DIVORCE & RESTORATION FT ONELA SIGOBELWANA |
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Today I sit with Onela Sigobelwana who shares her story and her thoughts on how to help others in situations like hers.
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Had to watch this twice , wow my heart 😭❤️... This just changed me , I now understand the eagerness of wanting to see God's word working in your life no matter how hurt or broken you are ...
No one knows how broken I am currently but what's even worse it's me not being open to God again . I'm going back to Him FULLY. Thank you so much for this Sis
Yhooo I also enjoyed I think I might just watch it again
May God bring full restoration healing and redemption in Jesus name, Amen.
Thank God for His work in us 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Growing up in a household with an abusive father, I told myself from a young age that I never want to get married or even be involved with a man for any reason whatsoever, even went through a phase when I thought that maybe I might be lesbian ngoba amadoda ngiyawasba and I want nothing to do with them. Listening to Onela right now was not an accident, I did not bump into this video by accident. I'm grateful for such revelations honestly. Thank you Buli for this amazing content.
Can relate 😭😭
Becoming a lesbian is not an option, God never made you to fall for that. I agree men may not be good but there are still amazing guys out there. I always say to my self for the fact that I am here on earth and I am a good person. There is a good spouse God has for me. We must not lose hope in God's plan for our lives. ❤
One big thing I'm taking from this is that never doubt your inner voice, even if it goes against everyone in your world.
This episode was so emotional, filled with hopefulness & speaks on Onela’s bravery and victory ❤️❤️❤️ What an amazing woman and journey! Thank you Buli for introducing us to Onela and her journey ❤️❤️
I’m going through the most with my husband, and I’m pregnant with my second child I’m failing to get closer to God for answers about what to do. Im frustrated, confused and depressed😓 worse part I’m jobless. Im also a P.K
Pray with me ❤️
Sis if you’re being abused, seek help, run for your life. Your family loves you, and God will protect and provide for you. I promise you, there’s a way out.
Things will always get better sis
Trusting that things are better for you❤
I can understand why she emphasized on going to God when the Going gets tough, I'm not married yet and I've done it, I was in an emotionally abusive relationship two years back, it's in that time of Prayer God literally gave me a word in season and He has literally fulfilled that promise. so I do encourage ladies to pray about it too.
I couldn't hold back my tears😭😭😭, most of us run away from God when we go through hardships but seeing Onela's tenacity on God revived something in me today. Her faith in God just preached to my spirit. Thank you Buli for this segment, i will hold on to him until i see what he has in store for me ♥
I’ll never forget the excitement in your hubby’s face when we met in 2019 and he was telling me he’s found the one and is getting married soon. Yhoo hee uFish. I didn’t even know you the but the look in his eyes told me he’s in great hand. I enjoyed this video.
As women we go through a lot, I was never physically abused but hearing all things women are going through it make me emotional.
😭😭😭😭 Abuse is such an ugly thing! May God deliver every woman suffering at the hands of an abuser.
I’m telling you ! It’s terrible
Staying close to the Christian congregation helped me get through my marriage and divorce. We need God and the warmth of his earthly house.
“Do not stop going to GOD”
Yoooo this really touched me
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Thank you Buli for this
I thank God ❤️
I'm currently going through a rough patch and I am growing far from God . After listening to this I refuse to let my situation separate me from go . I'm also eager to see the plans he has for me . Powerful and beautiful convo . Thanks Buli and Onela
“ I am eager to see the plans He has for me “ !! Ey sis !! I feel you ❤️❤️
Look at the different vibe when she speaks about her second husband😍. You can tell she has found true love now, not that other narcissistic person who abused her
Thank you for this one Buli❤. As someone who is divorced people didn't understand why I drove from Pretoria to kempton park for church. And exactly what she said, belonging. Its so important to have that space to belong. Culture isolates the divorced, relationships and friendships are lost. If churches also isolate then were does one go... I loved everything about this episode
This conversation is very necessary, thanks Buli. We can't always be preaching happy marriage sometimes its not happy and ends in divorce. Thanks for not shying away from reality ❤
God really intervene to Onela’s life, true living testimony. Most of Mamfudisis are going through this n we need to pray for them
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I'm a PK as well and her story is similar to mine although mine never got to physical abuse but emotionally,financially and mentally yhoo it was rough. 2 years later I'm still picking up the pieces and getting my life back in order. I'm on the right track and I thank God. I'm not yet even keen or relationships coz wow, just started therapy and what a healing journey I'm on. It's so nice to rediscover myself, what I want and finally getting myself out of debt and slowly starting to enjoy my money is so priceless. Healing is important just for self . I love this interview
Healing matters ! Your new relationship deserves a healed and healthy you! ❤️
as longs as you are out of the situation sis and you on your way to healing that's what matters ❤
Buli thank you for allowing her to tell her story the best way she knows how without injecting😍. He is indeed a God of restoration, this was beautiful to watch
I've been there... Slap and then get on the pulpit, preach up a storm and bless others.. Thanks Sis Onela. Your story is healing.
Hawema 😭😭😭 I thought I knew church hurt… but this 😩. Thank you for sharing your story Onela. You continued to stand on His word 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
God hates divorce but he values your life more
Buli you are doing an amazing job with this platform ❤️😍❤️
Oh Sisters 🥺 What an emotional episode. Whenever God restores something, He restores it to a place greater than it was before. Thank you for sharing your story Queen.
I also came across Onela's Instagram recently and started following her. Her story is deep, she's been through alot, but look at how God restored her life❤❤🥺
One of the things I love about God? Is that even if things get shaky and we don’t see the light, He guarantees us that the story will eventually end well ❤️.
God is faithful Sis Onela and we thank The Holy Spirit for using you. ❤️✨💐
It’s the grandmother’s advice for me!!! 🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 so much wisdom praying for him! Wow! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Hey Buli I just wanna say thank you for your content.. and that we can still FREELY access the whole episode... I'm appreciative of wife talk and every other content you share with us... ♥️
The emphasis on Freely 🙈😂
@@keneiloemyoli it is saddening to get *tips* of good content in the name of subscription especially if one doesn't afford to be paying a TH-cam channel monthly subscription yet.. and it has become common of late ..🤭🤭🤭It's abit shady because I don't want to be dragging people's names here. But sarcasm aside I really am grateful to Buli♥️🌺
Let's not be people who are quick to complain when we don't know what it takes to produce that kind of content and the benefit to the creator for making it classified.
The full podcasts are already available for streaming on various platforms, its just the visuals that are for members.
Angilwi🙂
@@gugukhumalo9313 Thank you girl_well put.. and that is so true hey.. Fully agreed. 🌺
One thing about Buli, she will dare to go to places that society chooses to hide! You are a gift Buli with these chats!I'm not married but this spoke to me too and it's a thing of learning from those who have walked the road before because we don't have to repeat the same mistakes twice, we can learn from other women🤗thank you sis Onela for your vulnerability and we wish you a lifetime of joy in your marriage 🤗😊
Man!! What a conversation 🙌🏾😫 indeed we serve a God who is able to restore.
Totally relate to her because I was in a similar situation but got out before it got worse.. lost myself, my child and every bit of me.. slowly in the healing process and hope I'll be able to heal and love again. Thank you Onela and Buli 💕💕
Onela is absolutely gorgeous 😍. Thank you for sharing mama ❤
I can relate in her story. I had this on my mind i wondered how will God take me out of the situation i found myself in. To stick with God helped me so much.
Such a powerhouse uOnela. I’ll never get over your testimony. What the enemy meant for evil God meant it for your good and this current moment indeed. I pray the good Lord bless the both of you abundantly and enlarge your sphere of influence, for His glory 🙌🏾❤️
Ahhhh I loved the part when you "It doesn't show that these ppl were once broken, they were restored,"
That's how faithful our God is... thank you ladies for such an informative mouthful session ❤
Liked before I watch, because well done for daring to talk about difficult but real topics!! Thank you for sharing God's gift in you with us. 💜
A powerhouse indeed 🥺🔥. Such a very very powerful testimony, a big restoration and the epitome of “I’ve got only God plans about you” …
Onela is a good detailed story teller. really enjoyed the interview, learnt a lot especially concerning her continually going to church and not giving up on God in difficult times. Beautiful and encouraging
Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you. Plans to prosper you and give you peace, plans not to harm you but give you hope. That is a beautiful promise. So many times we stay in situations that are not reflective of who God is and what his plans for us are. Yes we should seek his face but not all situations are ordained and I’m a strong believer that abuse does not bring glory to God. One last was brave to share her story and May God fully restore. May he do for you more than you can measure or imagine (Eph 3:20). I pray that women will leave these situations sooner and seek refuge elsewhere ….. others hold onto appearances and are not here to share their story. May God give them strength to leave whilst they can still breathe.
Wow Bulie thank you so much for traveling such a distance just to get us this inspiring story❤️🥰..This wife talk was made for you Sis😍....
How i wish i can meet sis Onelas husband and shake his hand bethuna haybo what a gentleman nd God fearing man🙌❤️
I am crying at this very point. God is not a man, He doesn't lie. I am greatly touched and grateful to hear sis Onela's story. May God continue His great work in you, as painful as it may have been, God saw your as the best vessel to carry the message of Restoration. You don't know how many people you have touched and are yet to touch, me included. Thank you.
Shuuu🥺 what a feast for the soul, a happy ending not from some princess fairytale but from real life. When Buli said marriage is about glorifying God🙌 thank u for sharing
My heart, this woman is so gorgeous why would anyone do that to her. I hope that she truly heals sending her virtual hugs.
Yooooh this is scary. People have issues out there and hide in the church. Thank God you came out alive sisi. I know someone who was strangled to death by a pastor.
Oh Onela. You went through the most and came out as pure gold. God continues to show off ngawe. 🥺♥️♥️
I watched the video yesterday and still pondering. The restoration part , yhooo !!! God does restore 🙌🏽 This testimony is way too much ..!!!
wow Buli, thank you for sharing this story. I so wish lot of women can share their stories. The very same things that happed to you, I went through them, except I left after the 1st biting. May God heal you. I hope this video will help lot of women, who want to marry 'MAN OF GOD'. Those people are really not good when it comes to their families.
Thank you for sharing! Wow, so happy for you Onela. Amazed at how God has restored you in an exceedingly and abundant way. It’s so painful to hear what you had to go through but wow! your restoration is soo much more than that.
Wishing you and your husband joy until Christ returns! ❤️❤️
"lf this God thing does work l want to see it on me" 🥺🙌 Thats powerful ❤️🙏
The power of tongue eish!!, people can kill just by that. We thank God for restoration and reassuring us of His love. Thanks for sharing 😍💞. Wishing you all the best in your marriage 💓
Yohh I sobbed 😭😭What a liberating story. Thank you so much for sharing your testimony.
So brave of her sharing this story, God bless her new marriage and seal it with the blood of Jesus
You are doing a good job Buli, this is such an informative chat.
Thank you so much Onela for sharing so vulnerably. May God continue to bless you and your family. Joel 2:25 our God restores what the locusts have eaten. Thank you Buli for the content. May God bless the work of hands. Much Love Lusanda Dhlamini
I had to watch this twice. I'm not married yet. Thank you Onela for your story. May God continues to bless your marriage
The strength of this woman!🙌🏻🙌🏻
I'm only 15 minutes into the video and I've already ran out of 'haybos'... that part about not wanting anything to do with the baby😳 amadoda anjani na??
A part 2 please💞💞💞ay Buli you literally doing divine work God bless you
This video is short yazi. Onela is a force
Wow. Onela you are amazing i love you. You are indeed a woman of faith.
This was so pleasant to listen to Buli, loved that there were no ads as well
When the video got to the part he gave you a beating and dropped off at home, that's when I started chopping onions 💔😢😭
Indeed we serve a God of restoration, that He can rewrite your life🙌🏿
I could not watch this video in one sitting. Yho, what happened to her hurt me so much, I empathize with you Onela. I'm so happy that God restored and gave you the best husband. Thank you Buli for bringing back my favourite segment ❤❤
God hears….God sees….and God restores…….what a powerful testimony Sis🥺🙌🏽🙏🏽😩I’ve been sooo teary…….🙌🏽
This was insightful 😢I'm just relieved that Onela got her happy ever after.
I love Onela so much 🔥🔥. Great ambassador for the kingdom .A light set on a hill that can never be hidden . What a testimony 🤌🏾. May you continue to press on towards the mark of the high calling . I really look up to you and loving this for you ❤️🤌🏾
Sis Buli 💐❤️🙏🏼thank you so much for bringing this conversation onto our screens.
Sis Onela ❤️❤️💐 thank you for sharing and opening up your heart.
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What a beautiful story of love, restoration and the faithfulness of God our Father. All glory to God. Lovely story indeed
Your Ministry is so amazing Buli, thank you so much for this conversation.
To me what I got in this is that your relationship with God kept you even when all other things were going wrong you didn’t stop wanting the presence of God, you didn’t blame God and hated Him for the bad things……
Onela looks like Mbali who plays Hlomu on the wife.
Thank you so much for this message ladies! It was such an eye opener. Thank you Buli for asking such questions and allowing the guest to tell her story in such a peaceful environment. I learned so many things and I didn’t even realize the video was an hour, that’s how good it was
What a beautiful story of grace and restoration. God is so awesome! Praying that God continues to wipe your tears and bless your beautiful family.
Legit just realized I wasn't subscribed! Was so confident I was. Guys check to ensure 😫
PS What a story, thanks for sharing Buli. I pray for continued healing for her as her family grows. Abuse of any kind is never okay.
Wow what an interesting conversation. What was interesting for me is the mother in law who did not reprimand the abusive son and portrayed herself to be God fearing. I wish you could talk about those mothers who can't let go of their sons in your prospective videos.
Exactly ! I hope to meet one willing to be honest and share
I have no words..... thank you for not giving up on God❤❤❤. I enjoyed this and I want part 2😂😂😂
It's like am watching a mov8e. Your story is so heartbreaking and fulfilling at the same time. God is indeed good.He restored and gave you peace
Us who hit the like button before we even watch ❤️
Sithi abo💝🌺
Proudly!🤗
Yebo
Wow 😭🙌 What a testimony! God indeed is a restorer. Thank you so much Buli for this ❤️
im glad this came up. been holding such in my heart. being a Pk is not easy guys. I refused to marry a "well known"pastor because God showed me the type of man he was..which was really scary. but im glad God opened my spiritual eyes otherwise i would have made the biggest mistake following the "big ,flashy lifestyle"he potrayed to me.
Yohh this is amazing God will never allows his children to suffer he will restore us my stroy is very similar yet am 24 and married i would like to be part of this beautiful pot cast n wifetalk its very beautiful ❤️
Such a powerful testimony. I thoroughly enjoyed watching this. ❤️🙌🏾
What a story! Our God is truly a God of restoration, of abounding love in times of tribulations❤️. Thank you for sharing your story Onela and for providing the platform Buli😘
This is such a beautiful testimony of Gods faithfulness. He surely has good plans for us. Thanks Buli and Onela for sharing this story with us. ❤️
Thank you for bringing back this sessions. I love the part when she said we prefer talking to people we can see because we get an immediate response. We should get to a point where we can talk to God the same way we talk to our friends.
Hebanna he would go sleep in his mothers room 😪😪😪😪😪. Hayyyy hayyyy.
Yohhh Onela sounds like the person I was a few years ago. Staying in abusive relationships (not physical though) because I believe I could make it work. Yohhh I’m so glad God pulled me out of that mess.
Hayyyy God has been good to me shame. I really love Onelas heart and faith in God.
Woow , God of restoration 🙏. Our God is so faithful, He always restores and consoles.May this story reach to many and encourage many !
I’m glad these abusers are getting exposed. Being a pastor doesn’t mean u also can’t be a witch u know. U see that ‘bishop’ woman didn’t want the child to live! Haish. Some families are toxic
She's so beautiful 😍 graceful, she's such a lady. Wow!!!this is a story of restoration indeed
I enjoyed watching this episode. Lady in pink your story educated me about something I’m even failing to explain.
WOw. GOD bethuna. If you stay in me, i will stay in you...Thank you Buli no Onela. God bless you.
Balling my eyes out at work because I relate with her story so much😭the journey is excrutiating but God restores and He knows what is best for us. Thank you for this
Onela is saved saved 🙌🏾
Thank you Buli🙏I'm so touched, I am in a relationship that is not working anymore but is not easy for me to leave.
What an amazing testimony. God is the great restorer and this gives me hope that He too will remember us.
Wow... this is so sad but yet beautiful. May continue blessing you and healing you.... bless you with 8 children 💞💞💞💯
Yho hay it’s too much, I don’t know how many times I paused and cried and came back. I’m happy sis found herself and is now healing well.
What a beautiful story of restoration and faith. God is love. I am so happy that God has restored you, Ondela. Thank you for sharing your life’s journey. ❤ makwande!
I've never watched such a powerful TH-cam video. I'm honestly moved how impacted am I now .wow wonderful episode
What a moving story. I admire her strength and faith to be honest. After such a traumatic experience, she came out of it even more faithful to the word of God and she is standing strong. What a testimony. Thank you for sharing your story Mama❣️
wowza, wow, stories like these, youtube channels like these. thankful to you Buli and Onela for sharing your story. i'm blessed.
This was necessary Buli. A topic that is never talked about in the church space. Not everyone who is divorced joins the fellowship for divorced people for personal reasons but you have allowed a platform in their personal space.
Sis Onela I can’t imagine going to church as a break from the abuse at home only to be abused on the pulpit. Shoo the enemy tried to break you but he failed. Greater are God’s plans and you are still going to see more.