastole" (spelling?) that seems to give some guidance that there is a standard of modesty in the Bible. That Greek word means "long & flowing," so I've heard that means people in general, men & women, should wear long & flowing clothing. However, I haven't decided to implement that in my life. Maybe I should. But I only heard this teaching from one person & I just haven't been real convicted about wearing shorts. As long as they're not too short.
Thank you. Women are under attack. By a society that judges us, on our looks. Modesty is the most beautiful excessary. I encourage videos on Modesty. 👗
The backless dress comment is valid For me i do not like having a thin bra when its cold…. That is a huge issue for me so many shows and movies have made crud jokes about womens nipples and I do not want that attention. So i get a bit of padding to help with privacy
I personally believe that The Holy Spirit is suppose to convict us. By us reaching out to someone and bringing up their flaws can be offensive and we can become stumbling block to that person even if it's with good intentions. We can give advice if and when asked. Other than that, let's pray for them that The Holy Spirit convicts to the point that they can't be calm when wearing certain clothing or even acting a certain way. We all have our weaknesses and flaws. I do believe that there are ways to bring up the subject of modesty without having to offend any of our sisters in Christ. For example: women's retreats or conference...etc. I enjoy you channel. Thanks for sharing.
Self respecting men want feminine women! I love seeing women who wear skirts and dresses at the knee or lower! I'm a Christian single man in my 30s who found a traditional Gospel/Bible based church this year and I started wearing suits, sport coats, and dress pants. I feel masculine again!
I’m a 20 year old woman and I just threw out ALLLL of my crop tops, shorts, and pants. I’m now choosing to only wear long skirts and long dresses. They make me feel so ugly and masculine after personal conviction. And if I ever wear mini skirt to layer under excessively and wear those black tights underneath. I love this new lifestyle, God bless ❤
Hi Anna. Its so good to see you ❤ Awesome video. And nice dress as always 😊 I'm so so happy for the women in the comments section I really love you all☺️ Please I have a question Anna, I saw that you have close to 80 videos but when I checked through they were not up to 80😢 Did you edit privacy of any of your Feminine Video? I'm just so concerned
How do you start🥹like I am feeling a conviction for my pants I am a jeans and t kinda girl😢 idk I will pray about this sis. Thank you it’s kinda like I feel like my booty looks huge in my jeans and I don’t wear them because I want ppl to look at my butt. Does that make sense? It’s just I’ve always worn them. I do feel a conviction for sure about them but I will seek the lord in this.. I don’t know where to start at all.
Thank you for this video. I can completely relate. My current struggle is finding modest clothes for our 11 year old daughter who doesnt love dresses. I shouldnt have to google "modest girls clothes"...that seems wrong. The clothes made for young girls (and adults) is disgusting to say the least. So sad.
Great video! A topic that wasn’t touched on and I think it should be… ask your husbands honest opinion from a man’s point of view. That will solve a lot of the nitty gritty modesty things. And pray pc course for wisdom. Because of the heat this summer I had to switch to longer more flowy dresses to stay cool. The best plus side is so many little girls think I’m a princess. Yes modesty is an ever changing and growing walk.
I would love to see a video on what clothes you buy for your daughter. I have a 3 year old and 8 month old both girls. My daughter LOVES leggings and detests jeans lol. I would love ideas on how to teach modesty in what my kids wear even from a young age. Not to sexualize them but just to teach them that their body is not the most important thing about them and showing off their body isn’t where they get confidence from that it comes from our Lord!
I actually feel more confident and beautiful in conservative clothing then I ever did in immodest clothing. I wonder if I felt uncomfortable and self conscious in my 20s simply because of my clothing.
Hi Anna. Here's how God showed me about modesty and I teach my girls the same thing. Men are physical. If what we wear is going to turn the head of a man yo look at us inappropriately then it's not modest. The more skin we reveal the more a man will look. That's my conviction God gave me. I just wanted to share that with you. But you did show me something today. I can voice my convictions to my girls and have them pray God shows them what modesty is. They have to go on their own convictions. Thank you for pointing that out. Have a great day! And I'm looking forward to your next video.
Anna my mother in law told me that when she was in church her preacher told her to not wear short sleeves I just could not believe it. He said a woman is supposed to cover her arms needless to say I completely disagree if you are in church wear whatever. I mean of course I feel that you shouldn’t have a short mini skirt on in church but seriously it’s better than it of us who isn’t going at all. I believe in God whole heartedly but I watch about Jesus and I learn alot but I don’t go to church. I feel they judge a lot. I don’t have tattoos but I know my mother in law was convinced being a Christian herself that all three of my children were doomed to hell because they have tattoos. But honestly we went to a Penecostal church about 10 years ago and my daughter had no tattoos then but there was a guy who was coming around when the choir was singing and putting his hand like up on your shoulders, and asking if you needed prayer and the second he touched my daughter she was filled with the Holy Ghost and began speaking in tongues. It was so beautiful. My husband is really against my children getting them also but I really feel that if you love one another do your best and love God you will make it into the Kingdom of heaven. I loved all your dresses and I love listening to you and you are so beautiful inside and out❤
@@brendabrooks9699 thank you for your kind and gentle heart. I really think it’s in the right place. It means a lot in this world and honestly even means a lot in the Christian community.
Because this topic sparks much controversy, I just have to add this small portion of an article by Mary A. Kassian called; Does God Care What I Wear? "Our clothing is supposed to tell the truth about the gospel. It shows the world that Jesus covers our shame and makes us decent. Our clothes cover our nakedness as the clothing of Christ covers our sin Rev. 3:18 Clothing is not meant to be about us, it's meant to display deep and profound truths about God and the gospel of Jesus Christ. Spiritual adornment is the reality, physical adornment is the symbol of that reality. A woman whose heart has been made beautiful through holiness will delight to dress in a way that pleases her Lord." Now, that is something to ponder.
I'm in a holiday resort right now, and the amount of flesh on show is really quite astounding. I see women showing their whole flesh in skimpy bikinis whilst their young sons are with them, daughters wearing next to nothing and their Dad's being ok with it. Even my husband gets fed up of it, he is trying to avert his eyes constantly! And then you see the Muslim ladies who dress modestly so well, and yet it's so sad to me they are following a false god 😢 It's such a jumbled up world we live on! Blessings to you all 🌻
11:51 you state in your video that "He doesn't need you." Its much more than Him allowing you to be used, but that He wants to use you and He wants your all. He wants you intimately. He wants to utilize you and He will make a move in your life as long as you keep abiding in His presence and spreading His truth with His authority. You are one of the few Christian TH-camrs i know that have a firm faith, a sound doctrine, and a humble gentle heart.
I am supposing that there are only two main things that I would comment upon that are an inherent part of your overall journey as opposed to just a singular part such as modesty. The Lord does have need of you and the simple fact that you felt guided to change the topic of your video at the last minute is evidence of that. The difference is perhaps our limited human understanding of what the word "need" means as it regards the Lord of all. You are most likely not the only woman who made a video about modesty today for instance, but they have other people within reach and you have your subscribers. I realize that sounds a bit lame as an example, but it is nevertheless true. And many others who haven't as yet seen your channel may do so even if only glancing at the title which in turn plants a seed of thought. Secondly, many women do dress in different ways in order to feel beautiful and sexy and appreciated but yes, judgments on a personal level can be touch and go sometimes being worse than saying nothing and end up as the very stumbling block for males and females alike. You are very attractive and beautiful but much more so because of your now chosen walk toward and with the Lord and not because of superficial things--not to minimize the topic of modesty but rather to draw the focus back to the spirit which is always of utmost importance. So the part wherein you mentioned not knowing where somebody else is in their journey and thus to exercise patience and restraint is a note of priority.
@@lisakrische3732 I won’t lie. It’s not been easy for me to hear that how far I’ve come in modesty isn’t enough. BUT I pray constantly for the Lord to sanctify me and help understand and don’t know how else He can do that without asking me to keep changing. I’m thankful I have you all to keep me accountable 🩵
@@AnnaDysett, it is amazing to see how God has humbled your heart. He will finish the good work he started in you. I grew up dressing how I wanted to until God touched me, and I gave my life to Christ at a church where women dress with skirts and dresses. The Holy Spirit started working in me in the area of dressing. After 15 years I noticed that some women are super careful in their dressing than others. I feel like we should just continue in prayer. Your modesty journey should not feel like a burden, we should do it out of respect towards others and obedience to God. May the Good Lord continue guiding you, blessings!
Anna, I just wanted to reply to your comment here to say that though I do agree with the comment about the top half of your dresses, PLEASE do not say that how far you have come in modestly isn’t enough. I want to remind you that the Lord works on all of us individually in HIS time. Remember He looks at our heart. Our Father KNOWS that you have the purest intentions and mean by no part to reveal too much in your chest area. I can count many times in my own journey that I have genuinely thought something was modest, to later find that as I have grown in the Lord it wasn’t. BUT, I did not for a moment think i was displeasing the Lord at that time, because I knew that He saw my love and effort for Him. Please be assured that our Lord sees your heart for Him, and accepts your modesty journey as an act of worship. Remember this is a walk with Christ, not a sprint!! Remember we will never be perfect until we are with Jesus, all we can do is try, try, try. You are a beautiful Godly woman, and this is not just through your dress but through the Spirit in you. Father sees your heart and loves your effort. Keep going sis. Love your videos ❤️❤️❤️
Wearing a scarf which blends with the color of a purse or the shoe of the day is a good way of using this dress. Yes, too revealing! BTW, I am a fan of Muslim sisters way of dressing and covering themselves even if it is difficult.
Aw! Thank you so much! I do not. I feel like too much social media overwhelms me and takes me away from my home and children. Just TH-cam in this season 🩵
I really appreciate that you approached this topic without claiming to have it all figured out. it was really refreshing to hear from another woman about where she is in her journey of learning to obey through modesty. I feel encouraged to continue putting energy toward dressing modestly even though sometimes it’s hard work and doesn’t feel like it’s worth the effort. Thanks, Anna! 😊
I'm really enjoying your videos! I feel like you are saying a lot of the same things I would say if I did a TH-cam channel. I have had the privilege of helping some newly saved women learn how to dress modestly. I enjoyed taking them shopping and helping them find some nice clothes they can wear to church. It is such a blessing to help others in their journey when they want to learn, and I am learning things from them, too. I love how you humbly share your heart and how the Holy Spirit is leading you. I am on this journey too and have noticed that as I grow, the Holy Spirit is convicting me in many of the same ways He is convicting you. I love how He changes our hearts, and I sure do need it! I'm so thankful for women like you who are sharing how God saved them and how He is gently leading them to Biblical obedience! It's a beautiful thing!
Aw, what a blessing that the Lord gave you the gift to teach girls in that way. Thank you so much for your kind words. I really don’t know what I would do without sweet encouraging people like you in this community 🤗♥️
Thank you for creating this video! I appreciate your honesty. I'm also on my modest journey and I'm so excited to build my new wardrobe that honors God
Thank you for this yet again Anna! When people realize that The Lord has everyone on a different journey and we need to support our Sisters In Christ no matter what area of our lives HE is working on us in. I am also on this journey as a 54 yr old woman, saved in 08/2020 and my whole life has been changed, including all my clothing. I have never felt like a woman and feminine before and would NEVER wear dresses. Now it is such a conviction of mine that God has put in my heart, I have fun going out looking for dresses that will please God, my Husband and that I feel like The Lord was with me and we both are happy with the style that is God honoring.
Yaaaaay more of Anna, your videos is such a treat thank you.
Thank you for ALWAYS being so supportive 🥹♥️
"Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ." 1 Co 11:1 ❤ You are an inspiration! Thank u for this amazing video 😊
Love your natural curls! They suit you so much! ✨ Also, I love that you were humble enough to admit the woman had a point about the backless dress. You’re right, so important to be open to correction or critique as a Christian & not be quick to offense. Love it!
“Whoever heeds instruction is on the path to life, but he who rejects reproof leads others astray.”
Proverbs 10:17 ESV
Dear Anna, you are such a sweetheart. I love your openness to learning and growing. I grew up in the wild and crazy 60's and 70's. I was like you, all about strutting my stuff. When I got saved at 25, I floundered for a few years. When I finally settled in as a wife and mom, I wanted to be God's gal all the way. I'm 70 this year and I'm still learning SOOOO much. My personal convictions are pretty high now in clothing, (of course they better be at my age, I certainly don't want to make someone ill, ha, ha) meaning, tops that don't show stuff when I bend over, no hint of cleavage, back, upper thighs or belly. I remember watching your wardrobe video and feeling a bit uncomfortable. Not wanting to hurt your feelings I just prayed about it. I think it would be very interesting if we took a pole from men as to how much flesh revealed is difficult for them not to have lustful thoughts. If even one is triggered, perhaps it would be something to think about. I love your videos; you are such an encouragement. Blessings and hugs!
I turned 70 in late January. Still learning also, and didn't care too much about modesty in high school. But my Christian mother was right all along(as usual), and when I took God much more seriously in my 20's my tastes in clothes and makeup just seemed to change automatically. God changed me, I believe.
Anna as we find God he instills in us the way to dress and other things as we follow our spiritual heart we must walk our walk in understanding
And I heard today is your Birthday my your day be Blessed with all understanding for guidance for a life time of sharing being a woman of God
So happy you obeyed the call
Happy Birthday to you. May God blessings rest on you ❤
Years ago "Every Man's Battle" a book on how men/boys react to immodest clothing women were wearing. My younger friend & I confirmed those thoughts with our husbands. So my friend & I did Mother-daughter talks in churches. They were well accepted. We were also invited to a University Bible study group. We were shocked that young men would be there also but we pushed through. A few men talked to us after about their struggles. I'll never forget one said, "Wow. You nailed it." All that to say by having large or small gatherings will bring in people who want to hear. No judgment ❤
But men are attracted to women who dress hot and sexy and show their bodies thought. Won’t they find their woman to be boring and unattractive if she dresses modest?
There’s something about your videos that always meet me where I’m at. Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us!
Thanks for sharing this. Was halfway through buying clothings. And i come to realise that, you humble me even more with the content. Was buying thin straps Christmas dress. And then after hearing, i changed my mind. Glad that the seller was not angry at me. But still, the convictions were strong. I didn't feel comfortable with showing my shoulders and back anymore 😂 i used to do that. And it attracted a lot of unnecessary lustful desires from a guy i was dating. That led to heartbreaks. Got convicted and reminded again. So thank you!
Love the before and after pics Anna! What you are doing is good now!
Anna, please pray for me. This has been an area of great struggle and confusion for me. For awhile, i was wearing more modest clothing, dresses and skirts. And gradually I've drifted back to my old ways of dressing. I feel like the enemy keeps telling me, "Nobody really cares, you can dress how you want", or "You're not being yourself if you dress modestly, you're trying to be someone else". I dont get much advice from my husbamd either, so that doesnt help. So, please, pray, i hear God's voice and follow Him in this area. Thanks so much for sharing this. It's incredibly helpful. ❤
I totally understand where you are coming from. I do think you are right in a sense that the Lord cares more about our hearts than our clothes - but still, in love and respect for Him we should aim to be modest the best we can. We can go on this journey together and I’ll absolutely be praying for you!
@AnnaDysett Thanks so much Anna.
I think modesty is such an act love, not only for men, but also for other women. most of us struggle with comparison, and dressing modestly is a way to give up that aspect of “competition”. I can think of few better ways to show yourself and others respect than by dressing modestly.
Yes, this is so true. I am have suffered from comparing myself to others most of my life, and found it especially difficult being on holiday with so much flesh being flaunted and feeling not good enough. If everyone dressed modestly, it would open up so many more conversations and maybe friendships, as you feel you can connect and speak to others women without it being a competition or being faced with bits of flesh as you try and speak!!!! It's so easy to dress modestly. The young girls today are being so badly misled to believe their worth is in how much flesh they can show. It's very sad.
@@JmJendtimes I'm so glad that I am a young woman and I'm definitely not like that, I feel sorry for other girls that show almost all their body shape just to take men's attention, I'm so glad that Jesus had shown me my worth before I get all into that trouble
Amen to this being a journey! I grew up a Christian but I placed so much worth in my appearance and my ability to gain interest through what I wore. In the last two years the Lord has convicted me on some things but mostly it's just been a gradual, natural change. I literally woke up one day and looked at the clothes I'm now wearing and thought "Wow the Lord did a work in me" and I didn't notice the process. I only wear leggings at night at home when I'm 100% sure there's no one going to knock on the door 😅 but even the neck lines on my clothing have slowly risen higher and now I'm much more comfortable in high necked clothes which wasn't something I ever really felt convicted about
Wonderful video! Such a great reminder that we should have grace in all situations. As Christians, we are called to be like Christ, and He most definitely had grace!😊
Thank you! You truly understood the entire video 🩵
Thank you so much for your videos. They're an inspiration for young ladies who are eager to learn how to be a biblical woman in the eyes of God. 💖 Prayers for you!
I’ve struggled a lot with this. Thank you for sharing your story. I made the 100th like I feel special.
It’s hard for me to imagine you before you were saved. It’s also hard to remember my ways before I was saved. Thank you, Jesus for setting Anna on the purpose you have for her 🙌 She speaks so well to many of us! ❤ Our purposes are never easy. I’m praying for you! 🙏
@@amybeasley7388 thank you, sweet sister 🥹🩵
I used to wear crop tops and tight clothes too and the Holy Spirit started convicting me of those clothes.. I hate how I dressed like that. Now I wear flowy dresses or clothes that cover my cleavage and stuff... and I will say since I started dressing more modest... my husband told me I am more beautiful and attractive now and than I look like I respect myself than when I used to show my body... thank you Jesus Yeshua for continuously working in my life and transforming me!
God bless you Anna, for your abandonment to Christ & your desire to please Him above all else, in every area. Your love for Jesus really shows!❤❤
Thank you!!! I needed this . I am on this journey alone
@@lauren_mazzeo not anymore!! 🤗♥️
I occasionally ask my husband about what he finds modest and what are things that could be a pitfall for a man. I trust his option and it isnt coming from a jealous heart but from the love he has from me.
Did he respond please consider sharing with us that we may learn too
I'm not Christian but I am very interested in becoming more modest especially now that I'm nearing 30 years old. Thank you for making this video ❤
Hi Anna, I really admire your humility in your journey with Christ! There's a book titled, Dressing with Dignity by Colleen Hammond, that is a helpful resource on this topic with a Biblical perspective. God bless you!
Anna! You are so cute! I seriously appreciate your humility, especially in this video. I’ve said this before, but I see God doing a good work through you! Keep being obedient and leaning into Him. You are an inspiration 🤍🙏🏼 I wish we could be friends in real life! You are the type of woman I want to be surrounded by. I have joined a small group (which I am now a leader of) so I’m working on gaining godly friends 🤍
Awwwn. I whis we could be friends in real ife too
Vanity is a stumbling block for most of us (including myself) because it focuses on self-admiration and outward appearance, often leading to pride and self-centeredness. When someone is preoccupied with their looks or seeks validation from others, it can distract from spiritual growth and humility.
Choosing a dress with a higher neckline maintains modesty and avoid the pitfalls of vanity by focusing more on inner qualities rather than external appearance.
Modesty is beauty. We can be beautiful in God's eyes. It is not so easy to wear properly. It took me obout 4 years to learn how to be modest. Firstly I did not believe i could wear comfortable clothes for trips without jeans 😂 now it's so funny. I feel so feminine and i can walk in more elegant way than ever
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Congratulations Anna. Our lord be praised ❤
@@KinksandTwist thank you 🥹🩵
Hi Anna,
Let's pray for all the women ❤🙏
I really like how you say that modesty is a journey.
I follow on TH-cam a woman who made me discover modesty and it changed a lot of things for me.
She was asked by a member of the church to give clear instructions so she did: knees and shoulders covered, no cleavage.
When going to church, arms covered to the elbow.
And a woman should dress with skirts and dresses, no pants or jeans.
Fortunately we can look modest and feminine and pretty at the same time.
I'm not perfect by any means but I hope this comment can help, as it has helped me 🤗
Thank you very much for your content, you are a blessing.
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Oh! On the topic of convictions/listening to others, the only major opinion (aside from yours and the Lord's) is your husband's! If he's a Christian too, then seeking his guidance and input on fashion choices can really help. My husband is really the one who refined my modesty journey because he (being an ex atheist) was very aware of which outfits would make men really objectifying what I was showing them
On my very own modesty journey I have had so much fun buying dresses and wearing them everyday, I feel so feminine and beautiful. It truly helps me to feel like an amazing wife and mother. I cannot imagine dressing how I once did. I wish I could go back and huge my younger self who thought she was most beautiful showing skin and wearing revealing clothing. Now all I care about it is my husband and the Lord knowing what my body looks like and respecting both my God and husband in this way. It has brought me a sense of peace and closeness to the God❤️
May I add something respectfully? Many churches and religions with either clothing requirements or modesty requirements can be extreme. I have noticed in many cases that some hide in this modesty. Many people don't take care of their bodies and are obese or poor hygiene or live in shame of their bodies. Living under modesty and cover without taking care of themselves in these areas and many spouses suffer because of it. It's a type of false pride hypocrisy and self-righteous indignation. A martyr. Some are in religious sexual shame and that is horrible for not just the individual but their spouse and children as some women leverage sex that way while shaming their husbands. These are forms of abuse. Some churches even have underwear requirements that are monitored. Modesty is important for many reasons but we also must find a healthy BALANCE. I also add MANY jealous women in the church shame beautiful women who dress attractive and desire them to be unattractive and this is also a fact. A study recently was done where older women who were hairdressers encouraged beautiful younger attractive women to cut their hair off and do very short haircuts. It was for ONE REASON ONLY to make those BEAUTIFUL women less appealing SO the unattractive women feel better about themselves. The layers of deceit the devil uses are very multifaceted and one must really be aware especially in the church as "your enemies will be among your own household". Beautiful woman, your spouse is very blessed. Peace and prayers.
Wow! I thought this was beautifully written and I do agree. There is a point where it is just straight up legalism and we have to find balance 🩵
Wow...that's terrible if a hairdresser would do this! I am a hairdresser and would tell someone the opposite if they wanted to cut their beautiful long hair off! Wow...this is a shock to me! But I guess, yes, I can see it would be true in this ego/image driven world 😢
Thank you Anna.
Sanctification is a life long process. 🙏🏼
keep your modest journey 🛐♥️
at church make sure to use cover up, the etiquette is to cover the shoulder.
I love most of your dress
You're great❤
Full transparency, I've always thought your backless dresses would not be appropriate church attire, but i was hesitant to mention it because they are beautiful! I remember when i was in high school, a lady at church said that a women's bare back is a sensuous part of thr body. Some girls disagreed, but i never forgot that. I'm 61 now.
@@kimalonzo3363 thank you so much for being open and honest 🤗♥️
Hi Anna, I started wearing more dresses because of your videos. I feel so feminine and beautiful inside and out wearing them.
Sometimes when I feel convicted about something, one of your videos will pop up in my feed and speak to my heart. I’m grateful to you.
I want to encourage you, sister, as you have encouraged so many of us, to keep going in your journey and obey the Lord. ❤
Then I heard the voice of the Lord, saying, “Whom shall I send, and who will go for Us?” Then I said, “Here am I. Send me!” Isaiah 6:8
There is also a point that not everyone has finances to get beautiful modest clothing. I would love to dress more feminine, but i have to get my clothes from the free clothing closets and am not able to find what I like. I wear what I have. I wear clothes that cover me and that is what is possible for me for now.
Very important point!
What are some clothing brands you like? I’ve been on my own journey to
Modesty and always looking for good feminine modest brands. I currently love Gal meets glam dresses but it has been discontinued so I can only buy them on eBay.
I think a good take on what you were saying was, “ Follow me as I follow Christ…” like the Apostle Paul said to the Corinthians in 1 Cor 11:1. Your words are good wisdom too.
@@daylenestaneart775 YES, thank you! I needed that. I struggle with worthiness sometimes.
I've heard a teaching about the Greek word, "kastastole" (spelling?) that seems to give some guidance that there is a standard of modesty in the Bible. That Greek word means "long & flowing," so I've heard that means people in general, men & women, should wear long & flowing clothing. However, I haven't decided to implement that in my life. Maybe I should. But I only heard this teaching from one person & I just haven't been real convicted about wearing shorts. As long as they're not too short.
Yes!🎉. I cannot with the crop tops😂. When I was younger people used yo joke could you not afford a whole shirt😅 but now its the “cool” thing to wear
Thank you. Women are under attack. By a society that judges us, on our looks. Modesty is the most beautiful excessary. I encourage videos on Modesty. 👗
The backless dress comment is valid
For me i do not like having a thin bra when its cold…. That is a huge issue for me so many shows and movies have made crud jokes about womens nipples and I do not want that attention. So i get a bit of padding to help with privacy
I personally believe that The Holy Spirit is suppose to convict us. By us reaching out to someone and bringing up their flaws can be offensive and we can become stumbling block to that person even if it's with good intentions. We can give advice if and when asked. Other than that, let's pray for them that The Holy Spirit convicts to the point that they can't be calm when wearing certain clothing or even acting a certain way. We all have our weaknesses and flaws. I do believe that there are ways to bring up the subject of modesty without having to offend any of our sisters in Christ. For example: women's retreats or conference...etc. I enjoy you channel. Thanks for sharing.
Self respecting men want feminine women! I love seeing women who wear skirts and dresses at the knee or lower! I'm a Christian single man in my 30s who found a traditional Gospel/Bible based church this year and I started wearing suits, sport coats, and dress pants. I feel masculine again!
I’m a 20 year old woman and I just threw out ALLLL of my crop tops, shorts, and pants. I’m now choosing to only wear long skirts and long dresses. They make me feel so ugly and masculine after personal conviction.
And if I ever wear mini skirt to layer under excessively and wear those black tights underneath. I love this new lifestyle, God bless ❤
Hi Anna. Its so good to see you ❤
Awesome video. And nice dress as always 😊
I'm so so happy for the women in the comments section I really love you all☺️
Please I have a question Anna, I saw that you have close to 80 videos but when I checked through they were not up to 80😢
Did you edit privacy of any of your Feminine Video? I'm just so concerned
How do you start🥹like I am feeling a conviction for my pants I am a jeans and t kinda girl😢 idk I will pray about this sis. Thank you it’s kinda like I feel like my booty looks huge in my jeans and I don’t wear them because I want ppl to look at my butt. Does that make sense? It’s just I’ve always worn them. I do feel a conviction for sure about them but I will seek the lord in this.. I don’t know where to start at all.
It's OK that you tried something only to find out that it wasn't right for you. ❤
Thank you for this video. I can completely relate. My current struggle is finding modest clothes for our 11 year old daughter who doesnt love dresses. I shouldnt have to google "modest girls clothes"...that seems wrong. The clothes made for young girls (and adults) is disgusting to say the least. So sad.
Good for you anna
Great video! A topic that wasn’t touched on and I think it should be… ask your husbands honest opinion from a man’s point of view. That will solve a lot of the nitty gritty modesty things. And pray pc course for wisdom.
Because of the heat this summer I had to switch to longer more flowy dresses to stay cool. The best plus side is so many little girls think I’m a princess.
Yes modesty is an ever changing and growing walk.
I would love to see a video on what clothes you buy for your daughter. I have a 3 year old and 8 month old both girls. My daughter LOVES leggings and detests jeans lol. I would love ideas on how to teach modesty in what my kids wear even from a young age. Not to sexualize them but just to teach them that their body is not the most important thing about them and showing off their body isn’t where they get confidence from that it comes from our Lord!
I actually feel more confident and beautiful in conservative clothing then I ever did in immodest clothing. I wonder if I felt uncomfortable and self conscious in my 20s simply because of my clothing.
I can totally relate and now see how a lot my disordered eating and body dysmorphia came from the way I was dressing.
Hi Anna. Here's how God showed me about modesty and I teach my girls the same thing. Men are physical. If what we wear is going to turn the head of a man yo look at us inappropriately then it's not modest. The more skin we reveal the more a man will look. That's my conviction God gave me. I just wanted to share that with you. But you did show me something today. I can voice my convictions to my girls and have them pray God shows them what modesty is. They have to go on their own convictions. Thank you for pointing that out. Have a great day! And I'm looking forward to your next video.
Anna my mother in law told me that when she was in church her preacher told her to not wear short sleeves I just could not believe it. He said a woman is supposed to cover her arms needless to say I completely disagree if you are in church wear whatever. I mean of course I feel that you shouldn’t have a short mini skirt on in church but seriously it’s better than it of us who isn’t going at all. I believe in God whole heartedly but I watch about Jesus and I learn alot but I don’t go to church. I feel they judge a lot. I don’t have tattoos but I know my mother in law was convinced being a Christian herself that all three of my children were doomed to hell because they have tattoos. But honestly we went to a Penecostal church about 10 years ago and my daughter had no tattoos then but there was a guy who was coming around when the choir was singing and putting his hand like up on your shoulders, and asking if you needed prayer and the second he touched my daughter she was filled with the Holy Ghost and began speaking in tongues. It was so beautiful. My husband is really against my children getting them also but I really feel that if you love one another do your best and love God you will make it into the Kingdom of heaven. I loved all your dresses and I love listening to you and you are so beautiful inside and out❤
@@brendabrooks9699 thank you for your kind and gentle heart. I really think it’s in the right place. It means a lot in this world and honestly even means a lot in the Christian community.
I meant to add that he had tattoos covering both arms but what a wonderful soul.
Interesting, because you don't receive the Holy Spirit by a human touch. That isn't biblical. Acts 2
@@kimalonzo3363 I understand that it wasn’t his touch it was God. But that is when it happened so what is so interesting?
Because this topic sparks much controversy, I just have to add this small portion of an article by Mary A. Kassian called; Does God Care What I Wear? "Our clothing is supposed to tell the truth about the gospel. It shows the world that Jesus covers our shame and makes us decent. Our clothes cover our nakedness as the clothing of Christ covers our sin Rev. 3:18 Clothing is not meant to be about us, it's meant to display deep and profound truths about God and the gospel of Jesus Christ. Spiritual adornment is the reality, physical adornment is the symbol of that reality. A woman whose heart has been made beautiful through holiness will delight to dress in a way that pleases her Lord." Now, that is something to ponder.
Hi Anna! What is the link to this beautiful dress?
Modesty Kindness .
Imo, back/chest/legs should be well covered to the point that doesn't arouse men. Otherwise, it's not modest. Thanks for sharing your journey.
I'm in a holiday resort right now, and the amount of flesh on show is really quite astounding. I see women showing their whole flesh in skimpy bikinis whilst their young sons are with them, daughters wearing next to nothing and their Dad's being ok with it. Even my husband gets fed up of it, he is trying to avert his eyes constantly! And then you see the Muslim ladies who dress modestly so well, and yet it's so sad to me they are following a false god 😢 It's such a jumbled up world we live on! Blessings to you all 🌻
I feel this! We went on a little day trip with water involved and it was very difficult and really saddened my heart 😕
1st Timothy 2:9 1st Peter 3 3 and 4 ❤
11:51 you state in your video that "He doesn't need you." Its much more than Him allowing you to be used, but that He wants to use you and He wants your all. He wants you intimately. He wants to utilize you and He will make a move in your life as long as you keep abiding in His presence and spreading His truth with His authority. You are one of the few Christian TH-camrs i know that have a firm faith, a sound doctrine, and a humble gentle heart.
Thank you 🥹♥️
What advice do you have for someone who is poor?
I am supposing that there are only two main things that I would comment upon that are an inherent part of your overall journey as opposed to just a singular part such as modesty.
The Lord does have need of you and the simple fact that you felt guided to change the topic of your video at the last minute is evidence of that. The difference is perhaps our limited human understanding of what the word "need" means as it regards the Lord of all. You are most likely not the only woman who made a video about modesty today for instance, but they have other people within reach and you have your subscribers. I realize that sounds a bit lame as an example, but it is nevertheless true. And many others who haven't as yet seen your channel may do so even if only glancing at the title which in turn plants a seed of thought.
Secondly, many women do dress in different ways in order to feel beautiful and sexy and appreciated but yes, judgments on a personal level can be touch and go sometimes being worse than saying nothing and end up as the very stumbling block for males and females alike. You are very attractive and beautiful but much more so because of your now chosen walk toward and with the Lord and not because of superficial things--not to minimize the topic of modesty but rather to draw the focus back to the spirit which is always of utmost importance. So the part wherein you mentioned not knowing where somebody else is in their journey and thus to exercise patience and restraint is a note of priority.
Dear Anna, I hope this doesn't offend but although your dresses are beautiful and modest the top parts are a bit too revealing.
@@lisakrische3732 I won’t lie. It’s not been easy for me to hear that how far I’ve come in modesty isn’t enough. BUT I pray constantly for the Lord to sanctify me and help understand and don’t know how else He can do that without asking me to keep changing. I’m thankful I have you all to keep me accountable 🩵
Blessings @@AnnaDysett !
@@AnnaDysett, it is amazing to see how God has humbled your heart. He will finish the good work he started in you. I grew up dressing how I wanted to until God touched me, and I gave my life to Christ at a church where women dress with skirts and dresses. The Holy Spirit started working in me in the area of dressing. After 15 years I noticed that some women are super careful in their dressing than others. I feel like we should just continue in prayer. Your modesty journey should not feel like a burden, we should do it out of respect towards others and obedience to God. May the Good Lord continue guiding you, blessings!
Anna, I just wanted to reply to your comment here to say that though I do agree with the comment about the top half of your dresses, PLEASE do not say that how far you have come in modestly isn’t enough. I want to remind you that the Lord works on all of us individually in HIS time. Remember He looks at our heart. Our Father KNOWS that you have the purest intentions and mean by no part to reveal too much in your chest area. I can count many times in my own journey that I have genuinely thought something was modest, to later find that as I have grown in the Lord it wasn’t. BUT, I did not for a moment think i was displeasing the Lord at that time, because I knew that He saw my love and effort for Him. Please be assured that our Lord sees your heart for Him, and accepts your modesty journey as an act of worship. Remember this is a walk with Christ, not a sprint!! Remember we will never be perfect until we are with Jesus, all we can do is try, try, try. You are a beautiful Godly woman, and this is not just through your dress but through the Spirit in you. Father sees your heart and loves your effort. Keep going sis. Love your videos ❤️❤️❤️
Wearing a scarf which blends with the color of a purse or the shoe of the day is a good way of using this dress. Yes, too revealing! BTW, I am a fan of Muslim sisters way of dressing and covering themselves even if it is difficult.
🥰🙏🏻❤️❌⭕️🙌
Agreed. I want to dress like my age. Like a golden girl not madonna, cher,
Anna, do you have an Instagram account? I love your TH-cam channel 🤍🤍
Aw! Thank you so much! I do not. I feel like too much social media overwhelms me and takes me away from my home and children. Just TH-cam in this season 🩵