Something Happened (And I'm Not Happy About It)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 3 ต.ค. 2024
- I’m really gonna miss the guy….
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Thats totally irresponsible for him to not give his patients a heads up. What the hell?
I agree, I feel a little… betrayed. But again, benefit of the doubt. At least that’s how I feel right now!
It sounds like something unexpected happened for him as well….maybe a relative who needs immediate help, an unforeseen event that requires moving, etc. who knows….?
@@SchizoKitzoyou might find happiness.
They don’t have an attachment to you. Most of them are very sociopathic. They don’t get feelings. You don’t matter to them. If they seem like you do it’s because you are a boost to their ego because they “made you better”.
If he works in an insurance-based practise, he may not have had a lot of notice. The last shrink I saw was given two days notice before the agency that employed him, Seattle Counselling Service, cut his contract.
Oof. Switching psychiatrists is never fun! You seem to have a good handle on what you’re feeling, which is a large part of the battle. Know that it might have an adjustment period but also, listen to your gut feeling with the new provider. If something says run; run. You are the expert in your experience. You got this friend!
Appreciate these tips!!
Everything will work out, Kit. You are a strong and resilient person. Your new doctor is going to love having you as a patient. You are so smart and charming. 😊
Switching providers is emotional. I have county services and I've had to switch twice in two years.
I totally understand this situation because when recently I lost my psychiatrist I felt just how much I had relied on her through those visits. Anyhow, it is good to hear from you even if it is in these circumstances
A helpful and collaborative psychiatrist is worth their weight in gold and it's really sad when they leave for whatever reason. I totally understand the apprehension as there are doctors who don't listen. I really hope and pray that you have an empathetic doc who will understand and listen to your needs. You are self-aware, very smart and I enjoy all your videos.
I really hope so too, thank you!
Having to change doctors I trust is hard, for all the reasons you gave. A psychiatrist I had been with for many years and who helped me through the worst episode of my life, suddenly left the practice. A primary care doctor I saw suddenly left his practice. I was sad and upset and feeling abandoned in both instances. I later found out that the one left because he himself was on the edge of a collapse and the other left because his partner was suddenly dying. I still had all those difficult feelings to work through (and my new providers helped me talk about them) but I understood that it had nothing to do with me and that it happened for very understandable reasons. Best wishes for a good relationship with your new provider.
I really want to thank you for you giving your former psychiatrist the benefit of the doubt, which is difficult and rare, especially on the internet. You are setting a good example for your audience, while still expressing yourself authentically regarding your feeling of betrayal.
Thank you!
Damn that sucks! Been doing this since childhood and I have to say it's the one thing I hate above all next to hurting someone else and failing. That shit sucks. Sorry
Now I am wondering about my future relationship with my psychiatrist I never even thought about my psychiatrist leaving me. That is a upsetting thing to think about. I hope you find a really good psychiatrist that will fit all of your needs last visit with my psychiatrist. The other day didn’t go as well as I hoped I still have a lot of issues with my schizo affective disorder and have a very hard time working or going to work. not to mention my emotions are all over the place and I can’t sit still very long or work on anything all the way through going through one task to the next. I really really really love your videos. They have helped me through some very dark nights.❤
This is the first video of yours I have ever watched. Your channel was recommended by a friend in an online schizophrenia community. I subbed so I wouldn’t forget your channel, then promptly forgot. I am kind of flighty like that. Anyway the notification came up and I clicked it so here I am. I am a 50 year old male with schizoaffective depressive type. I have been through 4 psychiatrists. In my opinion I am seeing the best psychiatrist of my life now. I know exactly what you mean by a doctor not working mutually with you and telling you what you are going to do, because that is how my last doctor was and I saw him for 4 years. That whole situation ended badly. Just know YOU have the final say in your recovery. You have the final decision on what to take and what you do. The doctors work for us not the other way around. Anyway I enjoyed the video and I will be checking out some more.
Welcome to the Hive! 🐝
Beyond that, what you said is a good reminder, and something I sometimes forget. Thanks for this and have a great rest of your day!
That sucks. After such a long time you get a bond with a person she/he knows you and you know her/him. I hope your can get a good connection with your new one.
I am sorry for you and all the others who are effected by the psychiatrist leaving the practice. I truly hope you can find someone else that you are comfortable with. 🙏❤️
Me too, me too. Thanks Lisa!
This has happened to me before. It's nice having a psychiatrist that understands you. You will find another doctor who is just as good and understanding. Best wishes.
Hang in there love! Yeah having a great therapist is amazing. It becomes almost or exactly like a friendship/deep bond. It's great that you're very honest and open about your feelings. You're totally valid in feeling them. Stay strong! You got this! 👍😊❤️
Changes like this are horrible. Don't give up. I've been through many changes. I have moved many times over the course of my recovery and I've always needed to change care providers. In the meantime if you struggle finding a new psychiatrist you can always consider a psych nurse practitioner to bridge the gap. Sometime they accept more patients.
Gotcha! Thanks ^_^
@@SchizoKitzokeep at it. I personally know how a personal connection with a psychiatrist makes all the difference.
I'm sorry to hear this 😢 I hope it will be OK. I have faith that you are strong enough to prevail in this unfortunate situation. Keep us posted!
Doctors who work as a team seem to work best. A bright doctor who is willing to talk at a higher level and respecting and truly work as team. It’s more work for them but can make a difference with patient no matter the issue. Hang in there. Hopefully they have same gifts the other had.
He’s definitely in contact with other members of my treatment team and it does make a difference! Thanks!
I've had about 12 different psychiatrists over the years. The best one I've had was one recommended by my psychologist. When they're in private practice it's not like in the psych ward. The worst ones that I've had were in the psych ward. But it sounds like you'll get a good one because they were all mentored by your current psychiatrist.
The psych ward one was really rough to deal with. Thanks for the comment!
I feel for you. I've had many providers over the years, and a lot of them were bad or a bad mix. I've only had a few good ones and losing them is always rough. I hope you find someone who you match well with.
Condolences from an ASPD/formerly psychotic friend
I've had to switch 3 times the biggest switch was first one I had was for a little over a year very cool guy... he wanted me to go to AA and i was very reluctant to go then he handed me a card with i time and place on it and said "I'll see you there"... doctors aren't perfect either the second i had for 20years third one I have had for 10years those two were from the the same office... which was good since they both trusted each other on how I was diagnosed... it sounds like you're in a good spot... he's not ditching you... it's probably a well thought out hand off... I hope it works out well 😊
I'm currently going through this with my PCP. I've had him since 2016, and he decided to retire altogether. Thankfully, I do work in a healthcare institution and there is one particular provider that I have always heard nothing but great things from patients about and I have booked a visit with her within the next few months.
I actually have a lot of experience switching therapists. I've been in regular therapy for 8-9 years, and have had to switch a handful of times for different reasons (they were retiring/moving/going on sick leave, or I got a different coverage). My experience has mostly been positive, for one main reason, which is: As I've been learning about myself and my condition, I've been able to make bigger strides after changing therapist, because I can present myself in a new way to each therapist. This has meant that they have had an easier time treating me as I am now, and not as I was 1-2 years ago.
I've also benefited from receiving different types of therapy (CBT vs ACT vs psychodynamic). All said, I've experienced a surge in my recovery every time I've switched, even though I've felt sad and lost at the prospect of losing my previous therapist and having to establish a whole new relationship.
Oh my. So sorry to hear this. Losing my psychiatrist would send me. I hope it works out for the best.
🐝 praying for you. You’ll be okay 🤍
I echo many of the positive messages shared so far. In my experience, I had a similar but not exactly the same situation happen, and much less abruptly. I think many people have shared some good practical ideas. I’ll just add a validation that it’s a disappointing, difficult situation and you have every right to feel upset. I think you’re handling it well and with grace and kindness. It sucks now and that’s valid. In time it’s also likely you’ll find another solid provider. Don’t settle for subpar care, and there are many good people out there. Good luck!
I grew up in California where alot of Psychiatrists play double duty as Counselors/Psychologists as well. In Florida, where I live now, they usually don't. I also moved during my transition into adulthood at the ripe young age of 16. So... it was quite a shock having to have two separate people to talk to instead of just one. I'm actually happier now that I see two separate people for both roles instead of just one because I feel like I can talk more openly about certain things with each one.
That sucks! I hope your new Psychiatrist is just as amazing as your old one was and maybe even better. I had a friend who was in hospital for a psychotic episode and a similar thing happened to her. Her Psychiatrist of years who she has seen since she was 18 years old and her case manager both moved into different jobs. Her Psychiatrist switched her focus to children only and her case manager changed jobs meaning my friend who has been with those people for 7 years had to get used to new mental health providers all while she was recovering from a psychotic episode. Not very fun but her new Psychiatrist is amazing and so is her case manager so even though she misses the other two she still is getting excellent care so I hope that is what happens for you.
I’m sorry that happened to you . And I’m sorry that your meds have been messed with. Once you get a good dr you want to stick with them I understand how it make you feel. because when I moved from east London to another area it took me a while to get used to a different dr I’ve seen many different ones so I totally know that it’s very upsetting. I hope you soon get used to your new dr best wishes. And thank you for sharing.🌹
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Just because I am a skeptic in all things, I would see if there have been any malpractice suits. Thats really irresponsible for a therapist to dump you.
I see a lot of disorders could be helped with more natural ways. We all have childhood trauma, and meds were a band aid for me that didn't cure or heal what actually hurt me.but deep hard inner child and reparenting work did. Advocate for yourself in whatever suits you best. Im not a dr, just sharing thoughts and personal experience.
Wow. If this gives you any solace, this happened to me. My psychiatrist had been seeing me for roughly 4 or 5 years. I was in the middle of ECT and they told us he no longer worked there anymore and that was that. They gave me a referall to the new psych at that hospital (who was one of the second worst physicians I’ve ever had to deal with.) well, two weeks later my mom and I were waiting for me to be taken back to my ECT procedure and she received a text that though he no longer worked where I was receiving treatment, he would certainly like to continue treating me. Typically when things like this happen with laws and stipulations, especially in the psych world. It was a money issue where he wanted to save patients money but the hospital wished to overcharge.
I sincerely wish you the best that it is something like this or you find someone who can help you even better on your journey. I know I felt so abandoned and hurt. He isn’t just my psychiatrist, we made strides in my life and for someone to just up and leave felt like a huge punch in the gut. Good luck!
Thank you 🙏
Same thing happened to me after 20+ years. Then again a year later. I found a better one each time. Have faith.
I understand how you feel. You two have built a relationship over the years. It's like an important piece of your life is removing itself. Blessings to you and what you choose to do from here on.
I am so sorry, I really hope you find a great doctor again soon! It is so important to have doctors that collaborate with you, rather than treat you like another chore to cross out on their to do list.
I had to changed psychiatrist due to changes in health insurance. My employer no longer could afford it. I was depressed for a couple of weeks. But I planned ahead and got extra refills since I don't know when I'll get more meds (I'm bipolar 1, GAD, and PTSD). I also downloaded my health file so that I can show the new doctor my overall health and all the meds I take. My old psychiatrist recommended a colleague that accepts my new health insurance so I'm grateful for that. I was with my old psychiatrist for almost 10 years and was the best I've had. I've had five before him and they weren't very good I feel. So I kind of know what you're going through. Keeping my fingers crossed all will go well with your new psychiatrist.
Hi Kit! I recently came across your videos for the first time, and it's helped me immensely. im sorry to hear about your change in doctor. I hope you find one that is just as good, if not better than your former doctor. And just a quick note, do you have merch? I'd totally buy merch from you if you sold it.
No merch yet but it’s def a goal on the list 👍
Welcome to the Hive! 🐝
Having a provider you click with is a blessing I hope without much searching you get another great one
I cant imagine the upset you must feel right now
My hopes for you is that there will not be much of an additional episode your anger is valid ❤
Thank you 🙏
So sorry to hear of this abrupt change. However, it has been my experience that one often ends up with a better situation with change.
Here’s hoping! 🤞
Hang in there Kit, you’re in such a better place than you were before. I lost my psychiatrist when we moved last year and it was brutal. However, I found a new one after some time here and I truly love him. Trust yourself if possible, you’ve got this.
Thanks so much!
I remember this happened with my first Psychologist (talk therapist) we had this conversation about how doctors tend to overly focus on medication without getting to really know the patient. the 15-minute visit is virtually the standard. it takes so much more time to really get to know someone on a deeper inner personal level. it was a very self-empowering conversation where i went from having a very difficult time speaking & thinking to a flowing conversation where i felt i really connected with her. I went back the next week for my next appointment and the receptionist told me she decided to leave the practice. I didn't believe the nurse at first & then i thought maybe my psychiatrist doesn't want to see me after that heated conversation. i was feeling a bit taken by paranoia & the experience of the loss. I remember thinking she was really in her office, and just didn't want to see me anymore as a patient. when thinking about it again, now, I realize the stronger sense of probability that she really did leave. (it's not that hard to accept when reevaluating that one visit with her). overall, I had been seeing her for a handful of times maybe 3 or 4 times. i remembered I hoped to not feel so stuck in my words and thoughts during our visits. (as doctors visits in general had become overwhelming for me at the time, and who I was for them was a completely different person than i was in my own self). i was often extremely challenged with a sense of loss towards my inner self as i know me. easily misunderstood and misperceived.
GOOD LUCK DUDE!
This is actually normal. Im 40 and this has happened to me twice. Neither did they say anything. There are reasons for this. Also if they move to a new practice, they are not aloud to say where they are going. Its completely ridiculous. It is so awful having to find a new psychiatrist. In Australia there is a massive shortage of psychiatrists. Its devastating. Worse when the new doctor is totally incompetent
I’m sorry that you have to have this experience. Change is uncomfortable and can be scary. This would be a great time to consider a few things for perspective. First, your former psychiatrist might have had no choice, you never know what is happening in someone else’s life. Second, some opportunities that can have a beautiful outcome, can only present themselves when things shift. As a the therapist, I recommend going into the new relationship with your upcoming psychiatrist with an open mind and open heart. Be yourself and express your fear or concern with them. They will understand and will likely work to build a great rapport with you. Things in life have a way of working out and I have faith that this will be a positive journey for you. Thinking of you and cheering you on from Pensacola, Florida. Much love ❤️
Thanks so much, I’ll keep that in mind. It’s hard but I’m definitely planning on staying optimistic 👍
I am so sorry you are going through this and wish you extremely well
I just got a new pdoc who is an NP. Over thirty plus years, including psych ward pdocs I've had around 40 of them and 100 therapists. My recovery wasn't dependent on a steady figure but was dependent on hospitalizations for many years. I believe mental institutions should be there for when you are going crazy. I don't want to go back because I have recently gone to a bad one and I am discouraged from it and don't need structure like I once did.
This same exact thing happened to me a few months ago. I had my former doctor for 11 years. She decided to leave the practice. She said it was because of family matters and her work was beginning to take a toll on her. I was crushed, betrayed, left abandoned and so scared… I now have a new doctor. My new doctor is amazing in all aspects. I’m so thankful, a new doctor was the best thing that happened to me. Best of luck and stay positive. Change is good.
What a wonderful thing, thanks for this
Oh kit my heart's with you. I'm having a major depressive episode. I voluntarily commited myself to the psych ward for a month and a half and I switched 4 psychiatrists this is within half a year. MDD not getting better with medication so I am a "candidate" for ECT & escatmine, not fun.
I wish you luck in your treatment, stay strong 💪
@@SchizoKitzo I just got my prescription for escatmine (generic name spravato). It's used to treat people with MDD that is drug resistant
People with schizoaffective disorder experience different kinds of symptoms
Some suffer more from Schizophrenic symptoms, others from mood symptoms
There is diversity among us
I would do my own video about this but I feel ugly as. Hell right now
Thank you Kit you are true inspiration
I've had to change twice in a year for insurance reasons (im not from the US). Both the doctors changed to private in other clinics and I needed the free insurance or nothing.When i got to my third (current, paid, cheap) i sincerely asked her to please please keep this whole thing that I went through in mind and pleeeease tell me off record if she ever planned to quit
I've had a therapist leave me, best one I ever had, and that was awful timing, I was beginning the worst episode of my life. I don't really have advice because I became unable to care for myself properly and wound up not getting a new therapist until the following year. I've had my current psychiatrist for 14 years and I've been lucky like you in that she really listens to me and it always feels collaborative when we adjust my meds. If I'm having a real problem, she will fit me in as soon as possible; if it's bad enough she will tell me to come in the same day which is very unusual because it isn't a private practice. I would be completely devastated if she were to leave. Anyway, I hope that your new psychiatrist is just as great, if not an even better match for you. It's an adjustment, but you'll be okay.
I’m so sorry you’re going through this, Kit. I really hope you find a new psychiatrist who can really help you. I’ve been through something similar ;and while it took a little while to get used to my new psychiatrist, I now feel I can trust her and I look forward to seeing her (by her I mean my psychiatrist)
Sending you best wishes from France!
Appreciate this a lot!
So hard to find someone you can trust… sorry Kit😡😞🙏💜
This happened to me too but with my psychologist and it was also really crappy timing and after I had devulged some really personal things to her that I'd never told anyone. So I sent her that email and then got the break up effective immediately email from her clinic and we never got to have any closure of talk about what I'd sent to her. Needless to say I will never devulge that information again because of fear that I will lose them. I was told something had happened and it hard turned her life upside down but although my brain hears this, it also says 'abandonment' big time. It hurt a lot and it is still affecting me months later. It also happened over a holiday period so it sucked extra because I thought she was taking so long to respond because of the holiday and instead she just quit psychology altogether. It felt like it was my fault. Anyway, hope you'll be okay, thinking of you!!!!
🐝 🐝 🐝 I’m sorry to hear you’re going through this 😔 here in the UK we have the National Health Service so as we don’t pay for insurance we get whichever psych happens to be in our area. I’ve seen so many over the years because of drs not hanging around or moving to private practice or what have you. It sucks every time you build up a relationship with one and then they leave, and then you have to do it all again. The best one I ever had was a forensic psychiatrist (yeah, my worst psychotic episode got me in a lot of trouble). He knew straight away it was a psychotic illness and that I’m autistic that complicates the presentation. Anyway, he died shortly after I left his care. I often think about his family and how they’re doing. I do hope you find a psych who is just as good or better than your former one. 🐝
I had a psychiatrist do the exact same thing years ago! I felt betrayed and abandoned and I hadn't even been seeing him very long. I'm sorry this happened to you.
Thank you 🙏
I've been seeing my psychiatrist for 15 years and he seems to be very much like your former psychiatrist, so I understand. If this new psychiatrist isn't a good match for you, sometimes it's helpful to ask the staff there if they know a psychiatrist in town that is more like your former psychiatrist. I've done this and have found success. Also, in previous videos, you talk about your "Being". I too talk to what I call my Spirit of Unconditional Love within me and have for nearly 25 years. I didn't realize this until a few years ago, but you may like to look into Dialectal Behavior Therapy and its Wise Mind. Spirituality and Science go together. Take Care!
Oh I’m a major fan of DBT! It’s super helpful. Thanks for this comment ^_^
I am sorry you are going through this - I know it can be devastating. I was surprised however to hear that you would discuss a mental health question every session though, I thought I was the only one to do that. I look forward to it every session with my psychiatrist.
It’s so much fun and I’m gonna miss it a lot :(
I find it kinda crazy that people are having conversations with their psychiatrist. Mine calls me once every three months and basically just asks if i think my meds are OK. I say they seem fine and she says she will call in refills. I wish there was more to it because I’m not in therapy right now either so she is the only one I am talking to about my mental health.
Gurl you're gonna have to school the new doctor ;)
But seriously yeah that sounds jarring. I wish you well with the next one. Maybe they'll even have new skills / knowledge?
It can and still be collaborative, it's not like in the psych ward, just have open communication from the start. You'll be fine!
Thanks!
I have had a medical provider that I clicked with really well leave suddenly before and it is super difficult. I have chronic medical conditions and while that Dr didn't help me find out what the diagnosis was they believed me, listened to me and never stopped trying to work with me to figure out what was going on.
I say all that not only to say you're not alone and it's understandable how difficult this is... But... Be gentle with yourself!
Will do my best, thanks ^_^
awww. that sux. also i love your hair. sorry hun I hope you get a better one because of this. better in a sence that your new dr. is like your old one but availible. hugs
It sux to lose such a great support, but what can you do, life happens... but I really hope your next doctor will be even better :). And as far as psych science things go, you can always quench your thirst on google and DSM (although google says many things, the second option is probably much better). Good luck Kit
Thank you Kinzhe!
I understand your feelings regarding your psych up and going. I too will be changing psychiatrists on July 11. My current one who diagnosed me in 2020 in recent visits has blown off my concerns during visits. I'm also now going to try a female doctor. So, I'm nervous. It's stressful for sure. Like your psych he used to answer specific science questions for me. I may go back depending how it goes with the new one. Sorry, I'm rambling because it's stressful, but I know you relate because that's why you made this episode :)
It just reminds you these people dont care about you (no not all of them, whatever) and its just a job to this person you felt safe with, especially when they are a higher up who leaves to start their own practice for more money or what not, it always pisses me off. After almost 20 years of therapy and so many therapists leaving it just discourages you from opening up, your comfort and trust is crushed again and again, sprinkle in some shitty therapists who force religion or other beliefs you didnt ask for, its just a shitshow.
Oh that sucks, imho very unprofessional of them to just suddenly leave you hanging like that. Live in a quite rural area, so had to switch often.
It's kind of like losing a friend, a sparring partner. It takes time to proces, let nobody tell you that you can't grieve about it. It's not weird just because it's a care provider.
For what it's worth concerning your fears, focus on the empowerment you so often show in your videos, feel your strength. You're job is to tell your new care provider what you need, it's they're job to give you that or suggest better options. That it... you're the captain on the ship `a beautiful mind` and nobody else.
I have no doubt that part of it will work out just fine.
Thank you so much!
Big change, Kit. I'm sure this will become a positive experience. Good luck.
Thanks Roy!
Hey Kit! I love your videos. I've had the same psychiatrist for the last 3 years for my mental illness. It's important to have stability. I hope your new Dr is really good. Say hi to bee for me.
Bee says hi back, and thanks from both of us!
Frustrated for you; it's one thing when life randomly generates a challenging situation or circumstance that threatens one's wellness and stability but quite another when a proven and trusted support system is stripped away. Still, it was a beneficial formative psychiatrtic experience which demonstrated that there are some good people in the field and you've benefited by the experience, which leaves you with a really strong, positive foundation to build on.
Until you've settled into a new treatment relationship that works for you there will be more pressure on you to maintain equilibrium yourself, which might require some hard choices in other areas e.g. go small rather than big when it comes to opportunities and transitions.
Arguably one of the most damaging influences of our culture is the temptation to push, to always take the big risk; that urging can be problematic for anyone with mental health challenges, given that we need a consistently stable, reliable support system to buffer us against chaotic factors.
It sounds like you have good awareness of the risks and challenges you're going to meet, here's hoping the transition is as fast and as smooth as possible.
Tysm!
I have been on a lot of the same meds but through neurologist/neurosurgeons and it's been hit and miss as well. Not all doctors are built alike and you have to go shopping.
I get it. I'll be meeting my new Psychiatrist in a month, and it scares me. There is not much choice of Psychiatrist's in our area that takes my insurance. I did pay private years back and it was reasonable. Thats not a choice now, but I'm going in positive, and if I don't feel comfortable with them I will travel a bit in order to find someone I'm totally comfortable with and takes my insurance. Sending you positive energy Kat, and hoping you find someone that you click with. To me that's number one. ✌️❤🌹
Great tips, thanks!
Oof, situations like these are absolutely frustrating and very scary, have been there a few times, but in my case with my psychologist. The first time was when the clinic she works in announced it was gonna get taken off the insurance I was in at that time, but I have the privilege of living in europe atm and what I decided to do was to go see her less frequently because every consultation is 50 euros. The second time was when she announced that she wouldnt be able to be in the branch of the clinic that is closer to me for an undetermined amount of time. In that case what we decided to do was do online consultations, so what we do right now whenever I schedule an appointment is to make a formal videocall. it is definitively not the same as face to face but she is the only doctor that has been working with me since I arrived in spain so, like you, I was just not willing to let her go. I dont know if they can accomodate for you in that way, but checking for the possibility of videocall consultations is not a bad idea. I hope it helps, and if not, with whoever they put you with remember always that your comfort should be top priority, if you do not feel treated how you should, changing until you click with someone else is a time consuming but rewarding process that will always be better in the long run. Your mental and physical health should be yours AND THEIR priority.
I wish telehealth was an option but it isn’t :( thank you for this tho, I appreciate your comment and hope you have a great day!
Good luck, It's always sad losing a psychiatrist and new can be scary.
So scary 😔
I would hate to be a psychiatrist. It’s too much baggage.
My psychiatrist finally retired after I was in treatment with him for 30 years. :(
First of all, nice hair 🌌.
Second, I understand if you feel unsure about which doctor is coming next because I find difficulty in dealing with change as well, especially if there is a bad timing as you say. I am sure things will be okay in the end and we are here for you to share your journey with us! Don't worry ❤
Thank you! (For both parts of this comment ^_^ )
Hi. I just got a new psychiatrist myself due to my last Dr moving. Had first appointment with new Dr. Hate starting all over again but I already like my new psychiatrist
Wonderful! Hoping the same for me! 🤞
My previous psychiatrist confirmed my next appointment one day then the next day the office called and said I’d be seeing someone else the next time because she was no longer with the group. I’d only been seeing her for a few months so wasn’t a huge deal but made me wonder if she lied to me or was fired out of the blue.
When my therapist quit without notice, I contacted her and asked wasn't that a breach of professional ethics? She asked me to come to the office and talk to her. I can hardly talk I went and sat in front of her for 30 minutes and cried and then we said goodbye and I'll never see her again. And I haven't seen her again. I returned to a former therapist. I remained sad for several weeks. B?
God bless you i dont take that risperidone or go to therapy anymore i found salvation in weights🏋️♂️ and music 🎶 Best decision i ever made those meds take pieces of your personality i wasnt diggin it lol. Your awesome!
I'm not one to comment often, but here is the requested 🐝. Wishing you a smooth and painless transition.
Thank you!
I really wonder why he up and left, "effective immediately" usually means that something serious happened.
My doctor retired a couple years ago. She was the one that diagnosed me. I really relied on her and thought she would be around forever.
I thought since he started the practice he would be around for a long time. Oh well :(
Best of luck with your new doctor
Thanks!
You will be ok. You're tough kid.
I try!
Its ok. I hope you find a better psychiatrist sooner. do not worry about it.
I’m guessing he did something and was let go. - You got this Kit.
I’ve had 4 psychiatrists in the last year they just leave there position (good old NHS) I am in the uk tho
That sucks. I hope you can find a great new psychiatrist. I'm sure he had a good reason. People don't just leave the state for no reason.
Exactly, I’m hoping that whatever happens it better be worth it ya know?
Maybe it's fit for the better
Be soooo careful now. Because there's a bunch of new psych nurse practitioners that think they are doctors and they aren't. I just had an awful experience with one that asked me three times if my suicide attempts were attention seeking behavior but I have BPD and ADHD and I told them several times that I didn't want to treat the depression as that's usually want ends up putting me in the hospital. So she prescribed that new wellbution/cough medicine combo drug for depression and rexulti and there's no way my insurance will pay for that plus it's cough medicine which I have a history of abuse with so all in all shit experience and there's not any psychiatrists in this state I guess so I'm forced to suck it up with a cbt book my therapist recommended and I have to fix myself I guess. I hope it gets better for you and that maybe since you're on the coast it would be easier to find a psychiatrist vs a psych NP that won't give the same standard of care. I love your content and thank you for making the uncomfortable comfortable.
Thanks for this perspective, best of luck to you!
Also one other note psych NPs that work as a team with a doctor at the helm are totally valid and help fill the voids in patient care. In my state unfortunately they can work autonomously without a dr on board and that's scary. I don't know how it works in your state but I hope you find the care you deserve 🐝
Can we see your Guinea pigs, please?🥰
She is an actress.
I wonder if he got sick ? Since it was effective immediately it might have been something like that ? That sucks tho
Would he take correspondence? It is worth asking.
The first thing you can do it to stop idolizing these people. These cannot treat their patients plain and simple. They do not have the available tools to do anything neg meaningful or lasting for their patients. I’m tired of reading horror stories after horror stories some people who have been harmed, most people who haven’t been helped. Endless failures of psychiatry to do anything of meaning for people. Sometimes lots of misplaced blame put on the patient, accusatory type behavior. There are THINGS you can do for your mitocondrial function to improve your situation while people wait for new tx’s.
How long does your episode last? How badly do they affect your day to day life?
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Stay strong 💪
Sux… hope you find a great psych soon 🐝
Bummer !
I have a question. What if during psychotic episode you were to listen white noise through headphones? What would that do to the voices?
Given I mainly hear them on the inside of my head in the same space as thoughts I doubt it would do much. But interesting!
I’m just wondering, do you have the symptom disorganized thoughts and speech? I do and I cannot get my words out well most of the time. I’d like to start a TH-cam channel but i have a lot of trouble w speaking the whole time.
Nah just word finding issues from lamictal.