I’ve Never Been so Wrong About a Guy

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  • @alannahnelson9450
    @alannahnelson9450 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1845

    I was hoping the brother would stand up for her instead he unfriended her

    • @DiamondSlut
      @DiamondSlut 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      I don’t think he did. She said most of her family right? I have a hope in my heart he stayed strong and knew she was telling the truth and knew this guy needed to face justice.

    • @Spiral.Dynamics
      @Spiral.Dynamics 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      She said, “Harley and the rest of her family.”

    • @anya8407
      @anya8407 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Alannah Nelson same

    • @LegoGirlMOC
      @LegoGirlMOC 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Anyone secretly wish she would end up with Matt? Lol

    • @EagleEye-rw5pn
      @EagleEye-rw5pn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Actually someone name Araina DreamRai(litearly the girl in the story) said in the comment that the brother did defend her but his family force him to cut all connection with her

  • @kimmyn1936
    @kimmyn1936 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1741

    She's not alone. Even if he wasn't guilty, she has many supporters out there.

    • @kevinortega8251
      @kevinortega8251 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Even if he isn't guilty? That is fucl

    • @raindropsandfeathers2245
      @raindropsandfeathers2245 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @@kevinortega8251 i think she meant if he wasn't FOUND guilty

    • @At0micplayboys
      @At0micplayboys 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@kevinortega8251 fucl? Autocorrect get ya?

    • @KKsoydoy
      @KKsoydoy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Really?

    • @PandoraParoru
      @PandoraParoru 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He got found guilty but set free again

  • @tessastauder3
    @tessastauder3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1118

    What blows my mind is this girl stood up for her boyfriend who tried to do stuff with her friend! He tried to cheat with obviously no remorse and that's apparently okay!!? Disgusting.

    • @devisweeta
      @devisweeta 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Well, the friend was the one who drank like a stupid idiot.

    • @lynnluv789
      @lynnluv789 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      *D I S G U S T I N G*

    • @edithenonbinarysquirrel
      @edithenonbinarysquirrel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I know what you mean.
      My mother's sister is married to a man who is a alcoholic and a year now he started to try touching my sister in inappropriate places of her body. I was the only one who saw it and scolded him in front of everyone but he got mad at me calling me stupid and such names...
      My aunt did the same with her friend in this story she just shrugged and said " I don't think I can do anything about it."
      Every time they pay us a visit he gives me death glares and mumbles some really bad words about me.

    • @xadebercy4949
      @xadebercy4949 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She was brave as heck

    • @EagleEye-rw5pn
      @EagleEye-rw5pn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@edithenonbinarysquirrel i'm sorry to hear that my friend what is the realitionship between you and you're mother's sister now

  • @romayora5844
    @romayora5844 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1319

    I’m so proud of her. I mean, she took matters in her own hands the SECOND she walked out of that house. It takes courage to do that. Most people with the same case are too afraid and keep it in for a long time but no, she did it right away. Yes, it was really hard for her, especially when she found out what kind of a friend she was with (harley). Proud of you girl, and you’re not alone❤️❤️❤️

    • @raindropsandfeathers2245
      @raindropsandfeathers2245 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      -hugs-

    • @ashcashless
      @ashcashless 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I had gone through a situation at work where a co-worker forced a kiss on me and since I apparently waited "too long" my case was dismissed. I'm glad she knew the right thing to do and report it right away because the law does not care about the people. They can go through some traumatic experience, which she and I both did, and they won't do anything because of some technicality. I'm glad she got justice and that "friend" can go to hell!

    • @raindropsandfeathers2245
      @raindropsandfeathers2245 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ashcashless I'm sorry about what happened to you

    • @toddsmith8082
      @toddsmith8082 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      obi1kanobi R What so strong about her she was in the same bed with them ?She was looking for Attention🤷🏾🤔

    • @alwaysrunning234
      @alwaysrunning234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@toddsmith8082 She had already laid down before he came. Just because she was there doesn't give him the right to do that you douche bag. People like you disgust me.

  • @vwatlas
    @vwatlas 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1143

    I'm really happy that she actually spoke up, a lot of people don't

    • @honestlyidk6252
      @honestlyidk6252 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      They stupid for not doing so

    • @kaylee9778
      @kaylee9778 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      The Trashmaster sometimes they feel ashamed and like it’s their fault.

    • @daniriley3717
      @daniriley3717 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Right

    • @raindropsandfeathers2245
      @raindropsandfeathers2245 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Sometimes we feel like we won't be believed

    • @alanih3276
      @alanih3276 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@honestlyidk6252 chill

  • @naomiyeo6668
    @naomiyeo6668 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1823

    This is so so sad This was horrible her friend definitely wronged her I hope that she got threapy that would help

    • @vector1213
      @vector1213 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Naomi Yeo dont worry, it’s fake

    • @vector1213
      @vector1213 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Every video is word generated

    • @raindropsandfeathers2245
      @raindropsandfeathers2245 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      @@vector1213 actually it's not fake because it's my story

    • @courtneyrose5507
      @courtneyrose5507 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Araina DreamRai you are very strong for speaking up.

    • @raindropsandfeathers2245
      @raindropsandfeathers2245 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@courtneyrose5507 thank you hun. I did it for the voiceless.

  • @cheri_cupcakes7578
    @cheri_cupcakes7578 4 ปีที่แล้ว +311

    Harley just mad bc she didn’t get her way and thats tuff should’ve been a better friend thinking if anything was going to happen🙄

    • @barshana6231
      @barshana6231 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Harley will suffer abusive relation as a karma

    • @ayoutuberonyoutube554
      @ayoutuberonyoutube554 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It was probably planned, by the girlfriend and the boyfriend.

  • @happyalmond5669
    @happyalmond5669 4 ปีที่แล้ว +375

    I’m glad that she was confident enough to speak up. Also what happened to her ex friend’s brother? The one that help her.

    • @raindropsandfeathers2245
      @raindropsandfeathers2245 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      He took the stand and told the truth of what he witnessed that night, but his family controls him and he cut off ties with me

    • @iyannajones7030
      @iyannajones7030 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Araina DreamRai are you the one from the video? And if so I’m sorry for what happened to you and happy he went to jail.

    • @emanuelespinoza9325
      @emanuelespinoza9325 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@raindropsandfeathers2245 Wait, you are her? After watching this video, I am so sorry about what happened to you.

    • @valieroyal4205
      @valieroyal4205 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@raindropsandfeathers2245 proud of u girl good that u got justice

    • @happyalmond5669
      @happyalmond5669 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You are so brave! There are so many people out there who are afraid to say anything. Stay strong girl!

  • @sugggamelly1894
    @sugggamelly1894 4 ปีที่แล้ว +245

    She did the right thing. A lot of people are scared to get help

    • @honestlyidk6252
      @honestlyidk6252 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah that's so stupid

    • @asielmilian38
      @asielmilian38 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She did the right thing.

    • @vaniapinto8214
      @vaniapinto8214 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      A lot of people DON'T want to get help

    • @kaitomastuda6262
      @kaitomastuda6262 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah when that sort thing of thing happens you are too scared to do anything

    • @my-astrawberries6860
      @my-astrawberries6860 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It’s scary to imagine the possible reactions

  • @juliajohnson6629
    @juliajohnson6629 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    I’m glad she went to the police right away, instead of hiding what happened forever. If you hide something forever like that, you’ll regret never telling someone.

    • @cmac1478
      @cmac1478 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My abuser threatened me.

    • @cmac1478
      @cmac1478 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's a broad question to ask. In what way are you asking

    • @EagleEye-rw5pn
      @EagleEye-rw5pn 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cmac1478 i think he/she/it mean how do you do with you're abuser is he still well abuses you and did you get help

    • @dailycuringpeople1299
      @dailycuringpeople1299 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's why you should stand for yourself , Don't let people sexual assault you or do something bad to you EVEN he/she is your family or friends
      if you don't do it now , it'll go further and they wont stop and at the end you can ended up really badly
      if you had ANY problems tell your parents or your mom because they're more mature and they know what to do
      they probably scolded you but deep down because they cared about you and they will come to your defense ❤️

  • @insomnia5448
    @insomnia5448 4 ปีที่แล้ว +362

    The man may not be charged in real life.
    (ɔ◔‿◔)ɔ ♥
    but God will take care of people like him after death!!

    • @sarabakula698
      @sarabakula698 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think she wasnt awake nd tht she lied abt tht just to save her bf

    • @insomnia5448
      @insomnia5448 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Wow, and the girl being attacked got her a job and everything, but no. a sexual abuser bf is more important than damn friendship.
      plz dont be that friend :)

    • @TitanJonkler
      @TitanJonkler 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Hell has a special place for him

    • @moldperson
      @moldperson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I personally don’t believe in god but I hope he/she is real so the groper can be sent straight to HELL!!!!

    • @RUU__8
      @RUU__8 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      i want your dog we’ll see about that....

  • @stephanienielsen7024
    @stephanienielsen7024 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Never keep this to yourself I’m not saying to share it with the world just tell people you know you can trust

    • @dailycuringpeople1299
      @dailycuringpeople1299 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's why you should stand for yourself , Don't let people sexual assault you or do something bad to you EVEN he/she is your family or friends
      if you don't do it now , it'll go further and they wont stop and at the end you can ended up really badly
      if you had ANY problems tell your parents or your mom because they're more mature and they know what to do
      they probably scolded you but deep down because they cared about you and they will come to your defense ❤️

  • @everest6826
    @everest6826 4 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    Never 👏 ever 👏 keep 👏 quiet 👏 when 👏 you 👏 want 👏 things 👏 to 👏 end 👏

    • @everest6826
      @everest6826 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thx for the heart ❤️

    • @LaFox23
      @LaFox23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      But I’m a better lier lol

    • @everest6826
      @everest6826 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      LaFox XD

    • @dianamaria2365
      @dianamaria2365 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      never keep quiet,true,but 99% these cases don't even get to court. his conviction really stunned me,others got away with much more evidence on hand. let's not forget she was also drunk,his deffence attorney prob stated she was not remembering well or dreaming....so yeah,if this case is real,she is very lucky she got a conviction for him....

    • @everest6826
      @everest6826 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Diana Maria Ik... but like STILL XD

  • @SlightlyConcerning
    @SlightlyConcerning 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    I wish that every criminal like him would get the guilty verdict. My case was sexual assault from a family member when I was a bit younger around 9 and went on until I was 11 almost twelve. Long story short, the jury couldnt find enough evidence, found him not guilty and I've only ended therapy last summer. Currently my family (the ones one my side) are fighting a case to keep up a 1 year protective order that he appealed. I'm so glad her case took the better turn. I guess you can never predict who might hurt you.

    • @pineapples7194
      @pineapples7194 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fluffi Arts there’s really not a lot you can do though.. even if it feels wrong just.. you have to be strong enough to stand it unless u want a heard time . I’m sorry

    • @531greyghost
      @531greyghost 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      9 years old is a whole lot different than this girls story. He is lucky to be alive. Be finished with therapy and hold your head high for standing up to them. That is what matters most for you.

    • @mangozzz4487
      @mangozzz4487 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      So sorry, it would be horrible if you got assaulted by a stranger, but a family member, that’s not right, glad the rest of your family supports you

  • @ii_fine_3087
    @ii_fine_3087 4 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    An absolutely disgusting man, Bless this girl with all our hearts ♥️

  • @tanvinlee848
    @tanvinlee848 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is f**ing relatable. Proud of you girl . You did the right thing

  • @tabbywagner7946
    @tabbywagner7946 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Im glad she told the police but the question i have is what happened to harleys brother we never really heard anything else bout him

    • @raindropsandfeathers2245
      @raindropsandfeathers2245 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      He got on the stand and told the truth of what happened

    • @hannahrose8515
      @hannahrose8515 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@raindropsandfeathers2245 u r soo strong ❤

    • @Cecelia021
      @Cecelia021 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      If I'm correct, he took the stand and support her. That's when his family forced him to cut all ties with her. Please correct me if I'm wrong

  • @DIYBear-dj9nd
    @DIYBear-dj9nd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Reasons why you should choose your friends wisely!!

  • @JisooTurtleRabbitt
    @JisooTurtleRabbitt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    I was passed out drunk on my friends bed as at a party years and years ago, i guess she put me to bed because I obvs had enough, I was in and out of a drunken sleep too and when I could finally get a bit of clear visions and consciousness I realised I was being touched...it was one of my other friends brother who was at the party, apparently he had told my friend he was 'checking up on me' so she left him alone in the room with me, when I realised what he was doing I had an adrenaline rush jumped up and ran home

    • @helloitsaperson6447
      @helloitsaperson6447 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Sorry that happened

    • @JisooTurtleRabbitt
      @JisooTurtleRabbitt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Hello Its a Person it's alright it's been ten years now so I don't let it get to me, I know others who have gone through worse so I consider myself low key lucky? Haha

    • @2hadows
      @2hadows 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      *Wait ur a guy? U should of left her touch you wtf*

    • @JisooTurtleRabbitt
      @JisooTurtleRabbitt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      CoronaVirqs I'm a girl, I just liked the meme profile pic

    • @gruyce3448
      @gruyce3448 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@JisooTurtleRabbitt ah, I think sexual harrasment should stop, once I was on my way home, when I heared a scream, I turned the other way around, and I, to my horror, spotted 3 huge guys, undressing one of my classmates. I called the cops, as I knew I couldn't take action, because I stood no chance against them. Sadly, they managed to run away, but obviously, the Police found them, as for me, my classmate thanked me, and we started dating.

  • @melissamiller4740
    @melissamiller4740 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Stay friends with your ex friend’s brother, at least he was a good person

    • @stevepersing3739
      @stevepersing3739 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Didn't seem to be, actually, as didn't she say further along in the story that he also, lied on stand and unfriend her later on as well...
      Believe she says that he acted shocked and we're all pretty much thinking well good, and hopefully like any decent man he's gonna march straight in that bedroom after seeing her to her car, and throw that dude out, esp since that ain't even his house...
      But what probably ended up happening is he either didn't even confront him or say anything instead pretending like he knew nothing at first...
      Or, maybe even that he did go talk with him or both them and that's when harley lies and says that never happened and she was already awake the whole time she was there and everything...🤷🏼‍♀️ Idk tho

  • @delphinwalingamina453
    @delphinwalingamina453 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Wow you are the first story that actually tell people your problem others don’t even tell because they are to scared so it goes on farther good job 👏🏾👏🏾👍

    • @Cecelia021
      @Cecelia021 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      There are some that would be threatened not to tell...like being killed for testifying

  • @kamyramorton2592
    @kamyramorton2592 4 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    The judge sentenced him to prison, how long though

    • @raindropsandfeathers2245
      @raindropsandfeathers2245 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      6 months

    • @idekwhodisis
      @idekwhodisis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      14 years is the maximum i think

    • @deepfriedmemesandaids2588
      @deepfriedmemesandaids2588 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@idekwhodisis that's not minimum some people get 20+

    • @thewitheredsouls
      @thewitheredsouls 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@deepfriedmemesandaids2588 depends on country I think.
      I remember hearing where I live for example a life sentence was 25 years. Just googled to fact check and turns out its 15

    • @D1sturb3d.gh0u1
      @D1sturb3d.gh0u1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      HOSTELINFINATE -_-
      She literally already said it

  • @alyssarose2657
    @alyssarose2657 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    The lesson I see is if someone has assaulted you or someone else, tell someone and don't be afraid to seek help, your family and friends will understand and always support and help you no matter what.

  • @likeanoatheverlovelyjewel5008
    @likeanoatheverlovelyjewel5008 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    “You feel no sense of victory when you win, because the process is so dehumanizing.”
    -Taylor Swift

  • @tangerinegonzalez3703
    @tangerinegonzalez3703 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Your “friend” is a fake I hope she gets karma I’m just glad you spoke up. And for Harleys boyfriend I hope he gets karma too and feel guilty of what he did, stay strong

  • @alondrasalas2280
    @alondrasalas2280 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    At least she didn't keep quiet for a long time. Instead she reported right away which is brave of her!😊😊😊😊😊

  • @the_simran_sahu
    @the_simran_sahu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    That feeling is the worst when you get touched by someone you don't want to and after that you dont wanna get touched by anyone else

  • @Finally_in_reverse
    @Finally_in_reverse 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The friend should be arrested too. Lying in court is a felony

  • @Someone-fv7zu
    @Someone-fv7zu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Sexual abuse is the most underrated problem in our world😔

    • @vaniapinto8214
      @vaniapinto8214 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      hunger

    • @EagleEye-rw5pn
      @EagleEye-rw5pn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Underrated?i think is not underrated nor overrated it is *ferfectly balance as all thing should be*

    • @mangozzz4487
      @mangozzz4487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      boogie lollipop depression

    • @dudemanbroguy5747
      @dudemanbroguy5747 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He was being a creep for sure but I smh when she said she had PTSD its not like her raped her

    • @dudemanbroguy5747
      @dudemanbroguy5747 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      She's definitely putting 10 on the 2

  • @jasminescardina852
    @jasminescardina852 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Me: *crying at the end*
    * a switch online ad pops up*

  • @samnolden9033
    @samnolden9033 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am literally about to cry. Y'all gotta stand up and talk!

  • @ibrahimissifu3218
    @ibrahimissifu3218 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I'm really proud of her friend for she stood up to talk about this..most girls don't

    • @imthecoolest50
      @imthecoolest50 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ibrahim Issifu most girls can’t, because there are anti-feminists out there insisting that girls always make false accusations.

  • @b-9146
    @b-9146 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I'm relieved she actually told others about it most people don't

  • @dokidoki_fever2093
    @dokidoki_fever2093 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Out of all the stories or sexual abuse, this is the ONLY one I’ve heard where she actually tells someone and heads to the police immediately. She is amazing. Nobody I know has the courage to do that.

  • @cadencecorbett2379
    @cadencecorbett2379 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She is not a true friend a true friend would believe you. I'm so sorry this happened to you and to every other person. You are not the only. Just know there will always be one person who believes your story.♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @ar1kitten
    @ar1kitten 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The older you are the more traumatizing... The more recent the more confused....The worst the. Abuse the more scared...

  • @RandomVideos-hl4dy
    @RandomVideos-hl4dy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I seriously thought she was gonna start dating Matt🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤣

  • @atefaly9650
    @atefaly9650 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is the best presented story , I am so happy that she stood up for herself what an amazing woman she is .

  • @suriel36
    @suriel36 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I feel ur pain and know what u went through it's never easy people are quick to turn on u no matter how long u have known them I am sorry this happened to u

  • @bellhop_phantom
    @bellhop_phantom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so glad she went straight to the police station. Many people don't ever speak up. Smart girl.

  • @attackontitansierra3693
    @attackontitansierra3693 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I feel so bad for her I'm glad shes getting better and the guy should have stayed in jail longer then released early

  • @satisfyingshorts2063
    @satisfyingshorts2063 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Girl: I wanted to scream but I couldn't
    Me: girl I would go full blast if I where you

    • @venovi7018
      @venovi7018 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      500 Subscribers With No Video's Challenge yasss girllll

    • @spiritofhopeloveandkindnes2308
      @spiritofhopeloveandkindnes2308 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She should have.

    • @criss059
      @criss059 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I guess u wont.. You will be shocked and froze.. Dk what to do..

    • @criss059
      @criss059 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Especially the people u know

    • @imthecoolest50
      @imthecoolest50 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      People need to start realising that what they say they “would” do in a situation isn’t the same as what they will actually do if they ever happen to be in that situation.

  • @minsungisrealandyoucantden5448
    @minsungisrealandyoucantden5448 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    2:41
    "His fingers entered my mouth-- TWO of them!!"
    If this happened recently, considering the corona virus is out there, this story would have been WAY different 😓

    • @idekwhodisis
      @idekwhodisis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Sis would have been like :
      Corona virus and its real so don't touch me

    • @thcu
      @thcu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      "And then... I shot him. Because Corona is real and I don't play that"

    • @KaiyaCorrbin
      @KaiyaCorrbin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Except that she is a healthy young adult and most likely would have been fine, anyways. O.o

    • @minsungisrealandyoucantden5448
      @minsungisrealandyoucantden5448 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@KaiyaCorrbin ?

    • @layse27
      @layse27 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@KaiyaCorrbin smh

  • @melodymatilla7843
    @melodymatilla7843 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She was soooo brave some people don't have the gut to even leave 😔

  • @flowercrownofstatic8073
    @flowercrownofstatic8073 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I actually have gone through something kinda similar to this......

  • @Wolfy39565
    @Wolfy39565 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What's probably worse than the assault is the betrayal

    • @D1sturb3d.gh0u1
      @D1sturb3d.gh0u1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cassie Stoddard
      Not at all. The betrayal of her friend will fade, but the mental scars won’t

  • @Ebizzill
    @Ebizzill 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    very brave person for speaking up. Very brave of her. silence keeps wicked people like this guy out and about hurting more victims.

  • @shannelsmith2594
    @shannelsmith2594 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love the fact that reached out for help a soon as she saw the opportunity.
    Not everyone does that honey, she's a strong woman.

  • @kenanimates7007
    @kenanimates7007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    She’s not alone I’m 12 and I was assaulted

    • @lingli5520
      @lingli5520 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Oh thats really really sad

    • @fona6969
      @fona6969 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Oh my! That is absolutely terrible! I'm so sorry that you went through that

    • @babiigunnie1748
      @babiigunnie1748 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Im sorry for you

    • @fbi-3401
      @fbi-3401 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was too...when I was about 8 ..by my cousin

    • @granitmuzaqi5479
      @granitmuzaqi5479 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm very sorry that this terrible thing happened to you you are strong

  • @user-qm8ol5cv7z
    @user-qm8ol5cv7z 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    What I wanna know is how did Harley not see that?

    • @sugggamelly1894
      @sugggamelly1894 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      {ιѕтнαтzαуу ?! } she was drunk and when your drunk and sleeping, your sleeping like a baby

    • @anotherhole
      @anotherhole 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Plus the main character was being very quiet and sneaky. When Harley asked what's wrong, she lied and said just going to the bathroom.

  • @freeadvertisingmaster1018
    @freeadvertisingmaster1018 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm glad she spoke up. And I'm glad she is not a friend with someone who is a lier and lies for a criminal.

    • @anotherhole
      @anotherhole 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      He touched her under her shirt and then her shorts before she rolled over, instead of getting up out of bed. Her first mistake was not screaming to wake Harley as it happened. Of course Harley doesn't believe her, she has no knowledge of the event. She was so quiet until her foot hit the bedpost and Harley asked what's wrong. She said I'm just going to the bathroom. Why didn't she tell Harley the truth? It's no wonder why Harley couldn't testify against the man because of how secretive our star character had been. I don't think Harley was lying when she couldn't recall any wrongdoing.

  • @dailycuringpeople1299
    @dailycuringpeople1299 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That's why you should stand for yourself , Don't let people sexual assault you or do something bad to you EVEN he/she is your family or friends
    if you don't do it now , it'll go further and they wont stop and at the end you can ended up really badly
    if you had ANY problems tell your parents or your mom because they're more mature and they know what to do
    they probably scolded you but deep down because they cared about you and they will come to your defense ❤️

  • @katherineknapp6604
    @katherineknapp6604 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It's disgusting that he did that you and horrible that he was released early, but it's inspiring that you recovered and are helping others who have in your situation! Keep it up girl!

  • @galaxy_mooncat779
    @galaxy_mooncat779 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    How awful how do people actually exist

  • @nyaanbread3402
    @nyaanbread3402 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you to this lady for doing this

  • @lenajenni9335
    @lenajenni9335 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Somthing like that happend to my too but i was silent since 4 years now and the thing i can't forget is that i loved him

    • @user-mb5ct8fv8w
      @user-mb5ct8fv8w 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aw:( if you ever need to vent or want advice just let me know okay? 💓 I’ll be praying for you

  • @uwubaka2112
    @uwubaka2112 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Well thank god she got out of there before things went further 😥

  • @SAMLEE-bb1xp
    @SAMLEE-bb1xp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It was in a house full of people...why didn't you just handle it there omg. It wasn't a bar. 🙄. Did you even say no? Whatever. This is why being a princess is stupid.

    • @anotherhole
      @anotherhole 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      He touched her under her shirt and then her shorts before she rolled over, instead of getting up out of bed. Her first mistake was not screaming to wake Harley as it happened. Of course Harley doesn't believe her, she has no knowledge of the event. She was so quiet until her foot hit the bedpost and Harley asked what's wrong. She said I'm just going to the bathroom. Why didn't she tell Harley the truth? It's no wonder why Harley couldn't testify against the man because of how secretive our star character had been. I don't think Harley was lying when she couldn't recall any wrongdoing.

  • @leslievasquez9625
    @leslievasquez9625 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am literally crying this reminds me of the day I spoke out to my stepfamily telling my older cousin what his uncle (my stepdad) was doing to me it started off like what she explained the bed part, except the fingers in the mouth but you know the bottom of my nono square. And I was being so emotional just seeing that there are some girls who have to deal with this. It breaks my heart, and it was the day he got on top of me and had his thing in me and I was fully awake when he was doing it, I could not believe it was happening, I did not feel anything at first so I was scared and I was crying. Then I just remember moving up to push him off me and he just got up and it was really dark and he looked like a monster it scared me that all I said is Ima use the rest room and I was outside crying and debating telling the family praying and asking for help and that I am tired of this he had always done this to me even when I was young and the day my mom moved to Garden Grove, he stopped for like a good 7 1/2 years until my mom's boyfriend was drunk and high and so was my mom and the people they were kicking it with, and he killed his own cousin to save my mom that was getting beat up by him, but just to let you know my mom was fighting her boyfriends' cousins lady and ever since he stabbed him multiple of times, my mom could not get that out of her head, so she would get drunk and get high and was being someone I did not know and was worried for her, my step dad took the kids from her and I watched that happened and it literally tore my heart apart I was not wanting to go to school afraid of crying and being so angry of what was happening so I skipped it and my mom was having gangsters who would secretly took advantage of her and she would always make sure no one would come to my room and I barely well recently found out that when she couldn't support me, she wanted me to be with my siblings that I love and I was pissed cuz I was going to be with the monster from all of my life, but she wanted me to happy and it she thought it was safer and went back to the home we lived in to get beat up to gang bangers and neighbors told my mom side of the family that she would scream in pain in and out new people would come and trash the house. I cried bc she was literally a good person. And the day she left me to my stepfamily, that's when things were kind of innocent until my stepdad started saying inappropriate things to me and touching me. I wanted to leave to run away and was not caring that I was going to be homeless, all I wanted was my mom and my siblings, but besides that, there was a longer story than that, but my stepfamily did not believe me at first when I told them and my step-grandma told me not to say anything bc she doesn't want her son to be in jail, and I was crying she goes to church tells us to never do anything bad and to see her wanting me to cover up for her son made me trapped alone and wanting to leave life period. Until I had a plan and it was to go to Santa Ana and find my mom but I would have to leave my buddy my little sister and my other little sister and my little brother. They all looked up to me and did not know what I was going to do. And I remember I did not return home on Thursday and that was not the plan, the plan was leaving for Friday, but instead I slept in my friend's van and got ready in school and I had to go to the first period to tell my chemistry teacher I have to go to Santa Ana for wrestling bc we were. And I thought since it was Friday, I could tell my Wrestlign coach since I have gotten really close to him he was literally a hero to me and once I told him since he asked y I thought y not tell him I'm leaving anyways, and it took a turn after the match ( btw I was so happy I was a freshman and to get 2nd place was sooo good) but my step family were looking for me and were there to get me and I ran to my coach and he made sure I did not leave with them so I went back to my school, went to a Casa shelter for run aways meet a lot of really good people who did not deserve to be there, then a week passes, I went into orange wood and now I am in foster and I am currently a sophomore, and I still do not live with my siblings but I have visits with them which are nice but breaks my heart to see them leave, I did not want to press charges cuz my two younger siblings love their dad and my buddy hates her dad for what he has put me threw. I love it a lot and yea, felt like I needed to share this and wanted to hear other's stories, but I am trying and cant type right, but yeah.

  • @LightningMcQueenkachow95
    @LightningMcQueenkachow95 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m very glad she reported it so quickly. A lot of people don’t report it for a long time if at all, that’s very brave of her.

  • @santosyanes9213
    @santosyanes9213 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Omg i felt bad for her

  • @natalieboehm2499
    @natalieboehm2499 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow she is so brave to tell someone about this all the other vids I watched about these no one told anyone for a few month's but her her she is so brave to tell someone

  • @kashafkainat5572
    @kashafkainat5572 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just wanted to say I’m so proud of her for speaking up. Sending love and admiration

  • @amandasmith3606
    @amandasmith3606 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am glad that you are doing better.

  • @kuromikendall
    @kuromikendall 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    doctor: “you have 10 minutes and 19 seconds left to live”
    me:

  • @h0p3i29
    @h0p3i29 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    For 10 years of my life I was going through sexual abuse from my own step-father....
    my mother didn’t know until my sister spoke out that she was
    also going through sexual abuse from him...
    for safety measures my mom asked me if my stepdad had done
    something to me too, and for some reason with
    no hesitation I screamed yes! I don’t know what came over me...
    Suddenly my mom ran out of the room crying. I thought I did something wrong,
    That is was my fault it happened.
    I thought that I should have said anything because I ruined my mom’s relationship.
    I started crying hysterically my dad tried to calm me down but I just couldn’t stop crying.
    Soon after I told them what happened...we decided to get some rest. Of course
    I wasn’t tired but I obeyed my mother. In the morning at 5 am I heard someone on the phone. I
    Recognized that it was my mother, but I heard something that I will never forget... she was
    crying and saying that her husband was sent to the hospital with a gun shot wound in the head!
    I immediately opened my eyes. She was shocked to see that I was awake. I muttered “what?” My mother
    Knew that she had to tell me, so she held my hand and softly said that
    my stepdad shot himself in the head....

    • @sparkknightklee1280
      @sparkknightklee1280 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am really sorry for you I hope that you know its not your fault

  • @sadbuthappy6089
    @sadbuthappy6089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This story is very inspired to many people but to those who have experience it. I'm proud of her that she step out and the worst of all her best friend is not true friend at all.

  • @danman1149
    @danman1149 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Im just proud of her going to the police straight away and not keeping it a secret for so long

  • @Benithebigsis
    @Benithebigsis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I pray that we as women realize that WE are the prize and for us to love ourselves enough to leave.

  • @kaitlynnespivey9509
    @kaitlynnespivey9509 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It happened to me I’m here for you I know how it feels I’m glad u went straight there

  • @willowxox4011
    @willowxox4011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is my favorite story channel!!!!!

  • @dariaazarova7236
    @dariaazarova7236 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im so proud that she spoke up!!

  • @babygirl9921
    @babygirl9921 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This needs to stop.. the world news to be a better place

  • @freeadvertisingmaster1018
    @freeadvertisingmaster1018 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How did they find him guilty? Security cameras? Matt's testimony?

    • @darriuscole8544
      @darriuscole8544 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I asked that question myself. Apparently, her word alone is enough evidence to convict. Maybe there is some more evidence that wasn't mentioned in the story.

  • @natahliasmith9533
    @natahliasmith9533 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am a survivor of sexual abuse as a child so I know what it's like not to be believed by people you thought would stand up for you the most.
    His sister and I came forward years later and he was convicted.
    Years later my best friends daughter called me crying uncontrollably saying her own grandfather had touched her when she slept at his house last night.
    The worst part was no one believed her except her mother.
    Her uncles said she was lying ect.
    I believed her straight away and told her word for word....
    What others believe will not change what happened. It hurts more than the actual act but they will see the truth eventually.
    We need to go to the police and we need to focus on you right now!
    When the police arrested him he admitted to it all.
    Her uncles were stunned.
    1 still doesn't believe her while the other apologized and vowed to never speak to his father again.
    I knew her grandfather and he was the most kindest love man I ever knew. So I can see how his own children found it hard to believe.
    Sometimes it is easier for people blame the victim because you just can't accept that your loved one can do something so horrible.
    It is wrong yes....but it happens way to often.

  • @lilybellapink6171
    @lilybellapink6171 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So sorry this happened to you. A former employer at work took me aside to the break room and was trying to touch me and caress me but I didn't feel comfy with it. He backed off. I didnt know him all that well yet. He quit eventually anyway. There is another guy at work. He likes touching me. But, he asked me if I was ok with it first. I was honest and said it was ok. The fact that he first asked me first and the fact I have known him for a while I feel makes a huge difference in avoiding trauma or such. Plus he doesn't do it in a way that makes me feel uncomfy

  • @RedPintura
    @RedPintura 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I got some cereal ready before I clicked this video 😂

  • @shannonharvey8300
    @shannonharvey8300 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Good story please make more!

  • @emilyvince8504
    @emilyvince8504 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This girl is so brave, because unlike many victims, she spoke up, she told her mom and the police.

  • @Cecelia021
    @Cecelia021 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think the brother Matt was forced and pressured by Harley and the rest of family to block the victim out...like forcing him to "blame the victim" or they'll kick him out and will disown him

  • @sniff.6186
    @sniff.6186 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    "Daniel" is a terrible person.
    "Daniel" is very terrible.
    I understand how she feels. I do.
    But don't get me wrong...
    *Girls and women could do the same thing.*
    But her "friend" is even worse.

  • @Grandmagotmoney
    @Grandmagotmoney 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Me trying so much not to touch the video so my nose touched it. I love how she grew into a great woman at the end.💕

  • @mekhihawk6559
    @mekhihawk6559 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are a brave person and your so-called friend is not even your friend you did all those things for her and she lies she does not deserve a person like u stay brave

  • @lucy-pd7cm
    @lucy-pd7cm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are brave
    Honestly I don't think I will ever be as brave as you

  • @donovan9321
    @donovan9321 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    We all know Matt wasnt playing a game😂😂💀

    • @texhnocolor
      @texhnocolor 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I was think that I-

  • @hi_there_9-9
    @hi_there_9-9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are so a great person,that you go to the police right away!!!!👍🏻👍🏻❤️
    I hope more womans would do that so quickli..
    But you are very strong!!!👍🏻👍🏻❤️❤️💪🏻

  • @smidge742
    @smidge742 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m so sorry that she got justice and is now living a happy life I can not believe that her friend chooses a man who done something awful over best friend like that’s truly cold and LIED IN COURT! What will she do if he striker again is she gonna defend him again when the evidence is right in front of her face?!

  • @zvikogamariel6388
    @zvikogamariel6388 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm glad she spoke up. And her "friend" is not a real friend. She don't need a friend like her

  • @carisselizabeth7270
    @carisselizabeth7270 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Everyone of these videos the child says "I wanted to scream but I couldn't" like I would be his dignity off of him.

    • @user-mb5ct8fv8w
      @user-mb5ct8fv8w 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      When you’re put in that situation you can’t always think straight or fight back because of fear. It just doesn’t work that way.

  • @yumiboba6388
    @yumiboba6388 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    im glad she did that i had something like that happen to me i didnt speak ip for a while cause i thought it was all my fault but i did

  • @Samlim91
    @Samlim91 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love all of your stories, hope the team happiness and healthy

  • @whitetigerproductions8655
    @whitetigerproductions8655 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The story was sad but well put & the artwork is fundamental

  • @villianamedows09
    @villianamedows09 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I feel uncomfortable watching this

  • @taylabrown6277
    @taylabrown6277 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Watching this made me realize how trash actually happened is.. I love this content

  • @jonaslegend1309
    @jonaslegend1309 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh, so brave woman/girl.. when u are young, its so Easy to break you... Guys pls choose good ppl to be ur friends. Peace

  • @ninarughals1895
    @ninarughals1895 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Proud of you my friend.

  • @catherinenye3244
    @catherinenye3244 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Don’t be ashamed because you’ve done the right thing by telling, even if it caused your so-called ‘friendship’ with Harley and Daniel. Those traitors deserved to be punished for the crime Daniel has done.

  • @Faiza-lv7sr
    @Faiza-lv7sr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is really an eye opening video 💖
    In this world most girls get sexual assaulted and still tend to keep quiet because they think if they open up, they will lose there reputation. Whereas it's not us girls to blame..

  • @sahanrajshetty5759
    @sahanrajshetty5759 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Proud of u sister
    Watever u did was a right thing

  • @roseandblackpinkblinkblink750
    @roseandblackpinkblinkblink750 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have gone through this two times with two different guys.... They both were my neighbors.... I was just 7 year old then... And they both were about 18 and 20 I'm not sure... I didn't speak up... No one knows... I remember feeling so confused and scared