MARVIN GAYE Tortured His TEEN Wife So She CHEATED on Him with TWO R&B Stars

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  • @TisHotMessHistory
    @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

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    • @DeeDerry
      @DeeDerry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I love your channel! Love From London 😘 Marvin was a mess, Damn

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@DeeDerry thank you for giving my channel a try. I'm so glad that you love it! Yes Marvin was a total hot mess.

    • @DeeDerry
      @DeeDerry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@TisHotMessHistory Oh I have been binging on your content! Will share 💯❤ Oh and just to mention, I love the background music!

    • @davidlaflamme7246
      @davidlaflamme7246 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Check out “marvin Gaye, My Brother” ....it’s the book marvins brother Frankie wrote and has different insights and perspectives. Thanks for sharing :)

    • @izzi666
      @izzi666 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please can you help with the name of the background music.

  • @VictoriaMarie08
    @VictoriaMarie08 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1181

    When you said Rick James helped with her sobriety..I'm sorry but I almost spit out my coffee ☕ 😆

    • @aliciag946
      @aliciag946 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      😩 right 😳

    • @chalisjackson6085
      @chalisjackson6085 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      I hollered!!!!!!

    • @liveyourbestsoftlife5705
      @liveyourbestsoftlife5705 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Right. Probably had her smoking crack and get burnt with cigarettes

    • @VictoriaMarie08
      @VictoriaMarie08 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@liveyourbestsoftlife5705 right lol

    • @completely_me75
      @completely_me75 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      😂🤷🏾‍♀️ he knew 1st hand so he would actually be a good example of what not to do 😂😂😭

  • @gussygatlin3093
    @gussygatlin3093 2 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    I'm so disgusted with these men tearing women down. Bless her heart & Thank you for bringing awareness to abuse in Hollyweird

    • @ronrutan
      @ronrutan ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Fair enough. It however isn't one-sided. Every guy I grew up with that tried to simply work and take care of their families ended up with "bored" wives who knew they could leave and get the house, car, kids (child support) and if they guys hadn't had family they could've moved in with.. don't know what they'd have done. It happens all the way around

    • @DanceArchives24
      @DanceArchives24 ปีที่แล้ว

      And their descendants and their descendants have only taken the reigns and are doing much much worse to black women. BW r in so much danger.

    • @JomoDaMusicMan
      @JomoDaMusicMan 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      NEVER FORGET THERE IS MORE THAN ONE SIDE TO EA STORY, AND THIS JUST HER SIDE

    • @mariecolette9066
      @mariecolette9066 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      co-sign 1000 percent..What really sucks is wen u speak up for women and question why certain men are glorified wen theyve committed atrocities towards many females..ppl get upset n deny the men have done any wrongdoing 😮

  • @shirleyallen7374
    @shirleyallen7374 2 ปีที่แล้ว +252

    My aunt was his personal cook when he performed in Pine Bluff, Ark in the early 70's. All her 10 kids sang like angels. Marvin offered my cousins to come to LA to record. My uncle said " Hell no." I'm glad they decided to sing in various churches instead.

    • @robot12423
      @robot12423 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Aww😋

    • @T..1147
      @T..1147 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Hello my grandpa is from pine bluff his name was Leroy Gaston

    • @esmielong9239
      @esmielong9239 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@T..1147 . I

    • @HelloSpyMyLie
      @HelloSpyMyLie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Biggest mistake of their life

    • @renchon10
      @renchon10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@T..1147 my "Best Man"s whole family is from Pine Bluff. He's very proud of that fact as he should be. His aunt use to own a place called "The Duck In", or something like that back in the day. I may be wrong about the exact name but I will check in with him about it. Everyone I've met from there have been really "down home", good folk! Blessings!!!

  • @lauriehenley9788
    @lauriehenley9788 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    You can tell that parents can mess children up when their life is unstable

  • @rosalindwilliams9358
    @rosalindwilliams9358 3 ปีที่แล้ว +249

    Marvin's music was and always will be legendary. But his personal life was sad.

    • @robertgrant5372
      @robertgrant5372 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I really believe Marvin was an undercover batty bwoy too!!

    • @timmy841212
      @timmy841212 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@normanhenderson7300 Isn’t that ironic?

    • @willieduffie4967
      @willieduffie4967 ปีที่แล้ว

      How true.......🥺

    • @shanequaaustin8908
      @shanequaaustin8908 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@timmy841212 It's true though majority of blacks lived are hard. We need to be sympathetic towards one of another.

    • @God-Love-Freedom
      @God-Love-Freedom ปีที่แล้ว +6

      R&B and soul is psychological love bombing music. I rarely listen to it anymore.

  • @jank358
    @jank358 3 ปีที่แล้ว +322

    I was 14 and visiting an aunt in LA when Marvin Gaye's father shot him. My Aunt lived within walking distance of his parents' home. I'll never forget it.

    • @RCooke357
      @RCooke357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      You were 14? Oh Marvin would've liked you.

    • @monilaninetynine3811
      @monilaninetynine3811 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I was 13 and driving home from a church service with my mother. We STILL talk about that day.

    • @jank358
      @jank358 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@RCooke357 lol... I only knew him as a singer (my older sisters had his records) and the fact that his father shot him behind his alcohol/drug use. I had absolutely no idea of his proclivities and wives until this video popped up on my stream 😯

    • @KeeKeeSoto
      @KeeKeeSoto 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      😳

    • @aimeemoore1094
      @aimeemoore1094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wow very interesting

  • @joeyday1252
    @joeyday1252 2 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    Then their daughter Nona winds up getting involved with Prince during a dark period of his life. So strange how children will sometimes repeat their parent's ordeals.

    • @ctruth6185
      @ctruth6185 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Generational curses.

    • @majik31401
      @majik31401 ปีที่แล้ว

      CHILD ABUSE & NEGLECT ARE THE SEEDS OF EPIDEMIC VIOLENCE OF TODAY

    • @God-Love-Freedom
      @God-Love-Freedom ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Not curses. Bad parenting. The responsibility goes to 🥁🥁🥁 bad parents.

    • @b.williams9473
      @b.williams9473 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@God-Love-Freedom Both are true.

    • @God-Love-Freedom
      @God-Love-Freedom ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@b.williams9473
      Bull. No, it’s just bad parenting.

  • @FranPett
    @FranPett 3 ปีที่แล้ว +343

    Janice’s life with Marvin was hardly enviable. In fact, it was damn near sad. What a horrible experience.

    • @michmex220
      @michmex220 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Yes !! I agree , as a matter of fact it was pretty gross🤢🤮

    • @doreenbruton8745
      @doreenbruton8745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      when your young daughter is being,controlled' by a much older man you as a parent is supposed to keep up with your daughters, life and we'll being, see how she is doing, mentally' and make sure she and the kids are safe be there for her as a mother and get dad involved to If you mom and dad are not together.

    • @WindDancer435
      @WindDancer435 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I agree. I read her book. Marvin mistreated her, cheated on her with groupies and engaged in deviant behavior.

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      So true. People saw pictures and thought that they wanted to be in Janis's place. Little did they know....
      Thank you so much for watching and commenting, Fran Pettaway!

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@michmex220 yes. Definitely add gross to that list.

  • @knowledgeisablessing8767
    @knowledgeisablessing8767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Nah imagine being a big man going to pick up your girl from her high school. I don't think he ever loved her, he loved his first wife but resented her for having power. This poor girl was just roped in to be a pawn in his games and an emotional punching bag. It's important to teach young girls that these older men don't want you they want to control.

    • @dbrown9495
      @dbrown9495 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      If they can control you they will. And they can't control their need to control.

    • @God-Love-Freedom
      @God-Love-Freedom ปีที่แล้ว +12

      He never loved any woman. Love is sweet and kind. Not cheating and abusive.

    • @My3Sunzs
      @My3Sunzs ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Facts

    • @brendaholman3835
      @brendaholman3835 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly, It is all about, Power and Control, period.

    • @MaryMartinez-ob2mk
      @MaryMartinez-ob2mk 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      👊So so true, you said it like it is!👊(✌)

  • @xaphire6m.860
    @xaphire6m.860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +228

    Wow. So Marvin basically turned out to be very much like his own father.

    • @bsociety4647
      @bsociety4647 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You mean that liked to cross dress?

    • @samanthanickson6478
      @samanthanickson6478 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      yep. violence steeped in christianity begat violence steeped in drugs.

    • @CJCrump
      @CJCrump 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That part.

    • @katherineharris2354
      @katherineharris2354 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yep he was very sick 😫 cross dressing, even bi ,possible murderer of gay men smh

    • @mskimareid5980
      @mskimareid5980 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      S, z

  • @Acherrywithasmile
    @Acherrywithasmile 3 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    He was a demon. Listen, he made beautiful music but he wasn't a beautiful person. Hurt people hurt people.

    • @xzing7
      @xzing7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      He was possessed was the devil himself.

    • @fayemijumoke
      @fayemijumoke 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Hurting people hurt others

    • @1agelessbeauty
      @1agelessbeauty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      I had always adored Marvin. However, after reading a few books, and viewing this video, I have to admit, he's no better than all those other womanizer's out there. I wished I knew then, what I'm still discovering now. He was a drugged up devil. I first blamed his father for all Marvin's issues. But, as a grown man, in your own control, he knew better. Sickening to say the least🥴😒:[

    • @renatareibuddysmama2534
      @renatareibuddysmama2534 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      He battled his demons just like you and everybody else.

    • @chaideelove1819
      @chaideelove1819 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      A real pervert....

  • @brandoni241
    @brandoni241 3 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    Man some of these singers and celebrities are/were just horrible people...

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That is just the plain truth, Sir. Thank you so much for watching and commenting, Brandon I!

    • @dorannajones5234
      @dorannajones5234 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes very sad

    • @suzy-qwoo6268
      @suzy-qwoo6268 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Celebs are talented but I find them gross.

    • @qarsiq
      @qarsiq 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      indeed.

  • @nicolemjackson3118
    @nicolemjackson3118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    Doesn't seem the "stepdad" was too protective...in fact it seems he set it all up...the lady never stood a chance from birth & neither did he...they both had a parent that hated them...hope she has found peace in her older tears

    • @ramonagoodman3811
      @ramonagoodman3811 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Seem like we heard the song before, where's the parents at th they need to be jailed

  • @mrttamara
    @mrttamara 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    These guys are such creeps. They really take advantage of these young girls.

  • @josephbaker6169
    @josephbaker6169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    People seemed to think these stars are goody 2 shoes an actuality they are surrounded by more demons and temptations than the average man. 😳

  • @blackirishrose4040
    @blackirishrose4040 3 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Most likely he got that violent behavior from his father

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That definitely seems to be the case. Thank you so much for watching and commenting, mergirl2000 Dunne!

  • @lucypollard6012
    @lucypollard6012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    I can amagine a grown ass 35 yr old playing mind games with a kid..he knew he had the upper hand and thats why most guys pick young girls so that they can control them and their mind...

    • @lauriejames9740
      @lauriejames9740 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Exactly, my ex is 43 with a 23 year old. It's all manipulation.

    • @Livermore1234
      @Livermore1234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Did René Angélil desire to "control" Céline Dion?

    • @NaieraP9211
      @NaieraP9211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Livermore1234 most likely

    • @traceylennon1204
      @traceylennon1204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Younger girls feed into everything..very impressionable!

    • @roseeze166
      @roseeze166 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I dont think so. I think men just find younger women more attractive

  • @notnice4214
    @notnice4214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    This is disgusting, eye opener for me on some of these celebrities that we idolize. Thank you for this.

  • @pamelaford4878
    @pamelaford4878 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Dont be the man or woman who is used to break up a marriage...no matter what state the marriage is. If you know the person you are dating/want to date is married, move on to a single person. Keep that negative drama away from your life.

  • @dashloves97
    @dashloves97 3 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    Oh wow! This is Nona Gay’s mother?! I wonder will Nona ever do a tell-all book or story about her upbringing?

    • @JamalHale12345
      @JamalHale12345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      That would be something

    • @ChiTownChei
      @ChiTownChei 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I hope she doesn't.

    • @adriennerobinson1180
      @adriennerobinson1180 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I doubt if Nona will write a book.She was a child then.

    • @leslierudolph3455
      @leslierudolph3455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Nona Gaye started getting high with her mother and got angry at her when she got clean

    • @dashloves97
      @dashloves97 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@leslierudolph3455 wow!

  • @katinawhitley9340
    @katinawhitley9340 3 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    Dang Marvin was messing with a 17 yr old when he nearly 35 yrs old .. 😱

    • @YoungYahtz94
      @YoungYahtz94 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      It seems crazy now but back in those day’s that really wasn’t a big deal in fact it was kinda common

    • @tkkirkland8376
      @tkkirkland8376 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@YoungYahtz94 very common all the presidents from back then 1700s 1800s had underage girls as slaves they were messing around with. All the rock & roll singers from the 50s 60s & 70s like Elvis. R. Kelly ain't the only one he was just the only dumb one to record videos of it

    • @tkkirkland8376
      @tkkirkland8376 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @KissKiss Tatum its still going til this day it just depend on who the person is. Jay-Z had Rhianna in his 30s she was 17, kodak, tekashi got caught with underage girls. It really don't matter unless u R. KELLY seem like it

    • @traceylennon1204
      @traceylennon1204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@YoungYahtz94 Yea it was!! #facts

    • @vivianthompson4750
      @vivianthompson4750 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Who cares.

  • @Mindsetdevil
    @Mindsetdevil 3 ปีที่แล้ว +415

    So basically you're telling us that Marvin Gaye was also the first R. Kelly? 🤔

    • @christinagraham2915
      @christinagraham2915 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      No the age of consent in Cali then was and still is 17

    • @churchnelly548
      @churchnelly548 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yes!! Marvin DEFINITELY was messing with young girls. He impregnated his first wife's niece, with his wife's permission, because his wife wanted a baby and couldn't have children.

    • @zakiyareignshinellc4299
      @zakiyareignshinellc4299 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      yep

    • @lisajones3599
      @lisajones3599 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      She was 16 nearly 17

    • @alecialloyed2797
      @alecialloyed2797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Disorganized crimes, I thought it was just me.

  • @ingridcarr4689
    @ingridcarr4689 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Oh my!! I didn't realize she had passed. Thank you Ti for breaking the story for us. My condolences to Nona, Frankie and the rest of her family. RIP Janis.

  • @C0C0deluxe
    @C0C0deluxe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    WoW!! Had no idea that Marvin Gaye was so toxic😬😔.

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He was horrible, CoCo DeLuxe! It's all so crazy.

    • @majik31401
      @majik31401 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      CELEBRITIES CAN ONLY HIDE SO MUCH SO LONG

    • @lilenigma6544
      @lilenigma6544 ปีที่แล้ว

      Who isn’t toxic ????

  • @Nikki-mn6rs
    @Nikki-mn6rs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    Marvin clearly dealt with paranoid schizophrenia and maybe even some bipolar as his family and even colleagues described some very odd behavior for years leading up to Marvin‘s death. He would always walk around the house in a robe with a gun inside the robe pocket thinking someone was after him. Maybe the drugs caused the paranoid behavior. Not to mention the fact that he was deeply impacted by the death of Tammi Terrell. If no one else could make Marvin get a pep in his step the beautiful silly Tammi Terrell could and some even speculated that he was in love with her but of course sources confirmed that nothing ever transpired outside of friendship. Her last wish before her death was to go see Marvin perform and there she sat it the crowd frail, ill, but full of joy as I’m sure she could see herself up on that stage with Marvin as she’d always been. He spotted his girl in the audience and of course Went to her with his mic and they sang together for the very last time. Marvin was the only person from Motown that her family allowed at her funeral. Her family despised Motown but especially David Ruffin

    • @cherijoseph7819
      @cherijoseph7819 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Marvin was a drug addict with some depressive episodes. He wasn't a schizophrenic.

    • @patttyannhudson
      @patttyannhudson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Someone I used to know and love would do drugs and you want to talk about paranoid I would wake up in the middle of the night to get a drink of water and he would be on his stomach peeking out of a curtain to the back patio where there was nothing back there and years later although I had love for this person, I was informed that he had passed away so I'm sure he never got rid of the addiction and the sad thing about him was that he was truly a very nice person

    • @masterprophet8378
      @masterprophet8378 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Or maybe, just maybe, Marvin Gaye was evil. * blank stare *

    • @AestheticallyC
      @AestheticallyC 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Mm seems like excuses you made for him

    • @rosemaryrogers1478
      @rosemaryrogers1478 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      David Ruffin always reminded me of a crow......

  • @aliciag946
    @aliciag946 3 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    😩 No wonder why she gravitated to Marvin.. they were 2 hurt people Smh😭

    • @tkkirkland8376
      @tkkirkland8376 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm hurt too where my beautiful queen 👸????

    • @aliciag946
      @aliciag946 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@tkkirkland8376 bruh have a lil talk with Jesus, he'll make it alright!

    • @RCooke357
      @RCooke357 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Richard Ramirez What an idiotic comment.

    • @nickilema1074
      @nickilema1074 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@aliciag946 fr people stop hurting y’all doing this to yourself

  • @KeeKeeSoto
    @KeeKeeSoto 3 ปีที่แล้ว +361

    The greats are always the most scandalous. It's like their demons perfect their art 😭

    • @garealemcgill6967
      @garealemcgill6967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Usually thats how it is

    • @simondilling5353
      @simondilling5353 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Some of them, but there are exceptions. Stevie Wonder is a musical genius and he has good character and integrity. Marvin Gaye had a lot of issues, but it seems to me that he was also very kind and generous and sincere. His poor mental health made him incomplete.

    • @alvarinenelson5243
      @alvarinenelson5243 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen

    • @creating1_c1999
      @creating1_c1999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Their demons don't perfect their art, the enablers who allow it to go unchecked because of their talent allow them to perfect their art.

    • @KeeKeeSoto
      @KeeKeeSoto 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@joeiiiful you sound crazy as hell lol

  • @madamenoire6830
    @madamenoire6830 3 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    If this information is true what a sick individual Marvin was. I guess ain’t nothing changed but the weather. A grown man with an underage child , yes 17 is a child. Yuck...

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Yes. 17 is definitely a child. Thank you so much for watching and commenting, Madame Noire!

    • @melissasmorris2210
      @melissasmorris2210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That was disgusting but so was his first wife she was 17 years his senior too😩😩😩😩

    • @melissasmorris2210
      @melissasmorris2210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Apollo Mayaimi my grand parents were 3 years apart on both sides, even my great grand parents were 4 years apart.

    • @melissasmorris2210
      @melissasmorris2210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Apollo Mayaimi no I get it but people also got married earlier my grandmothers was 17 and my grandfather was 21 when they got married and started having a family. Same with my mom and day he met her when she was 17 and he was 22 been together for 39 years married for 31 years, so I get it.

    • @ctruth6185
      @ctruth6185 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Apollo Mayaimi No. You're wrong and disgusting on so many levels. GTHOH!

  • @Eastpointe
    @Eastpointe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Lord have mercy, Marvin was a product of his narcissistic father. Marvin was groomed to be a narcissist and definitely, a manic-depressive and psychotic.

    • @brendaholman3835
      @brendaholman3835 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Marvin’s father, was a cross dresser, and a very weird and strange, man. And Marvin, had to endure this, behavior, growing up, with his father. I am sure, this, dramatically, effected, Marvin. And, I, am not, in any way, shape or form, making excuses, for Marvin Gaye. Being involved with a child, which is what she was, is wrong and no, he, should not have done, such a, awful thing. But, Marvin, wasn’t, the Only one, into sadistic and cruel things, when it came to how, they treated women, back then. It was sad 😢

    • @ThePhoenix3712
      @ThePhoenix3712 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's still not an excuse to carry on with degeneracy, Marvin could've got the help he needed.

  • @a_ya_la
    @a_ya_la 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Teddy & Marvin were crazy as hell! Ooh Chile! all the dots are connecting!

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      LOL! They surely were crazy! LOL @ the dots are connecting! Thank you so much for watching and commenting, Ayala-j!

    • @aundreshabazz9624
      @aundreshabazz9624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Real POS 😶🤯😞😫

    • @valeriewilliams5443
      @valeriewilliams5443 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      And thats why teddy and marvin, had tragic deaths..karma!

  • @lateshalewisreaddon2284
    @lateshalewisreaddon2284 3 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    My Very First Celebrity Crush was Michael Jackson, when he was with the Jackson 5!!! I just knew I was gonna marry him!!! 😂😂😂 May He Rest In Paradise.❤❤❤

    • @evelynchambers5070
      @evelynchambers5070 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Girl, we would have had to fight for michael, lol

    • @michaell3711
      @michaell3711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The founder of skin bleaching !!! Great musician.

    • @michaell3711
      @michaell3711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @S T ,,, Tell them for me .

    • @adrielmoody
      @adrielmoody 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @S T But then again, he put Diana Ross on the highest pedestal.

    • @liveyourbestsoftlife5705
      @liveyourbestsoftlife5705 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly

  • @adriennerobinson1180
    @adriennerobinson1180 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Wow,I didn't know Janice Hunt's Mother was White,and she was foster care as a child. Now the story is coming full circle. I am sorry she endured this.

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm glad that I could share something new with you, Adrienne!

    • @adriennerobinson1180
      @adriennerobinson1180 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TisHotMessHistory Yes, Thank You

  • @matlynsmith5
    @matlynsmith5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    She was the child in that situation, there was no control until she grew up more!

  • @-savannah
    @-savannah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    When you said Rick James helped her to get clean,I did a double take

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      LOL! I did a double take when I read it. Thank you for commenting, Savannah Rivers Amore-Dupree!

  • @Texas903G
    @Texas903G ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Nothing worse than a Narcissist with some money.

  • @KA-yw7zj
    @KA-yw7zj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Dude was a monster...nikka was kinda evil

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yeah. It really seems like he was. Thank you so much for watching and commenting, K A!

  • @k.d.3664
    @k.d.3664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I was 17... my first crush was Charlie Wilson and it still is! Love his soothing voice...

    • @liveyourbestsoftlife5705
      @liveyourbestsoftlife5705 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      And his crush was crack and ugly Becky's he married.

    • @Auntkekebaby
      @Auntkekebaby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@liveyourbestsoftlife5705 lol

    • @christinagraham2915
      @christinagraham2915 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@liveyourbestsoftlife5705 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am almost sure that you are the first person to name him. Thank you for watching and commenting, K D!

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@liveyourbestsoftlife5705 LMAO! Stop it!

  • @vekywitdagudhair1708
    @vekywitdagudhair1708 3 ปีที่แล้ว +278

    Sad to say Marvin was a narcissist

    • @D22_T
      @D22_T 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I’ve never heard of a genius who wasn’t a narcissist

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      He definitely seems like a narcissist to me. Thank you so much for watching and commenting, Veky Witdahudhair!

    • @lorrisanders9772
      @lorrisanders9772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      The typical Aries

    • @kermann-bv8um
      @kermann-bv8um 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yes he was and was self destructive. But his father's influence was destructive and he was never right.

    • @ALLHAILERICAJAY
      @ALLHAILERICAJAY 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      he was A LOT more than that lmao

  • @jameelthompkins7835
    @jameelthompkins7835 3 ปีที่แล้ว +236

    As the story goes he started seeing her when she was around. 14 or 15. I had the pleasure of meeting the then bodyguard of Marvin and in his words at 14 she was hanging out with him in the studio all hours of the night. It's sad she endured the trauma she did so early because her parents were losers. Sounds like she may have even been apart of a system to prepare children for abuse. To have power like Marvin did it isn't far fetched he may have been involved in some of these secret society's.

    • @lalaland3378
      @lalaland3378 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      She was actually 17. Which makes it no better.

    • @sheilakayhill2483
      @sheilakayhill2483 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Janice, had just turned 17 when she meet Marvin

    • @jameelthompkins7835
      @jameelthompkins7835 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@sheilakayhill2483 so that makes it ok?? Sheila would you be ok with a 40 something year old man dating your 17 year old daughter?

    • @lashurediscussion4970
      @lashurediscussion4970 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I can believe jameel, that Marvin meet and groomed her at a young age but came out in public when she was 17.

    • @lashurediscussion4970
      @lashurediscussion4970 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@jameelthompkins7835 this is why nothing is ever done with predictors, folks are always going to justify the situation. The bottom line is she was underage. What I don’t understand is why mothers turn a blind eye.

  • @nubianra6965
    @nubianra6965 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I am grossed and disgusted by the story, if this is true Marvin Gaye was a monster as much as I admire his music I'm disgusted. Is this what these drug infested pimp like entertainers do to innocent young women.

    • @angelicaflores6559
      @angelicaflores6559 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Unfortunately I seen young girls go after older men, especially now this days.
      If she had two babies from him she must love him.

    • @majik31401
      @majik31401 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@angelicaflores6559 THATS WHY GIRLS NEED FATHER FIGURES POSITIVE MALE FIGURES IN THEIR LIVES

  • @JasmineNothanks
    @JasmineNothanks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    This is such a wild story it leaves me with so many thoughts. He was a very handsome man but he had so many demons. My mom used to say "I brought you into this world and I can take you out". I always thought about Marvin when she said that.
    Thanks for sharing this, I did not know any of this.

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      The fact that you thought about Marvin when your mother would make that statement. The only word in my head is "wow". Thank YOU for watching this. I love sharing this information with people who are new to it. Thank you so much for your comment, Jasmine Nothanks!

  • @joebrewer3748
    @joebrewer3748 3 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    So this is why a movie about him hasn't come out. He got too much dirt. I didn't know about all of this

    • @mthobelinathanheshu8423
      @mthobelinathanheshu8423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      A movie about Marvin Gaye would be like heaven to me, even if it has dirt. I remember reading that Ray Charles told the makers of the movie about him to tell 'everything'.

    • @creating1_c1999
      @creating1_c1999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Joe, it's far worse than this. Marvin was a great artist, but very complicated individual.

    • @dedebradley9743
      @dedebradley9743 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right

    • @marmackk
      @marmackk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @KissKiss Tatum Its all true,its in Jan's book and has been corrobated in other books written about him and biographies

  • @saritasamples100
    @saritasamples100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This is so unreal to hear this about Marvin Gaye and his friends. Poor girl. Thanx for the upload.

  • @texascreekcowboy1587
    @texascreekcowboy1587 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    I don't think I can listen to Marvin anymore, without thinking about his personal life now.

    • @blancamiranda7424
      @blancamiranda7424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That was the 70s....in the industry👤

    • @MsBee-nj9kp
      @MsBee-nj9kp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I feel the same!!! He was a horrible person 😔

    • @traceylennon1204
      @traceylennon1204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Especially "Come Live With Me Angel"

    • @1agelessbeauty
      @1agelessbeauty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@MsBee-nj9kp I thought I was the only person, who admittedly felt this way. I've read a few books regarding his life. But, I still can not find a path to having sympathy for him. Especially in his earlier years at Motown, calling little Stevie Wonder a "little blind sucker" All because Stevie was ahead of him, to go on stage. I felt that was so mean and nasty of him to say. As a full grown man, up against a blind boy. Shame on him. All my compassion and sympathy goes to his late mother. That woman endured a whole lot!!!

    • @marshamcghie8407
      @marshamcghie8407 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@rashaadbrown175 ..This ia all true. This information has been out there for 40 years both in articles and other biographies on Marvin Gaye.Jan just decided to confirm it in her book

  • @KJ-xc6qs
    @KJ-xc6qs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I ordered Janis' book today. How ironic that of all people, Rick James helped her reach sobriety. Always loved his music too. Apparently, we mere humans are composed of many strengths, weaknesses, and contradictions.

  • @lanacampbell-moore4549
    @lanacampbell-moore4549 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Michael Jackson was my first crush when he moonwalked on Motown 25 I instantly fell in love lol😍

    • @tkkirkland8376
      @tkkirkland8376 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      U is Michael Jackson

    • @khartgarrett
      @khartgarrett 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yep same for me. I even taught myself to moonwalk and won a dance contest at school. I was 9 years old lol

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's a cute story, Lana Campbell-Moore! Thank you so much for watching and commenting!

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@khartgarrett you go girl! LOL!

    • @lanacampbell-moore4549
      @lanacampbell-moore4549 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TisHotMessHistory Thank you & I love your channel 👌😊

  • @Trillmermaidxxx
    @Trillmermaidxxx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    It's sad she was definitely groomed she need guidance 😔

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I agree that she was groomed. It really is sad, Likah Spivey.

  • @Lioness417
    @Lioness417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Frankie Beverly was too damn fine in his prime wooooo weeeeee

  • @pg3460
    @pg3460 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm sitting here flabbergasted. I really loved Marvin back in the day but I never knew all of this smh

  • @theogberkeleygirl
    @theogberkeleygirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    The Anna and Marvin story is one to tell cause she sent him on a whole rollercoaster the here my dear album was about her

    • @odot8148
      @odot8148 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      My favorite body of work ever made, purple rain is the only thing remotely close. Feels like Marvin is with me whenever I play that album. Criminally underrated piece of work by Marvin.

    • @foreveringrid5821
      @foreveringrid5821 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      The Album was mostly about Anna Gordy.. It was the last hold of anything She was Holding over Him. She also got the proceeds from the Album.

    • @brandigrogan83
      @brandigrogan83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yes. He let the album flop intentionally, so she contemplated suing him.

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I just might tell their story. It is on my list of potential topics. Thank you so much for watching and commenting, Simply Felicia!

    • @hand2handmc
      @hand2handmc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@foreveringrid5821 one of the best double albums ever made right up there with Stevie wonder songs n the key of life

  • @jaye8872
    @jaye8872 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I read Janis' book and you have more information about her than that book does. I had no idea that her mother was white and that she was biracial. You give more detail about your biographies. Janis just shares what she wants people to know. I love your site and will always keep coming back!

    • @johnnyman9513
      @johnnyman9513 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      might be fairytales, janis didnt say alot of those things quote claims she said etc.. only marvin and janis really knew the fine details so where is all this info if not from them two?

  • @cosmicneuromelanatedgoddess
    @cosmicneuromelanatedgoddess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Damn BM been colorist for decades 😂

    • @suzycarmichael933
      @suzycarmichael933 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Facts!!!!!!

    • @blackirishrose4040
      @blackirishrose4040 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      And that's why I don't fuck with them because every time they get money they leave us for the biracials or Becky's.
      They display aggressive behavior when we do not submit to em.....

    • @cosmicneuromelanatedgoddess
      @cosmicneuromelanatedgoddess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@blackirishrose4040 I definitely agree

    • @yvonce7309
      @yvonce7309 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@blackirishrose4040 Non black women get the same bad treatment as BW.
      Don’t fool yourself.

    • @tabbypanda82
      @tabbypanda82 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Extremely disheartening😒

  • @msohsosolo
    @msohsosolo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Ti, you’ve done another FABULOUS job on this piece. This is definitely your lane & no one does it as thorough & eloquent as you!👈🏾👏🏾🤩🏆

    • @HoneySuckle123
      @HoneySuckle123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

    • @KeeKeeSoto
      @KeeKeeSoto 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agreed 🥰

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      WOW! Thank you so much for the compliment, Ms OhSoSolo!

    • @HoneySuckle123
      @HoneySuckle123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TisHotMessHistory Yes, we appreciate your work Queen 👑

    • @HoneySuckle123
      @HoneySuckle123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@KeeKeeSoto Just subscribed to your channel 🥰

  • @jazzymoni7750
    @jazzymoni7750 3 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    It's amazing what stars were able to get away with back in the day before social media. Their indiscretions were fiercely guarded and protected. Every now and then you would hear rumors, but only the really bad stories broke into mainstream media and that was rare. Celebrities had the allure of mystery because what they did offstage or offscreen was left to the imagination. As a child of the early 70s, I liked it better back then. The good thing for today's world is that predators are outted faster because of social media.

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I understand what you're saying. I was born in the mid 70's and I liked thinking that celebrities were larger than life and mysterious. As an adult, I like knowing that they are just regular people with extraordinary talent. Some of them are good people and some are horrible. Thank you for commenting, Jazzy Moni!

    • @oliviapearson7856
      @oliviapearson7856 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Celebrities, ministers, priests.....

    • @assiabenslimane2589
      @assiabenslimane2589 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is still the same the power to be out only who they want 😂

    • @God-Love-Freedom
      @God-Love-Freedom ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not just celebrities - this mess is enabled throughout Black culture.

    • @bettiefullum1138
      @bettiefullum1138 ปีที่แล้ว

      So so sad fir sll involved marvin,anna an jan and so the children

  • @DonaldSmith3xs
    @DonaldSmith3xs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    WTF Marvin...I knew his life had a tragic ending but never knew he was on this weird shyt like a lot of these other mainstream artists

    • @majik31401
      @majik31401 ปีที่แล้ว

      ITS IN HIS AUTOBIO DIVIDED SOUL RELEASED 1984

  • @harleypage5789
    @harleypage5789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    When I was a teenager I was NEVER attracted to men that much older, I don't understand

  • @SmarterNotHarderIn2024
    @SmarterNotHarderIn2024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    In Janis' book with David Ritz, she talked about Marvin Gaye's insecurities and stage fright. He turned down A LOT of opportunities to make money. One minute he would accept a gig and then weeks later would turn it down. He knew he was gifted but he was also afraid of not being accepted. He put her through a great deal of ish!

    • @monilaninetynine3811
      @monilaninetynine3811 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Marvin was unbelievably insecure and had the lowest self esteem in the world. The sad thing is everything he did to Jan, he was also doing to himself.

    • @liveyourbestsoftlife5705
      @liveyourbestsoftlife5705 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Typical

    • @commanderwatchman9994
      @commanderwatchman9994 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Talented but a bunch of whack-jobs!

    • @sugarae7461
      @sugarae7461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I read “After the Dance” and according to her it was after they broke up that she slept with Teddy, Frankie Beverly (who he had a major crush on) and Rick James (who was responsible for getting her clean).

    • @miagrass
      @miagrass 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@monilaninetynine3811 well when you think about it that why he had a partner that woman who sing with ain't no mountain everything was great until her death and he was alone with no on that stage with him.

  • @miaporche2256
    @miaporche2256 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    That lady was so beautiful!

    • @byronjones9299
      @byronjones9299 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And that is where it starts , not that it's any of her fault. ( Alledgedly )

    • @octavianapanait1918
      @octavianapanait1918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Beautiful but..only this unfortunatelly.

  • @lionfromjam7282
    @lionfromjam7282 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Sade was, and still is (45 years later) my celebrity crush. Listening to her music was like being on a date with her. I have all her albums and concerts videos which I still listen/ watch at least once a month.

    • @marygraden-wyatt2713
      @marygraden-wyatt2713 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Maybe 35 lol

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She's a beautiful woman. Thank you for watching and commenting, LionFromJam!

    • @ricolewis2949
      @ricolewis2949 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hang On To Your Love is probably the greatest song ever

    • @bettiefullum1138
      @bettiefullum1138 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We dont knowbwhat marvin endured growing up, he was molested by an uncle. Too sad,for him, his family and wives. Can you imagine sonebody always needing something froom you?from money to having to take car e of your family,no.peace

    • @Basketballdad0308
      @Basketballdad0308 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Pleasure Principal Janet Jackson, I would watch the video 100 times on VHS!

  • @mizzobjectiveone3819
    @mizzobjectiveone3819 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He was a sick man; holding a young girl hostage while he was married, threatening his father, using drugs, and paranoia. I'll never listen to his music with the same ear again.

  • @lindaadams1008
    @lindaadams1008 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Ti, I never knew all of this information... Thanks for the story...

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm always thrilled when I get to share these stories with people who are new to the information. Thank you for giving my channel a try. Thank you so much for watching and commenting, Linda Adams!

  • @kayesmith9781
    @kayesmith9781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    He tried so hard not to be like his father that he was just like him.... he did not like it when his father was hitting and miss treatment his mother.

    • @1agelessbeauty
      @1agelessbeauty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He father, never hit his wife. Get the facts!!!

    • @kayesmith9781
      @kayesmith9781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      By book his sister wrote he did

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes Kaye Smith. It seems like Marvin just couldn't outrun being just like his father. Thank you so much for watching and commenting.

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@1agelessbeauty most biographical pieces on Marvin Gaye, including the ones in which he contributed material, state that Marvin's father would beat his mother as well as Marvin and his siblings. Kaye has the facts.

  • @artofmickeypicasso9191
    @artofmickeypicasso9191 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It's a tragedy. I will remember him for his music. The rest is between him and the creator. Ain't nobody perfect.

  • @KW-nl8mo
    @KW-nl8mo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I Love Nona Gaye. She’s a Beautiful young lady. Now I know who her Mother is. Her Mama went through a lot!!!

  • @clarencephillips526
    @clarencephillips526 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This was very eye opening, I’ve always had these high thoughts about Marvin. Of course I do understand his situation gave him privileges that gave him power and the majority of people can’t handle power. I’m just more informed..Thanks for sharing

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank YOU for watching and being open to hearing what I had to say, CLARENCE PHILLIPS.

  • @msjerseyd-thc
    @msjerseyd-thc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    All I could hear was rick james song "17" playing in my head when u first started..😂 wow! Great video as always!

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's funny! Because no lie, I kept thinking about Super Freak, but thinking about Janis's mother as the lyrics were playing in my head, MsJerseyd - THC!

    • @msjerseyd-thc
      @msjerseyd-thc 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TisHotMessHistory Now that's funny..lol

    • @christinagraham2915
      @christinagraham2915 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Was that song about her

    • @msjerseyd-thc
      @msjerseyd-thc 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@christinagraham2915 yea right..I wonder!

  • @collettedaniels3884
    @collettedaniels3884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    My first celebrity crush was Jean-Claude Van Damme. I look back at Double Impact and go “Lord what was I thinking?” Then again, I was only in the sixth grade.

    • @fayemijumoke
      @fayemijumoke 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah you're both right Van Damme was damn handsome when he was younger. He's also called the muscles from Brussels!

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      LOL! That's cute Collette! Back then, I can understand it. I think that you might be the second person in this comment section to name him.

  • @211sweetypie
    @211sweetypie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I've heard a different version of the cheating. It's said that Marvin encouraged Jan to cheat with other men and that he himself would cross dress in private when he was alone in Hawaii. He was truly a tortured soul. R.I.P Marvin.🌹

    • @traceysbodytreats257
      @traceysbodytreats257 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Very tortured.

    • @theresagallagher9161
      @theresagallagher9161 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Don't make excuses for him..... tortured soul? He had no soul. A voice yeah but no soul.

    • @cookiengreg2752
      @cookiengreg2752 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yup! There’s a book she wrote. He was g@y too.

    • @kennethvidales7581
      @kennethvidales7581 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@theresagallagher9161 did you know that Marvin was abused by an uncle? It's harsh to say he had no soul.

    • @lmiller6675
      @lmiller6675 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cookiengreg2752 I didn’t read that in the book.

  • @adriannetatum8899
    @adriannetatum8899 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    My all time crush was big black fine as "vintage wine" Gerald Levert, the teddy bear😍😷

  • @Marimarr59
    @Marimarr59 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I never knew any of this...I'm completely blown away by this to the freaking point of never ever listening to his music ever again!
    He was a demon in disguise!!

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Nancy Arellano! I'm glad that I could share some new information with you. I never knew A LOT of Marvin Gaye's story until I started doing research for this channel and I can't listen to him anymore either. Thank you for commenting.

    • @lmiller6675
      @lmiller6675 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I will definitely continue listening to his music. You people are a trip. If she loved him so much why write about him treats after his death and after being divorced for years . She didn’t have to participate in any of the things that she did. She was young but knew exactly what she was doing. Did you all read the book about what she said about trying to seduce him and was going to do whatever to make sure she had him. She could have left at any time

  • @lsmith6718
    @lsmith6718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    My celebrity crush was El Debarge. Still is💕

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have seen a number of women here name him. Thank you so much for watching and commenting, L Smith!

    • @sabrinasincerely7488
      @sabrinasincerely7488 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😍

    • @helenhamilton9561
      @helenhamilton9561 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bobby, Chico

    • @majik31401
      @majik31401 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TisHotMessHistory AND THE DEBARGES HAVE A MAJOR SAGA TOO

  • @Topicsorare
    @Topicsorare 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Trigger Warning frfr! Never ever ever put another human on a pedestal because we all have a shadow side for real. This story is crazy.

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's good advice. EVERYONE has that dark side.

  • @dorancoleman2377
    @dorancoleman2377 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    That was one legendary live chat bio of Marvin Gaye I loved it can't wait till your next live chat

    • @queenladybug1702
      @queenladybug1702 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shucks, I missed the live chat 😔

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you very much, Doran Coleman! I will post it on my Community Tab and on Twitter when I go live again. I hope that you can come!

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@queenladybug1702 I hope that you can catch the next one!

    • @queenladybug1702
      @queenladybug1702 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TisHotMessHistory absolutely 💯

  • @lorrisanders9772
    @lorrisanders9772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    So sad...her childhood made her so vulnerable and weak...

  • @cecilyoung5042
    @cecilyoung5042 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It is so sad that a Black man could try to destroy such a very young , innocent ,and sensitive young Black female.
    I question if he truly loved her or if he only saw her as asexual conquest .
    One would think that he would love her and give her the security that she needed after what she has endured .
    So sad of a story.

  • @TARAsiNSPIRATION
    @TARAsiNSPIRATION 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    My 1st celebrity crush and still is Walter Williams of the Ojays. I love his smooth voice, the way he moves is just so cool, he has swag. As a little girl, I would daydream that we were married.

    • @Dougie19xx
      @Dougie19xx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      TOO damn fine!!!

    • @dwatson3995
      @dwatson3995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Right!!!

    • @nicolemjackson3118
      @nicolemjackson3118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Walter is STILL Handsome🖤

    • @justdevine864
      @justdevine864 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How sweet!

    • @renla71
      @renla71 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I've always loved that man and his voice. I just didn't know why because I was just a little girl but now I realize I was crushing on him. LOL

  • @boastenandbraggin3947
    @boastenandbraggin3947 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I have seen several of your videos but was reluctant to subscribe. But this video put the nail in the coffin. You're definitely thorough and consistent. You've gained a subscriber.

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I appreciate your taking a thorough look at my channel. Thank you for even giving my channel a try. Thank you so much for watching and subscribing, Boasten And Braggin! I release these old school gossip videos once a week. I live stream a little too. In case you are interested, Oran Juice Jones live streams with us every other Thursday. I hope that you enjoy it here!

  • @neldab2
    @neldab2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    this should show these young Girl, the results and pitfalls, of a child in an Adult world,

  • @oumsu1162
    @oumsu1162 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for sharing this story. It made sense to me.

  • @_Don_C
    @_Don_C 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    We need the movie for this story

  • @faithford9143
    @faithford9143 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I used to get so jealous when I was listening to Marvin gays music he was singing to Janice. he will call her names out in the song that I love and I’m like who is this Janice Lady, now I see she was beautiful. Michael Jackson

    • @queenkaili3243
      @queenkaili3243 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same! Whole time, there was trouble in paradise 😂

    • @faithford9143
      @faithford9143 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@queenkaili3243 That makes me feel a little better now so sad to say

    • @LoveFirstYou
      @LoveFirstYou 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry, I'm not sure why you've ended your comment with Michael Jackson. Can you please explain? Was it Michael Jackson who stated those words that you wrote?

    • @faithford9143
      @faithford9143 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@LoveFirstYou She asked who was your first celebrity singer That you crushed on I said Michael Jackson

    • @LoveFirstYou
      @LoveFirstYou 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@faithford9143 Got it! Thank you.

  • @brendaholliday6866
    @brendaholliday6866 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Ti, I enjoyed your old school video about Marvin Gaye and his second wife, Janis. I had no idea that this young teenager had not only experienced a horrific childhood but an adulthood, as well. I once heard a psychiatrist say that "we're genuinely comfortable with the surroundings that we grow up in as adults," of course there's always exceptions. I was thrilled to hear that Janis is in recovery from drugs, I hope that she's doing well. Great investigating of this video, as you always do. Also, I was shocked to hear that Rick James helped Janis to get off drugs. Take care 💞

    • @rosajohnson5212
      @rosajohnson5212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was shocked to hear Rick James helped her get off drugs as well!!! Thank God he showed his caring side!!! Whoo!!!

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Brenda, I think that the most shocking part of this story for me was the part about Rick James too. Thank you so much for coming to the premiere! See you Sunday! Have a great week!

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@rosajohnson5212 Amen to that!

    • @mirandabarnes5316
      @mirandabarnes5316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Didn't rick James overdose?🤔🤔

    • @adriennerobinson1180
      @adriennerobinson1180 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Truth Indeed

  • @tmarie3878
    @tmarie3878 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Ti 😳OMG!!!!! Marvin Gaye couldn't help himself. His dad was a very sick dude 💯 I remember reading that Marvin's mom said that his dad NEVER loved Marvin, so so 😢 sad. Keep it coming To I truly love your voice and commentary. Love from Texas ❤️

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I will definitely keep the stories coming, T Marie! I release new Old School Scandal every week. Thank you so much for watching and commenting! Love right back from Texas!

    • @blaze0073
      @blaze0073 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I also read something that said Marvin’s dad used to dress up like a woman!!! I know that had to be real deep!! WOW

    • @traeucity6087
      @traeucity6087 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Couldn't help himself?

    • @majik31401
      @majik31401 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TisHotMessHistory I'D LIKE A VIDEO ON JOHNNY JACKSON THE JACKSON 5 DRUMMER

  • @GenaYuvetteDavis
    @GenaYuvetteDavis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Actually, Marvin was shot by his father on a Sunday in 1984. I was in high school and heard the news on the radio,1580 KDAY in Los Angeles. I was at my part-time job in Century City. I was blown away and was so sad that day. None of us could work. We just sat there in disbelief.🥺😢😭

    • @johnking9174
      @johnking9174 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was also in high school Ms. Davis. I also remember it being around noon on Sunday (est in Philly) as we were cleaning the house when the announcement came on from 105.3 WDAS-FM

  • @yvonneemberton4508
    @yvonneemberton4508 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow, that moment when you stop feeling bad because your not alone 👏

  • @aimeemoore1094
    @aimeemoore1094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    That's why he had so many demons cause he was never living right

    • @capcitymediagroup831
      @capcitymediagroup831 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      That started with his father

    • @aimeemoore1094
      @aimeemoore1094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@capcitymediagroup831 true and his mother. His dad was a preacher but walking around in woman clothing in the streets of DC

    • @capcitymediagroup831
      @capcitymediagroup831 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@aimeemoore1094 yeah got teased cause of that and his last name he kept trying to please his father up until the last day of his life.....he also over masculinity with woman to keep trying to prove he wasn't gay....hus father really messes him up

    • @aimeemoore1094
      @aimeemoore1094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@capcitymediagroup831 right so many of these famous black families back then with big issues. He also got his first wife 15 year old niece pregnant so they could have a baby. What about Jermaine jackson married his brother ex wife and having kids with her. Yes, this been going on before I was born and to this day. But I still be mind blown cause it's so nasty

    • @aimeemoore1094
      @aimeemoore1094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@capcitymediagroup831 then he trick out his second wife and took advantage of her cause she was young. She was so beautiful and still is. Plus I'm sure most of the time he was high on whatever

  • @adriannetatum8899
    @adriannetatum8899 3 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    If we took these stars background to heart we'd be listening to NOTHING! Just appreciate the wonderful music they made😍😷

    • @BinkyWomack
      @BinkyWomack 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yea!! Mind yo Business. Why do you do all these 50yr old dig up dirt gossip stories??

    • @wonderwoman66dp
      @wonderwoman66dp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@BinkyWomack why are u watching it? Don't be mad cuz wats done in the dark is brought to the light. U must have a nasty secretive past . . .

    • @wonderwoman66dp
      @wonderwoman66dp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      *Adrianne Tatum* I for 1, wldnt mind not listening to anything, cuz I'm canceling scumbags left & right. But, to each his own.

    • @shiabutterfly8361
      @shiabutterfly8361 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@wonderwoman66dp well you might as well turn off the tv and radio foreeeevvvvaaa

    • @BinkyWomack
      @BinkyWomack 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@wonderwoman66dp I was trying to find one that wasn't based on hear say and gossip.

  • @creating1_c1999
    @creating1_c1999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Janis wasn't the first young girl he courted, let's not exclude Bianca Lawson's mom (Denise Gordy) who had that child (Marvin III) he was raising with Anna.

  • @doreenbruton8745
    @doreenbruton8745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Rest, in peace'Marvin Gaye'💔💌😘

    • @justiceastobe1097
      @justiceastobe1097 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Rest in peace????? Really? Am not sure.....

  • @Lioness417
    @Lioness417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is why I stay FARRRRRRRR away from older men

  • @3xbadboy264
    @3xbadboy264 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Denise Williams.....my first crush🤩🤩 as a young man! "Silly"...still love this song 'til this day! And, of course, Denise still looks awesome!

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She was and still is beautiful. I love that song and have always been a fan of her voice. Thank you so much for watching and commenting, B Mdx!

    • @3xbadboy264
      @3xbadboy264 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TisHotMessHistory
      My pleasure! I enjoy watching your vids! You have a great voice for narration, as well as love your comments and sense of humor!
      After watching your vids, I've learned a lot of unknown info on a variety of artists such as, Marvin Gaye, Teddy Pendergrass, Al Green, and especially Bobby Womack. I grew up reading/learning about them, but didn't know all of the 'details'...so what you share is definitely informative.
      Yes, Denise Williams and Vanessa Williams were the first 2 women I had a crush on (despite the Penthouse scandal with Vanessa).
      I saw the pics of her as I got older and just wondered 'why'?...or assumed about her preference. However, when I saw her on Oprah's show, finally, I understood why.
      What's funny about Denise, I loved "Silly", as a young man but had no clue what is was about! I loved her voice but mostly the arrangement of the music! It's truly amazing how we can enjoy so many different things and Not truly understand the messages that are hidden! (TV shows, music, music vids, etc).
      Thanks for taking the time to respond directly to me....you're awesome! And yes, I am a subscriber!
      If you need content ideas, or just want to share something or get my opinion, please feel free to drop a line. If interested, I can pass on my email address.
      Keep up the great work!
      Keep in touch and look forward to your next vid!

    • @ricolewis2949
      @ricolewis2949 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Let’s Hear It For The Boy

  • @3rdbass618
    @3rdbass618 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I’ve been following the content on your channel for a minute and I love hearing stories about old soul artists. Thanks for sharing the content. Do you think you could find information about David Ruffin and Tammi Terrell’s relationship?

    • @MichelleLuvn25
      @MichelleLuvn25 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That relationship was horrible they were so toxic together..... sad outcome

    • @3rdbass618
      @3rdbass618 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MichelleLuvn25 I heard they went at it like cats and dogs. But I also heard the relationship Tammi had with James Brown was toxic as well.

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you so much for giving my channel a try. I'm so thankful to see that you are enjoying the content. I'm sure that I can find info on David Ruffin and Tammi Terrell, but I would need an angle. I know that it doesn't jump out at a glance to everyone, but I like to tell little known stories about well known people. If you can give me a lesser known aspect of the relationship, I'd be happy to do the research and produce a video on it. Thank you so much for watching and commenting, Robert H.!

    • @3rdbass618
      @3rdbass618 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TisHotMessHistory okay 👌 gotchu you’re welcome and thank you so much for the feedback.

  • @HoneySuckle123
    @HoneySuckle123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I enjoy these videos so much sister. I’m inviting some of my younger friends to watch these fabulous videos 😘 TY Queen

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so thankful to know that you are enjoying my content. Thank you so much for giving my channel a try. And thank you for sharing my content with your friends! That really means a lot to me, Kasondra Amoore!

  • @tkkirkland8376
    @tkkirkland8376 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Why is everyone so hard on R. Kelly when most of them R&B singers from back then dated or married underage teenage girls like Elvis & many more but nobody talk about them its always R. Kelly like he the only one💯

    • @blujee1
      @blujee1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sad but true. So many other celebs groomed there young loves. Anyone remember Robert Wagner and Natalie woods?

    • @dawnywarthog6642
      @dawnywarthog6642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Not just R&B. Rock is known for their teenage groupies in the 70's. Then there's Jerry Lee Lewis who married his teenage (14, I think) cousin. Roman Polanski too. It seems endless.

    • @504Diva
      @504Diva 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Because that was back then. Dating a 17 yr old was wrong then but it was more common. Today is today and R fuxin Kelly new better.

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      TK Kirkland, ALL of those disgusting men are wrong, including R Kelly. I hope that you're not suggesting that R Kelly should get away with crimes against teens just because some other men got away with it.

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@504Diva EXACTLY. R Kelly knew what he was doing and I have no sympathy for him.

  • @gifted14sho
    @gifted14sho ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love the background music in your videos. It's so relaxing and it compliments your commentary well.

  • @BubbubTopps
    @BubbubTopps 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    The gift and the curse. Marvin made "Sanctified Lady" after his many failed relationships. He derived from a dysfunctional family himself; his father was a cross dresser and an abuser. Unfortunately these cycles are generational and become the fabric of cursed families. Marvin Gaye brought relief to the masses with his genius writing and silky voice but could not relieve his own Soul which led to his tragic demise!

    • @majik31401
      @majik31401 ปีที่แล้ว

      PRODUCT OF ABUSE & HYPOCRISY

  • @sweetielee9193
    @sweetielee9193 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I love this channel and finally subscribed. Marvun was more than a mess. He was a sexual demon. I'm so glad Janis survived.

    • @TisHotMessHistory
      @TisHotMessHistory  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hi Sweetie Lee! I'm with you. I'm really glad that Janis was able to get away. Marvin was dangerous. I'm so thankful to read that you love this channel. Thank you so much for watching and subscribing! I get these little known scandal videos out every week and I live stream here and there. I try to post everything that's going to happen with this channel on my Community Tab. And now, if you want, you can also get text notifications by letting me know that you want them. Text 786-632-2135 to get a notification a few minutes before I release a video. I hope that you continue to enjoy it here!
      By the way, in case you watch Real Housewives of Atlanta, we are live streaming about the upcoming season this afternoon/evening at 4:20 pm. You can check it out here:
      th-cam.com/video/y8mC8dXRsPU/w-d-xo.html

    • @rosemaryrogers1478
      @rosemaryrogers1478 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What do you mean? Thanks

  • @MKRob
    @MKRob 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Marvin Gaye was my first celebrity crush but now I'm a bit disgusted. Damn! My fantasy was just ruined.

    • @nickilema1074
      @nickilema1074 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How old were you when you were crushing on him?

    • @MKRob
      @MKRob 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nickilema1074I was about 16. That was when I was introduced to his music.

  • @juicyhudson513.
    @juicyhudson513. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Man i never knew Marvin was like this yo he was on some R. Kelly shit.

    • @monica62888
      @monica62888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly

    • @myylegib8119
      @myylegib8119 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      No he wasn’t 🤣🤣🤣

    • @churchnelly548
      @churchnelly548 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Since Marvin was born first, it's R. Kelly that's on some Marvin Gaye sh**!!!