*”I feel most beautiful when the female gaze lands upon me because I feel the most seen”* 🙌😭 I have never thought of sisterhood in this way and I’m different now.
Guys, please uplift me with wishful blessings as I desire and crave a friendship and bond like this. I'm approaching another age being alone and afraid. Everywhere I go, I see happy people thriving with others and never understand why I'm not good enough to be in similar situations. The trauma is eating me alive.
Same well I’m in a relationship with a 28 year old man I’m 23 . Had him moved in w/ me bc I ain’t wanna be alone and felt like he would help me and we could grow a connection together Bt it’s so codependent bullshit going on
All the blessings and light towards you and your future and current friendships. May you manifest what you seek and what you need out of this life. All love from another soul 🙏🏽
@@mrmrshoodhippie8669 I'm so sorry to hear that. I too have been in co dependent relationships. They are obviously not healthy but, I believe they are needed to help us to realize what we need and want from life as a whole
I was actually literally just thinking about this, how so many of my friendships there's been this barrier of intimacy that was never crossed because of multiple reasons tbh, but how much I genuinely craved to just be held or touched by a loving friend. It made me realize how there's this whole level of connection I've just never even tapped into, but always looked for in mostly romantic partners. Related to this whole video so much, and can't wait to call this into my own life 💕 Thanks for sharing Hitomi!
Yes..Yes!.. I completely hear you & I feel exactly the same way with my own experience. And also how I want to develop more intimacy in all my relationships☺️
I 100% agree with your statement. I always thought I wanted a relationship, but no I just want real true close friendships. But I have much trauma to work through and trust issues because of past friendships and relationships. I pray I find those friends because I have none.
If anyone is interested in treating shyness at home the greatest info that i've ever had was by following the Seans Shy Program (i found it on google) - I found it the best info that I have ever followed.
You've opened my eyes up to the friendships I've been maintaining and why. Not saying every friendship has to be perfect or identical to your experience but you helped me realize, I deserve sisterhood. I deserve to feel safe with my girls. Loved. honored and protected. My circle has turned into a dot but I am so hopeful that I am aligning with my tribe soon. Thank you for this!
I’m a part of a women’s circle it’s amazing if you’re open to learning more I’d love to share more with you about it. We all deserve to be in CommonUnity with sistars
We men don't even come close to anything like this. I hope women understand how lucky they are to be able to share this type of close relationship with their sisters.
Yeah, me too. I wish you the best. There are tribes or close friends: I could think of my uncles and cousins in the gatherings, of celeb friendships like Rob Lowe, Chris Pratt and Nick Offerman or Jared Padalecki and Jensen Ackles. Anyways, I'll find my home too.
I hope you can find this kind of relationship with other men in your life. You absolutely deserve it and the idea of sacred sisterhood goes beyond the confines of gender
I like to bring a package of loose tea or coffee or even dried kitchen herbs from the garden as a gift for my hosting friend. I also like to write poems dedicated to my loved ones, which I send them traditionally, often with a small illustration of some sort included. What I especially love is cooking together, exchanging recipes and learning a new vegan meal, get to know new spices and techniques. My sketchbook has a few pages only form my sisters, they are always welcome to draw and write and express themselves onto and into this space. Encouraging the people in my life to re-learn the playfulness and lightness of being creative to me is healing on an essential basis. - gratefully a German woman
praying I get to share moments and experiences like this with other women soon. this was beautiful to read and I'm sure greater to experience and share. Love to you
This is so sweet. Reading this msg reminded me of my friend who I visited last Saturday. I brought her favorite snacks, and she gave me a basket full of soaps, snacks, and hair products. She is very warm and inviting. She showed me her bookshelf which had a sketchbook on it, and she's like you can draw/write in this if you want.
i wish i had friendships like these, i feel like every girl I meet has already her group and doesn't want me to join. It's really frustrating tbh. Your videos bring me hope
I feel this so deeply as well, especially in high school where everyone is so separated and put into groups and categories. I have hope for us and know these deep connections are worthy
@@kdog3334 don't project. If what they wrote is truthful good for them, the way they expressed it may sound judgemental but it still is their reality. Make space for those who drink and those who don't without pointing out anyone with the index or saying that people act mighty.
Seeing this video after I was manifesting true sisterhood connections last night makes me feel so happy and joyful knowing that I will be able to be surrounded by loving and grounded people. Thank you for creating such a good picture of what I once thought was impossible. I am worthy of deep connections, even if they are not in this season of my life now, I will be building myself to be the best friend, not only for myself but for my valued friendships. My circle is just my boyfriend right now and a variety of distant friends, and though I love the relationship that he and I have built I long for the deep platonic female love that comes with safe friends. I once would have watched this video with jealously and envy that I don't "have" these connections but my new self knows, I need to build it within before trying to seek anything outside of me and I feel joy as I watched this video. Thank you Hitomi, you have helped me grow through my darkest seasons and I am so grateful.
I’ve been craving sisterhood for as long as I can remember. I’m now in my Junior year of college without having made any friends. I have no sisters and it’s something I want so badly. I’ve reached the point where I’ve gone so long without intimacy with friends that I don’t even know how to make friends anymore. I feel so lost and alone, but I know that these beautiful, open relationships are what I want. I just wish I could get there.
You could try being beautiful, soft and open to your yourself. There's an old saying: How is inside, it's outside. Check your styles of attachement: are they secure, or avoidant? Check your social skills, a lot of problems can be avoided by using them. Or it may also be useful to know your personality type, like I once read one that was a guide to INFPs, which are sensitive and somewhat clingy, so it gives some pointers to get along with other types that can be seen as more aggressive. I was once there in that place where it seems like Groundhog day, everyday was the same, couldn't shine nor engage, but the problem wasn't outside but within my perspective.
Big same... I'm on college too, and I don't consider myself to have made any friends yet. I feel you really. I know that these connections are what I want but I don't really know how to get them... I would hug you rn, cuz I really feel you I'd be friends with you if we were not that far away xD
What a beautiful friendship. This is honestly one of the biggest reasons behind creating my youtube channel. I long for a community who will see and hear me for my authentic self. This channel has been so expansive for me. Thank you for always being so honest anf authentic ❤
Sisterhood is everything! I learned it along the way. And it's such a blessing to meet like-minded sisters along the way, when your souls just click and connect on a deeper spiritual level. I met most of my sisters through yoga (I'm a yoga teacher) and kirtan (mantra singing together with people).
I have to say, YOU HITOMI, specifically YOU, made me so much more aware of the fact that I’m not alone. Why, that is, you may ask? Well, I kinda thought I was the only one struggling with these same exact things, and you have really reassured me of how okay and valid all my feelings and behaviours are. All of my social anxiety and I can honestly relate to you in a very deep way. Thank YOU for being here🙏
Something I realized is, even though I’m definitely gay- when I look at and appreciate females it’s simply just that, it’s not sexual. I love when women move their bodies, hips are just mesmerizing, we’re just so beautiful and I love that we can just see each other like that 🥰
I love you so deeply Hitomi. I wish I could express to you how much you have changed my life for the better. You are a gift sent to me directly from source.
finding a sacred connection like you talk about it such a huge goal of mine. I always see how you’re friends are portrayed in your videos and you can tell you have a such a love for them and it’s reciprocated to the same degree !
I felt so seen and held throughout this entire video. Thank you for sharing your soul. The world needs it. You have helped me see my introversion and sensitivity as a beautiful and powerful thing; I used to be so ashamed of it.
I long to call this into my life! I feel so far from it. Childhood trauma makes it so hard to connect with people on a deep level. I have amazing ladies in my life and my heart is screaming 'hold me!' but i cannot. I feel so far from everyone around me. Slowly gaining awareness on my actions (or lack of actions) that impact how people perceive our relationship (or how I feel about them). Trying to be more intentional with the relationships that matter in my life, but so often I just want to run away and hide. I'll have to try vocal exercizes before meeting up. Dancing beforehand can definitely help me feel more like myself. You mentioned that boundaries are important for attracting the right people into your life, I would love if you made a video on this.
The person i have a crush on, has a sisterhood with her friends, and i think its so beautiful and makes me feel jelly to be honest self growth is so new to me and it takes a lot of effort. if not days pass and i forget what i learnt. i feel like i progress regress progress regress. this effort to put in is so important
You’ve just shown me the thing I didn’t know my soul has been aching for. And now I have a goal to break down the walls that prevent us from truly experiencing the sacred sister bond. Thank you for sharing this
Ive never felt so hopeful for my future more than this season. Waiting and manifestation and affirmative words is what will carry me to an even brighter and more loving future. So much love to you, from a lil light in Texas
I feel as though I don’t have this with my girl friends. They really prioritize their boyfriends more than they do friendships. Almost all my friends stop talking to me completely or less once they get a boyfriend. It’s so saddening to me that I don’t feel like I have a close friendship like I’d want to with any of them because of this. It frustrates me because I can’t express this to them without feeling like they’d get mad and stop talking to me. I wish I could have what you have Hitomi and find a sisterhood that’s very understanding and loving. I’m very happy you have found this for yourself ❤️
so grateful for this video, because cultivating and inviting more meaningful friendships into my life is what im manifesting and focusing on this year.
Today is a blip day with my depression because of triggers for my trauma. I am loving your lifestyle and stuff. Thank you very much, you're making me feel excited to explore your type of lifestyle
Hitomi- your videos are literally anxiety medication in its highest form. I appreciate them so much. I actually have a lot of anxiety in the morning and sometimes throughout my work day. I find listening to your voice calms my spirit and makes me realize just how bad my anxiety was. I’m finding it a lot easier to tune in. Thank you 😊 🙏✨
Enjoying sisterhood between sisters is probably comforting. I always value having these "similar" kind of relations with my sisters as well - although pretty rare.
I have been experiencing so many feelings of just wanting a genuine sisterhood, women that I can go to, trust, and call upon when I need them. Also being able to do that for someone else means so much to me. Growing up I thought that I had people in my life that really cared about me until we started to get older and I realized through some experiences with my sexuality, that I was not truly accepted by those people. Ever since then I have not been able to find a group of girls that make me feel safe and secure and ready to open up to them. I know it will come I can't wait for the day when I find those true connections. Thank you for posting these videos and seriously I will say it so many times you are inspiring! Every day I am getting more and more courage to tell my story and to help people the way you have helped me! Thank you, Hitomi You are an angel 💚 My heart is ready and open for anything coming my way in life. I am strong, I am beautiful, and I am a sacred sister. Have a great week!🥰
I’m still opening up to trusting my sisters. I’m so happy to have this growth and intent towards healing. I can’t wait until I find sisters that I can truly be open and free and supportive with 💗💛💗
hi, i am 17 & i have terrible social anxiety... school is hard for me & i have tons of anxiety attacks. so i just want u to know that you are not alone, & you're amazing.
This is very beautiful. I honestly have never had a friendship like this. Or a best friend. I hope one day I have something as meaningful as she has created with her sisters.
Hitomi. You bring the reminder of awakening my spirit again. For me to feel my spirit enveloped in my heart so deeply. It brings tears to my eyes. Thank you for allowing me and the world to be a witness to your experiences. To be a witness to your thoughts. I love you with the purest love that radiates every cell of my body. Thank you.
This has been so helpful. I've been pruned my social circle and have been isolated for a long while and am just getting back into meeting new people and being very selective with who i invite into my life. And also learning how to have boundaries and conduct myself when i have social anxiety. Thank you so much for this video!
Your friends are so lucky to have you in their life! And your lucky to have them! Been trying to find people that connect with how I'm feeling going through my spiritual journey and it's so hard because I feel pretty alone at the moment but I understand that's part of the journey! Sending you love and light!
I really needed this video right now. After watching your videos with your sisters, I became almost envious of what you had. Currently , I’m in my last grade of high school and my current friends do not serve me like they used to. They’re almost a reflection of my past self and I really want to leave, however, I’m in fear of being lonely. I just want to have friends that are like-minded and truly love me for me. I hope and I know I will receive that soon.
Experienced and am experiencing the same thing! As we evolve we will always outgrow those who are reflection of our former habits and being, keep faith n the certainty your people are coming because they will in divine timing x just continue to treat yourself with the same understanding and unconditional love you wish for others to share with you
Shedding the layers of your past self involves letting go of what no longer serves u such as ur friends, personally I found letting go allowed me to have more space to invite the energy I was deserving of into my life, it is most defintely frightening and sometimes uncertain but it’s for the highest good of ur future self
Thank you Thank you Thank you I know the right friendships are coming my way, friendships where I can be my strong and sensitive self, and this helps me visualise them
I'm so glad that you mentioned reading in silence together with others. Some of the most peaceful, cherished moments of my life have been spent doing that. :)
This was so absolutely beautifully done, Hitomi and I thank you for showing up like this for us. I'm on an intense md come-down, the first after moving to a new country a few months back, and I've already made friends who have come to care for me today and other days. your videos are so reaffirming that I am on the right track and seeking out the best relationships and spaces of love for me and that I truly deserve them. The ways you formulate how trauma manifests and how it can become something beautifully raw and healing with work and awareness is truly relatable. I love you Hitomi, I fully embrace you with light and warmth.
Thank you so much for sharing this! It's become one of my favourite and meaningful video's, tbh 🔆 I struggle a lot with finding people like me and I long for this femininity and friendship so much. I know it also has to do with some traumas, but knowing I'm not alone in this is already a major help 💛🍃
Watching Hitomi's videos is so good for me. So that sometimes, when I spiral down into negativity, I don't even feel good enough to watch them. Really need to work on that. Anyway, these videos are so important and so great.
Love this share 💛 it’s beautiful that you are so young with a lifetime of conscious connection ahead of you. I’m nearing 50 and just discovering sacred sisterhood and the power, support and love of women friends 🙏🏼
Your videos ate just something unreal, the energy that you can send through the screen is incredible! You have changed my thinking and inspire me everyday to create content for my channel
I haven't even watched yet, only read the title and this video is completely directed and made for me. I am near tears already. I'm in a shift in my life and my surroundings are so new. I've been so eager for friendship and connection, and felt like I failed. Just as I was going to give up and lean into pushing away, I see this posted.
You literally give the BEST information. I appreciate your essence here so much and am grateful to share this planet with you Hitomi love 🦋 Mother wounds definitely around competing with other women subconsciously.. ruins everything. Trying to open up, but trust is essential. I love touching and being playful with friends it just brings out different sides of you and the other. More soft and surrendering 😌 Sending love to all the goddesses who need more divine friendships as I.
I relate to much of what you say in a lot of your videos but wow… this one really deeply struck a cord with me. When you spoke about being complicit in being taken advantage of, that is something I am becoming more and more aware of that I do at times and am so afraid of repeating that cycle again and allowing myself to be in a situation I don’t want to be in. It is something I am working on right now and I would love if you spoke more about this. From my own experience I have found that this is an issue that many women experience and for me right now learning to verbalize and stay firm in my boundaries without being reactive is something that I’m prioritizing right now. Having weak boundaries I think is part of why I shy away from social interaction because I worry I will allow myself to be taken advantage of.
This is so beautiful- I also gave myself freely to people just to feel loved - the sooner young women can learn to ask for what they need & feel empowered by the strength of your friendships
I am so impressed of how many answers I have received to my own questions just from watching you and listening to all the amazing things you share on your videos. Thank you so much 😊
Thank you. Ive always had an idea or dream of what friendship or sisterhood Ive my heart yearned for and you confirmed its something very much reachable and just as magical and lovely as i imagined. Now I have a visual understanding 🥰🌸 Sending u love
Girl, I Luv U. I can truly say tht. I am Sooo happy to have found you 💕 thru Isa, you, Isa and Hannalee, r the Truth. A trifecta... 4 Real... I reside in NY, Bk... Sooo gld ur here. 💞😘🦋🫂
Wow Hitomi .. Thankyou so much for sharing this! 💗It's a truely clarifying, deeply touching & empowering video!.. I have felt like all of what you've shared & who you share consistently by simply showing up as you.. Is helping us all allow ourselves to fully embody these essential ingredients that help us to feel human, valued, accepted, loved💖
What beautiful words.... I'm a man yearning for a tribe like this most men are so detached from self that they don't know how important it is to be embraced by another soul.... I need some soul sisters 🥺 being a "man" isn't a very warm place especially when you have been sexually abused by men and woman
i needed this video more than ever right now. being queer and close to my friends im always afraid to be intimate in fear they would think of other things. this opened my eyes so much. i am allowed a nice sisterhood as a non binary person and as a person who grew up around a family who never hugged and said i love you. its okay for me to do the same.
i relate to this so much! after realizing I was nonbinary, I try harder to make it clear that I can relate to my women friends and that I don’t like them. Still trying to find the balance so that I can feel close to them without giving off the wrong vibe. I think I’m finally on the right track though. With men, it’s much harder to have that sisterhood feeling.
This was so beautiful. I love you. Just watching this video I have felt the most at peace. I haven't found my sisterhood yet, but having watched this gives me the clarity and guidance as to what I want to create. Thank you so much for this video, I feel as if I've been brought home.
I’m not a sistah but am queer and I feel like that my sisters or just women have made me feel the best, like I could just expand my heart to the women around me, encouraging them and making it a safe space for them in a way where vulnerability can happen thank you for this video, it really touched my heart
Hi Hitomi! You share videos that feel like exactly what I need to hear when the messages are the strongest. I consider you a sort of virtual fairy-godmother
I can completely agree with this. I deeply crave a solid bond, true friendship, and sisterhood. I no longer settle when it comes to building relationships. Difficult part it is difficult to find. So just curious any women in NYC seeking the same?
We obviously all came to this video because we don’t have friends abs have social anxiety abs are struggling and she kinda just rubbed in our faces her sacred sisterhood and how great it is like idk
Wow I was reflecting about this today. I can relate SO much to your experience. This is just what I needed to hear/see to go deeper into my lack of trust in people.
Thanks so much for sharing this!! Really needed to hear someone talk about this deep need for sisterhood that's intimate and affectionate, there's something really magical when romance isn't at play, there's room for every other part of you to come alive tenfold
Just had to pause at about 4 min in where you talk about feeling dirty or that there was something wrong with you when you visited friends’ homes that were peaceful and safe. I relate to that feeling wholeheartedly and I’ve never heard anyone else share that childhood experience before. I just wanted to say thank you. It feels good to know I wasn’t alone in that feeling as a child. 🙏
Hitomi has made me realize how much I need to cultivate more relationships with like minded women and since then my heart and soul has been aching for that relationship!! Anyone else struggle finding like minded women to connect with?
Thank you so much for these practical tips Hitomi and reminding me how important and valuable my sisters and our connections are!🙏🏻 I noticed right from the beginning of this video a changed vibe from you in a really really good way, like you are deeper rooted in your truth and strength than ever before🥰
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*”I feel most beautiful when the female gaze lands upon me because I feel the most seen”* 🙌😭 I have never thought of sisterhood in this way and I’m different now.
I love those words too...
Me too!! How beautiful that we have evolved in this way!!
I love this so much. I never realized consciously how much this is true in my life. 🤍
Manifesting sacred sisterhood for every one of us ♥️
🧚🏽♀️🧝🏼♀️🧜🏾♀️🧞♀️💃🏽👩🏻🎤💋💋💋💋
manifested! ❤️
✨✨🧘🏾♀️🧘🏼♀️🎨🖌⛰🌿💃🏼💃🏾🔮🧚🏼🏄🏾♀️🏄🏼♀️🥭🥦🥑🍜✨ calling it in ✨✨
manifested
Thankyou beautiful sister ⭐💕🙂
Guys, please uplift me with wishful blessings as I desire and crave a friendship and bond like this. I'm approaching another age being alone and afraid. Everywhere I go, I see happy people thriving with others and never understand why I'm not good enough to be in similar situations. The trauma is eating me alive.
Same well I’m in a relationship with a 28 year old man I’m 23 . Had him moved in w/ me bc I ain’t wanna be alone and felt like he would help me and we could grow a connection together Bt it’s so codependent bullshit going on
All the blessings and light towards you and your future and current friendships. May you manifest what you seek and what you need out of this life. All love from another soul 🙏🏽
All I can tell you is that I genuinely wish you the best in life!
@@rachel9876 thank you dear ❤️ I truly appreciate it
@@mrmrshoodhippie8669 I'm so sorry to hear that. I too have been in co dependent relationships. They are obviously not healthy but, I believe they are needed to help us to realize what we need and want from life as a whole
I was actually literally just thinking about this, how so many of my friendships there's been this barrier of intimacy that was never crossed because of multiple reasons tbh, but how much I genuinely craved to just be held or touched by a loving friend. It made me realize how there's this whole level of connection I've just never even tapped into, but always looked for in mostly romantic partners. Related to this whole video so much, and can't wait to call this into my own life 💕 Thanks for sharing Hitomi!
Yes..Yes!.. I completely hear you & I feel exactly the same way with my own experience. And also how I want to develop more intimacy in all my relationships☺️
I 100% agree with your statement. I always thought I wanted a relationship, but no I just want real true close friendships. But I have much trauma to work through and trust issues because of past friendships and relationships. I pray I find those friends because I have none.
If anyone is interested in treating shyness at home the greatest info that i've ever had was by following the Seans Shy Program (i found it on google) - I found it the best info that I have ever followed.
You've opened my eyes up to the friendships I've been maintaining and why. Not saying every friendship has to be perfect or identical to your experience but you helped me realize, I deserve sisterhood. I deserve to feel safe with my girls. Loved. honored and protected. My circle has turned into a dot but I am so hopeful that I am aligning with my tribe soon. Thank you for this!
I can totally relate to this. Mine has been reduced to LESS than a dot. I cut folks off when they gossip and stuff that I don’t want to be a part of
felt!
Same Sis! I feel u!
same!!
I’m a part of a women’s circle it’s amazing if you’re open to learning more I’d love to share more with you about it. We all deserve to be in CommonUnity with sistars
We men don't even come close to anything like this. I hope women understand how lucky they are to be able to share this type of close relationship with their sisters.
I hope you find your tribe of caring and strong people to be vulnerable with soon. ❤
Yeah, me too. I wish you the best. There are tribes or close friends: I could think of my uncles and cousins in the gatherings, of celeb friendships like Rob Lowe, Chris Pratt and Nick Offerman or Jared Padalecki and Jensen Ackles.
Anyways, I'll find my home too.
I hope you can find this kind of relationship with other men in your life. You absolutely deserve it and the idea of sacred sisterhood goes beyond the confines of gender
I wish the best for you buddy 🙏
I think brotherhood is very powerful as well.
I like to bring a package of loose tea or coffee or even dried kitchen herbs from the garden as a gift for my hosting friend. I also like to write poems dedicated to my loved ones, which I send them traditionally, often with a small illustration of some sort included. What I especially love is cooking together, exchanging recipes and learning a new vegan meal, get to know new spices and techniques. My sketchbook has a few pages only form my sisters, they are always welcome to draw and write and express themselves onto and into this space. Encouraging the people in my life to re-learn the playfulness and lightness of being creative to me is healing on an essential basis. - gratefully a German woman
This sounds amazing 💛
praying I get to share moments and experiences like this with other women soon. this was beautiful to read and I'm sure greater to experience and share. Love to you
Ahh this is all I would love to give and receive from sisters. manifesting it!!!
This is so sweet. Reading this msg reminded me of my friend who I visited last Saturday. I brought her favorite snacks, and she gave me a basket full of soaps, snacks, and hair products. She is very warm and inviting. She showed me her bookshelf which had a sketchbook on it, and she's like you can draw/write in this if you want.
I love this so much. Thank you for sharing this, it’s truly inspiring
i wish i had friendships like these, i feel like every girl I meet has already her group and doesn't want me to join. It's really frustrating tbh. Your videos bring me hope
same girl I can relate to it so much
I feel this so deeply as well, especially in high school where everyone is so separated and put into groups and categories. I have hope for us and know these deep connections are worthy
i completely understand, i’ve got zero friends rn and always longed for a “group”
where are u from girl??
Same!! Where are you girls from?
It’s so hard finding a beautiful friendship like this. Watching this makes me sad bc I’ve only had temporary friends.
I'm crying because I don't have friends... I wish I could feel the beauty this video portrays.
everyone my age just wants to get drunk and fry their brain. i just wanna do yoga and paint and climb trees and do tarot with someone BUT NOOOO
@@kdog3334 don't project. If what they wrote is truthful good for them, the way they expressed it may sound judgemental but it still is their reality. Make space for those who drink and those who don't without pointing out anyone with the index or saying that people act mighty.
Let’s be friends 😭
Same.
@@kdog3334 does she tho? i’m not saying ur wrong lol just curious how u know
dude how old r u ? cuz same
Seeing this video after I was manifesting true sisterhood connections last night makes me feel so happy and joyful knowing that I will be able to be surrounded by loving and grounded people. Thank you for creating such a good picture of what I once thought was impossible. I am worthy of deep connections, even if they are not in this season of my life now, I will be building myself to be the best friend, not only for myself but for my valued friendships. My circle is just my boyfriend right now and a variety of distant friends, and though I love the relationship that he and I have built I long for the deep platonic female love that comes with safe friends. I once would have watched this video with jealously and envy that I don't "have" these connections but my new self knows, I need to build it within before trying to seek anything outside of me and I feel joy as I watched this video. Thank you Hitomi, you have helped me grow through my darkest seasons and I am so grateful.
I am in your exact position, you are so worthy of deep sisterhood and it’s calling out for you❤️
I feel this so much 💛
Wow I feel this so deeply! We will manifest scared sisterhood❤️
I’ve been craving sisterhood for as long as I can remember. I’m now in my Junior year of college without having made any friends. I have no sisters and it’s something I want so badly. I’ve reached the point where I’ve gone so long without intimacy with friends that I don’t even know how to make friends anymore. I feel so lost and alone, but I know that these beautiful, open relationships are what I want. I just wish I could get there.
You could try being beautiful, soft and open to your yourself. There's an old saying: How is inside, it's outside.
Check your styles of attachement: are they secure, or avoidant? Check your social skills, a lot of problems can be avoided by using them. Or it may also be useful to know your personality type, like I once read one that was a guide to INFPs, which are sensitive and somewhat clingy, so it gives some pointers to get along with other types that can be seen as more aggressive.
I was once there in that place where it seems like Groundhog day, everyday was the same, couldn't shine nor engage, but the problem wasn't outside but within my perspective.
Big same... I'm on college too, and I don't consider myself to have made any friends yet.
I feel you really. I know that these connections are what I want but I don't really know how to get them...
I would hug you rn, cuz I really feel you
I'd be friends with you if we were not that far away xD
You’re not alone sister, 22 here and in the same position
What a beautiful friendship. This is honestly one of the biggest reasons behind creating my youtube channel. I long for a community who will see and hear me for my authentic self. This channel has been so expansive for me. Thank you for always being so honest anf authentic ❤
Love the name of your channel & will check it out ☺️🌸
@@indigo_diary thank you so much! I hope you are having a great weekend :)
You got yourself a new subscriber sweetheart 😘
@@Muse_XoXo_ aww thank you for the loveee :)
Sisterhood is everything! I learned it along the way. And it's such a blessing to meet like-minded sisters along the way, when your souls just click and connect on a deeper spiritual level.
I met most of my sisters through yoga (I'm a yoga teacher) and kirtan (mantra singing together with people).
I have to say, YOU HITOMI, specifically YOU, made me so much more aware of the fact that I’m not alone. Why, that is, you may ask? Well, I kinda thought I was the only one struggling with these same exact things, and you have really reassured me of how okay and valid all my feelings and behaviours are. All of my social anxiety and I can honestly relate to you in a very deep way. Thank YOU for being here🙏
Something I realized is, even though I’m definitely gay- when I look at and appreciate females it’s simply just that, it’s not sexual. I love when women move their bodies, hips are just mesmerizing, we’re just so beautiful and I love that we can just see each other like that 🥰
Yess please speak more on this topic
I love you so deeply Hitomi. I wish I could express to you how much you have changed my life for the better. You are a gift sent to me directly from source.
Realising how much of us are going through the same sorts of things and feelings. Sending hugs to anyone out there who needs/wants them
finding a sacred connection like you talk about it such a huge goal of mine. I always see how you’re friends are portrayed in your videos and you can tell you have a such a love for them and it’s reciprocated to the same degree !
YOUR VISUALS AND AESTHETHIC NEVER DISAPPOINT
I felt so seen and held throughout this entire video. Thank you for sharing your soul. The world needs it. You have helped me see my introversion and sensitivity as a beautiful and powerful thing; I used to be so ashamed of it.
if only I wasn't so awkward + was able to maintain friendships *sigh*
Don’t affirm that for yourself, you are able to shift your reality through affirmations, meditation and enforcing positive habits and practices💕
I long to call this into my life! I feel so far from it. Childhood trauma makes it so hard to connect with people on a deep level. I have amazing ladies in my life and my heart is screaming 'hold me!' but i cannot. I feel so far from everyone around me. Slowly gaining awareness on my actions (or lack of actions) that impact how people perceive our relationship (or how I feel about them). Trying to be more intentional with the relationships that matter in my life, but so often I just want to run away and hide. I'll have to try vocal exercizes before meeting up. Dancing beforehand can definitely help me feel more like myself. You mentioned that boundaries are important for attracting the right people into your life, I would love if you made a video on this.
that is amazing! I'm so proud of you
The person i have a crush on, has a sisterhood with her friends, and i think its so beautiful and makes me feel jelly to be honest self growth is so new to me and it takes a lot of effort. if not days pass and i forget what i learnt. i feel like i progress regress progress regress. this effort to put in is so important
You’ve just shown me the thing I didn’t know my soul has been aching for. And now I have a goal to break down the walls that prevent us from truly experiencing the sacred sister bond. Thank you for sharing this
This is so touching. Thank you for opening up to us and being an inspiring person as usual Hitomi. I know I'll meet my sisters soon 💕💕
Ive never felt so hopeful for my future more than this season. Waiting and manifestation and affirmative words is what will carry me to an even brighter and more loving future. So much love to you, from a lil light in Texas
I feel as though I don’t have this with my girl friends. They really prioritize their boyfriends more than they do friendships. Almost all my friends stop talking to me completely or less once they get a boyfriend. It’s so saddening to me that I don’t feel like I have a close friendship like I’d want to with any of them because of this. It frustrates me because I can’t express this to them without feeling like they’d get mad and stop talking to me. I wish I could have what you have Hitomi and find a sisterhood that’s very understanding and loving. I’m very happy you have found this for yourself ❤️
I wish to discover a sacral sisterhood of my own, I know that by being my truest self we’ll find each other in spaces that we are most true. ❤️
Girl me too, wanna link? 💓
so grateful for this video, because cultivating and inviting more meaningful friendships into my life is what im manifesting and focusing on this year.
Today is a blip day with my depression because of triggers for my trauma. I am loving your lifestyle and stuff. Thank you very much, you're making me feel excited to explore your type of lifestyle
I am really craving those kind of friendships you described so beautifully, but I just don't know how to meet people like this 😕
Same :(
SAME!!!
Well!! It looks like you got Sabina and Nele.
me too. how old r u guys lolol
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Hitomi- your videos are literally anxiety medication in its highest form. I appreciate them so much. I actually have a lot of anxiety in the morning and sometimes throughout my work day. I find listening to your voice calms my spirit and makes me realize just how bad my anxiety was. I’m finding it a lot easier to tune in. Thank you 😊 🙏✨
Enjoying sisterhood between sisters is probably comforting. I always value having these "similar" kind of relations with my sisters as well - although pretty rare.
I hope it's true that whatever you seek, is seeking you too. I truly miss being in a close friendship with another woman.
54 year old male here, this post is quite literally one of the most profoundly beautiful things i have ever watched, thank you
I have been experiencing so many feelings of just wanting a genuine sisterhood, women that I can go to, trust, and call upon when I need them. Also being able to do that for someone else means so much to me. Growing up I thought that I had people in my life that really cared about me until we started to get older and I realized through some experiences with my sexuality, that I was not truly accepted by those people. Ever since then I have not been able to find a group of girls that make me feel safe and secure and ready to open up to them. I know it will come I can't wait for the day when I find those true connections. Thank you for posting these videos and seriously I will say it so many times you are inspiring! Every day I am getting more and more courage to tell my story and to help people the way you have helped me! Thank you, Hitomi You are an angel 💚 My heart is ready and open for anything coming my way in life. I am strong, I am beautiful, and I am a sacred sister. Have a great week!🥰
I’m still opening up to trusting my sisters. I’m so happy to have this growth and intent towards healing. I can’t wait until I find sisters that I can truly be open and free and supportive with 💗💛💗
hi, i am 17 & i have terrible social anxiety... school is hard for me & i have tons of anxiety attacks. so i just want u to know that you are not alone, & you're amazing.
This is very beautiful. I honestly have never had a friendship like this. Or a best friend. I hope one day I have something as meaningful as she has created with her sisters.
Hitomi. You bring the reminder of awakening my spirit again. For me to feel my spirit enveloped in my heart so deeply. It brings tears to my eyes. Thank you for allowing me and the world to be a witness to your experiences. To be a witness to your thoughts. I love you with the purest love that radiates every cell of my body. Thank you.
Thank you for existing and being you, Hitomi ❤️✨🌞🙏🌹🔥
Beautiful ❤️ I have been reflecting lately as to why I have been so introverted since childhood. This his home in such a sweet way. Thank you!
Im happy to watch this the moment you posted it♥️ You'll forever be my safe place miss hitomi. Thank you for existing and sharing your life with us♥️
thank you, your video is godsend. I was feeling so alone and so anxious and overwhelm by today. Thank you for your calmness.
This has been so helpful. I've been pruned my social circle and have been isolated for a long while and am just getting back into meeting new people and being very selective with who i invite into my life. And also learning how to have boundaries and conduct myself when i have social anxiety. Thank you so much for this video!
Your friends are so lucky to have you in their life! And your lucky to have them! Been trying to find people that connect with how I'm feeling going through my spiritual journey and it's so hard because I feel pretty alone at the moment but I understand that's part of the journey! Sending you love and light!
I really needed this video right now. After watching your videos with your sisters, I became almost envious of what you had. Currently , I’m in my last grade of high school and my current friends do not serve me like they used to. They’re almost a reflection of my past self and I really want to leave, however, I’m in fear of being lonely. I just want to have friends that are like-minded and truly love me for me. I hope and I know I will receive that soon.
Experienced and am experiencing the same thing! As we evolve we will always outgrow those who are reflection of our former habits and being, keep faith n the certainty your people are coming because they will in divine timing x just continue to treat yourself with the same understanding and unconditional love you wish for others to share with you
Shedding the layers of your past self involves letting go of what no longer serves u such as ur friends, personally I found letting go allowed me to have more space to invite the energy I was deserving of into my life, it is most defintely frightening and sometimes uncertain but it’s for the highest good of ur future self
Your vocal toning advice really hit home with me and I really appreciate it. Thank you for being you Hitomi. You are seen
Thank you Thank you Thank you
I know the right friendships are coming my way, friendships where I can be my strong and sensitive self, and this helps me visualise them
I'm so glad that you mentioned reading in silence together with others. Some of the most peaceful, cherished moments of my life have been spent doing that. :)
Hitomi your entire being is goddess radiant waves♡ you are such a beautiful creature of light and love in my life and I am so very grateful for you💞
You change my life with every video you post thank you so much
This was so absolutely beautifully done, Hitomi and I thank you for showing up like this for us. I'm on an intense md come-down, the first after moving to a new country a few months back, and I've already made friends who have come to care for me today and other days. your videos are so reaffirming that I am on the right track and seeking out the best relationships and spaces of love for me and that I truly deserve them. The ways you formulate how trauma manifests and how it can become something beautifully raw and healing with work and awareness is truly relatable. I love you Hitomi, I fully embrace you with light and warmth.
Thank you so much for sharing this! It's become one of my favourite and meaningful video's, tbh 🔆 I struggle a lot with finding people like me and I long for this femininity and friendship so much. I know it also has to do with some traumas, but knowing I'm not alone in this is already a major help 💛🍃
Watching Hitomi's videos is so good for me. So that sometimes, when I spiral down into negativity, I don't even feel good enough to watch them. Really need to work on that.
Anyway, these videos are so important and so great.
Love this share 💛 it’s beautiful that you are so young with a lifetime of conscious connection ahead of you. I’m nearing 50 and just discovering sacred sisterhood and the power, support and love of women friends 🙏🏼
claiming this energy im removing all the blocks and welcoming friends and sacred sisterhood to my life
Your videos ate just something unreal, the energy that you can send through the screen is incredible!
You have changed my thinking and inspire me everyday to create content for my channel
The way you talked about being here to witness and to turn everything to love 🤍🤍
I haven't even watched yet, only read the title and this video is completely directed and made for me. I am near tears already. I'm in a shift in my life and my surroundings are so new. I've been so eager for friendship and connection, and felt like I failed. Just as I was going to give up and lean into pushing away, I see this posted.
This felt like therapy. I feel so hopeful! Haha. Love to all who is reading this.
You literally give the BEST information. I appreciate your essence here so much and am grateful to share this planet with you Hitomi love 🦋
Mother wounds definitely around competing with other women subconsciously.. ruins everything. Trying to open up, but trust is essential. I love touching and being playful with friends it just brings out different sides of you and the other. More soft and surrendering 😌
Sending love to all the goddesses who need more divine friendships as I.
I relate to much of what you say in a lot of your videos but wow… this one really deeply struck a cord with me. When you spoke about being complicit in being taken advantage of, that is something I am becoming more and more aware of that I do at times and am so afraid of repeating that cycle again and allowing myself to be in a situation I don’t want to be in. It is something I am working on right now and I would love if you spoke more about this. From my own experience I have found that this is an issue that many women experience and for me right now learning to verbalize and stay firm in my boundaries without being reactive is something that I’m prioritizing right now. Having weak boundaries I think is part of why I shy away from social interaction because I worry I will allow myself to be taken advantage of.
This is so beautiful- I also gave myself freely to people just to feel loved - the sooner young women can learn to ask for what they need & feel empowered by the strength of your friendships
I am so impressed of how many answers I have received to my own questions just from watching you and listening to all the amazing things you share on your videos. Thank you so much 😊
Thank you. Ive always had an idea or dream of what friendship or sisterhood Ive my heart yearned for and you confirmed its something very much reachable and just as magical and lovely as i imagined. Now I have a visual understanding 🥰🌸 Sending u love
You really don’t know how much I needed to hear this. Just wow. The way I connected with ya was magical. Fairy feelings in my stomach. 🤍✨
Girl, I Luv U. I can truly say tht. I am Sooo happy to have found you 💕 thru Isa, you, Isa and Hannalee, r the Truth. A trifecta... 4 Real... I reside in NY, Bk... Sooo gld ur here. 💞😘🦋🫂
Wow Hitomi .. Thankyou so much for sharing this! 💗It's a truely clarifying, deeply touching & empowering video!..
I have felt like all of what you've shared & who you share consistently by simply showing up as you.. Is helping us all allow ourselves to fully embody these essential ingredients that help us to feel human, valued, accepted, loved💖
i didnt want to think i have social anxiety and this vlog helps so much, Thank You!
Intro already made me cry, this feels so healing just to watch, thank you hitomi
you are a light to the world. this is exactly what i needed
15 minutes of delight! ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you, beautiful soul! ☀️
Watching your videos always brings me such peace and joy and refreshment! Thank you for who you are and for sharing that with us ❤️
What beautiful words.... I'm a man yearning for a tribe like this most men are so detached from self that they don't know how important it is to be embraced by another soul.... I need some soul sisters 🥺 being a "man" isn't a very warm place especially when you have been sexually abused by men and woman
i needed this video more than ever right now. being queer and close to my friends im always afraid to be intimate in fear they would think of other things. this opened my eyes so much. i am allowed a nice sisterhood as a non binary person and as a person who grew up around a family who never hugged and said i love you. its okay for me to do the same.
This !! Being queer makes me so paranoid about getting close to people but touch is my love language, it's difficult asf
I love this for you Nura!!! You continue to be you and you will align with the sisters that are meant for your path.
i relate to this so much! after realizing I was nonbinary, I try harder to make it clear that I can relate to my women friends and that I don’t like them. Still trying to find the balance so that I can feel close to them without giving off the wrong vibe. I think I’m finally on the right track though. With men, it’s much harder to have that sisterhood feeling.
This was so beautiful. I love you. Just watching this video I have felt the most at peace. I haven't found my sisterhood yet, but having watched this gives me the clarity and guidance as to what I want to create. Thank you so much for this video, I feel as if I've been brought home.
Genuinely don't know how people find those kind of friends ☹ it's truly such a special thing
I’m not a sistah but am queer and I feel like that my sisters or just women have made me feel the best, like I could just expand my heart to the women around me, encouraging them and making it a safe space for them in a way where vulnerability can happen thank you for this video, it really touched my heart
You look especially peaceful and radiant in this video. 🍃✨
The video we've all been waiting forrrr 😍😍😍
Hi Hitomi! You share videos that feel like exactly what I need to hear when the messages are the strongest. I consider you a sort of virtual fairy-godmother
Thank you and bless you for taking a trauma-informed approach to exploring connection.
I can completely agree with this. I deeply crave a solid bond, true friendship, and sisterhood. I no longer settle when it comes to building relationships. Difficult part it is difficult to find. So just curious any women in NYC seeking the same?
This is such a healing video, thank you Hitomi! 🤍
just what i needed thank you
Amazing!!
Oii , você é incrível, que energia boa que você tem! Obrigada por me inspirar Hitomi 🇧🇷 ❤
❤️❤️❤️❤️ I love you all. May the light always be with you. God bless.
We obviously all came to this video because we don’t have friends abs have social anxiety abs are struggling and she kinda just rubbed in our faces her sacred sisterhood and how great it is like idk
Wow I was reflecting about this today. I can relate SO much to your experience. This is just what I needed to hear/see to go deeper into my lack of trust in people.
you are like the mentor, elder sister that we never had
Thanks so much for sharing this!! Really needed to hear someone talk about this deep need for sisterhood that's intimate and affectionate, there's something really magical when romance isn't at play, there's room for every other part of you to come alive tenfold
Just had to pause at about 4 min in where you talk about feeling dirty or that there was something wrong with you when you visited friends’ homes that were peaceful and safe. I relate to that feeling wholeheartedly and I’ve never heard anyone else share that childhood experience before. I just wanted to say thank you. It feels good to know I wasn’t alone in that feeling as a child. 🙏
So deeply in love with your energy and channel. Please never change 🤍🤍🤍
wow I'm crying this is so beautiful Hitomi
Hitomi has made me realize how much I need to cultivate more relationships with like minded women and since then my heart and soul has been aching for that relationship!! Anyone else struggle finding like minded women to connect with?
Thank you so much for these practical tips Hitomi and reminding me how important and valuable my sisters and our connections are!🙏🏻 I noticed right from the beginning of this video a changed vibe from you in a really really good way, like you are deeper rooted in your truth and strength than ever before🥰