Troy's Depersonalization Recovery Story (2024)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 24 ส.ค. 2024
- 02:18 Depersonalization From Weed
05:03 Obsessive Thoughts
06:10 "What if I'm losing my mind?"
09:30 Discipline + Structure
10:25 "This is exactly what happened 2 years ago"
15:05 "DP is happening FOR me, not TO me!"
18:00 Tyson Fury's advice on Depression
20:13 "I'm broken"
23:17 Speaking to friends about DPDR
26:40 Starting to recover
29:53 Ups and Downs are normal!
30:36 Constant Research
32:42 Can you REALLY get back to normal?
36:50 The DP Manual
39:36 Why did DP come back a 2nd time?
41:41 Advice for people with Depersonalization
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Troy is 23 years old and has gone through 2 separate bouts of Depersonalization Disorder. In 2019 he first developed DPDR, triggered by weed, which lasted about 6 months. But in 2023 the symptoms returned, and for another 6 months he experienced chronic feelings of unreality and persistent obsessive thoughts.
But fortunately Troy has since made a complete recovery! As he wrote to me in a recent email, "I'm a D1 athlete, I'm a man of faith. I've fully recovered from DPDR and I'd love to share my story!"
In this brand new extended interview Troy tells me all about his experience with and recovery from Depersonalization Disorder.
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to anybody reading in , your seeing life in the lens of anxiety & thats why recovery seems impossible. ive recovered from it once & im currently going through it again sadly , but keep the faith cus you will get better! & you WILL feel normal again!
Thanks for your comment Mike! ❤️ And yes you can and will get 100% back to normal 😊 www.dpmanual.com/articles/back-to-normal-after-depersonalization/
It really does get better. I was lurking on these vids for months and have days where I literally can’t function but it seriously does get better. If I can get better than anyone can.
Glad to hear you're doing so well! 😊
Great to hear man❤️
It's really scary, I have strange thoughts, that everything may not be real, that I will never be back to normal, and I will become crazy and end up in mental hospital. I have no idea what I can do 😢.
It’s tough but I would defo recommend getting the dp manual if you havnt already. Will help to explain everything and over time you’ll begin to understand what’s going on better and better🙏
The thoughts are just a symptom. They will go away you don't need to fight them at all. You'll get better
As terrifying as it seems you just need to power through and it will eventually pass, trust me I know it feels hopeless and there’s no escape from the torture but it will definitely get better🙏🏾
I have recovered from this beleive me bro you just stop thinking about it just do your work stop alcohol and everything you will get good
Did you always have all day 24 hours a week?
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For those that have this I had it 24/7 from November 2019 to December 2021. It was so bad I didn’t wanna live anymore but now a days I look back on that time and kinda laugh. I spent so much time trying to figure out what was wrong with me and how to fix myself when that was the opposite of what I should have been doing.
Did you recover?
@@alaaalhosary8309 yea I’ve been totally fine since around the end of 2021.
@@RyDawg918 I want you to help me, my brother
Yes, so much of the recovery process feels counterintuitive at first. But thankfully you can always recover once you start doing the correct things to do so 😊
I’ve had this for three years now after taking mushrooms. I’ve gone through ups and downs. There have been times when I commit to my recovery and see significant improvement, but then I fall back into old habits and DR feels really strong. I’m looking to commit again but I’m discouraged by how many times I’ve failed. Still, seeing recovery stories makes me feel hopeful and determined. Thanks for all you do Shaun
Same thing for me and mine was also 2-3 years ago and I feel this. I wouldnt look at it as failing....its hard, have some more compassion for yourself. Its progress and sometimes its slow and sometimes you relapse....sometimes you just go through some shit again and your back to square one or even lower. Be proud of how strong you are bc you know you are. Its always hard to see clear when your depressed/anxious/dr/dp etc. but remember that little positive voice is the one you gotta follow....thats the one that loves you and wants you to make it through🩷 let go of being perfect, its ok to mess up....dont judge yourself so much.
I'm glad the video have been helpful Rodrigo 😊 And don't worry, it doesn't matter what caused it, how long it’s lasted, or whether it’s been 24/7 or episodic, you can always switch DPDR off completely by stopping the anxiety that's causing it 😊 Read this carefully: www.dpmanual.com/articles/how-long-does-depersonalization-last/
@@jezabellaasquare one and relapsing? This isn’t addiction it’s habit of thought.
spawned in to this state of mind after black out drinking and never fully got out of it been 4 years ill get out of it for 1 day and then get pulled back in to it
I’ve had it for 10 years on and off. A migraine triggered another intense bout of it and I’m finally finding out what it’s called. I know there is hope for me to kick its butt and be rid of it for good. His story & the scriptures shared definitely encouraged me. I’ll be buying the manual. Thank you!!!
So glad the video was helpful! 😊 And don't worry, it doesn't matter what caused it, how long it’s lasted, or whether it’s been 24/7 or episodic, you can always switch DPDR off completely by stopping the anxiety that's causing it 😊 Read this carefully: www.dpmanual.com/articles/how-long-does-depersonalization-last/
Hi we are same had an on and off dpdr
God is beautiful ❤️
Congratulations on your recovery brother, and for everyone else afraid they won't get back to normal, you absolutely will.
Exactly, you can and will get 100% back to normal 😊www.dpmanual.com/articles/back-to-normal-after-depersonalization/
I feel like i recovered very well… I can really say that i am back to reality.. Everything looks so good again.. so clear.. but i still have it sometimes in the day.. but i am still in my recovery process.. in the night sometimes i have bad visual symptoms.. for example when i enter in my home i have bad light sensivity.. but i think it will go away if i continue to do what i did to recover.. i started 1 month ago to don t care anymore and beeing busy.. try to play on my ps5 etc.. just being busy.. it helped a lot 😂 But i hate this visual symptoms at night, thank you very much Shaun..
Glad to hear you're doing so well! And don’t worry, visual symptoms like that are super common with DPDR and will fade away and stop as you recover 😊 www.dpmanual.com/articles/does-depersonalization-affect-vision/
@@Dpmanual after two months with dpdr 24/7, I had started to implement the manual and continued to do everything I was doing before. But now a loved one in the family has died. I don't know if I'm back to square 0 with everything that happened and if it's still possible to recover
@@RalucaNechifor-md7pc I’m sorry to hear that, but time is the best healer for both situations and i don’t know you but i do know you’re strong enough to pull through. Keep your head held high and take it one day at a time.
This guy's attitude got him through dp, there's no stopping this young man.
He's an inspiration! 😊
Thank you Troy... Dearly appreciated 🙏🤍✨✨✨
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Ive leaned just recently that stress is the number 1 factor for you to get better or get worse or be stagnant in the dpdr. Im working on my stress and not allowing it to control me.
Hope you're feeling better! 😊
your videos have helped me so much. i’ve been doing so good latley with lingering symptoms. i’m just frustrated that they won’t go away. i wish it would fully go away. i feel pointless
Glad the videos have been helpful 😊 And don't worry, you can and will recover 100% and those lingering symptoms will all fade away and stop: www.dpmanual.com/articles/back-to-normal-after-depersonalization/
acceptance is key
@@mojav3_ very true.
im young and i feel this all the time i dont want to feel like this anymore
Hey, thanks for your comment. Firstly, please make sure that you’re speaking to your parents about what’s happening. It’s very important that they know what’s going on. If they're not familiar with DPDR you can show them this video which will clear things up for them: th-cam.com/video/ANzyteEPKt8/w-d-xo.html
Secondly, I know DPDR can be frightening but remember that it's just your body and brain's natural response to stress and anxiety. It's not permanent and it can't hurt you. You can and will recover. Make sure to read through all the info and articles on my website at www.dpmanual.com
And if you would like to speak to a medical professional please don't hesitate to do so. I would recommend finding an anxiety specialist if possible as they will likely be more familiar with DPDR 👍
A great quote for DPDR “this can’t not be a big deal” I just came up with it. Shit is too peripherizing. And anxietating. And dependifying.
I’ve had dp and whoever has it you need to trust good and ask believe
Ive had it for over a decade. And the thing thats been going on since then is being on edge anxious all the time, now i have decided to go to a psychiatrist plus telling myself good things. Hopefully it shall get better soon
Don't worry, it doesn't matter what caused it, how long it’s lasted, or whether it’s been 24/7 or episodic, you can always switch DPDR off completely by stopping the anxiety that's causing it 😊 Read this carefully: www.dpmanual.com/articles/how-long-does-depersonalization-last/
yeah it’s really scary, i am also scared i may have multiple personality disorder but i remember people very much well and my memories, i just don’t feel any connection to them at all and even when my name is called i don’t feel connected at all and my environment sometimes feel unfamiliar, I’m so scared
The only concerns I still have are wondering/worrying about how long the recovery phase is and what it feels like. I do not like the idea of still feeling this way while recovering for months. I also find it difficult to stop worrying about worrying about DP. For example, when watching TV. There are periods where I don't think of DP and I am engaged, but then I remember DP. Most of my concentration is on trying not to think about DP, which of course doesn't really work. Pretty much, I worry about not focusing on the show and as such end up not focusing on the show. I would also appreciate it if you explained how to deal with symptoms now. It's difficult to forget about DP when you are experiencing the symptoms, at this point for me it's mainly the visual symptoms and inability to focus/concentrate. I hope you can answer these questions, Shaun.
I'm feeling better. I started feeling better yesterday and it's just been the new normal, probably because my anxiety levels have just been dropping. The feeling of my head being enveloped in cotton or stuck in a fish bowl has vanished. This was some time after I stopped avoiding experiencing the symptoms. I just realized that they're nothing to be afraid of and will fade over time.
Is it normal to feel OCD or feel like you might be depressed while dealing with DP?
Thanks for your comment 😊 Depression can happen along with DPDR, just like with all anxiety-based conditions. If you’re feeling particularly depressed, please do speak to a medical professional as soon as possible. But in the meantime don't worry, DP and anxiety are not permanent and you can and will recover: www.dpmanual.com/articles/is-depersonalization-permanent/
I've been suffering form it and by some reasons i can't purchase ur manual rn can u do something elsee just some session on yt for 5 days
Thanks for getting in touch and for your interest in The DP Manual!
And I'm sorry to hear there was an issue with the purchase. I've just taken a look on my side and everything seems to be in order with the purchasing system. You could try using a different device browser and see if that works. If you're still encountering problems drop me a line and we'll get it sorted 😊
Has anyone else’s memory been affected by it. And did you memory recover ?
Don’t worry Donnie, worries about loss of memory are super common with DPDR. I know they can be scary but they will fade away and stop completely as you recover 😊 www.dpmanual.com/articles/depersonalization-and-memory-loss/
Hi, I'm 18 years old and I'm going through emotional numbness and things seem unreal to me, this has been going on since my mid 16 I'm struggling to understand others and situations and I feel like I've lost my emotional intelligence I don't have empathy for anyone anymore due to these things I cannot even communicate to people. I used to be an empath and used to be sensitive but like rn everything feels so numb, I just want to get better I also have a family to look after because my father had passed away when I was 15 and now I'm the next one who will provide for them and it's just really hard on me man idk what to do.
Hi Hasnain, thanks for getting in touch and I'm sorry to hear you've been having a difficult time ❤️ I know DPDR can be scary but just remember that it’s a natural reaction to stress and anxiety, and people experience it all the time. The National Institute on Mental Illness estimates that up to 75% of people experience at least one depersonalization / derealization episode in their lives. It's part of your brain's natural defence mechanism and usually it only lasts a few seconds or minutes at a time. It's only when it's focused on as a separate problem (feeling numb / like you're going crazy / in a dream etc) that it can turn into a feedback loop with the anxiety that caused it in the first place. But no matter what caused it or how long you've had it, you can always switch it off completely by stopping that anxious feedback loop. Make sure to carefully read through all the articles and info on my website at www.dpmanual.com and my book The Depersonalization Manual.
And if you would like to speak to a medical professional please don't hesitate to do so. I would recommend finding an anxiety specialist if possible as they will likely be more familiar with DPDR 👍
@@Dpmanual Thank you so much!
@@Dpmanual one more thing I was concerned about is when my depersonalization goes away will I be able to be creative again? because I used to observe things and situations and I was also very imaginative I used to graphic design and also liked photography, drawing etc. do you think these things will come back to me once this goes away?
@@hasnainagain Happy to help 😊
@@hasnainagain Yes, getting back to normal means getting 100% back to normal 😊Read this carefully: www.dpmanual.com/articles/back-to-normal-after-depersonalization/
Hey Sean, you are talking in your dp manual it’s only a symptom of anxiety, but are you talking about the anxiety of Depersonalization, or anxiety in general? Because I’ve been experiencing Depersonalization, and I know that I’m anxious of it, but I don’t feel anxious about other things in my life. Is it true that the anxiety is just the anxiety of the condition itself, or is it through other ways that I’m experiencing it? For example stressing about work or not enough sleep?
Read this carefully Michy, it should clear up all your questions 😊 www.dpmanual.com/about/depersonalization-definition-what-is-it/
@@Dpmanual I did not read the information I needed. I also have the dp manual but I can’t find an answer in that aswell.
Is boredom associated with dpdr
What do you mean boredom?
So obsessive thoughts are from anxiety because i have them too?
Yes, but you can suffer from OCD, which can make you Think obsesively about things. Just dont worry about them, thought are only THOUGHTS they are strong if you give them power, if you have any scary thoughts just tell yourself that they mean nothing and are there because you are stressed out. Take care!
I've had dpdr for 1 year and 4 months now. I'm getting better but I haven't had any hunger cues in a year. It's annoying, when will I get my appetite back. I can eat if I like the food but it's still hard to stomach. Has anyone else had no appetite for so long? I know it's the dpdr that's when I lost my appetite.
Don’t worry, issues with appetite are very common with DPDR and all anxiety-based conditions. 😊 I know it can be frustrating but they are temporary and harmless and will fade away and stop as your recovery continues: www.healthline.com/health/mental-health/anxiety-lose-appetite
je remarque que a chaque fois que j'ai une attaque de panique mon état s'améliore après. est ce que y'a il des gens qui sont comme moi
i zoom out very bad when i am going to have a haircut and i am looking in the mirror for too long. I also have some breaks when i feel 100% recovered, like it was used to be before the dpdr stage and i think like why am i scared of because everything is ok, but the next day it keeps coming back. Is it a sign of recovery if i have these breaks when i feel normal? Because when i zone out everything feels reals, but i feel like i am in a bubble and i am not 100% lucid .
You're close no worries
Why am i scared of random thing's? With depersonalization
Hello, I am very afraid because I feel that I am going to stop recognizing everything and forget my life, my family, etc... and myself. Is it just fear or can feeling so disconnected lead me to something this serious?
Good morning!
Do I have to be a vegetarian/vegan to recover from depersonalization?
No but I highly recommend it anyways 😊❤️medium.com/@shaunoconnor1/animal-lovers-who-eat-animals-a-carnivores-path-to-veganism-57a3d8ca3de9
hey, please help. i get reminded that i am going to die in the end anyway and that every second i am just coming closer to my death and that terrifies me. the passing of time itself starts to feel overwhelming as hell. the level of anxiety and the feeling that i feel is equivalent to standing in front of a lion which is 100% certain to eat you to death. and everything starts to feel meaningless and i cant enjoy life and feel scared that i wont ever feel normal again because this feeling will always be stuck with me.
Don’t worry, existential / intrusive thoughts like that are super common with DPDR. I know they can be frustrating and frightening but they are also temporary and harmless and will fade away and stop as your recovery continues 😊 www.dpmanual.com/articles/depersonalization-fears-and-anxious-thoughts/
You can and will get 100% back to normal:
www.dpmanual.com/articles/back-to-normal-after-depersonalization/
And if you would like to speak to a medical professional please don't hesitate to do so. I would recommend finding an anxiety specialist if possible as they will likely be more familiar with DPDR.
@@Dpmanual i really think seeing one would help but I am still young and dependent on my parents and they won't let me because according to them seeing a psychologist or psychiatrist is some sort of taboo. so i really need help overcoming this on my own. it's scary and feels impossible and sometimes feels like I won't make it
So relatable...I feel ready to be eaten up...As there is so much pain ,so better to be eaten up type thoughts ...i think its like we have mixed depression nd anxiety
With fully respect, I think that acceptance can't recover you fully, why? Because your body enters a fight or flight response, (or freeze) and not your MIND. So acceptance is just a part of recovery, you have to relax your body while maintaining acceptance, it's not good to say to somebody to just distract themselves, because with that being said you are just telling them to go more deeper and deeper into their head. key to recovery -> follow dpmanual, tricks & rules , etc.. and do body relaxation, (deep breaths, PMR, wet noodle, diapgrahmatic breathing...).
with just acceptance you are going (MAYBE) to get recovered, but that is not your root problem, this is not just anxiety, this is nervous system overwhelm point that your body registers as trauma, thank me later.
Shaun i have existential thought like i am living in a video game and everyone around me is completely fake is it dp too?
I manage to believe in reality but it comes sometimes and now I am having the thought of going insane and thinking like insane
Whenever I see looping things I start to have existential thoughts
What was your fear of going insane
Don’t worry, existential / intrusive thoughts like that are super common with DPDR. I know they can be frustrating and frightening but they are also temporary and harmless and will fade away and stop as your recovery continues 😊 www.dpmanual.com/articles/depersonalization-fears-and-anxious-thoughts/
Ok, so I’ve been dealing with this for a week since I overdid it on edibles. Is it common to fear that I’m gonna hallucinate ? Like I can’t describe it, but I feel like I’m having “pseudo hallucinations”. Like I know fully well that the thought is irrational but still feel detached enough to consider it.
This is what’s making me wonder if it’s actually dpdr or psychosis
Don’t worry, fears of psychosis / hallucinations are super common with DPDR. I know they can be frightening but they’re harmless and temporary and will fade away and stop as you recover 😊 Read these carefully: www.dpmanual.com/articles/depersonalization-three-reasons-youre-not-going-crazy-2/
www.dpmanual.com/articles/schizophrenia_cancer_depersonalization/
And if you would like to speak to a medical professional please don't hesitate to do so. I would recommend finding an anxiety specialist if possible as they will likely be more familiar with DPDR.
Hello shaun, i am suffering dp for 4 months. I can go out and do things but i am always watching these videos for encouragement. But i dont feel i am recovering can I do with you a recovery coaching so you can help me with what i am doing wrong and what to help me. Because i feel so frustrated of this condition. I already bought your manual one month and half ago. Thank you shaun
Stop reminding yourself you have dp and it will get better I promise you.
@@user-ir9ip3zz1j thank you for your reply i appreciate it. Can i ask you if you are recovered ?
@@user-ir9ip3zz1j thank you for your reply i really appreciate it. Can i ask you are you recovered yet from this condition?
I run track too 😂I’m one month in
Hope you enjoyed the interview! 😊
@@Dpmanual yes I did right now Im trying to ignore it I was wondering if that all it takes or are there other things I need to do?
@@MichaelSimmons-di2vd Head over to my website at www.dpmanual.com, there’s tons of info and tips on DPDR recovery there 😊
Hey can you please clear my doubts? When I think about these thoughts I get stressed and DPDR starts to kick in. So these thoughts are , am I gonna be fully normal as I was before DPDR , Am I gonna have to live this for my whole life? Because I'm just 16 I have so many things to do in my life. I got it on 20th MAY but rn I am really getting better day by day but when I get these thoughts doubts disconnection and all it starts to kick in . I hope I'll recover soon and I can feel things like I felt before this and I can enjoy my life like I used to do before DPDR. And one more thing please , Does it come back after fully recovering? Will it come back if you think about it after recovering from it? And more thing , does it effect your hearing? Because whenever I start having an episode my hearing becomes so weird and like volume going down idk why is it affecting my hearing? Or it's just me who is overthinking about it?
Hey, thanks for your comment 😊 Firstly, please make sure that you’re speaking to your parents about what’s happening. It’s very important that they know what’s going on. Secondly, I know DPDR can be frightening but remember that it's just your body and brain's natural response to stress and anxiety. It's not permanent and it can't hurt you. You can and will recover and get 100% back to normal 😊 Read this carefully:
www.dpmanual.com/articles/back-to-normal-after-depersonalization/
And if you would like to speak to a medical professional please don't hesitate to do so. I would recommend finding an anxiety specialist if possible as they will likely be more familiar with DPDR 👍
@@Dpmanual Tysm it helped me!!! And please tell me about the hearing too? Why my hearing is weird? Is it because of my thoughts? My hearing sense is weird .
Is it normal to experience it 24 7 cause when im calm like rn its like mild like its not fully gone things still look off and feel off and people still look weird is this normal.
Yes, as with all anxiety-based conditions it's common to have periods where you're experiencing it 24/7 😊 I know it can be frustrating but it will become less constant and fade away and stop as your recovery continues. Watch this: th-cam.com/video/vrmXFzfJAa4/w-d-xo.htmlsi=HTaB8QBDM7sHNp-Z&t=196
@@Dpmanual is it normal to feel a little worse with glasses?
@@jacobaragon3398 Yes 😊 www.dpmanual.com/articles/does-depersonalization-affect-vision/
Am i delusional why do i think im hearing voices or seeing things even tho im really not in reality 😢😢
I feel the same
A week ago i smoked a weed pen with my friend and i had a huge panic attack, i felt like i will die any second from that moment and i couldnt think straight. My friend didnt really knew how to help me mostly beacuse he was too high and he was never in a situation like this. The next day my mind was very chaotic and i couldnt focus on anything i also had a feeling of everything not being real and i started to have extreme social anxiety. It was getting worse when we came back to school for final exams and i had many panic attacks and heart palpitactions and i had to leave the class every few minutes beacuse i felt like passing out or that my heart will stop working in a second. As i said its been a week and its such a rollercoaster beacuse i feel good after few hours but the next day when i wake up i feel like everything has restarted and i need to fight it all over again. I understand it will pass eventually but its really hard to function properly sometimes.
Hey, thanks for your comment 😊 I know DPDR can be scary but just remember that it’s a natural reaction to stress and anxiety, and people experience it all the time. The National Institute on Mental Illness estimates that up to 75% of people experience at least one depersonalization / derealization episode in their lives. It's part of your brain's natural defence mechanism and usually it only lasts a few seconds or minutes at a time. It's only when it's focused on as a separate problem (feeling like you're going crazy / in a dream etc) that it can turn into a feedback loop with the anxiety that caused it in the first place. But no matter what caused it or how long you've had it, you can always switch it off completely by stopping that anxious feedback loop. Make sure to carefully read through all the articles and info on my website at www.dpmanual.com and my book The Depersonalization Manual.
And if you would like to speak to a medical professional please don't hesitate to do so. I would recommend finding an anxiety specialist if possible as they will likely be more familiar with DPDR 👍
Is normal to feel more worse when you wear glasses?
So you cant get traumatized from dpdr or ptsd from it????
No. You feel like you are going crazy and that it is going to stick with you for your entire life, but if you actively work on it it will only get easier and one day you will basically feel like you've never even had it. It's gonna be a bumpy road, but enjoy the ride because it's gonna be worth it. You will feel like you've been through something very difficult (which you have) and that will give you confidence to face new big challenges in life. Keep going and remember that in the end things are not just gonna be good, but even better than before!
@WorldofTanks48 so you can't get traumatized by it cause that's what I feel right now idk I'm just confused I still got hope tho
@@jacobaragon3398 You feel traumatised because of anxiety at the moment and your mind is also catastrophising. Thoughts like "what if I go so crazy that I cannot come back from this" is extremely common. You are also freaking out because the feeling is very unfamiliar to you. Just roll with it, live life just like you used to and things will go back to normal, just like you've never had it. No PTSD or anything similar. And also, don't research it too much. Find a hobby if you don't already have one, something very engaging if possible, which will help you shift your thoughts from the anxiety itself. The more you think about it, the worse it will be. Don't constantly research it and read about it. Live your life. You will feel odd and possibly quite disconnected, but the less you focus and think about it, the better it will get. It will be very difficult in the beginning, but the good news is, it will very, very likely, only be easier as time goes by. The feeling will be less intense until it is finally completely gone. In fact, you will actually struggle to remember what it was like when you had anxiety and dissociation attacks.
@@WorldofTanks48 thank you for giving me hope i got it from weed i thought i was traumatized by it and this was gonna be my new normal thank you for commenting
@@jacobaragon3398 No problem! Just remember that you are fine, you just feel weird, and those feelings will subside. Keep pushing and you will be as good as new. Cheers!
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Hello shaun, i am suffering dp for 4 months. I can go out and do things but i am always watching these videos for encouragement. But i dont feel i am recovering can I do with you a recovery coaching so you can help me with what i am doing wrong and what to help me. Because i feel so frustrated of this condition. I already bought your manual one month and half ago. Thank you shaun
@@user-tn7qs6fw4r Sure thing! You can book in a coaching session instantly here 😊 www.dpmanual.com/coaching/
Hello I'm suffering from this since 4 years I don't know what should i do everything looks wrost I'm so upset and depressed can we talk dp manual inbox instagram or any other platform i need helP😢😢 😢
Hey, thanks for your comment 😊 I know DPDR can be scary but just remember that it’s a natural reaction to stress and anxiety, and people experience it all the time. The National Institute on Mental Illness estimates that up to 75% of people experience at least one depersonalization / derealization episode in their lives. It's part of your brain's natural defence mechanism and usually it only lasts a few seconds or minutes at a time. It's only when it's focused on as a separate problem (feeling like you're going crazy / in a dream etc) that it can turn into a feedback loop with the anxiety that caused it in the first place. But no matter what caused it or how long you've had it, you can always switch it off completely by stopping that anxious feedback loop. Make sure to carefully read through all the articles and info on my website at www.dpmanual.com and my book The Depersonalization Manual.
And if you would like to speak to a medical professional please don't hesitate to do so. I would recommend finding an anxiety specialist if possible as they will likely be more familiar with DPDR 👍
@@Dpmanual Thanks Alot but i don't know how to get rid of it my life just stuck in this situation i don't feel anyone i have alot of Scary questions like why we born why we exist everything is fake looks like it's a movie infront of my eyes i cannot touch anything i don't feel happiness i lost in it since 4 years how i get rid why me? M jst so tired 😞😞
@@ASMRJoleyI don’t know if it was trauma or just extreme stress for you but one thing you must not do is dwell on the condition as if it needs to be monitored or treated and identify what causes it to flare up besides the fact you have it.
I had exactly the same thoughts..
Why we are born?
How am I exist?
What happens when we die?
What is dying?
How the world exists?
How is my consciousness exist?
Looking at my family /mom thinking how we she and I talk and what is this relationship?
How can we talk? Thinking we are animals.
All kind of crazy/ scary thoughts.
I remember couldn’t sleep for 2 days in a row and when I did fall asleep, first thing I did when woke up was those crazy/ scary thoughts would take me back to HELL the moment I opened my eyes.
And how recover was long
journey. I remember I was thinking about the days I wasn’t obsessed with those thoughts, when I was completely normal. I was keep reminding myself that when I was normal and not under control with this sick, crazy ,scary feelings, everything was perfectly normal and made sense in life.The reason life I feel is so different now is because my brain is not functioning properly.
And I was right.
Also, knowing that this condition is common among lots of people made me feel better about myself because I knew it I wasn’t alone.
Later I leaned this condition has a name!
How it works!
How it starts and finally how to deal with it.
After you lean about how this sickness works, you will never become as bad as you were before not knowing anything about it.
@@seanelisa8055 Ohhh You are so lucky I don't know how to deal with it pray for me everything looks like meaningless no one can understand if i talk about everyone says Are u crazy what are u saying nonsense talk they didn't feel me they don't know how i m living with these thoughts and feelings. I'm thinking why we exist how and then remember the time whenever i knows everything i don't know but this is the wrost thing in my life just pray for my recovery 😥😞
For those that have this I had it 24/7 from November 2019 to December 2021. It was so bad I didn’t wanna live anymore but now a days I look back on that time and kinda laugh. I spent so much time trying to figure out what was wrong with me and how to fix myself when that was the opposite of what I should have been doing.
Did you recover?
@@alaaalhosary8309read his comment again.
Can you give some tips on how to recover?
@@denial1004 I’m 100% serious when I say this, stop trying to make it go away. I spent every second of everyday looking for some secret trick to make it go away, supplements, medication, breathing excercises, meditations, it’s goes on and on. I was obsessed with trying to feel normal and it took me forever to realize I was only feeding the dpdr and making it worse. The day that I said “fuck it, I don’t care anymore” is the day that I started healing. All I did was go back and start doing all the stuff I did before dpdr. Golf, disc golf, basketball games at the gym, video games, driving around in my car just for fun, spend hours looking for new music to get into. I know it sounds too easy but that’s truthfully all I did and it was just a matter of weeks until it was fully gone