You'll Definitely Die With Regrets
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ส.ค. 2024
- Most people have at least a few regrets when they pass - and I think I have a few too. But some people get away with dying without regrets. I want to share some findings from my research into this topic and hopefully help you all a little!
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Stewart, Abigail J., and Elizabeth A. Vandewater. "" If I had it to do over again...": midlife review, midcourse corrections, and women's well-being in midlife." Journal of Personality and Social Psychology 76.2 (1999): 270.
When I see your uploads, I feel conflicted about clicking on them, because I don't like confronting the difficult parts of life and maturity (e.g. everyone)
but I do so anyways, because you're kind and make yourself just as vulnerable as I feel. Thank you for your sincerity and maturity, its a wonderful thing to have, and an even better thing to share.
*_Pin his comment please!_* ^^
Wary done!
This is such a nice description of how these videos make me feel
This is such a genuine and beautiful comment! Putting my thoughts into words too :))
The Red pill is hard to swallow
Regret cannot exist without a wish. But what are we without it? It seems to me that leaving this world without any regrets is not in our own hands. What we can do is to wish for small things, so that our regrets are also small.
why wish when you can be
@@hidude1354 Not all dreams come true.
Some nights I’m completely fine if not relaxed at the possibility of death, but other nights I try and fight it off thinking of everything I want and have to do. In the anime bungo stray dogs, the character dazi is portrayed as a somewhat insane person with a suicide obsession, but at the end he explains how he wants to experience the last mystery of life. I think that’s a really interesting way to think of it. Death is an inevitable mystery, and I guess to some extent I want to experience it too, just not right now. I’ve been thinking about death a lot recently cause I’m going through some major mindset/belief changes, but the idea that, for the most part, death is out of my hands somewhat calms me. I also feel like I’ve lived a full life, not fulfilling but full of events, memories, struggles, and the art I’ve made and have gotten to see and hear from other artists. I’ve felt and done a lot, and that outweighs the myriad of things I want to do but haven’t.
Death isn't a mystery. You're going to be fucking stone cold dead and gone. What was your life like before you were born? There you go, that's what being dead is going to be like. For you, it will be very much like you were never alive at all.
There is an interesting thing to consider when talking about becoming one's ideal self- I think sometimes it can actually create more suffering when one is constantly striving to be the best (either best out of everyone or even the best version of themselves) because really that can cause a lot of confusion or disappointment because in some sense it's impossible to be so ideal and perfect and there is so much that is out of our control
I try to take inspiration from nature. Specifically cats, because they're just great. They're very smart, and I don't think anyone has recognized regret on the face of a cat. They eat, sleep, cuddle, and do cat things, and if they're lucky to have a good home, they seem to be completely content with that.
We're animals, and we do most of the same stuff. Maybe we can just try not to be horrendously evil in the process.
It doesn't matter what you miss or achieve, if you lived your best or worst life. There are no "what if's", no "had I acted differently". Tose scenarios do not exist , it's just in your head a figment of your immagination.
Hence there is nothing to regret, it's been your life, for better or for worse, and that's all there is to it
By the time you've made it to the end, the "what ifs" are pointless. Though you can just run that back to the what ifs being pointless now. If we're not happy with how things have gone, the only thing we can do is to try to do it better now.
I think if I was only allowed to put one thing in a time capsule as advice for future generations, it would be your channel.
Thanks for showing me how to live. It's genuinely changed my world. Thank you Fads, God bless you.
you're videos are a piece of art
I just found you and instantly subscribed. You have a great way to articulate things
I don't have any regrets atm :) I was obviously afraid of this video because of the dark tone, but it's not bad.
Aww man, the friends thing really hit me in the heart. that's literally what I'm going through right now
Hi 🤟🏽 newtuber here I agree with a lot of thins you said, I believe its incredibly important to let go of perfectionism, materialism, a lot of isms really. Maybe we are simply too attatched to unsubstantial things in society 🤷🏾♀️ Live your life to the fullest 💜
Yet again, another great video, I never comment on TH-cam, but damn if you make it worth it.
I believe my biggest regret so far, is not studying what I'd love to do for the rest of my life
What would you love to do for the rest of your life?
Thank you for the wise and reflective talks, your videos are a lighthouse in the fog Im currently in, take care thanks again🌲
thank you for this video, i’ve been feeling really awful recently and have fallen into my old habits of self isolation but this video inspired me and now i’m seeing some of my friends tonight! i really needed this push!
Every time I see one of your videos pop up I watch it instantly. Thanks for the great content!
I'll have regrets if I wasted my life spending too much time in the laziness. I'm not even talking about work more, I don't like it. The idea is to enjoy the world and people, instead of looking through the phone spend some time looking to a usual landscape
Funny how you go over this because I just had a dream last night about a mob that was about to kill me.
It's weird because I was scared and I didn't want to die so young. I always thought I was indifferent about death. I thought I actually kind of wanted it because it means I wouldn't have to fulfill my responsibilities nor suffer from my loneliness. But in that dream, I've had a few regrets moments before they kill me- I regretted pushing away friends, sacrificing my happiness, and being obedient to my parents. I'm not being true to myself and some part of me still thinks that it's a necessary sacrifice- not everyone can be who they want to be. Idk
When I first found your channel I immediately subscribed and I’m so glad I did, I really enjoy your content ! Can’t wait to see what you discuss next !
You're very thoughtful and really contribute something valuable on the topics you talk about.
Having regrets is stupid including upon death. Death is just as inevitable as every other aspect of life. Regrets are pointless. f regret
weirdly enough, checklists insired by reversing these 5 regrets into 5 joys were the most life-changing and full-filling I've ever had. it's funny - checlkists may seem cheesy, dumb, whatever, but any actual step taken felt just right and most real. it's up to us whether to follow these daily, every 5th day, or annually but it's probably the only system i can widely recommended. even writing this feel good because it makes me remember all the great things I've done and or let to happen because of "dumb checklist" inspired by this.
I'm going to be so, so mad if I die young, having worked to make other people rich until nearly the end. I've got to get out of this shit.
Hey! Just recently discovered your channel and I really like the way you are talking about essential life problems. It seems really honest. Although I feel you have a different, more reflective perspective on many things - I can relate to what you're saying. I hope this channel keeps growing and you'll one day achieve what you want to achieve with it. And I hope making those videos helps you as well. Btw, one music recommendation: Benjamin Clementine. Have a look at him, especially his first album.
Your shirt is amazing, and I think Imma make it my life motto.
_Pursue paradise._ Damn that's good.
Great video man!
This is the type of video I aspire to make!!
Thank you for this video
Really great video and channel ! I did a french video about the last week of my life but i suppose you don't talk french xD
French is actually my first language lol! I'll check it out!
Beautiful 👏
notes: should we have regrets when get close to death? if we regret too much we are blind. if we we regret too little we are blind. dont regret what could not have been otherwise. regret the risks u didnt take. regret lacking fortitude and bravery. regret hurting people so much they left u. regret not extending forgiveness to that person that mattered. dont let stress cause u to forget ur blessings and how pleasant simple things can be. quit quietly? do the minimum to get by and survive with the ones you love. family and good friends. temporary pain doesnt become a life long regret. give up the short term. dont run from committment. embrace gradual chronic suffering which perfects the soul with self mastery
As a Gryffindor, I feel validated. Would you like to talk privately? I'm looking for more friends. :D
no ragrets
No I won’t no i wont no i wont
if you are a God fearing person realize this world is only the waiting room of whats to come and that everything that happens in the world and in your life is for a reason once you thinck like this you will die happily whenever that time may be
It's so funny how different are your videos in the data of views. TH-cam alghoritm :D