Do you think you would/could ever make a video talking about how you healed your relationship with your parents and came to a place of forgiveness and acceptance? I am dealing with this currently and it feels impossible to do, even though I want to get there SO badly.
Thinking out loud: maybe it helps to see how they are raised by their parents, do some family dynamic system work, and see the similarities. Often parents give you what they have gotten from their parents. And of course it's sad that they didn't change bad patterns. Some parents try to give you the best of their ability, even if it didn't work. Other parents might leave or do bad things (I don't know your situation), and about that I will say: you can choose your own new family. Forgiving means letting go for yourself. You don't have to accept/right the behaviour that happened, but you are worth it to find people you feel supported by and focus your energy on that
I also think sometimes you can't heal it. It depends on the amount of trauma. For me healing can also be stepping out of it. I don't have to forgive or love them.
I love that you talk about not being excited in the same way other are, I'm very "chill" and I always worry that people perceive me as boring or unexcitable, but its just who I am.
my two kids have aided tremendously in my growth and consciousness journey. one day while raising my voice to my then-2 year old, I realized that my voice was my parents, not my own. I saw how i was repeating generational trauma and from that point on i've healed SO much and learned things that I wish my inner child got to learn. Im so thankful that I can integrate these lessons to my children since I never had the chance. how beautiful healing can be for ourselves and the collective!! thank you for sharing your lessons and wisdom for others
As a mother to a 1 and 3 year old ❤ I love hearing other parents heal this and NOT pass it to next generation. It's hard work but our children and us deserve it.
You’re really needed Hitomi. I’m so thankful for the light you bring into my life. Thank you for making me feel more normal about feeling my feelings and being my true self.
There's just something about you and your channel that always brings me back for more! You create magic out of every video and you inspire all of us, well done beautiful soul! Much love always! Keep on spreading your light on us!
We collectively realized cutting off parents just makes things worse. Forgiveness and love is the only source of comfort. Also understanding that one day my kids will grow up and have complaints about me bc I’m not perfect, and I’m hoping they’ll show me grace as I have for my parents.
The way you navigate expectations and reality touches the primal concerns of how we grow up. Your energy is so self assured that it's an energy goal for others.
Your thoughts and energy really push me and make me uncomfortable, and I’m struggling to not judge like “what she’s saying is wrong; here’s why”, “She is right, and look it shows she’s happy and beautiful and successful and improving millions of lives” I feel our shared human values, and I really want to learn your mind as just a way of living life. It’s not one I will walk as a man, but I can tell it’ll feel right and fulfill me in whatever way I’m feeling and being pushed by you
you worded this so well, I noticed I judge so quickly and then react to the judgement and it's been this way forever. I can notice it in my body better now, and I have hope we can both get to a peaceful energy.
I have watched you since I was 16 when I got my first really deep depression, and ever since then you have helped me accepting myself, I am 23 now, love from sweden ❤️
I can say that the part of having to match peoples energy and living with roommates and not wanting to be social straight away Is Me. I’m also very chill and my tone of voice is more on the mellow side. It’s something that I have to learn how to do and just be my authentic self without having to pretend to be something else.
I am so beyond grateful for you, when you mentioned the part about matching others energy I have NEVER related to anything so much, I am also the type that is very calm just nod my head and I am not always energetic and giddy but that does not mean I am not happy or excited and I used to feel so bad for it and journal about it but I know that its okay to be that way you are such an inspiration to me its beyond words thank you for your existence in this universe, to share it with you and experience you is a blessing ( even if its through the screen energy speaks volumes ) x
I realized lately that my mother has borderline personality disorder. I still have a lot of emotional trauma from growing up and finally I can accept it and believe myself. I am fully concentrating on healing right now and you are a big Inspiration for me!:)
I can relate to having a mother who has a mental health disorder. I have no relationship with her, my father, and the rest of my family in California and my native Italy. So I can definitely relate to what you went through.
Dude. I’m so happy I’ve found you. Not only can I look within my 37 year old self & heal old wounds, but I can take these pieces of info for my 12 year old son so that he doesn’t have to have as much pain around such topics. Thank you for sharing. You’re incredible!! 💕
The trauma shame and feeling like you’re not allowed to have those responses and hide that part of yourself even though it’s a completely natural, authentic and understandable response, like why would you have to hide that. I felt that
Her videos are so healing. I always watch them alone because they speak to my highest truth and I have to be in my own presence to be honest with myself.
Thank you for uploading this,I'm 18 yo black girl in Italy and I've been feeling lost lately, I just realized that I needed to hear this. Thank you so much💜
Hitomi!! You are literally a breath of fresh air, whenever I need a sign I'm brought back to your channel and its always been a profound experience. I've been watching you since I was a teenager and now going into my mid 20's I appreciate your videos even more. Thank you for always reminding your viewers to show up as their authentic selves ❤
I love the part about being comfortable with not always matching with people’s energy. I have people in my life.. who I love dearly, who want me to show up for them in this exciting, energetic person but at times I just want to celebrate them through smiling or just being calm up but still celebrating them. Like I don’t want them to think that I don’t care or that I’m jealous or something negative, it’s just I’m not in that energetic field right now to show up like that, but I’m still proud of their successes… and I’m glad You brought that up hitomi bc I always felt like I was the odd one out or would be scared to get deemed as a “bitchy” or less exciting friend who’s probably jealous 😂😭.
I don’t know what it is today, I’ve been very emotional. Seeing and hearing the first 20 seconds of your video I just cried. Because i see a lot of myself in you. Seeing you thrive has opened my eyes up that I can be myself. I can forgive myself. I too can thrive. You always help bring me to a sense of elevation Hitomi. Thank you for sharing your energy and your journey as always. It is felt on so many levels.
You can put words on my inner thought and on the way I deeply feel about life, it's soooo good to hear this from outside ❤️ And thank you so much for the courage you have to share this on TH-cam
I loved the advice of not matching people's energy. As an HSP introvert, this is really a big one for me, since socializing can be such an energy drain for me. Will definitely carry this idea with me from now on. ♥️
I wish we could be friends! Maybe we will cross paths one day! I have been having a hard time with emotional regulation, and I felt like from watching this video I got a pep talk from a friend. Thank you so much for your light. ☀️
Hitomi, I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for these beautiful words and lessons. You radiate such a powerful yet calm energy that makes me feel in a safe space. You've helped and inspired me to finally vocalise my boundaries and be okay with who I am, not always trying to make myself small or run away from social situations in fear of my shadow being seen. Sending you all the love 🙏✨❤️
"At the end of the day I just want to be a good person." I felt that internally. I love the uniqueness of your content, and I'm glad that I subscribed to you!!
“The worst thing that can happen when you speak a boundary is someone leaves your life. And the best thing that’s happening when you speak a boundary is you choosing yourself. I’d much rather always choose myself than someone who can’t fully hold me” 😭❤️🩹 5:06 Thank you for speaking to fellow emotional neglect survivors. Needed this.
Thank you for this video Hitomi. I’ve been struggling with my acne these past couple months. Sometimes it’s hard for me to even look at myself in the mirror. I’m really working on trying to be ok with this part of myself but it isn’t easy. Your videos like these really help me with this journey I’m on of learning to love myself fully. Thank you and sending so much love 💕
I found you through Isabel and seriously, I'm a lot like you. I don't like to socialize in the morning and am chill wallflower 80% of the time, buzzing energy the other 20%. It's such a different perspective to realize I don't have to match other's energy. That's the thing that's been keeping me away from people, society is just super exhausting sometimes. Thanks Hitomi and I just subscribed!!
Oooo yes socialize in my present energy. Stay present and grounded in myself. Sometimes I want to say something, w my parents, but it's unkind, more of a flashback to how they treated me in the past. Wanting to say the same mean things they said to me. Yikes, that passes, but makes me feel like I'm a bad person .
Redefining beauty and success!! My goal is to experience different things, meet different people, and look someone in the eyes, make them feel heard or seen, even if lasts seconds. My soul feels sooo better after, and i feel so free, free of mundane expectations like killing myself for a "better" job or graduating faster.. what are we running for?
I’ve love to see you make a video on how to help others heal from their trauma, especially if they don’t talk about it a lot or are less spiritually tuned in
Hitomi thank you for helping me know my true soul within myself . Just want to let you know that I truly love and adore you 😊. I hope we could meet someday 🥺❤️ . Sending you hugs and wishing you happiness in every moment your life ❤️🤗
I'm so incredibly grateful that I found this channel. She's such a relatable human being!! Her content reminds me that I am not alone and helps me to embrace my authentic self.
This video spoke to me on so many different levels. I am almost 28 and feel more lost now then I did when I was in my teenage years. Thanks for your insight Hotomi it helps me realize I am not inadequate, i am not alone, that I am valid and I am just human. I often feel love for strangers and you’re one of them. I really want to sit with you under a tree and talk for hours, then laugh form our bellies. I just love who you are! ❤️✨
wow, this is exactly what i needed to hear right now. it can be so stressful trying to match someone’s energy so that i’ll be appealing to them when that’s just not who i want to be in the moment.
I literally just wrote a song about just wanting to create a safe space for the people I love. I love watching your videos because it feels like hanging out with a friend who gets me and who’s thinking about what I’m thinking about. Very small but very impactful in this rather lonely season. Much love to you, Hitomi! And thanks for sharing your wisdom and co-regulating with us! Have a lovely evening :)
I feel like i just woke up. Throughout the video I felt the urge write something down: my thoughts, feelengs, emotions, so that you could know that I appreciate you, and that you are the best person I've ever had pleasure to see. Thank you very much ❤️❤️❤️ I am speechless 🙏 P.S: Sorry for my bad english, I'm still learning 🤗
Ohh, my I am a bit older then you and I am thankful for your honesty!!! I grew up with Narcissist parents and I feel you about having no guidance. I was on my own as soon as I turned 18. Thank you sister, stay blessed 🙏🏼
Thank you for sharing the spiritual plateau. I’m currently experiencing too, it helps me to think that, “It’s normal and ok. I’m still on the right path.” ☺️
felt this. me staying true to myself has been healing to my entire family. I have broken many generational curses and have attracted so many opportunities. I love being weird and cool and quirky
Needed to hear this today! Practicing just being present more and not getting so caught up in who I am going to be and that all parts of me are always existing 💜 Love your videos!
literally just spent the past little while binging your content to try to help me with a bit of a tougher day, and then you post! so perfect, thank you.
Love, love, love, absolutely loved everything you said. It all resonated with me. The only thing I would add to this, is the need to feed ourselves spiritually. We were created with a spiritual need, feeding that and working on maintaining that connection with our Creator, has, for me, changed everything. Contentment, inner joy, and true happiness have been the benefits I have found when I finally studied the Holy Scriptures. The truth about God, as presented in the Bible, as opposed to the stories we've been told, has been incredibly freeing in every way that you've mentioned.
I feel like whenever you head towards your journey and real self you kind of naturally become the most beautiful version of yourself and it's clearly visible, you can somehow feel it inside out... And thank you for sharing your lovely wisdom with the world🤗 Sending loads of love and good vibes 💞
Thank you. I'm a new viewer, struggling with self-acceptance, feelings of belonging, and a general sense of purpose. Your videos speak to the quiet, unseen parts of myself that needed a hug. I am forever grateful for your willingness to teach in ways that affirm and give life.
I’m having a such a weird emotional night. It might be pms… all the anger flaring up inside me for no reason might be unconscious feelings. However listening to you talking about self acceptance. It is like re-grounding myself again find the center and be kind to my anger. So I won’t feel ashamed of myself of having this anger. Thank you for sharing. This help me.
Something I’m learning to do is wear no makeup and allow my hair to be natural and curly and seeing more youtubers embody beauty in its natural form is so inspiring so thank you hitomi.
I haven’t watched your videos in a while, and I’ve been going through a lot of mental health issues and disconnect from my spirituality due to it. I came back and watched this today and I really think God led me here for a reason. I really needed to hear this especially today. Thank you ❤
Hi Hitomi! Thank you so much for all the videos. I was able to say NO to strengthen my YES thanks to you. My whole life has changed and I am more than thankful for discovering you!
What a fresh find! As a daughter of chinese immigrants growing up in northern germany in the 90s, hitomis speech has touched many painlevels that are so real. The misfit objectification mode was put upon me by white men and other men since as long as i can remember. And because of patriarchial systems and paradigmes that gaslight young women of colour, you do not dare to speak about what makes you deeply uncomfortable most of the times. Hitomi took the words out of my mouth, I agree with almost every sentence here. And I am so glad that with Virginie Despentes, Rujuta Diwekar, Kaouthar Darmoni, Chimamanda Adichie and many other creatives people/speakers I have recently discovered, Hitomi is another guide, another icon and friend, clarity speaking guru that has and will in the future be an inspiration for me as a woman of colour. Danke Hitomi 😸
I feel so much "we see you" energy, if that makes sense. Allowing yourself to be seen and present in the world, knowing your presence is actually perfect in this now. I literally asked a tree yesterday "how do you do it, how do you just show up so rooted and balanced?" and the reply I received was "I never questioned my potential". We're all blessed with this infinite potential, and our younger versions expressed this freely. I can definitely see my reflection in this video, it brought up a lot for me, thank you soul much hitomi! 🌱🤍💚
Hitomi needs her own podcast. I would be a faithful listener 🙏🏽🔮✨
Yees that’s an excellent idea 🙌🏻
SAMEEEE her voice is so comforting & she is so insightful & eloquent💚✨
I know, I thought that a while back to. I’m here for it!!!
Her visuals are so comforting though
Would love this!
"Living in your purest natural authenticity is medicine for everyone"
Yes!
Do you think you would/could ever make a video talking about how you healed your relationship with your parents and came to a place of forgiveness and acceptance? I am dealing with this currently and it feels impossible to do, even though I want to get there SO badly.
Thinking out loud: maybe it helps to see how they are raised by their parents, do some family dynamic system work, and see the similarities. Often parents give you what they have gotten from their parents. And of course it's sad that they didn't change bad patterns. Some parents try to give you the best of their ability, even if it didn't work. Other parents might leave or do bad things (I don't know your situation), and about that I will say: you can choose your own new family. Forgiving means letting go for yourself. You don't have to accept/right the behaviour that happened, but you are worth it to find people you feel supported by and focus your energy on that
So many people would benefit from this!
I also think sometimes you can't heal it. It depends on the amount of trauma. For me healing can also be stepping out of it. I don't have to forgive or love them.
Me too! I would love to hear it!
@@anih8199 wow I needed to read this❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
I love that you talk about not being excited in the same way other are, I'm very "chill" and I always worry that people perceive me as boring or unexcitable, but its just who I am.
Absolutely relate
my two kids have aided tremendously in my growth and consciousness journey. one day while raising my voice to my then-2 year old, I realized that my voice was my parents, not my own. I saw how i was repeating generational trauma and from that point on i've healed SO much and learned things that I wish my inner child got to learn. Im so thankful that I can integrate these lessons to my children since I never had the chance. how beautiful healing can be for ourselves and the collective!! thank you for sharing your lessons and wisdom for others
Right there with you, mama! It is so challenging but so rewarding to do this work within ourselves and for our kids! ❤️❤️
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As a mother to a 1 and 3 year old ❤ I love hearing other parents heal this and NOT pass it to next generation. It's hard work but our children and us deserve it.
literally crying cas of how much I love this human giving me the comfort I didn’t even know I needed
ikr they're amazing
You’re really needed Hitomi. I’m so thankful for the light you bring into my life. Thank you for making me feel more normal about feeling my feelings and being my true self.
There's just something about you and your channel that always brings me back for more! You create magic out of every video and you inspire all of us, well done beautiful soul! Much love always! Keep on spreading your light on us!
randomly started sobbing when you discussed feeling embarrassed after social interactions. i'm so grateful for your realness.
We collectively realized cutting off parents just makes things worse. Forgiveness and love is the only source of comfort. Also understanding that one day my kids will grow up and have complaints about me bc I’m not perfect, and I’m hoping they’ll show me grace as I have for my parents.
"living in your purest natural authenticity is medicine for everyone" love this so much
The way you navigate expectations and reality touches the primal concerns of how we grow up. Your energy is so self assured that it's an energy goal for others.
I could literally cry these words are so affirming n refreshing.
I feel so lucky and DEEPLY blessed that the people who actually see me and understand me ARE my parents ❤
Your thoughts and energy really push me and make me uncomfortable, and I’m struggling to not judge like “what she’s saying is wrong; here’s why”, “She is right, and look it shows she’s happy and beautiful and successful and improving millions of lives”
I feel our shared human values, and I really want to learn your mind as just a way of living life. It’s not one I will walk as a man, but I can tell it’ll feel right and fulfill me in whatever way I’m feeling and being pushed by you
you worded this so well, I noticed I judge so quickly and then react to the judgement and it's been this way forever. I can notice it in my body better now, and I have hope we can both get to a peaceful energy.
@@Rothko333 (:
I have watched you since I was 16 when I got my first really deep depression, and ever since then you have helped me accepting myself, I am 23 now, love from sweden ❤️
I can say that the part of having to match peoples energy and living with roommates and not wanting to be social straight away Is Me. I’m also very chill and my tone of voice is more on the mellow side. It’s something that I have to learn how to do and just be my authentic self without having to pretend to be something else.
like that match of energy for me would be a downward match
I am so beyond grateful for you, when you mentioned the part about matching others energy I have NEVER related to anything so much, I am also the type that is very calm just nod my head and I am not always energetic and giddy but that does not mean I am not happy or excited and I used to feel so bad for it and journal about it but I know that its okay to be that way you are such an inspiration to me its beyond words thank you for your existence in this universe, to share it with you and experience you is a blessing ( even if its through the screen energy speaks volumes ) x
love how we get little snippets of your elegance doing normal self care activities while listening to your feelings and story. youre very relatable
I realized lately that my mother has borderline personality disorder. I still have a lot of emotional trauma from growing up and finally I can accept it and believe myself. I am fully concentrating on healing right now and you are a big Inspiration for me!:)
I can relate to having a mother who has a mental health disorder. I have no relationship with her, my father, and the rest of my family in California and my native Italy. So I can definitely relate to what you went through.
I needed this so bad. I honestly started crying because my voice in my head can be so mean and I really need to work on unconditional acceptance
Dude. I’m so happy I’ve found you. Not only can I look within my 37 year old self & heal old wounds, but I can take these pieces of info for my 12 year old son so that he doesn’t have to have as much pain around such topics. Thank you for sharing. You’re incredible!! 💕
The trauma shame and feeling like you’re not allowed to have those responses and hide that part of yourself even though it’s a completely natural, authentic and understandable response, like why would you have to hide that. I felt that
I've followed you for over 15 years Hitomi you have no idea how much I resonate with you. So happy to still see you around so authentically.
Her videos are so healing. I always watch them alone because they speak to my highest truth and I have to be in my own presence to be honest with myself.
Thank you for uploading this,I'm 18 yo black girl in Italy and I've been feeling lost lately, I just realized that I needed to hear this.
Thank you so much💜
Hitomi!! You are literally a breath of fresh air, whenever I need a sign I'm brought back to your channel and its always been a profound experience. I've been watching you since I was a teenager and now going into my mid 20's I appreciate your videos even more. Thank you for always reminding your viewers to show up as their authentic selves ❤
This has been tremendously helpful, thank you. 🙏♥️🥰
I love the part about being comfortable with not always matching with people’s energy. I have people in my life.. who I love dearly, who want me to show up for them in this exciting, energetic person but at times I just want to celebrate them through smiling or just being calm up but still celebrating them. Like I don’t want them to think that I don’t care or that I’m jealous or something negative, it’s just I’m not in that energetic field right now to show up like that, but I’m still proud of their successes… and I’m glad You brought that up hitomi bc I always felt like I was the odd one out or would be scared to get deemed as a “bitchy” or less exciting friend who’s probably jealous 😂😭.
feeling so much love and gratitude for you. thank you for creating this safe internet space.
I don’t know what it is today, I’ve been very emotional. Seeing and hearing the first 20 seconds of your video I just cried. Because i see a lot of myself in you. Seeing you thrive has opened my eyes up that I can be myself. I can forgive myself. I too can thrive. You always help bring me to a sense of elevation Hitomi. Thank you for sharing your energy and your journey as always. It is felt on so many levels.
You can put words on my inner thought and on the way I deeply feel about life, it's soooo good to hear this from outside ❤️ And thank you so much for the courage you have to share this on TH-cam
You literally validate my existence, listening to you I always resonate deeply and that normalises my experiences/thoughts. Thank you 💖
I loved the advice of not matching people's energy. As an HSP introvert, this is really a big one for me, since socializing can be such an energy drain for me. Will definitely carry this idea with me from now on. ♥️
You’re such an inspiration Hitomi, always reminding us to be the authentic version of ourselves, which is so difficult in todays society ❤️
I wish we could be friends! Maybe we will cross paths one day! I have been having a hard time with emotional regulation, and I felt like from watching this video I got a pep talk from a friend. Thank you so much for your light. ☀️
oh my goodness, I appreciate you existing so much. the feelings and thoughts you share always make me feel so validated and seen.
Hitomi, I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for these beautiful words and lessons. You radiate such a powerful yet calm energy that makes me feel in a safe space. You've helped and inspired me to finally vocalise my boundaries and be okay with who I am, not always trying to make myself small or run away from social situations in fear of my shadow being seen. Sending you all the love 🙏✨❤️
"At the end of the day I just want to be a good person." I felt that internally. I love the uniqueness of your content, and I'm glad that I subscribed to you!!
Why are you a better therapist than any licensed therapist I’ve ever been too
“The worst thing that can happen when you speak a boundary is someone leaves your life. And the best thing that’s happening when you speak a boundary is you choosing yourself. I’d much rather always choose myself than someone who can’t fully hold me” 😭❤️🩹 5:06
Thank you for speaking to fellow emotional neglect survivors. Needed this.
Thank you for this video Hitomi. I’ve been struggling with my acne these past couple months. Sometimes it’s hard for me to even look at myself in the mirror. I’m really working on trying to be ok with this part of myself but it isn’t easy. Your videos like these really help me with this journey I’m on of learning to love myself fully. Thank you and sending so much love 💕
I found you through Isabel and seriously, I'm a lot like you. I don't like to socialize in the morning and am chill wallflower 80% of the time, buzzing energy the other 20%. It's such a different perspective to realize I don't have to match other's energy. That's the thing that's been keeping me away from people, society is just super exhausting sometimes. Thanks Hitomi and I just subscribed!!
Oooo yes socialize in my present energy. Stay present and grounded in myself. Sometimes I want to say something, w my parents, but it's unkind, more of a flashback to how they treated me in the past. Wanting to say the same mean things they said to me. Yikes, that passes, but makes me feel like I'm a bad person .
Redefining beauty and success!!
My goal is to experience different things, meet different people, and look someone in the eyes, make them feel heard or seen, even if lasts seconds. My soul feels sooo better after, and i feel so free, free of mundane expectations like killing myself for a "better" job or graduating faster.. what are we running for?
Sometimes the best healing is just leaving the past behind and just disconnect from the negativity
I’ve love to see you make a video on how to help others heal from their trauma, especially if they don’t talk about it a lot or are less spiritually tuned in
Hitomi thank you for helping me know my true soul within myself . Just want to let you know that I truly love and adore you 😊. I hope we could meet someday 🥺❤️ . Sending you hugs and wishing you happiness in every moment your life ❤️🤗
thats a precious talk, I even took notes.. I just love the vibe, so calming. thank you precious ✨
Quality human being right here. We love you, Hitomi. Your presence and introspection is always so appreciated.
I'm so incredibly grateful that I found this channel. She's such a relatable human being!! Her content reminds me that I am not alone and helps me to embrace my authentic self.
This video spoke to me on so many different levels. I am almost 28 and feel more lost now then I did when I was in my teenage years. Thanks for your insight Hotomi it helps me realize I am not inadequate, i am not alone, that I am valid and I am just human. I often feel love for strangers and you’re one of them. I really want to sit with you under a tree and talk for hours, then laugh form our bellies. I just love who you are! ❤️✨
wow, this is exactly what i needed to hear right now. it can be so stressful trying to match someone’s energy so that i’ll be appealing to them when that’s just not who i want to be in the moment.
I literally just wrote a song about just wanting to create a safe space for the people I love. I love watching your videos because it feels like hanging out with a friend who gets me and who’s thinking about what I’m thinking about. Very small but very impactful in this rather lonely season. Much love to you, Hitomi! And thanks for sharing your wisdom and co-regulating with us! Have a lovely evening :)
This video is almost triggering because I relate so much to these experiences and lessons mentioned. This one's a gem, thank you for sharing x
your reflection resonate perfectly with mine right now... that's crazy. I feel you so much, you seem to be my subconscience talking to me!
I resonated with every single word you said it’s honestly scary. I’m going through self worth and acceptance as well
I feel like i just woke up. Throughout the video I felt the urge write something down: my thoughts, feelengs, emotions, so that you could know that I appreciate you, and that you are the best person I've ever had pleasure to see. Thank you very much ❤️❤️❤️ I am speechless 🙏
P.S: Sorry for my bad english, I'm still learning 🤗
Ohh, my I am a bit older then you and I am thankful for your honesty!!! I grew up with Narcissist parents and I feel you about having no guidance. I was on my own as soon as I turned 18. Thank you sister, stay blessed 🙏🏼
Thank you for sharing the spiritual plateau. I’m currently experiencing too, it helps me to think that, “It’s normal and ok. I’m still on the right path.” ☺️
Thank you so much for sharing your experience. It’s really helpful 😊
felt this. me staying true to myself has been healing to my entire family. I have broken many generational curses and have attracted so many opportunities. I love being weird and cool and quirky
I feel deeply understood with the need to remain silent in the morning. I will start communicating this from now on
I just love her so much ❤️🩹
thank you so much💚💚💚it’s always so healing to hear your honesty-you make me feel seen🙏🏼💫
Needed to hear this today! Practicing just being present more and not getting so caught up in who I am going to be and that all parts of me are always existing 💜 Love your videos!
literally just spent the past little while binging your content to try to help me with a bit of a tougher day, and then you post! so perfect, thank you.
Love, love, love, absolutely loved everything you said. It all resonated with me. The only thing I would add to this, is the need to feed ourselves spiritually. We were created with a spiritual need, feeding that and working on maintaining that connection with our Creator, has, for me, changed everything. Contentment, inner joy, and true happiness have been the benefits I have found when I finally studied the Holy Scriptures. The truth about God, as presented in the Bible, as opposed to the stories we've been told, has been incredibly freeing in every way that you've mentioned.
I feel like whenever you head towards your journey and real self you kind of naturally become the most beautiful version of yourself and it's clearly visible, you can somehow feel it inside out...
And thank you for sharing your lovely wisdom with the world🤗
Sending loads of love and good vibes 💞
I so agree with being your authentic self! ❤️
Thank you. I'm a new viewer, struggling with self-acceptance, feelings of belonging, and a general sense of purpose. Your videos speak to the quiet, unseen parts of myself that needed a hug. I am forever grateful for your willingness to teach in ways that affirm and give life.
I’m having a such a weird emotional night. It might be pms… all the anger flaring up inside me for no reason might be unconscious feelings. However listening to you talking about self acceptance. It is like re-grounding myself again find the center and be kind to my anger. So I won’t feel ashamed of myself of having this anger. Thank you for sharing. This help me.
Dear hitomi, thank you for being that big sis talk i never received
ILYSM 🤍 thank you for being you Hitomi my inner child & light are so grateful for you 🙏🏼
Hitomi 💖 Thank You for this helpful and relatable therapy session. 😌🌱
Something I’m learning to do is wear no makeup and allow my hair to be natural and curly and seeing more youtubers embody beauty in its natural form is so inspiring so thank you hitomi.
I haven’t watched your videos in a while, and I’ve been going through a lot of mental health issues and disconnect from my spirituality due to it. I came back and watched this today and I really think God led me here for a reason. I really needed to hear this especially today. Thank you ❤
this video came at divine timing for me! i really needed to hear it. thank you so much for being you and spreading love
thank you so much Hitomi, you're like a big sister to me 💕
I LOVE YOU, I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR BEING THAT BEAUTIFUL SOUL, I LOVE HOW YOU TALK ABOUT BEAUTY, THANK YOU!!
This was so freakin on point and validating Hitomi 😫 thank you for sharing ❤️🥹
The compassion you show yourself is so genuine that in turn, I can feel it for myself 💖 thank you for your kind words!
this is actually the best video ever. thank u so much for putting my feelings into words
my love for you & your teachings are forever expanding
I think you are so lucky to begin with these two partners that never leave you...
You need a Podcast girl!!!
Love the way you navigate ✨🤍😶🌫️
That was amazing to watch and more importantly to me, it was incredible to feel all of that with you!
Hi Hitomi! Thank you so much for all the videos. I was able to say NO to strengthen my YES thanks to you. My whole life has changed and I am more than thankful for discovering you!
i relate to you a lot and your words bring me a lot of comfort. it feels good to know that i can simply be me, thank you
these topics and everything hitomi makes would be so so good as podcasts, love her 💗
I agree 💯
this video addressed exactly what i’ve been struggling with, thank you for sharing hitomi💕
This is something I’m coming back to I need these reminders 🐯
Having a baby & taking a lot into consideration from my personal experiences to others. These are insightful videos ♥️
Congrats on your little one! I just had my second baby in February. Motherhood is such an amazing journey.
I can definitely relate because I have a three-year-old daughter.
What a fresh find! As a daughter of chinese immigrants growing up in northern germany in the 90s, hitomis speech has touched many painlevels that are so real. The misfit objectification mode was put upon me by white men and other men since as long as i can remember. And because of patriarchial systems and paradigmes that gaslight young women of colour, you do not dare to speak about what makes you deeply uncomfortable most of the times. Hitomi took the words out of my mouth, I agree with almost every sentence here. And I am so glad that with Virginie Despentes, Rujuta Diwekar, Kaouthar Darmoni, Chimamanda Adichie and many other creatives people/speakers I have recently discovered, Hitomi is another guide, another icon and friend, clarity speaking guru that has and will in the future be an inspiration for me as a woman of colour. Danke Hitomi 😸
An ethereal earth angel. Thank you for your wisdom and guidance ❤
wow this gave me so much comfort thank you hitomi
This is probably the most important content ever created. You make the universe a better place with everything you do...thank you for being.
Really what l needed to hear today .. you have saved me so much today ! You need a podcast
You have no idea how happy I get when you upload!!!It literally makes my year 👑👑👑
I feel so much "we see you" energy, if that makes sense. Allowing yourself to be seen and present in the world, knowing your presence is actually perfect in this now. I literally asked a tree yesterday "how do you do it, how do you just show up so rooted and balanced?" and the reply I received was "I never questioned my potential". We're all blessed with this infinite potential, and our younger versions expressed this freely. I can definitely see my reflection in this video, it brought up a lot for me, thank you soul much hitomi! 🌱🤍💚