If you personally throw your kid away & want nothing to do with them, they have no right to try to reconnect. That MIL is either crazy, wants something or is dying
OP at fault for thinking that life is all flowers and butterflies... MIL action for the past 2 decade is more than enough proof that she hasn't change... What makes you think that you know better😂😂😂
Husband clearly needs therapy. He doesn't know how to process his feelings. He doesn't have to let mom back into his life, but I really do think he needs to talk to someone.
The fact that she is stalking you would be very concerning. While she is in jail I would seriously consider moving far away and possibly even changing your names so that she can never find you again. I would hate to bring a child into the world with the worry of what she may do in the future.
7:40 just because u see her in pain doesn't matter. If your husband said no then that's that. It's his mom not yours. Their relationship is different then yours with him. Her opinions and thoughts shouldn't be swayed just because shes trying. He's will talk to her when he wants too
Nta. Do not invite her into your home. Do not force or nudge your husband to do anything with her. She doesn't want to give him motherly love. She wants to con him into some bs that he will have to pay for while she runs off again
The meddling wife caused the problems. He told that he did not want anything to do with Der Mutter. She decided to go behind his back to play peacemaker. Only she was like an USAF B36 Peacemaker. I saw my mother in jail a few times. I told my former wife that I joined the US Army to get far away from her. I warned that if she contacted my mother, it would be the end for us.
Exactly why I’m not a fan of drinking..seen a lot of crazy things..once my uncle climbed a tree to sleep in it..he definitely had better options..and he snores loudly.
clean for a couple of weeks.... that's someone just starting their recovery. I wouldn't trust an addict who treated their child the way she did- and let their victim be the leader of any attempts at reconnecting. The victim is not responsible for making their abuser feel better.
Clearly op was right trust your inner mind and that mil is what I refer to as toxic trash 🗑 thst should stay from exposure to clean air, you'll just get 🤒 ill forget her and move on be happy and live ur best life without toxicity 😊
You let the women burn you 3x. An the 3rd is when now the lights have come on. The 1st meeting said alot, and listening throughout. Is just glutton for punishment
If you personally throw your kid away & want nothing to do with them, they have no right to try to reconnect. That MIL is either crazy, wants something or is dying
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OP at fault for thinking that life is all flowers and butterflies... MIL action for the past 2 decade is more than enough proof that she hasn't change...
What makes you think that you know better😂😂😂
She's been gone for 20 yrs, let her stay gone. He needs counseling. That trauma can always come back.
Don't trust his mother
The MIL was abusive. Period. And showed she hasn’t changed by trying to force her son to forgive her.
Husband clearly needs therapy. He doesn't know how to process his feelings. He doesn't have to let mom back into his life, but I really do think he needs to talk to someone.
I feel op, I had a dad that neglected me and abusive. He tries on occasions to reconnect but I wont. He is more about boys then his own daughter.
She lost her right to ask for help when she aboned him 😊.
The fact that she is stalking you would be very concerning. While she is in jail I would seriously consider moving far away and possibly even changing your names so that she can never find you again. I would hate to bring a child into the world with the worry of what she may do in the future.
Check your house for electronic bugs listening devices
7:40 just because u see her in pain doesn't matter. If your husband said no then that's that. It's his mom not yours. Their relationship is different then yours with him. Her opinions and thoughts shouldn't be swayed just because shes trying. He's will talk to her when he wants too
20 years later and she's been clean for weeks.... oh hell no
Nta. Do not invite her into your home. Do not force or nudge your husband to do anything with her. She doesn't want to give him motherly love. She wants to con him into some bs that he will have to pay for while she runs off again
The meddling wife caused the problems. He told that he did not want anything to do with Der Mutter. She decided to go behind his back to play peacemaker. Only she was like an USAF B36 Peacemaker. I saw my mother in jail a few times. I told my former wife that I joined the US Army to get far away from her. I warned that if she contacted my mother, it would be the end for us.
You must be single
Exactly why I’m not a fan of drinking..seen a lot of crazy things..once my uncle climbed a tree to sleep in it..he definitely had better options..and he snores loudly.
I think the wife did the right thing. It could have been much worse if MIL got to him first. At least she could be a buffer.
OP’s MIL is sorry for nothing
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It's best to stay out of the middle of a parent child battle. You can only lose.
clean for a couple of weeks.... that's someone just starting their recovery. I wouldn't trust an addict who treated their child the way she did- and let their victim be the leader of any attempts at reconnecting. The victim is not responsible for making their abuser feel better.
Just like MM cut off the people who were causing her pain and now the public who do not know her hate her.
OMG OP! Please stop helping MIL! She is doing this for herself, not for DH.
She’s definitely bipolar
Clearly op was right trust your inner mind and that mil is what I refer to as toxic trash 🗑 thst should stay from exposure to clean air, you'll just get 🤒 ill forget her and move on be happy and live ur best life without toxicity 😊
Is your house bugged?
OP it is all of your fault.
You let the women burn you 3x. An the 3rd is when now the lights have come on. The 1st meeting said alot, and listening throughout. Is just glutton for punishment
Stay out of this you do not want a part of this your husband will not appreciate you and he will not thank you for butting in
Any South Asian here ?
Discuss with hubby