Really? There are not many incentives for men to marry. They can lose everything: They can lose their children, they can lose their house, they can lose their reputation, and they can lose their freedom for something as simple as a woman's complaint, exaggeration or false accusation. Most men 30 an older know better than to sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.
1. Never cook for them 2. Always talk about future husband/wedding without including him. Do it in front of people. 3. Tell his good upstanding friend that he will make a good husband. 4. Keep the chase alive. 5. Talk about moving to a different city
Men hate on this info because he's a Dusty! He knows it and doesn't want to be played, because he wants to be the player. That's why they even watch this channel, he's threatened! Hehehe! 😂🤣 On here, a man should shut up and realize he needs to step up himself as a man!
A woman should should "step up" herself as a woman too and not be nitpicking at what they want, but what they need for themselves first. You wanna tell a man that he has to "be a man" (whatever that dumb phrase means) then you need to be a damn woman.
Ashley Johnson COMPLETELY agree about woman. I don't need anyone. But for grown woman (not young without enough life experience) I understand and disagree with one statement. There are VERY FEW men that are on the up and up. Or you live in a fantasy world and refuse to see this or just young and only had a handful of experience with men. I'll say woman are the same too...but I'm not living in a fantasy world, HELL NO! I seen and experienced enough to understand why woman want to live like this. I need a healthy middle ground myself. But I get why they live like this. Some woman chose to stay dumb, or ignorant to reality! Fact!
Mrs S you will be single and not by choice! You have understand and study humans' psychology, which first and from most we are animals, people have morals only to be outta jail , so listen to Ashera, she's giving you psychology lesson to be able to live in this world and get whatever it is that you want.
Once I hit my 30's I think I'll be ready and I'm being honest. I just don't want my girlfriend watching this video because I ain't gonna lie, these are some really powerful manipulative tips, and I ain't trying to be a victim to it.
I've watched this video at least a dozen times. I giggle every time I hear "Give em the move"! I feel like you are having an intimate convo with me! I appreciate you sharing the GAME!
Well, there are not many incentives for men to marry. They can lose everything: They can lose their children, they can lose their house, they can lose their reputation, and they can lose their freedom for something as simple as a woman's complaint, exaggeration or false accusation. Most men 30 an older know better than to sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.
I’m so excited to try the “you’d make a great husband one day” to my boyfriends friend. Even though he’s already expressed getting married and taking care of me financially when I move to him I just want to see him squirm a little 😂 this the most real advice. My boyfriend and I dated when we were younger and it didn’t workout. Neither one of us knew what we wanted and I didn’t know the game. 4 years later and I’ve used all your advice and this man is going to support me and I can do what I want with my life, live how I want and be who I want. And that’s how you fucking do it. Couldn’t have done it without you.
Yes! I would also add to your list Chloe_ (hypergamy) Aly Art (body type, makeup, hairstyles), but MOST IMPORTANT Meredith Miller and Dr. Ramani (narcissists) so you can identify red flags in the first date and get rid of the Dusties
I've been on a break from men for the last 7 months since I've got a bad "picker" with choosing the guys that I actually want. I just stumbled across your channel. These videos are super informative, and helpful. I think once I get everything sorted with what I want in a relationship, I'll take these ideas to heart/head with me. Love it.
I love your passion in this video! Please make more videos on tricking men.. I love it and this shit is legit not a bunch of boring, common advice many people which don't work. I agree with you. In life, you have to use tricks to get what you want. This is evident even when getting a good job.
Oh my goodness! Shera struck nerves in this video coz dusties are on rampage in the comment section🤣🤣🤣. They are trying their hardest to make their points and how else to do it than the oldest trick in the bag, tearing every word of common sense down. Men quit playing, y’all know she is telling the gospel truth. Just stop playing and go make some money.
i applied the same concept with a man that i wanted him to commit to me. it worked. and guess what all reverse psychology works on men. soo women just relax your p and let the man work work for it...
@@babyc.3015 I know that's a lie. Most, if not all women want a simp. He just has to physically look like an "alpha" male, so you don't feel like you "settled."
This is so funny not because of what she saying but because I've done all of this (not knowing) I would tell my bf when I get married the honeymoon will bethis my wedding my wedding MY WEDDING then he starts with the us us us everything was us then I started cooking for him full meals for about 3 days then I just stopped Everytime he says he hungry I hand him takeout menus lol then the moving thing for me it was actually a genuine conversation because I really do then he flips like what about me what about us ....anyway my point is I need a one on one hun you inspire me so much and I apply or have already applied your knowledge to my everyday life how can I book a session with you
Really? You actually think so? There are not many incentives for men to marry. They can lose everything: They can lose their children, they can lose their house, they can lose their reputation, and they can lose their freedom for something as simple as a woman's complaint, exaggeration or false accusation. Most men 30 an older know better than to sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.
Lol i did some of the things you said and my boyfriend allready sqweezing my leg because i said damn where is my future husband then he started squeezing my leg lol i was trying not to laugh all through this and it worked for me i was excluding him out lmafo hehe it got him thinking to1
Before watching this video I’ve said thing like that like “my husband” and my bf gets so upset that I talk like that so I stopped lol but I’ve been doing wifey things for a bf oh no
Amazing, huh? There are not many incentives for men to marry. They can lose everything: They can lose their children, they can lose their house, they can lose their reputation, and they can lose their freedom for something as simple as a woman's complaint, exaggeration or false accusation. Most men 30 an older know better than to sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.
Btw I love your videos they are so empowering. I was that nice girl not too too nice because my mouth can get crazy. But as I am 30 with a small kid I aint taking anymore b.s.
If you have another man's kid, you can't play this game. It's to easy for a man to walk away from all the mess that comes along with being a single mom. A very low value man can't play this game ethier.
It sad to say this is true sometimes we women play this sort of mind games to get respect and chase by men but to certain degrees else it becomes superficial and deception.
The reason that makes men give up his desire to marry a girl is most of the time those "games" that frustrated man. In fact, it is not the man likes to chase but he does it when he loves you. And when you play too much "hard to get", you will hurt him. He will be frustrated and will give up to marry you. That is why many women miss out the man who really loves them and want them for the rest of their life. So, girls, you must be wise when playing games with the man that you like and want him to marry you. Do not do too much so that you don't hurt him and frustrate him. Most of the time he will not show you that he is frustrated or hurt. He will suffer in secret and at the end, he will give up although he wants you.
eklou yawo O.M.G. really!?? ALL men do is "PLAY GAMES"! FACT! IF y'all didn't constantly try to play woman, we wouldn't even need these videos. You said this is why men don't want to marry?! Um, wrong!!!!! They don't want to cause there to busy PLAYING GAMES! Plzzzz! You talk like we got all these great men to choose from. Wake up and drop the BS
Really? Gold, huh? There are not many incentives for men to marry. They can lose everything: They can lose their children, they can lose their house, they can lose their reputation, and they can lose their freedom for something as simple as a woman's complaint, exaggeration or false accusation. Most men 30 an older know better than to sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.
I tried this and he been asking me what would I say if he asks me to marry him.. I guess he really thinks I would say no because when I talk abt marriage I don’t include him
My ex must have been watching your videos because I swear he tried all theses things on me....even left me to see if I would beg him back...well he he still the sad ex wishing he can get back what we had...smdh
Girl I didn’t know you had another Channel what’s the link because I get spiritual too lol...with watching your videos and a lil candle work I’m back with my dude but I’m learning to train him, thanks for all your help can’t wait to start watching your other channel love you bye 😘
my man and i been together for 6 years. About 2 yrs ago he proposed to me with a cowry shell(spiritual vibe). He did it in front of the ancestor altar with some of our friends but i wasnt sure if he was serious. He kept tellin me he was "dead ass". Either way he always said he wouldn't truly get "married" because he believes that the govt curses people through signing that paper. He says if he did it in front of the ancestors then that should mean more than what a piece of paper says. What do you think?
i think you better think about your life in 5 years... and if he dies you cannot get life insurance , or you have no say over what happens to his body... I also say you cannot do much in this country trying to be TOO "spiritual" you need a balance... you need a real ring, and a real marriage ..... if he believes that then he needs to buy you some land with your name on it instead of giving you a ring and a marriage certificate...because when he is ready to leave you, he can get up and go with no thoughts.... no paper work and no reason! those dusty Hoteps are only finding spiritual excuses for why they cannot afford a ring and get married ... your whole family and future will be cursed living without order... in all reality if you have kids, you will be a baby momm and he will be a baby daddy. even gay people can get married now.... and they do.... for legal and financial reasons which is smart.... don't be a fool, and marry someone who is not very smart and plans ahead, unless you have a stack of gold bars and money , please do things the right way before you regret being that unwise as to take a shell and give yourself to a broke man lol this is 2017 not 1862....
last call I know that game. She's right. This is him getting the benefits of a husband, but you will never get the rights of a wife. Don't go for that crap
Aria R that’s a self fulfilling prophecy. Did you try? My pisces mf has flipped and talked to me about children after I started caring more for myself 🤣
Well, it's going to be a little harder than that, sis: 1. If a man is providing, his wife can divorce him and he's financially ruined. 2. If the man stops providing, his wife can divorce him and he's financially ruined. 3. If the wife stops performing her duties, she can divorce her husband and he's financially ruined. 4. If the wife divorces her husband for any random reason, he is financially ruined. 5. If the wife cheats on him and he obviously wants to divorce her, he is financially ruined. There is no logical reason for many men to marry given the above scenarios.
you are so wright marriage is a suckers bet i was married for 28 yr ill never do it again anyone that gets married in this day and age is foolish to many women like this chick out there. women don't care about men just what they can get from him
Most of this stuff I already do naturally 😂 for example I be excluding him from my future as a husband didn’t even know I was doing that now I’m adding on the rest 😂
Why would you want to marry anyone who you have to trick? I married a man who loves me and I love him. We both wanted to be married because we're better together then apart! Be honesty if you want it to last!!!
It might not always be about tricking. If you are behaving in a way that resembles a wife, then it is less likely that he will propose because the interaction is already similar to that of a marriage. Even though it might appear counterproductive but i feel what she is saying is if you want to be his wife, stop acting like is wife until you are.
TheTuesday11 I lost interest once the word manipulate was spoken. It's a shame. Women like me suffer for women like that. If a man don't wanna marry you, let him be. Love yourself, be ok with being alone, and be prepared to earn your own money. If you have to constantly remind him of your good qualities, he doesn't deserve you. He needs to know for himself your are that one. I'm sure the trolls will have a ball with me. Frankly, I don't care. Although most of this is 100% correct so no shade intended, manipulation is another form of self harm. To see this type of ignorance being put out into the universe shows me we live in a materialistic superficial world. Hopefully you all use your better judgment.
By planning to get what you want over other women’s tears using lies will only add karma on your life, early or later. Same could be done to her one day or to someone she cares the most. Then she will know, how he feels to be wronged.
Girl Idk how many lifetimes you’ve lived but you’re smart af
Really? There are not many incentives for men to marry. They can lose everything: They can lose their children, they can lose their house, they can lose their reputation, and they can lose their freedom for something as simple as a woman's complaint, exaggeration or false accusation. Most men 30 an older know better than to sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.
That's a negative mindset which also reeks of trust issues. If you cannot trust others best to be single and become a priest
@@SM-ce1uy So according to you anybody who chooses to stay single should become a priest? Can you explain how you figure that?
@@SM-ce1uy A single man can trust many other men and even many women, except the one he marries.
@@SM-ce1uy Lol 😂😂😂😂 some men don't know they like men too
1. Never cook for them 2. Always talk about future husband/wedding without including him. Do it in front of people. 3. Tell his good upstanding friend that he will make a good husband. 4. Keep the chase alive. 5. Talk about moving to a different city
I would these tips on/close to someone that is interested in me.
Thank you now I don't have to watch it
@Mr. Beats then your not the one🤷🏽♀️💁🏽♀️and its ok!!
90 % of men will say seee ya so ladies do these things if you want to be single
MrPieceFull your not the type of men we are trying to marry though...
girl...you got something...these dudes are highly upset in the comment section...damn
Lol
Men hate on this info because he's a Dusty! He knows it and doesn't want to be played, because he wants to be the player. That's why they even watch this channel, he's threatened! Hehehe! 😂🤣
On here, a man should shut up and realize he needs to step up himself as a man!
A woman should should "step up" herself as a woman too and not be nitpicking at what they want, but what they need for themselves first. You wanna tell a man that he has to "be a man" (whatever that dumb phrase means) then you need to be a damn woman.
Ashley Johnson COMPLETELY agree about woman. I don't need anyone. But for grown woman (not young without enough life experience) I understand and disagree with one statement. There are VERY FEW men that are on the up and up. Or you live in a fantasy world and refuse to see this or just young and only had a handful of experience with men. I'll say woman are the same too...but I'm not living in a fantasy world, HELL NO! I seen and experienced enough to understand why woman want to live like this. I need a healthy middle ground myself. But I get why they live like this. Some woman chose to stay dumb, or ignorant to reality! Fact!
Mrs S you will be single and not by choice! You have understand and study humans' psychology, which first and from most we are animals, people have morals only to be outta jail , so listen to Ashera, she's giving you psychology lesson to be able to live in this world and get whatever it is that you want.
so true, when I first started dating my husband he told me one day I will be his wife , fast forward , we are now married.....
Hope it lasts...
I need to make sure my girlfriend don't come across this video. This woman to damn smart.
itsonlyhalftime666X lol
@cool chicka Nope. It's not the right time yet.
Once I hit my 30's I think I'll be ready and I'm being honest. I just don't want my girlfriend watching this video because I ain't gonna lie, these are some really powerful manipulative tips, and I ain't trying to be a victim to it.
itsonlyhalftime666X 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Wow
I've watched this video at least a dozen times. I giggle every time I hear "Give em the move"! I feel like you are having an intimate convo with me! I appreciate you sharing the GAME!
Well, there are not many incentives for men to marry. They can lose everything: They can lose their children, they can lose their house, they can lose their reputation, and they can lose their freedom for something as simple as a woman's complaint, exaggeration or false accusation. Most men 30 an older know better than to sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.
Girl he’s literally been using these tactics on me🤣🤣no wonder i want to marry him so bad
therealdess ٤ 🤣🤦🏾♀️😆
therealdess ٤ 😂
saaaaameee ,but im over that shit
Hahahaha😂😂
When he says "I'm looking for a girl to fall in love with" while talking to you dump his a$$
I’m so excited to try the “you’d make a great husband one day” to my boyfriends friend. Even though he’s already expressed getting married and taking care of me financially when I move to him I just want to see him squirm a little 😂 this the most real advice. My boyfriend and I dated when we were younger and it didn’t workout. Neither one of us knew what we wanted and I didn’t know the game. 4 years later and I’ve used all your advice and this man is going to support me and I can do what I want with my life, live how I want and be who I want. And that’s how you fucking do it. Couldn’t have done it without you.
And you are not even embarrassed to type this?
@@elputasyou sound dumb. Why would she be embarrassed and she’s winning? U must be a dusty
tis is making my toes curl. the advice is delectable.
You and Anna Bey are gonna have me set for life. Thank you so much😭😭
Ava Williams yes girl!
Same here
Same here
Yes! I would also add to your list Chloe_ (hypergamy) Aly Art (body type, makeup, hairstyles), but MOST IMPORTANT Meredith Miller and Dr. Ramani (narcissists) so you can identify red flags in the first date and get rid of the Dusties
I swear yes!!! And wizard liz too
**WARNING** doesn’t work on men with low self esteem 💀
Ratchet kingdome that’s okay.. you’ll never have anybody 🙂 keep on
Who wants to marry a man with low self esteem anyways?
Low Self-Esteem ... Keep it real, baby! No MONEY!
then dump the men with low self esteem
Or men with sense. Are men really that stupid 🤔😯....ok well that explains 🤣🤣
Stamping for myself: 1:38 2:06 2:23 2:33 2:43 3:09 3:31 3:52 4:29 5:09 5:58 6:03 6:08 6:36 7:07 7:21 8:03 8:12 8:54 11:05 12:37 12:56 13:29 14:08 14:53 15:09 16:10 17:39 18:31 19:34 21:20
Thank you soooo much! Im 24 and ready to settle down. Your videos have given me so much self worth. Thank you big sis :)
Has any of this advice worth?
Give it Time
And you're 27 now 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@RomyPidgin lol whats funny 😂 i want to know the joke.
@@robertmartin6238 it works on real men bcz broke men act like a woman
I've been on a break from men for the last 7 months since I've got a bad "picker" with choosing the guys that I actually want. I just stumbled across your channel. These videos are super informative, and helpful. I think once I get everything sorted with what I want in a relationship, I'll take these ideas to heart/head with me. Love it.
Gothhana
update?
This might manifest another man LOL
😂😂😂😂💯💯💯💯
sometimes your looks are enough. I met an older guy and he wants to get married already and his financially stable
Great honey , make sure he treats you like a queen before during and after.
... so he wants kids
Yesss you’re so right!
Exactly, I met a older guy saying the samething and he played me smh . Asshole
Krysie Galon true
Keep it business so true don't whine to a man love that example
lol you are smart, girl, love you. psychology is all, thats how I got my husband to marry me too:)))
I love your passion in this video! Please make more videos on tricking men.. I love it and this shit is legit not a bunch of boring, common advice many people which don't work. I agree with you. In life, you have to use tricks to get what you want. This is evident even when getting a good job.
I think what you said can be defined in one word: prostitution. Well, good thing you're honest about it...
Oh my goodness! Shera struck nerves in this video coz dusties are on rampage in the comment section🤣🤣🤣. They are trying their hardest to make their points and how else to do it than the oldest trick in the bag, tearing every word of common sense down. Men quit playing, y’all know she is telling the gospel truth. Just stop playing and go make some money.
BRB gotta trick my bf lol
Mikaya Moorleghen lol! Did it work?
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bikerchic650 lol yes I’m actually engaged!
Mikaya Moorleghen Wow...Congratulations!!!
Yaaaaaassss huni
i applied the same concept with a man that i wanted him to commit to me. it worked. and guess what all reverse psychology works on men. soo women just relax your p and let the man work work for it...
How long did it take?
Bish you slick lol I do all this stuff subconsciously but now I'm aware of why
Because its witchcraft
Well, good luck getting a man...
Shera, your hair is really beautiful
Don’t cook for your man for real those are husband privileges 😂
Husband? Or slave disguised as your husband privileges? Most women appear to believe a man is garbage unless he worships her. It's sad as can be.
Let me guess... You're still single right? Divorced?
@@xavierwoodley Nobody wants a simp lmfao
@@babyc.3015 I know that's a lie. Most, if not all women want a simp. He just has to physically look like an "alpha" male, so you don't feel like you "settled."
@@xavierwoodley I'm not someone without boundaries so I wouldn't want to attract a man w/o it as well. If he's a simp he's a loser. Ew
This is so funny not because of what she saying but because I've done all of this (not knowing) I would tell my bf when I get married the honeymoon will bethis my wedding my wedding MY WEDDING then he starts with the us us us everything was us then I started cooking for him full meals for about 3 days then I just stopped Everytime he says he hungry I hand him takeout menus lol then the moving thing for me it was actually a genuine conversation because I really do then he flips like what about me what about us ....anyway my point is I need a one on one hun you inspire me so much and I apply or have already applied your knowledge to my everyday life how can I book a session with you
How did it turn out
It’s not a trick... it’s pressure and if y’all bummy asses can’t stand the heat well🤷🏽♀️ move on so a real man can take y’all place lol #dusties
Aint nobody worried about marriage except women lol
I love her she's so right!! Lmao ! make it happen baby you're in charge! Not him ALWAYS 😂
Really? You actually think so? There are not many incentives for men to marry. They can lose everything: They can lose their children, they can lose their house, they can lose their reputation, and they can lose their freedom for something as simple as a woman's complaint, exaggeration or false accusation. Most men 30 an older know better than to sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.
I saw this video years ago and it popped up on my recommendations today.. of course I re-watched it.. your advice is Brilliant Shera ✨💛
Now, here's also another advice also from a woman: th-cam.com/video/rlvMAS_20K4/w-d-xo.html&ab_channel=karenstraughan
I love these videos straight to the point !💕 thankyou for all the tips
Lol i did some of the things you said and my boyfriend allready sqweezing my leg because i said damn where is my future husband then he started squeezing my leg lol i was trying not to laugh all through this and it worked for me i was excluding him out lmafo hehe it got him thinking to1
Before watching this video I’ve said thing like that like “my husband” and my bf gets so upset that I talk like that so I stopped lol but I’ve been doing wifey things for a bf oh no
Same here. I always do the "when I get my husband one day" thing. It gets him everytime lol
You are amazing!!! Point. Blank. Period. Keep doing all that you do ❤️ I get so much inspiration from you.
Amazing, huh? There are not many incentives for men to marry. They can lose everything: They can lose their children, they can lose their house, they can lose their reputation, and they can lose their freedom for something as simple as a woman's complaint, exaggeration or false accusation. Most men 30 an older know better than to sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.
How about not having sex until you're married.
+Cool Chicka Then, they were not meant for you.
Darnell Hendeason No sex before Marriage only happens Representative. of Georgia. Armenia. & Muslim countries...
age is no involved if you not 50...
lmao your laughs in this kiiiiiiiiiiill me! I gotta set my stuff up to start dropping these hints. I love you and your vids btw
I'm learning, girl!!!
You're best maind opener most American women.
I'm European & I think same us You.
Thanks you Halpin women's...
Amen
at the start thought this doesnt sound good but it all made sense . good job girlll !! 💓
Instructions weren't clear. I got engaged to a cook book 😐
Kim Jong Splooge 😂😂
Got to love SheRa, you always make my day ! 👏👏❤
you couldn't make this video in april while I was still in relationship? hahaha
This is insane 😂and I’m sure it works !! Shera you are amazing ❤️❤️
I’m literally scream laughing at how smart all of this is
Damn wish i would have seen this video a year ago!
Btw I love your videos they are so empowering. I was that nice girl not too too nice because my mouth can get crazy. But as I am 30 with a small kid I aint taking anymore b.s.
If you have another man's kid, you can't play this game. It's to easy for a man to walk away from all the mess that comes along with being a single mom.
A very low value man can't play this game ethier.
I agree she is right on! LOL
Sometimes, by healing our own selves we are healing others indirectly.
Girrrrrlllll. I already know all of this. I swear this is true....
It sad to say this is true sometimes we women play this sort of mind games to get respect and chase by men but to certain degrees else it becomes superficial and deception.
LOL this video is SO funny! But true lmao
I need a BFF like you! I like the way you think! 🔥♠️
Yeah, and here's also another advice also from a woman: th-cam.com/video/rlvMAS_20K4/w-d-xo.html&ab_channel=karenstraughan ...
I don’t know why this video cracks me up 😂❤
The reason that makes men give up his desire to marry a girl is most of the time those "games" that frustrated man. In fact, it is not the man likes to chase but he does it when he loves you. And when you play too much "hard to get", you will hurt him. He will be frustrated and will give up to marry you. That is why many women miss out the man who really loves them and want them for the rest of their life. So, girls, you must be wise when playing games with the man that you like and want him to marry you. Do not do too much so that you don't hurt him and frustrate him. Most of the time he will not show you that he is frustrated or hurt. He will suffer in secret and at the end, he will give up although he wants you.
eklou yawo O.M.G. really!?? ALL men do is "PLAY GAMES"! FACT! IF y'all didn't constantly try to play woman, we wouldn't even need these videos. You said this is why men don't want to marry?! Um, wrong!!!!! They don't want to cause there to busy PLAYING GAMES! Plzzzz! You talk like we got all these great men to choose from. Wake up and drop the BS
False
Act like a lady, think like a man. So, men play games, then women play too
This is most likely an insecure man with low self esteem of course he’s to sensitive to chase
This is gold!
Really? Gold, huh? There are not many incentives for men to marry. They can lose everything: They can lose their children, they can lose their house, they can lose their reputation, and they can lose their freedom for something as simple as a woman's complaint, exaggeration or false accusation. Most men 30 an older know better than to sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.
This is great study material for men on the true nature of women. Its a great eye opener.
Abeisgreat1 shut the hell up. 🤣 men can be so illiterate ...
I wish I had seen this sooner. Thanks for the enlightenment
I tried this and he been asking me what would I say if he asks me to marry him.. I guess he really thinks I would say no because when I talk abt marriage I don’t include him
I love this chick she's so real and funny 🤗
Lol .. "Are u momies kid too"
I enjoyed this video. Absolutely super advice.
I fucking love you...you just saved my damn life
lmao!! okay its worth a shot. great advise.
You’re so beautiful. You remind me of ms. Tina Lawson
You look beautiful!
lol,Girl you are Crazy,but I totally agree,Love your Insights!
I’m watching again for husband number 2😂
How sad.
You preach it SheRa!!!!
well said u just make my day.i loooooove u.
😻✨💎💍 great refresher lmao
You got married
@@ashajeremiahqw8775I did 😌
My ex must have been watching your videos because I swear he tried all theses things on me....even left me to see if I would beg him back...well he he still the sad ex wishing he can get back what we had...smdh
Girl I didn’t know you had another Channel what’s the link because I get spiritual too lol...with watching your videos and a lil candle work I’m back with my dude but I’m learning to train him, thanks for all your help can’t wait to start watching your other channel love you bye 😘
Yeah, and here's also another advice also from a woman: th-cam.com/video/rlvMAS_20K4/w-d-xo.html&ab_channel=karenstraughan
Can you do a video on long distance relationships?
Yes, please!
It’s waste of time
Shera said she doesn't do one since she thinks it's bogus
I'm loving it x
Your older content used to be much wiser , relatable ..
You're perfect, you're fucking perfect
I do this!!! I forgot I watched this forever ago. I got this!! 💪🏾👑
Yeah, and here's also another advice also from a woman: th-cam.com/video/rlvMAS_20K4/w-d-xo.html&ab_channel=karenstraughan
my man and i been together for 6 years. About 2 yrs ago he proposed to me with a cowry shell(spiritual vibe). He did it in front of the ancestor altar with some of our friends but i wasnt sure if he was serious. He kept tellin me he was "dead ass". Either way he always said he wouldn't truly get "married" because he believes that the govt curses people through signing that paper. He says if he did it in front of the ancestors then that should mean more than what a piece of paper says. What do you think?
i think you better think about your life in 5 years... and if he dies you cannot get life insurance , or you have no say over what happens to his body... I also say you cannot do much in this country trying to be TOO "spiritual" you need a balance... you need a real ring, and a real marriage ..... if he believes that then he needs to buy you some land with your name on it instead of giving you a ring and a marriage certificate...because when he is ready to leave you, he can get up and go with no thoughts.... no paper work and no reason! those dusty Hoteps are only finding spiritual excuses for why they cannot afford a ring and get married ... your whole family and future will be cursed living without order... in all reality if you have kids, you will be a baby momm and he will be a baby daddy. even gay people can get married now.... and they do.... for legal and financial reasons which is smart.... don't be a fool, and marry someone who is not very smart and plans ahead, unless you have a stack of gold bars and money , please do things the right way before you regret being that unwise as to take a shell and give yourself to a broke man lol this is 2017 not 1862....
last call I know that game. She's right. This is him getting the benefits of a husband, but you will never get the rights of a wife. Don't go for that crap
I think that is awesome he doesn't believe in American culture.
I just heard my man say something like,”where have you been, my wife” shera knows 🎉
ok....love this girl... Let the church say...Amen!
how long should i wait before i give him the ultimatum because all of this is very useful information really love your channel
What to do in long distance relationship?
“Are you mummy’s kid too “🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Good advice, a little scary but true
A little scary?
She openly admits she believes in manipulating men to do what she wants.
This woman is pure evil.
It didn’t work I got impatient and I left him 😭
We’ve dated for 6years
I’m 3 years but he’s 25 and says to wait until 30 (I’m same age) 😭😭😭
Want a husband? Bring something to the relationship besides another dude's kids. 😂🤣
don't want wife
guest 😁😁😁
Some men literally don’t care. Find your match.
You thought this comment was too fire
@@bxndo5ivehis name is *pretty boy* and he doesn’t like competition…😂😂😂
are you mommy's kid too!!! 🤣🤣🤣
Haaaaaaaaa!!! U the truth!!
This ain’t gonna work on my emotional ass Pisces Boyfriend. 🤣
Aria R that’s a self fulfilling prophecy. Did you try? My pisces mf has flipped and talked to me about children after I started caring more for myself 🤣
This nonsense will not work on any man over the age of 35.
I really hate that this has to be mind game like.... Why does it have to be this complicated :( I'm just going to be myself n c what God does
agirl nameD this is why we dont get married😂😂😂🙂
Well, it's going to be a little harder than that, sis:
1. If a man is providing, his wife can divorce him and he's financially ruined.
2. If the man stops providing, his wife can divorce him and he's financially ruined.
3. If the wife stops performing her duties, she can divorce her husband and he's financially ruined.
4. If the wife divorces her husband for any random reason, he is financially ruined.
5. If the wife cheats on him and he obviously wants to divorce her, he is financially ruined.
There is no logical reason for many men to marry given the above scenarios.
Marriage is overrated, most people I know who are married are miserable
you are so wright marriage is a suckers bet i was married for 28 yr ill never do it again anyone that gets married in this day and age is foolish
to many women like this chick out there. women don't care about men just what they can get from him
What if he starts talking about his marriage and excluding you. Thats gonna hurt.
Kala Headley Then that’s not the man you need.
Hi Shera love this lip color. What color is it?
Most of this stuff I already do naturally 😂 for example I be excluding him from my future as a husband didn’t even know I was doing that now I’m adding on the rest 😂
Seriously cook good for him because you stand out as a WIFE. Many women can’t cook nowadays
Why would you want to marry anyone who you have to trick? I married a man who loves me and I love him. We both wanted to be married because we're better together then apart! Be honesty if you want it to last!!!
It might not always be about tricking. If you are behaving in a way that resembles a wife, then it is less likely that he will propose because the interaction is already similar to that of a marriage. Even though it might appear counterproductive but i feel what she is saying is if you want to be his wife, stop acting like is wife until you are.
TheTuesday11 I lost interest once the word manipulate was spoken. It's a shame. Women like me suffer for women like that. If a man don't wanna marry you, let him be. Love yourself, be ok with being alone, and be prepared to earn your own money. If you have to constantly remind him of your good qualities, he doesn't deserve you. He needs to know for himself your are that one. I'm sure the trolls will have a ball with me. Frankly, I don't care. Although most of this is 100% correct so no shade intended, manipulation is another form of self harm. To see this type of ignorance being put out into the universe shows me we live in a materialistic superficial world. Hopefully you all use your better judgment.
Diva 504 men like games and a challenge and if you’re not manipulating them then they’re manipulating you!
Kali Palmer thats right! You got it girl
Diva 504 let me guess. You're single
I love this video. Thanks so much for the knowledge. I like u.u also look very beautiful. I wish we could b friends so l learn more from you.
I don't think you can. They either want you or they don't. But I get what you mean though.
Hahaha I actually did leave, for a month, currently in Florence, Italy for a photography course :D
pls am addicted to u
My friend lied and said she was pregnant then got pregnant then they got married. He left a woman he was with.. yikes. I need a plan
By planning to get what you want over other women’s tears using lies will only add karma on your life, early or later. Same could be done to her one day or to someone she cares the most. Then she will know, how he feels to be wronged.