That poor girl. She's never had to deal with a break up, and now she's scared of the pain. She desperate. The man and mistress are trash. Absolute trash.
Yes!! That’s exactly what I think is going on. Maybe not thah she’s never broken up with someone but more that she thought she found her life-partner and divorce means that she’ll be alone again. On top of that she’ll be ”breaking up” with her best friend wich will make her even more alone. That would scare pretty much anyone
He is a rat!!! To think 2 women are wanting this boy is crazy. immaturity is rampant.... I feel so bad for little boy. I hope mother in law does not shoot him. I would
I agree up there airing out on the TV I am not enough for my wife she is having affair with my cousin and I was second fiddle with her and our child to
Wife We had a really good marriage before Phil: How long have you been sleeping together? Mistress: one year Phil how long have you been married? Wife: 6 months. Which part was the good marriage???
Neither one should stay. He doesn’t deserve anyone. But the wife should definitely not accept this. The child is the most important. The mistress is selfish and interloping where she doesn’t belong and should be ashamed of herself. But his wife should not take him back. He’s an arrogant pos.
That is because ypu are an adult and have have self respect. These 3 are kids I doubt they have an education or left the town they grew up in . They think this is the only way to live their lives. AND, they are not thinking if their children.
Actually all 3 of them are pretty normal ppl, just young and confused. It won't hurt if they actually try the polygamy, they can always go for the separation route afterwards. It works for some ppl. The wife is not an angel or a victim too, she is vengeful and didn't miss the chance to do the girlfriend husband.😅
@@Boricua..4 If that man was my son, I'd tell him exactly where I think he was wrong and beg him to go into counseling to stop being on the fence and choose one woman and treat them with respect, treat them right, be faithful.
UPDATE!!!! Carly left Mike. She got remarried and now has kids with her new husband. Mike and Jessica ended up marrying each other. Current as of 2021. This episode was taped in 2010.
Thanks for the update :) I’m proud of Carly, it can be terribly scary and difficult to leave your ‘first love’ especially when it’s toxic & all you’ve ever known!
Thanks for the update! I felt it was obvious watching that he wanted Jessica more, and also that Carly deserved better than both of them. So I think this is the best outcome.
He certainly is no prize. He's definitely NO MAN !! Walk away, with your child, then take him for everything he owns and every cent in Childcare. A REAL man is there, in your future
He should have never got married to his wife if he had feelings for the blonde and I can see he is happier with his mistress than the wife She needs to take her child and let her husband go because he isn't in the marriage 💯 percent and he can't leave the mistress alone so don't be a stepping stone and not love yourself enough to let him go because he isn't yours he is yas meaning both women .Two children will be hurt in this relationship because blondes baby is without the father in the house and Michaels son will be without a father in his life under the same roof with his mommy.
@@patriciakeith6164 you’re right. He never once looked at his wife like he looked at Jessica and you know what? They divorced and he’s currently married to the mistress! She’s got dark hair now and she fixed those awful eyebrows but it’s her! I hope the first wife has found happiness and a man who she can be safe with.
Its downright scary! People like these will lie to each other and could infect the world with some sexual disease! If he is sleeping with your socalled friend, he's probably sleeping with somebody else, too! People like this gave NO CONSCIENCE!
Another commenter says he's been with the mistress for 10 years. They have a daughter. The wife has remarried. I'm happy for HER, as it's got to be a REAL MAN, THIS TIME AROUND
The wife has such low self-esteem, the mistress has such low self-esteem, and he's a sad loser. They all have ended up here for a reason. I feel bad for the children.
The reason why these two young women are in this situation is : their parents. You are not born with low self-esteem... I know it because my parents never said I was good, I was strong, I was loved, I was capable. I am 56 and now I know I am a good person, I have a lot of value because I look at my actions (all my life I helped people in need, it is my nature) strangers tell me I am a very good person.
This is so sickening on so many levels! Both women are delusional. And the way they are fighting over that arrogant cheater is beyond my comprehension.
The guy and the mistress deserve each other. Neither one thinks of the effects of their affair on other people. Carli will be better off going on her own way and building up herself for her and her son's sake. She deserves better than what her husband and so-called friend have subjected her to.
@@SouthernGirl77 Says another woman. Looks like men have no say in it. He's having those issues because he's trying to make them happy. If he just does what he wants he'll get both.
This young lady deserves better. I cried when she said that her vows were important to her because there’s nothing worse than loving someone who doesn’t feel the same but this actually seems worse. I have no faith he spent 1 day being loyal to her after this episode. Goodness have some respect for the mother of your child.
@@Internal_Investigation????? Why did she deserve to be deceived & cheated on by the man who was supposed to be her life-long partner??? What did she do to deserve that, lmaoooooo
It made me cry, too. The sweet wife needs to remember that he's no longer the man she fell in love with, especially if he hid his affair with the mistress from the girl he married. The mistress is a psychopath. No conscience.
This guy has no self control, the cousin’s wife showed him signs, he jumped on the occasion with no hesitation. Too much porn, no integrity, self centered, immature and spoiled, acting on his immediate pulsions.
Change the locks to the house, get your business updated, get a good lawyer, Take him to the cleaners. One word. Goodbye in 3 seconds! Love yourself more. He will never stop cheating!
OH, do I EVER KNOW THAT!!! My now ex-husband had an affair and destroyed our marriage after almost 17 yrs (23 yrs COMBINED). It took 2 yrs for our divorce to become finalized, and during that time, he continued his relationship with the mistress and eventually married her within 18 months of our divorce being finalized. We had been together since we were 17 & 18 yrs old....and all of a sudden, he has a midlife crisis and decides to have an affair & ultimately MARRIES the said mistress in less than 2 years of being divorced from ME. He didn't have to spend a SINGLE DAY ALONE with his THOUGHTS or ANYTHING!!!! How on Earth could he have possibly thought that jumping directly into ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP with SOMEONE ELSE after having been married to ME for almost 2 decades have EVER seemed like a GOOD IDEA to him.....I guess I'll NEVER KNOW.
LISTEN!!! Cause she would not have had time to hide behind that door naked sis 😂 then the husband would have got it next. She deserved the hands put on her with that arrogant attitude.
Right? He straight up said he wanted to stay married but was still gonna keep cheating!!! Wtf? Throw the whole man away because he's just nothing but hot garbage!!! I'm talking 3 day old fish dumpster in mid July!
He doesn't love either one of them. He loves himself and does whatever he wants with no care about his actions and how they affect other people. All three of these people seem dumb. No smart woman would put up with a man like that.
@@landrieadams9510yes, I saw that too. Once in awhile, on very rare occasions, it's truly just a matter of marrying the wrong person and finding your true love after the fact. It looks like that's what happened here. These two do seem to genuinely love each other.
👍🏽 Mikey and Jessica have been emotionally and sexually cheating on their respective partners. I feel sad for their partners. Jessica’s husband had the good sense to move on… I hope that Carly also finds some clarity to recognise it’s time to ditch both her husband and her so called bestie Jessica! Make a good life for herself and her child…
No man is worth all that. Marriage is a commitment and if he's not able to keep his part of the commitment...it would definitely be time to get out of that whole mess!!
The fact that she called her fake because she wasn’t sharing specific details. While at the same time she was sleeping with her husband!? Like Holy sh!t is she even a real person?💀😭
Looked them up and found d out he left Carly, married Jessica, they had a daughter together and it didn’t work out. Jessica fought him for $9,600 alimony per month 😂 I don’t feel sorry for these two immature, selfish and childish people. Hope Carly is better and happier.
According to their Instagram accounts - Jessica and Mike are still together and celebrated their 10 year anniversary like 6 months ago - so not sure where you saw where it didn't work out and the alimony stuff - and he just posted a picture of Jessica on his Instagram a week ago
How could two such disgusting people win? Thw world is crazy. It's horrible that jessica is raising a daughter to make another female like her in the world
His wife needs to have some dignity and self-respect about herself. Tell him you will make the decision for him and say goodbye. Move on and find your happiness
Selfish, childish and ridiculous people. Those poor children. The children are victims. How incredibly sad for these innocent children born to these disgusting people.
Yep that's right! Do these women never go out anywhere where they can find men much much better than this tool? Look at him. He's like a man child. Fricken what a waste of time and most importantly, who's raising these kids as it seems like all their energy and time is running after this man. I also can guarantee the wife will take the pain out on her kids if she's having a bad day and the kids will feel her pain. It's just ridiculous that the wife sees this like a competition and said she wants to leave with him cos she wants to take what's HERS....
Divorcing my husband would absolutely destroy me. Emotionally, physically, socially, financially, all of it. But I won't ever.....EVER....accept him spitting me in my face by having a mistress. I'd be out. The same day.
@hekate1971 I have my own income, but if I leave my husband, I couldn't pay my half of the mortgage to him immediately. We'd have to sell the house, but I wouldn't immediately have another house, so I'd have to live with my parents again, and he would have to move in with his sister. That's what I meant by "destroyed financially."
Episodes like this really helped me grow up and see why I was so hurt and how to fix the hurt by putting into words what I needed. The line of you have to this until is a game changer
Jessica and Mike are a couple of the most selfish people out there. Carly let her have him. You can do better and you deserve better. He will cheat on her.
Wife knows full well that her marriage is already over. She just hasn't found the belief in herself to move on yet. When she does figure it out, her new strength will be amazing, because she'll never let another man treat her this way again.
This is why it’s so important not to create soul ties in an unhealthy way. Soul ties through intimacy bond people together and are hard to break. That blonde girl was jealous all along and was competing for his attention.
Prayer for the wife. She’s been double betrayed. I’ve been there. Let the husband and girlfriend go to live and fail in a relationship with each other. So mad!
I always think of shania Twain. Her husband and best friend. She ended up marrying her best friends husband because of the bond they shared after the betrayal and she is doing amazing now
Apparently the wife divorced him and remarried. He married the blonde. These people never seem to have a breather and be alone for a while to sort themselves out.🤷♀️
This is the most RIDICULOUS thing I’ve ever seen. The wife needs to divorce him and then he can become the other girl’s problem. He’s 1 egg short of a dozen.
The competition between the two women that the wife mentioned is so true. I've experienced this countless times when i was in my 20s with girl friends that didn't know who they were or what direction they had in life. They just know they like what you have, including your man. Huge red flag if your "friend" is competing with you constantly and putting you down. Run away fast from these people.
It's more likely he's felt the same as the guy rather than he's just not judgmental. Let's be honest most men wish they could have their wife and someone else. This man is just bold and self assured enough to say it.
@kevinlong3900 no, he is a real Doctor. A Dr is a person who acquires their PHD. He does have his PHd. I think you're confusing no longer practicing/licensed with "not real".
I kind of think that with the wife out of the picture that the spark he and his mistress have will die out pretty quickly. It’s not the same thing to have trysts as it is to live with someone on a day to day basis.
It usually does. Women who get off on Men who are in a relationship or visa versa, have issues. And once someone doesn’t want the guy/girl, they’ll bounce to find another person in a relationship. They enjoy the negative attention. They enjoy knowing someone thinks they’re better than the one they’re with. Even temporarily. Weirdos
I agree! He doesn’t want to be the “bad” guy and Father. And he is probably afraid of alimony and child support. He clearly does not want to be married to her.
This man is delusional! What this man deserves is for his wife to leave him, file for divorce. What the other woman deserves is for her husband to leave her and file for divorce. It’s obvious that neither of them respect the sanctity of marriage.
The blond chick's husband had already divorced her before the show. After the show, the dude dumped his wife and got together with the blond. He's been with her for 14 years now - married for 10.
I was in a very similar situation. It is heart breaking, but for your own sanity Carla, walk away. I did, and guess what? he came crawling back after he and his side-piece didn't work out. The thing is, I was over him and didn't want anything more to do with him. I looked him up and down and told him,' Nah, my life is so much better without you', and I actually meant it !!!!
I was the other woman years ago, I walked away before he could choose... I left him, changed my number and never saw him again..... I didn't know he was married until one of the other girls he was seeing called me up ......and the rest .....well.........He was caught, not by the girl who called me, but his wife ......she found all our numbers and called each and every one of us. I told her a lie, which she believed , I blocked her number and she never reached me again......the other girls well.....let's say.....he was caught .....I had already left him
Wise decision - these men who will cheat behind their partners backs tend to be wanting the best if both worlds, are highly selfish and manipulative and will tell the other woman everything she wants to hear but then leave her in the cold when it suits them. You did the best thing, I was the other woman a few years ago and it's not a position I'd ever put myself in again!
This is what happens when children partner up in high school and become dependent on each other. The wife has never been independent nor had a life of her own. She went from her parents to her husband. That's why she terrified to start a life of her own.
It is awful that not one of them knows the importance of putting their children first. It’s a terrible thought that both of their children are going to be affected by this unnecessary chaos.
Sometimes we have to stay with the horrible husband. My daughter needed facial surgery over a ten yr period and he’d stripped me of my income . I had to stay to enable her medical bills to be paid.
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Michaels hot he better be glad I don’t live there lol he’d have a third to deal with lol
Dr. Phil please do an update on this couple and the side piece!!
Jessica's husband left! The only one with brains in this circus.
Lol lol Right
Is he the only man in their town¿¿¿¿
@@BartendressTwincan you imagine 😢
Every man’s dream ? How about every women’s dream too. Lol.
That’s what I would do too if I were I that situation!!
Jessica’s husband respects himself
That poor girl. She's never had to deal with a break up, and now she's scared of the pain. She desperate. The man and mistress are trash. Absolute trash.
Yes!! That’s exactly what I think is going on.
Maybe not thah she’s never broken up with someone but more that she thought she found her life-partner and divorce means that she’ll be alone again.
On top of that she’ll be ”breaking up” with her best friend wich will make her even more alone.
That would scare pretty much anyone
He is a rat!!! To think 2 women are wanting this boy is crazy. immaturity is rampant.... I feel so bad for little boy. I hope mother in law does not shoot him. I would
That wife is desperate to hang on to a man.That's obviously wanting this other woman. She definitely could find someone better
She literally slept with her husband too. They all trash
He won’t let Blondie go! He shoulda never married his wife.
Good for the cousin, for not wanting to be involved in this mess on telly.
I agree up there airing out on the TV I am not enough for my wife she is having affair with my cousin and I was second fiddle with her and our child to
He honestly should get a paternity test on that kid.
Paternity test!
Men don't support to be cheated on. they always leave. Women are loyal even to a cheater... so sad.
@@Maya.6868nothing wromg witj leaving as to why women dont its sad i dont know why but more people need to peave cheaters not stay
Work on our marriage? There’s no working on that. Leave that man, girl.
REAL MF TALK 👏🔥💯✅️
Wife We had a really good marriage before
Phil: How long have you been sleeping together?
Mistress: one year
Phil how long have you been married?
Wife: 6 months.
Which part was the good marriage???
@@KelluyPowell-1985 🤣🤣
Winning a cheater is NOT a prize, ladies!
Well said!!!
Honesty is a Virtue. Its so important to be honest no matter what you're doing. I learned to have standards. But expectations are just that.
Right on...
Neither one should stay. He doesn’t deserve anyone. But the wife should definitely not accept this. The child is the most important. The mistress is selfish and interloping where she doesn’t belong and should be ashamed of herself. But his wife should not take him back. He’s an arrogant pos.
The. Wife. Should. Take. The. Child. And. Leave. I. Think
Leave him. Leave him. Leave him. Run...don't walk...run.
Girl WALK TALL STRAIGHT TO A LAWYER FOR DUE EMOTIONAL FRAUD. THAT WASN'T A HUSBAND YOU MARRIED AT THE ALTAR IT WAS A C-H-E-A-T-E-R & A SLIME BALL.
Yes! You are getting another chance for happiness.
She is not leaving him, because she does not want him to be happy with the other woman. She also sleeps with other people.
Dcoleman4444, I am sorry but I read your message and could not stop laughing....😂......sad thing is you are right.
agree 100 percent...
Why are they waiting for HIM to decide??? I'd be out that door before he could even think about it.
That's exactly what's happening IMO. These women are absolutely ridiculous and definitely frenemies rather than bffs.
Exactly! He’s no prize, the wife can do so much better and that mistress frenemy is trash. Let them have each other. They deserve eachother
Preach it
That is because ypu are an adult and have have self respect. These 3 are kids I doubt they have an education or left the town they grew up in . They think this is the only way to live their lives. AND, they are not thinking if their children.
Absolutely!
The wife has no self esteem. The girlfriend no conscious . Something seriously wrong with all of them.
The only one with sence is the girlfriends husband who LEFT
@@noblevictory2200. Yup…agree…girl’s husband needs a new nice lady.
Actually all 3 of them are pretty normal ppl, just young and confused. It won't hurt if they actually try the polygamy, they can always go for the separation route afterwards. It works for some ppl. The wife is not an angel or a victim too, she is vengeful and didn't miss the chance to do the girlfriend husband.😅
Did you mean conscience? I agree with you though
But you say nothing about the husband.
Ladies, he is no prize. Stop fighting for this tool.
GOD BEGS TO DIFFER!
He must be doing something right 📏🍆🍑🍆🍒
@@SantanaCampbell Exactly. He is definitely the prize. Why are women fighting over him, right?
@@SantanaCampbellReally? Since when did you get a hotline to God?
His Sniffing would drive me insane. This is Insane. Run Dr Phil, RUN.
I read something to the effect of "Never choose someone who has to think twice about choosing you".
Amen!!!! For both of them
If you re not a priorit, don t be an option!
Absolutely spot on 💯
Yess!!! Absolutely.
That's exactly it right there
Who raised this man? What an embarrassment to his parents!
That's exactly what I was thinking.
definitely.
Y’all are wrong so if one of your grown kids did this you are to blame lol 😂😂😂😂grown kids do what they want why bc they’re grown y’all are not smart
@@Boricua..4 Good parents instill morals and values, lead by example etc..
@@Boricua..4 If that man was my son, I'd tell him exactly where I think he was wrong and beg him to go into counseling to stop being on the fence and choose one woman and treat them with respect, treat them right, be faithful.
UPDATE!!!! Carly left Mike. She got remarried and now has kids with her new husband. Mike and Jessica ended up marrying each other. Current as of 2021. This episode was taped in 2010.
Really? I was wondering about them.
Thank you for the update
Thanks for the update :) I’m proud of Carly, it can be terribly scary and difficult to leave your ‘first love’ especially when it’s toxic & all you’ve ever known!
Thanks for the update! I felt it was obvious watching that he wanted Jessica more, and also that Carly deserved better than both of them. So I think this is the best outcome.
Are mike and Jess still together??
This guy is NOT a real man ladies. He has NO integrity. Leave him and move on
Let's see how long he stays with the blonde if he splits from his wife. The wife should leave
He is a philanderer!
RUNNNNNN
A douchbag.
The women suck too
HE IS A CHILD. No one can have a successful relationship with this BOY.
Exactly
I think he wants 2 mummies.He is an utter child.
@@LegacyByT
He certainly is no prize. He's definitely NO MAN !! Walk away, with your child, then take him for everything he owns and every cent in Childcare. A REAL man is there, in your future
🎉
Honey, if he'll cheat with you, he'll cheat on you!!
You got that right 😢
He should have never got married to his wife if he had feelings for the blonde and I can see he is happier with his mistress than the wife She needs to take her child and let her husband go because he isn't in the marriage 💯 percent and he can't leave the mistress alone so don't be a stepping stone and not love yourself enough to let him go because he isn't yours he is yas meaning both women .Two children will be hurt in this relationship because blondes baby is without the father in the house and Michaels son will be without a father in his life under the same roof with his mommy.
@@patriciakeith6164 you’re right. He never once looked at his wife like he looked at Jessica and you know what? They divorced and he’s currently married to the mistress! She’s got dark hair now and she fixed those awful eyebrows but it’s her! I hope the first wife has found happiness and a man who she can be safe with.
You got that right 😂
💯this is the truth
Crazy situation here. The LUST in those two, the lack of self-control in them, and the lack of self-esteem for the ladies is incredible😮
Its downright scary! People like these will lie to each other and could infect the world with some sexual disease! If he is sleeping with your socalled friend, he's probably sleeping with somebody else, too! People like this gave NO CONSCIENCE!
Agreed 👍🏼
Th guy has to man-up and face the reality of his responsibility and not fantasy! This guy is NOT a REAL man!
The "husband " and Jessica are the best displays of narcissism 🤦♀️.
Two cheaters suits one another let them be. 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😮
Another commenter says he's been with the mistress for 10 years. They have a daughter. The wife has remarried. I'm happy for HER, as it's got to be a REAL MAN, THIS TIME AROUND
It seems to WORK FOR THEM !!!! Let them go give it a whirl ....... Time will tell
They're actually not narcissistic at all. You obviously know nothing about narcisism.
@ajbones22 everyone loves to throw that term around....lol trying to sound smart I guess
No need for enemies when you have friends like these.
Family like this!
And family.
Keep your friends close and your enemies closer
The wife has such low self-esteem, the mistress has such low self-esteem, and he's a sad loser. They all have ended up here for a reason. I feel bad for the children.
Yep. That sums it up.
It's like they're all still stuck in highschool 🙄
I do love her southern twang too
The reason why these two young women are in this situation is : their parents. You are not born with low self-esteem... I know it because my parents never said I was good, I was strong, I was loved, I was capable. I am 56 and now I know I am a good person, I have a lot of value because I look at my actions (all my life I helped people in need, it is my nature) strangers tell me I am a very good person.
I agree poor kids
This is so sickening on so many levels! Both women are delusional. And the way they are fighting over that arrogant cheater is beyond my comprehension.
The guy and the mistress deserve each other. Neither one thinks of the effects of their affair on other people. Carli will be better off going on her own way and building up herself for her and her son's sake. She deserves better than what her husband and so-called friend have subjected her to.
Agreed! I think at this point, she can't see the other side of the storm yet, but there is a much better life out there for her.
@@andreawaibel3584 No. She has a child. She's never going to raise her child right as a single mom. Best to just let the phase pass.
@ourcalmmusic There are a lot of divorced or single women who succeed at raising their children right and with love.
@@nickrachjames Yeah I wouldn't take that chance. When the chances of delinquent behavior go up by 80%. No, thank you very much.
@@ourcalmmusic and what kind of example would she set for her child? That cheating is okay?
The wife should walk away from this toxic relationship and let him live to regret it!
This aired back in 2012. He chose the Blond one and they're still together today and also married with kids.
@shaygraham6925 they divorced.
@@dianacurry6248 the blond "woman" and the guy divorced?
Thanks guys! I always wonder what happen to them
....and his childish self Will definitely regret it.
My heart breaks for his wife. She knows she must leave, and it hurts so badly to do the right thing.
They have a child. The best way is to stay with him for the child. These small things will blow over for sure.
@@ourcalmmusiclol
Cheating is not a small thing
@@SouthernGirl77 Says another woman. Looks like men have no say in it. He's having those issues because he's trying to make them happy. If he just does what he wants he'll get both.
Doing the right thing is sometimes the hardest thing. He just wants both women. Men are 😁 😂
This young lady deserves better. I cried when she said that her vows were important to her because there’s nothing worse than loving someone who doesn’t feel the same but this actually seems worse. I have no faith he spent 1 day being loyal to her after this episode. Goodness have some respect for the mother of your child.
Seems like she got what she deserves. She chose to have a kid with him.
@@Internal_Investigation????? Why did she deserve to be deceived & cheated on by the man who was supposed to be her life-long partner??? What did she do to deserve that, lmaoooooo
It made me cry, too. The sweet wife needs to remember that he's no longer the man she fell in love with, especially if he hid his affair with the mistress from the girl he married. The mistress is a psychopath. No conscience.
@@Internal_Investigationshe was MARRIED to him!
When a married man cheats on his wife with another woman (stranger or not) he will cheat on them again and again. That's a promise 100%.
Not completely true....
This guy has no self control, the cousin’s wife showed him signs, he jumped on the occasion with no hesitation. Too much porn, no integrity, self centered, immature and spoiled, acting on his immediate pulsions.
Yep always Do run away now
lose them how you get them for sure
This husband has huge ego, he loves the attention from them both. He doesn't love either of them. Ego trip. Very sad!!
Change the locks to the house, get your business updated, get a good lawyer, Take him to the cleaners. One word. Goodbye in 3 seconds! Love yourself more. He will never stop cheating!
Thats his fuking house. Plus he already dumped his wife right then and has been with the blond Jessica for 14 years now.
@@addorsubtract650That Beta male is cheating on Jessica now 😂 If he’ll do it with her, he’ll do it to her. That’s a Promise.
Ooh you know girl after my heart
Being cheated on is psychologically very traumatizing and often has a profound effect on your psyche for many years to come
So true. Very easy to turn to bad very bad things to cope.Carly mom seemed like a great support system for her.
OH, do I EVER KNOW THAT!!! My now ex-husband had an affair and destroyed our marriage after almost 17 yrs (23 yrs COMBINED). It took 2 yrs for our divorce to become finalized, and during that time, he continued his relationship with the mistress and eventually married her within 18 months of our divorce being finalized. We had been together since we were 17 & 18 yrs old....and all of a sudden, he has a midlife crisis and decides to have an affair & ultimately MARRIES the said mistress in less than 2 years of being divorced from ME. He didn't have to spend a SINGLE DAY ALONE with his THOUGHTS or ANYTHING!!!! How on Earth could he have possibly thought that jumping directly into ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP with SOMEONE ELSE after having been married to ME for almost 2 decades have EVER seemed like a GOOD IDEA to him.....I guess I'll NEVER KNOW.
@@AngieRae76 I hope you took him to court and got spousal and child support.
Very true ..been there ..BUT u become stronger in the end .The pain is so much to bear in the end you will really see.
Yep.
Jessica has never been beat up in her life and it shows
LISTEN!!! Cause she would not have had time to hide behind that door naked sis 😂 then the husband would have got it next. She deserved the hands put on her with that arrogant attitude.
BLONDIE Is NOT a FRIEND at all...
Yeah! "Blondie" is not a friend at all!
she givs us Real blondes a bad name..
Brownie also slept with blondies husband.
Theyre all odiots. If you listen they all spoke about a possible 3 way. Theyre clowns.
Way to state the obvious 🙄
This is not a man that is ready to be married to anyone. This is a child.
He was ready to be married to that blonde.
He’s a little boy. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. What a horribly selfish person.
He's probably like my ex he loves them all
@@peekaboots01👏👏👏
Why did he get married if he knew he would cheat?? Just don’t get married!
Right? “Dr Phil “Did ya’ll just think about not getting married?” The husband’s answer “No” 🤦🏻♀️
because he wants his cake and eat it too.
Right?
He straight up said he wanted to stay married but was still gonna keep cheating!!!
Wtf?
Throw the whole man away because he's just nothing but hot garbage!!!
I'm talking 3 day old fish dumpster in mid July!
He loves the blonde. He just feels sorry about destroying the marriage and losing his son.
He doesn't love either one of them. He loves himself and does whatever he wants with no care about his actions and how they affect other people. All three of these people seem dumb. No smart woman would put up with a man like that.
His wife might be the bread winner too
@@taylolzhe makes good money
He will do the same to the blonde tho 😂😂😂
Yeah you could see he wasn't into carly.
She need to divorce. He doesn’t want to be married to her. He wants whatever he wants when he wants it
Mike and Jessica ended up getting married and are living happily with their children according to their Instagram accounts.
@@landrieadams9510they deserve each other lol
@@landrieadams9510yes, I saw that too. Once in awhile, on very rare occasions, it's truly just a matter of marrying the wrong person and finding your true love after the fact. It looks like that's what happened here. These two do seem to genuinely love each other.
Leave him!! He is worthless
Well said.
Carly, dump that cheating liar and get on with your life. The other two have lied to you every single day for more than a year. You deserve better.
👍🏽 Mikey and Jessica have been emotionally and sexually cheating on their respective partners.
I feel sad for their partners. Jessica’s husband had the good sense to move on… I hope that Carly also finds some clarity to recognise it’s time to ditch both her husband and her so called bestie Jessica! Make a good life for herself and her child…
No man is worth all that. Marriage is a commitment and if he's not able to keep his part of the commitment...it would definitely be time to get out of that whole mess!!
No man or women is worth all that !!
The fact that she called her fake because she wasn’t sharing specific details. While at the same time she was sleeping with her husband!? Like Holy sh!t is she even a real person?💀😭
Looked them up and found d out he left Carly, married Jessica, they had a daughter together and it didn’t work out. Jessica fought him for $9,600 alimony per month 😂 I don’t feel sorry for these two immature, selfish and childish people. Hope Carly is better and happier.
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I hope Carly found a much better friend!
He's still with Jessica though lol? I mean I totally agree with your sentiments their a fkn mess but they are still going at it lol.
According to their Instagram accounts - Jessica and Mike are still together and celebrated their 10 year anniversary like 6 months ago - so not sure where you saw where it didn't work out and the alimony stuff - and he just posted a picture of Jessica on his Instagram a week ago
How could two such disgusting people win? Thw world is crazy. It's horrible that jessica is raising a daughter to make another female like her in the world
If a man really loves you, he would never do this to you ever. Especially not being sorry about it.
"the best man?" more like "the worst man!"
🤣🤣
And he’s not even good locking .
I bet they divorce and he marries the other woman and then starts cheating on her with his ex wife, and they come back on Dr Phil
"Best man" "Worst man", you are so funny😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The worst nightmare man.
These three deserve each other. Fantastic!
His wife needs to have some dignity and self-respect about herself. Tell him you will make the decision for him and say goodbye. Move on and find your happiness
You don’t deserve a selfish man
Selfish, childish and ridiculous people. Those poor children. The children are victims. How incredibly sad for these innocent children born to these disgusting people.
Exactly. Their lives are so small and petty.
Yep that's right! Do these women never go out anywhere where they can find men much much better than this tool? Look at him. He's like a man child. Fricken what a waste of time and most importantly, who's raising these kids as it seems like all their energy and time is running after this man. I also can guarantee the wife will take the pain out on her kids if she's having a bad day and the kids will feel her pain. It's just ridiculous that the wife sees this like a competition and said she wants to leave with him cos she wants to take what's HERS....
Divorcing my husband would absolutely destroy me. Emotionally, physically, socially, financially, all of it. But I won't ever.....EVER....accept him spitting me in my face by having a mistress.
I'd be out. The same day.
Let alone his cousin's wife
If leaving your husband ruines you financially..you need to get your independance back
@hekate1971 I have my own income, but if I leave my husband, I couldn't pay my half of the mortgage to him immediately. We'd have to sell the house, but I wouldn't immediately have another house, so I'd have to live with my parents again, and he would have to move in with his sister. That's what I meant by "destroyed financially."
Damn! Hopefully your husband never leaves u cuz your life would be ruined ur saying
Episodes like this really helped me grow up and see why I was so hurt and how to fix the hurt by putting into words what I needed. The line of you have to this until is a game changer
Can’t wait for the episode when Jessica wants to confront his new mistress! Hopefully she has better eyebrows by now.
🤣🤣100%
lol. Yes they are pretty sad. 😂
Where can we see the new episode????? 37:40
@katie That was not a nice thing to say about her "eyebrows".
@@simonezuri8303 it's true
Jessica and Mike are a couple of the most selfish people out there. Carly let her have him. You can do better and you deserve better. He will cheat on her.
She will cheat on him too.
She did. They’ve been together a while now and have a kid or kids
Jessica and mike have now been together for 14 years and STILL going strong. They got married and added more kids to the family.
I’m super thankful for my faithful wife 💕
She's doing the Amazon delivery man when you work
I'm your neighbor 😂
Jessica has always been jealous of Carly. She was never a real friend. It has always been a competition.
Wife knows full well that her marriage is already over. She just hasn't found the belief in herself to move on yet. When she does figure it out, her new strength will be amazing, because she'll never let another man treat her this way again.
Well said
Or... she has come to believe that this is all she deserves and then history repeats itself.
IT'S CALLED HEALING AT THE CRIME SCENE,
The wife needs to move on with a divorce and take hubby to the cleaners.
If this was true I'd agree. But I'm beginning to think this show is scripted
Apparently she did. They divorced and he married Jessica and had kids with her.
Take him for everything!
@@jenna-a-gogothat’s good she divorced him I hope she find a better man who is loyal to her and her kids
He’s a toddler in the candy shop… ‘what do you want’? ‘That n that n that’.
😢😢😢. Children who have no business being married!!!!! Go single, grow up and grow up some More.
Nothing wrong with wanting more than one woman. Most men want that.
u right
@@addorsubtract650 in Africa, he is not an African he cant have that😅😅
😂😂 true
This is why it’s so important not to create soul ties in an unhealthy way. Soul ties through intimacy bond people together and are hard to break. That blonde girl was jealous all along and was competing for his attention.
Blonde ruined their marriage because hers was over. She wanted to cause destruction because she’s broken.
She was not alone in ruining their marriage. He was in 100% so the blame is for him too.
She was not alone in ruining their marriage. He was in 100% so the blame is for him too.
He's brainless in all of this, IMO the girls have the power and don't even realize it.
Bingo
Prayer for the wife. She’s been double betrayed. I’ve been there. Let the husband and girlfriend go to live and fail in a relationship with each other. So mad!
I always think of shania Twain. Her husband and best friend. She ended up marrying her best friends husband because of the bond they shared after the betrayal and she is doing amazing now
@@J-Bird88 wow that's amazing. I read about it on Wikipedia after reading your comment.
The wife has been humiliated no end and she picks up where he leaves off. This man won't change. Ever.
Jessica is COLD and DANGEROUS!!!!
What a cad ! He's not worth fighting over. Both should dump him.
Apparently the wife divorced him and remarried. He married the blonde. These people never seem to have a breather and be alone for a while to sort themselves out.🤷♀️
Amen
@@aussiemouth747this show aired like 12 years ago…
@@cugglymonsterduh and your point is basically pointless but thanks for letting everyone know
Why is it up to him? He's a jerk!
And the nerve to not even be remotely cute 😂
The privilege of male superiority
This entire episode needs to be tested for STDs.
Hahahaha
So do my eyes!
🤣😆🙃🤣
Dr.Phil is great, !!!
To the wife: forget this BOY find yourself a MAN!
Omg I’m so sorry for his wife. This man is so selfish tsk tsk😢
The blonde spent most of her time glancing up at the monitor staring at herself. Tells you everything you need to know about her right there. 😒
And in the end he divorced his wife and chose her.
Fighting over a man with a hairline so far back it was backstage in the green room while they talked to Dr Phil is crazy.
What a lowlife this guy is, sitting there sheepishly staring down trying to avoid eye contact. This is what the wife is fighting for??? Unbelievable!
Yeah he's no catch. He seems devoid of personality and doesn't appear to be very smart. I'm baffled as to why these two women are fighting over him!
He’s garbage. Glad to see he & the blonde got what they deserved. They got married and then got divorced. 😂😂😂Karmas a B
This is the most RIDICULOUS thing I’ve ever seen. The wife needs to divorce him and then he can become the other girl’s problem. He’s 1 egg short of a dozen.
This belongs on Jerry Springer 😂 not Dr. Phil
If this had been Jerry Springer, one would have been a red neck, one a midget, and another one a transsexual, possibly a close relative.
Dr Phil is Jerry Springer with nicely dressed folks lol
@@Boo_kitty_kat 😂
Absolutely because the wife deserves a chance to lay hands
He’s for the streets 😅
To the wife, Once a cheater , ALWAYS A CHEATER !!!!! And to the mistress , As Dr Phil always says” If he does it with you, he will to it to you “
Note to the cheaters; If they will do it with you. Then they will do it to you.
I have seen it happen so many times!
Preach
The competition between the two women that the wife mentioned is so true. I've experienced this countless times when i was in my 20s with girl friends that didn't know who they were or what direction they had in life. They just know they like what you have, including your man. Huge red flag if your "friend" is competing with you constantly and putting you down. Run away fast from these people.
Those two narcissist belong together... The wife should run....
Not a good choice of husband or friend !!!! leave this boy and discard that disgusting friend. They deserve each other.... Best wishes for you,
What is this guy's IQ? 40?
40 is way too high
No,that's how old he looks
What he's thinking with hasn't got a brain.
More like just 4. 😂😂😂
20 is fit with him
Dr. Phil kept it real.
His hairline couldnt even commit! 😂😂
I love you!😂
😅😅exactly
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That's a good one. 😂😂😂😂!!!
The pain he's knowingly putting his wife through is unforgivable.
The cousin is the smartest
Wife needs to run away. The cousin needs to run away too.
He needs to be shown the door. Why should the wife & child have to lose their home too?
I hope she gets it all in the divorce too. Whatever bumpkin state they’re in; I hope infidelity is a crime.
I love how Dr. Phil does not judge. He is an amazing doctor.
It's more likely he's felt the same as the guy rather than he's just not judgmental. Let's be honest most men wish they could have their wife and someone else. This man is just bold and self assured enough to say it.
After the Trump interview i dk if I respect Dr. Phils opinion
hes not a real dr.
@kevinlong3900 no, he is a real Doctor. A Dr is a person who acquires their PHD. He does have his PHd. I think you're confusing no longer practicing/licensed with "not real".
You can sometimes notice at hes voice that he find something silly or stupid
Carly you deserve a great guy!! I pray for you! Love you! ❤
Only about 25% of relationships that began as affairs actually end up lasting.
I kind of think that with the wife out of the picture that the spark he and his mistress have will die out pretty quickly. It’s not the same thing to have trysts as it is to live with someone on a day to day basis.
I agree 100 percent
They’ve been married for years and have kids together now.
It usually does. Women who get off on Men who are in a relationship or visa versa, have issues. And once someone doesn’t want the guy/girl, they’ll bounce to find another person in a relationship. They enjoy the negative attention. They enjoy knowing someone thinks they’re better than the one they’re with. Even temporarily. Weirdos
Exactly
@baby5968 they married. Had a daughter. They divorced. Carly remarried a great man and they have two children together and her son.
He is humiliating and pushing his wife to leave to relieve his guilt..what a jerk!!
I agree! He doesn’t want to be the “bad” guy and Father. And he is probably afraid of alimony and child support. He clearly does not want to be married to her.
Creep
@@KKSC02 Ab so loot lee 100%
@@Rosemary-up1ql
you can't be a family with someone that is cheating with your husband. you can't even be friends
15:44 That moment when Dr. Phil becomes speechless...😂😂😂😂
This man is delusional! What this man deserves is for his wife to leave him, file for divorce. What the other woman deserves is for her husband to leave her and file for divorce. It’s obvious that neither of them respect the sanctity of marriage.
The blond chick's husband had already divorced her before the show. After the show, the dude dumped his wife and got together with the blond. He's been with her for 14 years now - married for 10.
I hope to never experience that level of desperation and low self esteem
I HATE that they BOTH infantilize him w/“Mikey”! They treat him like a little boy so that’s how he acts.
The worst thing you can do for a "man" you love 😢 they enable this sick shyt
He was a child emotionally before he got married. His parents spoiled him and that’s what he feels entitled to. Selfish git.
That final segment of advice was the very best I've ever heard from Dr.Phil EVER🙌🙌🙌
I was in a very similar situation. It is heart breaking, but for your own sanity Carla, walk away. I did, and guess what? he came crawling back after he and his side-piece didn't work out. The thing is, I was over him and didn't want anything more to do with him. I looked him up and down and told him,' Nah, my life is so much better without you', and I actually meant it !!!!
Good for you❤❤❤❤
Am proud of you girl
Good for you! The Selfish get karma
I was the other woman years ago, I walked away before he could choose... I left him, changed my number and never saw him again..... I didn't know he was married until one of the other girls he was seeing called me up ......and the rest .....well.........He was caught, not by the girl who called me, but his wife ......she found all our numbers and called each and every one of us. I told her a lie, which she believed , I blocked her number and she never reached me again......the other girls well.....let's say.....he was caught .....I had already left him
What made you decide to be a jumpoff?
Wise decision - these men who will cheat behind their partners backs tend to be wanting the best if both worlds, are highly selfish and manipulative and will tell the other woman everything she wants to hear but then leave her in the cold when it suits them. You did the best thing, I was the other woman a few years ago and it's not a position I'd ever put myself in again!
@@Ale-yl4wd he lied about being single.. then I found out through his wife's best friend that he was married .
This is what happens when children partner up in high school and become dependent on each other. The wife has never been independent nor had a life of her own. She went from her parents to her husband. That's why she terrified to start a life of her own.
What's wrong with going into a marriage early? It's been done for thousands of years.... Do you want her to hit the streets first?
Dr Phil is my favourite. He is just so assertive
Why in the world did he marry then
He's a Idiot
Blondie is…loose
I applaud the cousin that said you can have her I'm done😊
Absolutely! 😁
It is awful that not one of them knows the importance of putting their children first. It’s a terrible thought that both of their children are going to be affected by this unnecessary chaos.
Get out of there girl!!!
23:15Mistress lost her husband but it wasn’t that big of a loss. She lost her home and that really hurts. 😮
Right? Funny. 😊
Both are narcissist they will get what they deserve in the end. My sympathy for the children.😢
I'VE LEARNED THE HARD WAY U ONLY GET TREATED AS BADLY AS YOU ALLOW - MALES & FEMALES
KNOW UR WORTH❤
THANK YOU , WHERE IS THE WIFE SELF-ESTEEM ?? WHAT DAMN SHAME 😳
Sometimes we have to stay with the horrible husband. My daughter needed facial surgery over a ten yr period and he’d stripped me of my income . I had to stay to enable her medical bills to be paid.