Why Your Team Doesn’t RESPECT You as a Leader (& What to Do About It!)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 พ.ค. 2024
- Do your employees respect you? Maybe you get the feeling that your team doesn't respect you as a leader. And if so, what can you do about it? In this video, I talk about why your team doesn't respect you as a leader and what to do about it. I go through five signs your employees don't respect you and I also help you understand what you can do about it to earn their respect at work.
There are many signs that indicate your team don't respect you as a leader. Some leaders recognise these signs and tailor their leadership style accordingly. Others ignore these signs and their team keep on disliking them. Don't be one of those leaders who ignore these signs. After you watch this video, you'll have no excuse!
Timestamps:
00:00 Why your team doesn't respect you and what to do about it
01:00 Reason #1 (When you don't stick to your word)
03:13 Reason #2 (When you don't appear strong)
05:49 Reason #3 (When you don't care)
08:48 Reason #4 (When you don't have tough conversations)
11:17 Reason #5 (When you don't make tough decisions)
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I used to be a manufacturing team lead for 3 years and everyone respected me for strong technical skills and good problem solving. Team members relied on me all the time and they couldn’t do well without me. I left the company because I was underpaid for my work contribution. Good problem-solving is very important.
Well said!
beautiful! Great video. Much obliged.
Thank you 👍🏽
Very lovely presentation and teaching ❤
This is excellent I’ve been guilty of several of these o er the course of my career,
Thank You❤
You're welcome!
I treat the Team with respect. My colleague shouts at them and treats them poorly. They prefer her over me and I can't get over it.
This is it! People sometimes prefer sort of toxic leader, I find that hard to wrap my head around..
Is your colleague someone who still delivers top results at work? I've found that alot people will still respect someone who's disrespectful if that someone is highly skilled, delivers results, and is perceived as "superior."
Your co-workers may be seeking that person's validation/approval, because if they can achieve that approval, that will make them feel like they "made it" into the "cool kids" club. Its why Hollywood gets away with abusing/hazing their interns.
@@natesamadhi33 We both perform well. My colleague is seen as interesting and funny, due to talking in obscene language and slouching and talking over others in meetings. People do look for her approval, definitely. When she is around, people stop talking to me.
@@v.h.7180 I see, I know exactly the kind of person you're talking about; that was the image I had in my head. This sounds like a personality-thing then; people probably just perceive your colleague as more "cool" and they want that approval from a "cool"-seeming person (I'm not saying you're not "cool", I'm just describing how they possibly perceive your colleague)
The thing is though, people wrongly try to emulate that raunchy behavior thinking that'll make them "cool"---but I've seen some serious introverts who commanded the attention of the whole room while the extroverts were trying to impress **them**
I learned it's not about who's the loudest or the funniest---its about who's perceived as the "strongest" and the most valuable to be around. There are many ways to embody that; its just that average people tend to perceive many "Don't Give a Shit"-type people as stronger because those DGaS-people [seemingly] don't need approval...seemingly. But you could still easily be funny & strong while being more reserved, but idk your exact situation, so I can't diagnose you.
@@natesamadhi33 Probably a charisma scenario in play then.
These are valuable lessons if se want to be a better leader as we get the chance but in reality we don't lead, we are bossed by someone incompetent and dumb for the position. They don't keep their word, they don't respect the staff, they don't tackle problems, they create, instead, don't take decisions. It seems they give a shit for how we feel or think. They are not strong but they make us feel weak and demoralized. Their lack of moral and energy contaminates us.
Thank you I have benefited a lot
I'm glad to hear that!
Very inspiring 💪💪
Thanks Jopson!
You are a leadership gem!
Wow! Thank you so much!
Good job
Kara believe me I try not just at work even at home respect matters, will definitely take note of these key pointers moving forward. 🤓👍
Thanks you've been so much help lately specially with this topic.. Would love to hear more, Also hope to let you know how things transpire.
Respect is so important at work and at home, like you said. Thank you so much for supporting my channel! I really appreciate it!
Thank you❤
I love how you always find very nuanced and very important topics, Kara! This is spot on as well, ˋunfortunately´ 3 out of 5 have resonated with me 😄, but it’s better to be aware if these. Thanks for the helpful tips on how to avoid these mistakes, too.
Thank you so much Eszter! Awareness is the first step. Then you know what areas to work on.
Thank you dear Kara! What I can say from my experience, is the fact managers are not people of knowledge. They usually use other people expertise and results to promote themselves, which is quite selfish and not a good leadership skill in my opinion. What about selective honesty from leaders, depending on the importance and position? For instance, respecting priorities and integrity of older colleagues managers and not new younger people who also work hard to be visible and noticed? Thank you for clear explanation on topics that matter!
Thank you for watching Ana! Yes, some managers do promote themselves but not their team. I agree, it's not right as the manager is successful because of the team. Giving credit where credit is deserved is really important in leadership. To your other point about respecting older employees or younger, both absolutely need to be respected the same.
I struggle with #4. I feel strong in every other aspect but horrible at this. I’m a young manager. The youngest in my fortune 50 company. It’s hard for me to crack down on grown men that have been in the business as long as I have been alive…
This can be difficult. Remember that you were put in that position for a reason. You have something on top of those other employees in your company. And you have a right to "crack down" on them if you need to. It will take practice. And it will feel strange at first. But, letting them keep doing the wrong thing will impact you more.
I feel you.
Nice video.
When a leader loses the Management's trust it can start a downward spiral of deteriorating leadership
Thank you Bhim!
It can. Trust is so important in every business relationship.
I make decisions , but I also ask my team to make decision a with me
It's important to involve your team when necessary. It helps them feel empowered.
I happy with youss, i will inter inside porpose, at expression have in it word including in perfux as indirect or indecision, in mean inside, but undirct, me in youss best, me un youss
How I can get personal gajdance from you?
Im brutaly bullied on my work just because I have difficult to express my self in balanced right way.
Last 24 year I suffer a lot.
I don't provide personal coaching sessions at the moment. But keep in touch via TH-cam and I'll announce if that changes.
Hindi
Extroverts always gossiping and wanting a lot of attention to discuss their personal life.
True.