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Stop 🛑 with the word EXPENSIVE! Only things that are for sale are expensive. We are not for sale! You need to use the word elegant.😂🧐. It’s an English language nuance.
For me looking expensive means putting actual effort into you look, which stands for putting effort into your well being! Putting effort = high energy = expensive! This word doesn't have to be always associated with money.
Honestly I dress this way because it costs less because it’s timeless fashion and I don’t have to keep buying clothes and it looks tidy and presentable. I’m not trying to look rich!! It’s just a very efficient style. It’s also very easy to adjust this to my Indian culture too by wearing my traditional jewellery. I love this. I’ll save a lot with this style.
Looking “expensive” which is actually looking classy is far from faking to be rich. I come from a working class family and my grandparents were teachers, my grandmother taught me etiquette and other things from my childhood and now when people meet me on the street they think that I’m a lawyer when I’m actually a tattoo artist so nailed it 😂
Lol it's so funny to get the "lawyer" comment! I come from a line of hardworking, poor, pioneer ancestors, and yet now that I have the means, I choose to dress in a way that makes me feel feminine and elevated! This has led to random peers stating that they thought I worked in real estate and others have literally nicknamed me "lawyer" 😅😂 I won't deny that it feels good 💁🏼♀️🪭💅🏻
🤔 I hate looking Frumpy. I like to look pretty. Sometimes my clothes are cheap but your videos help me recognize the difference between cheap clothes, and cheap looking clothes. Or, simply looking cheap. As my Mom would say, 'You don't want to look like a cheap hussey'. Thanks for your help 😁
Exactly. Anna is not telling people to buy the most expensive brands or only designer, she is trying to educate about finding clothes, accessories, etc that look expensive in the sense of being good quality, well made, more classical designs etc. Yes some recommended brands are more expensive than H&M or Shein, but they are also not the most expensive brands + like with most things in life, something that doesn’t cost a lot is also likely to be made cheaply so yes, quality does mean spending a bit more or spending time to find those items, thrifting them, waiting for a sale, etc.
Anna, can I just say how much I LOVE how you address the condescending/snarky/hateful comments? Rather than degrade yourself by getting into a vulgar back-and-forth TH-cam drama war, you take their comment, create monetized content from it, and expose their ignorance. This is a perfect example - "No one wants to look cheap", EXACTLY. If you look cheap, you will be treated cheaply. Every woman should want to look polished and elevated, which, yes, implies that you have money - and yes, money = power. I don't know who is still pretending that money doesn't matter, or that there is anything wrong with wanting to look presentable.
Lazy people who don’t want to learn and put some effort will find lots of kind of excuses. Instead of writing stupid and stingy comments, could make their own pinterest board and look for their own style
Right! The comments appear not to bother her in the least. I laughed out loud when she's like "it doesn't change my day." I so wish I could be like Anna when people aim to discredit or undermine me. Anna is so calm, brilliant and mature in response to haters. It really makes her more attractive and poised.
The problem is the word " expensive". Because if the person is not wealthy, then trying to look "expensive", does give a fake vibe. However, looking well dressed, put together, elegant, classy, dress well is not related to money.
Anna, you illustrated it perfectly in the inverse. your normal is well put together and elegant, the day you didn’t dress like that you felt reduced. people are triggered by the word expensive. sorry, you’re not going to find clothes that Anna is talking about on Shien. But, you can look in alternate places, like thrift shops, Poshmark, or just buy less. yes a Lilisilk blouse is expensive, and maybe you cannot afford it, but Anna has given so much instruction as to how to use the money you have wisely.
I grew up in Eastern Europe and although my family did not have money, my mom always made an effort to dress us nice and never leave the house looking like a slob. I’m constantly told that I’m overdressed here in the US but really, I’m just dressing like a normal person.
Same happens to me. I come from Latinoamérica and living in the US made me realized that most people here don’t receive the education we get in other countries in terms of etiquette and protocol. They are centered in academic education and that is only one fraction of what an educated person is.
Looking “expensive” for me means: 1. Looking like you made an effort and “invested” time and energy. 2. Looking like you are comfortable with how you look and feel in your own skin and clothes. 3. Looking like how you dress matters to YOU. My kids at times tell me things like: why are you “dressed” (meaning I am overdressed)? Who even cares? Who are you trying to impress? It matters to me, I care, I want to show myself I am worthy of looking my best. Period!
I love that you always give yourself as an example in many videos. That shows how open you are and how confident you are since you know you are not the same person like you used to be. You’re grown. Lots of respect for this type of people!! Character development is the key!
I used to buy expensive clothes/bags just to look rich. Some women go through that stage when social validation is fulfilling. But as I age, i realized that it is more important to pay your mortgage, your pension plan and your kids college education and the rest doesn't really matter. Nowadays, all I want is to just look decent and to balance my finance between paying important bill, once or twice vacation and not looking destitute with my attire.
I've always thought it was silly carrying a $4k purse yet don't have $100 in the bank. I've never wasted that sort of cash on a purse and I get compliments on my things all the time.
your hair is looking so good! I have no problem with the 'old money' or 'quiet luxury' trends personally because I feel its the perfect antidote to the 'Kardashian aesthetic' which is very...'money cant buy class' kind of vibe 😅
You do the world a great service by inspiring and educating women on how to look elegant and classy. The way many women dress makes them look like they don't have morals.
I love your videos! I’ve gotten a lot of great ideas from your videos! My mother always used to say, stay classy not trashy! It doesn’t matter how much you have in your wallet you should always look nice!
I may not have a rich background or family, but a rich family will come from me 💃 so better look classy and expensive now while making it happen ✨ I love your videos, been listening to you since 2016 ❤️
Fact is that "looking expensive" and "looking classy" CAN coincide, but are not one and the same. You can look classy at any societal level, if you can't afford the real deal, you can always make the best of what you can afford. It's not a matter of "faking to be rich", is a matter of "showing the best version of yourself".
There is a lot of “anti” feeling these days against looking well-dressed, or even groomed. It’s especially pronounced here in California, where only shlumpy, black or gray gym clothes are “acceptable”. Teenagers and young adults will only wear ratty, used clothes, to buy a single new thing is a social gaffe among them. But I know it’s not just my mature age, many younger women and men are resisting this enforced dumbing down of how we look. Looking like a slob is just another politically correct, Woke trope. So many of us will continue to dress well, to be put together and to look classy and modestly. It might not be trendy, but it’s a matter of self-respect and confidence. I love wearing my skirts and dresses nearly everyday, they’re much more comfy for me than trousers, jeans or gym wear. I especially hate jeans, I’ve never found a pair that fits in 50 years. I don’t see why I should be criticized for my preferences, I don’t care what other people wear, but the pressure to conform to the modern slob ideal is considerable. I’m not trying to fool or impress anyone, just to feel and look my best.
Don't you absolutely hate it when "rich people fashion" is neutral colours? For the love of God, pls wear colours! It still does look elegant and expensive!
I second this. When I’m dressed smartly, even in smart casual items, I carry myself completely different than when I’m in exercise clothes or a sloppy “shorts and a t-shirt” that I wear when I’m cleaning or doing serious tasks like painting.
I want to say something about the ignorant people who say you shouldn’t look “expensive” if you don’t come from a rich background. When my family came to the US from Europe 60 years ago (!!! - yes I am 60), they had NOTHING. Not even a passport - they came as refugees. But they had the clothes on their backs, which were all made by dressmakers and tailors in the old country. They dressed like a million bucks even though they only had a couple of things. Before my grandparents came to the USA they were in Brazil for seven years, where they ended up owning two clothing stores and a factory. My sister and I - who started school unable to speak English but well before the days of ESL - had beautiful clothing for years (until my grandparents sold up and came to America!). Dressing well does not mean you have a lot of money. It means you respect yourself. The other day I was in lower Manhattan with a college friend visiting from California. This woman walked past in a mesh dress that showed EVERYTHING. No bra. The dress itself was beautiful - I’m sure it was VERY expensive. But the woman looked like - well, a porn star - walking on the street in broad daylight. I have a lot of respect for you Anna and what you have accomplished in your life. Don’t listen to these jealous low lifes!!
I am from Latinoamérica and living in the US made me realized that most people here don’t receive the education we get in other countries in terms of etiquette and protocol. They are centered in academic education and that is only one fraction of what an educated person is. Hugs to Anna for made me laugh on “how to look cheap”🤗
Nobody wants to look cheap and poor. Period. Dressing well and buying quality clothes(wich doesn't always has to be expensive) doesn't mean we want to look rich. I love looking good always and i do not care for snobby and stupid remarks from anyone. Thanks, Anna🎉❤
Clothes do carry energy. One’s entire deportment and confidence can shift and be elevated by just being in good clothes. It really does have the ability to change one’s mood.
You know, when I watch videos of people on the streets that were taken in the 1940’s, most comments talk about how nicely dressed they were. They’re not all rich…far from it…but they took pride in looking THEIR best.
Yes, it's true that people suddenly treat you differently when you are put together. You don't even have to wear the most expensive clothes you can afford. Way more important is, that the clothes fit you, look well kept. When I started to wear colours and styles that actually flatter me, people began to treat me way better than before. To be honest, it is still unnerving sometimes. Thank you Anna for giving me ideas on how to slowly improve my own style.
To anyone who doesn't get Anna's point: Live your life in a regular day with two different outfits: one smart casual and another "not dress up" (like sportswear). You will check how people behave different, the way the speak to you, their kindness and the respect they show.... I did it long time ago and it's shocking.
The idea that looking expensive or dressing well is a sign of being "fake rich" can be a subjective and somewhat judgmental perspective. People have various reasons for dressing well or investing in their appearance, and it doesn't necessarily indicate insincerity or a lack of authenticity. Here are a few reasons why someone might choose to look expensive or improve their sense of style: Self-Confidence: Dressing well and feeling put together can boost one's self-esteem and self-confidence. When you feel good about yourself, it can positively impact your overall well-being and interactions with others. Professionalism: In some industries and professions, a polished appearance is essential. Dressing professionally can help individuals advance in their careers and make a positive impression on clients, colleagues, or employers. Personal Expression: Fashion and style are forms of self-expression. Some people genuinely enjoy experimenting with clothing and using it as a way to express their creativity and individuality. Cultural or Social Norms: In certain social or cultural contexts, dressing well is a sign of respect or adherence to traditions. It may be expected or required for formal events, religious ceremonies, or family gatherings. Mood Enhancement: As you mentioned, dressing better can elevate your mood. Putting effort into your appearance can be a form of self-care and a way to feel good about yourself. Boosting Motivation: Some people, myself included find that dressing well helps them stay motivated and productive. It can create a sense of purpose and discipline in their daily routines. While there's nothing inherently wrong with wanting to look expensive or improve your sense of style, it's important to do so in a way that aligns with your values and financial means. You don't have to spend a lot of money to achieve a stylish look; it's possible to find affordable clothing that suits your taste and budget. Ultimately, judgments about whether someone is "fake rich" based on their appearance can be unfair and unhelpful. People's financial situations and motivations for dressing a certain way are often more complex than they appear, and it's best to avoid making assumptions about others based solely on their outward appearance. Instead, they should focus on your own goals for personal style and self-expression and respect others' choices to do the same.
I'm a working woman and not from an affluent background but I always invest in quality clothing, bags, watches etc. It is not for the world to think I'm wealthy, it is because I love to see myself looking elegant and put-together. It is called educating yourself.
Maybe it's just my interpretation of the content Ana's put out, but I've always felt like as far as clothes, make-up etc (material things), she helps women to work with what they have and can afford to look put together, beautiful, and elegant. Doesn't matter what the $ in their bank account. I've taken her advice and adjusted it so it fits my budget and lifestyle.... let me tell you! After being a LOT more intentional about where I shop, what I shop for, and the make-up I wear/how to correctly apply make up, I'm not breaking the bank. My dress that I'm wearing today was $10, my lipgloss is $7, the eyeshadow palatte was $9. But thanks to Ana, I look expensive, put together and like I had $200 that I spent on my dress and make-up. I feel really beautiful because my outer appearance is exemplifying the beauty I already had
I really resonate with this! I've leveled up my everyday grooming and styling since watching your videos and I've never felt more self-validated and put together. When I slack for a day or wear a t-shirt out of the house, I really feel the negative impact on my energy. I've also been practicing stoicism, feeling happy for people instead of jealousy, and I think this is helping me attract the lifestyle I want. I had a very poor and dirty childhood, but I feel like I've overcome that when I carry myself in an elegant and graceful way. Love your message, Anna Bey. You're like the big sister I never had.
We live in an age where women sing about their pink ******* We need classy women like Anna to keep us on the right path. Thank you for this channel and telling us like it is!!!
I wish more ppl understand that if they don’t spend their money on 100 items of cheap looking polyester and acrylic clothes, they can afford buying 10 high quality items that would make them feel & look better.
I’m always puzzled by people who follow a channel that say they have no interest in. I also find it mildly amusing that there are people who spend their time and energy harassing influencers simply because they live their life differently. Life is too short to waste your time with channels that don’t interest you. Personally, I love your channel. And I actually really like the version of yourself that you have become compared to where you started. You are ever evolving into the best version of Anna, and not only is it fun to watch but I’m learning things along the way myself. You do you.
The proof of your last words : Maybe someone just wants to feel the richness of that higher quality. the proof is me wearing my most expensive perfume at home for me, even if there's no one around. Enjoying touching my quality clothes even just in the wardrobe.
Has anyone here read the Millionaire Next Door? The majority of millionairs are self made, dont look rich, dont act rich, dont dress rich and are actually rich. That's how they got there in the first place, by not spending. So looking rich is the exact opposite of what a rich person does. Ironic isn't it? Now elegance, that's a different story. That can be done on any budget, and takes style and class to accomplish. Let's not confuse the two.
To look fine u dont need to spend too much money, and not only in classic/elegant outfit u can look fine. U can be sporty, bohemian , romantic, extreme. I cant see why people always need to be anxious to show status. Fantasy is more important.
It's actually quite common for very wealthy people to want to NOT look super rich -- for instance, it can put up a wall with people socially, or make you stand out more to would-be robbers. Wealthy people want the ability to move through life easily and smoothly. It's much easier to do that if you spend on always looking well-groomed and approachable rather than spending on flashy designer logos.
Eh idk. I live in a wealthy neighborhood and it’s about half and half. Our neighborhood has multi millionaires and a billionaire in it. The billionaires wife has no qualms about showing it. Lol
I agree to a certain extent. Everyone I know who has made a lot of money in a short amount of time are very flashy and have the stereotypical millionaire lifestyle. Those who built up wealth over decades are very low key in how they dress, where they live and what car they drive. I live near a titled family, unless you knew who they were and their yearly placement on the rich list, you would think they are poor. I guess it could be considered a new money/old money divide.
Personally, I follow your channel to learn to dress to look more professional and put together. Impressions matter and help me immensely with being taken seriously in work environments. Especially when dressing sloppy seems to be the norm for a lot of barns. (I work with horses)
Anna, you are a good business woman! You might be rich, or your wealth could be artfully arranged photos and videos, but no doubt you are getting richer. And people are jealous.
Money and clothing labels, material stuff doesn't make you rich, your personality your behavior your character your actions make a person rich, having nice well made things are nice however being a elegant and well groomed and classy person is more attractive than all the money in the world. There are material and money rich people who are very ugly in being and there are people who have nothing and have the most beautiful hearts and character who are very attractive. You have taught us to be a beautiful and better character person and how to groom our lives to be a better person and elegant person. Thank you for sharing your experiences and inspiring messages.
The fact that there are people who have a problem with women educating themselves to adjust better in the world that they want to be a part of is sad. You keep up the good work Anna! ❤
Ever since I started following your advices, I've received tons of compliments on the way I dress. And no, I haven't bought anything expensive because I'm still a student, but I do love the thrift shops, and because of you I know what type of fabrics, shapes, and clothing to look for and I feel my best when wearing them. I've rid myself of the habit of being too dressed down and since then I've always felt confident about myself. I also found that dressing up for the day makes me more productive. I agree with you that people are not actually trying to look expensive, it's just that your fashion recommendations work best for most ladies. Plus the timelessness of it is a relief that you don't have to follow trends anymore.
I laughed at the "Guess what? no women on the internet is going to look for videos on how to look cheap"! 😂 I mean, come one! of course the majority of us isn't rich, but this doesn't mean we don't want to look elegant and classy, even if it's on a budget...after all I think everyone can agree on the fact that first impressions matter the most: if you meet your new professors/boss/colleagues/future in law/prospective employers, you want to look your best and make a lasting impression..and the best part is, even if you will never ever wear chic clothes in front of them ever again, they will always talk about you describing you as elegant and classy, plus usually they consider you a serious and reliable person. What I don't get is why people feel the need to comment that a video triggers them....but maybe don't look at this topics if you know they can trigger you? Like, basic common sense flew out of the window?
I do think there is nothing wrong to stick on your comfortable clothes around the house but that's it - around the house and I do agree once you slop around the house you kind of remain in that state and all you want is to chill mostly all day. Once you step outside it's different.
I went outside yesterday and I was feeling lazy to dress up. Yeah I felt down and bad because of the clothes that I wore. So I agree with you. Clothes are energy. One of their function is to uplift you and not pull you down.😅
Looking expensive has so many different roots. Lookimg expensive is how we all should feel and I am not talking about money, I refer to have enriched lifed with the things, places and people you share with. My late grandma was spending most of her time with animals, doing "dirty" and heavy work, other part she spent in a yard and other creating clothes by her own, she had Burda which was the top magazine for tailors those years then, when she could she dresses like a lady, she traveled also sometimes but in my description she was expesive lady, she had a worth for all what she could do and how she acted, how people loved her, how beautiful she was outside and inside. For me, that all makes you being an Expensive person, expensive woman❤
Those of us who view your work are FAMISHED for your brand of honesty. Thank you, Miss Bey. Many, many viewers appreciate you. I wish more of us would take the time and effort to tell you.
In my country people dress VERY laid-back and dressing the way you teach would make people stare at you like you're not mentally ok (unless it's official gathering like wedding). But I still like the advice on styling😂
Dressing well is a personal choice, and elegance doesn’t belong to the upper class only, so you don’t have to be rich in order to be elegant … I mean it’s for everyone
Most of my clothes are from thrift shops, $10 or less on well-made items - old brands people have forgotten and old pieces when they were made well, from brands people do know. Finding the right piece takes time. I work from a list of needs and don't have expectations when i hit the shops. If it's there, it's there, if it's not, it's not...wait for another day. A few from Ross, some well-made from Walmart i bought almost 10 years ago, still in like-new shape. The most I paid was a well-made business suit for work i bought in 2009 that I still wear today, also in like-new condition. Take of the clothes and they will take care of you.
I do not think there is anything wrong with faking it. Just don't take it too far. You don't want to be victim of a mugging result of your fashion, either. Being dressed to hold your own no matter who you are around at any given time is my personal goal.😊😊😊
I'm quite on the poor side. I barely scrape by and most of my clothing definitely looks cheap and tattered. My best friend is doing better and she takes the time to keep classy and well kept clothing and accessories in her wardrobe. The difference is night and day in how she looks and, more relevant, in how she's treated by the people around her. Looking classy will open a lot of doors for you and grant you privileges. Anyone pretending that is not the case is just coping.
I'm not rich and my budget for clothes and accessories is very strict (I usually fix my limits at no more than 50 euros for pants, no more than 20 euros for a shirt/top, no more than 70 euros for a dress, no more than 80 euros for shoes; only for special occasions I can go higher). And I buy a new item just when the old one is really worn to the bone. But choosing wisely while buying and keeping good care of those clothes can do wonders. I own and wear clothes that are technically "fast fashion" (H&M, OVS, Only and the likes) but they have lasted for 6-7 or even 10 years now. And they still look presentable. Maybe you can do something like that?
I’m low income and people consider me to be stylish. Here are my tips: 1. Skip accessories! Don’t buy jewelry, belts, or unnecessary hair accessories. You don’t need really any of these things, they will just drag you down. Take the money that you would spend on something like cheap earrings and put them towards a pair of nicer jeans or nicer shoes. Don’t be fooled by influencers - I get tons of compliments on outfits that only have underwear, bra, socks, shoes, pants, shirt, bag, concealer, lip gloss, mascara. 2. Buy good hair brushes. I have a wet brush, a professional round brush and a Mason Pearson brush with boar bristles. I don’t use hair product and my hair always looks good down. 2. Don’t buy multiple bags or multiple shoes. Declutter anything that is worn out or tattered even if that means you are only using one bag. 3. Don’t overstyle your hair, do your own nails and don’t buy too much makeup. 2 lipsticks are enough. Instead, buy some nice hosiery to wear with skirts and a good bra. 4. Stop comparing yourself to others.
5. Own a smaller wardrobe and save in advance, even if that's 10pm for shoes at H+M. 6. Know what you want in advance and shop the sales. 7. Keep your house tidy and garden neat. 8. Don't buy seasonal home decor or books. 9. Own a few pieces of selected makeup that suits you year round.
Those who write such negative comments are confused with the desire to look classy and elegant. There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to improve yourself. It’s not about being phony or pretentious and those who think it does are only jealous and insecure.
By the way, a classy person would never judge you for who you are...he/she would accept you as you are and for what you bring every single person has something to share that is unique and valuable.
I think one of the most attractive qualities is being authentic. That includes being transparent about your upbringing and background. For those pretending like they came up wealthy, a truly rich person will be able to see right through that. However, there’s nothing wrong with a looking your absolute best, while being authentic and transparent about who you are, and where you came from. That’s attractive.
I never judge those that don’t take pride in how they look or present themselves to the world BUT it should go the other way too for me to not be harshly judged because I DO take effort and pride in the way I present myself and overall feel like I’m my best.
I love this video, as you said nobody wakes up trying to look and feel bad, there’s nothing better than feeling confident and pretty. BTW your smile looks amazing 👏🏼 👏🏼
Your awesome ppl can say what they want dressing well and looking our best brings out the best in us. I love how you start the video by saying no one looks for a video on how to look cheap.
It's not just a way to dress, it's also a matter of how you're putting yourself together inside as you said, so many people struggle to understand that apparently, how sad. Sometimes I think about who I would be if I didn't change my habits, challenge myself and change my wardrobe... I prefer not to know honestly!
Hmmmm. If people equate dressing classy with trying too hard to look rich, that's proof that our society has really given up on personal appearance. When you see pictures of middle class people from before 1970, they dressed classy.
yep the downfall happened with the drop of dress code in schools in 1973....then moved into the workplace........people dress as slobs these days...even ones who have the money
Im far from wealthy, I live on a budget and that doesn't stop me from looking out for pieces that make me look better dresses and put together. I often get criticized with "just pick anything, it doesnt matter". But it does matter, I want the right color, the right shape, a good fabric. And specially because I dont have much money to buy clothes, oll buy pieces that are worthy, not just anything
Some people who lack the senses to perceive and feel happiness will always try to bring yours down by criticizing your financial vs. appearance disparity. They don’t want to you to feel good or happiness by constantly pointing out how you should not stay put together despite not having enough financial strength. They want you to look bad so that they can look good. They want to keep you poor so that they can appear wealthy. If you want to level up and if that’s something which makes you feel good about yourself, just go ahead and don’t listen to these trash-mouths who constantly tries to bring you down no matter how well you do to improve yourself
Many people can't understand the purpose of this channel. Anna teaches us how to be the best version of ourselves, how to be put together but mostly how to elevate our manners! Personally I improved my knowledge in style and I'm learning how to elevate a simple outfit. This doesn't mean I want to show off wealth, just have a nice and tidy appearance
It's crazy how wanting to look nice is attacked yet looking 'frumpy' well... you MUST repect that... so backwards! So to each their own and ANYONE dissing a well dressed woman either can't keep up or is simply jealous. Take care Anna and I love your videos xo 😊😊
As clothes are getting more expensive, I am looking for something that looks "basic" in muted colours. I can mix and match and look professional and put together with minimum effort. It's a win.
My work puts me in social settings with "rich" people. They know I am working for them and that I am not rich but I know they value that I try and LOOK like I belong in the room. In some ways, the way I look, and act, is a reflection on all of them so I NEED to look the part. I am thankful for the good advice I have gotten watching these videos.
Rich people dress however they want, they’re not thinking about what people who aren’t their direct peers are thinking. I am an advocate of everyone doing the same. Just show up with the correct attire when it matters, and to Anna’s point, wear what is going to make you feel confident and powerful going about your day.
It's true though. I am a substitute teacher and one day all these other subs and I were at a school. There was a woman wearing jeans and a plain t-shirt. Also, it didn't help her that she was cleaning the kitchen. We all thought she was the cleaning lady. She was actually another substitute teacher. Later, I went to sub for another school and this man was really dressed up and he said something about people washing their hands and splashing the water. I hadn't washed my hands there that day, but that's beyond the point. People were saying oh the principal got mad. We later found out he was the janitor and didn't understand why he was so dressed up. But yeah, that's why he was mad about the water splash.
Anna I love your confidence in this video. You are not just describing in words the feeling you get from expensive clothes/expensive looking clothes but it can be seen in your expression and body language. And that's what you learn after giving years to the thing you love. Love from India ❤
Anna has been teaching us to dress elegantly long before the ''old money'' trend was out there. I am not rich AT ALL but i love her channel, I love her tips. Haters going to hate!
Wealthy? New money or Old money? If a lady wants to break into Old Money then forget it ...... Your parents, education, background plays into it far more than the ability to buy an expensive handbag. Breaking into New Money? Physical beauty is more likely to open the doors. However, I have enjoyed watching Anna's postings because I think she is trying to build ladies up rather than put them down!
I like this channel, I learned several tips, and I really enjoy watching high-quality videos. It seems that nowadays we need to understand the words barrier, the word expensive is not relevant for many, but could be unattractive for others, and I just associated to attractive, for me the title would mean how to look attractive, Claryfing the intention of the video is totally professional🎉Keep doing your great videos🎉
HIGH QUALITY FASHION, PUT TOGETHER OUTFITS CREATE POSITIVE ENERGY!!! I could never articulate how high quality, put together outfits made me feel...they give me POSITIVE UPLIFTING ENERGY TO SPREAD TO OTHERS AROUND ME!!! 😁😁😁
Would anyone be interested in s video teaching women how to level down???? I don’t think so!Women, by nature, are vain. I have never met a woman who lost her looks and feels like she doesn’t look nice and feels good about it. This is why I find that person’s question absurd. Vanity is only bad when you are condescending to others and you perceive yourself to be better than everyone else.
I usually dress up nice and elegant do my makeup and hair but in some cases I opt for casual clothing if it's practical. I remember once going to the doctor so I just put on a basic top with a pair of jeans and after I grabbed some stuff at the drugstore. The cashier looked down on me so bad for not looking fancy and she was really rude with me I'll never forget this experience. Funny part is she might have thought I'm some lower class uncultured folk however chances are my net worth is greater than hers. People are disappointing
I think a good and clean make up helps lipstick 💄 A good hair day A good smell Painted nails 💅 Then even the outfit is not so awesome that day, we look still kind of well put together; I’ve seen some people lacking the above and even they were wearing really nice outfits they truly didn’t look on point 🤣
even on my "sloppy" days, i have minimum requirements. shower, hair, minimal makeup & my "athleisure" clothes are flattering & not all ratty. i look casual & relaxed, but not unkept.
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Would you please make a vedio about classy watches and sunglasses
Ouch, it's expensive for this workshop.
Stop 🛑 with the word EXPENSIVE! Only things that are for sale are expensive. We are not for sale! You need to use the word elegant.😂🧐. It’s an English language nuance.
Anna please can you make a video for necessary items that should be in a ladies purse
I wish I could find a version of your channel for men. Any suggestions?
I'm not trying to look rich. I'm trying to look like the best version of myself.
THAT! 👌
Preach!!!💯💯💯
Good. Authenticity is valuable!
Exactly. Soo over this pretending to be rich bullshit
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I love how you responded to this and how calm and elegant you always approach these comments ❤😊
For me it doesn’t matter if I wear cheap clothes (not cheap looking) as long as they are clean and after ironing. I like to look put together.
Hi Anna. How are you? I have a request, could you do a go shopping to MASSIMO DUTTI and show us winter clothes for your dear elegant ladies please?
For me looking expensive means putting actual effort into you look, which stands for putting effort into your well being!
Putting effort = high energy = expensive! This word doesn't have to be always associated with money.
Plus women want to look expensive not because of the money they sent on their clothing, but because THEY ARE EXPENSIVE THEMSELVES.
It's true that "we assume the character of our costume." 👍
"Dressing well is a form of good manners." --Tom Ford
Very true
I totally agree with you ❤
I honestly don't get that..
I wanna be taken seriously, that's why.
Honestly I dress this way because it costs less because it’s timeless fashion and I don’t have to keep buying clothes and it looks tidy and presentable. I’m not trying to look rich!! It’s just a very efficient style. It’s also very easy to adjust this to my Indian culture too by wearing my traditional jewellery. I love this. I’ll save a lot with this style.
Looking “expensive” which is actually looking classy is far from faking to be rich. I come from a working class family and my grandparents were teachers, my grandmother taught me etiquette and other things from my childhood and now when people meet me on the street they think that I’m a lawyer when I’m actually a tattoo artist so nailed it 😂
I adore persons like you. Brava!
That is actually elegance! It was the same in my family!
I think people mean looking rich as in trying to hard to get the “in” items like Chanel or Rolex and such
Can I see your instagram? 😅
Lol it's so funny to get the "lawyer" comment! I come from a line of hardworking, poor, pioneer ancestors, and yet now that I have the means, I choose to dress in a way that makes me feel feminine and elevated! This has led to random peers stating that they thought I worked in real estate and others have literally nicknamed me "lawyer" 😅😂 I won't deny that it feels good 💁🏼♀️🪭💅🏻
It's not about looking expensive, it's about making an effort to look well-dressed and put together. It used to be the norm.
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🤔 I hate looking Frumpy. I like to look pretty. Sometimes my clothes are cheap but your videos help me recognize the difference between cheap clothes, and cheap looking clothes. Or, simply looking cheap. As my Mom would say, 'You don't want to look like a cheap hussey'. Thanks for your help 😁
Exactly. Anna is not telling people to buy the most expensive brands or only designer, she is trying to educate about finding clothes, accessories, etc that look expensive in the sense of being good quality, well made, more classical designs etc. Yes some recommended brands are more expensive than H&M or Shein, but they are also not the most expensive brands + like with most things in life, something that doesn’t cost a lot is also likely to be made cheaply so yes, quality does mean spending a bit more or spending time to find those items, thrifting them, waiting for a sale, etc.
Anna, can I just say how much I LOVE how you address the condescending/snarky/hateful comments? Rather than degrade yourself by getting into a vulgar back-and-forth TH-cam drama war, you take their comment, create monetized content from it, and expose their ignorance.
This is a perfect example - "No one wants to look cheap", EXACTLY. If you look cheap, you will be treated cheaply. Every woman should want to look polished and elevated, which, yes, implies that you have money - and yes, money = power. I don't know who is still pretending that money doesn't matter, or that there is anything wrong with wanting to look presentable.
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Lazy people who don’t want to learn and put some effort will find lots of kind of excuses. Instead of writing stupid and stingy comments, could make their own pinterest board and look for their own style
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Right! The comments appear not to bother her in the least. I laughed out loud when she's like "it doesn't change my day." I so wish I could be like Anna when people aim to discredit or undermine me. Anna is so calm, brilliant and mature in response to haters. It really makes her more attractive and poised.
The problem is the word " expensive". Because if the person is not wealthy, then trying to look "expensive", does give a fake vibe. However, looking well dressed, put together, elegant, classy, dress well is not related to money.
Of course it is related. There are a lot studies.
It's totally related. As a student I struggle to even get my rent money together.
Amen to this!
Anna, you illustrated it perfectly in the inverse. your normal is well put together and elegant, the day you didn’t dress like that you felt reduced. people are triggered by the word expensive. sorry, you’re not going to find clothes that Anna is talking about on Shien. But, you can look in alternate places, like thrift shops, Poshmark, or just buy less. yes a Lilisilk blouse is expensive, and maybe you cannot afford it, but Anna has given so much instruction as to
how to use the money you have wisely.
As a marketing expert . I will never recommend anyone wanting to create a successful TH-cam channel to use any of your terms 🤣😂🤣😂🤣
I grew up in Eastern Europe and although my family did not have money, my mom always made an effort to dress us nice and never leave the house looking like a slob. I’m constantly told that I’m overdressed here in the US but really, I’m just dressing like a normal person.
Same happens to me. I come from Latinoamérica and living in the US made me realized that most people here don’t receive the education we get in other countries in terms of etiquette and protocol. They are centered in academic education and that is only one fraction of what an educated person is.
Looking “expensive” for me means:
1. Looking like you made an effort and “invested” time and energy.
2. Looking like you are comfortable with how you look and feel in your own skin and clothes.
3. Looking like how you dress matters to YOU.
My kids at times tell me things like: why are you “dressed” (meaning I am overdressed)? Who even cares? Who are you trying to impress?
It matters to me, I care, I want to show myself I am worthy of looking my best. Period!
I love that you always give yourself as an example in many videos. That shows how open you are and how confident you are since you know you are not the same person like you used to be. You’re grown. Lots of respect for this type of people!!
Character development is the key!
I used to buy expensive clothes/bags just to look rich. Some women go through that stage when social validation is fulfilling. But as I age, i realized that it is more important to pay your mortgage, your pension plan and your kids college education and the rest doesn't really matter. Nowadays, all I want is to just look decent and to balance my finance between paying important bill, once or twice vacation and not looking destitute with my attire.
I totally agree.?it’s the youth thing, the dressing to impress, I don’t care anymore, but I do take care of myself
I've always thought it was silly carrying a $4k purse yet don't have $100 in the bank. I've never wasted that sort of cash on a purse and I get compliments on my things all the time.
Yes. We need to also have our finances in order. Not opening up another card to get a purse.
your hair is looking so good! I have no problem with the 'old money' or 'quiet luxury' trends personally because I feel its the perfect antidote to the 'Kardashian aesthetic' which is very...'money cant buy class' kind of vibe 😅
I am a personal shopper for a corporate executive. Is this person being superficial? Absolutely not! Image is everything. ❤
You do the world a great service by inspiring and educating women on how to look elegant and classy. The way many women dress makes them look like they don't have morals.
let me add to that, I also like she does not worship the kardashians look and style, even criticize if she doesn't think it is elegant enough.
I love your videos! I’ve gotten a lot of great ideas from your videos! My mother always used to say, stay classy not trashy! It doesn’t matter how much you have in your wallet you should always look nice!
Love that!
I may not have a rich background or family, but a rich family will come from me 💃 so better look classy and expensive now while making it happen ✨ I love your videos, been listening to you since 2016 ❤️
Fact is that "looking expensive" and "looking classy" CAN coincide, but are not one and the same. You can look classy at any societal level, if you can't afford the real deal, you can always make the best of what you can afford. It's not a matter of "faking to be rich", is a matter of "showing the best version of yourself".
Maybe you should then call your videos "How not to look cheap" then everyone will get it. 😊
There is a lot of “anti” feeling these days against looking well-dressed, or even groomed. It’s especially pronounced here in California, where only shlumpy, black or gray gym clothes are “acceptable”. Teenagers and young adults will only wear ratty, used clothes, to buy a single new thing is a social gaffe among them. But I know it’s not just my mature age, many younger women and men are resisting this enforced dumbing down of how we look. Looking like a slob is just another politically correct, Woke trope. So many of us will continue to dress well, to be put together and to look classy and modestly. It might not be trendy, but it’s a matter of self-respect and confidence. I love wearing my skirts and dresses nearly everyday, they’re much more comfy for me than trousers, jeans or gym wear. I especially hate jeans, I’ve never found a pair that fits in 50 years. I don’t see why I should be criticized for my preferences, I don’t care what other people wear, but the pressure to conform to the modern slob ideal is considerable. I’m not trying to fool or impress anyone, just to feel and look my best.
My thoughts exactly ! It’s so hard to get a classy clothing these days
Don't you absolutely hate it when "rich people fashion" is neutral colours? For the love of God, pls wear colours! It still does look elegant and expensive!
Thanks Anna, that is exactly what I think about expensive clothes, clothes are energy 🌟
I second this. When I’m dressed smartly, even in smart casual items, I carry myself completely different than when I’m in exercise clothes or a sloppy “shorts and a t-shirt” that I wear when I’m cleaning or doing serious tasks like painting.
I want to say something about the ignorant people who say you shouldn’t look “expensive” if you don’t come from a rich background. When my family came to the US from Europe 60 years ago (!!! - yes I am 60), they had NOTHING. Not even a passport - they came as refugees. But they had the clothes on their backs, which were all made by dressmakers and tailors in the old country. They dressed like a million bucks even though they only had a couple of things. Before my grandparents came to the USA they were in Brazil for seven years, where they ended up owning two clothing stores and a factory. My sister and I - who started school unable to speak English but well before the days of ESL - had beautiful clothing for years (until my grandparents sold up and came to America!). Dressing well does not mean you have a lot of money. It means you respect yourself. The other day I was in lower Manhattan with a college friend visiting from California. This woman walked past in a mesh dress that showed EVERYTHING. No bra. The dress itself was beautiful - I’m sure it was VERY expensive. But the woman looked like - well, a porn star - walking on the street in broad daylight. I have a lot of respect for you Anna and what you have accomplished in your life. Don’t listen to these jealous low lifes!!
I am from Latinoamérica and living in the US made me realized that most people here don’t receive the education we get in other countries in terms of etiquette and protocol. They are centered in academic education and that is only one fraction of what an educated person is.
Hugs to Anna for made me laugh on “how to look cheap”🤗
Nobody wants to look cheap and poor. Period. Dressing well and buying quality clothes(wich doesn't always has to be expensive) doesn't mean we want to look rich. I love looking good always and i do not care for snobby and stupid remarks from anyone. Thanks, Anna🎉❤
Clothes do carry energy. One’s entire deportment and confidence can shift and be elevated by just being in good clothes. It really does have the ability to change one’s mood.
You know, when I watch videos of people on the streets that were taken in the 1940’s, most comments talk about how nicely dressed they were. They’re not all rich…far from it…but they took pride in looking THEIR best.
Yes, it's true that people suddenly treat you differently when you are put together. You don't even have to wear the most expensive clothes you can afford. Way more important is, that the clothes fit you, look well kept. When I started to wear colours and styles that actually flatter me, people began to treat me way better than before. To be honest, it is still unnerving sometimes. Thank you Anna for giving me ideas on how to slowly improve my own style.
Nope. I'm fake middle class with thrifted clothes. 🤣🤣🤷♀️
Same but the thrift store are where we actually can find good quality at great prices!
Good quality clothing last longer , not just expensive looking is a concern I feel...
To anyone who doesn't get Anna's point:
Live your life in a regular day with two different outfits: one smart casual and another "not dress up" (like sportswear). You will check how people behave different, the way the speak to you, their kindness and the respect they show....
I did it long time ago and it's shocking.
The idea that looking expensive or dressing well is a sign of being "fake rich" can be a subjective and somewhat judgmental perspective. People have various reasons for dressing well or investing in their appearance, and it doesn't necessarily indicate insincerity or a lack of authenticity. Here are a few reasons why someone might choose to look expensive or improve their sense of style:
Self-Confidence: Dressing well and feeling put together can boost one's self-esteem and self-confidence. When you feel good about yourself, it can positively impact your overall well-being and interactions with others.
Professionalism: In some industries and professions, a polished appearance is essential. Dressing professionally can help individuals advance in their careers and make a positive impression on clients, colleagues, or employers.
Personal Expression: Fashion and style are forms of self-expression. Some people genuinely enjoy experimenting with clothing and using it as a way to express their creativity and individuality.
Cultural or Social Norms: In certain social or cultural contexts, dressing well is a sign of respect or adherence to traditions. It may be expected or required for formal events, religious ceremonies, or family gatherings.
Mood Enhancement: As you mentioned, dressing better can elevate your mood. Putting effort into your appearance can be a form of self-care and a way to feel good about yourself.
Boosting Motivation: Some people, myself included find that dressing well helps them stay motivated and productive. It can create a sense of purpose and discipline in their daily routines.
While there's nothing inherently wrong with wanting to look expensive or improve your sense of style, it's important to do so in a way that aligns with your values and financial means. You don't have to spend a lot of money to achieve a stylish look; it's possible to find affordable clothing that suits your taste and budget.
Ultimately, judgments about whether someone is "fake rich" based on their appearance can be unfair and unhelpful. People's financial situations and motivations for dressing a certain way are often more complex than they appear, and it's best to avoid making assumptions about others based solely on their outward appearance. Instead, they should focus on your own goals for personal style and self-expression and respect others' choices to do the same.
I'm a working woman and not from an affluent background but I always invest in quality clothing, bags, watches etc. It is not for the world to think I'm wealthy, it is because I love to see myself looking elegant and put-together. It is called educating yourself.
Maybe it's just my interpretation of the content Ana's put out, but I've always felt like as far as clothes, make-up etc (material things), she helps women to work with what they have and can afford to look put together, beautiful, and elegant. Doesn't matter what the $ in their bank account. I've taken her advice and adjusted it so it fits my budget and lifestyle.... let me tell you! After being a LOT more intentional about where I shop, what I shop for, and the make-up I wear/how to correctly apply make up, I'm not breaking the bank. My dress that I'm wearing today was $10, my lipgloss is $7, the eyeshadow palatte was $9. But thanks to Ana, I look expensive, put together and like I had $200 that I spent on my dress and make-up. I feel really beautiful because my outer appearance is exemplifying the beauty I already had
This is the same for me as a student!
I really resonate with this! I've leveled up my everyday grooming and styling since watching your videos and I've never felt more self-validated and put together. When I slack for a day or wear a t-shirt out of the house, I really feel the negative impact on my energy. I've also been practicing stoicism, feeling happy for people instead of jealousy, and I think this is helping me attract the lifestyle I want. I had a very poor and dirty childhood, but I feel like I've overcome that when I carry myself in an elegant and graceful way. Love your message, Anna Bey. You're like the big sister I never had.
Kind of like how standing up straight in a powerful posture makes you feel more confident and powerful, clothes can have the same effect.
"Looking expensive" is not monetary. It is about self-worth. My self-worth is very high indeed.
We live in an age where women sing about their pink ******* We need classy women like Anna to keep us on the right path. Thank you for this channel and telling us like it is!!!
I wish more ppl understand that if they don’t spend their money on 100 items of cheap looking polyester and acrylic clothes, they can afford buying 10 high quality items that would make them feel & look better.
I’m always puzzled by people who follow a channel that say they have no interest in. I also find it mildly amusing that there are people who spend their time and energy harassing influencers simply because they live their life differently. Life is too short to waste your time with channels that don’t interest you. Personally, I love your channel. And I actually really like the version of yourself that you have become compared to where you started. You are ever evolving into the best version of Anna, and not only is it fun to watch but I’m learning things along the way myself. You do you.
The proof of your last words : Maybe someone just wants to feel the richness of that higher quality. the proof is me wearing my most expensive perfume at home for me, even if there's no one around. Enjoying touching my quality clothes even just in the wardrobe.
Has anyone here read the Millionaire Next Door? The majority of millionairs are self made, dont look rich, dont act rich, dont dress rich and are actually rich. That's how they got there in the first place, by not spending. So looking rich is the exact opposite of what a rich person does. Ironic isn't it? Now elegance, that's a different story. That can be done on any budget, and takes style and class to accomplish. Let's not confuse the two.
To look fine u dont need to spend too much money, and not only in classic/elegant outfit u can look fine. U can be sporty, bohemian , romantic, extreme. I cant see why people always need to be anxious to show status. Fantasy is more important.
It's actually quite common for very wealthy people to want to NOT look super rich -- for instance, it can put up a wall with people socially, or make you stand out more to would-be robbers. Wealthy people want the ability to move through life easily and smoothly. It's much easier to do that if you spend on always looking well-groomed and approachable rather than spending on flashy designer logos.
Eh idk. I live in a wealthy neighborhood and it’s about half and half. Our neighborhood has multi millionaires and a billionaire in it. The billionaires wife has no qualms about showing it. Lol
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I agree to a certain extent. Everyone I know who has made a lot of money in a short amount of time are very flashy and have the stereotypical millionaire lifestyle. Those who built up wealth over decades are very low key in how they dress, where they live and what car they drive. I live near a titled family, unless you knew who they were and their yearly placement on the rich list, you would think they are poor. I guess it could be considered a new money/old money divide.
Thank you for another wonderful video! Great audio too - volume and clarity without any mouth sounds. It's a thing!
As a mother of 3 beautiful ladies I love your videos! You are a great back up for my talks!! Keep on trying to keep our women classy:)
Personally, I follow your channel to learn to dress to look more professional and put together. Impressions matter and help me immensely with being taken seriously in work environments. Especially when dressing sloppy seems to be the norm for a lot of barns. (I work with horses)
Anna, you are a good business woman! You might be rich, or your wealth could be artfully arranged photos and videos, but no doubt you are getting richer. And people are jealous.
Money and clothing labels, material stuff doesn't make you rich, your personality your behavior your character your actions make a person rich, having nice well made things are nice however being a elegant and well groomed and classy person is more attractive than all the money in the world. There are material and money rich people who are very ugly in being and there are people who have nothing and have the most beautiful hearts and character who are very attractive. You have taught us to be a beautiful and better character person and how to groom our lives to be a better person and elegant person. Thank you for sharing your experiences and inspiring messages.
The fact that there are people who have a problem with women educating themselves to adjust better in the world that they want to be a part of is sad. You keep up the good work Anna! ❤
Ever since I started following your advices, I've received tons of compliments on the way I dress. And no, I haven't bought anything expensive because I'm still a student, but I do love the thrift shops, and because of you I know what type of fabrics, shapes, and clothing to look for and I feel my best when wearing them. I've rid myself of the habit of being too dressed down and since then I've always felt confident about myself. I also found that dressing up for the day makes me more productive. I agree with you that people are not actually trying to look expensive, it's just that your fashion recommendations work best for most ladies. Plus the timelessness of it is a relief that you don't have to follow trends anymore.
I laughed at the "Guess what? no women on the internet is going to look for videos on how to look cheap"! 😂
I mean, come one! of course the majority of us isn't rich, but this doesn't mean we don't want to look elegant and classy, even if it's on a budget...after all I think everyone can agree on the fact that first impressions matter the most: if you meet your new professors/boss/colleagues/future in law/prospective employers, you want to look your best and make a lasting impression..and the best part is, even if you will never ever wear chic clothes in front of them ever again, they will always talk about you describing you as elegant and classy, plus usually they consider you a serious and reliable person.
What I don't get is why people feel the need to comment that a video triggers them....but maybe don't look at this topics if you know they can trigger you? Like, basic common sense flew out of the window?
I do think there is nothing wrong to stick on your comfortable clothes around the house but that's it - around the house and I do agree once you slop around the house you kind of remain in that state and all you want is to chill mostly all day.
Once you step outside it's different.
I went outside yesterday and I was feeling lazy to dress up. Yeah I felt down and bad because of the clothes that I wore. So I agree with you. Clothes are energy. One of their function is to uplift you and not pull you down.😅
Looking expensive has so many different roots. Lookimg expensive is how we all should feel and I am not talking about money, I refer to have enriched lifed with the things, places and people you share with.
My late grandma was spending most of her time with animals, doing "dirty" and heavy work, other part she spent in a yard and other creating clothes by her own, she had Burda which was the top magazine for tailors those years then, when she could she dresses like a lady, she traveled also sometimes but in my description she was expesive lady, she had a worth for all what she could do and how she acted, how people loved her, how beautiful she was outside and inside. For me, that all makes you being an Expensive person, expensive woman❤
Those of us who view your work are FAMISHED for your brand of honesty. Thank you, Miss Bey. Many, many viewers appreciate you. I wish more of us would take the time and effort to tell you.
In my country people dress VERY laid-back and dressing the way you teach would make people stare at you like you're not mentally ok (unless it's official gathering like wedding). But I still like the advice on styling😂
Dressing well is a personal choice, and elegance doesn’t belong to the upper class only, so you don’t have to be rich in order to be elegant … I mean it’s for everyone
Most of my clothes are from thrift shops, $10 or less on well-made items - old brands people have forgotten and old pieces when they were made well, from brands people do know. Finding the right piece takes time. I work from a list of needs and don't have expectations when i hit the shops. If it's there, it's there, if it's not, it's not...wait for another day. A few from Ross, some well-made from Walmart i bought almost 10 years ago, still in like-new shape. The most I paid was a well-made business suit for work i bought in 2009 that I still wear today, also in like-new condition. Take of the clothes and they will take care of you.
I don’t care about looking rich. The aim is to enjoy getting dressed and feeling like a million bucks wearing the items I found and liked.
I do not think there is anything wrong with faking it. Just don't take it too far. You don't want to be victim of a mugging result of your fashion, either. Being dressed to hold your own no matter who you are around at any given time is my personal goal.😊😊😊
I'm quite on the poor side. I barely scrape by and most of my clothing definitely looks cheap and tattered. My best friend is doing better and she takes the time to keep classy and well kept clothing and accessories in her wardrobe. The difference is night and day in how she looks and, more relevant, in how she's treated by the people around her.
Looking classy will open a lot of doors for you and grant you privileges. Anyone pretending that is not the case is just coping.
I'm not rich and my budget for clothes and accessories is very strict (I usually fix my limits at no more than 50 euros for pants, no more than 20 euros for a shirt/top, no more than 70 euros for a dress, no more than 80 euros for shoes; only for special occasions I can go higher). And I buy a new item just when the old one is really worn to the bone. But choosing wisely while buying and keeping good care of those clothes can do wonders. I own and wear clothes that are technically "fast fashion" (H&M, OVS, Only and the likes) but they have lasted for 6-7 or even 10 years now. And they still look presentable. Maybe you can do something like that?
I’m low income and people consider me to be stylish. Here are my tips:
1. Skip accessories! Don’t buy jewelry, belts, or unnecessary hair accessories. You don’t need really any of these things, they will just drag you down. Take the money that you would spend on something like cheap earrings and put them towards a pair of nicer jeans or nicer shoes. Don’t be fooled by influencers - I get tons of compliments on outfits that only have underwear, bra, socks, shoes, pants, shirt, bag, concealer, lip gloss, mascara.
2. Buy good hair brushes. I have a wet brush, a professional round brush and a Mason Pearson brush with boar bristles. I don’t use hair product and my hair always looks good down.
2. Don’t buy multiple bags or multiple shoes. Declutter anything that is worn out or tattered even if that means you are only using one bag.
3. Don’t overstyle your hair, do your own nails and don’t buy too much makeup. 2 lipsticks are enough. Instead, buy some nice hosiery to wear with skirts and a good bra.
4. Stop comparing yourself to others.
5. Own a smaller wardrobe and save in advance, even if that's 10pm for shoes at H+M.
6. Know what you want in advance and shop the sales.
7. Keep your house tidy and garden neat.
8. Don't buy seasonal home decor or books.
9. Own a few pieces of selected makeup that suits you year round.
Those who write such negative comments are confused with the desire to look classy and elegant. There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to improve yourself. It’s not about being phony or pretentious and those who think it does are only jealous and insecure.
By the way, a classy person would never judge you for who you are...he/she would accept you as you are and for what you bring every single person has something to share that is unique and valuable.
Seems to me some people are threatened by people who want to improve themselves and put in the effort to do so.
I think one of the most attractive qualities is being authentic. That includes being transparent about your upbringing and background. For those pretending like they came up wealthy, a truly rich person will be able to see right through that. However, there’s nothing wrong with a looking your absolute best, while being authentic and transparent about who you are, and where you came from. That’s attractive.
Fast fashion is bad for everyone and everything!
I never judge those that don’t take pride in how they look or present themselves to the world BUT it should go the other way too for me to not be harshly judged because I DO take effort and pride in the way I present myself and overall feel like I’m my best.
I love this video, as you said nobody wakes up trying to look and feel bad, there’s nothing better than feeling confident and pretty. BTW your smile looks amazing 👏🏼 👏🏼
Your awesome ppl can say what they want dressing well and looking our best brings out the best in us. I love how you start the video by saying no one looks for a video on how to look cheap.
It's not just a way to dress, it's also a matter of how you're putting yourself together inside as you said, so many people struggle to understand that apparently, how sad. Sometimes I think about who I would be if I didn't change my habits, challenge myself and change my wardrobe... I prefer not to know honestly!
The way you say: if I am a loser in their eyes it would not change my day….😮!!!!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 aha moment for me.! Thank you Anna for being like this🙌🏻
Hmmmm. If people equate dressing classy with trying too hard to look rich, that's proof that our society has really given up on personal appearance. When you see pictures of middle class people from before 1970, they dressed classy.
yep the downfall happened with the drop of dress code in schools in 1973....then moved into the workplace........people dress as slobs these days...even ones who have the money
Im far from wealthy, I live on a budget and that doesn't stop me from looking out for pieces that make me look better dresses and put together. I often get criticized with "just pick anything, it doesnt matter". But it does matter, I want the right color, the right shape, a good fabric.
And specially because I dont have much money to buy clothes, oll buy pieces that are worthy, not just anything
Some people who lack the senses to perceive and feel happiness will always try to bring yours down by criticizing your financial vs. appearance disparity. They don’t want to you to feel good or happiness by constantly pointing out how you should not stay put together despite not having enough financial strength. They want you to look bad so that they can look good. They want to keep you poor so that they can appear wealthy. If you want to level up and if that’s something which makes you feel good about yourself, just go ahead and don’t listen to these trash-mouths who constantly tries to bring you down no matter how well you do to improve yourself
Many people can't understand the purpose of this channel. Anna teaches us how to be the best version of ourselves, how to be put together but mostly how to elevate our manners!
Personally I improved my knowledge in style and I'm learning how to elevate a simple outfit. This doesn't mean I want to show off wealth, just have a nice and tidy appearance
It's crazy how wanting to look nice is attacked yet looking 'frumpy' well... you MUST repect that... so backwards! So to each their own and ANYONE dissing a well dressed woman either can't keep up or is simply jealous. Take care Anna and I love your videos xo 😊😊
I just don’t get these comments. Because I don’t come from a wealthy background I should dress like a peasant ? Nonsense.
Exactly !!
As clothes are getting more expensive, I am looking for something that looks "basic" in muted colours. I can mix and match and look professional and put together with minimum effort. It's a win.
My work puts me in social settings with "rich" people. They know I am working for them and that I am not rich but I know they value that I try and LOOK like I belong in the room. In some ways, the way I look, and act, is a reflection on all of them so I NEED to look the part. I am thankful for the good advice I have gotten watching these videos.
My life has improved a 100% since I look elegant, and yes a lot of people (women) hate me, but the right ones support you and respect You.
Rich people dress however they want, they’re not thinking about what people who aren’t their direct peers are thinking. I am an advocate of everyone doing the same. Just show up with the correct attire when it matters, and to Anna’s point, wear what is going to make you feel confident and powerful going about your day.
It's true though. I am a substitute teacher and one day all these other subs and I were at a school. There was a woman wearing jeans and a plain t-shirt. Also, it didn't help her that she was cleaning the kitchen. We all thought she was the cleaning lady. She was actually another substitute teacher.
Later, I went to sub for another school and this man was really dressed up and he said something about people washing their hands and splashing the water. I hadn't washed my hands there that day, but that's beyond the point. People were saying oh the principal got mad. We later found out he was the janitor and didn't understand why he was so dressed up. But yeah, that's why he was mad about the water splash.
Anna I love your confidence in this video. You are not just describing in words the feeling you get from expensive clothes/expensive looking clothes but it can be seen in your expression and body language. And that's what you learn after giving years to the thing you love. Love from India ❤
Anna has been teaching us to dress elegantly long before the ''old money'' trend was out there. I am not rich AT ALL but i love her channel, I love her tips. Haters going to hate!
Wealthy? New money or Old money? If a lady wants to break into Old Money then forget it ...... Your parents, education, background plays into it far more than the ability to buy an expensive handbag. Breaking into New Money? Physical beauty is more likely to open the doors.
However, I have enjoyed watching Anna's postings because I think she is trying to build ladies up rather than put them down!
Be expensive to me means looking stylish ,on point,elegant,put together,wearing things appriopriate to the situation/event,etc.😊 ❤️
I like this channel, I learned several tips, and I really enjoy watching high-quality videos. It seems that nowadays we need to understand the words barrier, the word expensive is not relevant for many, but could be unattractive for others, and I just associated to attractive, for me the title would mean how to look attractive, Claryfing the intention of the video is totally professional🎉Keep doing your great videos🎉
Don’t think it’s wrong to elevate your class and status with clothing, plus you can do it buying fast fashion, just pick the right stuff…
HIGH QUALITY FASHION, PUT TOGETHER OUTFITS CREATE POSITIVE ENERGY!!! I could never articulate how high quality, put together outfits made me feel...they give me POSITIVE UPLIFTING ENERGY TO SPREAD TO OTHERS AROUND ME!!! 😁😁😁
Would anyone be interested in s video teaching women how to level down???? I don’t think so!Women, by nature, are vain. I have never met a woman who lost her looks and feels like she doesn’t look nice and feels good about it. This is why I find that person’s question absurd. Vanity is only bad when you are condescending to others and you perceive yourself to be better than everyone else.
I usually dress up nice and elegant do my makeup and hair but in some cases I opt for casual clothing if it's practical. I remember once going to the doctor so I just put on a basic top with a pair of jeans and after I grabbed some stuff at the drugstore. The cashier looked down on me so bad for not looking fancy and she was really rude with me I'll never forget this experience. Funny part is she might have thought I'm some lower class uncultured folk however chances are my net worth is greater than hers. People are disappointing
I think a good and clean make up helps lipstick 💄
A good hair day
A good smell
Painted nails 💅
Then even the outfit is not so awesome that day, we look still kind of well put together; I’ve seen some people lacking the above and even they were wearing really nice outfits they truly didn’t look on point 🤣
even on my "sloppy" days, i have minimum requirements.
shower, hair, minimal makeup & my "athleisure" clothes are flattering & not all ratty. i look casual & relaxed, but not unkept.