He Dumped Me In Front of Everyone Because I'm Fat
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 พ.ค. 2020
- "He was breaking up with me. In the canteen of all places... In front of everyone! I don’t understand why he would do this to me. If he's into skinny girls like her, then why did he ever get with me in the first place?" She thought to herself...
This video tells the story of a girl who gets picked on for being overweight. Eventually even her own boyfriend, who she thought loved her, left her. She fell into a negative spiral of self doubt and unhealthy coping mechanisms. Until one day she discovering running... She started with daily early morning runs which made her feel better both physically and emotionally. This was the first time she actually learned to lover herself. She reversed the negative spiral and through self-acceptance continued working on her physical and emotional well-being.
We chose this story as we believe it is important to love yourself no matter what situation you are in. If you cant accept yourself, it very quickly leads down a negative spiral of self-doubt and self-pity. As you learn to accept and love yourself for who you are, you'll see it will get easier to take steps to work towards the goals you value.
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“Hey, meet me in the canteen today, it's important”. He was breaking up with me. In the canteen of all places... In front of everyone! I don’t understand why he would do this to me. If he's into skinny girls like her, then why did he ever get with me in the first place?
I stood in the girls changing room with my back to everyone, staring at the brick wall in front of me while all the cute girls were getting dressed behind me. This was the worst time of the week, every week. But this time it was even worse. I put one arm into the sleeve of my shirt then I squeezed in the other one when suddenly….. RRRRRrrrriiipp!
“Oh my god”, I couldn’t believe it, my arm had just ripped through the seam of my shirt because my arms had gotten so fat. I continued to stare at the wall, I didn’t take a single breath for what felt like a lifetime as time stood still, then the silence was broken by the sound of girls giggling behind me. My heart dropped into the bottom of my stomach and I felt sick, I turned round and looked towards my only real friend there for reassurance and as I made eye contact with her, I saw her quickly try and stop laughing and keep a straight face.
I felt like the whole world was there to witness my humiliation, when really there were only 6 other girls in there. I quickly had to get the attention away from me being fat, so I made up an on the spot joke…. “Aaarrghh! There goes my useless mom again, shrinking my clothes in the washer” I said, "Yeah, hehe" a couple of them replied but I could tell from their expression that they weren't buying it. I then went to my usual defence mechanism and tried to join in laughing with them, even though I was crying inside. I knew I couldn’t keep it together for long so I turned back to the wall to hide the tear that slowly rolled down my face as I changed back into my gym clothes.
After this I quickly got dressed and edged my way to the door making sure not to make eye contact with anyone in there, like I was invisible, this is something I taught myself as a kid and it's stuck with me ever since. A bit like if I can't see them, they cant see me. As soon as I was out the door I ran down the corridor and into the bathrooms locking myself into the cubicle and sitting on the closed toilet seat. I was ready to make myself feel better the only way I knew how. By eating! I reached my hand into my bag and pulled out a bar of chocolate, the feeling I got while holding its crisp wrapper in my hand was instant joy. I knew it was about to enter my mouth and it couldn’t happen soon enough. Then, in a blink of an eye it was unwrapped and gone, but as soon at the chocolate was gone, the pain returned.
I left the bathroom in my gym shirt feeling so humiliated. Everywhere I looked there was another set of eyes that seemed to be looking at me. Did everyone know what had happened? They knew I was the fat girl who couldn’t even fit into her own clothes anymore? The remaining 4 hours of that day felt like 4 long weeks of embarrassment. Every class someone else was there to ask “hey, where's your shirt?” as if they didn’t already know what had happened! At the end of the day I approached my boyfriend who was standing with his friends.. I needed his love right then, but as I got to them they were all laughing and stopped as soon as they saw I was there. I couldn't believe it. I turned around, and walked the long humiliating road home knowing the only thing that was going to make me happy was my fridge!... - ภาพยนตร์และแอนิเมชัน
Why in front of everyone? If you want to break up with her while hurting her at least don't humiliate her in front for everyone 😒
PREACH 👏👏👏👏👏👏
Maybe he want to told to everyone that he's single now so that he can officially flirting with that junior girl?!?
Maybe too cowardly to do it in private. Didn’t want her to “make a scene “.
RIGHT!?
Yeah it really sucks it happened to me too but not because of my weight or anything, since I was a new girl in a school of few students I gained popularity quite fast even though I'm quiet(probably because everyone knew each other for years in that school and they rarely got new students). I got a boyfriend and since I was new and stuff people spread rumors and said I cheated on my previous boyfriends even though I never did but my boyfriend believed them and when everyone gathered for morning assembly he broke up with me in front of everyone and they all laughed and looked at me I was sooo humiliated (sorry about the rant)
*Calling someone fat is not a funny joke, it can really affect a person's life*
they may plan to do a reveng after they are not fat anymore and they lost some pounds they gonna come and its gonna end not well
@@_Iseah I'm losing weight and staying fit, it certainly makes up the time back to when I was called fat and tubby when I was younger... Now, I feel nothing, look lean and make others look weak
YES! That's why I try to not be rude and be positive even if people are rude to me and I just brush it off so I don't put hatred on people
If you like dark humor it's very much a joke
@@_Iseah What you need is motivation mi amigo. Picture yourself at the end of your goal, being a beautifully sexy idol for your inferior peers to look up to, but if you can't, all you need is to look at the mirror and say, "I'm a mess". Find the encouragement from your friends and family, then follow a fitness program that can do you
Today's generation
Skinny-bullied
Fat-bullies
Curvy-bullied
Not curvy-bullied
Dark skin-bullied
Fair skin-bullied
Talkative-bullied
Quiet-bullied
Pretty-bullied
Ugly-bullied
Happy-bullied
Sad-bullied
Died-omg she was such a good person
You become perfect after you die!
I think i should die , I m useless
No matter what we do we are bullied 🥺
I get bullied because I’m black 😢
Mystical Lyss You are beautiful and don’t you forget it💗 people are just stupid.
@@victoire7974 thank you ☺️
Who cares if she was pretty. The other girl I mean. Pretty doesn't matter if you have a hideous personality.
how do you know she had a horrible personality? she has nothing to do with her,
Whose to say her personality was hideous?
There was this guy who didn't date me brcause apperently "he likes girls with makeup" okay, you want me to wear makeup at 2 AM?! OH HELL NAH. Be happy that im interested in you-
@@fairyjuggalo8368 Makeup is just a preference people have, good job being yourself, queeny. 🤚🏻😩👑
Jeepers Creepers bruh
Being fat is a problem
Being slim is also another problem
What is wrong with the world😖
People are so judgemental
@@lilip2418 Ikr even our own family and so called friends😖
The world is toxic nowadays, the world is dying and half of the world is not even helping. Let’s all pray and help it gets better :(
there's nothing wrong with being fat, its when your morbidy obese there's a problem, not about your apperance but your heath
Joyce Agyemang-Duah just learn a few roasts then when you get bullied just roast them and walk away
Wow, this poor girl. I hate people that judge without knowing the whole story. And judging her because of her body?! Ridiculous.
You say as you judge others for judging other people.
Y'know that a lot of people judge others because they also have low self esteem or a bad home life, right??
@@laylax2672 ofc they do people bully me at school I don't care and stand up for myself
A boy called me a monster in front of the whole camp. It never actually came into my head, so i'm lucky. But there is other girls out there being judged and called for the MOST dumbest things. You will never know how much it will affect people!
Jeepers Creepers oh there’s nothing wrong with judging someone for being an asshole and attacking and trying to tear down other people for just, well... existing and being different from them. I don’t care what your home life is, that’s no excuse to treat people poorly when they did nothing to deserve such treatment. Bullying absolutely should be called out.
I mean that’s the world for ya, not everyone is gonna like who you are.
In middle school I thought I was fat. I starved myself. I would go days without food. Every three to four days without food I would take a little bite of something (like a sandwich) then I would repeat the process all over again until I was to weak to stand. I felt so worthless. My father would always call me fat. Ever since I was a baby and NOT in a joking way. He lead me to believe I was overweight when I wasn't. I was extremely underweight for a year. I almost lost my life.. It took a year of therapy but today I'm a healthy weight. I still don't understand why people put others down for being overweight. It's wrong.
Edit: Thank you everyone for the nice comments, they mean a lot ❤
Totally not a person I’m so sorry, I just don’t understand humanity sometimes...
That is so wrong. Your father shouldn't have said those things but you should be very proud of yourself about how you recovered.
Me too! Everybody in my school always told me that i'm fat and smelly, and i started do the same thing as you but now i'm getting better
Everyone in my family yesterday called me fat while we were all eating, i stood up and left, knowing it will be a cycle for god knows when...I don't know why i'm like this ..obese, fat, everyone calls me that way, fat jokes....i want to change so bad but i dont know how😔😔
awww I’m so sorry! wish you the best ever!! :D
When you said "trapped in a world of beautifull people" don't forget your not trapped because your apart of it. ❤️
You're*
beautiful*
stop with the corrections 💀
@@kiroshiren why
Guys don't ruin the moment-
To everyone reading this, no matter your body size, type, shape, or anything at all, you are beautiful💖
Yeah
That's a lie
That’s rude, everyone one is pretty or handsome in there own way. So stop being mean
You shouldn't hate people for being fat, skinny, ect. But you also shouldn't forget that it's not neccasarilly good to be over weight or under weight. You should always try to be in great shape.
@@datgirllol2347 how is that rude? The person didn't said anything like that
I feel bad for her. She shouldn't feel like this because someone told her she was fat. If you read this, you are beautiful just the way you are. 🤗
But this is reality 😔
tru
@Erica Johnson You are welcome 😊
Ty! U r too 🌷
Raisha Islam reality i know
the reason why I hate people who likes to body shaming other people... Neither they are skinny or fat, people have feelings. Be nice or just be quite
Cute kitty I bet she or he is spoiled?
Exactly
so true
If your fat they judge you
If your skinny they judge you
If your tall they judge you
If your Short they judge you
And if you die they are like OMG😱 she was so nice and bla bla bla
And you can tell your parents about this or the principal
True that
Thank gođ they judged me, if not I would have not decided to change
Facts
You had 4 chancea to use the right you’re
Chances*
It is so horrible people how can people do that and treat other people so terribly these people should be ashamed no one should be ashamed of being fat if they can’t except you then they don’t deserve you
I understand the way you feel for her, It's a completely normal thing, but keep in mind none of these stories are actual events.
helps you feel lucky though.
@Rance Burger I figured that somebody would make a comment where they try to justify shaming overweight people. Not cool, man.
You really think that it's okay to be cruel to others? Do you actually think that them shaming her for her appearance is okay? You could try to throw around the health card, but to mask your insensitivity like that, you're not being subtle.
Rance Burger how about those that can’t help being fat due to a medical condition?
@Rance Burger some people do everything they can to be healthy. I've known many people who are overweight but eat clean, run or go to the gym regularly and still don't fit the bill of "healthy weight" while their doctors say that their health records say otherwise. Everyone comes in all different shapes and sizes. And making every overweight person seem "unhealthy" is unhealthy in itself. I wouldn't be surprise if your words have caused eating disorders or suicidal thoughts or even worse. You should really think about the majority. Not yourself.
@Rance Burger It's one thing to give somebody advice for it and see if the person will overcome it. It's another thing when someone shames another person for their body image. Do you actually think that it will try to convince someone to take on a healthier lifestyle? Being cruel about it doesn't solve a damn thing.
Poor girl I hope she finds someone who truly loves her for who she is
Yeah she will
I've always hated my body for being so skinny, People always say that I look awkward when dancing or even standing. But after I watched this video my self-esteem went up a little bit and thought to my self that there is always a hope for everyone
I have very thin arms u can literally see my veins but people say that they’re hands are real hands even though it’s just fat no offense
@@ashishkaistha9701ummm okay? I'm anorexic and underweight (I'm in therapy and finally healing) and my hands where "fat" all the time. It's not really fat, some people just have bigger hands.
Same
@Ploof Poof ikr. The world still might accept skinny people, but they absolutely hate fat people..
some people make fun of you cuz you fat some people make fun of you cuz you skinny dont think skinny people dont get bullyed of how they look so yeah nobody is ugly we are pretty and god said no body is ugly
It’s sad how badly I can relate to this I’m fat as well 😓
Aww being fat is not bad
No matter who you are you are beautiful
Superior Speed u are a amazing person for saying such words 🤗🤗🤩 and I agree 100%
I'm skinny it's also unhealthy
Are you trying to lose weight? If so let's do it together!!😁 I'm get bullied alot for my weight and my crush rejected me (hes really nice btw) he never said it to my face but a few weeks after he found out he got relay awkward and his new gf and her gang made my life terrible. So I know how it feels to be put down so I'm gonna do my best to reach my goal of being happy and healthy. ( I'll use this chat section to track my progress) 😋 I ramble on alot
I feel u gurl. I'm in 5th grade (Elementary School) and my "friends" say that I'm fat. I don't really care about them but my real friends tell me that I ignore them and unfriend them. As I know, my real friends never left me and we've been friends since Nursery. So now, I have a good life at home with my friends by my side at all times.
I’m done with this society I’m moving to Mars to start a new life with just lightbulbs.
Food? Water?
how would you move to mars lol are you gonna walk there lol
Too bad Elon Musk and friends will move there in 4 years
You'll probably die within the first 3 seconds from space and radiation and if not from hunger
Also if you move to mars it'll cost a load of money which is linked with society so..
Plus Just because you're on mars doesn't mean you don't interact with others and pay money
Even if you didn't see others you'd die of isolation
Same here
I’m so sorry that to deal with the bullying for being larger than others, you had to deal with an eating disorder. I think this is a good story to talk about eating disorders that aren’t just about starving yourself, I’m so sorry this happened to you! I’m glad you got over this and got better :).
Uh oh... Here come the bigger comments..
Yeah it's a good "Story"
Exclamation points shouldn't be in the places they are
Creepy smiley face
Period, not only the fact that Periods are used for, well.. unhappy "I'm so happy for you" type sentences, .e.g "Well make sure we can get the internet back up." is a good reason to use the Period, but "OMG!!!!!!! YOU ARE SO COOL I CANT BELIVE YOU SURVIVED THIS GGGGGGG." Isn't something you should see. But also the fact that its used after a smiley face makes it look like he has a pimple
Touf see The hell are you on about
@Touf see Thanks for correcting my comment, it helps with my skills.
I’ve been plus size my entire life. I would go to say, for a period of time I was mildly obese. Kids in school would laugh and say things like “her name’s Abigail cuz she’s a big whale.” And “your ugly and fat, why would anyone love u?” I felt attacked everyday. After I dropped out to do home schooling instead, I had to deal with depression and it sucked. I truly thought I was so ugly. But now. I’m on the path to loose weight, not for anybody els, for me. I love myself not despite my flaws, but with my flaws. We should all love every bump, curve, Mark, scar, roll on our bodies. Get out there ladies and gents.❤️💪
Thank you for the great comment!
This is inspirational thank you.
Be happy. Good job!❤️
Be proud of ur body
Abigail because she is big as a whale haha , that's a good one , im gonna save it.
"No one is born ugly, we are just born in a judgemental society."
~Kim Namjoon (For President)
That is why je is my bias.. And it's hard to realize that.. I don't love myself beacsie i libe in a toxic spciety
@@klavdijaskufca4643 huh?!
Klavdija Škufca language
He*
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Live*
Society*
Realise*
@@aahanaparsheera2158 realize*
@@kiroshiren realise
I don’t understand why people put so much pressure on people. Not just woman people are cruel to men too. People can’t do this everyone is beautiful even with imperfections. It is so cruel and can cause mental health damage. This isn’t cool if you bully people because of physical appearance they don’t need to change you do.
It depends if ur unhealthy/obese you do need to change your lifestyle! Of course these turds can't really help who call you ugly and say really mean things to you tho ;~;
Bellabyte Davi that’s on periodt
Clown FuckerTM das it
Yeah I think people should stop putting pressure on people and all body shapes and sizes can be beautiful... people would be happier if people stopped going on about someone being fat and just left them alone and liked them for being themself
It's called natural selection, humans barely have it anymore, but it still exists in forms like these. If you see a person who's fat, it automatically makes you think they aren't as physically fit so pear pressure will occur to get people to change.
Ripping your shirt doesn't mean you're too fat hun. Im skinny as hell and I wear huge shirts, I rip mine all the time.
True
Omg same. You can still rip shirts or whatever even if ur fat or not. Respect OTHER PEOPLE!!! >:C
@@HF-fx6fx And pants, too. I've had some pants that tore at some uncomfortable places, and that's just from the leg movements like for instance bending down further than the pants' material can maintain itself for.
Honey, it could have happened to anyone I promise. Ripping a shirt happens! You're gorgeous!
I think for the fact that she is overweight though just made it obvious and people could guess it was for that reason
People: *Makes fun of her for being fat*
Lost Weight
THE SAME PEOPLE: *Makes fun of her for being super skinny*
What is wrong with society!
yea
I don't know of anybody getting bullied for being skinny. I watch a tv show called Mike and Molly and they only focus on the fat people making fun of them and they are trying to lose weight but Molly's mother is super skinny, dangerously skinny, but nobody addresses this and say she should put on weight and nobody makes jokes or makes fun of her. just the fat people in it. the prmise of the TV show is that the fat people are trying to lose weight
@@magicmoonart trust me ppl get bullied for being skinny too. Im really skinny and ppl make fun of me for looking like a "stick" or a "skeleton" :(
So pls don't think skinny ppl don't suffer , just from a tv show 😢
But I don't care i'm healthy , so i'm happy
this world is so cruel
I was bullied for being fat they would say “so big and fat” over and over again and call me obese and ugly I was 9 and one times I was above the monkey bars and they went under me and touched my butt and my thighs I cried and felt so uncomfortable but I couldn’t jump of because you know the feeling that u are like stuck up high that’s how I felt my friend slapped them and told them not to touch me or call me fat again and they ran away we are still friends today 🤗
that is good
This is what happened something to me and i was called thunder thighs
Some kid used to call me fat and ugly but my friends told them to leave me alone. She doesn't go to my school anymore and her mom keeps changing her phone number. We have lost contact, I miss her a lot. I feel more confident about myself and I exercise. I'm still working on my skin. But I'm getting better
I feel so bad for people that are judged for their weight. Everyone is beautiful in their own way.❤️
You are right everyone is beautiful in there own way.
YES!
Thanks
😳
Yup. Many people said I'm fat so I started to starve myself. The more I starve myself,the more I eat. I can't understand why they said I'm fat even I'm not overweight. My weight is normal😭😭😭😭
Honestly if I had a boyfriend and he broke up with me bc I'm fat in front of EVERYBODY, I'll just roast/expose him about the things he may have done 🚶🏾♀️ I'm not the only one getting embarrassed lol
I would've punched them in the face.
Periodt lol
@@akkros707 I would've too 💀
bloop
How do you know that he broke up with her because she was fat?
I heard a quote "Until you love, respect yourself no one will do" so always keep this in your mind and love yourself.
You'll find someone better. I know I'm not chubby but my fiance is. He never thought I'd fall in love with him because of his weight but i fell in love with him because of who he is as a person. His heart has a lot of love to give, sensitive, romantic, respectful, a sweetheart. I never cared that he is chubby, I'm in love with him. Once this virus blows over, we are going to get married.
I’m so happy for you!!! Congratulations you two, I wish you the very best in marriage!!!💗💗
So happy for you!
Destiny Ray thank you very much 😊
De Strangest Stranger Awww thank you 😊
Aww Congratulations god bless you both hunn 😊🙏💙🎉🎉
That’s so unfair he doesn’t deserve her
YungKingJJ23 true
Well I agree but some relationships don’t work out, so it was better he told her sooner that he wanted to break up because they probably weren’t the one for each other sooner or later they would have broken up
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Its Raa Raa he really doesn’t. If he would see how much she lost weight, he would try to want her back. When she rejects him, he would be crushed forever lolzzzz.
Our society is too judgmental no one deserves to be judged on appearance I am so tired of that kind of crap 🙄😠
5:14
UGH! I HAVE A YOUNGER BROTHER JUST LIKE HIM! It’s just not fair for you OWN siblings to fat shame you in such a rude manner! 😡
Her: I had only lost 3-4 pounds
Me: I’m sorry girl, but that’s a lot. I know you where working really hard and was expecting so much but you need to go easier on yourself. What matters is that your making progress. Just exercise every day and I promise your weight will really start to improve after a while. It’s not something you can change over night. It’s gonna take a couple months so be sure not to push yourself to hard.
This is ridiculos. Like he shouldn't judge her only because of her body!
Ridiculous, because.*
Do you not have speak to text?
@@laylax2672 shet up
Yeah
@@laylax2672 leave her be
@@Blandemu Then she should leave me be, unless you're referring to the original comment then, sure. Grammar is my thing.
When I was younger I use to starve myself when I was disappointed which was something I should have never done because I have health problems now 😔
Hope you getting better ❤️
I really love how they didn’t show here being like I lost 10 pounds after the first week and how they made it realistic and relatable considering it takes time to actually lose wait
She learnt how to love herself by losing weight, such a "healthy" message
Well it is healthy to not be overweight and rely on food for your emotional baggage. So yes, good message.
Yes but you should love yourself no matter what
Glad she found a way to love herself. I wonder what her bullies look like now
Good message, but the story is fake
Touf see they’re not fake, they’re real people submitting their stories
@@user-dm9xe7qi7y
These stories could have happened to people, but there aren't people who submitted them. I'm posting a video proving this point soon.
@DailyVlogs TH-cam well if u subscribe to someone because of a story then ur the stupid here buddy
@@bitrunner8759 we all have opions
If someone breakes up with you just because your fat then that person is immature and doesn't know what really is needed in a relationship. A person who understands that looks won't last but a good personality that will stay beside you will last forever will know your worth. And everyone should try to do so too. Everyone is worthy.😤💜
How do you know that he broke up with her because she was fat?
Men dont like fat girls. Get real
This happened to me to except he didn't like me because of my skin color :/
But karma is a b and turns out his current girlfriend is super demanding and he kinda dislikes her🤣🤣🤣
omg what a douche bag, hope you're well now
Gurl ur amazing. Don't love this type of guys they don't love u .
U are amazing ❤️❤️
wow racist
Somebody called me fat in grade 1
I am now in grade 5 and I still remember that
Graham Smith you're not fat, and don't even take into account people who act childish. Just keep being yourself, Graham. You'll be alright, and you're definitely worth it. 👍
My brother called me fat when I was 11 or 12. I lost weight, now I weigh less than I was when I was 11/12. I'm 15 now and my brother is still dumb. You'll most likely be fine. You're young and as you grow you will lose baby fat ♡
Aww poor child. I bet you are pretty and was then too.
She's so cute though- Like it doesn't matter if she's fat she's honestly super pretty
Ari yeah, the animation, u have no idea how she looks like
Lisa’s Little World yeah ;-;
Lisa’s Little World True but usually with these animation story time things they have people send themselves recording their story and try to draw them like how they see them and add voiceovers and stuff
Ari nope they send recording of their voice ive sent one before its not a recording of my face
DailyVlogs TH-cam Because we can? There’s nothing wrong about complimenting someone. Even if this was in a romantic way, there’s nothing wrong with homosexuality. It’s just like heterosexuality. You just love a certain gender and can’t get yourself to love anything else. It wasn’t your choice, you were born that way.
Can't believe this no one should be treated like this.
Unless the story is fake
i learned a lot about our society from melanie martinez, thank god she exists, and there are a few lines i learned from the movie,
"our bodies don't define us, we aren't our bodies, they're just temporary, try not to expect shallow people to love you because they don't have the capacity understand how amazing you are."
-Melanie Martinez, K-12, 2K19
alessia too
"beauty goes deeper than the surface"
you don't have to change a thing, the world could change its heart"
To all the pepole who think there ugly ...
Dont lisen to the bully you are beutiful in your own way
Listen* Beautiful*
Anais Diaz The thought matters
@@anaisdiaz7346 thats all you found? Lmao poor girl
@@anaisdiaz7346 what if I bully myself?? Because I always call myself ugly
Unless it’s a child that’s like 5 that calls u ugly... because u just might b jkjk it was a meme I saw
She is Just herself and People need to respect her
Unless the story is fake
Ok it's fake but you can learn good lesson
@@bitrunner8759 nope is just giving u advice not to judge and bully people and love themselves
To all the beautiful human beings, there will always gonna be someone that is waiting to judge you. Remember, You are beautiful just the way you are! If you want to change, Change for YOU. Do what makes you happy. If you want to lose fat, exercise but don't torture yourself. Stop torturing your body by not eating and not getting enough nutrients for your body. Eating less does not make you healthier. If your goal is only to impress people, then I am sorry but you are never going to make it. Instead, TRY TO HAVE a POSITIVE mindset. Take all the hurtful comments and just laugh it off. Change for the better Cuz there's nothing you can really do to satisfy EVERYONE. Dont be so hsrd on yourself. Learn to LOVE YOURSELF!❤
Patricia M thank you ❤️
Thank u so much❤️❤️❤️
im so happy that she began to love herself. nobody deserves to be treated like that. it's heartbreaking.
It makes me wanna cry that things like this happen. This stuff normally doesn't happen to me and I'm very glad. I don't think I would of the self-esteem to even handle being body shamed.
Everybody is beautiful in there own way. Do what makes you feel beautiful and happy as long as your not hurting anybody ♥️
It's really too rude to embassered someone because of being fat..
She's doing well to lose her weight.. ❤️❤️❤️
your first sentence doesn’t make any sense plus, how would you know she is losing weight? maybe she accepts it and is like she is maybe she is, but you can never assume things.
@@dynamic2051 she literally said in her story that she's lost a lot of weight lmao
Thought this was a text from my mom for a sec there
@@dynamic2051
You did not get what I mean there.
I mean She's doing sport and she tries...
🌹
Erik TM I didn’t watch the video, since this channel uploads fake videos, sometimes but sometimes not, I only watched a part of it not really watching it all
I feel bad for her because I am the same way. But everyone kinda supports me and everyone else. I wish she was just treated fairly by everyone, I'm so sorry for her.
But seriously just messed up.
I feel so bad I want to give her a hug🤗
I really felt the needing to help her
This is what today's society is. Judging everyone based on their WEIGHT. Just bcz I hv few more pounds on my body doesnt mean I'm lazy or less worthy than the rest.
PS : Today is the 3rd day of me starving :) im 5'1 & 123 lbs. People always call me fat and im tired of it 😢😭😭
No.. Starving yourself is not good.. You are very beautiful and believe it or not but I care about your well-being! You are perfect and dont let others tell you otherwise! Starving yourself can lead to live long anorexia and bad mental health issues.. I really hope that you can stop starving yourself.. You might be thinking that all of this is not true and im doing it out of the kindness of my heart but no, I'm serious! I lost my brother to a battle with depression and anorexia and I dont want to see you throw your life away.. Just know that your an amazing person and I TRULY care a lot about you❤❤
No, don't starve yourself, please 🙏. Your weight is good 😁. Your BMI is as healthy as it could be 😇. And never change yourself becouse of society, boys/girls or anyone else. Here's some support from me: ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜♥️💝💖💗💓💞💕❣️💟. Hope you'll listen to me even if just a bit 😊. Don't forget, you are beautiful. Becouse beautiful is not the look but it's that how you feel. Beauty radiates from *you* not from body 😇.
(Ps: Sorry if i did some gramatic mistakes, english is not my first language 😅)
I’m not gonna lie to you, I’m not going to say you’re beautiful because I don’t know you. But if you really want to lose weight.. starving yourself is not the way to go, do it the right way, the healthy way for yourself not for anyone else because at the end of the day you’re the one who has to live with your body so you have to choose:
Either love yourself however you are
Or lose weight the right way for YOURSELF
Stay strong ❤️ and remember that everyone is beautiful in their own unique way :)
THEY CALL YOU WHAT?!! HONEY YOU’RE PERFECT!!!
I wanna make this clear Having Weight or even being big is not the same thing as being fat or medically obese.
What factors into being unhealthy is consumption of what someone is eating. There are people who have weight and are big but eat and are healthier than your average person.
And by the inverse being Thin is not the equivalent of being healthy. If that person isn't getting the proper nutrients they need or if they are still doing actions that would risk their health like drinking and smoking, then that thin body doesn't mean anything.
Be You and take care of yourselfthat's what matters.
Darryl Jack Agree!
Darryl Jack
What a beautiful summary
Could not put that in any words of my own :)
Good message, story is fake
Thank you for this. I am a bit bigger than normal girls, and I eat less than most. It has never really made sense but I have been judged for it. It’s funny, because eating in public always gains you weird looks. It could be the only meal you have had that day, but people still judge.
That guy is a jerk. You can't judge a book by its cover. Breaking up with her because she's overweight... This is ludicrous.
I was in the same boat as I was overweight during my high school years.
The difference is how you perceive yourself. Some are self conscious and ashamed about their weight. Me on the other hand, didn't mind my body weight.
what do you mean by "was"....was2
If your reading this I hope your healthy and your family is to 🙏 ❤️ we will get through this💞💖💝♥️
It’s nice to hear a happy ending. I’m so happy that you took control of your health and your life and you improved yourself for the better. I really hope all the people with the same problems watching and learn from this. Use all the hate and anger you feel to fuel your goals.
I could definitely relate to this in a few ways with struggles I've had. But everyone is beautiful in their own uquice way there is no one size fits all for beauty, learning to love yourself is hard but very worth it and I'm also happy she seems to be happier and is working to better herself and be healthier.
Everyone is beautiful in their own way. Love yourself 🥰
I'm just..shocked at how that guy did that to her.. she and everyone out there, deserves a kind and loving soul who will treat them with love , respect and support. Be it a relationship , friendship and family! I'm sure you out there, will find you're truest companion. Hope you all have a great and loved day ^^ Stay safe from Covid-19!
Aww.. You too 💕💕
True!
I love how all people are "omg what is wrong with this world" but every person who says that is also part of that world.
Her: green means go!
Me: thinks of paw patrol for some reason😂
His brother should be supportive for sister instead he just laugh
When your about to first
Wifi: Aww That's cute
Relatable
I also routinely have chats with my WiFi
You're beautiful in your own way! Embrace your beauty!! 💘
People shouldn't say, "You aren't fat". That implies that being fat is bad. I think people should embrace having a fat body as what you are, and who you are, and what makes you gorgeous. I am not fat, so I don't know what this feels like, but a more honest and healthy approach to me would be, "You are fat, but that is in no way a bad thing. You are beautiful."
It depends. I think you should say "you are unhealthy, thats why your weight is a problem but those kids are really mean and losers! Your beautiful but you would be perfect in a healthy weight"
I wouldn't call anyone fat. FULL STOP....there is no point humiliating someone then telling them they are beautiful
I feel so bad for you....I think the drawings of you are beautiful...don’t forget that...
This story is very inspiring
You can do it girl! I was 250 pounds and I’ve been bullied almost all of my life and it is hard to love yourself but I’m here 175 lbs now, my weight fluctuates but al least I’m trying and I’m proud ❤️
I grown up with many people toxic about my body, until I lost 10 pounds and now im become healthier but i'm become anxiety and anxious when my weight gain even 1 pound its hunt me...
I feel you, girl. I'm a fatass. You didn't deserve that
I fell bad for the girl and you I feel you too I was fat but I changed my ways and now I,m a really healthy whaight and I,m really strong too
And to the people who are still bullying and judging, why do you do that? How does that satisfy you? Have you ever thought of what your words could do with their mental health? is mental health a joke to you? People die from depression! And YOUR words could be the cause of it. People are struggling to get through life but instead of supporting, you judge them. Have you ever wondered what the individuals that you judged have been through? Please stop the bullying. It's not gonna be easy but try. It could reduce mental health issues and could really make the world a better place. We need love not hate. Especially right now, we need it more than ever. Be positive and brush all the negativity away. Ok thankyou for making it through my comment😂💙
I am proud of you people really shouldn’t judge by there appearance but by there personality but it’s a good lesson to learned that the only person is stopping you is you I am so glad you are getting better keep at it
*We are not born ugly we just live in a judgemental society*
Kim Namjoon-
I’m sorry about what happened that day I would stand up for you when they laughed I would have told them to stop 🛑 laughing in the locker room if I would of been there
Couldn’t he have broken up with her in private? You ain’t tough b
mxcha milktea what do you mean shes not tough? She went through all of that for you to be rude again? Wow.
@@baileysvirgincorner I think they meant the guy...
Neither are you with using your brain to realize from that to see that the story is fake.
I dont know if this is rude but, I would just try to get them into exercising and eating healthy, I would join them as well.
I dont believe the stories are real either
I mean this is kinda relatable for me :/
This is the same thing that happens to me. I was picked on for being overweight. I had no more self confidence, I didn’t think good of myself, I just hated how I looked. I still trying to get over people picking on me in school. Even though schools not in right now. This story just made me sob.
What a queen! She should be super proud of herself! don't ever let anyone make you feel bad about yourself!!
Her: my past does not define me
Me: sings my past does not define me and my past is not today!
~WHEN I SEE YOUR FACE! THERE NOT A THING THAT I WOULD CHANGE! CUZ YOUR AMAZING! JUST THE WAY YOU ARE!~
-Bruno Mars
Original Title: He broke up with me just becuase I'm fat
New Title: I made them pay for calling me fat
New New Title:He Dumped me in front of everyone becuase I'm fat
This story is one of the best stories on this channel and it will help me it motivates me to workout and become fit all it takes is one step every time
This is hurtful
Who else is watching it while stuck being home?
Paradoxy stop stealing my comment
Everyone is
Yes
Me
JESUS! THIS. VIDEO. CAME. OUT. WHILE. WE. ARE. ALL. IN. QUARANTINE. Ur so dumb
My parents won't ever let me go through this alone, I won't ask em or tell em but they'll know that I desperately need them at a time like this and they will never back off.
She's very strong and beautiful. I feel inspired! She was concentrating on her dream. She was not giving up. I feel like she deserves a great life!
Such a hearttouching story ❤💕
I relate so hard- I had my pants rip at the seams from my body weight
go this had me in tears. i’m so glad you got better and reached you goal
Good for her. She found her outlet. People are mean, and there's nothing we can do except be kind ourselves. But most people aren't. So it's good she found an outlet
If she ain't your type and you don't feel attracted to her don't even start the relationship
The truth is, humans are designed to seek healthy partners.
Take care of yourself to show how self respect.
u go girl..life is full of surprise always...can't wait for your slimming journey begins!
Her neighbors are so kind for painting the mailbox green for her.
I wish I could’ve been her friend ! 😭 We would’ve been besties
how is she gonna complain about being fat then eat more
She said that food made her feel better
I’d assume it’s (Maybe) some sort of eating disorder
lia it’s may be a eating disorder or depression and people deal with depression different ways
This is a eating disorder. Haven't you heard about that?
I've seen many videos. But this one made me cry.
I use to be bullied about my size when I was younger. But now that puberty has strucked and I’ve lost some lbs I’m considered “thick” and no one bullies me anymore so there’s hope.