Blake just says a whole lot of nothing! Here I thought all these years this woman was sophisticated, kind and intelligent. Man her PR team did well to mislead us all these years.
Congradulations on yor 1st Junkit. Youi did a great job! And Kudos for actually watching the movie with such a keen eye to notice what Isabella was wearing.
This interview shows that Blake couldn’t meet the character’s experience so just brought the character down to her own limited, one dimensional understanding. This role was wasted on this actress, and now comes across as just an ego project because she produced it. At least Justin seemed to have resonated with the story itself when he bought the rights to it. Apparently it was Colleen Hoover herself who suggested that he also act in it.
Colleen seems to have sided with Blake though, given the unfollow and refusal to mention him... I guess given Blake's profile, she jumped on that gravy train rather than back a relatively unknown director. But then again, we have no idea exactly what happened on set... Brandon Sklenar has hinted at tension but we may never know. The cast refuse to mention Justin and other than Hasan Minhaj, have all unfollowed him. I certainly have been disappointed by the majority of this press tour and while I don't like people trying to pick out every little thing Blake has ever said or done in the past or spreading rumors as fact, there is also a lot of legitimate criticism of her approach to this film. The press tour seemed like a real missed opportunity to have an important discussion on DV and it's complexities and the multitudes survivors hold. They could have promoted charities and held roundtables with advocates and survivors. Again though, not to excuse her behaviour but maybe there's more to this that we don't know.
You’re judging her on just one interview? I believe she did a phenomenal job. As a fellow woman, avoid being so quick to tear down another’s work. Can’t discriminate someone just because they seemingly had a great life. Schadenfreude dripping everywhere, you’re happy to see someone else suffer. Look in the mirror. Why so much resentment toward an actor? She did her job well
@@Nazhussain07so succinct and beautifully put! 1000% agree. No need to demonise her, yes some missed opportunities, but at least this movie was greenlit and produced lovingly!
But being a survivor is part of your identity. It’s nothing to be ashamed of. It’s a reality. A lot of time trauma can’t just be hidden or overwritten, you can’t always just take charge..it’s also a process of surrendering and accepting that it did change you. No need to put on a mask and pretend everything is okay. No need to hide behind the florals.
@@JA-bj9tz EXACTLY and I remember her talking to Kelly Clarkson I think. She was saying that journalists were asked not to mention her pregnancy and rather stick to questions about the movie. Which is why she did what she did. This was a clear paparazzi type move. And its bringing negative publicity to an EXCEPTIONALLY IMPORTANT subject. This release is in poor taste and class
Blake appears to have zero experience (thank goodness for her) and zero understanding (should have explored and educated herself) on DV and how that absolutely changes you and does become part of you.
I swear ! Something is pretty off putting about how she sort of doesn't acknowledge how trauma really does change you. And you can't just say oh I choose to not be defined by this and change... like that's not how mental health works. And you can tell, that she has some people trying and writing speeches for her but her cluelessness keeps shining through !!
Exactly. Her answers are ‘Lily’s been through trauma BUT’ there shouldn’t be a BUT. It sounds so negative. Trauma defines you and it’s perfectly fine, no need to hide the darkness and reality of the situation. I wish people would just let survivors be survivors. No need to hide behind flowers and jokes.
I feel like people who struggle with trauma or mental health know at some point you are so low you don’t have a choice to take charge of your life. You are just surviving and surrendering to it. If everyone could magically not let it define them life would be a lot easier for a lot of people. It’s a fantasy. And also an unrealistic expectation that again drags people who are struggling down.
The interviewer asked such deep, substantive questions.. such a shame these actresses couldn't answer in the same way. Their answers just don't match the intelligence of the interviewer. The only time they got excited was when they talked about clothes 😭
1:00 she was getting nervous here when it seems the interviewer is showing more of a connection with her co-star. it just feels like she NEEDS to be the center of attention. maybe thats a result of being the youngest of 5 kids and feeling a need to fight for attention , in any way
I doubt she had to fight for attention, her siblings are waaaay older than her (Eric is the closest one in age to her and he’s 6 years older than her). It’s probably more like that she was the baby and was doted on by everyone and now she hates not being the one in the spotlight.
It's 1 second. ONE. SECOND. The camera switches to her for one second before back to the interviewer and nothing even happened. She was smiling before and after that second. Nothing happened except her giving the interviewer her attention. And that's enough to assume she's getting nervous??????
@@mion61yeah, I didn’t notice anything either~I think for whatever reason a memo went out that people should now not like this actress. It happens. And people always seem to oblige.
omgosh I am so confused how Ryan can stand her. and if he actually can, what does this say about him as a person? I have been a fan of Ryan reynolds for a long time and now I am questioning it all 😂
@@MessagesFromAurora its sad yeah. Its weird cuz back in the day I felt something *off* about ryan reynolds but couldnt place it. Just like he seemed sort of a bully but then played it off as a joke. Its something my abusive mom does. So I thought maybe I just was biased. And people became big fans of his and he seemed very funny and made people laugh, including me, so I got charmed as well. Now I'm feeling like hm. Maybe I should trust my gut more often! lol
This book is about the endless cycle of a child born in DV on repeat from learned behaviour, hence the title “It Ends With Us”. If it was only about Lilly the title would have been “It Ended”. His accountability was so integral to this story. Because it wasn’t about Lilly in the end, the cycle continued and it was about her child. That’s her entire realisation. She wanted to break the cycle and for her daughter to see a different version of a mother and a father. Without his accountability she would have just prevented him from access - rather than allowing him to have a place in “It Ends With US”. Did she read the book?
I’m glad for her safety sake that she can’t relate thru experience to this character. So happy for her that she hasn’t experienced abuse. No woman should. 😊This expresses that one can know for a fact that not “everyone” is out there accepting that kind of treatment nor staying in those type of relationships; the way some peoples brain might normalize abnormal abusive behavior or think “this is just how relationships are” - when indeed they are not. 🎉
@@trishna_6815Lmao you guys are reaching, and HARD. In NO way, shape or form does a woman being abused by her spouse act the wake Blake Lively does. In ALL of her interviews about this movie she seems so out of touch with the character, obnoxious and air headed even. She knows ZERO about domestic abuse (thank God for her) and that's why it's so hard for her to relate to the character. Don't bring her husband Ryan on this when this is a problem on HER snobby personality.
I’m happy for her that she hasn’t experienced abuse. No woman should. 😊this way one can know for a fact that not “everyone” is out there accepting that kind of treatment or staying in those type of relationships the way some ppls brains might try to normalize abnormal abusive behaviors. 🎉
(Note: I don’t condone ANY of Blake Lively’s atrocious behavior.) Reminder: Celebrities are humans too. If our life was documented and scrutinized in the way that a high profile person, like Blake, was then would we be any better than her? If all of our low moments in life were compiled into a few short clips for the world to see, would millions of online people dislike you? Yes, probably. Look at your life before you judge someone else’s
@Pinar-wv7nr Didn't say I sided with her, I just sympathize with her from a different side. I don't want to hate someone I don't know. But yes I do agree that she is a bully and has been acting like a little shit; but haven't we all, is just what I'm saying.
You do realise she bullies people working for her all the time? You will realise if you listen to their accounts. Being nasty is never okay and worst she doesn't own up to her narcissistic behaviour. Please don't defend her just because of her pretty clothes and one more thing... Filling false accusations of sexual assault on a man ruins his life and also real abuse victims.
@@erzascarlet47 I never defended her behavior or condoned her actions- only let others maybe understand it a bit. I've always been taught to love first, criticize last.
I agree with Blake: as someone who’s survived DV, this is something that “happens to you” and this doesn’t “define who you are as a person” however this experience is apart of your life.
Does the movie/book show a pattern of DV? Yes. But it also shows her wanting a different life for her child. Your only seeing clips of this film, read the book!
I think some people need to remember that Lily is not the representative of all dv victims. Blake is speaking about Lily and Lily's resolve, and how LILY chooses to move forward.
I noticed something weird in these interviews Blake and another co-star, like Brandon and Isabela, they have this stern face emotionless almost sad and spacey whenever Blake talks like they are recalling all the shitshow they know happened, at the same time trying super hard to not show any emotions. Like a husband who just hit his wife but they have to go to a work or family dinner, and the husband start blabbing away while she sits there playing her part.
Gorgeous casting for every single character! Unexpected but worked so well to tell the story. It explored the nuances of DV so artistically and thoughtfully. A very original piece of storytelling. I was scared to watch it but I’m so glad I did. ❤
Is Blake a method actor like Johnny Depp? The morph into Captain Jack Sparrow outside of the filming was a bit bizarre. Blake has the outfits and the rings now that she is wearing from her films too. If she is method acting at all then she would hate her costar for abusing her.
The amount of haters in these comments. What happend to girls don’t bring down other girls? Just because she has never been a victim of DV and couldn’t relate to the character doesn’t mean shes a bad actress it means she had a good life. She is not lily like she is not serena or adeline she is an actress trying to make her bread. These hate comments are shameful and I hope all of you would be proud if someone talked like this about your daughter. For shame yt. For shame.
I don't know why people keep saying Blake is stupid, she is talking decently. It looks like hating Blake lively is fashion nowadays, and everyone should follow the wave.
Narcissist Blake can't stand the spotlight being on someone else. Notice how much physical space she takes up, and how the body of her co-star is bending to the side as a result. Notice also how she has to interfere when the co-star gets complimented on her shirt.
Yes she seems to be invading the other actress's space energetically whilst the girl was answering a question. I'm highly empathic and if I was sitting in the other girl's position, I'd feel stifled and try to get out my words quickly before she cuts in.
Yes I noticed this too! If I was sitting in the other girl's position, I'd feel stifled and suffocated from Blakes high energy and nonstop cutting in. I'm amazed the girl got to finish her thought with Blake ready to cut in!
She’s almost 40, she’s had multiple kids, and her skin is glowing. If that’s old, sign us all up. Somehow I have a feeling whoever you are, you probably don’t look half as good for your age lol.
If anyone notices, every single interview that Blake is in she's so self absorbed, interrupts and talks over everyone. In every interview!
I haven't found that to be true. No one is absolutely horrible or absolutely fabulous all of the time.
Maybe she has ADHD, too.
Blake just says a whole lot of nothing! Here I thought all these years this woman was sophisticated, kind and intelligent. Man her PR team did well to mislead us all these years.
it's called being an air head
I was never really her fan but from pics she looks like nice person... until she start talking
I thought so too. She was my hero for years because she seemed so effortlessly sophisticated and calm. Shows how much I shouldn't value celebrities!!
so true
Congradulations on yor 1st Junkit. Youi did a great job! And Kudos for actually watching the movie with such a keen eye to notice what Isabella was wearing.
This interview shows that Blake couldn’t meet the character’s experience so just brought the character down to her own limited, one dimensional understanding. This role was wasted on this actress, and now comes across as just an ego project because she produced it.
At least Justin seemed to have resonated with the story itself when he bought the rights to it. Apparently it was Colleen Hoover herself who suggested that he also act in it.
Colleen seems to have sided with Blake though, given the unfollow and refusal to mention him... I guess given Blake's profile, she jumped on that gravy train rather than back a relatively unknown director. But then again, we have no idea exactly what happened on set... Brandon Sklenar has hinted at tension but we may never know. The cast refuse to mention Justin and other than Hasan Minhaj, have all unfollowed him. I certainly have been disappointed by the majority of this press tour and while I don't like people trying to pick out every little thing Blake has ever said or done in the past or spreading rumors as fact, there is also a lot of legitimate criticism of her approach to this film. The press tour seemed like a real missed opportunity to have an important discussion on DV and it's complexities and the multitudes survivors hold. They could have promoted charities and held roundtables with advocates and survivors. Again though, not to excuse her behaviour but maybe there's more to this that we don't know.
"her one dimensional understanding" 💯
You’re judging her on just one interview? I believe she did a phenomenal job. As a fellow woman, avoid being so quick to tear down another’s work. Can’t discriminate someone just because they seemingly had a great life. Schadenfreude dripping everywhere, you’re happy to see someone else suffer. Look in the mirror. Why so much resentment toward an actor? She did her job well
@@Nazhussain07so succinct and beautifully put! 1000% agree. No need to demonise her, yes some missed opportunities, but at least this movie was greenlit and produced lovingly!
But being a survivor is part of your identity. It’s nothing to be ashamed of. It’s a reality. A lot of time trauma can’t just be hidden or overwritten, you can’t always just take charge..it’s also a process of surrendering and accepting that it did change you. No need to put on a mask and pretend everything is okay. No need to hide behind the florals.
Yes its not weak to let that become a part of you. Infact it's paramount in order to integrate it and heal
Being a survivor is yes. But as she says what he did to her isn't. Its HIS. His responsibility. His accountability.
Not hers.
@@JA-bj9tz EXACTLY and I remember her talking to Kelly Clarkson I think. She was saying that journalists were asked not to mention her pregnancy and rather stick to questions about the movie. Which is why she did what she did.
This was a clear paparazzi type move. And its bringing negative publicity to an EXCEPTIONALLY IMPORTANT subject.
This release is in poor taste and class
Thank you for sharing this
Blake appears to have zero experience (thank goodness for her) and zero understanding (should have explored and educated herself) on DV and how that absolutely changes you and does become part of you.
💯💯
I swear ! Something is pretty off putting about how she sort of doesn't acknowledge how trauma really does change you. And you can't just say oh I choose to not be defined by this and change... like that's not how mental health works. And you can tell, that she has some people trying and writing speeches for her but her cluelessness keeps shining through !!
Exactly. Her answers are ‘Lily’s been through trauma BUT’ there shouldn’t be a BUT. It sounds so negative. Trauma defines you and it’s perfectly fine, no need to hide the darkness and reality of the situation. I wish people would just let survivors be survivors. No need to hide behind flowers and jokes.
I feel like people who struggle with trauma or mental health know at some point you are so low you don’t have a choice to take charge of your life. You are just surviving and surrendering to it. If everyone could magically not let it define them life would be a lot easier for a lot of people. It’s a fantasy. And also an unrealistic expectation that again drags people who are struggling down.
Definitely! I find it insulting that she didn't do any research!!! Such a profound subject matter!!!!!
Seems like Blake have a totally different vision of the movie from the director
Blake is a mother of 4 girls, but she is so imature😢
It happens. She's rich so she has people for everything and doesn't have to do the things most mothers do
3 girls and 1 boy
@@fabshelleyg ok,sorry!
@@fabshelleyg4 girls
Didn’t they work with coaches to get the message across. It’s wild that the other actor had an answer to the question.
The interviewer asked such deep, substantive questions.. such a shame these actresses couldn't answer in the same way. Their answers just don't match the intelligence of the interviewer. The only time they got excited was when they talked about clothes 😭
“I don’t drink either, I mean, I make drinks and I try them…”
What? She created Betty Booze “gourmet” sparkling cocktails.
Cash grab
1:00 she was getting nervous here when it seems the interviewer is showing more of a connection with her co-star.
it just feels like she NEEDS to be the center of attention. maybe thats a result of being the youngest of 5 kids and feeling a need to fight for attention , in any way
I doubt she had to fight for attention, her siblings are waaaay older than her (Eric is the closest one in age to her and he’s 6 years older than her). It’s probably more like that she was the baby and was doted on by everyone and now she hates not being the one in the spotlight.
It's 1 second. ONE. SECOND. The camera switches to her for one second before back to the interviewer and nothing even happened. She was smiling before and after that second. Nothing happened except her giving the interviewer her attention. And that's enough to assume she's getting nervous??????
@@mion61yeah, I didn’t notice anything either~I think for whatever reason a memo went out that people should now not like this actress. It happens. And people always seem to oblige.
Narciciatix personality
Happens every single time!
Does blake listens what she says😂? It seems that she just puts words out they’re without any meaning
I'm questioning if she has some sort of mentally illness or disorder
It makes complete sense. She is channeling her higher consciousness.
She is so shallow😢
She didn’t read the book it’s obvious 🤣
Living with Blake lively must be a daily exercise in exasperation and depression.
omgosh I am so confused how Ryan can stand her. and if he actually can, what does this say about him as a person?
I have been a fan of Ryan reynolds for a long time and now I am questioning it all 😂
Thèse comments are irrelevant.b
😂😂😂😂 brutal!
@@MessagesFromAurora its sad yeah. Its weird cuz back in the day I felt something *off* about ryan reynolds but couldnt place it. Just like he seemed sort of a bully but then played it off as a joke. Its something my abusive mom does. So I thought maybe I just was biased. And people became big fans of his and he seemed very funny and made people laugh, including me, so I got charmed as well. Now I'm feeling like hm. Maybe I should trust my gut more often! lol
I guess NO ONE told her she makes absolutely NO SENSE. Blake obviously doesn't know how to give an interview, unless she's being a mean girl.
This book is about the endless cycle of a child born in DV on repeat from learned behaviour, hence the title “It Ends With Us”. If it was only about Lilly the title would have been “It Ended”. His accountability was so integral to this story. Because it wasn’t about Lilly in the end, the cycle continued and it was about her child. That’s her entire realisation. She wanted to break the cycle and for her daughter to see a different version of a mother and a father. Without his accountability she would have just prevented him from access - rather than allowing him to have a place in “It Ends With US”. Did she read the book?
I’m glad for her safety sake that she can’t relate thru experience to this character. So happy for her that she hasn’t experienced abuse. No woman should. 😊This expresses that one can know for a fact that not “everyone” is out there accepting that kind of treatment nor staying in those type of relationships; the way some peoples brain might normalize abnormal abusive behavior or think “this is just how relationships are” - when indeed they are not. 🎉
yep you can tell she has never experienced trauma or abuse....
or the opposite could be true... she is blacking strong emotions as a coping mechanism
@ambreenzaman1812 yeah, I can definitely see Ryan being quite controlling, if not physically abusive. She may not want to recognise that yet.
@@trishna_6815Lmao you guys are reaching, and HARD. In NO way, shape or form does a woman being abused by her spouse act the wake Blake Lively does. In ALL of her interviews about this movie she seems so out of touch with the character, obnoxious and air headed even. She knows ZERO about domestic abuse (thank God for her) and that's why it's so hard for her to relate to the character. Don't bring her husband Ryan on this when this is a problem on HER snobby personality.
I’m happy for her that she hasn’t experienced abuse. No woman should. 😊this way one can know for a fact that not “everyone” is out there accepting that kind of treatment or staying in those type of relationships the way some ppls brains might try to normalize abnormal abusive behaviors. 🎉
(Note: I don’t condone ANY of Blake Lively’s atrocious behavior.) Reminder: Celebrities are humans too. If our life was documented and scrutinized in the way that a high profile person, like Blake, was then would we be any better than her? If all of our low moments in life were compiled into a few short clips for the world to see, would millions of online people dislike you? Yes, probably. Look at your life before you judge someone else’s
@Pinar-wv7nr Didn't say I sided with her, I just sympathize with her from a different side. I don't want to hate someone I don't know. But yes I do agree that she is a bully and has been acting like a little shit; but haven't we all, is just what I'm saying.
You do realise she bullies people working for her all the time? You will realise if you listen to their accounts. Being nasty is never okay and worst she doesn't own up to her narcissistic behaviour. Please don't defend her just because of her pretty clothes and one more thing... Filling false accusations of sexual assault on a man ruins his life and also real abuse victims.
@@erzascarlet47 I never defended her behavior or condoned her actions- only let others maybe understand it a bit. I've always been taught to love first, criticize last.
She's that kind of people who understands nothing about TRAUMA
Sick
I agree with Blake: as someone who’s survived DV, this is something that “happens to you” and this doesn’t “define who you are as a person” however this experience is apart of your life.
Does the movie/book show a pattern of DV? Yes. But it also shows her wanting a different life for her child. Your only seeing clips of this film, read the book!
WTF? Lily Is changed by DV!! Damn!!
I think some people need to remember that Lily is not the representative of all dv victims. Blake is speaking about Lily and Lily's resolve, and how LILY chooses to move forward.
Did u read the book or at least the author’s note ?
I noticed something weird in these interviews Blake and another co-star, like Brandon and Isabela, they have this stern face emotionless almost sad and spacey whenever Blake talks like they are recalling all the shitshow they know happened, at the same time trying super hard to not show any emotions. Like a husband who just hit his wife but they have to go to a work or family dinner, and the husband start blabbing away while she sits there playing her part.
WOW! I noticed this too but could not put it into words! thank you for articulating this so well!🙌
Gorgeous casting for every single character! Unexpected but worked so well to tell the story. It explored the nuances of DV so artistically and thoughtfully. A very original piece of storytelling. I was scared to watch it but I’m so glad I did. ❤
Is Blake a method actor like Johnny Depp? The morph into Captain Jack Sparrow outside of the filming was a bit bizarre. Blake has the outfits and the rings now that she is wearing from her films too. If she is method acting at all then she would hate her costar for abusing her.
She's not even an actress to begin with
The amount of haters in these comments. What happend to girls don’t bring down other girls? Just because she has never been a victim of DV and couldn’t relate to the character doesn’t mean shes a bad actress it means she had a good life. She is not lily like she is not serena or adeline she is an actress trying to make her bread. These hate comments are shameful and I hope all of you would be proud if someone talked like this about your daughter. For shame yt. For shame.
Smashed it 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Blake is peak yt feminism.
Ugh never heard of ribena in Guinness 😮 I have only ever heard of ginger ale or sprite or 7up in lagers. Chandy.
I don't know why people keep saying Blake is stupid, she is talking decently.
It looks like hating Blake lively is fashion nowadays, and everyone should follow the wave.
Narcissist Blake can't stand the spotlight being on someone else. Notice how much physical space she takes up, and how the body of her co-star is bending to the side as a result. Notice also how she has to interfere when the co-star gets complimented on her shirt.
Yes she seems to be invading the other actress's space energetically whilst the girl was answering a question. I'm highly empathic and if I was sitting in the other girl's position, I'd feel stifled and try to get out my words quickly before she cuts in.
5:00 dr kelly
Blake runs on and on…..she needs to be better prepared.
She’s so boring 😂
She's just famous because of her mole
So much nonsense, poor interviewer!
I don't see anything wrong about what Blake says. People have issues
You should watch more interviews
I really see that much of what she says doesn't make much sense, no depth. It seems we are talking of different interviews
Blake 🤢🤮💩every answer 🤦🏻♀️
Sorry, but true. 😂
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Blake is so annoying!! Like Anna, I wouldn't be sitting so close to her breathing down my neck!
Yes I noticed this too! If I was sitting in the other girl's position, I'd feel stifled and suffocated from Blakes high energy and nonstop cutting in. I'm amazed the girl got to finish her thought with Blake ready to cut in!
inane
Blake look old here.
She’s almost 40, she’s had multiple kids, and her skin is glowing. If that’s old, sign us all up. Somehow I have a feeling whoever you are, you probably don’t look half as good for your age lol.
Blake hogs every interview.
So disappointed in Blake