Alcoholic MIL Who Abandoned My Husband 20 years Ago Is Now Sending Personal Gifts To Reconnect

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  • @Karlos1234ify
    @Karlos1234ify 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    If you personally throw your kid away & want nothing to do with them, they have no right to try to reconnect. That MIL is either crazy, wants something or is dying

  • @tracyowens8645
    @tracyowens8645 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Hi everyone, hope your having a blessed day!

  • @budsbunny8813
    @budsbunny8813 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    OP at fault for thinking that life is all flowers and butterflies... MIL action for the past 2 decade is more than enough proof that she hasn't change...
    What makes you think that you know better😂😂😂

  • @jackiehenry3372
    @jackiehenry3372 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    She's been gone for 20 yrs, let her stay gone. He needs counseling. That trauma can always come back.

  • @sherriewofford2136
    @sherriewofford2136 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Don't trust his mother

  • @silveritea
    @silveritea 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    The MIL was abusive. Period. And showed she hasn’t changed by trying to force her son to forgive her.

  • @brimstonefondue
    @brimstonefondue 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Husband clearly needs therapy. He doesn't know how to process his feelings. He doesn't have to let mom back into his life, but I really do think he needs to talk to someone.

  • @jessicawilkinson920
    @jessicawilkinson920 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I feel op, I had a dad that neglected me and abusive. He tries on occasions to reconnect but I wont. He is more about boys then his own daughter.

  • @daishawilliams8301
    @daishawilliams8301 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    She lost her right to ask for help when she aboned him 😊.

  • @MsStevil
    @MsStevil 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The fact that she is stalking you would be very concerning. While she is in jail I would seriously consider moving far away and possibly even changing your names so that she can never find you again. I would hate to bring a child into the world with the worry of what she may do in the future.

  • @janmarie3976
    @janmarie3976 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Check your house for electronic bugs listening devices

  • @Neyfufu00
    @Neyfufu00 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    7:40 just because u see her in pain doesn't matter. If your husband said no then that's that. It's his mom not yours. Their relationship is different then yours with him. Her opinions and thoughts shouldn't be swayed just because shes trying. He's will talk to her when he wants too

  • @karlyr9885
    @karlyr9885 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    20 years later and she's been clean for weeks.... oh hell no

  • @nimisilverbird1239
    @nimisilverbird1239 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Nta. Do not invite her into your home. Do not force or nudge your husband to do anything with her. She doesn't want to give him motherly love. She wants to con him into some bs that he will have to pay for while she runs off again

  • @leondillon8723
    @leondillon8723 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The meddling wife caused the problems. He told that he did not want anything to do with Der Mutter. She decided to go behind his back to play peacemaker. Only she was like an USAF B36 Peacemaker. I saw my mother in jail a few times. I told my former wife that I joined the US Army to get far away from her. I warned that if she contacted my mother, it would be the end for us.

    • @robertx8020
      @robertx8020 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You must be single

  • @jamarwhite7191
    @jamarwhite7191 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Exactly why I’m not a fan of drinking..seen a lot of crazy things..once my uncle climbed a tree to sleep in it..he definitely had better options..and he snores loudly.

  • @kelleyk28
    @kelleyk28 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think the wife did the right thing. It could have been much worse if MIL got to him first. At least she could be a buffer.

  • @CareyBilley
    @CareyBilley 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    OP’s MIL is sorry for nothing

  • @misn757
    @misn757 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Welcome back, Mr. Reddito! We missed your voice!

  • @anndennis7163
    @anndennis7163 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's best to stay out of the middle of a parent child battle. You can only lose.

  • @qnkendra1523
    @qnkendra1523 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    clean for a couple of weeks.... that's someone just starting their recovery. I wouldn't trust an addict who treated their child the way she did- and let their victim be the leader of any attempts at reconnecting. The victim is not responsible for making their abuser feel better.

  • @GoldenFireDragons
    @GoldenFireDragons 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just like MM cut off the people who were causing her pain and now the public who do not know her hate her.

  • @crawdaddy2004
    @crawdaddy2004 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    OMG OP! Please stop helping MIL! She is doing this for herself, not for DH.

  • @danielletirado6938
    @danielletirado6938 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She’s definitely bipolar

  • @jazzie-sanbelle99
    @jazzie-sanbelle99 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Clearly op was right trust your inner mind and that mil is what I refer to as toxic trash 🗑 thst should stay from exposure to clean air, you'll just get 🤒 ill forget her and move on be happy and live ur best life without toxicity 😊

  • @jackiehenry3372
    @jackiehenry3372 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Is your house bugged?

  • @anrexfk
    @anrexfk 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    OP it is all of your fault.

  • @tashastout7343
    @tashastout7343 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You let the women burn you 3x. An the 3rd is when now the lights have come on. The 1st meeting said alot, and listening throughout. Is just glutton for punishment

  • @janmarie3976
    @janmarie3976 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Stay out of this you do not want a part of this your husband will not appreciate you and he will not thank you for butting in

  • @AKSHITATiwariXIIArtsA
    @AKSHITATiwariXIIArtsA 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Any South Asian here ?

  • @ricksimundza7125
    @ricksimundza7125 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Discuss with hubby