How p*rn destroyed my relationship with my family...
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ก.ย. 2024
- This is a serious topic boys, p*rn is a lot worse than you think and in this video I share a story that backs that up…
Here's the background music I used in this video: • C418 - Subwoofer Lulla...
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The fact porn has been normalised, as well as OF makes me sick. It's ruining young men's, boy's, women's, and girl's lives.
Yes. And I can talk from experience not just saying. I really hate how *huge* the p0rn industry has become
Isn't it tragic that nowadays you have to pay for water, food, and a roof over your head, but corn is free online? I don't think people people realise corn is a temporary solution, but the things mentioned beforehand literally forge your life.
Sooner or later things like this will happen, but why blame p0 r n? It's easy to tell others "don't look at it!" when you are not interested or have other things to do.
@@Alex-on8yu Just because it happens does not mean it is right. You don't just stand by and keep ya mouth shut because it's socially accepted.
womp womp
To anyone that struggles with this, Believe in yourself
Hope the best for you
I believe in my self that is below.
Thanks brotha, never losing hope
Everyone who is reading this has it within them to succeed, keep pushing brothers ❤
Thank you my friend, been 2 years now…still healing
i left a comment on this video. i hoped somebody would notice. nobody did.
That’s some insane mental fortitude to be able to quit for 3 years, then go back just to check it out and resist all urges to yank it.
My respect for you +++
Well when you quit, you don't feel much urge after you check it
Once you find that strong reason you quit, you never want to go back, I was very lucky to find it ❤
@@JakPiggott yo jak can you help me i cant quit rn im 4 days free . and im in gcse in uk , and it impeacts my studies a lot noww
@@fifacc790try slowing down first before stopping completely that would be my personal suggestion. If you were doing it twice a day try doing it once a day for a week , and then the next week try doing it once every other day , and then try doing it twice a week, and then once a week, and then maybe twice or once a month. If you feel like you’re missing it a lot it’s because your brain is so accustomed to doing it your body is gonna have resistance at first because it’s craving what it’s accustomed too so the beginning is gonna be the hardest but as long as you make progress is all that matters. Everybody’s journey is different just try to do what works for you brudda and try to be gentle with yourself even if you relapse a time or two. Just keep focusing on doing better but be graceful with yourself and stay focused. You will overcome this and be so proud of yourself in due time just be patient, understand your situation, and also try implementing replacements. Replacements such as working out, meditation, reading, writing, or anything that will keep you active and give you purpose 💯
ive recently decided to follow the Bible and my corn addiction has completely stopped
good fr u
“The Lord will rescue you from every evil threat”
-from Mt 16: verse 18
Well done.
I already believed in God and Jesus and the bible but never did much of the anythin yaknow? But now I'm thinking I gotta get some attribute points and put them into Christian
Amen brother
Many people think that only men are addicted to corn but the truth is that women like myself are or were addicted to this kind of stuff. I began at a very young age as well as you did and at first it was out of curiosity because it was something that of course stimulated my brain and I wanted to feel that sensation more and more often until it became an addiction, I kept watching it but it was like a drug, there were weeks I could just go on without having the necessity to watch it but I always relapsed which honestly made me feel worse and worse every time I did. I was frustrated and cried at night because I couldn’t quit no matter how much I wanted to. I also felt pretty uncomfortable around people a day after watching it, I couldn’t look at them in the eye because I was ashamed of my actions. It was hard but after a lot of years of addiction I haven’t touched corn in almost 2 years and I never plan to again. I really love your content and the way you inspire others to change their lives. I’m really proud of you whoever is reading this
that's true. it's a very taboo topic for women compared to men and I'm worried it's not talked about as much; and less women are speaking up about it due to that (and aswell as sociatal standards for women). I'm so proud of you❤ilysm🙏
I was looking for this comment
so so so true, thank you for having the strength to share this
truly appreciate you speaking up on this, I struggled with this at a young age too and I'm trying my best to not relapse and actually be a Christian now. Thank you :)
I also going to start a TH-cam channel on this topic.. For girls and boys to..
I first discovered porn when I was in 5th grade and for years I wouldn’t see anything wrong with it until my brother went through my phone one day a few months after my birthday this year and instead of screaming at me and beating me(which he had every right to) he sat me down, explained what and why it was wrong, he also went the literally everything and made me confront it and his way of approaching me made want to improve on everything but I know this is my first step and this was only a month ago and shamefully I’ve been struggling with relapse but your videos are really helping me out and it’s just something about how transparent and honest you are that’s really a big help because all the other ppl that I’ve seen talk about this stuff aren’t as willing to share their experiences and I’m sure many other guys can agree with what I’m saying we appreciate you and I’m sure the more videos you make about this topic the more teens my age will surely be affected by your videos like I have
Well said bro
W brother
W big brother and comment
W brother
@9sailor.clips9 do you have an older brother?
I used to be a corn addict until I met her .
Well we broke up recently and now gym is the only reason I haven't started watching corn again
Corn is just as bad for your brain as drugs. I ended it and now I see how much damage it did to my brain. Like I can forget what I heard 10s ago. Don't worry. I train my brain and it's getting better
soon you will meet him at the gym 💜
@@SkutnuHIM?💀
@@822lergeM at least it wasn't them
Gym bros are for life brotha
its hardest to tell people about that, but just going out like that, just opening like that can be life changing when you're addicted to p*rn
100%, opening up on TH-cam has helped me with many other things to be honest 😂
I recently discovered the topic of porn a few years ago and i vowed to never watch it. Still going strong.
I deleted all my social media but kept TH-cam just for this guy. Keep up the great content bro
Big W my man, much love ❤
Hi @@JakPiggott
youtube's different. it is like tv. the others are more interactive, so that makes u compare yourself to other people who are doing better
@@JakPiggott keep up the great videos man❤
why, social media is my way of learning about the world. and the comparing yourself thing has never happened to me
I cried to this. I don't know if it was just the Minecraft music in the background reminding me of when I was pure, or maybe just because I should know better to watch this and not do something. I am quitting today and I will come back with progress. I cried to this and I will cry again knowing I am a better man, free from evil. Thank you.
Please come back with progress i believe in you ❤
how u doin
lol
Did you do it or not ?
1 month, if you stopped, good job! You can do it!
people refer to porn as "empowering" but it never really talks about the extensive damage it can do to one's mental, physical, and emotional health along with relationships with family/friends. thank you for sharing your experience. hopefully, one day there will be more awareness around this topic.
it is actually worse in every single way u can think of, it makes u weaker, losing confidence and so many other negative things
who calls it empowering!?!?
@@FlantisFroggu The New York Times, an article on Medical News Today, Psychology Australia, and The New Yorker. These are only some examples. Just look up "is porn empowering" and you'll find the articles mentioned above and several others.
@@2mayu490 say it again with less info just so yt doesn't hide it from everyone else
@@2mayu490 I mean of course if you search for it you will find that, I mean, I never see a person online on social media or someone outside of the internet say it's empowering. That's a bizarre thing to say
I don't really trust articles too. They tend to put too much slop
I went to church camp last week and God convicted me of this problem. I've been wondering why I couldn't hear him, but it was because my ears were full of the world. We must stay focused brothers
Much love brother, keep doing what you know is right 🙏❤
I also went to Church Camp 2 weeks ago and My life afterwards has been fruitful and I haven't given in to temptation since. God is life changing and he surprises you. Im happy to know I'm not the only one
Honestly P*rn has filled my mind with disgusting and dirty thoughts, for the past few years I’ve addicted to it and I really wanna stop, but at the same time it’s hard to let go, sometimes I wish that I never had found out about it, I hope someday I eventually stop, and this video maybe I can make an effort to stop my addiction
I looked once at it and was like bro nah i dont like it💀
lucky
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Good on ya bro 👍
Be thankful
@@DacianGains A response like yours was to be expected.
From this day onward, im completely dropping it. Im looking to this channel for the inspiration.
Wwww
Please. Self motivate and stay disciplined and u succeed. One thing is find a strong reason not to do so. I have had a reason, first were my parents then I have a girlfriend and third is gym which stopped me from thinking about corn and it really helps I don't usually count dayys tho, if u count days ur setting urself to failure
you still going strong?
I used to be a corn addict and I was 10 that time because of a teenager showing me and I got addicted.then when I got caught 2 times I swore to god I would never do it again but it was so hard trying not to resist but then I realized how damaging it was thinking about adult stuff instead of what kids would think about most of the time, and I really wanted to quit and my personality did change. I’m now 1 year free off of corn and I still had moments of wanting to enter the website but then I found this video thank you because I didn’t wanna affect my family’s bond with me.
Thank you for making this video. I’m a struggling addict right now. I keep trying to quit my addiction but I keep relapsing after every week or so of being clean. Porn is destroying my mental health and I’m glad you are speaking out against it and trying to help people to get over and recover from porn addiction.
You've got this brother, as they say, the first step to beating an addiction is realising you need to change ❤
"I know what i have to do, but I dont know if i have the strength to do it" is what some may say. To that I say "do it no balls" 🤣
You have the strength, the thought is just a test, you just gotta slash through it
Have a goal, it will pull you out of the depths without you having to will your way out.
God gave me the strength to get through it, I’m sure He can help you
Phillipians 4:13: I can do all things through Christ Jesus who gives me strength. God's got this brother!
I don’t know if I can do it cause I never real have ever been able to keep or have any real goals at all. I’ve always been weak willed never really had a goal and I if I did it would only last like a week at most before I just give up. I don’t know if somethings wrong with me but I don’t know how to increase my will power
Jak you helped me beat this addiction.
I used to watch corn every other day, 2 to 3 times a day.
But ever since listening to your advice, I've quit, and currently on day 130+ on No Fap.
Thank you so much!
And for people struggling with this addiction, you got this, keep putting in the work every single day, stay strong, and never give up!
This is great bro, but you should definitely give yourself more credit than you give me ❤
I quit watching corn at the beginning of the year and started reading the bible a lot more. Honestly, I have noticed the difference, Idk how to explain it but I feel like I am finally living life again since quitting. Your content has also helped me to work on myself and build my character… Thank you Man… love your content… ❤️
This literally makes my day, you should be proud ❤
well done my friend. I know Jesus is proud of u!
i was addicted to that shit for 3 years but i finally got over it by the videos of you and many different self improvement creators and now i feel like myself and proud to be me i just can’t believe how much i improved only in 40 days thank you brother🖤🖤🖤.
“Got over it by watching videos of you” bro started stroking it to him instead 🤑
This is amazing brother, keep this up ❤
40 likes for 40 days. Sorry, just love that.
I truly admire and support when a young guy warns people about this terrible and very important problem. Good job! Keep it up!
Thank you Albert, much love ❤
I don't know if you will see this or even read it because of the amount of comments you have on your videos but I will keep commenting until you see it, you have completely changed my life. I was addicted to porn for years and could not stop watching it, but then I watched your videos and realized how bad it was and I've completely changed my life. I've got rid of porn from my life and got a job and started working out, I've become more social after stopping and turned to God. I want to thank you, for saving me from this addiction. I'm so much happier now. Thank you so much for your videos. Please never stop uploading. If it wasn't for you I probably would have never got my life back in order.
This genuinely makes me so happy and so motivated it's not funny. You should be immensely proud of yourself because I know I am of you ❤
I relate to this video a lot. I started watching corn when I was 12, and in the short 4 months I was addicted, my self esteem and confidence went to an all-time low, and my absolute self hatred went sky-high. What makes it worse is, not only am I Christian, but my father is a pastor. Every Sunday I would go to church and feel ashamed because thoughts of what I’d watched would pop into my head randomly. I had to slingshot all of those images into a far corner of my brain and then explode them. That was my method. And it helped temporarily. But the thoughts would always come creeping back. In the end, I ended up just looking at myself in the mirror and saying “no more. We’re done”. As a 14 year old currently, I’m proud of my 12 year old self for being so determined to give it up. I’m never going back to that. I hope this resonated with somebody. Have an awesome day.
W recovery my brother 🙏
Hey Jak,
I used to be just like you, doing things every day that weren't good for me. It started to affect my body and my life negatively, and my family even thought I was smoking or worse. But then I realized how harmful it all was, so I decided to stop and turn my life around. I was only 13 when I was making these bad choices.
After some time, I became a new person, Alhamdulillah. I fell in love with my religion and became very devout. During my tough times, your videos would pop up, and they really helped me. Your content, along with God’s guidance, played a big role in changing my life. I just wanted to thank you so much for that.
Now, at 15, I'm focused on becoming the best version of myself and trying to earn money online. I appreciate you, man, and I pray that Allah guides you on the right path.
Man, you're so ahead at your age it is not even funny, you should be immensely proud of yourself ❤
@@JakPiggott omg, thx you replied to my comment is absolutely crazy man
@@JakPiggott Jak This is really off topic so it doesn't make a difference if you can't see this but I have a question, I can't tell if I have fake friends or not. When I tell them not to do a stupid thing they all said hey ----- why you always so boring, and I am a bit thick but are these really bad friends or is this normal.
@@Turtle-was-taken just don't talk to them
u were so right this vid spoke to me. as a girl i feel this addiction is not talked abt enough bc its def a struggle and it def does happen. i wasnt addicted to it, but i was def heading there and alr i felt immense shame and guilt after everytime i watched it. lowk it jus started out of curiosity. untill one day i looked back and thought chat wth am i doing. i decided i needed a change bc i didnt wanna spiral and become a slave to that addictionm bc ur so right it def does chnge ur relationship w ur family. i went to some trusted ppl at church and they kept me accountable. i prayed and deepened my relationship w God and honestly finally confessing to being on it set me free. shame and guilt keep u away from coming to Jesus and loved ones and asking them for help. but guys if anyone is struggling u can overcome this ik u can. its been 3 months and i feel sm better. thanks gang for ur videos they always help me out :))
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this happened to me too and i grew more insecure of my body
Commitment to change is key boys. It's going to be tough, you're going to feel tempted, there will be times you won't want to keep going, but its not about how many times you fall down, its about how many times you can get back up and continue to fight.
Trust the process and don't give up on yourself ❤
The one and only Abe Ott, speaking facts brother ❤
bro im 12 and watched this stuff. i feel every thing you said about how you felt. im going to stop. you chaged my life thnanks man
Shit I’m 12 too bro
Hey bro! I was really badly addicted to porn a while ago, and your videos helped so much. Now I’m 5 weeks clean, after about 5 months of relapsing, and I have a girlfriend who has helped so much it’s crazy. I actually don’t think I’ll ever watch that stuff again. You really helped me turn my life around. Thank you ❤
I am 14 years old, I recently discovered the topic of “corn” and I find it very disturbing and discusting, I will never watch it or “relapse” or any of that type of stuff because it is very discusting to me.
Trusted Me you well watch it and click it the second time. And boom your stuck and porn world 🌎 .😢
You're a legend bro, keep this mindset ❤
Idk I feel weird saying this but I found out like when I was 10 and like stopped when I was 13 and it's been like 8 years since then. And tbh u focus more and ur mind just isn't always clogged, oh and you get more confidence
Keep it up little brother. Trust me there are more enjoyable things than corn.
Don't watch it. It's a terrible thing in life.
Brother, I think it’s amazing you’re able to speak about this publicly, personally I’d struggle talking about my experience with corn to thousands of viewers, that takes serious courage. You’re only my age but you have wisdom beyond your years and it’s clear you’ve spent endless time trynna improve yourself which I really respect. Thanks for sharing this ❤
Thank you man, this genuinely means so much because I tend to get really nervous before making these types of videos haha ❤
Pls don’t stop making videos like these. You’ve been a huge help and always post at the perfect time.
Thank you brother, much love ❤
I first discovered porn when I was 11 and for the past 5 years it has been ruining my life. I keep trying to quit but I always end up relapsing. I’ve gone to therapy and tried to use the methods taught to me there but I think my brain has been rewired into relying on porn for everything. Right now I’m in this endless cycle where porn makes me depressed, and being depressed makes me watch porn. It’s not even arousing anymore and I’m disgusted with myself the entire time I’m watching it but I can’t stop. Videos like these have been helping tons but I’m still having a hard time quitting permanently. I have a really hard time holding myself accountable. I need help.
Yeah brother flatline sucks its a vicious cycle 😢
You get addicted
You feel disgusted
You get motivation
You stop
You fail
Repeat.
That is the cold hard truth.
Thank you so much bro. I used to have a massive porn addiction, and it was so bad my daily routine was just: eat, sleep, porn, repeat. I was an introvert and had little to no friends, and I wasn’t able to speak to women because I just viewed them as objects. That’s until I found you. You convinced me to stop watching porn, and now I have heaps of friends and have a gf, and I couldn’t thank you more. You are too good for this world.
Bro how is your account 46 mins old and so is your comment. Did you just create an account and immediately comment lol.
@@muhammadhaider6071 he created the account to stay anonymously while being able to open up perchance
I love hearing this man, you should be immensely proud of yourself ❤
he prob wanted to comment on this channel and he hasnt made a channel before@@muhammadhaider6071
100 reasons to stay alive:
1. to make your parents proud
2. to conquer your fears
3. to see your family again
4. to see your favourite artist live
5. to listen to music again
6. to experience a new culture
7. to make new friends
8. to inspire
9. to have your own children
10. to adopt your own pet
11. to make yourself proud
12. to meet your idols
13. to laugh until you cry
14. to feel tears of happiness
15. to eat your favorite food
16. to see your siblings grow
17. to pass school
18. to get tattoo
19. to smile until your cheeks hurt
20. to meet your internet friends
21. to find someone who loves you like you deserve
22. to eat ice cream on a hot day
23. to drink hot chocolate on a cold day
24. to see untouched snow in the morning
25. to see a sunset that sets the sky on fire
26. to see stars light up the sky
27. to read a book that changes your life
28. to see the flowers in the spring
29. to see the leaves change from green to brown
30. to travel abroad
31. to learn a new language
32. to learn to draw
33. to tell others your story in the hopes of helping them
34. Puppy kisses.
35. Baby kisses (the open mouthed kind when they smack their lips on your cheek).
36. Swear words and the release you feel when you say them.
37. Trampolines.
38. Ice cream.
39. Stargazing.
40. Cloud watching.
41. Taking a shower and then sleeping in clean sheets.
42. Receiving thoughtful gifts.
43. “I saw this and thought of you."
44. The feeling you get when someone you love says, “I love you."
45. The relief you feel after crying.
46. Sunshine.
47. The feeling you get when someone is listening to you/giving you their full attention.
48. Your future wedding.
49. Your favorite candy bar.
50. New clothes.
51. Witty puns.
52. Really good bread.
53. Holding your child in your arms for the first time.
54. Completing a milestone (aka going to college, graduating college, getting married, getting your dream job.)
55. The kind of dreams where you wake up and can’t stop smiling.
56. The smell before and after it rains
57. The sound of rain against a rooftop.
58. The feeling you get when you’re dancing.
59. The person (or people) that mean the most to you. Stay alive for them.
60. Trying out new recipes.
61. The feeling you get when your favorite song comes on the radio.
62. The rush you get when you step onto a stage.
63. You have to share your voice and talents and knowledge with the world because they are so valuable.
64.Breakfast in bed.
65. Getting a middle seat in the movie theater.
66. Breakfast for dinner (because it’s so much better at night than in the morning).
67. Pray (if you are religious)
68. Forgiveness.
69. Water balloon fights.
70. New books by your favorite authors.
71. Fireflies.
72. Birthdays.
73. Realizing that someone loves you.
74. Spending the day with someone you
75. Opportunity to create meaningful and lasting relationships.
76. Potential to learn, grow, and evolve as a person.
77. Joy and happiness in the little things.
78. The power to inspire others.
79. The ability to create art, music, and other forms of self-expression.
80. To explore different cultures, traditions, and ways of life.
81. To make a positive impact on the environment and help protect the planet.
82. Experience the joys of parenthood and raise a family.
83. Learn new things and develop new skills.
84. Create a legacy that will outlive you.
85. Being wrapped up in a warm bed.
86. Cuddles
87. Holding hands.
88. The kind of hugs when you can feel a weight being lifted off your shoulders. The kind of hug where your breath syncs with the other person’s, and you feel like the only two people in the world.
89. Singing off key with your best friends.
90. Road trips.
91. Spontaneous adventures.
92. The feeling of sand beneath your toes.
93. The feeling when the first ocean wave rolls up and envelops your toes and ankles and knees.
94. Thunderstorms.
95. Your first (or hundredth) trip to Disneyland.
96. The taste of your favorite food.
97. The child-like feeling you get on Christmas morning.
98. The day when everything finally goes your way.
99. Compliments and praise.
100. to look on this moment in 10 years time and realize you did it.
dont give up. i know u can do stuff but sometimes its ok to give up but now? its not ok keep believing in yourself and always reach ur goals.
101.dorito
If you are reading this.. A genuine thank you. You are so helpful to others and keep doing what you do. I have been drowning in life challenges over the past few months and such real advice found on this channel is what I personally need the most atm.
It's my honour, I hope you're thanking yourself for doing what you know is best for your future self ❤
And the sad part is that it's being normalized on TH-cam and other streaming platforms by popular streamers and content creators, while more than 75% of their fanbase are children.
Ugh that disgusts me bro
It's not even being normalized on TH-cam fym?? If it was normalized then you'd see porn everywhere on yt but it's not so I don't get your point here. TH-cam is constantly deleting porn videos and people who uploaded it, this TH-cam we are on wasn't even supposed to be for kids rather than adults so your lucky that this youtube is for everyone and not just for adults. so stop spreading misinformation about porn being normalized on TH-cam and other streaming platforms because they don't even allow that type of shit on their platform.
@@kitty-g4k It's being advertised on TH-cam by creators, not shown. Although there is porn on TH-cam I was talking about it being advertised. My mistake.
I also got addicted at 12, and over time it destroyed me. By the time I hit high school, I had become so introverted and shy that I was convinced that this was my real personality. It got so bad that I would even have a hard time talking to my own family. Thankfully, just before I turned 20 I realized the severity of my situation, and finally started to quit.
Even though I'm still trying to quit permanently (been trying for 2 years now), the amount of joy I've felt from going just two weeks without porn is incredible. I remember after going through my first week, I had never felt so happy and alive in years, and for the first time I realized my whole personality on porn was a complete facade. Just remember that no matter how difficult quitting porn is, we're all in the same boat together, and we're all cheering for you to succeed.
For anyone struggling, know that no one is alone in this, and that everyone is cheering you on. You got this, man! I believe in you. We all believe in you.
I am 17 years old and i can totally relate with your story...😢
I’m about to be 20, I never leave the house I don’t drive, don’t work, I just wake up, and do nothing but watch videos, play games or watch corn every single day. I think im screwed
I'm proud of you brother, and I hope you are proud of yourself as well. If you need it - it is 1000% worth it to resist those urges and keep going past those two weeks, remember this man ❤
@@emma6648 Just make sure you are not addicted and no more than 5 hours per month. You can block access to it, so it would be really hard to get porn.
0:25 it will always be disgusting because it shouldn’t exist in the first place
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For every like this coment gets I'll do another day of semen retention
Fuck the likes, do it for yourself man
@@dakingofbrickz fax man
Make it an extra 10 for my heart haha 🥰
@@JakPiggott 👍
@@JakPiggottNooo, I am never coming back to this, it has done so much harm to me, I have quit
About 2 months free now ❤
A year and a month for me and never felt so good. Let's keep it up guys
That's the work brother!
Same. Taken 100s if not 1000s or relapses over bits of the past 3-4 years, but I've finally gotten onto week 4 or 5 thanks to Jaks vids. Life's never been better honestly, the struggle is so, SO worth it for what's on the other side.
1st day free
If u stop counting u subconsciously forget that ur trying to stop doing a habit. U just say "this is who I am now"
the timing of this couldn't have been more perfect, I've been struggling with this and hearing this has made me rethink what I've been doing, you are the goat my guy, the goat
So glad it came at the right time brother ❤
The moment you watch CORN for the first time. The world changes everything becomes "Double Meaning". I used to play alot of minecraft and soon CORN replaced it The worst mistake i have ever made is watching corn for the first time. Once u see it it cant be unseen. Looking back CORN is actually so disgusting and I dont even know why I was addicted to it. I'm corn-free now all thanks to you.
when you talk i feel like you are directly saying that to me because we have very very similar experiences , thank you man it means alot to me tnx very much
I am going into 6th grade this year. And for a fact I know for my age, this is very disappointing and disgusting. But I have to agree with you this has messed up with my thinking due to my condition. I haven't touched the website for a month now witch I know wasn't a while. But due to watching this... I realize that the more and more I watch it, the more I feel exactly how you do.
I am happy to open up here due to how I feel, and I hope me talking about this help me in my future.
I was always one of those dirty kids, or one of those people that have got in trouble a lot. But ever since this summer... I have changed from me not communicating with my family at all.
Skibidi in ur user and watching korn is crazyyy
But dw you’ll get over it if you put ur mind in it
Thank you a lot.❤
I always told myself I’d fully repent when I can see within myself that I have what it takes to stop because repenting then going back to the same act felt counterintuitive, and for a while it seemed that day would be far from now, yet this video has opened my eyes to how much this nasty stuff has affected me, my life and my relationships. I am proud to say that I am planning to repent first thing tomorrow morning.
I need these videos. I’ve only had this addiction for a few months, but it has been building for nearly half a decade and has ruined the confidence in myself I’ve built. Please, I need these videos. They are what I go to whenever I have an urge, and afterwards, just like that, it’s gone.
So glad they're valuable bro, keep waking up and being the best you everyday and everything will work out, much love ❤
I just took a week without any electronics, and that has help so much as well
the fact that it's so normal, like the art of peer pressure is everywhere. can't do anything without someone or something disapproving. this is why most people start. getting used to the fact that it's horrible for everyone is a truth that God wants everyone to find. This video saved me man, much love.
Recently I liked this girl at My school and didn't feel confident enough to talk to her and I felt like I could do better I turned to the lord asking please help me quit and nothing happened until today, my friend who is a fck boy said he liked the girl and only because he sees her as a new challenge for him to have fun with. I saw that as God saying to me if I don't do better she will be with a bad person and I'll suffer from it so now I'm going to try fully quit I'm gonna spend my allowance on nicer clothes as all I wear is a Hoodie shorts and socks and sandals . I recently got a new jacket which I like and I hope she does too. Ty if u read this far it feels good getting this off my chest .God be with you ❤️
fr one of my friends tell me to watch corn so i could release that stuff but everytime he failed and he does it like 10 times a week
dude this is the most relatable video i have every seen i tottaly understand u im a 14 year old who has watched it in the past many times and it has changed my life a lot just like u said, it makes me way more anxious and this video rlly helped me to stop it
Luke 6:29-31 EasyEnglish Bible
29 Someone may slap you on one side of your face. Then you should let him slap the other side of your face too. Someone may take away your coat. If he does, do not stop him from taking your shirt too. 30 When anyone asks you for something, give it to him. Someone may take something that belongs to you. If he does, let him keep it. Do not ask to have it back again. 31 Do the good things for other people that you would want them to do for you.
Amen ❤
i was introduced to porn when i was only 6. im still an addict. A kid showed it to me. porn has really affected me and my mental health. its really nice to see people like you relating to me. you're a really big influence to me. thank you
What's your current age? And how did the journey went bro can you tell me what happened when you saw it for a first time and how years went cause of corn?
@@Waskerville I’m still 12
I tried to watch your videos to help the addiction, I kept trying and trying. But I fixed myself but I still feel like a loser and I regret it, but you’re helping me recover.
Watching videos may guide you in the right path but they won't force you down it, you need to make the decision for change ❤
@@JakPiggott hey thanks man. Glad you saw this and have a good day.
I'm glad that i watched your video. I'm not a regular viewer of urs. I'm trying to quit this from like 6 months but am still struggling so much. I try to resist the urge but just keep getting lured by it. But after watching ur video i feel really motivated. I know motivation is temporary but when i heard the line "It's the strong reason behind not doing it, that's gonna save you" hit me really hard. The "Why power" is gonna save me. I'll try my best to quit this addiction to one day become like you.
Im 14 and i wish i had a friend, or a brother like you❤ if only i can meet you in real life, or chat with you online.
You brother helped and inspired me so much bro!
Yes, corn... I started at 11 and now im 14, at 13 i realised i had to stop, now im healing. Havent stopped fully but now, 2 in a month, previously 2 time/day
Thank you so much brother, I'm sure you're the type of person I'd want to be friends with as well. Keep going man, your future self will thank you ❤
When I was 8, a teenager I had met online, introduced me to this stuff. I got addicted, and I would watch 1 or 2 vids per week. I would always try to hide it by locking my door, and putting a blanket over my head. One time that same teenager started sending me pictures of animated stuff, and my dad walked in. I told him it was sent to me by someone who I blocked, and got away with it. After that, I stopped for a couple months, but decided to go back, but this time I realized, this could ruin my life. I am 16 now and I have been clean for 6 years and have a girlfriend who respects me very much. For any people who got addicted to this stuff, just quit it, its not real stuff, and it doesn’t teach you anything about the real world. If you have questions, dont hesitate to ask your parents, as its a very normal thing to talk to your parents about this stuff. Peace❤
When I first found your channel I tried to quit corn so bad but I never got anywhere. As soon as I found Jesus it all went away in a month or two. I have improved so much. Keep it up and Jesus is the way the truth and the light Amen 🙏👆❤️✝️
thank you so much man, I want to be more truthful to myself and be the person I know I am and your video made me realize I can stop and I will stop so thank you so much.
I am done with porn. This is the last time i will ever say it, im sick of not being able to Achieve my best self all because of my addictions. Even though i am around my family, i feel so isolated and lack of positive emotions, i have been touching myself since i was around 6 years old and i believe it was due to childhood trauma. I am 16 now and my brother set my phone screen to a porn logo when i was around 11, and told me to go have a look. It had only caused me a stronger addiction, and the negative side effects are now so real, physically and mentally. I am done with porn. That is the last time i will ever need to say it.
I am done too
You got this man, I'm backing you 💪
I was about to relapse, "i'll go have take a sh!t, have a w4nk, and then to bed" -
Then ur checkpoint video popped up, i'll watch this, i enjoyed the video, went to ur channel saw this while sitting... Damn, thank you, it really hit me. These past couple days have been rough, anxiety and feeling stressed, have relapsed multiple times, and the "seeing everyone as an object is really true, got get my shit together. Thank you again❤
I've prayed in these moments, and I've resisted ever since.
WWW
Coming from a 15 y/o, your content is changing my life bro. Your videos give me insane motivation and really give me the confidence to get out there and do something with my life. I can relate to your videos so much, and I just want to say thank you for all the inspiration and motivation you've given me. Corn really messes with your head. I've learnt that from a first-hand experience, but with your help I'm quickly turning that around and have never felt better. Thank you Jak for everything, keep it up brother, we love you. ❤🙏
Man I appreciate your support so much. I hope you're giving yourself the same credit that you give me though, you put my words into action which is always the biggest factor 👊❤
was an addict. now i've done it once in 40 days. im healing
Nah brother 1 out of 8 videos about this stuff is important, alot of people suffer massively in life because of this and your continuous awareness videos help people push out of the addiction. keep it up ❤
Thank you man, I won't do any more than that as I don't want the content to get repetitive but I know I need to spread awareness on this ❤
@@JakPiggott I fully respect the decision. what you have done to help people with the addiction is very much appreciated and if you do what you think is better then so be it. I've learned a lot from all your videos and really helped me be my true self❤
Korn has been really affecting me bro, i'm in my no fap journey right now. And bro, the way you talk in the video just made my heart warm. It really encourage me more. Keep it up brother ❤️
@@Ainaht-me5xn i hope you’re doing well 🙏🏻
Man I can't thank you enough for getting me out of the gutter. You saved me man. You really did. Love you bro ❤
Jesus saved me from this garbage and i thank Him
It hurts me that before I thought of the whole porn industry as evil, and now for almost two years I’ve been addicted to it. It’s ruined my life. Today I’m trying to stop. For real. I’ve deleted apps and turned on things that prevent pop ups. Don’t stop making these vids dude. You’re helping me.
I am 20 years old I have had a Corn addiction since I were 12 years old. I have been trying to quit my addiction for 2 years but I still reguarly relapse. But I have made a promise to end the addiction and I will do my best to end the addiction or at least relapse less frequantely.
I love how genuine you are, you don't try to push the video to 8 minutes for money, keep changing lives ❤
Thank you man, money is just a bonus ❤
Love these videos, they aways push me to do the right thing! Hope you post more of these to keep us concentrated and not give up.
Watching this video is like opening a window into someone’s darkest room. It’s a powerful reminder that we all have struggles behind closed doors. If you’re facing a similar battle, know that reaching out and taking small steps towards change can make a world of difference. Let’s support each other in the journey to healing and hope.
Heyy jak! Hru bro!
I'm kinda low spirited these days.
couple days ago, idk why my gf broke up.. yk it's not so easy to move on obviously..
Jus wanted to vent with someone.
Anyway you are great bro!
(Tho i graduated from high school few days ago) 😼
Bro thank you so much. This made me look at myself in the mirror and say "Hey man, you need to set a goal. We are gonna work out and ride bikes and play drums and do more stuff that makes you happy. And I know corn makes you happy, but it's a fake kind of happy." Jak, you are the only person who I've gotten the motivation to stop. Thank you for helping this younger generation like me with this topic
Thanks jak ❤
Gotchu brother ❤️
When you said korn made you feel that you're going away from your family, a feeling of detachment , i realized the same was for me. When ever i dont feel like doing something and my mood is always down, i feel empty inside and reason i feel like is that im detaching myself from god , my loved ones and the person im supposed to be. This video was like a reality check for me, and i know though i have been addicted to korn for +4 years, its not too late and i can still change. Thanks for the video jak!
Brother. The amount of videos you make on this topic is never too much. People like me seek inspiration to quit p*rn, and these videos are a massive help to those who need it.
Thank you so much for your videos, without them i may havent ever been able to quit.
Thank you for your support bro, noted ❤
Jak, you don’t make enough content on this stuff. I think that u should do some sort of live stream thing where you just go for a deep deep deeeeep dive into why it’s bad, why you get cravings, and how to stop them. No sugar coating, no simplifying, just cold hard truth.
Jak piggott is hands down the best self improvment creator of our generation he is so so relatable to me and i just love that i can relate to someone about this thing i do i really appreciate you jak hope the best for you and all you guys who wanna be the best version of yourself just as i do
PLEASE HELP BRO PLEASE 😭Bro im struggling at peak times bro. Like really bro I lose my control and start watching social media after 3 days of heavy studies, even after knowing the consequences and I can't even waste a single minute coz I'm preparing for a very competitive exam.
I feel you bro :)
@nikhilpatil252 jee?
Unfollow models on all social media’s it helps a lot
Yep😢@@sentientgamez
@@nikhilpatil252 good luck Bhai
Please continue to make these videos. There are so many more joung guys who need to hear this.
I will brother, thank you ❤
It sucks cause I never hear anyone talking about it. And I always feel like I’m the only one dealing with this. It’s an addiction for me and it’s so hard 💔 my relationship with Christ feels like it’s been distant 😢
I want to start out by saying I'm pretty sure I'm done with porn, but I used to watch porn all the time. I was depressed and kept watching porn as an escape and I almost lost my faith with God. Recently I found the Bible verse 1 Corinthians 10:13. I didn't watch much after that and I now feel like I have changed. I know you can do this just remember to stay strong when Satan temps you.
Hey Jak I just wanted to thank you for all you have done for me and everyone else in this community.
You have helped so much people in need,and don’t be afraid to have a break,relax and remind yourself of all the good you’ve done ❤️
Comments like these mean more than you think, much love ❤
Romans 10:9
9 If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.
Hey Jak, I love the way you talk so honestly in your videos. They always reassure me and make me feel like I’m not alone. Would love to see you make more videos about overthinking/the power of your thoughts 🫶
That means a lot to me bro, I can definitely make more videos on that topic, I just don't know how to make more without already repeating what I've said in previous videos if that makes sense. However, if you have any ideas for me on how I can make it less repetitive, let me know ❤
@@JakPiggott anything will be appreciated, I have complete faith in whatever you chose to say with your words, brother 🙏
Danmmm i have quit for 5 month I’m 12.
Matthew 5:27-28 New International Version
Adultery
27 “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’[a] 28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
Matthew 5:27-28 Easy-to-Read Version
Jesus Teaches About Sexual Sin
27 “You have heard that it was said, ‘You must not commit adultery.’[a] 28 But I tell you that if a man looks at a woman and wants to sin sexually with her, he has already committed that sin with her in his mind.
Matthew 5:27-28 EasyEnglish Bible
Jesus teaches people about bad thoughts
27 Jesus then said, ‘You know what God's rule says: “You must not have sex with anyone who is not your husband or your wife.” 28 But what I tell you is this: A man may look at a woman who is not his wife. And he may want to have sex with her. In his thoughts, he has had sex with her, so he has done a wrong thing.
Romans 10:8-10 EasyEnglish Bible
8 But the Bible says: ‘God's message is near you. You can talk about it, and you can think about it.’[a] That is the same message that we are teaching to people. We tell people to believe in Jesus Christ.
9 The message is this: You must say clearly that Jesus is the Lord. Also, you must believe deep inside yourself that God raised him to life again after his death. Then God will save you. 10 God accepts people as right with him when they believe like that, deep inside themselves. And when people say clearly that Jesus is Lord, God saves them.
You just made me realize i need to stop this 2 year addiction thank you so so so much jak id give my life for you bro ❤
tonight is my last night i ever watch it. one last wack and now i will try to go no fap. if yall comment every once in a while ill give a update.
Me too
nice!
Was actually just about to start doing it, and then came across this video. After seeing this, I’ve decided I do need to start making changes, and soon. Thank you for the inspiration bro ❤
John 3;16 "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life." Repent now and turn to Jesus before your time on Earth comes to an end! When we die, we either go to Heaven or Hell so please decide on where you would want to end up in. You could have the greatest life on Earth and think you don't need God, so once you die, God will continue to fulfill your wish and you'll be seperated from Him! Jesus loves you and is knocking at your door. Will you answer it?
Thanks bro I really needed that prayer.
Amen
I try too but it’s gotten worse
I discovered it since grade 4 and started beating it in 5th grade but I never knew it was wrong but it ruined me mentally. I currently am still addicted but my brother found out and he chose to help me stop my addiction. I think it was the reason why I got depression. Still, if you havent gotten the addiction to it yet, I will only be able to tell you this, it ruins you badly. It takes time to get rid of addictions but anyone can accomplish getting over addictions, it just takes steps,
188 views in 3 minutes bro fell off
😂😂 the only thing that fell of is the number of people who want to improve
Thankyou man, thankyou. Porn has ruined my life, I've been watching and watching, every chance I get. O thought I had a special situation where I couldn't stop. I really thankyou for sharing your story, you've made me realize that I have a very similar situation to you. Friends see me differently, I see myself different. I act differently. Just thankyou man, I love your message, and I think you should keep spreading it.
FIRSTYS!!!😃
Congratulations
Thank you so much jak you have inspired me to stop 🛑 all this shit and be myself ❤much love brotha ❤
Means the world hearing this bro, much love ❤
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i have been addicted for years but im trying to find a way out now and ill say this your motivation saved me and showed me what it really was
I discovered corn last year and became a release material for me. I felt guilt when I watched it. I sometimes think I didn't regret it but I really did. I told my mom about it and she said to do some house work or self work because my laziness or boredom made me want to release. Started a week and two days ago and I had urges but that didn't stop me. I hope I succeed into this challenging journey.
Sending love for this video that hopes will motivate me❤ (btw I'm subbed to you and watched your shorts till the end you give me a lot of motivation)
Edit: Your "yapping" did certainly motivate me a lot and I'll thank you for that❤
I feel like you making these type of Videos of talking about the big problem is Helpful, it is really Helpful and Great to listen to, please continue making videos about this problem, Keep at it 💪🏼🙏🏻
Thank you so much for your input bro ❤
@JakPiggott You're Welcome Man I learn a lot from your vids and tbh you should do a video together with Shimon Davis, both of you guys are good at talking about this problem and a lot tbh 🙏🏻