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  • @goalcast
    @goalcast  5 ปีที่แล้ว +555

    Want to see more from Terry Crews? Click here to hear Terry share his darkest secret: th-cam.com/video/Y5iRer4Q0tQ/w-d-xo.html

    • @razak449
      @razak449 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Thank you for this inspiring message.

    • @soumikd794
      @soumikd794 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This was heart touching

    • @HamFriedR1ce
      @HamFriedR1ce 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You’re breathtaking

    • @divinelyanointedtoprosper5940
      @divinelyanointedtoprosper5940 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks for sharing your soul through that amazing Speech, He who feels it knows it 💞💯

    • @ernestforrest8801
      @ernestforrest8801 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Goalcast .

  • @PeopleOfCorinth
    @PeopleOfCorinth 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21172

    This is what a real man looks like.

    • @moussasacko2117
      @moussasacko2117 5 ปีที่แล้ว +160

      Facts true facts

    • @bobloerakker7010
      @bobloerakker7010 5 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      Amen

    • @HassanM-y5f
      @HassanM-y5f 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Yh

    • @puppiccino5197
      @puppiccino5197 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      666 likes

    • @sleepynuon8500
      @sleepynuon8500 5 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      @@imjustaguysama315 so a man to you is somebody who doesn't have emotions. Somebody who doesn't feel pain. That's not a human. You are human. He's a human. He has emotions. Got that?

  • @k9jsb224
    @k9jsb224 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11237

    *Oscars are for acting.. this was REAL*

  • @Andre__TheGiantTV
    @Andre__TheGiantTV 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5821

    "Success is the warmest place to hide." that's some deep stuff gotta love this man

    • @Pranav9977
      @Pranav9977 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      i dont know if i fully understand that sentence do u mind explaining it a bit please..

    • @Pranav9977
      @Pranav9977 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Kim C thank you for explaining it so well.. :)

    • @thehappyhamburger2639
      @thehappyhamburger2639 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Andre__ TheGiant i was read this when he was saying it

    • @dv9096
      @dv9096 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well, Success is WARMER,but I would say, JESUS is the #WARMEST. When this world goes into utter Chaos, not even your Success nor your money would help you escape that Tribulation,but only the ✝️SALVATION ✝️ through the Blood of JESUS 🙏😇.
      Humans Die, but that's not the END of out lives. There's Hell waiting for us beyond our lives on earth because of our SINS.
      , And it's the most Horrifying place that Humans shouldn't go to.
      But GOD loved us so much that He didn't want us to perish in the Hell.
      Which is why, He sent His SON to pay the Price(punishment) which should have been rightfully ours'!
      And that price is the COSTLIEST. Which is BLOOD.
      JESUS shed literally every drop of His blood and died for us on Cross.
      And rose back to life on 3 rd day, promising that He would rise everyone who believed in Him and washed his/her sins with His(JESUS') blood , just thebway He rose back from dead.
      And said, all those Accept Him as their SAVIOR would LIVE ETERNALLY even though they died !
      But all those DENY Him would Perish in Hell 🔥 forever!
      He is coming soon to SNATCH AWAY all His FAITHFUL (RAPTURE). Leaving all the UNBELIEVING n UNREPENTANT to Utter Chaos during when Half of the LEFT BEHIND population would Die terribly.
      REPENT n ACCEPT Him soon before it's too late.
      Because, Crying n rolling on Ground wont help in Hell.
      God Bless you 🙏😇❣️

    • @bruhbruh3847
      @bruhbruh3847 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      "Success"

  • @TrixieBoo
    @TrixieBoo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +391

    I was in this situation. It took me 3 attempts to leave. I finally did and myself and daughter are living the best life.

    • @Limcg87
      @Limcg87 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      You are an exceptional person!

    • @KK-ri2gu
      @KK-ri2gu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You have been blessed enjoy every moment of it you only live once at least you get out of it so many womens get killed before they get a chance to live a life

    • @Weldingprobably
      @Weldingprobably 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Glad you were able to escape, God bless

    • @Sasaf767
      @Sasaf767 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wish u the best

    • @coolb8545
      @coolb8545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me my mom and my brother went through this the first 13 years of my life..after 13 years my mom got the courage to leave..well actually my dad offered us to leave bc me and my brother were growing up and we weren't scared anymore..we started standing up to him and my dad realized we weren't gonna let it happen any more

  • @LukeFaulkner
    @LukeFaulkner 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5500

    He always seems irrepressibly upbeat. Would never have guessed he'd had anything other than a happy childhood. Still waters run deep with this guy.

    • @dupontofficial
      @dupontofficial 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hey Luke! See you everywhere haha. love your music btw

    • @skakee10
      @skakee10 5 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      I don’t wanna sound pretentious, but sometimes people can be happy because they know what true unhappiness is

    • @osorineoguri
      @osorineoguri 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ikr..

    • @karsonkammerzell6955
      @karsonkammerzell6955 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I was tasked with writing a paper for an English class about how my father influenced my life.
      Problem was I never knew my father. Instead I wrote about the horrible men my mother had been in and out of relationships with and how they influenced my life by teaching me how to not treat people and gave me examples on the kind of man I did not want to become.
      I aced that assignment, but it goes to show you that while you can have a really negative childhood and terrible, terrible people in your formative years, you are who makes you who you are.
      Yes, it is hard and it isn't always as simple as just saying "I won't be this way." However, if you can say, "I am this way because..." there is nothing stopping you from saying, "I am not this way because...".
      :)

    • @vasilli_arg3092
      @vasilli_arg3092 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      more a men smile, more pain has inside... sometimes we want to give to others what we cound't have, in this case, happiness

  • @jacob-bu1ou
    @jacob-bu1ou 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6955

    the funniest people are the most hurt
    *im praying for all you*

    • @isabellekapustka3206
      @isabellekapustka3206 5 ปีที่แล้ว +243

      jacob it’s bc a lot of people deal with pain through comedy! The most famous comedians are and/or were depressed at some point in their life

    • @jacob-bu1ou
      @jacob-bu1ou 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Isabelle Kapustka makes sense

    • @winstonsanderz3136
      @winstonsanderz3136 5 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      bruh, this is so true there was this kid at my school who was known for being funny and soon I found out that his dad put him out of the house and once the teachers found out they looked somewhere for him to stay.

    • @NetiNeti-gm5bz
      @NetiNeti-gm5bz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@isabellekapustka3206 that's why pay attention. Ask people how the feel

    • @guganesankalidass8452
      @guganesankalidass8452 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      jacob agreed

  • @riekiebruitenbach4632
    @riekiebruitenbach4632 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3830

    I slept in the street for 2 nights to get away from abuse. It was the best two nights of my life. Blessings xxxxx

    • @vladislavsskirpanovs8065
      @vladislavsskirpanovs8065 5 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      I hope you managed to get to a better place where you were before.:)

    • @vladislavsskirpanovs8065
      @vladislavsskirpanovs8065 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      I know what is like, I tried to get away but I couldn't but now I'm in better place and so you will be too.

    • @riekiebruitenbach4632
      @riekiebruitenbach4632 5 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      I am grateful to say that we are safe, happy, looked after and loved beyond measure. It was horrible but I've never felt stronger in my life. It had to happen so I could discover my own strength. Strenght I didn't know I possessed. When abused, you think things are hopeless.

    • @shamsm9086
      @shamsm9086 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I hope things get better my sister...life is like a mountain...theres ups n downs....one day you'll feel completely at peace n happy.. ...inshallah...

    • @MT_YAS7N
      @MT_YAS7N 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@riekiebruitenbach4632 Are you both okay? If you both need help, you can always dm me. I'll try my best to help you both.
      Dm me on Instagram FullThrottleLife40

  • @ialone7487
    @ialone7487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +312

    Lived in very similar situation. When my mom had to leave us, I told her; "Mom don't worry about me and sis, go, get away from dad before he ends up killing you." The best follow thru of her decision ever. She left, and I still support her decision 38 years later.

    • @dakodablack7312
      @dakodablack7312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That’s pretty stupid tbh

    • @ialone7487
      @ialone7487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@dakodablack7312 what is tbh?

    • @indiahamaramulkhai6778
      @indiahamaramulkhai6778 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@dakodablack7312 no bro thats setting ur mother free from devils cages.
      did it

    • @dakodablack7312
      @dakodablack7312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@indiahamaramulkhai6778 idk I can’t really say I tried to kill him many times but my father was scared of my uncle so he never hurt her it was my stepdad I had to deal with

    • @HussRisingYT
      @HussRisingYT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tru

  • @RayanRayan-yz8ze
    @RayanRayan-yz8ze 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9235

    They say that men who cry aren't men. But actually, those who have the guts to cry. THOSE are real men.

    • @lilviruz9653
      @lilviruz9653 5 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      Nah there hella gay

    • @trollstationz5921
      @trollstationz5921 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      So if I joined the military and cried I'd be a real man. No just look at your profile pic your obviously a sad virgin who lives in his mom's basement

    • @RayanRayan-yz8ze
      @RayanRayan-yz8ze 5 ปีที่แล้ว +244

      @@trollstationz5921 the fact you say that proves that you are the one who is. ;) anyway. Have a nice day.

    • @clankboss827
      @clankboss827 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @Flower 34 pretty sure he was just making a joke

    • @nym9045
      @nym9045 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      9 year old Sergeant ok u got ur edgy points, go brag about to your non existent friends of how u triggered ppl over the internet since you have nothing better to do

  • @king_asor
    @king_asor 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8110

    I've always respected this man, now after watching this, i respect him even more. Stay strong!

    • @Tahmidr23
      @Tahmidr23 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      U mean oh yeah yeah

    • @yonkzy6566
      @yonkzy6566 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @Zack Bouknight it's not fake

    • @vi_zo6954
      @vi_zo6954 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @Zack Bouknight *You're *

    • @justinpillai5713
      @justinpillai5713 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @Khabib Nurmagomedov how u know dumbass

    • @-aaa716
      @-aaa716 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Change ur profile please lol

  • @CashCool420
    @CashCool420 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2885

    Only the realest men cry. 😭
    I give all my respect to this man. 😢

    • @pokapig3425
      @pokapig3425 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hella Pain stfu

    • @josuechamu6705
      @josuechamu6705 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No u

    • @memesterlizer7536
      @memesterlizer7536 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheAmazighMuslimah U-NO reverse card. You can't back up from that.
      Because Uno like no u? Uno reverse? Haha ok you dont understand it

    • @memesterlizer7536
      @memesterlizer7536 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheAmazighMuslimah BEGON 🅱️HOT

    • @memesterlizer7536
      @memesterlizer7536 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheAmazighMuslimah 🅱️UST 🅱️OWN 🅱️HOTiana

  • @thebasketballhistorian3291
    @thebasketballhistorian3291 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4770

    The speech itself is fantastic.
    Doesn't need the orchestral music and stock video cuts.

    • @dailyfreestyle2344
      @dailyfreestyle2344 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Made it more intresting doe, but u have a good point

    • @felipecampos5908
      @felipecampos5908 5 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      Agreed! It takes away from the speech, kinda blending it in with all 8928735 movie trailers and whatnots that follow this exact format. This video would be way better in its raw form.

    • @linamutlag211
      @linamutlag211 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Plus the music is kinda loud

    • @One-Punch_Man
      @One-Punch_Man 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Glad I'm not the only one that thought that. I hate it when they add music or something that takes away the attention of what's trying tho be shown. I feel that silence is what really brings out the true emotions in these types of moments. Music and stock videos just ruin what the person/moment was trying to tell us/express itself. It's only on rare occasions the added music makes the moment more powerful, but it wasn't necessary here.

    • @joshv8509
      @joshv8509 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Y’all are high it would sound like a 20 minute video without editing

  • @Borderose
    @Borderose 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3894

    Terry Crews is such a sweetheart. I wish him all the best in the world.

    • @mykebyte
      @mykebyte 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Preach.

    • @brewskie866
      @brewskie866 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Julius

    • @abeperdomo1401
      @abeperdomo1401 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hakuraita terry is Satan worshipper behind close doors but as a Satan worshipper he was once a human like us so we could feel his pain.still it doesn't change the fact he worship Satan..hypocrites especial all movie actors all music artist all athlete all in the tv..fake role models fake desires for the youth fake dream..terry a Satan worshipper just like half of the USA government n half of the world government straight Satan worshippers..

    • @robertbogan225
      @robertbogan225 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      abe perdomo sounds like satans got you bud

    • @abeperdomo1401
      @abeperdomo1401 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Robert Bogan u must be a Christian meaning Satan been had you Christian with falsehood

  • @offzany__0184
    @offzany__0184 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2350

    I love Terry crews he's such an amazing, brave person

    • @SammeV
      @SammeV 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wanna like this, but I ain't breaking 777 likes

    • @skinnny2055
      @skinnny2055 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SammeV now u can like, now u can.

    • @buenosdiasfuckboy9485
      @buenosdiasfuckboy9485 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jessie Marsden terry loves yogurt and i luv terry 😢❤️❤️

  • @Darksnake87
    @Darksnake87 5 ปีที่แล้ว +674

    "The nicest people are the most hurt" - unknown

    • @iamevil8582
      @iamevil8582 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That’s right and rong a lot of abused people turn to crime

    • @Darksnake87
      @Darksnake87 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@iamevil8582 wrong*

    • @iamevil8582
      @iamevil8582 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Darksnake 87 😒😒😒
      🖕🖕🖕🖕!

    • @Darksnake87
      @Darksnake87 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@iamevil8582 I have that feeling that you like your own comments

    • @Darksnake87
      @Darksnake87 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Robbie L. It's true for some

  • @rubyh.369
    @rubyh.369 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1151

    What a beautiful man inside and out. ❤

    • @SG-pc4sv
      @SG-pc4sv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤️

    • @c.conga11
      @c.conga11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lemme smash

    • @jesuuuuuus5684
      @jesuuuuuus5684 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No that's my babe

    • @velocitypeasant5832
      @velocitypeasant5832 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Ex Gamer the THIRST on this one... It's off the scale... Good god, its - it's an eleven year old! GOD HELP US PLEASE

    • @bximjw4365
      @bximjw4365 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      need 1 more like ur at 999

  • @AkbarAli-vb9qy
    @AkbarAli-vb9qy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2136

    I feel like the reason why he's so big now is because of the trauma his father caused him and he's scared of being weak again. Deep stuff.

    • @sajmeister
      @sajmeister 5 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      100%! This is why you see guys like this (Dolph Lundgren, Arnold Schwarzenegger, etc) turn into big muscular brickhouses because as kids they were too weak to fight back or do anything against their aggressors, especially when it's their father, someone who they're supposed to look up to and be looked after by. This big build for them is their armour, their protection and their safety. May these men be blessed and continue the work they do.

    • @bolaadeyemi8179
      @bolaadeyemi8179 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sajmeister bytyg

    • @kirstenkim5011
      @kirstenkim5011 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@bolaadeyemi8179 what does that mean?

    • @deanshazer4200
      @deanshazer4200 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Nah its cause his dad was built just like that it’s genetics jkjk

    • @abbasap9492
      @abbasap9492 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m going to start working out

  • @BEEFlad
    @BEEFlad 6 ปีที่แล้ว +892

    "The one that smiles the most has the sadest backstory" someone onece told me that, and I'll never forget

    • @tyjax5119
      @tyjax5119 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      My sexy little kitten. 😻😽

    • @SanduniWarnakulasooriya
      @SanduniWarnakulasooriya 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Well that's true. Do you wanna know why they smile. It's because if you're in somewhere that felt like you're safe. Then you'll just have fun and try to forget everything you have been going through. That's why they smile. At least that's why I smile

    • @sunnykinghondaworker
      @sunnykinghondaworker 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      No truer words have been said

    • @erronblack308
      @erronblack308 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lumine I like this.

    • @epicanimal3693
      @epicanimal3693 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lumine 💙💙💙

  • @ngm7412
    @ngm7412 4 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    The only reason he was brought to tears was the remembrance the pain he went through as a child . That pain NEVER leaves. But you learn to control it as he did . He truely is a great inspiration because even in the darkest of times he never gave up

  • @sergiobiscuits5737
    @sergiobiscuits5737 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1084

    Real men don’t fear to show emotions. Much respect bro 🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @gutwounds
      @gutwounds 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hiding our emotions makes stressful situations more comforting for those freaking out around us. I'd like to cry, but I've refused to do so because its always a situation that would seem to make it worse if i did.

    • @HeIs580
      @HeIs580 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gutwounds Who's going to be strong if men cry like little girls ? Lesbians ? LOL society is doomed.

    • @abowlofstuff482
      @abowlofstuff482 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He Is can women not be strong is that not a thing

    • @HeIs580
      @HeIs580 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@travisdixon-oneill1558 The only purpose of emotional overreaction is to attract empathy from others, so don't give me that non-sense. You don't need to act emotive & manipulate others into pity when you're strong & confident. Emotive people are in denial about their state of being.

    • @swatteam7520
      @swatteam7520 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kai Patterson real men don’t feel emotion

  • @TheDictismiT
    @TheDictismiT 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1262

    I cant comprehend how someone like Terry exists. Traumatized childhood, groped, undoubtedly dealt with racism at some point. And yet he is here to inspire and help others.
    Jesus christ, Terry.. we love you.

    • @eerikkiwhykeke1520
      @eerikkiwhykeke1520 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Proof that shitty childhoods don’t make shitty people, yeah there are that 1% that have truly fucked up things happen to them but it doesn’t explain the other 99 who are just weak.

    • @filmboy95
      @filmboy95 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I Come From A Land Down Under You obviosly didn't have it very hard then 🙄

    • @StermaPerma
      @StermaPerma 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Dictismit why ‘undoubtetly’? just cuz he’s black? lol

    • @louiurdaneta4591
      @louiurdaneta4591 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Mark Muszyński I know right?

    • @TheDictismiT
      @TheDictismiT 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Because racism in america is insane, so of course i say undoubtedly, but not BECAUSE he is black. That is a dumb thing to get caught up in.

  • @vRakunz
    @vRakunz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +987

    This is why Terry crews is my favorite actor ever he is funny and an amazing person

    • @ok-wh6zh
      @ok-wh6zh 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How's this funny

    • @anthonyeverhart4097
      @anthonyeverhart4097 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm from 210 also man

    • @lawn_mower4941
      @lawn_mower4941 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      guys wtf its the truth. He isn't fucking acting. Show some fucking sympathy

    • @casarah8108
      @casarah8108 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      But also he...he......he is just a amazing person and ofcourse when there are tough times not only him anyone everyone can no needs to stick up and protect even when ur scared

  • @bgb411
    @bgb411 5 ปีที่แล้ว +241

    We don't deserve Terry Crews, but we're glad we have him ❤️

    • @WhenYOUhearmyname
      @WhenYOUhearmyname 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/fNZnqyeSudw/w-d-xo.html

  • @ChrisAli
    @ChrisAli 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4826

    Wishing everyone a STRONG day today💯💪🏽

    • @youraveragepotato5954
      @youraveragepotato5954 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Chris Ali thank you😁

    • @ChrisAli
      @ChrisAli 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Grub Time 💜💜💜

    • @ChrisAli
      @ChrisAli 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'mposs ible 💜💜💜

    • @ChrisAli
      @ChrisAli 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Zakiyah Zubair 😊🙏🏼

    • @harrylaflare846
      @harrylaflare846 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Skull Exyle really

  • @jayy3587
    @jayy3587 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1022

    I pray that his mother is OK now if she is still alive even if shes in heaven i hope shes OK.

    • @chan-ll2mo
      @chan-ll2mo 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Boston sucks

    • @bgstv10001
      @bgstv10001 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@chan-ll2mo GROW TF UP

    • @bgstv10001
      @bgstv10001 5 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      his mom passed away on 2011

    • @zain4019
      @zain4019 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Steven White
      God bless her soul, and his, and us all.

    • @brickautomatic2695
      @brickautomatic2695 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@zain4019 amen

  • @THE118TRUTH
    @THE118TRUTH 5 ปีที่แล้ว +204

    Things I love about this speech
    1. The sincerity
    2. The fact he wasn't reading it at all
    3. You can tell he truly believes in the words he is speaking
    Honestly the first few minutes of this absolutely broke me, to see a grown man struggling to talk through emotion is something nobody wants to see.

  • @Kgknipp
    @Kgknipp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    No music required. His words are powerful enough.

  • @vanuhu7301
    @vanuhu7301 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7888

    Give this man an oscar

    • @Dennis0is0Mr1Swag
      @Dennis0is0Mr1Swag 6 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Alpha Ryan Give this man an awareness movie to star in! He could push the publicity and use a portion of profits to fundraise.

    • @father4732
      @father4732 6 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      he wasnt finna acting tho. rude.

    • @12Bananarama12
      @12Bananarama12 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Alpha Ryan the music is fucking stupid

    • @donniedarko464
      @donniedarko464 6 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      Why? He wasn’t acting.

    • @HiThereLindsey
      @HiThereLindsey 6 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      You don't get Oscars for being yourself

  • @t2gd
    @t2gd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +523

    Big man with a huge soul. Make me believe in good things.

  • @jacobo4484
    @jacobo4484 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2899

    Men are judged heavily by people when they tell their feelings

    • @Nebulum
      @Nebulum 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Ragged.09 Can you leave? No one asked about what you feel about his profile picture.

    • @thl205
      @thl205 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      We need to accept that it’s ok for men to talk about feelings, and other guys need to stop saying “that’s girly” if it’s clear the other guy wants to be serious for once

    • @angelinaschlesinger
      @angelinaschlesinger 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Then they develop disorders with horrible consequences to themselves and others sometimes on a criminal level and the same people wonder why they never got the mental help they obviously needed.

    • @qolpy222
      @qolpy222 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      pancake not if you’re 6’5 300 pounds of muscle

    • @lenkngomez8451
      @lenkngomez8451 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      R Ka we just need to stop classifying people as boys and girls and start seeing one another as human beings with emtions and feelings and their own self , what makes them them. Look at every other civilization, the aliens, they are all One. Giving each other unconditional love , who do we only get that from ?? Our mothers, aside from that everyone else cares for for themselves, imagine if we never let anyone down , if you dont know something I'll tell you about it , why?? Because we are all one, no one is less, no one is better, once you know see the truth, come talk to us and enter a stage of awakening...

  • @laurafedora5385
    @laurafedora5385 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    The fact that he was headed down this same road and straightened himself out is really inspiring. He has an incredible strength of character

  • @happyfallen6434
    @happyfallen6434 5 ปีที่แล้ว +842

    I grew up the same way, it felt like a warzone, I lived in fear.
    When I became a mother I promised my parents I would make up for their mistakes to my children. I've succeeded, they grew up in a loving environment without fear.
    My boys are men now and I may hope that whatever mistake I made, they will not make same mistakes to their children one day. It is the only way to break the chain.

    • @keerthanaj2519
      @keerthanaj2519 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Wow that's beautiful!

    • @charesseyares9464
      @charesseyares9464 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Godbless

    • @Syed-bin
      @Syed-bin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you for choosing love! But I read somewhere you don't make the same mistakes again you make the opposite mistakes! It's just funny nothing to do with Ur story..😆♥️

    • @Unknown90010
      @Unknown90010 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Life of living with a narcissist I lived the same life...knowing the narcissist you tube channel is what brung me peace check it out

    • @satan3034
      @satan3034 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely beautiful, I wish to break the similar chain. I have been compared to having and acting like my abuser, hopefully I’ll be above to be like you!

  • @sunnyleatham
    @sunnyleatham 6 ปีที่แล้ว +609

    "Success is the warmest place to hide"

    • @callmecarmella
      @callmecarmella 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      sunny leatham ....sooooo true.

    • @tupacshakur6600
      @tupacshakur6600 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don’t make fun of me i don’t get it

    • @callmecarmella
      @callmecarmella 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      TupacShakur ......Your focus in life is very different when you become successful. Most likely you are surrounded by other successful people. It is very easy to hide behind what you have achieved. In most cases you have more than enough money to live a comfortable life style. You focus on YOU and nothing else. You become blind to the fact that others are still struggling. You say you won’t forget, however when those checks start coming in it is very easy to turn a blind eye. I have been on both sides of the coin. One day when you become successful you will not forget others that are still trying to make it out of the darkness.

    • @Spinosaurus44
      @Spinosaurus44 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'll use that as my Yearbook Quote

    • @Spinosaurus44
      @Spinosaurus44 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      P Smith who says poverty is darkness? Poverty is only shitty if you're poor in a place when most others are more successful or have more money than you. However in my country during the 90's, everything was so expensive at some point that people couldn't afford to buy bread. And when my parents and other people talk about those days, they say they were struggling everyday, but they found happiness in the simplest of things and they had hope. And because everyone was poor, the people all learned to coexist and help each other. Basically they didn't care that they were poor, because they were poor together.

  • @generalmishap4385
    @generalmishap4385 6 ปีที่แล้ว +760

    Great speech from Terry Crews, but it really didn't need the emotive music. The powerful message is already in the words he is speaking.

    • @totalbozo
      @totalbozo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      What would it be like to live your life knowing that you are the kind of person who writes comments like 'shut up pussy' as a response to a perfectly reasonable post? It must be like there are these glowing angelic figures above you, miraculously capable of complicated words and concepts. For example: they can praise something whilst also recognising flaws. To you, who are only capable of a simplistic, absolute love/hate binary this must seem amazing, magical. But when you try to join in your ape-grunt words fail you, and full of resentment you turn to the safe familiarity of 'fuck u.'

    • @kinky7161
      @kinky7161 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Is the message powerful as old spice bodywash b.o blocker ?

  • @jennifersolomon2769
    @jennifersolomon2769 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    What Terry's mom said is so true. When folks say, just leave, y do u stay. The question is go where, with what money, etc. The victims are helpless hence they stay and go through this horror that's why I have so much respect for shelters that help women and their kids to get a new start in life.

  • @colaboxx2654
    @colaboxx2654 5 ปีที่แล้ว +398

    "I would get home, go to my room until I was 14"
    Nobody should ever go through this😢

    • @yael0789
      @yael0789 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ColaBoxx im 17 and cant do anything

    • @sajmeister
      @sajmeister 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      This is why you see guys like this (Dolph Lundgren, Arnold Schwarzenegger, etc) turn into big muscular brickhouses because as kids they were too weak to fight back or do anything against their aggressors, especially when it's their father, someone who they're supposed to look up to and be looked after by. This big build for them is their armour, their protection and their safety. May these men be blessed and continue the work they do.

    • @marvinradermacher5781
      @marvinradermacher5781 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@yael0789 I hope it gets better for you:(

    • @AndrejcapetainTO
      @AndrejcapetainTO 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sajmeister If you are big it doesnt mean you can fight

    • @afshan506
      @afshan506 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hope things get better

  • @mmma5261
    @mmma5261 5 ปีที่แล้ว +502

    The broken are more evolved. Rejoice!

    • @mitchellfay5725
      @mitchellfay5725 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Split quote?

    • @Wildguy6664
      @Wildguy6664 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      One of my favourite quotes ever

    • @kylie9687
      @kylie9687 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mitchell Fay obviously

    • @ethanwood217
      @ethanwood217 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I understand where this is from its such a good quote

    • @autumnhaas9466
      @autumnhaas9466 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rejoice! :)

  • @poppa4178
    @poppa4178 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2683

    I bet he wouldn't have hit her if Terry crews was the size he is now👊🏾

    • @thewalkingdeadlife7006
      @thewalkingdeadlife7006 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Lmao yeah.

    • @gekido586
      @gekido586 5 ปีที่แล้ว +205

      Maybe this is one of the reasons why he is such a mountain today

    • @thomashagel3559
      @thomashagel3559 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      He would've people like that don't care until they are put in their place and are afraid.

    • @germyw
      @germyw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      That's what Terry Crews' subconscious told his body, too. And now we have this lovable giant.

    • @briarosebeverleyhillsqueen1505
      @briarosebeverleyhillsqueen1505 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I just said that

  • @waltertrejo9512
    @waltertrejo9512 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    I feel for this man. I went through the exact same thing while my old man was an abusive alcoholic, he is much better than before. He is no longer with my mum and hasn't touched a drop of alcohol for at least 20 years. He is my dad and I still love him and forgive him but I will never forget!

    • @tawnnope7196
      @tawnnope7196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep....yours and my story are very similar

  • @prabhsangha1639
    @prabhsangha1639 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Terry Crew's story is a great example of the fact that you can't control what problems you have but you CAN control the person you become despite them.

    • @sajmeister
      @sajmeister 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯 This is why you see guys like this (Dolph Lundgren, Arnold Schwarzenegger, etc) turn into big muscular brickhouses because as kids they were too weak to fight back or do anything against their aggressors, especially when it's their father, someone who they're supposed to look up to and be looked after by. This big build for them is their armour, their protection and their safety. May these men be blessed and continue the work they do.

  • @sanesanity9056
    @sanesanity9056 6 ปีที่แล้ว +463

    Never expected Terry to have gone through all that!

    • @Memento--Mori
      @Memento--Mori 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Millions go through it, but we don't talk about it. We get tough, and survive. I'm glad I went through what I went through as a child, it made me who I am today. Hardship creates strength.

    • @gh0st3d44
      @gh0st3d44 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Collin I wonder how you could be proud of horrible events because I certainly am not

    • @davo9905
      @davo9905 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts, he's so cheerful in Everybody Hates Chris

    • @jfkpeekedmyscout
      @jfkpeekedmyscout 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      hes not the only one it really shows you how much you've been through and you can do anything since its much easier than going through your past issues

    • @iluvvmoney
      @iluvvmoney 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think that's the reason he got strong, has muscles and workout. So if anything happened to his family, he is STRONG enough to win against all wars and pritect everyobe he doesn not want to lose so soon. I hope Terry Crews the best through all the future and keeo believing on pisitive things kids.
      *DON'T GIVE UP!!*

  • @exoticboiii4686
    @exoticboiii4686 5 ปีที่แล้ว +468

    "I needed to be strong"
    *he definitely achieved that..*

  • @Pamelina1111
    @Pamelina1111 5 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    To those who abuse others, shame on you for robbing another’s love for life and happiness. Seek help to break the cycle of abuse. Destroying someone’s dreams is not an option.

    • @KK-ri2gu
      @KK-ri2gu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So true thank you God bless you

  • @Captainlonate
    @Captainlonate 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1013

    I think you should just play the speech, instead of the weird video clips with overly dramatic music. His speech is perfect already.

    • @RB26DETT_
      @RB26DETT_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Agree 100%

    • @DunDone_IT5252
      @DunDone_IT5252 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yes very ANNOYING

    • @Littleofeverything
      @Littleofeverything 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      maybe its for copyright

    • @AmrishLM10
      @AmrishLM10 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I downloaded it as an audio. It's a perfect speech.

  • @joshualuntsford
    @joshualuntsford 6 ปีที่แล้ว +980

    Yo. I tell my son. It’s ok to cry. We cry as men. It’s ok to show your emotions

    • @texasgirl73goodjob46
      @texasgirl73goodjob46 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      That's GREAT MEN SHOULDNT BE SCARED 2 CRY CUZ EVERYBODY HAS FEELINGS IF U GOTTA CRY IT OUT THEN CRY IT OUT DONT BE SCARED BOTH MEN AND WOMEN CAN CRY

    • @CT--ro2nc
      @CT--ro2nc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      But dont let emotions controls you

    • @madz2
      @madz2 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      CT - 8882 what do you mean by that?

    • @akmalidham
      @akmalidham 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      If u are afraid to show weakness than you're not a man😡

    • @akmalidham
      @akmalidham 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @JTooFlashy Fortnite how are u now ,if u are proud of what u are now then thats good

  • @mayablack_vlogs3152
    @mayablack_vlogs3152 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2761

    I'm here for you I know how you feel my dad nearly killed my brother he threw me down the stairs he beat me my mum was scared to leave but I wasn't when I turned 10 i was in school and when my mum came to pick me and my brother up from school i told her that she needs to come into the reception so we got in and I said mummy i told them I told them that you're scared of daddy right then our school police officer and my head teacher came in and said we are there for you my mum fell to the ground on her knees crying i hugged her and said I didn't mind when daddy hit me but I hated it when he hit you
    Thank you for reading this wasn't easy for me

    • @jules.m.6919
      @jules.m.6919 5 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      I'm sorry that that happened to you. You're really brave for sharing. Hope it gets better

    • @breonamullins5346
      @breonamullins5346 5 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      Wow! I literally cried reading this. It is so powerful to overcome the trials of life and be able to share it to encourage someone else. You have no idea who you might have helped by writing this. Keep pushing Love! May God keep you and your family.

    • @johnabraham7125
      @johnabraham7125 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Speak up dear...there is hope

    • @jay5474
      @jay5474 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I witnessed once when i was young about 7 or 8, when my father came home drunk and was arguing with my mom .I was crying as well as my older brother.When i was growing up i thought my problems was the worst in the world but it was nothing when compared to wat other people go thru .Its sad to imagine wat u had to go thru .A big hug from this end .

    • @stopwrongway718
      @stopwrongway718 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sorry...😥

  • @DJWOLFLIVE
    @DJWOLFLIVE 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Sounds exactly like my childhood. I really respect Terry for this speech.

  • @amarendranath2954
    @amarendranath2954 5 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    Stand up against domestic or any other kind of violence.
    As a veteran I can only say... 'The strong should protect the weak, not pain them'

    • @عبدالله-ب5ج7ر
      @عبدالله-ب5ج7ر 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The strong fight the strong so nation can become more powerful and protect the people that should be protected not the other way around

  • @sivuyilejonas
    @sivuyilejonas 6 ปีที่แล้ว +219

    I hate the fact that I can relate to this. The fear...The anxiety...The terror. Brought back too many painful memories

    • @ajayakumar5914
      @ajayakumar5914 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sivuyile Jonas sending you love and wishing you strength! ❤🌻

    • @aahhh3207
      @aahhh3207 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yep I can relate too unfortunately.

    • @dhiahrahmawati3678
      @dhiahrahmawati3678 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I feel the same with you

    • @robinbutler4515
      @robinbutler4515 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I prayed that God will heal your heart that when you reflect back on what you’ve gone through you won’t feel pain anymore. May God bless and continue to keep you!

    • @GOATLAVISH777
      @GOATLAVISH777 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sivuyile Jonas You and me both, glad I’ve dealt with it and been able to forgive my father, I held a lot of resentment and hatred towards him for years but I once heard that holding resentment and hatred towards someone is like you drinking poison but hoping they get hurt, in reality it just hurts you. Don’t get me wrong it took a while but literally it was like a huge weight lifted off my shoulders

  • @WBsteve
    @WBsteve 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1396

    Terry Crews For President 2020!

    • @Angle1Of2Darkness
      @Angle1Of2Darkness 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      WBsteve uh no?

    • @Nenojames
      @Nenojames 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      WBsteve Dawayne Johnson for President and Chris rock for vice

    • @kmccurdy21
      @kmccurdy21 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Komocho?

    • @JJ-03
      @JJ-03 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      WBsteve nah they smart enough to not ruin their career trying to make every American happy. Dwayne Johnson never gonna run for president. FUCK TRUMP

    • @stinky_pinky8141
      @stinky_pinky8141 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      F You

  • @unicornart7339
    @unicornart7339 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Wat a good successful loyal man looks like
    A HERO

  • @ah_tmc
    @ah_tmc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +385

    “Success is the warmest place to hide”. Snap😶😶

  • @joshcameron4645
    @joshcameron4645 6 ปีที่แล้ว +557

    everybody complaining about the music tbh I was so into what he was saying I didn't even realise there was music playing.

    • @sethrider6625
      @sethrider6625 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I didn't hear music until I read this comment. Amazing honestly I'm with you

    • @indrajithak47
      @indrajithak47 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's when you know it's good

    • @imbrad4449
      @imbrad4449 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ikr😂

    • @sandrar.morales9583
      @sandrar.morales9583 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There was music? Wth... I didnt hear none..

    • @stepchild8100
      @stepchild8100 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Josh Cameron it was just too much. Once you notice it, it was hard to not hear anymore

  • @matsernn
    @matsernn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +245

    Such a great dude. Big heart. Big soul.
    Real men cry. Probably the most «manly» thing to do.
    Great speech!

  • @GK-ry7fw
    @GK-ry7fw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My father was very similar as his, the trauma never leaves you but letting go heals you. Thanks for this brother

  • @benakacrazed7750
    @benakacrazed7750 6 ปีที่แล้ว +679

    He a really cool guy

  • @stay4sho804
    @stay4sho804 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1431

    He wet his bed until 14. Nice to finally have someone that had the same problem as me. I stopped at 10

    • @justrandom7752
      @justrandom7752 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Most Theatrical same I stopped peeing my bed at like 13

    • @uhef87rfec54
      @uhef87rfec54 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      And i stopet peeing the bed at 10

    • @hb645
      @hb645 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I'm 20 and I still wet it no joke

    • @debugger6502
      @debugger6502 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I stopped at 7

    • @GangstaLuck
      @GangstaLuck 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I stopped at 11

  • @aph2772
    @aph2772 6 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    It amazes me how people go through this and still lead great lives without even leaving a hint that they have been through this. Very strong people.

    • @foxiebrown516
      @foxiebrown516 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Alphish 121 thank you for saying that. I am determined to live a life where when I actually do have children, they'll never have to see our go through what I did. My father almost killed me and my sister and then tried to kill my mother after I had escaped with my sister. I was only 4 years old. I grew up to be a police officer to protect people in this situation. Now I'm trying to find a more effective way to help.
      Thank you.

  • @Cymatic-Mage
    @Cymatic-Mage 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2664

    His father was most likely abused horribly, also. But his father did not break the cycle.

    • @velocitypeasant5832
      @velocitypeasant5832 5 ปีที่แล้ว +143

      For the record, please say that your not giving him an excuse.

    • @moe1547
      @moe1547 5 ปีที่แล้ว +128

      That's no excuse. Let the past go and be better yourself

    • @omniowl3515
      @omniowl3515 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Moe Jibril You can say that all you want but for a lot of people its not easy to break the chain for everyone.

    • @jobo7550
      @jobo7550 5 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Moe Jibril
      My father managed to break the chain, but it’s extremely difficult.

    • @Zaiqahal
      @Zaiqahal 5 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      Terry broke the cycle.

  • @RadBunny2269
    @RadBunny2269 5 ปีที่แล้ว +272

    He literally described my home growing up. Still having to learn how to treat the woman I'm my life compassionately coz no one ever taught me that. I felt this.

    • @kaylalala6
      @kaylalala6 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Victor Muthoka as a woman growing up in this exact situation, I just push every man that wants to love me away. I’m 27 yrs old now and lonely and depressed :( I wish there was a button we could press to fix us... I’m so sorry you had to grow up in this environment & I will keep you & everyone that has lived this in my prayers 🙏🏽

    • @KK-ri2gu
      @KK-ri2gu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@kaylalala6 life is so hard you rather be alone than years and years of abuse or killed they tortured and terrorized so sad no one take away your freedom stay strong God bless you

    • @KK-ri2gu
      @KK-ri2gu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Excellent God bless you

    • @tammybain6582
      @tammybain6582 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lean more into Jesus. His love changes us into who we want to be.

    • @sunshine12330
      @sunshine12330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so sorry for your pain victor, you didn't deserve that, I know I don't know you personally but I've read your comment, and it touched my heart. you have the will to learn how and that's a good thing just open your heart to the MOST HIGH and he will not fail you on your journey... he will teach you how to be a good husband to your wife and beyond that! keep on winning brotha, and best wishes to you and your family!!👍🏾❤

  • @andyours3877
    @andyours3877 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    “Success is the warmest place to hide”.
    Words of wisdom.

  • @gdmaksy4991
    @gdmaksy4991 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    This is literally the best human on this planet

  • @aliciahill7482
    @aliciahill7482 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I love this man !!!
    The courage .. to face his truth.. to be able to talk to the public.. thank you!!
    Good soul.. good man

  • @Speakupok
    @Speakupok 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    It doesn’t matter how old you are as an adult you always remember and you will never forget the trauma that you experience as a child. The only thing that one can do to heal is to forgive cause you can’t forget.

  • @elokohi8635
    @elokohi8635 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I used this as an example in my English language paper 2 question 5 to show how people who are dedicated can rise to be wonderful. Terry is such an inspiration.

  • @idusythdgr
    @idusythdgr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    I love Terry Crews man, got so much respect for him

  • @madii2973
    @madii2973 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    “You are changing the world” 🙌👏

  • @chrisc67333
    @chrisc67333 6 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    Everybody H8s Chris but everyone loves Terry Crews

  • @gailjackson-chapman7085
    @gailjackson-chapman7085 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Terry Crews is a very strong 💪 man that needs to be in every child life to protect their mother. Just love him. He has a strong family behind him❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @mitch7094
    @mitch7094 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1376

    I wish i was as brave as him, i WANTED to protect my mother from my abusive father, but i'm a coward. I can't talk back to him so i just hide in my fantasy. But my mom couldn't, she has to endure his beating and deal with problems for the house and for me, but i didnt do anything.
    Now she's passed and i've moved out of the house and i REGRET not standing up for my mother. I will never forget how she struggles for me. I won't forget what you said to me, I will cherish myself. I love you mom

    • @312hustla
      @312hustla 6 ปีที่แล้ว +130

      Don't beat yourself up fam, we all don't have the strength at times when we need it. I wanted to protect my grandma when I was young, I was like 7 and now I'm to a point where I can. One you'll get your own family and you'll do whatever it takes to defend them. Don't look on it as regret, look on it and use it as motivation.

    • @aidenlancuba2060
      @aidenlancuba2060 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Payout you two are amazing people I have never experienced like that

    • @anasal-oweidi2202
      @anasal-oweidi2202 6 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      I am sorry for what you went through. Don’t blame yourself as it is not your fault. I know it’s hard and sometimes it feels like you let them down. Truth is that you did your best. Be kind to yourself in your own mind. Aim for a positive influence with regards to this particular matter. I hope you feel better.

    • @echoxvr2032
      @echoxvr2032 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      its ok you did the right thing if u did stand up u could have died we have to let life chose its ways

    • @mikkelahlskog2344
      @mikkelahlskog2344 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      U are just saying it to get attention

  • @mr.a1827
    @mr.a1827 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    every smile hides a painful truth

  • @xxcoolxx3942
    @xxcoolxx3942 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1500

    There is actually people disliking this vid.
    wow

    • @notacop1067
      @notacop1067 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Max Hoeven why would a feminist dislike this?

    • @xxcoolxx3942
      @xxcoolxx3942 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Lea Barsoum fax

    • @pr0gengoo96
      @pr0gengoo96 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Bealive it or not I asked a friend once why he deislikes such videos - he said
      I don't like what happened to the nice people in those stories - some people take this dislike stuff litterally - don't hate on them - they are simple folks

    • @jake1588
      @jake1588 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Must of had their phones upside down

    • @loopydrip6118
      @loopydrip6118 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It’s his dad making multiple accounts to dislike with

  • @laurentdebacker2795
    @laurentdebacker2795 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    How did we get that far off...? So much respect for this man!

  • @sn3pz891
    @sn3pz891 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I remember opening up about something emotional, and being told I wasn’t strong for that, and that I shouldn’t tell people those things, because nobody wants to hear it.
    That really hurt, but..
    It’s the strong people that take the risk to open up and trust someone.
    And that’s exactly what this man did for you.

    • @20somethingsworld97
      @20somethingsworld97 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sn3pz what was it, that emotional thing, ifyou don’t mind telling me

    • @20somethingsworld97
      @20somethingsworld97 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Keerthana J that last part is true but at least you can find out who really cares and who doesn’t.
      Also if what you guys are complaining about is BS
      Issues
      Then that’s probably
      Why you the very people you once
      Called friends told you straight up whether by actions or verbally, that they don’t know wanna hear your problems

    • @omniowl3515
      @omniowl3515 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      20somethingsWorld Its because the world only wants to hear about positive things people need to open their eyes and see that there is more problems in this shitty world than they imagined.

  • @jbrokik6249
    @jbrokik6249 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    To see a tank of a man like Terry almost break down and cry inspired me to speak about my problems to my friends. He is one of the best people to ever live

  • @AchievingAllOfMe
    @AchievingAllOfMe 6 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I have been that kid like terry. And I have been that woman and mom too. We were trapped. All I remember thinking was why wasn't there anyone or any wonderful places like this one. For me I got out but the time it took to find my own escape nearly cost me my life cuz he found out at the end. I am lucky to have lived and worked hard to get myself and children the help and education we needed so none of us ever carry on any of those abusive tendencies. God bless this man n his true strength to stand and show this is what a real man and father does...and to never give up on helping and bettering urself to help the world. Thank u.

    • @robinbutler4515
      @robinbutler4515 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jen Gillespie God bless you always!

  • @truthbetoldgizmo7186
    @truthbetoldgizmo7186 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    This man, Terry Crews, is a real role model, for me, for everyone, for the world. 🏋️‍♂️

  • @legenary_
    @legenary_ 6 ปีที่แล้ว +777

    That can so traumatizing at such a young age all you’ll want to do is grow up fast so you can do everything in your power to make sure your mother was treated like an angel 😇 I use to vomit 🤮 until I was 14 when that would happen to my mother until I turned 15 I changed all of that I stood up for my mother and said as long I’m on this earth not a soul will hurt my mom again now all that experience caused so many psychological problems mentally physically and emotionally I agree no one should be treated lesser of a person this is a great man here we all can change the world some how some way one day 🙌🏽🙏🏼

    • @iniejidele7370
      @iniejidele7370 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      legen17ary_ 17 fact

    • @dhiahrahmawati3678
      @dhiahrahmawati3678 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'M SO AGREE WITH YOU!

    • @dr3ad672
      @dr3ad672 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      legen17ary_ 17 .

    • @LouisChaldi
      @LouisChaldi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nobody cares

    • @moeali8425
      @moeali8425 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Abzorb what’s wrong with you. U ignorant fuck 😤😤

  • @jysnc4462
    @jysnc4462 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Terry Crews is the most respectable man ever he’s lowkey my motivation for each day 😔

  • @ajayakumar5914
    @ajayakumar5914 6 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    My heart is breaking. Terry is such a gem of a human being.❤❤❤

  • @lostintranslation2985
    @lostintranslation2985 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I wish they let men be honest like this instead of judging them

  • @geekista
    @geekista 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I have always liked this man, for no particular reason. Now I know why. respect 👏

  • @pirategirl58
    @pirategirl58 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Bless his heart. He's a good man...and a loving son.

  • @VexcomStudios
    @VexcomStudios 6 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I went through that. I couldn't take it no more, so I joined the military just to get away, at 17 years old, I left home and headed to the Persian Gulf, for Operation Desert Storm. My brother on the other hand , just passed away on Dec 26, 2017. It haunted him to the very end, he accidentally over dose on pain meds. I lost my brother to my childhood bullshit. Life will never be tye same. So for those of you who are having similar problems, please don't be afraid, seek help, you deserve the very best and deserve to be happy. God bless you all.

    • @succboi568
      @succboi568 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Godamn what an upcoming

    • @a.j2368
      @a.j2368 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      FamilyGamingTube what's your mos?

    • @Cookkikicook
      @Cookkikicook 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry for your loss. I pray for your strength and peace in such troubling times. May God bless you abundantly! This too shall pass.....

    • @lisabrown7747
      @lisabrown7747 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      FamilyGamingTube thank you

    • @logi234
      @logi234 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      FamilyGamingTube god bless you bro

  • @julieesparza7054
    @julieesparza7054 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    “ success is the warmest place to hide”
    that’s part hit me hard 💓

  • @juicystew5683
    @juicystew5683 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Bro I feel ur pain respect I think everyone should listen to this man

    • @sajmeister
      @sajmeister 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is why you see guys like this (Dolph Lundgren, Arnold Schwarzenegger, etc) turn into big muscular brickhouses because as kids they were too weak to fight back or do anything against their aggressors, especially when it's their father, someone who they're supposed to look up to and be looked after by. This big build for them is their armour, their protection and their safety. May these men be blessed and continue the work they do.

  • @thedarkkingsea1042
    @thedarkkingsea1042 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Because success is the warmest place to hide 😭 I’m crying 😭

  • @miyuruify
    @miyuruify 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Keanu and Terry are LEGENDS among us.
    Living life lessons for anyone.

    • @CGBOSSCRAFT
      @CGBOSSCRAFT 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Miyuru Eranda amen brother

    • @omniowl3515
      @omniowl3515 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Miyuru Eranda What about everyone in the past that built and made history instead of just having a sad background our founding fathers died so we could get to this point yet people call movie stars Legends and Life lessons just plain old ignorant.

  • @soal4690
    @soal4690 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    So emotional, truely a kind man.

  • @Zain.Basi1
    @Zain.Basi1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    I love Terry Crews and I loved this..
    Prayers for everyone who have had to deal with similar circumstances

    • @carlad.c4078
      @carlad.c4078 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      zain alabedien Thank You:)

    • @OriginalPuro
      @OriginalPuro 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Praying is to say "I won't do shit, I'll just sit here and hold my own hand while doing NOTHING to fix the problem".
      Silly religious fanatics with your fantasies.
      Praying are for those who want to do nothing.

    • @Zain.Basi1
      @Zain.Basi1 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Puro I understand and totally respect your point of view, and I would like you to tell me what do you suggest me to do about it? I really do wanna make a difference if I can.

    • @jalees1994
      @jalees1994 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Puro shut up u fool if u dont believe in god keep that to yourself and let that man pray. U people are scared of god Most people forgot what its like to believe

    • @jalees1994
      @jalees1994 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Puro what did u do for her besides Wirtin that dumb reply

  • @jess-ot9dt
    @jess-ot9dt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    So much respect for such a strong man, we love you Terry Crews. 🙏🏼

  • @chrisvelasquez169
    @chrisvelasquez169 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This man know what struggle is ...
    Keep doing what u doing. Terry crews!!!!!

  • @ItsmeCR-g8j
    @ItsmeCR-g8j 6 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I’m so grateful for this man. It seems he realizes that his realized how important it is for him to tell his story. It will help others

  • @regiltube7932
    @regiltube7932 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Everyone of us has a package of challenges in life that make us stronger, wiser and tough.

  • @brendalzastrow803
    @brendalzastrow803 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Fear can be as crippling as a bullet to the spine- part of the healing is definitely sharing the survival story. What an awesome guy! I had NO idea! Funny how survivor s have the ability to mask their pain!🙏❤️🥰

  • @harrypotter2429
    @harrypotter2429 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I was shivering while watching this video. It brought me back to my childhood. My siblings and I grew up in the same environment. My mom decided to leave the house when things got too worse. I end up having nightmares for few months after that. Few years after that I realised the damage was far too deep than I know. I'm still trying too recover from the effects. Thank you Terry for your speech

  • @youtubepreacher7608
    @youtubepreacher7608 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    God bless this man. Tears are real, not fake like Hollywood.

  • @SuperCanayaZ
    @SuperCanayaZ 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I want to hug this big man. Strong words.

  • @LauraHernandez-hp9bd
    @LauraHernandez-hp9bd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My son sent this to me in a text. So I opened it and I couldn’t stop crying. I’m a able to say I survived verbal,mental,emotional and physical abuse. I’m so sorry I’ve put my kids through this especially my eldest. I’m still caring my cross. I’m sorry to manny Kaylie and Madison. You three are my world. I won’t ever let anything hurt you.