Yep, that and when she actually stops idealising the dude. Bet she currently never questions anything he says or wants. Likely he tried to drown his ex wife because she spoke up to him at some point. Set a boundary.
Yep, she sounds and looks younger than 17, and that’s what he likes. Eventually he won’t be able to resist and will go younger. Hes a walking red flag!
According to a Reddit thread from 2023, they broke up in 2016. She quickly found another man. She had two kids but unfortunately one was a preemie and passed away. Her mother died in 2019. The Reddit thread pops up on a search. Within the thread people have published their Facebook names.
@@bluebonnetbunny4813 Thank you so much! I’m sorry to hear about her mom and child, she has already been through so much with that predator. I’m glad she’s no longer with him though!
Last time I checked, 16yr olds weren’t crawling around with a nappy on lol our grandmothers had children at 18 and married earlier 🤷♂️ she’s not a child, she can be trialed as an adult for a serious crime. 16 is legal in majority of the world.
@@ev0watdoesn't mean this right or she's mature. And also. Ever heard the saying 'when you know better, you do better'. It was 'normal' years ago to marry young because expectations were women stayed home and raised kids. And remember women had no rights until early 1900's. Couldn't vote etc.
This poor girl thinks she’s mature because her boyfriend is older… One day she may realize he’s a predator and this was an unhealthy situation/ relationship.
Yea poor her 😂 I'm pretty sure she's happy and likes him regardless and learn from her experiences . Maybe feel sorry for someone else lol instead of a stupid teen
Haha, I know! It reminds me of preschoolers when 2 of them realize they have the same favorite color, they get so excited.This guy is such a moron and creepazoid!
It's not the age difference that's the problem, I've seen teens who are mature and already in the workforce, responsible etc. The problem here is she acts and looks like a 14 year old and that's clearly what he likes!
What are you talking about, just because a teen acts mature doesn't mean an adult man should get with them. Even she acted like a 34-year-old woman, it doesn't mean it's alright for an adult male to be in a relationship with them.
@@NellyMacharia my point went over your head. Age difference (when it's legal) isn't always an issue. What I'm saying here is he clearly is into young teens, he's not with her because she's mature, there's no grey area...
@@lounakin Your point was very clear (you are okay with grown men dating "mature teens" , the issue becomes if the said teens still act like a 14-year-olds. This is sick, your thinking is warped, demented and sick). What you are trying to do right now is to gaslight me into thinking that I misunderstood what you were saying because I called you out.
@@NellyMacharia Yeah ... wow... You do have comprehension issues, let me spell it out: The grown man will say age is not important, but the fact that she acts like a young teen INDICATES that he is in fact into very young girls. He'd probably go younger if he could. Do you know age difference doesn't mean underage, right? Age difference between a 35 year old dating a 42 year old wouldn't be that bad...
@@lounakin Please can you stop with the word salad. Everyone with a brain can tell what exactly you meant in your first post, just as everyone can tell the issue here isn't age difference, it's an adult male preying on a child. Now the way you framed it in your post, is that you wouldn't have an issue with this man, if the teen in question was mature and responsible. The reason why you had an issue with this person is because the girl was acting like a 14-year-old. That to me means that you are very much okay with pedophiles as long as their victims are "mature, responsible and can hold down a job". Meaning as long as the victim acts like a grown up, grown men can have at it, it's not about the age but rather the behaviors of the child/children in question. Your thought process is sick and demented.
Oh my gosh..I wouldn’t want my daughter near him if I were mom I’d move away yeah I know a predator when I see one I’m not been judgemental but C’mon doesn’t this girl realise what he’s done is serious or is she too blinded to acknowledge it !!??..KEEP HER AWAY FROM THIS MAN !! 😢
So he has a five year old boy. I bet he’s waiting for a little girl. Going to have one child with this teenager and he’s banking on it being a baby girl. 👨🔫
Hopefully we teach our children to do the right things and to trust the right people. So that when they get just old enough to be an adult (allegedly) they will hear our sensibilities. This is definitely not one of those cases.
Its tough cause when hes 60 and shes 49 or 50 theres no problem. My husband is 10 years older than me and got married the first time when i was 9! Hes now 72 im 62 and its not strange at all
Yes it’s fine when they older the age gap as she has a chance to grow up. However, this isn’t ok because she is a kid. there is nothing right when a 17 year old is with a 28 year old! Once a girl or boy gets to 25 then age doesn’t matter. However, until people get a chance to be an adult leave them alone. Let them be kids and be young. It is creepy and predatory to get with girls under 25 years of age when you older! Men are sick to prey on this age group. Esp when he knew her when she was 7 years old this is sick.
Am I the only one who thinks it’s not that weird to fall asleep with face time or Skype on with your significant other. Their age gap is weird but If they were any normal couple it’s totally normal?
But strange to get hung up on that when this guy tried to drown his ex. .... But I guess to answer your question....he is controlling. He's video calling to watch her! To watch that she's not going out!
This is a matter of superficial physical attraction and mutual fascination; it's nature, yes, but most such cases I've seen don't come out good. There's not much you can do against the hormonal reactions at play between the two of them. Best to get her to focus on college and building a career and to hope that she gets disillusioned with him at some point. ... and hope she stays on the pill.
At age 16 my best friend, "Lynn" got involved with a 26 year-old. He had a criminal record, was unemployed, mentally ill and living with his grandmother (his parents had given up on him). "Lynn's" mother tried to keep them apart, but that just drove her to him more. Long story short he became violent, tried to kill her several times and continued to stalk her for years. She discovered that the same thing had happened to his previous girlfriend. Ten years later he was even stalking friends of hers. Luckily he didn't manage to kill anyone but did commit a huge amount of vandalism.
I’ll just say mary kay letourneau She was exactly the same as this man but much worse in my opinion as she was with a 12yr old boy and was his teacher when she was 34 and got pregnant by him
The moment she loses that little girl voice and the braces, she's dumped.
💯 I just hope she’s not pregnant when it happens!
Dumped for the child she plans to have with him
Yep, that and when she actually stops idealising the dude. Bet she currently never questions anything he says or wants.
Likely he tried to drown his ex wife because she spoke up to him at some point. Set a boundary.
Check out the update.
Yep, she sounds and looks younger than 17, and that’s what he likes. Eventually he won’t be able to resist and will go younger. Hes a walking red flag!
He tried to drown his ex....😮 He should be in jail.
He probably was In jail already
He’s a grown man with children. This is sick. This is 10 years old, any update?
According to a Reddit thread from 2023, they broke up in 2016. She quickly found another man. She had two kids but unfortunately one was a preemie and passed away. Her mother died in 2019. The Reddit thread pops up on a search. Within the thread people have published their Facebook names.
@@bluebonnetbunny4813 Thank you so much! I’m sorry to hear about her mom and child, she has already been through so much with that predator. I’m glad she’s no longer with him though!
@@bluebonnetbunny4813was the other man she found, significantly older as well?
lock him up. he is a predator. he’s known her since she was 7??? there’s just red flags everywhere.
It's painfully clear that you have no understanding of the United States justice system.
16 is the legal age in 90 percent of the world lol
Legal doesn’t mean moral
Last time I checked, 16yr olds weren’t crawling around with a nappy on lol our grandmothers had children at 18 and married earlier 🤷♂️ she’s not a child, she can be trialed as an adult for a serious crime. 16 is legal in majority of the world.
@@ev0watdoesn't mean this right or she's mature. And also. Ever heard the saying 'when you know better, you do better'.
It was 'normal' years ago to marry young because expectations were women stayed home and raised kids. And remember women had no rights until early 1900's. Couldn't vote etc.
This poor girl thinks she’s mature because her boyfriend is older… One day she may realize he’s a predator and this was an unhealthy situation/ relationship.
Yea poor her 😂 I'm pretty sure she's happy and likes him regardless and learn from her experiences . Maybe feel sorry for someone else lol instead of a stupid teen
I don't think you can call the guy a predator
@@DarrenHaswellwhy wouldn’t you. He’s known her since she was little.. any “man” who waits until the second she turns 17/18 is a pedo and a predator
@@droo3010she likes the mayonaise too much! 🎉
@@droo3010how many 16 year olds have you hooked up with creep?
Her acting like her Dr was contacting her on a regular basis to go on birth control is ridiculous
These two both act like they are adolescemts.
Both of them liking blue doesn’t mean they have so much in common! 😂😅
Haha, I know! It reminds me of preschoolers when 2 of them realize they have the same favorite color, they get so excited.This guy is such a moron and creepazoid!
Don't forget fishing 😂
As someone who was 16 and dated a 28 year old, engaged on my 18th birthday, married him on my 20th birthday. I got divorced at 23!! DONT DO IT!!!
Depends on the country because here in UK the age of consent is 16
His past is super creepy. But after she's 18 then there's really nothing that can be done. Legally. She will hopefully wise up.
Ain’t no way I’d be allowing this
Why does she think that she's going to college after marrying him?
Poor girl. The brain is not developed until age 25. Be with someone your own age bro.
If that were my kid, that guy would take a short ride on a long freeway
It's not the age difference that's the problem, I've seen teens who are mature and already in the workforce, responsible etc. The problem here is she acts and looks like a 14 year old and that's clearly what he likes!
What are you talking about, just because a teen acts mature doesn't mean an adult man should get with them. Even she acted like a 34-year-old woman, it doesn't mean it's alright for an adult male to be in a relationship with them.
@@NellyMacharia my point went over your head. Age difference (when it's legal) isn't always an issue. What I'm saying here is he clearly is into young teens, he's not with her because she's mature, there's no grey area...
@@lounakin Your point was very clear (you are okay with grown men dating "mature teens" , the issue becomes if the said teens still act like a 14-year-olds. This is sick, your thinking is warped, demented and sick). What you are trying to do right now is to gaslight me into thinking that I misunderstood what you were saying because I called you out.
@@NellyMacharia Yeah ... wow... You do have comprehension issues, let me spell it out: The grown man will say age is not important, but the fact that she acts like a young teen INDICATES that he is in fact into very young girls. He'd probably go younger if he could.
Do you know age difference doesn't mean underage, right? Age difference between a 35 year old dating a 42 year old wouldn't be that bad...
@@lounakin Please can you stop with the word salad. Everyone with a brain can tell what exactly you meant in your first post, just as everyone can tell the issue here isn't age difference, it's an adult male preying on a child. Now the way you framed it in your post, is that you wouldn't have an issue with this man, if the teen in question was mature and responsible. The reason why you had an issue with this person is because the girl was acting like a 14-year-old.
That to me means that you are very much okay with pedophiles as long as their victims are "mature, responsible and can hold down a job". Meaning as long as the victim acts like a grown up, grown men can have at it, it's not about the age but rather the behaviors of the child/children in question. Your thought process is sick and demented.
This makes me sick to my stomach.
Oh my gosh..I wouldn’t want my daughter near him if I were mom I’d move away yeah I know a predator when I see one I’m not been judgemental but C’mon doesn’t this girl realise what he’s done is serious or is she too blinded to acknowledge it !!??..KEEP HER AWAY FROM THIS MAN !! 😢
Yeah cause anyone in 2024 can “just move away”
@@ashj0 just a thought 💭😊🙌☮️💗
It's illegal!!!
I think she's gonna loose interest once she in college and meet cute boys her age
If he tried to drown his ex, then who knows what he’ll try to do her. He’s no good. I hope one day she wises up & realizes this.
1:24 "Trying to drown his wife" ??????
Mr. Smith says YOU ALL HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD> HE SHOULD BE LOCKED UP
He put her on the 12 month plan
Hello mom take her computer!
Taking a teenage girl’s computer, phone, etc does nothing but piss them off and make them more determined to do the opposite of what you want.
So he has a five year old boy. I bet he’s waiting for a little girl. Going to have one child with this teenager and he’s banking on it being a baby girl.
👨🔫
Hopefully we teach our children to do the right things and to trust the right people. So that when they get just old enough to be an adult (allegedly) they will hear our sensibilities. This is definitely not one of those cases.
Bro you gotta call the PoPo I’m telling ya
Its tough cause when hes 60 and shes 49 or 50 theres no problem. My husband is 10 years older than me and got married the first time when i was 9! Hes now 72 im 62 and its not strange at all
Posing on the Flintstones Dino in formal clothes is all I needed to see 😅😅😅
He looks creepy
He’s love bombing her.. abuse
Run girl, run!!! Get attention from healthier people and remember you arent fooling anyone.
navie little girl 😭
Yes it’s fine when they older the age gap as she has a chance to grow up. However, this isn’t ok because she is a kid. there is nothing right when a 17 year old is with a 28 year old! Once a girl or boy gets to 25 then age doesn’t matter. However, until people get a chance to be an adult leave them alone. Let them be kids and be young. It is creepy and predatory to get with girls under 25 years of age when you older! Men are sick to prey on this age group. Esp when he knew her when she was 7 years old this is sick.
dude thinks he's Elvis Presley, dating a young girl 11 years his junior!!
Am I the only one who thinks it’s not that weird to fall asleep with face time or Skype on with your significant other. Their age gap is weird but If they were any normal couple it’s totally normal?
It it happened once ok, but regularly is very creepy, it becomes expected, and it can be a mechanicism of control, no matter the age
Skype isn't an issue here.
But strange to get hung up on that when this guy tried to drown his ex. ....
But I guess to answer your question....he is controlling. He's video calling to watch her! To watch that she's not going out!
@@cperez1000it's not creepy at all to fall asleep on video call which the question was .
@@janebaker4912he was not talking about her . He said for normal couples
I the intro he points out that it is legal in their state. Then half the comments are "why isn't he in jail?"
I think hes mentaly younger than his age and thats why it makes sense to both of them.
He has a crazy look in his eyes 😵💫😵💫
Obviously its not about the age difference, it's his horrible past behavior. People never change, because they were born into that way.
Wrong, it’s about the age difference. You a shorteyes?
no big deal on age gap, its his violent past that is an issue----
Both are big deals!
WEIRDO ALERT 🚨 🚨🚨💥💥💥🚨🚨🚨🚨
Is there an update on them?
From what I see on FB, they aren’t together and she has a child from someone else.
@@Sbj24glad she got away.
Oh huh THANK GOD !!!!!!!
"Is that Dino?"😂😂
Freddy and Barney were standing off to the side looking very disappointed.
Everything about this show is like a truman show nightmare its so weird.
I say just leave them bee …
She'll get too old. Then she'll see. He'll have a new 16 year old.
I don't know how much time he gets to analyze and ponder on each case, or how smart his production team is, but he was Spot On.
PDF File alert red flags written all over this situation
Where are they now?
I know where they are from. By the backgrounds, it's my hometown. In a small village in upstate New York.
This is a matter of superficial physical attraction and mutual fascination; it's nature, yes, but most such cases I've seen don't come out good.
There's not much you can do against the hormonal reactions at play between the two of them. Best to get her to focus on college and building a career and to hope that she gets disillusioned with him at some point.
... and hope she stays on the pill.
At age 16 my best friend, "Lynn" got involved with a 26 year-old. He had a criminal record, was unemployed, mentally ill and living with his grandmother (his parents had given up on him).
"Lynn's" mother tried to keep them apart, but that just drove her to him more. Long story short he became violent, tried to kill her several times and continued to stalk her for years. She discovered that the same thing had happened to his previous girlfriend.
Ten years later he was even stalking friends of hers. Luckily he didn't manage to kill anyone but did commit a huge amount of vandalism.
Yeah, bc pills prevent cancer 😅
Something isn’t right with the mother.🤨
She has a cho mo dating her daughter.
What's wrong? There's worst situations
Cho mo alert
He should be put in jail. This girl thinks it's true love she was groomed from the start
He is selfish person
He's selfish
I’ll just say mary kay letourneau She was exactly the same as this man but much worse in my opinion as she was with a 12yr old boy and was his teacher when she was 34 and got pregnant by him
I really hope to God this is fake…
Creep
uh, why is he on dr. phil and not in prison? Anything for views huh
Whatever happened to them now?
Mum's a psycho
Celine Dion and Rene age difference? 26 years!!!!!!!!!! Met her when she was 12! He was married!!!!!!! No outrage
That was creepy too.
Woot woot
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This is just another repeat! Unsubbing!
You realize the show is over and there is nothing left but repeats?
@AliciaGuitar Oh, for sure, I know that, but it was just shown not too long ago.
I want the full episode!
Bye girl 👋