Mr supreme state wasn’t there to eat. He used the changing table as an excuse to leave after using the bathroom. I’d have told him he’s already a woman because he’s acting like he’s having PMS.
@@unreasonable-man.bsky.social Thank you! That was one of the most made-up, overly exaggerated tales I've heard yet. OP needs to come up with more creative lies that aren't so obvious.
First story: Guarantee the friend didn't demand the husband give him money or else ge couldn't go. Friend probably talked to him about cancelling the trip because his vehicle broke down and selling the baby's stuff was husbands way of making sure the trip still happened. Hubby is selfish.
A good solution I see all around is men's bathroom, women's bathroom, and a third for disabled/baby change bathroom. Then there's also sufficient place for everything in there and nobody complains if it takes a bit more time to get things taken care of
Story 1: I hope he enjoys his trip because that's all he have to do once OP divorces his ass away...oh...don't forget the alimony and child support....
And, hopefully OP lawyer will make sure that the judge knows what kind of a shit is was for selling those baby gifts and what he did with the money he got from selling them.
Story one: OP is NTA. The gifts weren't half her husband's, they were ALL the baby's gifts. Poor bugger is going to have an absent father because their father is a selfish d*ckhead who has already demonstrated his friend is more important to him than his partner and child. Sorry, OP, if you see this. At least you aren't the A.
I wish OP had included that she called the guy friend and ratted her husband out to him about how/where he came up with the money used to fix his vehicle. Now THAT would have been interesting if he tore OP's husband a new one for being such a shit as to sell gifts for his unborn child. I mean, seriously, who does something like that?
@@tinydancer7426 Drug addicts. I have seen them starve their children to death just so they could get another hit and stay high. Let their babies freeze to death because they were too strung out to put them in their coat with them. (Woman had already sold the babies blankets for drugs.) When caught after neglecting their kids to death, they claim they are victims too. Wound up a single father at 41 for a while because a relative tried to starve his daughter to death and the mother was no better. Both parents claimed they were the victims and the child was to blame. Not a good experience but we survived it together. Today the girl is a college graduate with a degree in biochemistry. I’m just old. And yes, single fathers do use the changing tables in the mens restrooms.
Rather the man-child not be around and MAYBE have a relationship with them once they grow up than a selfish AH who is absent in emotion and mentality (possibly physically as well as we see he cares more for his friends than his unborn kid)
first story: i would've started getting divorced papers ready as soon as those words left his mouth. the absolute audacity and disrespect is disgusting. if he's capable of having that level of selfishness BEFORE the child is born imagine how he'll be AFTER. he needs to go pronto. maybe him and the dog abuser will get along fine in hell.
First story, uhhh divorce. Divorce ASAP. If he's willing to go behind your back and sell "non-essential baby shower gifts"(basically his words, not mine) without your permission, what else is he willing to do? He's putting his friends first before his CHILD??? His UNBORN CHILD??? NAHHHH sis, dump his a**💀
Our neighbour tried to kick our dog. I told him if he tried that one more time, nobody would ever find him. People in our town know I don't do threaths, I make promisses.
Same, I’m like a mama bear when it comes to my dog, and cats, if she did that to my dog, she’d be eating baby food, for the rest of her miserable stuck up life.
Story 1: This is stealing, the Husband is also selfish, he didn't use the money to pay bills or give his' wife better gifts but to go on a trip without his' wife
he is not upset because people found out. He said he thinks that OP told them some sob story to make him look bad. Meaning he is even more stupid because OP does not need a sob story, the truth is more than enough!
Haha i fully agree. Just listening to it i imagined walking outside and clocking the woman with a right hook between the eyes without having exchanged a word xD
Absolutely! Not even a god could save someone like that from my wrath! It is up to their god to judge them but it would be a hell of a pleasure to send them to god!
Agreed. There was a lady I used to Know whom I was friends with until I realized how damn entitled she was. Even worse, she was raising her kids to be just like her. I used to bring my dog over, until I realized that her son thought that animals were toys. A result of non-existent inconsistent discipline, having no healthy respect for boundaries, zero regard for the word no being a complete sentence and nothing resembling a sense of accountability, this kid was already a holy terror at age six. I remember when he was about 10, when I was over there and brought my fluff ball dog with me. I told him to leave my dog alone as she wasn't used to children. He completely ignored me and his mother scolded me for scolding her child. No surprise there. Then he aggravated my dog to the point she nipped at him. He hit her. I got a hold of him pushed him against the wall and yelled at him in his face until he was in tears. His mother tried to get on my case for yelling at her precious baby. I told her what he did. She tried to brush it off as “just playing.” Him being far past the age to where it was somewhat expected for children to throw tantrums when they don't get their way, he threw himself to the ground then began kicking and pounding the floor with his fists. His mother tried to make me out to be the bad guy for upsetting her son. I told her she was raising a monster. I added that because of her spoiling and overindulging of him, it was absolutely certain that he would eventually raise a hand to her or end up standing before a judge. She did not like that. I cut contact with her when her son was about 13 and I heard, through the grapevine, unsurprisingly, that much of my prediction came to pass.
If the guy wants to act like he's a single guy, with no kids again, then I would just oblige, and serve him with divorce papers, and of course ask for full custody.
Full, physical custody AND child support until the child finishes college (and regularly reviewed for increases to match cost of living increases) and alimony.
Yes. OP needs to really reevaluate this marriage. Who sells their baby shower gifts, especially since it's your child? The husband just proved that his wife and child will never be a priority in his life.
That last story had me laughing SO HARD!!!!!!! "Can I have my ear back?" If I'd witnessed this, I would have actually wet my pants laughing, I kid you not. That was brilliant.
As a soon-to-be geezer (and native Southerner, although mercifully not from Texas) I have changed many diapers and I must say that there is nothing “soft” about the people who do it. But parenting changes a person, or should. It turned me, a fastidiously clean borderline germaphobe, into someone who could look down at his shirt, shrug, and just say “Hell, if it dries clear, I don’t care.”
@@whatthemusicknows same I have a feeling my Dad changed my nasty as heck diaper at least 3 times and he probably didn’t care as long as I was clean and happy Honestly I want to be a single father just spite people like him and I WILL be DARN good one
You’d be lucky to be from Texas! Lol That said, I don’t know anyone like that at all, and I’ve known many a man from Texas, since I was born and raised here and all. All of the Texas men that I know of are more than happy to participate in the care of their children, including diapers - well, as happy as you can be about diapering, because it’s nobody’s favorite job of baby care.
@@whatthemusicknows He does seem a bit off, it is true. And I’m sure his opinion about diaper changing is not representative, but his opinion of Texas seems pretty standard. All in good fun here, btw. I can only wish I came from a place where pride would not be so… misplaced.
Just reading the title and god, I’ve BEEN there Had a wifie try to grab my arm, I have PTSD and a walking cane, so I twisted her arm and stood up properly, like she was trying to drag me out the disabled bus seat. I just calmly stared at her and loudly asked “Am I not crippled enough for you, ma’am, or do you require my full health records to deem me eligible for the disabled seat?” A nearby passenger called her a c*nt loudly, someone pressed the bell to stop the bus at the next stop and alerted the driver, and she was unceremoniously kicked off the bus whilst rambling about me being “too young to be disabled”, and “doesn’t look disabled”, like ma’am, I’m legally blind, have PTSD, have mobility issues and honestly a Pokémon collection of disabilities and autoimmune disorders, if I, a cripple with a walking cane who is visibly crippled, is not allowed the disabled seat, then prey tell who TF is?! Thankfully haven’t been bothered in the past few years, but in my late 20’s I had this sort of behaviour happen a few times, because apparently I’m just “too young” to have permanent disabilities. Like man, I WISH that’s how disabilities worked! So yeah, I relate to the title ALONE all too well.
Yiiiikes. Glad to know there's people willing to take your side, though. I also have disabilities that necessitate me sitting on a bus, but I don't have a cane or other visible indication. I'm so worried of something like that happening to me that I just stand anyway if there's no seats; I wobble and ache the whole time, but at least I can do that much.
I really like the way you described what was going on and the experience that you had in your past. Sorry you got disabilities To manage. Some people can be real turkeys about . it all that entitled behavior is exhausting. Best of luck to you
@@hauntedshadowslegacy2826 ngl I’ve deffo been harassed when younger when I didn’t rely on a walking cane, I would maintain eye contact with nosy idiots whilst taking meds (always have a backpack, with mini dispensary!), most folk just left me too it and figured “huh, she probably needs the disabled seat, should leave her alone” but I did get occasional comments, a lot less common now with the cane.
@@ZombieSazza I've needed a cane since I was 25 after getting out of the military. On bad days, I'm in a wheelchair and the VA even prescribed a walker for me that I use from time to time. I had to start wearing my Marine Corps hat all the time to deter people from saying shit to me. Then, they just asked if I was hurt in combat, which was also not their business, but easier to deal with then people thinking I'm faking it. I really hate people sometimes. 😅
What in the world gives people the entitlement that they can determine if you are disabled or not? I apologize to anyone who has been hassled by idiots about they "perceived" wellness. I am 60 years old, still active and get up when an elderly person gets on the bus. If I see someone who is struggling I get up on the bus, if I see someone in a suit and tie with an expression of utter weariness I get up on a bus. It is called courtesy.
Story 1: Absolutely not the a**hole. The husband is. The baby's needs should come first. Story2: Complaining about a changing table, saying, "Changing diapers is the mother's job." What if something happened to the mother? That man needs to seriously get a life. Story 3: Medical conditions don't discriminate based on age.
Story 1 - selfish, entitled husband -!!!!!!! My initial gut reaction - LOSE Him, keep the baby! Story 4....as someone who suffers from chronic pain, and who has to take a similar cocktail of meds - my sympathies. As for the Karen-!!!! Police should have been called, because what she did was assault, and it is clear OP was suffered serious mental trauma as a result. Story 5 - attacking a dog like that? That woman is abusive and crazy, I hope she get the book thrown at her. Last story - Give me my ear back 🤣😂🤣😂🤣
I felt the same way listening to old lady bus story while my horrible neuropathy is blowing up both my legs and feet…couldn’t even kick that bitches ass if I was there in person. I am gonna add though that although the moment was intense to OP he/she is acting a bit too plus in the post-trauma scene…scared to go out anymore and has to take a cab now? Rigggght
I remember hearing the last story before and I still laugh about it, that will teach a Karen not to pull off a person's earbuds without "accidentally" pulling off their ear as well....
Change table Texan story: Texan comes in, "orders his sandwich" and heads to the bathroom. Yet, at the end, he "leaves without even ordering anything". Yeah, I'm calling bullshit.
That whole story smells of bullshit. Stereotypical version of what most people think Texans are like. I'm surprised he didn't say the guy was wearing cowboy boots and a ten-gallon hat! 😂 I grew up in Dallas, Texas, and changing tables in men's rooms, and also family restrooms are pretty common there and have been for the past 30 years or so. I know, because my son is turning 30 next month, and I remember using the changing table in a men's restroom at the mall once when the ladies room was out-of-order.
@@LazyIRanch Exactly, it reads like some kid trying to insult Texans. Who goes into a “Subway” and announces they are from Texas and calls it the King state or whatever the term was.?!
@@condar419the store wasn't subway Jimmy johns or Quiznos as those are nation wide & op said the chain he works for is only in his state also the guy called Texas the "supreme state" this guy sounds like the kind of guy who can't cook clean or take care of himself in any way shape or form because he views those things as "womens work"
Story 1: op is not the a-hole since the husband clearly cares more about the way he's viewed than preparing for his child. Bus story: poor op! That sounds awful! I hope that crazy karen gets caught by karma asap! Last story: what an 'earful' 🤣
@PrincessSerena91 The crazy Karen was kicked off the bus, thanks to the bus driver. I think she was probably arrested for assault on a disabled person.
Dad says everyone is right about that first story. Now about the second story, if you ever have a Texan brag about being from the "Supreme State" just tell them you are from Alaska and to be quiet or you'll get Alaska divided in two and make Texas the third largest state.
I've heard the above reasons as well as lots of stories/jokes abt Alaska vs. Texas, and one favorite has to do with an Alaskan and a Texan walking across the Golden Gate Bridge in San Francisco (there is a pedestrian walkway, BTW). So the two gents stop to take a leak. After a moment, the Texan says, "Man, the water shore is cold." Alaskan pauses a moment then replies, "Yep. And it's deep, too."
My Dad worked on the oil fields in AK. The men from TX that used to come up there sometimes...my Dad would say the same thing...cut AK in half and TX would be the 3rd largest state. They hated it! 🤣
My cousin was born with muscular dystrophy. Multiple times in his life, he was expected to die(he’s currently still alive and nearly 30). At 18, he could barely walk. Early twenties, he was already in a wheelchair. Not even including tragic accidents, disabilities can appear in people of any age. People who think otherwise need either quality schooling or to stop going outside.
I was born with joint problems. I had to wear braces and even still my knees could twist out of socket. This is just one problem I had. It even started before birth. They thought I was twins, because I shared the womb with a tumor. It reflected my heart beat. So know age is not a determining factor.
All the stories made me angry or roll my eyes in some sort of way, but that last one I visualized with such clarity that I couldn't stifle my laughter 😂
On that 1st story, she just needs to respond to him with divorce papers, if you ask me. That situation sounds like it will never get any better!! What a total douchebag!
I have two Presa Canario, neither have EVER been hit by me, but a friend of mine smacked one once, as she was greeting him at the door...instant change of mood! I called her away, and she came to me immediately, but didn't take her eyes off him for the rest of his (now very short), visit. She's 167 lbs of muscle, sinew and teeth, and has a beautiful disposition...but she doesn't cotton to being hit! I mention this, because, having read the item about the woman hitting the 15 yr Olds dog, with an umbrella, a chill ran down my spine. Heaven help her if she doesn't get treatment for her issues, and woe betide her, should she ever try that stunt with a dog like either of mine! Not everyone has the control of their dog OP and I do, and bad things can happen to stupid people when they believe, even for an instant, ANY dog gives a rats patoot about a persons delusions of grandeur and entitlement. I think she was lucky only to be arrested, she got off light!
Dogs never forget people who are cruel to them. I adopted my sweet blue heeler from the pound last Summer, and he was the most frightened animal I've ever seen. He broke my heart and I knew he had to come home with me. He had to be carried to my car, he shook like a leaf and his eyes looked wild and terrified. The guy at the pound said he was picked up running around at a park, and he was reported as a coyote and someone was shooting at him! He is a stubby tailed blue heeler, I think he's purebred because he looks exactly like the pics of the breed I've seen and he's very smart. He's my buddy and goes everywhere with me. He still hates the sound of gunfire, and he REALLY hates older, fat white men with beards. I have a feeling his previous owner looked like the guys he always growls at. He likes young men, and POC just fine.
First story in and i already cant deal with people's entitlement. If my partner ever does that i'm getting their confession on tape and using it for divorce procedings.
Story 4: If your response to a dog scratching your car is to beat it with an umbrella, and then lie about how you were viciously attacked, you have some serious issues. She's lucky nobody smacked her in the face
I am not a dog person but if I saw someone beating up an trapped animal like that I would beat them and be damned with jail time. That poor pup could not run away from her.
Story 1: Husband sells his wife's baby shower gifts to go on a trip with his friends? He shouldn't be talking about someone else being immature. Baby before trip, it shouldn't be that hard to figure out. Story 2: So this guy expects some business' restroom to be tailored to him? The change table shouldn't be there because he happens to not need it? I don't need one either, but I just don't use it and go on with life because, surprisingly, the world has better things to do than revolve around me. Story 3: In a world where people can be born blind, there is no such thing as "too young to be disabled." Karen is clearly too stupid for her good or anyone else's.
Shame on that bus driver for not having called the police on that lady for assaulting OP. OP's mental health might be in a much better place had that occurred.
Once again Karen’s need to be extremely careful because she might be in the obituaries if she harasses the wrong person. edit: always threaten entitled people with police and make them watch security footage. They’ll be crying and begging not to be arrested and banned from Chic-Fil-A
I used to get pissed off years ago when the only changing table were in the women's room when I took my baby with me. I was pleased when they started putting tables in the men's room.
Where I live, they've made restrooms unisex (the ones with single toilets, not the multiple ones where you can have a stranger walk in). I love that, because now I don't have to wait for some woman to put on her makeup when I need to pee. Some women take a ridiculously long time in the restroom.
Now if only they'd stop putting them in the disabled stall. I'm so tired of waiting half an hour for some breeder to change her baby and potty two toddlers.
Story 4: It would take a massive amount of self control to refrain from taking that umbrella from the crazy lady and seeing how she liked being beat with it.
Story 1: You'd better ditch that man immediately, lady. He's totally irresponsible and you'll end up mothering two kids. Story 3: Speaking as an elderly woman with invisible disabilities, I sometimes have to ask younger people if they will give up their seat to me. In the case of OP, once explained, I'd apologise, acknowledge their disability trumped mine, and stay standing up. Laying hands on someone else (except to save life or injury) is a 100% no-no. I would, however, like it if somebody with *no* disabilities offered me their seat instead.
Story #2: My children's Dad was thrilled when businesses started putting changing tables in the men's bathroom cause it simplified things when he took our kids out solo. It made it possible for him to just take our baby to the bathroom for a diaper change. He did get plenty of shocked looks but mostly the looks were just due to the guys never having seen anyone use the changing table. He even got some very nice compliments from older gentlemen for being a good Daddy to his kids and supportive partner for his wife.
As a father of two girls I also made use of the male changing tables from time to time as children seem to have the worst timing and sometimes it cant wait for mommy to be around or to get back home. There is absolutely nothing soft about a father doing his job. It's a viscous hypocrisy to say that me who participate in raising their children are soft as the alternative is for them to be deadbeats shout out to all the other fathers out there that are being dads, even if that means dressing up in a dress for your daughter to make her day
@@kevinjohnson4288 It's always wonderful to see a Dad who isn't afraid to step up and help with the dirty jobs of parenting. I'm happy to hear you're one of them as well. Being an involved parent isn't a sign of weakness regardless of the parent's gender... it's a show of strength, love and dedication. Good job being a good Daddy to your kiddos!
In the third story, they shouldn't have kicked Karen off the bus---they should have called the police or at least tried to get her information so assault charges could be pressed and OP could sue (if she had money). As long as she can get away with this with no serious repercussions, she's going to keep doing it.
As someone who has been through Texas many times over the decades, he's all yours without a laid claim! Ted Cruz is the senator for you lot, and this comes from someone who doesn't have a particular thing against Republicans. Texas, _Texas,_ *Texas,* it's like a whole other country!
And that whole 'I'm doing nothing wrong' garbage from Karen? Yeah, no, trespassing is illegal. If you're asked to leave by someone with authority of the property, you have to leave; staying is trespassing.
I’ve seen it a few times. One restaurant I went to, there was a meeting of city workers. One of my former managers used to do that, but would also rent out the private room, and it would be a fancier restaurant than a fast food place. They might have had the meeting at an odd time, or an odd day of the week, basically what I mean is a time when there isn’t any or few customers.
Story 1: I don’t usually jump straight to suggesting divorce, but what that worthless husband did is definitely grounds for divorce. He’d be lucky to have the ability to walk away if he was my husband.
that 4th story... I don't have dogs for myself but I love dogs. If I'd see someone hitting a random dog - well it wouldn't end well for this person... a kick to the knee's back to fold him/her down and then waiting for police that's called before action. Talking doesn't help here anymore. Once I've seen a dog getting loose from a pole in front of a store... Luckily the leash was still on so I could grab it before the dog getting hit by a car at full speed... it was a beagle, maybe 2-3 years old and his owner got out of the store because he's seen it happening while paying for his stuff. The owner was thanking me like 10 times and he tried to give me 20€ for saving his furry friend... I refused and just said "it's a normal reaction when you love dogs..." - we went to the next cafe and got ourselves a coffee he paid.
The men’s room changing table story confuses me. When I was little, it was very normal for my dad to take me places by himself, same with my grandpa. Does the karen think men shouldn’t take their babies somewhere without their wife? 🤦🏻♀️
"Can I have my ear back?" How often does anyone get to say something like that? Sorry for the necessity of requiring a prosthetic ear but, your story is really so funny! 🤣🤣
Clip #1 .. are you kidding me?? I jumped for the comment section hands shaking from being so irate. Those are for the baby and most showers are done in 3rd trimester do he was going to leave her for a boys weekend adventure? Wow he's not ready to be a father. 100% irresponsible and immature. Dump him before he takes the baby's food away later.
story 2 WHAT the heck I applaud OPs company for having changing tables in both men's and women's bathrooms. Folded up they really don;t take up much space
Story 1: Okay, let me get this as straight as I can; OP got a bunch of baby essentials, and her husband SELLS them? WITHOUT CONSULTING WITH HER? That's just downright theft, and he didn't even go and ask if it was alright. It takes just a few seconds, "Hey, honey, my friends want me to pitch in to fixing their van for an upcoming trip, do you mind if I sell some of the baby stuff so I can help out?", THERE! DONE! MISSION ACCOMPLISHED! OP, I think would STILL SAY NO, but at least in that scenario, HE ASKED!! So, NO OP you're not the a--hole. At least not in my opinion.
"karen gives me agoraphobia" that's a condition so bad it's genuinely disabling and considered as such. that karen literally made OP, someone who's already disabled, even more disabled. it's a life-ruining condition. this is honestly the worst shit I've heard.
Story 1. Yeah, he isn't entitled to those gifts and neither is OP. the BABY is entitled to those gifts, or at least for the gifts to be used in their interest.
Second to last story: uh, if she’s having a zoom meeting, why not do it at home? Where it’s nice and quiet? Idk what she’s really expecting at a restaurant. Or even rent a room in a library and she can have the peace and quiet, unless people turning pages are “too noisy” for her.
It sounds like she didn't even order anything! The dining room is for paying customers. Even Starbucks doesn't let people come in to use the WiFi without making a purchase.
That third story I would have called the cops. Not only did she asult OP, but she was responsible for the bleeding tounge, and phycological pain. I get that she's old, but jeez.
I had a really funny image of him complaining about girly things and then putting his hands on his hips the way a woman would, with the hip tilt 🤣 The thing about ordering and then not ordering the sandwich made me laugh too 😂
Age doesn't matter with disabilities. Apparently the Karen in this story has never heard of birth defects, genetic diseases, or just plain invisible diseases or conditions like severe heart or lung disease, arthritis, ALS, MS, or a multitude of other health issues. She is a supreme AH.
Story 5 be like: “Texas Red had not cleared leather for a bullet fairly ripped!” “And the Ranger’s aim was deadly with the big iron on his hip.” “Big iron on his hiiiiip!”
The Texan must have been from a tiny Town. Because, I know that most restaurant and mall restrooms in the bigger towns and cities in Texas have baby changing stations in their men's rooms. I saw them all of the time. And that was 20 years ago.
First story, guarantee he will be like that the child’s entire life. That’s beyond utterly selfish, and I wouldn’t be surprised if they split up later.
OP of the first story, if you happen to find this, I recommend you divorce that guy immediately. Selling your baby's gifts like that just to help a "friend" is the kind of thing that only a person who doesn't care about his marriage or his child at all would do.
As a Texan I feel ashamed of that man, I mean it's obviously not meant for you. it's meant for other people in difficult situations or just them in their own situations.
Another Texan here. It's no wonder people hate us. I saw a girl wearing a tee shirt that said "F..k you, I'm from Texas" the F word was all spelled out. Makes me sad.
I only know of one Texan man, Tim Faust. He's nothing like the stereotype, maby because of his upbringing (he has the sweetest mom), and that he has been travelling abroad? Idk, but he seams genuin nice.
Loved the Chic-fil-A story -- what gall that lady had! And the ear! Hilarious!!! My parents had a friend with a prosthetic ear who was a barber. He'd prank people by yelling Oops!! and dropping his ear in their lap so they'd think he'd cut off theirs.
My best friend's late Dad lost one of his fingers in an accident. Several years later, he was at the parts counter where he worked as a technician, and he and the parts guy decided to prank the new guy on Halloween. Long story short, my friend's Dad walked away from the parts counter, leaving a rubber finger behind, to which the parts guy yelled out, "Hey Al, you forgot something!" The new guy narrowly avoided throwing up his breakfast, from what I'm told 🤣
Story 1. Show him the door, it is the start of a very unhealthy relationship! Story3. That was assault and the cop should have called or the driver could have radioed for reporting the incident.
The first one, wouldn't be surprising if it turned out the husband's friends not only gave him the boot from the trip anyway, or even canceled it, after hearing how he got the money, but also decided to make things right by buying OP all of the stuff to replace the things that were stolen.
That would be delightful if it turned out that way. His buddy's ripping him a new one and then the guys (minus Mr Shithead) throwing her a new baby shower replacing all that he sold and then some.
@@tinydancer7426 Unfortunately, if he didn't have the cash to repair the van, it's less likely that there was anything left to buy replacement baby supplies.
@@GeorgeVCohea-dw7ou I am not talking about using any "left over" money from what he got from the stolen baby gifts. In my experience, guys have always been able to come up with money for something that they really want or want to do. If they have money for beer, cigarettes, food and women, they have money for other things too. It's a matter of priorities. Sure, maybe the owner of the vehicle didn't have the funds to buy the parts, but it's a sure bet there was beer, etc on site while they were standing around the vehicle with the hood up and everyone claiming to know what was wrong with it and how to fix it (you know like they stand around the barbecue grill and argue over how to stack/arrange the charcoal and how your supposed to arrange/grill the steaks, chop, burgers and wieners.
That last story reminds me of a local TV lady that shared the story of her quinceañera party: She tried fake nails for the first time. So she was doing a formal dance with her crush, he made her twirl and accidentally ripped off a couple of the fake nails. He froze mid-dance, staring at the nails for a second and screamed "oh my God I killed her!!" Formal dance ruined.
Story 6: If there is one of many things i've learned from Reddit it is that Karens have no respect for boundaries and will go out of their way to ruin people's days, I doubt that Karen actually had an important meeting, she was probably just bored and needed a reason to complain
Chick-fil-A manager should have just turned off the WiFi, since she was probably freeloading on it. Because if she is too cheap to buy food, she’s too cheap to use her Cellular Data
"The baby shower stuff is half mine because I did half the work just like you " is the most ridiculous response I have come across... those gifts aren't for mom. They're for the GDmned BABY! that isn't even born yet! Wtf dude?!?
He said he didn't need a changing table, but I disagree. He was definitely acting like a baby.
Cut him some slack. It's not easy being a fictional character.
Mr supreme state wasn’t there to eat. He used the changing table as an excuse to leave after using the bathroom. I’d have told him he’s already a woman because he’s acting like he’s having PMS.
No, babies act better.
@@unreasonable-man.bsky.social Thank you! That was one of the most made-up, overly exaggerated tales I've heard yet. OP needs to come up with more creative lies that aren't so obvious.
To quote Little Jimmy Dickens: "You can always tell a Texan, you just can't tell them very much!"
First story: Guarantee the friend didn't demand the husband give him money or else ge couldn't go. Friend probably talked to him about cancelling the trip because his vehicle broke down and selling the baby's stuff was husbands way of making sure the trip still happened. Hubby is selfish.
Divorce material. She must have been ignoring red flags forever.
That poor baby.
If she is lucky he will stay gone.
ah good ol guilt Tripping buddies
I don't know, if the husband is that selfish pretty sure the friends will be just as bad.
The fact that both mens and womens bathrooms had changing tables impressed the hell out of me. Some good forward thinking there.
As a divorced father, I loved finding those when my son was young.
Yeah, since it's problematic when the man bathrooms don't have them as well
A good solution I see all around is men's bathroom, women's bathroom, and a third for disabled/baby change bathroom. Then there's also sufficient place for everything in there and nobody complains if it takes a bit more time to get things taken care of
@@Luka_menorykee Yeah that is starting to become more commonplace.
Not only single Fathers but any Dad out with his kids. That person is a misogynistic person
Story 1: I hope he enjoys his trip because that's all he have to do once OP divorces his ass away...oh...don't forget the alimony and child support....
And, hopefully OP lawyer will make sure that the judge knows what kind of a shit is was for selling those baby gifts and what he did with the money he got from selling them.
You won't get alimony after just 3 years
Make sure you get as much child support as you can get!! Tell judge what AH did with baby gifts & why! I think most judges will rip him a new one!!!
Narcissistic husband uggh red flags ....run now !
1st story: OP should use that red flag as a cape and fly away from that marriage, not only for her own sake, but for the sake of her unborn child.
Story one: OP is NTA. The gifts weren't half her husband's, they were ALL the baby's gifts. Poor bugger is going to have an absent father because their father is a selfish d*ckhead who has already demonstrated his friend is more important to him than his partner and child. Sorry, OP, if you see this. At least you aren't the A.
I wish OP had included that she called the guy friend and ratted her husband out to him about how/where he came up with the money used to fix his vehicle. Now THAT would have been interesting if he tore OP's husband a new one for being such a shit as to sell gifts for his unborn child. I mean, seriously, who does something like that?
@@tinydancer7426 Drug addicts. I have seen them starve their children to death just so they could get another hit and stay high. Let their babies freeze to death because they were too strung out to put them in their coat with them. (Woman had already sold the babies blankets for drugs.) When caught after neglecting their kids to death, they claim they are victims too. Wound up a single father at 41 for a while because a relative tried to starve his daughter to death and the mother was no better. Both parents claimed they were the victims and the child was to blame. Not a good experience but we survived it together. Today the girl is a college graduate with a degree in biochemistry. I’m just old. And yes, single fathers do use the changing tables in the mens restrooms.
Rather the man-child not be around and MAYBE have a relationship with them once they grow up than a selfish AH who is absent in emotion and mentality (possibly physically as well as we see he cares more for his friends than his unborn kid)
I bet that "friend" is actually OP's husband's partner in adultery.
Hope husband enjoys his trip....he can come home to a locked house and divorce papers...with child support...
first story: i would've started getting divorced papers ready as soon as those words left his mouth. the absolute audacity and disrespect is disgusting. if he's capable of having that level of selfishness BEFORE the child is born imagine how he'll be AFTER. he needs to go pronto. maybe him and the dog abuser will get along fine in hell.
That flag was more red then the USSR flag.
First story, uhhh divorce. Divorce ASAP. If he's willing to go behind your back and sell "non-essential baby shower gifts"(basically his words, not mine) without your permission, what else is he willing to do? He's putting his friends first before his CHILD??? His UNBORN CHILD??? NAHHHH sis, dump his a**💀
AYE!
Story #4 made my blood boil. If anyone ever tried to hit my dog, I'd punch them so hard they wouldn't have any teeth left.
Yup. Touch my children or my dogs you’ll be digging my foot out of your ass. Actually , any child or animal
SAAAMMMEEEE 🤬
I agree
Our neighbour tried to kick our dog. I told him if he tried that one more time, nobody would ever find him.
People in our town know I don't do threaths, I make promisses.
Same, I’m like a mama bear when it comes to my dog, and cats, if she did that to my dog, she’d be eating baby food, for the rest of her miserable stuck up life.
Story 1: This is stealing, the Husband is also selfish, he didn't use the money to pay bills or give his' wife better gifts but to go on a trip without his' wife
Definately. She should bail asap.
And this was the first wife heard of the trip!
OMG, she needs to delta out.
Story 1: If he was worried about people finding out and being upset then he already knew selling things meant for his baby was wrong 🙄
he is not upset because people found out. He said he thinks that OP told them some sob story to make him look bad. Meaning he is even more stupid because OP does not need a sob story, the truth is more than enough!
If you don't want to be called out for doing stupid or mean stuff, don't do stupid or mean stuff. Simple concept if one is not a self-centered AH.
if he's worried about reprisal. Don't do it
If I ever saw someone hurting my dogs or cat, my wrath would be BIBLICAL.
Haha i fully agree. Just listening to it i imagined walking outside and clocking the woman with a right hook between the eyes without having exchanged a word xD
@@melodylill3 i smell lawsuit against the karen. Im surprised the cops didnt ask if op wanted to press charges of assault and animal abuse.
Absolutely! Not even a god could save someone like that from my wrath! It is up to their god to judge them but it would be a hell of a pleasure to send them to god!
Agreed. There was a lady I used to Know whom I was friends with until I realized how damn entitled she was. Even worse, she was raising her kids to be just like her. I used to bring my dog over, until I realized that her son thought that animals were toys. A result of non-existent inconsistent discipline, having no healthy respect for boundaries, zero regard for the word no being a complete sentence and nothing resembling a sense of accountability, this kid was already a holy terror at age six. I remember when he was about 10, when I was over there and brought my fluff ball dog with me. I told him to leave my dog alone as she wasn't used to children. He completely ignored me and his mother scolded me for scolding her child. No surprise there. Then he aggravated my dog to the point she nipped at him. He hit her. I got a hold of him pushed him against the wall and yelled at him in his face until he was in tears. His mother tried to get on my case for yelling at her precious baby. I told her what he did. She tried to brush it off as “just playing.” Him being far past the age to where it was somewhat expected for children to throw tantrums when they don't get their way, he threw himself to the ground then began kicking and pounding the floor with his fists. His mother tried to make me out to be the bad guy for upsetting her son. I told her she was raising a monster. I added that because of her spoiling and overindulging of him, it was absolutely certain that he would eventually raise a hand to her or end up standing before a judge. She did not like that. I cut contact with her when her son was about 13 and I heard, through the grapevine, unsurprisingly, that much of my prediction came to pass.
If the guy wants to act like he's a single guy, with no kids again, then I would just oblige, and serve him with divorce papers, and of course ask for full custody.
Full, physical custody AND child support until the child finishes college (and regularly reviewed for increases to match cost of living increases) and alimony.
Yes. OP needs to really reevaluate this marriage. Who sells their baby shower gifts, especially since it's your child? The husband just proved that his wife and child will never be a priority in his life.
Agreed, that stunt is a total relationship killer.
Totally 👍🏻 💯
That last story had me laughing SO HARD!!!!!!! "Can I have my ear back?" If I'd witnessed this, I would have actually wet my pants laughing, I kid you not. That was brilliant.
I laughed my butt off when I read that, it was hilarious! *giggles*
I would have been on the floor crying from laughing so hard!
OP may have been mad, but the fact he said that calmly kind of was scary, in a funny way
I am cruel. "You ripped my ear off!!!"
@@robertpeacock1635 Would you want to give her a heart attack?
Story 2: I'm thinking that maybe the Sexist guy needed the Changing Table
To Change his' Manchild Diaper
Yup. He's also the kind of guy who would call real men a p3d0 just for changing the diapers or loving and hugging his child with love
@@someguy7629 exactly maybe his mom dropped him (I mean straight up PLOP)
As a soon-to-be geezer (and native Southerner, although mercifully not from Texas) I have changed many diapers and I must say that there is nothing “soft” about the people who do it. But parenting changes a person, or should. It turned me, a fastidiously clean borderline germaphobe, into someone who could look down at his shirt, shrug, and just say “Hell, if it dries clear, I don’t care.”
😄
I am from Texas, and that man does not represent the opinion of the majority of the state. He seems a bit nuts.
@@whatthemusicknows same I have a feeling my Dad changed my nasty as heck diaper at least 3 times and he probably didn’t care as long as I was clean and happy
Honestly I want to be a single father just spite people like him and I WILL be DARN good one
You’d be lucky to be from Texas! Lol
That said, I don’t know anyone like that at all, and I’ve known many a man from Texas, since I was born and raised here and all. All of the Texas men that I know of are more than happy to participate in the care of their children, including diapers - well, as happy as you can be about diapering, because it’s nobody’s favorite job of baby care.
@@whatthemusicknows He does seem a bit off, it is true. And I’m sure his opinion about diaper changing is not representative, but his opinion of Texas seems pretty standard.
All in good fun here, btw. I can only wish I came from a place where pride would not be so… misplaced.
First story nta. Sell his stuff and use it to replace what he stole, also for a dìvorce lawyer.
Just reading the title and god, I’ve BEEN there
Had a wifie try to grab my arm, I have PTSD and a walking cane, so I twisted her arm and stood up properly, like she was trying to drag me out the disabled bus seat. I just calmly stared at her and loudly asked
“Am I not crippled enough for you, ma’am, or do you require my full health records to deem me eligible for the disabled seat?”
A nearby passenger called her a c*nt loudly, someone pressed the bell to stop the bus at the next stop and alerted the driver, and she was unceremoniously kicked off the bus whilst rambling about me being “too young to be disabled”, and “doesn’t look disabled”, like ma’am, I’m legally blind, have PTSD, have mobility issues and honestly a Pokémon collection of disabilities and autoimmune disorders, if I, a cripple with a walking cane who is visibly crippled, is not allowed the disabled seat, then prey tell who TF is?!
Thankfully haven’t been bothered in the past few years, but in my late 20’s I had this sort of behaviour happen a few times, because apparently I’m just “too young” to have permanent disabilities. Like man, I WISH that’s how disabilities worked!
So yeah, I relate to the title ALONE all too well.
Yiiiikes. Glad to know there's people willing to take your side, though. I also have disabilities that necessitate me sitting on a bus, but I don't have a cane or other visible indication. I'm so worried of something like that happening to me that I just stand anyway if there's no seats; I wobble and ache the whole time, but at least I can do that much.
I really like the way you described what was going on and the experience that you had in your past. Sorry you got disabilities To manage. Some people can be real turkeys about . it all that entitled behavior is exhausting. Best of luck to you
@@hauntedshadowslegacy2826 ngl I’ve deffo been harassed when younger when I didn’t rely on a walking cane, I would maintain eye contact with nosy idiots whilst taking meds (always have a backpack, with mini dispensary!), most folk just left me too it and figured “huh, she probably needs the disabled seat, should leave her alone” but I did get occasional comments, a lot less common now with the cane.
@@ZombieSazza I've needed a cane since I was 25 after getting out of the military. On bad days, I'm in a wheelchair and the VA even prescribed a walker for me that I use from time to time. I had to start wearing my Marine Corps hat all the time to deter people from saying shit to me. Then, they just asked if I was hurt in combat, which was also not their business, but easier to deal with then people thinking I'm faking it. I really hate people sometimes. 😅
What in the world gives people the entitlement that they can determine if you are disabled or not? I apologize to anyone who has been hassled by idiots about they "perceived" wellness. I am 60 years old, still active and get up when an elderly person gets on the bus. If I see someone who is struggling I get up on the bus, if I see someone in a suit and tie with an expression of utter weariness I get up on a bus. It is called courtesy.
Story 1: Absolutely not the a**hole. The husband is. The baby's needs should come first.
Story2: Complaining about a changing table, saying, "Changing diapers is the mother's job." What if something happened to the mother? That man needs to seriously get a life.
Story 3: Medical conditions don't discriminate based on age.
That ought to have been the retort. “Disabilities don’t discriminate based on age, but apparently you do.”
and now OP has another disabling condition (agoraphobia) because of karen. it's genuinely devastating and heartbreaking to hear.
I'm the idiot would argue your case with "Women are like cars; you total one, you get another.."
@@flashstudiosguy women arent cars, though
@@flashstudiosguy what? Like, what even are you on about or trying to say? It doesn't make sense
The Karen hitting the dog story: I hope there was camera footage from the shop or witness statements. That would make her charges stick.
The Police knew she was lying, why would they need evidence? Besides, from what I was reading, the Old woman was the aggressor.
The woman would be eating that umbrella
@@dinoknightready0164 No kidding, she just wanted to cause trouble
@@dinoknightready0164 Up the other end.
Story 1 - selfish, entitled husband -!!!!!!! My initial gut reaction - LOSE Him, keep the baby!
Story 4....as someone who suffers from chronic pain, and who has to take a similar cocktail of meds - my sympathies. As for the Karen-!!!! Police should have been called, because what she did was assault, and it is clear OP was suffered serious mental trauma as a result.
Story 5 - attacking a dog like that? That woman is abusive and crazy, I hope she get the book thrown at her.
Last story - Give me my ear back 🤣😂🤣😂🤣
That psycho needs to be locked in solitary confinement of a mental hospital.
I probably would've gone to jail for whacking the lady had that been my dog.
I felt the same way listening to old lady bus story while my horrible neuropathy is blowing up both my legs and feet…couldn’t even kick that bitches ass if I was there in person. I am gonna add though that although the moment was intense to OP he/she is acting a bit too plus in the post-trauma scene…scared to go out anymore and has to take a cab now? Rigggght
I think you mean story three?
I remember hearing the last story before and I still laugh about it, that will teach a Karen not to pull off a person's earbuds without "accidentally" pulling off their ear as well....
Story 1: Get out of that marriage; God knows how he will treat that child! Story 7: Laughed so much!
Story 1: GET A DIVORCE!
OP of Story 5 is my hero. Holy shit 🤣🤣🤣
"I don't need a baby changing table in the men's bathroom!" ah yes I forgot this was your own personal poop palace.
Change table Texan story: Texan comes in, "orders his sandwich" and heads to the bathroom. Yet, at the end, he "leaves without even ordering anything". Yeah, I'm calling bullshit.
That whole story smells of bullshit. Stereotypical version of what most people think Texans are like. I'm surprised he didn't say the guy was wearing cowboy boots and a ten-gallon hat! 😂
I grew up in Dallas, Texas, and changing tables in men's rooms, and also family restrooms are pretty common there and have been for the past 30 years or so. I know, because my son is turning 30 next month, and I remember using the changing table in a men's restroom at the mall once when the ladies room was out-of-order.
@@LazyIRanch Exactly, it reads like some kid trying to insult Texans. Who goes into a “Subway” and announces they are from Texas and calls it the King state or whatever the term was.?!
@@condar419the store wasn't subway Jimmy johns or Quiznos as those are nation wide & op said the chain he works for is only in his state also the guy called Texas the "supreme state" this guy sounds like the kind of guy who can't cook clean or take care of himself in any way shape or form because he views those things as "womens work"
1 story: He literally stole from a baby….
Not just “A baby”, HIS baby. What is wrong with that dude?
@@Taizu314 He’s a narcissist.
I would have change the locks while he's gone with his friends on that trip. What a useless selfish husband
Story 1: op is not the a-hole since the husband clearly cares more about the way he's viewed than preparing for his child.
Bus story: poor op! That sounds awful! I hope that crazy karen gets caught by karma asap!
Last story: what an 'earful' 🤣
@PrincessSerena91 The crazy Karen was kicked off the bus, thanks to the bus driver. I think she was probably arrested for assault on a disabled person.
Dad says everyone is right about that first story.
Now about the second story, if you ever have a Texan brag about being from the "Supreme State" just tell them you are from Alaska and to be quiet or you'll get Alaska divided in two and make Texas the third largest state.
I've heard the above reasons as well as lots of stories/jokes abt Alaska vs. Texas, and one favorite has to do with an Alaskan and a Texan walking across the Golden Gate Bridge in San Francisco (there is a pedestrian walkway, BTW). So the two gents stop to take a leak. After a moment, the Texan says, "Man, the water shore is cold." Alaskan pauses a moment then replies, "Yep. And it's deep, too."
My Dad worked on the oil fields in AK. The men from TX that used to come up there sometimes...my Dad would say the same thing...cut AK in half and TX would be the 3rd largest state. They hated it! 🤣
> When you respond to a story that's clearly a power fantasy written some black sheep Reddit atheist cringe lord as if it's remotely real
LMAO 🤣
Texan here and I don’t have that SupRemE state mentality I found it hella annoying
My cousin was born with muscular dystrophy. Multiple times in his life, he was expected to die(he’s currently still alive and nearly 30). At 18, he could barely walk. Early twenties, he was already in a wheelchair.
Not even including tragic accidents, disabilities can appear in people of any age. People who think otherwise need either quality schooling or to stop going outside.
I was born with joint problems. I had to wear braces and even still my knees could twist out of socket. This is just one problem I had. It even started before birth. They thought I was twins, because I shared the womb with a tumor. It reflected my heart beat. So know age is not a determining factor.
I swear if I hear the words of you’re too young to be disabled I will annihilate that person
Not disabled but still don’t harass people who are
All the stories made me angry or roll my eyes in some sort of way, but that last one I visualized with such clarity that I couldn't stifle my laughter 😂
When your masculinity is so fragile that the idea of a man who isn’t you changing a diaper makes you break down and complain to an employee
Lol
Toxic bachelor membership for life
On that 1st story, she just needs to respond to him with divorce papers, if you ask me. That situation sounds like it will never get any better!! What a total douchebag!
I have two Presa Canario, neither have EVER been hit by me, but a friend of mine smacked one once, as she was greeting him at the door...instant change of mood!
I called her away, and she came to me immediately, but didn't take her eyes off him for the rest of his (now very short), visit. She's 167 lbs of muscle, sinew and teeth, and has a beautiful disposition...but she doesn't cotton to being hit!
I mention this, because, having read the item about the woman hitting the 15 yr Olds dog, with an umbrella, a chill ran down my spine.
Heaven help her if she doesn't get treatment for her issues, and woe betide her, should she ever try that stunt with a dog like either of mine!
Not everyone has the control of their dog OP and I do, and bad things can happen to stupid people when they believe, even for an instant, ANY dog gives a rats patoot about a persons delusions of grandeur and entitlement.
I think she was lucky only to be arrested, she got off light!
Dogs never forget people who are cruel to them. I adopted my sweet blue heeler from the pound last Summer, and he was the most frightened animal I've ever seen. He broke my heart and I knew he had to come home with me. He had to be carried to my car, he shook like a leaf and his eyes looked wild and terrified.
The guy at the pound said he was picked up running around at a park, and he was reported as a coyote and someone was shooting at him! He is a stubby tailed blue heeler, I think he's purebred because he looks exactly like the pics of the breed I've seen and he's very smart. He's my buddy and goes everywhere with me.
He still hates the sound of gunfire, and he REALLY hates older, fat white men with beards. I have a feeling his previous owner looked like the guys he always growls at. He likes young men, and POC just fine.
First story in and i already cant deal with people's entitlement. If my partner ever does that i'm getting their confession on tape and using it for divorce procedings.
I see what you did there 😉
someone is watching too many trial clips...
@@MIGBMWLOVER 🤭🤣🤣🤣
Story 4: If your response to a dog scratching your car is to beat it with an umbrella, and then lie about how you were viciously attacked, you have some serious issues.
She's lucky nobody smacked her in the face
If I saw someone doing that to my dog or someone's dog they would need help getting away from me. I would have tackled her.
She is also lucky the kid was 15 and didn't have pepper spray handy... some people need a good dose of hot sauce... then pepper balls.
Im betting she scratched her own car and was trying to get a pay out
I would ABSOLUTELY be in jail for murder.
I am not a dog person but if I saw someone beating up an trapped animal like that I would beat them and be damned with jail time. That poor pup could not run away from her.
Ah...the sound of Darkfluff dissing Karens NEVER fails to make me smile
Sound, but invisible for the last 2 at least XD
Last story: I would've pretended I was in excruciating pain, and yell how she just ripped my ear off lol.
I was really hoping that's where that story was going! That guy was a lot nicer than me!
Baby story: honey run away fast and far. Do you really want to raise 2 babies at the same time, one of which will never grow up?
Story 1: Husband sells his wife's baby shower gifts to go on a trip with his friends? He shouldn't be talking about someone else being immature. Baby before trip, it shouldn't be that hard to figure out.
Story 2: So this guy expects some business' restroom to be tailored to him? The change table shouldn't be there because he happens to not need it? I don't need one either, but I just don't use it and go on with life because, surprisingly, the world has better things to do than revolve around me.
Story 3: In a world where people can be born blind, there is no such thing as "too young to be disabled." Karen is clearly too stupid for her good or anyone else's.
Shame on that bus driver for not having called the police on that lady for assaulting OP. OP's mental health might be in a much better place had that occurred.
Once again Karen’s need to be extremely careful because she might be in the obituaries if she harasses the wrong person. edit: always threaten entitled people with police and make them watch security footage. They’ll be crying and begging not to be arrested and banned from Chic-Fil-A
first story, roman and german law: those gifts had an intent attached to them. you can't change that.
I used to get pissed off years ago when the only changing table were in the women's room when I took my baby with me. I was pleased when they started putting tables in the men's room.
Where I live, they've made restrooms unisex (the ones with single toilets, not the multiple ones where you can have a stranger walk in). I love that, because now I don't have to wait for some woman to put on her makeup when I need to pee. Some women take a ridiculously long time in the restroom.
Now if only they'd stop putting them in the disabled stall. I'm so tired of waiting half an hour for some breeder to change her baby and potty two toddlers.
Story 3, OP should have used his walking stick to beat that Karen
Exactly. "Try to lay a finger on me, and you'll feel the business end of the stick that I need to walk... first, last, and only warning."
My thoughts exactly! To both these comments!
Story 4: It would take a massive amount of self control to refrain from taking that umbrella from the crazy lady and seeing how she liked being beat with it.
If it had been one of my sweet dogs, that beyotch would have been cold-cocked and bleeding, but then I'd be the one going to jail.
"ordered a sandwich" "left without ordering anything"
Lmao that lady in the last story will probably never touch another person’s headphones again
Story 1: You'd better ditch that man immediately, lady. He's totally irresponsible and you'll end up mothering two kids.
Story 3: Speaking as an elderly woman with invisible disabilities, I sometimes have to ask younger people if they will give up their seat to me. In the case of OP, once explained, I'd apologise, acknowledge their disability trumped mine, and stay standing up. Laying hands on someone else (except to save life or injury) is a 100% no-no. I would, however, like it if somebody with *no* disabilities offered me their seat instead.
Story #2: My children's Dad was thrilled when businesses started putting changing tables in the men's bathroom cause it simplified things when he took our kids out solo. It made it possible for him to just take our baby to the bathroom for a diaper change. He did get plenty of shocked looks but mostly the looks were just due to the guys never having seen anyone use the changing table. He even got some very nice compliments from older gentlemen for being a good Daddy to his kids and supportive partner for his wife.
Hell, I did it myself with my lil' squirt a few times. That dude needed to get a life.
As a father of two girls I also made use of the male changing tables from time to time as children seem to have the worst timing and sometimes it cant wait for mommy to be around or to get back home. There is absolutely nothing soft about a father doing his job. It's a viscous hypocrisy to say that me who participate in raising their children are soft as the alternative is for them to be deadbeats shout out to all the other fathers out there that are being dads, even if that means dressing up in a dress for your daughter to make her day
@@kevinjohnson4288 It's always wonderful to see a Dad who isn't afraid to step up and help with the dirty jobs of parenting. I'm happy to hear you're one of them as well. Being an involved parent isn't a sign of weakness regardless of the parent's gender... it's a show of strength, love and dedication. Good job being a good Daddy to your kiddos!
@@kevinjohnson4288 I agree with Brandy. Keep being awesome.
In the third story, they shouldn't have kicked Karen off the bus---they should have called the police or at least tried to get her information so assault charges could be pressed and OP could sue (if she had money). As long as she can get away with this with no serious repercussions, she's going to keep doing it.
As a texan, we dont claim the dude in the second story
As someone who has been through Texas many times over the decades, he's all yours without a laid claim! Ted Cruz is the senator for you lot, and this comes from someone who doesn't have a particular thing against Republicans. Texas, _Texas,_ *Texas,* it's like a whole other country!
Same
Story 4: *Karen attacks a Dog*
Dog Lovers: Of Course you realize this means War!
Count me in!
*John Wick proceeds to have "words" with the Karen *
Hold on let me sharpen my teeth and talons oh can’t forget my machete
Story 6: Who would have a meeting in a restaurant? You know, a place that ISN'T quiet? Of course it is loud
Right!? You really gotta wonder what that woman's logic was to do that.
She needed the free wi-fi, which of course she wasn't entitled too as she never purchased anything. Free wi-fi is for paying customers.
And that whole 'I'm doing nothing wrong' garbage from Karen? Yeah, no, trespassing is illegal. If you're asked to leave by someone with authority of the property, you have to leave; staying is trespassing.
I’ve seen it a few times. One restaurant I went to, there was a meeting of city workers. One of my former managers used to do that, but would also rent out the private room, and it would be a fancier restaurant than a fast food place. They might have had the meeting at an odd time, or an odd day of the week, basically what I mean is a time when there isn’t any or few customers.
Story 1: I don’t usually jump straight to suggesting divorce, but what that worthless husband did is definitely grounds for divorce. He’d be lucky to have the ability to walk away if he was my husband.
You wouldn't do shit 😂 wanna be Billy Badass mfer 🤣, threatening to maim someone over petty theft. 😬
that 4th story... I don't have dogs for myself but I love dogs. If I'd see someone hitting a random dog - well it wouldn't end well for this person... a kick to the knee's back to fold him/her down and then waiting for police that's called before action. Talking doesn't help here anymore. Once I've seen a dog getting loose from a pole in front of a store... Luckily the leash was still on so I could grab it before the dog getting hit by a car at full speed... it was a beagle, maybe 2-3 years old and his owner got out of the store because he's seen it happening while paying for his stuff. The owner was thanking me like 10 times and he tried to give me 20€ for saving his furry friend... I refused and just said "it's a normal reaction when you love dogs..." - we went to the next cafe and got ourselves a coffee he paid.
thank for saving the buddy, I would do the same. I lost my beagle by him being run over 6 years old :(
@@thesnowyzorua378 sorry to hear that. I lost 2 cats this way because we lived too close to the road at that time.
The men’s room changing table story confuses me. When I was little, it was very normal for my dad to take me places by himself, same with my grandpa. Does the karen think men shouldn’t take their babies somewhere without their wife? 🤦🏻♀️
With the last story, I would have just turned off the WiFi. Try to have a meeting now, Karen.
"Can I have my ear back?" How often does anyone get to say something like that? Sorry for the necessity of requiring a prosthetic ear but, your story is really so funny! 🤣🤣
Clip #1 .. are you kidding me?? I jumped for the comment section hands shaking from being so irate. Those are for the baby and most showers are done in 3rd trimester do he was going to leave her for a boys weekend adventure? Wow he's not ready to be a father. 100% irresponsible and immature. Dump him before he takes the baby's food away later.
story 2 WHAT the heck I applaud OPs company for having changing tables in both men's and women's bathrooms. Folded up they really don;t take up much space
Story 1: Okay, let me get this as straight as I can; OP got a bunch of baby essentials, and her husband SELLS them? WITHOUT CONSULTING WITH HER? That's just downright theft, and he didn't even go and ask if it was alright. It takes just a few seconds, "Hey, honey, my friends want me to pitch in to fixing their van for an upcoming trip, do you mind if I sell some of the baby stuff so I can help out?", THERE! DONE! MISSION ACCOMPLISHED! OP, I think would STILL SAY NO, but at least in that scenario, HE ASKED!! So, NO OP you're not the a--hole. At least not in my opinion.
I've tried those "baby changing" tables, they don't work! The baby keep coming out unchanged!!!!!!
Story 2:Looks like there was a baby in that bathroom. He just didn’t need a diaper change.
First story: EJECT!! EJECT!! EJECT!! I guarantee there is more going on when you are not around.
Story 3: Assaulting a Disabled person is a crime, I Hope that Karen got arrested
I thought assaulting anyone is a crime; is there an enhancement for assaulting disabled people or do they just come down harder on you for it?
@@soaringvulture Probably both enhancement and get you down harder
First story: She needs to get rid of husband. Massive red flags there.
"karen gives me agoraphobia" that's a condition so bad it's genuinely disabling and considered as such. that karen literally made OP, someone who's already disabled, even more disabled.
it's a life-ruining condition. this is honestly the worst shit I've heard.
Story 1.
Yeah, he isn't entitled to those gifts and neither is OP. the BABY is entitled to those gifts, or at least for the gifts to be used in their interest.
Second to last story: uh, if she’s having a zoom meeting, why not do it at home? Where it’s nice and quiet? Idk what she’s really expecting at a restaurant. Or even rent a room in a library and she can have the peace and quiet, unless people turning pages are “too noisy” for her.
It sounds like she didn't even order anything! The dining room is for paying customers. Even Starbucks doesn't let people come in to use the WiFi without making a purchase.
@@LazyIRanch oh she demanded free food 😒 what kind of planet did she come from where she think she gets free food?
That third story I would have called the cops. Not only did she asult OP, but she was responsible for the bleeding tounge, and phycological pain. I get that she's old, but jeez.
The Texan ordered his sandwich THEN went to the bathroom. But at the end, op says he ordered nothing. I absolutely love the fake stories.
That’s what I was thinking! They tried really hard, but honestly the moment they said it was a Texan I knew it was going to be fake.
I had a really funny image of him complaining about girly things and then putting his hands on his hips the way a woman would, with the hip tilt 🤣
The thing about ordering and then not ordering the sandwich made me laugh too 😂
Age doesn't matter with disabilities. Apparently the Karen in this story has never heard of birth defects, genetic diseases, or just plain invisible diseases or conditions like severe heart or lung disease, arthritis, ALS, MS, or a multitude of other health issues. She is a supreme AH.
Story 5 be like: “Texas Red had not cleared leather for a bullet fairly ripped!”
“And the Ranger’s aim was deadly with the big iron on his hip.”
“Big iron on his hiiiiip!”
“It was over in a moment and the folks had gathered round. There before them lay the ego of the outlaw on the ground.”
Pulling someone from a seat is a assault and just plain rude, You can’t tell if someone is disabled just by how old they are.
Also,assault and battery. I would’ve pressed charges but it sounds like the guy can’t handle that
The Texan must have been from a tiny Town. Because, I know that most restaurant and mall restrooms in the bigger towns and cities in Texas have baby changing stations in their men's rooms. I saw them all of the time. And that was 20 years ago.
First story, guarantee he will be like that the child’s entire life. That’s beyond utterly selfish, and I wouldn’t be surprised if they split up later.
1st story is grounds for divorce , or at least therapy
I remember a AITA where the guy was complaining because there was no changing table in the men's room. lol
OP of the first story, if you happen to find this, I recommend you divorce that guy immediately. Selling your baby's gifts like that just to help a "friend" is the kind of thing that only a person who doesn't care about his marriage or his child at all would do.
"Help a friend" = buy drugs.
Take his stuff and sell it off to replace the baby stuff he stole and sold off
@@wmdkitty "go on a trip with friends" = go on a trip with the side-chick
Last story 🤣 bet she will never yank earbuds again 🤣🤣
Last story: OP should have clasped the side of his head as if in agony and screamed, "My ear! My ear!"
I was really hoping that's where the story was going! If it had been me, I would have been screaming, "OMG! You ripped my ear OFF!" 😂
I wish all restrooms had baby change tables; because any patron many need to change their baby.
As a Texan I feel ashamed of that man, I mean it's obviously not meant for you. it's meant for other people in difficult situations or just them in their own situations.
Maby he thought that he would catch som womangermes, and start to cook and clean, if he touched it?
Another Texan here. It's no wonder people hate us. I saw a girl wearing a tee shirt that said "F..k you, I'm from Texas" the F word was all spelled out. Makes me sad.
@@hellefur6631 is that really wrong? Because seriously if I caught something like that I wouldn't mind AT ALL.Hell infect me now.
@@carolinebeck807 honestly I love this state but, I'm not in love with it like those types of people
I only know of one Texan man, Tim Faust.
He's nothing like the stereotype, maby because of his upbringing (he has the sweetest mom), and that he has been travelling abroad?
Idk, but he seams genuin nice.
Loved the Chic-fil-A story -- what gall that lady had! And the ear! Hilarious!!! My parents had a friend with a prosthetic ear who was a barber. He'd prank people by yelling Oops!! and dropping his ear in their lap so they'd think he'd cut off theirs.
My best friend's late Dad lost one of his fingers in an accident. Several years later, he was at the parts counter where he worked as a technician, and he and the parts guy decided to prank the new guy on Halloween. Long story short, my friend's Dad walked away from the parts counter, leaving a rubber finger behind, to which the parts guy yelled out, "Hey Al, you forgot something!" The new guy narrowly avoided throwing up his breakfast, from what I'm told 🤣
I was waiting... Literally just browsing through your channel for videos I haven't watched yet
Also the last story... She seemed pretty Ear-esponsible
Story 1. Show him the door, it is the start of a very unhealthy relationship! Story3. That was assault and the cop should have called or the driver could have radioed for reporting the incident.
The first one, wouldn't be surprising if it turned out the husband's friends not only gave him the boot from the trip anyway, or even canceled it, after hearing how he got the money, but also decided to make things right by buying OP all of the stuff to replace the things that were stolen.
That would be delightful if it turned out that way. His buddy's ripping him a new one and then the guys (minus Mr Shithead) throwing her a new baby shower replacing all that he sold and then some.
@@tinydancer7426
Unfortunately, if he didn't have the cash to repair the van, it's less likely that there was anything left to buy replacement baby supplies.
@@GeorgeVCohea-dw7ou I am not talking about using any "left over" money from what he got from the stolen baby gifts. In my experience, guys have always been able to come up with money for something that they really want or want to do. If they have money for beer, cigarettes, food and women, they have money for other things too. It's a matter of priorities. Sure, maybe the owner of the vehicle didn't have the funds to buy the parts, but it's a sure bet there was beer, etc on site while they were standing around the vehicle with the hood up and everyone claiming to know what was wrong with it and how to fix it (you know like they stand around the barbecue grill and argue over how to stack/arrange the charcoal and how your supposed to arrange/grill the steaks, chop, burgers and wieners.
in the first story the man dident even talk to his wife about the things.
That last story reminds me of a local TV lady that shared the story of her quinceañera party:
She tried fake nails for the first time.
So she was doing a formal dance with her crush, he made her twirl and accidentally ripped off a couple of the fake nails.
He froze mid-dance, staring at the nails for a second and screamed "oh my God I killed her!!"
Formal dance ruined.
Seriously oh my gosh that’s hilarious
If I was the person in the last one I probably would have laughed and said you ripped my ear off.
Story 3: Poor OP. Suffering from trauma on top of everything else. Definitely needs some counselling.
I don't have enough hugs for the poor fella. It breaks my heart because my cousin had similar anxiety issues for different reasons.
Drop the bum if he can't think of you and your baby. If he rates his friend more then you or your baby divorce the bum.
Story 6: If there is one of many things i've learned from Reddit it is that Karens have no respect for boundaries and will go out of their way to ruin people's days, I doubt that Karen actually had an important meeting, she was probably just bored and needed a reason to complain
That last story was 👏 PURE 👏 GOLD! 😂
Chick-fil-A manager should have just turned off the WiFi, since she was probably freeloading on it. Because if she is too cheap to buy food, she’s too cheap to use her Cellular Data
Lifted diesel pickup for a teenage boy- compensating for something?
"The baby shower stuff is half mine because I did half the work just like you " is the most ridiculous response I have come across... those gifts aren't for mom. They're for the GDmned BABY! that isn't even born yet! Wtf dude?!?
The last story and the cop one is just so funny.