I don’t think you are doing a bad job of explaining this. I think you are doing an amazing job. You are so right about not wanting to go but to change the reality. I’m so impressed with your thoughts and words.
The different thing about you is that you're not doing this for views or trying to come up with fake points or lists. You don't force it. You wait for the right moment when you feel like expressing yourself and you let that train of emotions do the work. As if you are making these videos to remind yourself to stay alive. Listening to you is comforting because i know that you know and i feel understood. Thank you.
This made me all teary 🥺 Thank you for such kind words. I remember the first time my sociology professor was introducing symbolic interactionism theories and basically explaining how we can have multiple versions of ourselves and we're just reacting to our social circles --- i cried in class. Up until then, i was just told by my parents that i "must be defective" or "crazy". To have someone else provide a natural/ normal explanation for my behaviors and the way i was feeling was just... ✨💥🌈🔥🌊 ! I felt seen. and human. So to hear that you feel understood... That's so precious to me. Thank you. Hugs. 🧡💚
Hey! I don't know why your last comment never posted. I copy-pasted the email notification onto the video, because I really appreciated your comment. Hope you're doing well. Thank you for opening up. It means the world that you feel comfortable sharing about these topics. 🌻🌱 And thank you for the lovely compliment! 🍦🧁️
You're so right. I just watched a few of her videos and she is so real... These small talks are so unique, I never managed to find something like this on TH-cam. They are usually points and lists, as you say, quotes and theories coming from psychologists and books. They're interesting to hear , but they are not.. "felt"?, if It makes any sense. Her being so spontaneous hits differently and, although I'm not commenting my situation, I still somehow felt heard just by listening to her
your vids are truly amazing, don't care about the numbers or views u are really helping someone,, life has been tough for a while to me and watching this i'm really able to persevere and be strong for those who loves me; we are not alone
This is such a beautiful comment. Thank you for sharing this. It means a lot. I hope all the love and beauty around you is strong and pure enough to keep you going and help you find your place in this crazy world! I'm sending you all the hugs! 🌱🧡💚🌻
I love it. You explained it well, we have a natural desire to live and when we are going through pain there is a desire to escape the reality. I’ve learned that it’s important not to feed the negative mindsets and yeah it’s never been easy living tbh but we have it in us to push through and find positive or at least try. I wish you the best in your endeavors much love ❤️
Hello. This video really touched my heart. I hope i ll be strong as you, thank you for being pure and supportive to us, who need a kind and beautiful word of hope. Struggling mental illness myself, thank you Mei. Love from me to you:)
Thank you for your beautiful comment! It really warms my heart. Please hold on and keep believing in yourself and your intrinsic worth as a human ❤️️ I'll be here if you ever need a reminder or a friend to chat with 🧁️☀️🎈
Oh in terms of suicide, dont do it fam, no matter how much people try to tell you that your wrong or how much a broken system tells you that you cant, the more certain you should be that you must keep pushing ahead, YOU MUST keep pushing forward
Hey, thanks for commenting! Feel free to share any thoughts. I know this is a difficult topic to explore, but i'd love to know how you feel about it. ☀️
Been awhile mate xD im glad to see your still uploading and stoof My advice with your issues in your personal life is to try and not put to much structure into your day, life is such a rollercoster that i think putting up structure and expectation generally ends up in frustration and dissapointment I say this from personal experience xD where i tried to structure and control my life and project expectations from that, ego drove me head first into it xD but uh, well lets just say i feel ive found a some what peace in my life now c: Anyways im rambling, i send you well wishes friend/friends, im rooting for ya
So happy to hear from you! Was wondering how you've been! Anything new and exciting? 🍕 Great advice! Let go of expectations is definitely something i need to constantly remind myself and it just makes everything smoother/ easier to let go. But i do think we need a balance between "going along with the ride" and "feeling empowered". Some of the worst feelings I've experienced is when i feel like i 1. don't matter, 2. can't make a difference, 3. hopeless. So feeling empowered by doing what we CAN and DO have (some) control over is important too! Obviously depending on cases :3 Thanks again for sharing your thoughts! I always love it when we can push discussions further and get to know how the other person thinks. Sending hugs your way!! 🍦
@@FeelTalks it's crazy that just a hour ago I was writing about this to myself, and now I'm reading your comment. Tonight is one of those times where I don't know what to do. I have an exam soon. I'm very tired and sad but I'm supposed to be studying. And I am in between that "do some self care, listen to your feelings and get the rest you deserve" and "go studying because this depends on you and eventually the result you get will depend also on what your choice is right now, and in two days you'll feel glad about having studied some more pages" . I feel like this is also a modern battle I'm seeing a lot here on TH-cam. The battle between "how to be more productive" type of videos and "self compassion, you deserve time to heal and be kind to yourself" type of videos. Are you noticing that too? Lately I feel like I can't tell when it's time to rest and when it's time to push. What makes it worse is that all my actions, in this period, need a push. Unfortunately I don't feel like doing anything (let alone studying). So this results in always having this internal battle and not really knowing what is best for myself. Rest and take care of your health? Or work hard so you can build yourself a future where you will feel better ?
protect yourself beautiful soul. you cannot carry nor heal this world. the dysfunction we carry as our 'false selves' runs x x x deep. to change it will take absolutely enormous root and branch change. i would love to talk to you about all this. my lifetime's worth. 🙏
ps. do you know of maslow's hierarchy of needs? i find reflection on it useful though i have added self transcendance as the apex. ironically that is deep humility. 🙏
This world doesn't feel like it was meant for me. I'm 22. I have friends & family but this part of my life feels so empty. I've always been a social outcast but I just feel like a total weirdo being a young adult who hasn't grown out of their antisocial ways. I don't wanna die but I just simply wanna stop existing lol.
I don't mean to vent on here as if you're my therapist but I feel much better just knowing someone out here gets it. Thank you for this type of content & I hope you're doing well btw ❤
@@hurtcobain3282 Hey! Thanks so much for voicing your feelings! Please feel free to share any thoughts you have! I think it's so important that we get to feel these types of genuine connections with people who can probably understand what we're going through better than we think 😅I think what you're describing makes a lot of sense. I mean... In a world where individuals are essentially treated like means to economic ends (factory workers, cogs in a wheel...), it's hard to find authentic meaning. Have you ever came across the concept of Hikikomoris in Japan? Feel free to look it up (there are quick docu vids too). I feel like this is a huge phenomenon happening everywhere in the world, but people are suffering in silence :( I really hope we can find ways to express our feelings of emptiness and find solutions that actually work, you know? Anyway, i'm always excited to make a new friend. Hoping you start seeing yourself differently and feel good about trying new things and living YOUR way :) I'm here to chat if you need! 🙏🌻
That's so sweet of you to say!! If i'm being honest, I think the main reason i'm growing it out is 'cause of beauty standards and how others perceive me (and how that affects the image i have of myself). If i can get over that, I'll probably go back to keeping a shaved head! 🙈It's just SO much better! 😂
@@FeelTalks No way! You’re gorgeous bald! Screw the beauty standards and don’t think about how others perceive you bc its not like you’ll see them everyday (ppl in public)! You look so amazing haha
@@oceanman523 Thanks a bunch!!! It does mean a lot!!! I'll keep growing my hair out for a couple of months and see how I feel 🙏 But yeah, chances are that I'll go back to having a shaved head 'cause it's just such low maintenance! 😍 Hahaha Thanks again! 🦄
I'm so touched that you're thinking of me and am sending you and your family all the positive vibes! Excited for all the possibilities in your lives right now! Please keep me posted on any news! 🌻🌻🐰
@@elitec4gj616 Hihihii. I'm at that strange phase where the hair is long enough to look awkwardly pouffy but not heavy enough to start falling flat. So it's not very pretty 😅I'll get through it! Haha! ^^
Hey Anarchy BTW, I really feel like these emotions we are going through are pointing us to a bigger problem. I really don't believe we "want" to die. I think our bodies and minds are telling us that this world is ugly and we need a CHANGE -- maybe a change of environment, maybe a change of people we surround ourselves with, maybe a change in routine, change of perspective... I think we're so bombarded with all the "wrongs" of this world (and there are A LOT of them) that we can't help but feel disconnected from everything and even ourselves :( So the big question is how do we feel connected with ourselves again? Sending you so much love and hugs. You got this. Keep believing in yourself and give yourself a chance to discover what's right for you 🌱💛
Hiii :) Today is a good day. Trying to get stuff done and keep my energy up. The cold is not fun 🙈but Pokémon Go has been very helpful, hehee! How are you? ☀️
@@FeelTalks I’m doing great been living good being grateful for the little things...keeping a positive mindset even through adversity and just willing to get better everyday
I don’t think you are doing a bad job of explaining this. I think you are doing an amazing job. You are so right about not wanting to go but to change the reality. I’m so impressed with your thoughts and words.
The different thing about you is that you're not doing this for views or trying to come up with fake points or lists. You don't force it. You wait for the right moment when you feel like expressing yourself and you let that train of emotions do the work. As if you are making these videos to remind yourself to stay alive. Listening to you is comforting because i know that you know and i feel understood. Thank you.
This made me all teary 🥺 Thank you for such kind words. I remember the first time my sociology professor was introducing symbolic interactionism theories and basically explaining how we can have multiple versions of ourselves and we're just reacting to our social circles --- i cried in class. Up until then, i was just told by my parents that i "must be defective" or "crazy". To have someone else provide a natural/ normal explanation for my behaviors and the way i was feeling was just... ✨💥🌈🔥🌊 ! I felt seen. and human. So to hear that you feel understood... That's so precious to me. Thank you. Hugs. 🧡💚
I just realized you had commented on a previous video! How's moving out planning/ your mental health? How are you feeling? 🌱☀️
Hey! I don't know why your last comment never posted. I copy-pasted the email notification onto the video, because I really appreciated your comment. Hope you're doing well. Thank you for opening up. It means the world that you feel comfortable sharing about these topics. 🌻🌱 And thank you for the lovely compliment! 🍦🧁️
You're so right. I just watched a few of her videos and she is so real... These small talks are so unique, I never managed to find something like this on TH-cam. They are usually points and lists, as you say, quotes and theories coming from psychologists and books. They're interesting to hear , but they are not.. "felt"?, if It makes any sense.
Her being so spontaneous hits differently and, although I'm not commenting my situation, I still somehow felt heard just by listening to her
your vids are truly amazing, don't care about the numbers or views u are really helping someone,, life has been tough for a while to me and watching this i'm really able to persevere and be strong for those who loves me; we are not alone
This is such a beautiful comment. Thank you for sharing this. It means a lot. I hope all the love and beauty around you is strong and pure enough to keep you going and help you find your place in this crazy world! I'm sending you all the hugs! 🌱🧡💚🌻
I love it. You explained it well, we have a natural desire to live and when we are going through pain there is a desire to escape the reality. I’ve learned that it’s important not to feed the negative mindsets and yeah it’s never been easy living tbh but we have it in us to push through and find positive or at least try. I wish you the best in your endeavors much love ❤️
🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻I hope you're doing well, boo. Let's chat soon! Wanna hear about any fun, crazy, or same-olds in your life 💛Love you!
Hello. This video really touched my heart. I hope i ll be strong as you, thank you for being pure and supportive to us, who need a kind and beautiful word of hope. Struggling mental illness myself, thank you Mei. Love from me to you:)
Thank you for your beautiful comment! It really warms my heart. Please hold on and keep believing in yourself and your intrinsic worth as a human ❤️️ I'll be here if you ever need a reminder or a friend to chat with 🧁️☀️🎈
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Oh in terms of suicide, dont do it fam, no matter how much people try to tell you that your wrong or how much a broken system tells you that you cant, the more certain you should be that you must keep pushing ahead, YOU MUST keep pushing forward
YESS!
Wow! ❤️💕❤️
Hey, thanks for commenting! Feel free to share any thoughts. I know this is a difficult topic to explore, but i'd love to know how you feel about it. ☀️
Been awhile mate xD im glad to see your still uploading and stoof
My advice with your issues in your personal life is to try and not put to much structure into your day, life is such a rollercoster that i think putting up structure and expectation generally ends up in frustration and dissapointment
I say this from personal experience xD where i tried to structure and control my life and project expectations from that, ego drove me head first into it xD but uh, well lets just say i feel ive found a some what peace in my life now c:
Anyways im rambling, i send you well wishes friend/friends, im rooting for ya
So happy to hear from you! Was wondering how you've been! Anything new and exciting? 🍕
Great advice! Let go of expectations is definitely something i need to constantly remind myself and it just makes everything smoother/ easier to let go. But i do think we need a balance between "going along with the ride" and "feeling empowered". Some of the worst feelings I've experienced is when i feel like i 1. don't matter, 2. can't make a difference, 3. hopeless. So feeling empowered by doing what we CAN and DO have (some) control over is important too! Obviously depending on cases :3
Thanks again for sharing your thoughts! I always love it when we can push discussions further and get to know how the other person thinks. Sending hugs your way!! 🍦
@@FeelTalks it's crazy that just a hour ago I was writing about this to myself, and now I'm reading your comment. Tonight is one of those times where I don't know what to do. I have an exam soon. I'm very tired and sad but I'm supposed to be studying.
And I am in between that "do some self care, listen to your feelings and get the rest you deserve" and "go studying because this depends on you and eventually the result you get will depend also on what your choice is right now, and in two days you'll feel glad about having studied some more pages" .
I feel like this is also a modern battle I'm seeing a lot here on TH-cam. The battle between "how to be more productive" type of videos and "self compassion, you deserve time to heal and be kind to yourself" type of videos.
Are you noticing that too?
Lately I feel like I can't tell when it's time to rest and when it's time to push.
What makes it worse is that all my actions, in this period, need a push. Unfortunately I don't feel like doing anything (let alone studying). So this results in always having this internal battle and not really knowing what is best for myself.
Rest and take care of your health? Or work hard so you can build yourself a future where you will feel better ?
protect yourself beautiful soul. you cannot carry nor heal this world. the dysfunction we carry as our 'false selves' runs x x x deep. to change it will take absolutely enormous root and branch change. i would love to talk to you about all this. my lifetime's worth. 🙏
ps. do you know of maslow's hierarchy of needs? i find reflection on it useful though i have added self transcendance as the apex. ironically that is deep humility. 🙏
YES! Love this!!! :D And thank you for the your kindness and compassion. It means a lot
@@FeelTalks i have never felt someone who has shared my journey as you have. that is my 'contained' reply. 🙏
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This world doesn't feel like it was meant for me. I'm 22. I have friends & family but this part of my life feels so empty. I've always been a social outcast but I just feel like a total weirdo being a young adult who hasn't grown out of their antisocial ways. I don't wanna die but I just simply wanna stop existing lol.
I don't mean to vent on here as if you're my therapist but I feel much better just knowing someone out here gets it. Thank you for this type of content & I hope you're doing well btw ❤
@@hurtcobain3282 Hey! Thanks so much for voicing your feelings! Please feel free to share any thoughts you have! I think it's so important that we get to feel these types of genuine connections with people who can probably understand what we're going through better than we think 😅I think what you're describing makes a lot of sense. I mean... In a world where individuals are essentially treated like means to economic ends (factory workers, cogs in a wheel...), it's hard to find authentic meaning. Have you ever came across the concept of Hikikomoris in Japan? Feel free to look it up (there are quick docu vids too). I feel like this is a huge phenomenon happening everywhere in the world, but people are suffering in silence :( I really hope we can find ways to express our feelings of emptiness and find solutions that actually work, you know? Anyway, i'm always excited to make a new friend. Hoping you start seeing yourself differently and feel good about trying new things and living YOUR way :) I'm here to chat if you need! 🙏🌻
Ahhhh loving the buzz! :) I’m kinda sad you’re growing it out :(((
That's so sweet of you to say!! If i'm being honest, I think the main reason i'm growing it out is 'cause of beauty standards and how others perceive me (and how that affects the image i have of myself). If i can get over that, I'll probably go back to keeping a shaved head! 🙈It's just SO much better! 😂
@@FeelTalks No way! You’re gorgeous bald! Screw the beauty standards and don’t think about how others perceive you bc its not like you’ll see them everyday (ppl in public)! You look so amazing haha
@@oceanman523 Thanks a bunch!!! It does mean a lot!!! I'll keep growing my hair out for a couple of months and see how I feel 🙏 But yeah, chances are that I'll go back to having a shaved head 'cause it's just such low maintenance! 😍 Hahaha Thanks again! 🦄
Hey I love your content and btw when is your next video coming out
Hi friend!!! I'll try to film one in the next week or two! Busy with the move, feeling stressed, and uninspired :(
Hope you're all doing well! 🧁️💙💛💚
I'm so touched that you're thinking of me and am sending you and your family all the positive vibes! Excited for all the possibilities in your lives right now! Please keep me posted on any news! 🌻🌻🐰
@@FeelTalks I will thanks a lot
@@FeelTalks also how’s the hair growth going for you I’d love to stay updated with it
@@elitec4gj616 Hihihii. I'm at that strange phase where the hair is long enough to look awkwardly pouffy but not heavy enough to start falling flat. So it's not very pretty 😅I'll get through it! Haha! ^^
I highly recommend sadhgurus book death
i wanna die but i dont have the courage too
Hey Anarchy BTW, I really feel like these emotions we are going through are pointing us to a bigger problem. I really don't believe we "want" to die. I think our bodies and minds are telling us that this world is ugly and we need a CHANGE -- maybe a change of environment, maybe a change of people we surround ourselves with, maybe a change in routine, change of perspective... I think we're so bombarded with all the "wrongs" of this world (and there are A LOT of them) that we can't help but feel disconnected from everything and even ourselves :(
So the big question is how do we feel connected with ourselves again?
Sending you so much love and hugs. You got this. Keep believing in yourself and give yourself a chance to discover what's right for you 🌱💛
@@FeelTalks Thank you so much i really appreciate it 😓
@@anarchybtw3841 It's shitty. And we're not alone in this. 💛❤️️
hey mei how u been are you doing okay today :)? just wanted to check on you
Hiii :) Today is a good day. Trying to get stuff done and keep my energy up. The cold is not fun 🙈but Pokémon Go has been very helpful, hehee! How are you? ☀️
@@FeelTalks I’m doing great been living good being grateful for the little things...keeping a positive mindset even through adversity and just willing to get better everyday