MIL Demanded I Give One Of My Baby To My Spoiled SIL This Xmas Coz She Cant Hold Any Men For Long

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  • @amberleeannalee1999
    @amberleeannalee1999 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Why the hell didn’t Op and hubby publicly call her out for EXACTLY what they are demanding? Just why. The only way to melt a narcissist is SHAME. Shame her arse

  • @stephaniepedersen7919
    @stephaniepedersen7919 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    Not only the SIL needs to be checked out but MIL also needs a padded cell

    • @LunaP1
      @LunaP1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      With this whole madness, they sound like escaped mental patients.

    • @BIGBLOCK5022006
      @BIGBLOCK5022006 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      And a straight jacket.

    • @heididietrich9800
      @heididietrich9800 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know, right?

    • @neilo.hislop950
      @neilo.hislop950 ปีที่แล้ว

      Definitely has Mental Problems.

    • @joancampbell1377
      @joancampbell1377 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly just crazy

  • @mbyerly9680
    @mbyerly9680 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Why the heck are OP and her husband allowing his mom around their children when she considers them to be less than pets and might give them to a stranger who needs a child? That woman is bonkers.

  • @kdfischer5910
    @kdfischer5910 ปีที่แล้ว +210

    She doesn't need a baby her and the mother need a therapist.. we're at the very least a good padded room

    • @indirastone7382
      @indirastone7382 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      How about an Order Of Protection? Setting and enforcing boundaries is effective, as well. There’s no mental health issues. Just over-the-top abuse, bullying & entitlement.

    • @nerdygeekgamer5528
      @nerdygeekgamer5528 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah MIL and SIL are 200,000 % UNHINGED I'm not sure what WORM HOLE those two fell out of but they need to be put back

    • @johnpatricklim4509
      @johnpatricklim4509 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      With a straight jacket as an added bonus....

  • @MrBeevee5
    @MrBeevee5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I actually laughed out loud when I realized OP was pregnant yet again and even more so when it was a girl. Just what the Princess ordered. Haha. That fact was just too perfect.

  • @anthonystike6034
    @anthonystike6034 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    Story # 1: SIL is a perfect example of a narcissist.

    • @LunaP1
      @LunaP1 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And a whackadoodle.

    • @DrownedInExile
      @DrownedInExile ปีที่แล้ว +12

      And OP and husband are good examples of doormats.

    • @veldasnyder2144
      @veldasnyder2144 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I could not have said it better!

    • @an-alechianeathery770
      @an-alechianeathery770 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@DrownedInExile right,narcist, in title and both MIL and SIL arw use getting everything handed to her and a sliver platter.

    • @mstree9173
      @mstree9173 ปีที่แล้ว

      And a spoiled brat

  • @leamcclain1648
    @leamcclain1648 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Give SIL a baby for Xmas? Nah,sis, you're getting a Starbucks gift card!

    • @chezsnailez
      @chezsnailez ปีที่แล้ว +8

      No, sis, you're getting a Dunkin's gift card...

    • @danielbarber8387
      @danielbarber8387 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@chezsnailez A Dunkin card would be perfect if she was my relative since there isn't a Dunkin location within 150 miles.

    • @BIGBLOCK5022006
      @BIGBLOCK5022006 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I would gladly take a Starbucks card.

    • @jasondyrkacz8270
      @jasondyrkacz8270 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SIL deserves a punch to the face. MIL too.

    • @joancampbell1377
      @joancampbell1377 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So funny

  • @k.s.k.7721
    @k.s.k.7721 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    Let's not forget that "No" is a complete sentence. The reasoning behind why OP will not hand over a baby to her SIL is irrelevant. Even if the SIL was a wonderful person, infertile and desperate for a child, it makes no difference. The SIL's attitude is not the problem, it's the asking in the first place, no matter the circumstances.

    • @thecassandraeffectvsperilo6754
      @thecassandraeffectvsperilo6754 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I love to remind people that the word "No" is an answer, NOT a jumping off point for a negotiation 🤨

    • @karimygirl5826
      @karimygirl5826 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Asking is even forgivable but NOT accepting NO Way as an answer that's sus 😳😨

    • @alexisjardine4930
      @alexisjardine4930 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's why I'm surprised so many people sided with SIL on the blog. Is OP SIRE they lived in town and not a staged mental hospital or some elaborate social experiment?

    • @lawli56
      @lawli56 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I honestly think that there is something seriously mentally wrong with the pair of them.

    • @415ilduce
      @415ilduce 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I completely agree with all that, but let's not forget that it was supposed to be a Xmas present

  • @PatrickCervantez
    @PatrickCervantez ปีที่แล้ว +181

    Oh my God, that ending was fabulous. Not only does your husband whisk you away from his toxic family to go live in *FRANCE,* but you also find out you're pregnant on Christmas Eve, _and_ have a baby girl?? Pampered Princess must've had a meltdown that would've made Chernobyl look like a science fair volcano. There's irony and then there's God playing the old Uno reverse card and saying fuck you in particular to Pampered Princess.
    Sounds too good to be true, but I'm still entertained.

    • @stephaniewilson3955
      @stephaniewilson3955 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      And France is such a great place to live with proper health care.

    • @MrBeevee5
      @MrBeevee5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      The irony did make me wonder if the last Update was a pure fake.

    • @angelawilliams1451
      @angelawilliams1451 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Too good to be true.😅

  • @earlinejackson8151
    @earlinejackson8151 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Don’t let down your guard! People with their resources can find out where you are. And don’t put international kidnapping beyond the scope of their entitlement. Definitely warn your children’s school and caregivers.

    • @stephaniewilson3955
      @stephaniewilson3955 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      In France they take such matters very seriously and it will not just be the local Gendarmes who will act. They have something similar to your national guard but far more assertive and not to be messed with. Moving to France was such a good idea!

    • @BIGBLOCK5022006
      @BIGBLOCK5022006 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@stephaniewilson3955 The GIGN does not take kindly to criminals. They are like the GSG-9 in Germany.

  • @hbikerbob7210
    @hbikerbob7210 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You need a good lawyer and sue them for slander, harassment and who knows what else

  • @anthonyrowlodge5357
    @anthonyrowlodge5357 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    She only wants the child for the title of mother, not for the love of being a mother, just something she can post on her insta and blog for the attention and use the child as a dress up doll, while forcing the maid to do all the hard stuff of being a parent.

    • @BIGBLOCK5022006
      @BIGBLOCK5022006 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      *Ding* *Ding* Winner Winner Chicken Dinner!

  • @vegaspatt9322
    @vegaspatt9322 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Send the SIL a Pet Rock, she should be able to take care of that.

    • @PuppyKatt
      @PuppyKatt ปีที่แล้ว

      Nah; she will have some tantrum when the rock does not bend to her demands, and end up tossing it out a window.

    • @jasondyrkacz8270
      @jasondyrkacz8270 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The pet rock would probably die.

  • @momshardrockvideos
    @momshardrockvideos ปีที่แล้ว +403

    Entitlement is NOT a mental illness! Her parents helped make her that way and she’s going along with it. Stop saying bad behavior is due to mental illness. It’s not. As someone who actually has a mental illness, we don’t use it as an excuse to behave badly. In fact we try to be on our best behavior as much as possible. We take our meds, go to therapy and do what is right. The sil and mil are not I’ll just assholes!

    • @DJ-ri7me
      @DJ-ri7me ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agree 100 percent both MIL and SIL are entitled not mentally ill

    • @PuppyKatt
      @PuppyKatt ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Please do not say that, momshardrockvideos. Many people with mental illness DO NOT realize it, or don't take their meds or go for help. I know that, because it took me a very long time to go for and get help. By the time I realized that I was the problem, not the rest of the world, I had destroyed every family relationship that I had, except for my birth father and 2 older brothers.
      Even though I am under excellent care now, and take my meds as prescribed, my dad and brothers are now passed away, and I have nobody, not even my own children. Forgiveness, love, and understanding definately do not exist in my family, and even friends have abandoned me. At age 65, I have now given up waiting for prior relationships to renew. Totally abandoned, but my small circle of new friends know of my problems, and accept me for who I am.

    • @AngryReptileKeeper
      @AngryReptileKeeper ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@PuppyKatt Nah, booboo. Momshardrockvideos is 100% correct.

    • @amberleeannalee1999
      @amberleeannalee1999 ปีที่แล้ว

      Borderline personality disorder and possibly histrionic personality disorder

    • @robertx8020
      @robertx8020 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AngryReptileKeeper I would say 99% at best
      There are some ppl so deep in a mental illness that meds and 'doing your best' doesn't work anymore!

  • @elspethgraham9531
    @elspethgraham9531 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This story reminds me of another reddit post from a few years ago. This woman and her husband were pregnant with twins. The MIL and SIL were insistent that this woman give up one of her twins since the SIL was unable (?) to get pregnant. Some crazy people like this MIL think children are disposable.

  • @j.d.4055
    @j.d.4055 ปีที่แล้ว +194

    I would have filed restraining orders and no contact orders against both MIL and SIL for both you, your husband and the kids after that phone call while you were pregnant. Don't call or text them, don't even tell them anything. Just file the orders and have them served to the in-laws. Tell the rest of the family why you have those orders against those 2. Then have the family post on SIL's blog to clear your name by telling what's really going on. If need be, file harassment charges against them. Record any conversation they try to have with you, either by phone or in person. If they show up to your home, call the cops and have them trespassed. And keep any texts you get from them. You may need to get the authorities involved, even from France.

    • @stephaniewilson3955
      @stephaniewilson3955 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      You are dealing with the filthy rich here. Escaping to France and ignoring the narcissists is the better move by far.

    • @BIGBLOCK5022006
      @BIGBLOCK5022006 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I would obtain a CCW permit, a handgun that is chambered for .45 ACP with extra magazines and a Mossberg or Remington that's loaded with rock salt shells or bean bag rounds.

    • @laylachristina5605
      @laylachristina5605 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I know that's the right and smart thing to do, but every time I think it the only 'solution' I could think of involved a bat and not so nice visit to the ones that want to stole my baby. In fact, some legs would be already broken by the end of the 3th update.

    • @Kayenne54
      @Kayenne54 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      No contact. Leave without any forwarding address and for the Love of Mike keep off social media with dumb updates about "Here we are at our New House in XYZ location". *Tell 'em nothing, take 'em nowhere, and drop them off halfway without a map, stark naked, face down in a barbed wire canoe without paddles, headed for Niagara Falls.*

    • @masterfulmoonlighter5402
      @masterfulmoonlighter5402 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The real world is nothing like an Apple Texts story, restraining orders are not that easy to get, none of your dick swinging would ever work, you can't just go crying to a judge and they three bajillion years in the gulag with millions of fines, nothing you say you would do would work

  • @stoopingfalcon891
    @stoopingfalcon891 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    The sense of entitlement and delusional thinking on the part of MiL and SiL is frightening.

  • @aulduronsmith5577
    @aulduronsmith5577 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    "Oh sorry I didn't tell you before, but I got my tubes tied after the last baby was born. Sorry"

    • @MrBeevee5
      @MrBeevee5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The 4th baby would make you out to be a liar.

    • @aulduronsmith5577
      @aulduronsmith5577 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@MrBeevee5 Yeah, I posted that before I got to the 4th baby.

  • @sheliawaymon9023
    @sheliawaymon9023 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Tell MIL to get pregnant and give it to her daughter!!! LMAO 🤣😂

  • @andrewingalls481
    @andrewingalls481 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Those pink frills match her red flags perfectly.

  • @marciaspiegel5280
    @marciaspiegel5280 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    NC to both sil and mil permanently. If violated even once, get restraining order. Leave mil to support the little sleaze with no help.

  • @Dreamerlighting
    @Dreamerlighting ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I would ! Get a restraining order !!!!! Big time

  • @bernedettekuteyi3843
    @bernedettekuteyi3843 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Story 1: Sister in-law is not mental, remember she gets whatever she wants from her parents and no one has ever told her "NO".

    • @stephaniewilson3955
      @stephaniewilson3955 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree. She is just too rich and pampered.

    • @aggiev8561
      @aggiev8561 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Imagine what would happen if the child told her "no" ...

    • @harleyquinn5774
      @harleyquinn5774 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's just 1 of 2 ways Pathological Narcissists are made. The other is child abuse.

    • @Justheretowatchtheworldburn
      @Justheretowatchtheworldburn 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@harleyquinn5774this. I was just about to make this comment. Narcissistic people are made not born. Environmental factors and sever or prolonged trauma can cause people to become so detached that they begin to live in this self centered reality and the behavior is all but impossible to change. It requires a commitment on the part of the narcissist and an absolute crap ton of hard work on the self. Not only changing behaviors but worldview as well. Women are also much more prone to developing bpd so perhaps she may suffer from that. Idk. Just putting in my two cents.

  • @PowerStruggle555
    @PowerStruggle555 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    we all know if OP went through with it (or if they paid someone to do it). SIL would treat it like a accessory, but have Mara be the one to feed it, take care of it, diaper changes, care for it, etc. All SIL would do is show it off like a brand new piece of jewlery. Heck I wont be surprise the moment it actually becomes hard (like wont sleep, wants attention, etc) she'll return it and say its defective. OP can have it back and wants a new one.

    • @ravenfox926
      @ravenfox926 ปีที่แล้ว

      Her Blog was a thing of beauty - perfectly showing just what kind of self centered Twatwaffle she is.

  • @scotthultin7769
    @scotthultin7769 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I pray you share this thread with your mother-in-law because she's loony for raising the daughter like that I can't imagine that she was raised any different by her mother please do not give her a child do not even let her get a child better yet share this thread and all he text messages from your mom with CPS and let them know that this woman is crazy and your sister-in-law is even crazier

  • @paulwilliams5208
    @paulwilliams5208 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    that would be creepy as all hell, kid grows up with a "single narcissist mother" and later find out their farther is their uncle

    • @michellehull7720
      @michellehull7720 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ihaveanawesomelyhandsomeson,hewillbe41injan,,,2o23,,,,....hullismybirthname.

    • @michellehull7720
      @michellehull7720 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alsoiamyourmother,,,,,,,doyouknowhowtogetholdtofyoursister,,,,,iminarlington,,,tx,,,,,,,homeless,,,,,,,,happy birthday,,,

  • @2424lunabell
    @2424lunabell ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Who else watching this called the final update as she was pregnant.

    • @MrBeevee5
      @MrBeevee5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me, me, me.

  • @ravenfox926
    @ravenfox926 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'd have looked at MIL and said, "Last I checked, this isn't an episode of A Handmaid Tale and also.........NOT AN EFFING BROODMARE!

  • @bleachboi4460
    @bleachboi4460 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Did anyone else laughed when Op said that she gave birth to a baby girl just like her SIL wanted. Really glad Op is doing ok and they can live in blissed now

  • @KCmetwo
    @KCmetwo ปีที่แล้ว +56

    What needs to happen is this...MIL and FIL need to MAKE the SIL get a job and FORCE her to grow up and act her age. FIL should have blocked off her cards and things since she had a HUGE blog filled with harassment, disinformation as well as what some could call slander. The fact that MIL made a threat to OP is somethin else they need to look into as well. FIL needs to have both of them evaluated by mental health professionals, but mostly, make the daughter grow up, otherwise she won't find anyone and they will be supporting her ALL of their life and hers.

    • @stephaniewilson3955
      @stephaniewilson3955 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They are rich enough not to care. After all, the staff clear up after SIL.

    • @ashlook2001
      @ashlook2001 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This

    • @katarinatibai8396
      @katarinatibai8396 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Narcissists necer grow up -that is mission impossible for MIL and SIS - buth are midrange narcissists - crazy spoiled brats.

  • @gabinathan5499
    @gabinathan5499 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I THINK THAT BOTH THE
    MOTHER IN LAW +THE SISTER
    INLAW NEED TO HAVE THEIR
    HEADS EXAMINED BY A
    NEUROLOGIST / SPECIALIST.

  • @mucksavage84
    @mucksavage84 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So even after the suggestion of giving away your 6 yr old you "werent sure" about spending xmas with them?!
    Id have gone no contact at that moment

  • @janandbruceadamsvanadventu3226
    @janandbruceadamsvanadventu3226 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Maybe they should buy SIL one of those real life looking babies.

    • @megandunnett7900
      @megandunnett7900 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂 the sort they give the kids in health class in the movies that do nothing but cry.

    • @janandbruceadamsvanadventu3226
      @janandbruceadamsvanadventu3226 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@megandunnett7900 When I was in school, they didn't have anything like that. As a matter of fact, they didn't even have electric typewriters

  • @allisoniuculano8496
    @allisoniuculano8496 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Good for Op and her husband for moving away from op's husband's family.

    • @DrownedInExile
      @DrownedInExile ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Took them bloody long enough to grow some spines and take action.

  • @scarter8137
    @scarter8137 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Geez, sounds like SIL definitely needs therapy and MIL needs to be committed!

  • @trudifruty6078
    @trudifruty6078 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Have your own Christmas dinner at your own home

  • @biohazard20161
    @biohazard20161 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Both MIL, and SIL are nuts.

  • @faraht1250
    @faraht1250 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    o.o SIL can't even take care of herself and you want to take care of another life? I wouldn't trust a puppy to her. No... I don't even trust her with a goldfish or a cactus.

  • @Orbitalmercury
    @Orbitalmercury ปีที่แล้ว +16

    So SIL wants to have a baby without getting pregnant herself and wants to play mummy with the baby fathered by her brother.
    Someone asks sil who the baby daddy is ( oh my brother is ) lol

    • @MrBeevee5
      @MrBeevee5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Since OP was too "selfish" to do it herself, SIL ought to have found a surrogate replacement for her brother to breed. Hahaha.

    • @Orbitalmercury
      @Orbitalmercury ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MrBeevee5 could've gone to new jersey or Rhode island as brother and sister can breed legally in those states. Could've has the perfect genes of them both 😆 🤣 😂

  • @DrownedInExile
    @DrownedInExile ปีที่แล้ว +29

    "SiL hasn't said a single positive thing to us in 10 years"
    Aaaaand is there some reason why OP and her brother still talk to the little brat? SMH. If more people confronted and removed toxic jerks in their lives, instead of letting them fester, the world would be a slightly better place.

    • @AzraelThanatos
      @AzraelThanatos ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It sounded more like they had a relatively okay contact with MIL (until this shit started) and it was more of SIL tagging along and a thing of getting stuck with both of them

    • @DrownedInExile
      @DrownedInExile ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@AzraelThanatos Oh I don't think so. If OP or husband had pushed back even slightly against SiL, mommy's true colours would have slimed out like a backed-up toilet. Which they should have done years ago. You can't go through life afraid to pick a fight. Especially when one is brought to you.

    • @robertx8020
      @robertx8020 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DrownedInExile Maybe she liked FIL?

    • @invisigoth510
      @invisigoth510 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      One of the subreddits (justnoMIL maybe?) has a FAQ about boat rockers & boat steadiers that would explain why the couple remained in contact.
      The jist of it is the husband in this case is used to his family’s crazy & thinks it’s normal & he wants to stay in contact with his family. Mom’s & sis’ crazy rocks the boat while husband steadies the boat to compensate for the crazy.
      Wife comes in & says, this is crazy & not normal & we need to duck out. & husband says no this is normal. He can’t see that it’s crazy until the crazy ramps up enough to tip the boat over even with him steadying it

    • @DrownedInExile
      @DrownedInExile ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@invisigoth510 Whatever their reasons, they aren't good ones. Granted in life, we have to pick our battles. But also, if you don't stand up, you fall. Or someone else takes the fall for you.

  • @Zeryurijin
    @Zeryurijin ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I've heard of man child in various stories but after hearing this one. First time of hearing a woman child. 29 yrs old throws tantrums like a little 4 year old? no job no life? Yeah agree with some people. No its not a mental health issue, MIL is an absolute garbage of a parent. I am utterly amazed OP's husband turned out the way he did living with that kind of mother under the roof.

    • @stephaniewilson3955
      @stephaniewilson3955 ปีที่แล้ว

      The servants probably raised him.

    • @MrBeevee5
      @MrBeevee5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe MIL is like SIL, wanted girls to play dolls with. OP's husband was a boy so was treated normally.

  • @aleksandarvil5718
    @aleksandarvil5718 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    *No Contacts and Restraining Order Required !!!*

  • @juicymelonblc
    @juicymelonblc ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So the bio father of sil baby would be her brother... Just nasty

    • @mflyn801
      @mflyn801 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The baby would most likely have birth defects from having brother and sister DNA and the mil and fil would certainly abandon the child.

  • @scotthultin7769
    @scotthultin7769 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    If you give the child to your sister-in-law without adoption papers or anything like that she can come after both of you for 25% of your take home pay and I believe that's what your mother-in-law's after cuz she knows she can't handle paying for everything for her so she wants her to get money from somewhere else and mother-in-law will take care of the job you'll still be paying please stop all of this because you can't give somebody a child they have to deserve it being in a loving family will help I can't see that happening from your story so far

    • @diy_nailsby_heidi_r3889
      @diy_nailsby_heidi_r3889 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I was thinking about the same thing! WHY would MIL want her "Pampered Princess" to undergone the stresses of being a new parent and then all the years later, until your own final breath? My own (adoptive) Mom often said we were still her kids even if we were adults with kids and lives of our own. She passed at just shy of 80 years old in 2005 and I miss her so much, every day! She got to meet her very first great-grandcguld, our grand-daughter, before she passed away. (Our eldest grand was joined by eight more, for a total of nine: six boys, three girls. Ages range from almost eighteen down to almost two!).

    • @faraht1250
      @faraht1250 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      seriously o.o... so thats her MIL's scheme.

    • @ninaross211
      @ninaross211 ปีที่แล้ว

      SIL WOULD DEFINITELY GIVE THE BABY 🍼 BACK !!!! THE 1 SIGN OF COLIC !!!! THAT WOULD DEFINITELY HAPPEN 1st. WEEK OF BABIES LIFE !!! BECAUSE SIL WOULD NOT CHANCE BURPING BABY 🍼 ! AFRAID BABY 🍼 WOULD SPIT-UP ON HER !!! SO BABY 🍼 WOULD HAVE TRAPPED GAS 1st. WEEK OF LIFE !!! NEXT SWEARING 2 GOD SHE HAS POSTPARTUM DEPRESSION !!!! Lol 😂. AND SHE COULDNT BARE THE SIGHT OF BABY 🍼 ANYMORE !!! INSIST BIO PARENTS TAKE BABY 🍼 BACK !!!! DEMANDING THEY TRY AGAIN 4 A BABY 🍼 THAT DONT. CRY & DONT NEED 2 BE BURPED !!!! MOST DEFINITELY A BABY 🍼 THAT DONT POOP 💩

    • @AzraelThanatos
      @AzraelThanatos ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@faraht1250 Either that or the MIL wants a baby there that she has full access/control over and knows that her son and the OP would never go for that and figured that she could still get the OP to do all of the work there along with their house keeper...

    • @rheannagold6620
      @rheannagold6620 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Can someone explain to me how this works? Why would she be able to take 25% without adoption papers?

  • @wheelywheelygood
    @wheelywheelygood ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Pampered princess goes to the salon ,wouldn't it be better if she went to the parlour . The funeral parlour

    • @mmtchan
      @mmtchan ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LMAO!!!

  • @fadeblac5633
    @fadeblac5633 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Wtf?! Stay away from that toxic family. This makes no sense. Unreal how disgusting is the MIL and SIL. That's insane how Evil and vile they are.

  • @user-hr5pc3rt2n
    @user-hr5pc3rt2n ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I would give sil a more age appropriate gift for Xmas-- a doll. Lol

    • @stephaniereuscher7246
      @stephaniereuscher7246 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      One of the dolls schools use to teach teenagers about parenting would be best.

    • @amandastjohn4735
      @amandastjohn4735 ปีที่แล้ว

      A far more appropriate gift would be the combo of a box of coal and a bucket of water to the face when she or MIL next throw a temper tantrum.

  • @madmartagan100
    @madmartagan100 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Just when you think you've heard it all. I'm convinced consumerism, at least in the US, is the leading driver of why people are so entitled now. I'm glad they moved out of the country, because It never was a thought of SIL to do it through a sperm bank, or even adoption. (how self centered can you get to not even consider that before you ask the most stable members of of your family to give up one of their children?

  • @tracygardner6318
    @tracygardner6318 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She can make herself a mommy and if she can’t then kids are better off without you. That is one of the most ridiculous things I’ve ever heard. Give me a baby for Christmas.

  • @sharonjames1255
    @sharonjames1255 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If it is a mental health problem, it's with both MIL and SIL. The idea came from the MIL, remember?

  • @dianecheney4141
    @dianecheney4141 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Staying a way for a year might give them something to think about. Make sure your mother in law or sister in law can’t pick up your kids from school or daycare

  • @scotthultin7769
    @scotthultin7769 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Wonder woman reaches the age of 26 there's no changing her mind there's no understanding why she's going to be this way is it all you can do is let her walk by and change directions and hope to God you don't cross your path again

  • @reginawilliams3276
    @reginawilliams3276 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yes SIL definitely needs a psychological evaluation same goes for MIL but that is not their responsibility FIL needs to acknowledge their screwed perception and get his head out his ass and do something. They moved their family for their own safety to be away from TOXIC environment . I wish them the best .

  • @suebrittain4548
    @suebrittain4548 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    This sounds like what I have gone through with my dad. I have been married to my husband for 16+ years. When we retired, we moved to his home country. I am quite happy here and get along well with his family. A few months ago, my mom got sick, sounded serious. So went back to see her, thinking it might be for the last time. This is when I found out that Dad had disowned me because I moved out the country. He didn't want his money going overseas. From that point, he became just a sperm doner to me. I hadn't even given his money any thought before that, as I was doing just fine financially. I feel that I am now free of any obligation to him. As his money is more important to him than his child, his loss. If mom dies before him, I hope he sees that I am not there for him. May he realize that his loss is greater than mine.

    • @jyvben1520
      @jyvben1520 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      so where does his money go, other family members or salvation army ?

    • @suebrittain4548
      @suebrittain4548 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jyvben1520 I have 3 brothers it would go to. At this point, I see his money to be like the AIDS virus. Don't want it, don't need it, no way, no how, no thank you.

    • @jyvben1520
      @jyvben1520 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@suebrittain4548 ok, but is it also a kind of punishment, sons are preferred ?

    • @suebrittain4548
      @suebrittain4548 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jyvben1520

    • @geraldineklatt7914
      @geraldineklatt7914 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely!

  • @redresearchanalyst
    @redresearchanalyst ปีที่แล้ว +34

    My first thought was if SIL wants a baby go see a clinic, get artificial insemination (spell?) and carry/birth her own baby. You know as soon as she realizes it takes effort/work to raise a child she will dump the poor thing on to grandma to raise.

    • @MrBeevee5
      @MrBeevee5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Even cheaper to just find herself a stallion of a man. If it is a male, abort, and try again.

    • @catmom4784
      @catmom4784 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was thinking the same thing! However, SIL didn't even want a baby to begin with until MIL said it would be "the best present ever". If she can't be a loving aunt, she's not capable of being a loving mom. She won't even hold the 2yr old!

  • @jenniferd264
    @jenniferd264 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why is OP even still speaking to her in-laws? Why isn’t there a restraining order against these people?
    If OP allows her kids near her in-laws I have NO sympathy or compassion for her.
    This entire thing makes me want to seriously hurt that woman.

  • @trudifruty6078
    @trudifruty6078 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have a granddaughter is a spoiled brat

  • @denisebrown7680
    @denisebrown7680 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG!!! Thank goodness they were able to escape with no issues.

  • @whatsanenigma
    @whatsanenigma ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Well, I HAVE heard physical silver is a great investment. Lock those tiaras up somewhere safe and one day they might fund her college!

  • @gloriamitchell9531
    @gloriamitchell9531 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She can have her own flipping baby or do without!

  • @halo129830
    @halo129830 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This sister in law is why men go there own way she is a very common type of women out there

    • @MrBeevee5
      @MrBeevee5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      *their own way....

    • @RaspberryHugs
      @RaspberryHugs ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Then just go. Men spend a lot of time talking about going their own way but refuse to leave. The door is open. You're all so obsessed with women.

    • @halo129830
      @halo129830 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RaspberryHugs I’m a monk dude haven’t dated ever and I’m 23

    • @RaspberryHugs
      @RaspberryHugs ปีที่แล้ว

      @@halo129830 and yet here you are bitching about women. when people ACTUALLY go their own way they walk away, don't think about the people they walked away from or at least don't talk about them online and offline because that's the past.
      Instead of talking about going your own way from women and bitching about them obsessively actually do it. As long as women take this big a place rent free in your head then you'll always be trapped. There's the door. Stop being all talk and actually do it.

    • @halo129830
      @halo129830 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RaspberryHugs your response is oddly aggressive do you want to talk about it?

  • @scotthultin7769
    @scotthultin7769 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    First of all your husband was dead on right you're letting somebody else live rent free in your head stop

    • @MiraTheWarlock
      @MiraTheWarlock ปีที่แล้ว +3

      In OPs defense, said blog was being used to poison people against her, which she could ignore at first, until they tried to weaponize her kids

  • @harleyringstaff8496
    @harleyringstaff8496 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They should buy her one of those lifelike baby dolls
    She probably couldn't even tell the difference

  • @MishaSims
    @MishaSims ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I would have posted the TRUTH all over the internet with screenshots of the text messages. I would have made sure EVERYONE knew the truth about SIL and MIL

    • @DameNickum
      @DameNickum ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes! I agree completely, the tantrums and cursing, as well as her avoidance of her nieces and nephews should also be video taped and put up for the world to see. That would be the time to do great voice overs “SIL slides around niece because she doesn’t want the child to get her sticky, throw up on her, or need a diaper change while she’s holding them.

    • @MrBeevee5
      @MrBeevee5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me 2, but private school people don't think of publicity the way we might.

    • @tsgrandma9837
      @tsgrandma9837 ปีที่แล้ว

      Naw, SIL is in charge of the page she created. SIL would simply delete any and all comments OP posted. Not to mention, SIL followers are/were already on her side and OP would just come off even more petty than what SIL made her out to be. Best to leave it alone. They did the right thing in the end. Moved without telling MIL and then cut them off entirely. Could you imagine MIL finding out her son was gone and not having any idea where he's at? Then finding out later than he and her grandchildren are no longer living the country? That's sends the biggest message without saying a single word.

    • @ESPHMacD
      @ESPHMacD ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too… The patience of OP, I would be screaming from the rooftops. Mass social media posts, newspaper articles, hell… I’d call the local news/radio station. The way I would make sure anyone who could ever interact with SIL or MIL would know this… Asking me to breed you a Christmas gift, I would go nuclear.

  • @NPRYRS
    @NPRYRS 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I laughed a lot through this video 😭😂😅🤣 💯❗‼️ glad your husband stood with you👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @amandacox4211
    @amandacox4211 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I personally can't see how anyone thinks it's a good idea to ask someone to just give them their baby!! It's twisted!! Now if they knew someone was pregnant with an unwanted child, that may be a little different but you don't treat someone like OP said a "broodmare". I can't say the MIL and SIL have mental issues but they certainly have entitlement issues!!

    • @ettinakitten5047
      @ettinakitten5047 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't think it's a bad thing to ask, but it's definitely a much bigger ask than MIL acknowledges. And *definitely* shouldn't be a Christmas surprise! But I know plenty of people who've asked relatives to help them via surrogacy, sperm/egg donation (ofc not in an incestuous way), etc. It's not an automatically unreasonable thing to ask, if you have a good relationship with them.

  • @selenaherring1279
    @selenaherring1279 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    OP tell your MIL to have another baby to gift SIL for Christmas

  • @srephenlucietto5114
    @srephenlucietto5114 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What you mean that the fairies don't do your laundry or the house chores well it seems like its time to go low contact with her just letting her she her grandkids now and then tell her to adopt then cause theres no way in the universe you'll be doing that

  • @PaulaakaPaben
    @PaulaakaPaben ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes! Mental Health for sure! I have my oldest sister that always puts me or my family down! Since both my Parents are gone, I just do not talk to her! Anything she needs to know my other sister relays to her!

  • @bandaidsandshoes
    @bandaidsandshoes ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When I need a pick me up I get a new hat or a new book or something, not a child. Good grief.

  • @sherrywoodruff61
    @sherrywoodruff61 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Both MIL & SIL NEED HELP

    • @mmtchan
      @mmtchan ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes they do, a 3rd eye between the other 2.

  • @riri4248
    @riri4248 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Brood mare that delivers babies for Christmas lmao 🤣 this ish can't be real look I just got out the hospital please take it easy on me!

    • @katherinekurzius290
      @katherinekurzius290 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So sad for you, that it still hurts when you laugh!!!

  • @judithmarshall362
    @judithmarshall362 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    stay at home this year honey

  • @annalorenzo75
    @annalorenzo75 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I want to see this blog so bad 😂 this is by far the craziest story yet.

  • @berylmorgan8482
    @berylmorgan8482 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's excellent that OP had her husband's family to the BLOCK PARTY! Peace at last is heavenly!

  • @flamelily2086
    @flamelily2086 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That sil is not mother material. She has shown that she has no interest in caring for an infant and has even said she thinks they are gross. She would quickly get fed up with the baby and leave its care to other people. What is wrong with the mil that she seriously thinks it's
    acceptable to ask OP to have a baby for the sil. The pampered princess can have a baby for herself. OP is not a brood mare. Her mil and sil are insane. It's crazy that OP and her family had to move to another country to get away from her pushy mil and sil, but the move seems to have worked out to the family's advantage

  • @robynedmonds7300
    @robynedmonds7300 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You moved to a beautiful place with your beautiful children. Congratulations, and I wish you all the happiness and love ❤️

  • @tracygardner6318
    @tracygardner6318 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am glad you spoke to her and how you really felt there’s always a breaking point and you’ve had it, the fact, she thinks it’s a good idea makes it even more messed up. If she would actually be a good mother, I could see it, but she will not be a good mother.

  • @maranathaschraag5757
    @maranathaschraag5757 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    tell me you see children as property/accessories without telling me you see children as property/accessories.
    what is wrong with some people?
    And, btw - what's wrong with her own uterus? she can get pregnant if she wants. I'd feel so bad for that poor kid, but there's nothing stopping her.

  • @valeriemarshburn8562
    @valeriemarshburn8562 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Not the Ahold something wrong with your mil if she thinks that a baby will be good Xmas present for her spoiled daughter be real she doesn't even want to hold a child less more raise one

  • @puremichpaule
    @puremichpaule ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I would bet good money that as soon as that baby got a little bit too much as baby tend to do, she would hand it back to them.

  • @phoenixfire2578
    @phoenixfire2578 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Extreme narcissism, materialistic, and entitled. I'm not sure that can be treated.

  • @lestatsgames7426
    @lestatsgames7426 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Another fantastic story with a strong female OP. We never see or hear enough of these stories. Thank you.

  • @anggamaulana3498
    @anggamaulana3498 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It seem that OP's husband the type of a quiet man when facing his mother dan sister, yes.....the best way to face your family with lot of tantrum without cutting ties.
    But as a husband, he will make a stand to anyone who dare to threat his family.
    Yes....OP's lucky she had a good husband and a good father for her children.

  • @shaoronmd
    @shaoronmd ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "this will probably be my last update"
    reality: I don't think it will be

  • @pattyhoughtaling6230
    @pattyhoughtaling6230 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mother and sister in law both need mental health counseling. I had to deal with something similar but I fortunately wasn't married into that crazy family. I took my sons and left. They don't get to see the beautiful children that my sons have made. It's their loss but those children are a wonderful gift.

  • @adelleleone
    @adelleleone ปีที่แล้ว

    Holy wow. Talk about a warped reality. MIL n SIL live in their own little world.

  • @zachmedlin2608
    @zachmedlin2608 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I personally wouldn’t move out of my country… if I was related to those crazy people, I would move out thousands of miles away too.

    • @stephaniewilson3955
      @stephaniewilson3955 ปีที่แล้ว

      France is gorgeous. They have proper healthcare, understand the importance of a supportive society and do not put up with any nonsense.

  • @wheelywheelygood
    @wheelywheelygood ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Pampered princess are we talking about a Meghan here

    • @bernedettekuteyi3843
      @bernedettekuteyi3843 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂

    • @PuppyKatt
      @PuppyKatt ปีที่แล้ว

      lmao; probably. I was thinking the same thing, especially when she posted pics of her holding a doll. 😅😂🤣

  • @tracygardner6318
    @tracygardner6318 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Peter got lucky you didn’t get the whole matching set and so he’s done be prepared to be single for the rest of your life

  • @myownsidekick
    @myownsidekick ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Id just tell mil and sil "sorry i had my tubes tied during the last birth and didnt tell anyone because i wanted to avoid the comments"
    Sometimes that procedure doesnt take, so an "oopsie" pregnancy isnt out of the question

    • @bluecrystalcandles2845
      @bluecrystalcandles2845 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tiaa668Since OP has several children doctors may not be as ridiculous about sterilizing her as a woman without children, but generally doctors refuse to do hysterectomies without a medical need.

    • @myownsidekick
      @myownsidekick ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tiaa668 i wouldnt wish simultaneous menopause, small children and those crazy in-laws on a crusade on anyone.

    • @tiaa668
      @tiaa668 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bluecrystalcandles2845 I was just saying to tell her mother-in-law that she had a hysterectomy not that she really had one.

  • @trekaddict
    @trekaddict ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This woman shouldn't raise a potted plant, never mind a human being.

  • @heatheraucoin5832
    @heatheraucoin5832 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Did SIL ever hold her niece and nephews as babies? Has she babysat for one night or even 2 hrs? Having a baby isn’t an accessory, you as a person give up yourself to take care of them. No more going out, hair appointment, nail salons, vacations, or alone times. They have to be monitored, hygiene updates, medical history, doctors appointments, feeding/nap time, &all money goes to child. If you want to get your nails done but child wants to go on a field trip, guess what, it goes to child bc their happiness matters more than a mani. Her parents can’t live forever, even if they were to leave her an inheritance, she has to budget carefully or she and child will become homeless. This story is upsetting bc of the MIL putting mom ideas in her head, now she wants a baby it’s something she can’t have.

  • @McBruce999
    @McBruce999 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This whole drama could have been burnt to the ground, had OP and her husband publicized the ridiculous expectation of a MIL and SIL. No sane person would have ever supported their unreasonable request.

  • @srephenlucietto5114
    @srephenlucietto5114 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You should have got on line and tell everyone that's she can't even take care of herself none the less a baby and show everyone her and your MILtexts

  • @puremichpaule
    @puremichpaule ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have a hard time believing people like this are actually real. Completely insane in laws.

  • @damphir46
    @damphir46 ปีที่แล้ว

    When you hear someone say they have so much love to give. RUN!!!!!!!!!

  • @normaherrlich5662
    @normaherrlich5662 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why don't they give sil one of those real looking baby dolls.

  • @annem7806
    @annem7806 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    MIL can carry her daughter's child.

  • @cindysupplee5341
    @cindysupplee5341 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel like the crazy in that family runs deeper than just MIL and SIL. I'm thinking a couple generations