My Parents Should Never Have Children
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 พ.ค. 2021
- Being a young child I knew for sure; you belong to me and I will always belong to you. Why did my parents not feel the same way? Why were they always fighting? Was it my fault? Was I not good enough? You know, after all that happened, I had no other option than to make a drastic decision; "I never want to see my parents ever again."
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Parents are mostly ALWAYS to blame for their children failures, but not ALWAYS for their successes.
"All children deserve parents, but not all parents deserve children."
Yeah that’s right some adults are just stupid
Every kid deserves a parent bit some parents just don't deserve kids....
This story hit me like a 1,000,000 foot truck, my parents would fight alot when I was a toddler but they love me and my sister, so I can only imagine what it's like to have parents that don't love you.
They did love them. But the parents own pain and neurosis screwed them and their relationships up. Parents who genuinely don't like their kids are psychopathic levels of rare. We all want to point up and say 'it's their fault', but the reality is, one day the hand will point up at us.
@@fen4554 hey, if you’re in any danger you should call smth called childhelp where you can talk to professional counselors anonymously. if you call, be sure to call on something that isn’t a cell phone or a mobile phone though, or it’ll show up on the phone bill
My parents don't at all. If anything they've told me to very opposite
@@verymuchcee Kind of similar situation 😔
its so sad how people still live in household situations like this.
Absolutely! 😢 That's why it's good to share experiences so we can raise more awareness!
I live in one like this but less severe im the youngest of six and all but me and one of my sisters still semi like her and two of my siblings dont speak to any of us(my sister only speaks to me) and we all argue constantly and she whines and cries that her family is torn apart but its actually her fault so i dont know what to do how to feel
@@thelostonetxt8450 if you are luving in an abusive household, please find help.
@@marqus4315 i mean she doesnt hit us shes just a crappy person and in turn a crappy mom
Same😢
Some people don't deserve to be parents.
You're dealing with a narcissist here!!!
It sucks; parents are meant to be the kind and nurturing ones, not competing or hurting their children. I pity narcissists, they don't have the ability to understand empathy.
This video is just another proof that some people should not be parents.
Exactly. Because the people who really suffer are the children involved. If I ever get any children in my life, I would value and cherish my kids, and not be like how some of these parents are to their kids.
@@johnbakasmoothhotchocolate
If I wanted to have kids, I may need therapy for my issues
I’d have be careful not to let them have the worse because of me or anything else plus it’s more than financial support I need for me and my kids
@@CBMOA I understand and I do agree. Because you need to have yourself together in order to have the best for your kids. Most people just want kids for the sake of having them, but without any understanding about what goes into being a parent to their kids.
This story reminds of my mom. My mom didn’t grow up with a good childhood but luckily my great grandmother who my mom named me after was the only loving parent my mom had. I’m very happy and proud that my mom named me after her. “I wish I could have met her” I said to my mom yesterday when she visiting our apartment yesterday . My great grandma’s name was still is Catherine and that’s now my name. I hope wherever she is in heaven I’m hoping she watching over me and my mom.
This reminds me of “every child deserved a parent, but not every parent deserves a child”
So true...
A strict mother raises her kids and they turn out screwed up. So the child grows up and raises her own kids with endless love and patience... And that kid turns out screwed up because they were spoiled. With some luck they realize they need structure and discipline, so they raise their kids with a firm hand. And around, and around, and around we go.
My mum is both strict and with love and patience
@@boxeswithfoxes that sounds like the perfect balance. Children need discipline, but they need patience and endless love too.
This cycle of abusive parents needs to stop. Unfortunately I was in a similar situation except my mom got married 3 times. The last one lasted 2 years luckily I moved out before she got married to husband number 3. She expected me and my 4 older siblings to “fix her problems,” we gave her advice but won’t follow through with it. Since I have been on my own, I have learned to heal from this and talk with my boyfriend and friends about it. This is unfortunate we have people like this that choose to have kids and being a decent parent.
My parents broke up, they fight all the time and complain about each other to me, but they’re still friends and they still talk as friends. My mum is always yelling at me and my dad. I love her, but not as a mum
People who yell and hit their kids don’t deserve ANY respect and should get the same exact treatment that they give their kids.
I feel so bad for her brother who didn't get a happy ending like she did.
*"If she comes home with a bad report? I always make sure to smack some sense out of her"* sounds like an asian parents to me
I thought it said
sounds like Asian pears
hey y’all if you’re in any danger you should call smth called childhelp where you can talk to professional counselors anonymously. if you call, be sure to call on something that isn’t an iphone/android/other mobile phones/any sort of cell phone though, or it’ll show up on the phone bill
@@foxyartist6665 hey y’all if you’re in any danger you should call smth called childhelp where you can talk to professional counselors anonymously. if you call, be sure to call on something that isn’t a cell phone or a mobile phone though, or it’ll show up on the phone bill
This isn't just Asians btw or even about race. My father was like this and he's Guatemalan so it actually depends on how strict parents are.
@@hashidraws That's not strict, that is absuse.
If you ever had terrible parents or came a horrible household, look ahead. Move forward with your life. You can be better than your parent. To be stronger, you must let go and move on.
That teacher was 🗑️ for not reporting the abuse
I miss the daily uploads on this channel :(
Yes, their last video was 2 months ago...
It's not just love you need but also discipline, yes you have rights but it doesn't mean you could do whatever you want in life!
@@Chxrdino yes that was just being mean and argumentative.
Not every parent deserves a child
This is a classic narcissist parent. Acting sweet to the front of others and behind closed doors abusive is the first sign
hey y’all if you’re in any danger you should call smth called childhelp where you can talk to professional counselors anonymously. if you call, be sure to call on something that isn’t a iphone/android/other mobile phones/any sort of cell phone though, or it’ll show up on the phone bill. someone else can also call for you. also, if that doesn’t work, or you need help for other issues, if you google “r/serious conversation resources” and click on one of the first results, there’s a list of resources, helplines and advice subreddits that can be helpful for you.
I used to feel a lot of the same way about my parents. My father put a bruise on my thigh the size of an orange when he 'spanked' me because I was laughing with my brother when we should have been sleeping. He put my sister in an arm lock. He would find any reason to make himself look better. But eventually you start to realize that everyone is flawed and a production of their upbringing. If I blamed him, he could blame his father and so on. I think it's our own responsibility to find understanding, instead of pigeonholing people as "bad".
I love these stories because not only are they real unlike a lot of animated story channels, they give me hope and encouragement because of what different people have been through. Thank you !
Thanks Gracie! :)
Be happy with your life and find a pursuit of life.
Some people just don't deserve children.
Yes some people have know business having kids
My mom was okay sometimes, but other times, she was a royal pain in the butt when she was alive. She would constantly yell and scream at both me and my dad a lot and call us terrible names that I can't repeat because they're curse words. And it was awful. She wasn't very nice to us for 19 years. The chances of that ever happening were like one in a million. But even then, she wasn't all that bad underneath. She protected me when I was in the hospital after I got my left ovary removed because there was a huge cyst growing there. When I got that phone call from my dad on March 24th, 2016 at 3:30 pm telling me that my mom had passed away, I felt like my entire world just came crashing down. My dad and I are still doing good and hanging in there even though it has been rough for us both.
Yeah same but mines alive
A few people just don't deserve to be parents.
Sadly, my relationship with my own parents has been fraught with problems, especially, in my case, with my father...
Omg *they’re* back finally 😭
they're*
There is a very vivid line between caring and over protective
That we really need to learn 🤕🤕
My parents were never physically abusive. My parents were very neglectful. They were always home, but always doing their own thing.
there was very little interaction with them and my siblings. The older we got, the more distant they got.
As an adult; Marriage, father, career, mortgage, bills etc, we have a very one sided relationship. I have to go to THEM, i have to call THEM. They make "promises", but never live up to them. I vowed never to be that kind of parent! My children (and wife) will know a loving, attentive father\husband.
such a heart touching story
Please don’t ever stop making vids ❤️
Haha we won't, thanks!
I feel so awful for her
Me too
If a parent treats their child like this, then THEY DON'T DESERVES CHILDEN. They deserve jail time
This so sad I am not gonna talk about me because that would be a TED talk. I feel so bad for her brother. I mean she was able to be so successful and have a family of her own which is good. Her brother however had the opposite outcome. I watch some of these videos so that I can one day god willing if I have a family of my own do better. Be better parent and have children that have fully functioning adults that are self confident and happy. I would like my children to be the opposite of me as a child, young teen, and young adult. I would love for them to love themselves, people love being with them, they have a great network of friends and associates, and they are overall happy and enjoy life. I have to go to therapy to heal my past for me and for my future children if I have them in this lifetime.
I'm glad my friends and family would never treat me like that! you should never give up hope!
My mother has a painfully similar story.
This women deserves to be in jail...😡😡😠😠🤬
Man I was really waiting so impatiently for a new video.
It's the best youtube channel in my opinion.
Wow, thanks!
@@MinuteVideosOfficialPlease do make a next part on Childhood sweethearts.
“My husband took a week off to watch “my daughter.”” Ummm, shouldn’t that be “our child?”
Also what happened to the brother?
I don't know, the brother either ended up dead or in some rabbit hole with multiple bad things in it. But either way, MinuteVideos had to censor it.
@@sparklyloveyou20 sad. 😪
@@sparklyloveyou20 arent these stories fake?
@@suisui7481 No
For angelica pickles her parents aren't very caring to her at all they did try to spend some much quality time with her as much as possible but they're only interested in making money then playing with her.
Are you talking about the cartoon character..?
Love this! I feel you pain, but my mom ensure I was safe and full, when she was about she'd get new clothes and insure I was fed, but with her passing my family never cared, they deprive me sleep didn't pay attention when I skip meals because they force pills after my mom's death, then for 4 years neglected cloths and made me wear worn cloths where was the help? In my case more skilled and talent kids are ignored and social workers and communities ignored child abuse, so I hope for better chance so others dont go through these, thank you for these the art work and voice makes me feel human when I'm sad, keep up so we make it better❤❤❤❤❤!
Her poor brother :(
Yo! Just when i was binge watching your stories!
Perfect timing!!
Welcome back, MinuteVideos! I cannot wait to hear the amazing news coming up. BTW since some of us are interested in working for you, I have an idea, why don't you open MinuteVideos offices in the US? Anyhow welcome back! And I believe it's quite sad to see how parents raise their kids poorly. Similar to how Angelica Pickles was treated by her parents from Rugrats and did their best, but did not actually spend much time with her as they did with working and making money than spending actual quality time with their daughter until much later.
We like your suggestion! Stay connected as we will soon bring the exciting news public! ;)
Hey I’m a big fan. It would be cool if you continued your “I was stuck with my crush” series
We say our parents are mean but look at that
It's sad that I relate to this. It's stopped now and they apologised for what they did but those nightmares and memories will never go away. My parents never divorced but I wished they did back then
Wow my mom was exactly like this.
She can help her brother.
"Pretended to be depressed"
Cool, you know what its like to be divorced, jobless and broke, and it's nothing to feel down about. Gotcha.
Well maybe he is pretending. There are people who do that in order to be pitied by others.
@@yuzukistardust87075 If that's the case, don't you think that's a mental disorder? Something caused by maybe a past trauma? People aren't inherently deceptive. It's a tool they use to cope at the cost of the people around them.
Finally you guys posted!
Well, at least she had a happy ending unlike me
Why do people being like that 😡
Can we just be thankful that she broke the cycle with her own family and I congratulate her for that though I hope her brother does better
You said you're brother couldn't stand for himself, i think you should have probably helped him to stand, if you mother was really like that you told then you should really have helped him, and I feel really sorry for him
And in this whole video I never heard you saying that you feel sorry for him
She sounds like an "amazing mother".
Her mother: "After everything i done for u"
My reaction: you didnt do sh*t b**ch.
Even my parents are like this, nobody is alone❤
The main thing that makes a parent, is the want to be a parent.
Well said!!!
@@Untitled_-_Productions. thank you, and it's nice to meet you as well. :)
@@johnbakasmoothhotchocolate thanks💕
@@Untitled_-_Productions. the pleasure is mine ❤😊 and I hope to get to know you more. My name is John. What's yours?
@@johnbakasmoothhotchocolate How can you be so sweet!?
My name is Ivan
Great video, but why did she not help her brother?
This sound exactly like my narcissistic mother.
2 months and y’all don’t even explain yourself?
We've been busy behind the scenes.. Stay tuned Wakisa!
Yea, also MinuteVideos were busy trying to edit and revamp their videos because TH-cam's community guidelines are horrendous.
Some parents might also be stressed.
I missed your videos.. 🥺
Ahh, yeah we've been busy behind the scenes. Exciting news coming soon!
The mom is upset about her past and is taking her anger out on her children no matter how bad your childhood was you should never treat your own children As such
Jouw video's zijn altijd zo leuk
Thanks!!
They finally posted!!!!!
sounds like the mother was treated this way growing up. You don't need to cut out your parents forever, just understand they are that way for a reason, and don't repeat the family issues down the line. And more than likely the grandparents also had issues, and we also need to remember, a lot of those grandparents went through the war, and famines last early century. Those issues of stress were passed down to the children and kept passing on. But the good news is, we can change and learn to have a better emotional output.
HI!! can you PLEASE PLEAAAASE MAKE A STORY ABOUT CUSHING'S DISEASE AND SYNDROME PLSSS, MY DOCTOR SAID I HAD IT😭😭😭
That all depends on whether someone sends them a story about it
@@alchemy-the-animated-series oh, yeah:(
is it me or its been a while👀💔
So sorry!! Stay tuned for exciting news soon!
We really miss the episodes try to continue them love to watch th
Some people have kids out of necessity, not because they genuinely want kids.
*"they were the worst"*
Are you sure ?
I feel like I just watched my life be put into words and animation.
It been a while since you came back
Nobody probably said anything cause they didn't know what to tell a narcissistic neglectful mom who thinks she can do no wrong anything that would stick or get through her thick skull. Either that or she just ignored them. Not that I'm justifying the no action taken. It's always someone's else and not hers. That's what the mom believes. Anyone who disagrees is ignored and cut out. She definitely should be angry with herself, the mom. She's gonna end up all alone with no one to blame But Herself.
My mum is like this at times too like under stress.
Im sorry that this happened to you
Please upload more on this channel
What is the music you guys use in your videos?
Forgot i was subbed to this lol
This is my life honestly
I say shame on the teachers for not doing more the only thing this teaches is if you want something done right do it yourself
Hope so that things ger better 🤞
Well talk about your broken childhood story about your parents argues a lot and fights and not even pay attention you and also saying hurtful things and also hitting you a lot and lying to the teacher after few years when you have your own children all sudden become nice parents well you made the right decision by not talking with mother not even your father well anyway(this is my comment) to you & brother may have a broken childhood but I hope your kids don't suffer the same way that you did👨👩👧
Would get angry at you when your scared?
Get a low score and mom would be furious?
Yep that’s my asian parents to me
I Literally can connect.
Highschool sweetheart part 5 plz
Why did your parents have kids if they don’t even like kids this just doesn’t make sense
These stories hit like a truck I remember my mother putting an iron on my hand
Omg im so sorry that happened to you i hope you're in safer place
DUDE, WHERE'VE YA'LL BEEN, IT'S BEEN OVER 2 MONTHS?
did this story take place in the u.s.?
I 💟 this channel
What happened to her brother?
It is so embarrasing that there are some parents that dont support their kids like this story in real life😔😔😔
Can we get keepsake part 4 please
What’s this music called?