I am so humbled by all the love and positive comments. To God be the glory for all the beautiful insights we all got from this beautiful conversation. Buli you’re such a beacon of hope and vessel in the kingdom of God. I pray for an increase and favour beyond your reach. This platform has given hope to so many of us and you do this with so much grace. I am blessed to have you as a friend and a sister. I throughly enjoyed making this video with you and learned so much myself. Where the Holy Spirit is present, there is so much revelation and speech that is seasoned with kindness and divine wisdom! I love this awesome community of love and encouragement. You are all so special and I hope I will be back here soon… Love you all sooo much and be blessed always 💕
Just want to say as a guy who doesn’t watch too many female content, this is the best I’ve ever seen. I’ve learnt so much from this conversation and can’t wait to establish some work within my own romantic relationship. Thank you 🙏🏿
Katli has such an amazing aura, she’s gorgeous and really wish she had a channel /counselling she did. She’s wise beyond ! Thanks for bringing her on again Buli♥️
This is such a profound conversation ❤ I watched this with my husband and after the video, we sat and reviewed our boundaries, established new ones as well. Thank you Ladies 💖 God spoke through you in this video.
Few minutes in and Katli is already spitting so much wisdom 🙉🔥🔥. Love what she says about not keeping a record of wrongs but instead addressing a pattern if repeated.
Yhooo I missed Katli sooo much😭🥰. She's so gracious, her tone, her wisdom and humor. I Love her❤. Buli you are so radiant, umuhle yhoo🌻🔥. Thank you for always keeping it real🤌❤
I definitely believe in setting your boundaries during the dating stage. Creating a relationship where your partner is allowed to cross certain boundaries becomes very difficult to change after you've said your 'I do' s. You were a person who was okay with him not answering his phone while he was your boyfriend but suddenly you expect him to always be on call for you, every phone call he must answer manje when he's your husband. It doesn't make sense. Create and cultivate a space where your boundaries are clear from the word go just to alleviate some of that work once you're married. My biggest Boundary is the phone call one lol. I need to be able to rely on you answering your phone every time I call. I'm a person who hardly makes phone calls so if I'm calling, it's definitely important and in most cases urgent. Not answering your phone is a big no no for my partner and I. Anyway, love this channel and I love you and your guests Buli. So amazing! Keep it up! ❤️
I'm Buli and Buli is me... we "screama".. man this combo is always vibes.. I love how authentic yall are and honest hey.. it takes time to learn someone and create a safe space mara the spirit intercede for us where we can't hey! Thank you for this lovely video
A whole meaningful and neccessary conversation Katli is wise and so calm. Thank you for choosing your guests according to the guidance of the Holy Spirit
I need a Katli in my life y'all 😭😂❤️ she is so wise. 'How do you know you're patient when you've never had to go through moments that you could have been impatient in?'
I also love the second boundary, it’s one of the things we agreed on in our early marriage days and it’s been the best thing. Timing is absolutely key, someone taught me that “when you feel yourself wanting to rush the conversation because you are led by emotions, kneel down and pray” and that has been a game changer.
Although I am not married and I am still a young woman, this chat caused me to reconsider my actions and recognize my own harmful conduct. This, I feel, should also apply to family, coworkers, and friends. After hearing this conversation, I am convinced that I can make an effort to be a better person. Although it will not be easy to always be the bigger person but I truly believe it will give me peace and growth. Katli is eloquent; she speaks volumes and we can always learn from her. Thank you, Buli, for such a lovely chat and for consistently bringing guests who inspire us to be better people while also empowering us and teaching us more about God and His word
@ Buli , I love the signals idea 😂😂😂 I’m learning & will definitely share with my husband. I love this holistic conversation. Katli is full of wisdom 🙏 you’ve filled your lamp 🪔 indeed. Y’all are truly women of wisdom. And le bantle gore 😍😍 watching y’all from Botswana 🇧🇼
Loving the conversation ladies. I agree just don't open the ex door, it's not worth it. Make peace and soul tie is a big thing it can affect your progress. Close that chapter
True . A pastor once said like auntie Katli was saying. Dont go into marriage or relationship wth the point or mindset of being right always. Learning so much on ths channel.
Inasmuch as you said this is your opinion guys but I think you spoke so much wisdom and sense and God bless you. Welcome back Katli. The Great I AM loves you
I know I’ve said this before, but Buli each time you have people over, you’re such a breath of fresh air. You’re consistent in allowing your guests to lead the conversation and topic angles. I absolutely love how you’re keen to learn from your guests.
Joo my husband has sense of humor at another level, if u make a sign to stop him from saying something infront of ppl he will just verbalize it loud 😒 and say niyambona uyangistopa kutsi ngikhulume. And others will laugh 😆
Babygirl doesnt look like she has babies of her own, cant believe she has 3🔥Loved the episode, especially the part about how we are impatient with people when they struggle in areas where excel- wow, that hit home. My favourite boundary would have to be being intentional about quality time, whether its watching a movie or having a no phone stay in meal.
Fantastic chat.. I resonate with Katli quite alot. I love when she said at times is necessary to be assertive. We need to afford each other grace, because we aren't perfect ourselves.
I agree wth the nvr leave your room. Its like what you were saying auntie Buli , its that small space that opens to alot of things. You 2 are so gorgeous. Wss so blessed watching ths
Wow loved this conversation. So glad to see Katli back on the channel. So so much wisdom. “Take the grace” , and the respect analogy. Beautiful, thank you ladies.
One thing we have interpreted wrongly is ‘being the head’. It doesn’t mean being a bully to your partner. But it has 100% to do with with leading your household with the fear and honor of God to God and His will. Borrowing from the example of the job offers, we should come discuss and pray about it and do what works for the family. Not the man or any one person. Leadership should come with unity and humility. Loved this discussion, it felt short 🥺🥰
One of the reasons I subscribed to Buli's channel. The big sister conversations are the best. So much wisdom. Thank You so much ladies. As always, you ladies look beautiful.
Yoh making reference to his family or using things he told you in vulnerability against him in an argument. Lol Im mad guilty of this. But its true what Katli is saying...its a nooo noooo. This was so good thanks Buli
Oh my God I'm not a wife, lols but I enjoyed this so much because I actually find that all that was said can be used in every other relationship. And I love Katli so much bathong. I love her voice also and man she's so pretty. Thanks Buli for this conversation it was much needed. And I pray that you pray again and Holy Spirit chooses Katli, lol coz we'd love to have her back!! (laughs)
The wisdom in Katli aaaagg maaan its out of this world🤞❤️🙌I've learned a lot I'll trrrrrry😭 to implement in my marriage because wow it's definitely not easy🤞🤞🤞I also feel like why do I always have to be the one doing things right but Hai ke Sis Katli has spoken🤷♀️
Katlego!!!😭😭❤❤❤❤ I love her!! So much wisdom for a one person modimo... your conversation was really mind filling💕💕💕 can we please have more of katli in this channel?😭😭💕
Bathong Katli hle💃🏽😁YEESSSS she back!!! I love her! She is articulate, fun, and heaven yes she is wise! Ngicela angathathi 2 years to come back! Also Kabelo and Busi such darlings I would love for them to visit again. Buli ❤️
Your friend is so wise Buli, 😭🙌... Your first video with her was my introduction to your channel, sorry for the pressure of bringing her on here, but wow God loves you! You have amazing friends Shem❤🙌... Love your channel so much❤
What makes this video magical is how vulnerable both ladies were. We learn best when we can relate to one another. It's nice to know that other people also struggle in certain areas. I enjoyed this video.
I thank God to have found you two. I have taken so much nuggets of wisdom in note form lest i forget as i am in the season of marital settlement. God bless
I am so humbled by all the love and positive comments. To God be the glory for all the beautiful insights we all got from this beautiful conversation.
Buli you’re such a beacon of hope and vessel in the kingdom of God. I pray for an increase and favour beyond your reach. This platform has given hope to so many of us and you do this with so much grace. I am blessed to have you as a friend and a sister.
I throughly enjoyed making this video with you and learned so much myself. Where the Holy Spirit is present, there is so much revelation and speech that is seasoned with kindness and divine wisdom!
I love this awesome community of love and encouragement. You are all so special and I hope I will be back here soon…
Love you all sooo much and be blessed always 💕
Please open a TH-cam channel
I love your spirit girl ♥️you are full of wisdom
Girl, you're amazing 👏
Sesi waka with a beautiful smile 😍
You are amazing 🥺♥️♥️
"We are most impatient with people when they suffer in places that are a strength for us" Buli M quoting TD Jakes🥵😭
Just want to say as a guy who doesn’t watch too many female content, this is the best I’ve ever seen. I’ve learnt so much from this conversation and can’t wait to establish some work within my own romantic relationship.
Thank you 🙏🏿
Finally!!!! I fell in love with her when she was speaking on being a step mom❤️❤️❤️ Man! What a beautiful spirit.
Yah hey. She was dropping gems.
I completely agree!
Agreed ❤❤
Agreed...full of wisdom😇
Same! She kept calling him "my son" or "our son" 😢❤️❤️
Can we discuss Buli getting more beautiful with every episode 😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️ Katli you are beautiful too!
🥺🥺 thank you ❤️
More and more beautiful, 💕💕
Thank you sis
Katli has such an amazing aura, she’s gorgeous and really wish she had a channel /counselling she did. She’s wise beyond ! Thanks for bringing her on again Buli♥️
“You have to be pushed to exercise the right muscle…” Katli knows her stuff💯💯💯🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
"Love doesn't keep a record of wrongs" 🙌🏾🙌🏾.
“When God has given you the grace take it” - Katli ❤️
Aaaaah Katli is so beautiful and matured and well spoken. You ladies are both anoited. Completely loved and enjoyed this conversation ❤
Right!!! She's so lovely
Thank you so much sis, you are so kind
Buli, please bring out Katli a lot more. She's amazing!!! Thoroughly enjoyed the installment ❤
I agree!! ❤❤
The foot in the door principle is pure genius ♥️♥️😭😭😩thank you for this☺️🙏🏽
"the Holy Spirit is gang gang" for real 🤞
Powerful 💪🏼
Katli had me at "love does not keep a record of wrongs"❤️
Katli is very wise yoh!. I remember the last vid you did with her, yeeerrrrr! I was impressed. I changed from the words she said. Love her
This is such a profound conversation ❤ I watched this with my husband and after the video, we sat and reviewed our boundaries, established new ones as well. Thank you Ladies 💖 God spoke through you in this video.
Katli has sooo much wisdom. I’m learning so much hey. And the analogy on knowing how to act around our partners just clarified a lot for me.
“The more we keep pushing boundaries we’re taking love out of the door.” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Kamo💝
She’s so well spoken 💯
Katli is wife goals, beautiful with so much wisdom ... Ud swear she has more than a decade of marriage experience. Love everything she said.
We give God all the glory for His faithfulness, sending you all the 💕
I'm not married or close to but I appreciate this conversation. Learning. Hope we have more conversation such as this.
Few minutes in and Katli is already spitting so much wisdom 🙉🔥🔥. Love what she says about not keeping a record of wrongs but instead addressing a pattern if repeated.
She went straight for it ! She understood the assignment! 🤞🏾🔥
She really did bra ... Lol I'm changed woman after this 😅 Lord help us
Yhooo I missed Katli sooo much😭🥰. She's so gracious, her tone, her wisdom and humor. I Love her❤.
Buli you are so radiant, umuhle yhoo🌻🔥. Thank you for always keeping it real🤌❤
Thank you sis, you are so kind💕💕 Buli is just so gorgeous
Osi Katli speaks soo well :)
My ultimate take home from this conversation is holding each other in high esteem🙌. Loved it!💛
Yo, how old is Katli for her to be spitting marriage wisdom like this... You'd swear she's been married for 60 years...
Lol, we thank God for His grace that has been so sufficient
I definitely believe in setting your boundaries during the dating stage. Creating a relationship where your partner is allowed to cross certain boundaries becomes very difficult to change after you've said your 'I do' s. You were a person who was okay with him not answering his phone while he was your boyfriend but suddenly you expect him to always be on call for you, every phone call he must answer manje when he's your husband. It doesn't make sense. Create and cultivate a space where your boundaries are clear from the word go just to alleviate some of that work once you're married.
My biggest Boundary is the phone call one lol. I need to be able to rely on you answering your phone every time I call. I'm a person who hardly makes phone calls so if I'm calling, it's definitely important and in most cases urgent. Not answering your phone is a big no no for my partner and I.
Anyway, love this channel and I love you and your guests Buli. So amazing! Keep it up! ❤️
You are 100% correct in that 1st paragraph! Thank you so much for watching and engaging ❤️
I enjoy Katli so much! She's as beautiful as she is wise. She radiates so much warmth too.
Beautiful episode of wife talks Buli! 💜
I'm Buli and Buli is me... we "screama".. man this combo is always vibes.. I love how authentic yall are and honest hey.. it takes time to learn someone and create a safe space mara the spirit intercede for us where we can't hey! Thank you for this lovely video
Katli your wisdom is everything... I enjoy listening to you....
A whole meaningful and neccessary conversation
Katli is wise and so calm.
Thank you for choosing your guests according to the guidance of the Holy Spirit
I need a Katli in my life y'all 😭😂❤️ she is so wise. 'How do you know you're patient when you've never had to go through moments that you could have been impatient in?'
Sometimes the pushing is necessary to cultivate the right character....come through Katli....PROFOUNDLY said
I was like “yah no! 💀” drag me 🙃…. That was such a nugget !
🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼👏🏼
Katli's wisdom is unmatched.
🥺🥺 so humbled,,, to God be glory for His grace.
I also love the second boundary, it’s one of the things we agreed on in our early marriage days and it’s been the best thing. Timing is absolutely key, someone taught me that “when you feel yourself wanting to rush the conversation because you are led by emotions, kneel down and pray” and that has been a game changer.
Definitely worth the watch! So informative and personal, Love it!!!
I am sure everyone can agree with me (WE WANT MORE!❤️)
Sis ! You want to be dragged some more like I was ? Lol but I must agree this was Ministry !🥺🙌🏽
We definitely need more, I was dragged, am glad I am learning so much❤️❤️❤️
@@BuliMakhubo This was ministry!!
Thoroughly enjoyed this conversation. We indeed were dragged here but I loved it!!
Same ! I love it here too 🥺❤️
Although I am not married and I am still a young woman, this chat caused me to reconsider my actions and recognize my own harmful conduct. This, I feel, should also apply to family, coworkers, and friends. After hearing this conversation, I am convinced that I can make an effort to be a better person. Although it will not be easy to always be the bigger person but I truly believe it will give me peace and growth. Katli is eloquent; she speaks volumes and we can always learn from her.
Thank you, Buli, for such a lovely chat and for consistently bringing guests who inspire us to be better people while also empowering us and teaching us more about God and His word
@ Buli , I love the signals idea 😂😂😂 I’m learning & will definitely share with my husband. I love this holistic conversation.
Katli is full of wisdom 🙏 you’ve filled your lamp 🪔 indeed. Y’all are truly women of wisdom. And le bantle gore 😍😍 watching y’all from Botswana 🇧🇼
Oh Father, as for you using Katli to drag me 🤞🏾 So much wisdom in this episode. May he continues a good work he started in me…🙆🏽♀️
My favorite video yet! I’m still learning a lot
Lol, God is so good and will edify us in the best way.
Sending you all the love💕
Katlego breathes wisdom PERIOD!!! I shared the link to my wife friends and i know they gonna enjoy this so much
This conversation is the best of all WifeTalk videos. So happy that it is 44 minutes, I could watch it all day.
Right? I didn't even feel like I sat for 44 minutes because I still wanted more. So much wisdom bathong
Loving the conversation ladies. I agree just don't open the ex door, it's not worth it. Make peace and soul tie is a big thing it can affect your progress. Close that chapter
Yup! Let’s close the old chapters and make room for the new ❤️
Katli is such a wise woman❤❤
Katli😍😍😍i missed her yhu🤗welcome my love. My two people😁😁😁😘😘
True . A pastor once said like auntie Katli was saying. Dont go into marriage or relationship wth the point or mindset of being right always. Learning so much on ths channel.
Katli is everything🥺🥺🥺 such wisdom🙌🏾
Great conversation ladies, thank you for this Buli❤️
Inasmuch as you said this is your opinion guys but I think you spoke so much wisdom and sense and God bless you. Welcome back Katli.
The Great I AM loves you
Yhoooo Katli 😍😍😍 she is very wise. Great conversation Buli ✨❤️
I know I’ve said this before, but Buli each time you have people over, you’re such a breath of fresh air. You’re consistent in allowing your guests to lead the conversation and topic angles. I absolutely love how you’re keen to learn from your guests.
Gang!!! GANG!!! Katli and her wisdom 😍😍💯welcome back Kat.
Trust me I searched for her utube channel ❤️❣️❤️❣️❤️🥰🤩 let us talk about the beauty of these young wives
Sisters dropping pearls of wisdom ✨💯♥️ love it
Finally!! We love Katli❤❤❤❤❤
Iyhooooo am not ready to be married😂😂😂😂 everyone been raving about this specific episode.! Thanks Buli
Thank you guys🤗I'm not married but I'm learning and i will practise some of the lessons on my relationship. May God bless you guys😘😘
Wooow cc don't know what to say....I have learnt 😭 jonga 🤞I'm speechless
You ladies outdone yourself... This really touched me.. It came at the right time. It's the knowledge and wisdom
We thank God ! 🙌🏽❤️
Absolutely, His grace is sufficient always.
Katli is sooooooo wise. So wise!
Joo my husband has sense of humor at another level, if u make a sign to stop him from saying something infront of ppl he will just verbalize it loud 😒 and say niyambona uyangistopa kutsi ngikhulume. And others will laugh 😆
I’m watching this for the second time and I don’t get tired. So many critical pointers.
Yho! Katli is so so wise! Wow man!!! I absolutely enjoyed this. Thank you Buli 🙏🏽♥️
Katli has grown so much 😍🥰
Was being dragged the whole time 😭😭🙇🏾♀️🙇🏾♀️🙌🏾🙌🏾thank you wise women❤️. God help me 🙏🏾
I love how Katli thinks, her mindset in relationships and how to behave with your partner, LOVE IT!
Katli stays winning my heart❤❤❤
Babygirl doesnt look like she has babies of her own, cant believe she has 3🔥Loved the episode, especially the part about how we are impatient with people when they struggle in areas where excel- wow, that hit home.
My favourite boundary would have to be being intentional about quality time, whether its watching a movie or having a no phone stay in meal.
Just had a thought. Sis Buli please invite Phetola Makheta to one of the #WifeTalks? Mara as you said, Holy Spirit leads lay'khaya😃
Absolutely looove Phetola😭🥺♥️
Yes yes
I am so glad she is back...The first conversation you had with got me hooked.
Katli I enjoy listening to u sis... So young yet so wise.
Please come back again guys
U have changed a lot on my mind about my relationship
"Nka screama!" 😅 this was so wholesome and I'm learning so much about boundaries nje. Thank you ladies🌼
Fantastic chat.. I resonate with Katli quite alot. I love when she said at times is necessary to be assertive.
We need to afford each other grace, because we aren't perfect ourselves.
I agree wth the nvr leave your room. Its like what you were saying auntie Buli , its that small space that opens to alot of things. You 2 are so gorgeous. Wss so blessed watching ths
“Take care of your love” hmmm those lines are baaaars 🥳.
Wow loved this conversation. So glad to see Katli back on the channel. So so much wisdom. “Take the grace” , and the respect analogy. Beautiful, thank you ladies.
Wow finally our fave is back😍😍❤️❤️❤️
Notification Gang!!!! ‼️‼️‼️ Seeing #WIFETALK made me so happy 😎‼️❤️ si on!
Been repeating the previous video with Katli countless times...looks like il be at it again with this one!so much wisdom ladies👌
This Made Me Sooo Emotional 💔💔💔💔😭😭😭😭
29:28 😂🤣 nka screamer gore 😂. Yho but guys, u were spewing out gems thank u somuch! ❤❤❤
Katli’s wisdom🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
This video is the reason I’ve just subscribed. The wisdom from Katlego?? Wow God bless her 🤲🏿.
I loved this woman the first time she was here and wow her wisdom🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 thank you for this conversation 🙌🏽
One thing we have interpreted wrongly is ‘being the head’. It doesn’t mean being a bully to your partner. But it has 100% to do with with leading your household with the fear and honor of God to God and His will.
Borrowing from the example of the job offers, we should come discuss and pray about it and do what works for the family. Not the man or any one person. Leadership should come with unity and humility.
Loved this discussion, it felt short 🥺🥰
Thank you Buli for this sweetheart 😘😘😘
The amount of wisdom in Katlego!❤😭
I’m blessed.
Can we have more 👊👊👊.
One of the reasons I subscribed to Buli's channel. The big sister conversations are the best. So much wisdom. Thank You so much ladies. As always, you ladies look beautiful.
Not married, not even in a relationship but i loved this . Actually made me rethink the rush to marry. Thanks ladies
Yoh making reference to his family or using things he told you in vulnerability against him in an argument. Lol Im mad guilty of this. But its true what Katli is saying...its a nooo noooo. This was so good thanks Buli
Oh my God I'm not a wife, lols but I enjoyed this so much because I actually find that all that was said can be used in every other relationship.
And I love Katli so much bathong. I love her voice also and man she's so pretty. Thanks Buli for this conversation it was much needed. And I pray that you pray again and Holy Spirit chooses Katli, lol coz we'd love to have her back!! (laughs)
The wisdom in Katli aaaagg maaan its out of this world🤞❤️🙌I've learned a lot I'll trrrrrry😭 to implement in my marriage because wow it's definitely not easy🤞🤞🤞I also feel like why do I always have to be the one doing things right but Hai ke Sis Katli has spoken🤷♀️
Katlego!!!😭😭❤❤❤❤ I love her!! So much wisdom for a one person modimo... your conversation was really mind filling💕💕💕 can we please have more of katli in this channel?😭😭💕
Bathong Katli hle💃🏽😁YEESSSS she back!!! I love her! She is articulate, fun, and heaven yes she is wise! Ngicela angathathi 2 years to come back! Also Kabelo and Busi such darlings I would love for them to visit again. Buli ❤️
Your friend is so wise Buli, 😭🙌... Your first video with her was my introduction to your channel, sorry for the pressure of bringing her on here, but wow God loves you! You have amazing friends Shem❤🙌... Love your channel so much❤
What makes this video magical is how vulnerable both ladies were. We learn best when we can relate to one another. It's nice to know that other people also struggle in certain areas. I enjoyed this video.
I thank God to have found you two. I have taken so much nuggets of wisdom in note form lest i forget as i am in the season of marital settlement. God bless
I love her she is full of wisdom
KATLI IS JUST AMAZING! VELVET AND STEEL OF NOTE...PLEASE BRING HER BACK AGAIN BULI...what a phenomenal, insightful convo. 💛