My honest experience after not busting a nut for 90 days...

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  • My honest and raw experience after 90 days of semen retention...
    Instagram: @jak.piggott
    TikTok: @jak.piggott
    Email: piggottjak3@gmail.com
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  • @JakPiggott
    @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +563

    In two weeks, I’m thinking of getting the whiteboard out and making a full (but simple) guide on how to quit p*rn without all the stress and guilt that comes with “relapsing”
    Would you want that? It’ll probably be 20+ mins, or am i making to many vids on this topic? Let me know (it’ll be 4 videos from now)
    I got a lot of comments on this vid suggesting it…

    • @LobotomyHub
      @LobotomyHub หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Yeah ig

    • @kvadrolv
      @kvadrolv หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Yeah. Ur longer videos are the best. Thx bro for what you're doing.

    • @richy_edits
      @richy_edits หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Yea W idea

    • @mitchyhaigh
      @mitchyhaigh หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Yes please bro.

    • @xanderxxvblaze
      @xanderxxvblaze หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@JakPiggott idk if one can make enough videos to end this... Malady

  • @xanderxxvblaze
    @xanderxxvblaze หลายเดือนก่อน +1489

    "When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago."

    • @xanderxxvblaze
      @xanderxxvblaze หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      - Fredrich Nietzsche✍🏾

    • @lone_traveller01
      @lone_traveller01 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Facts, wow

    • @owendorman2007
      @owendorman2007 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      Yeah sometimes I catch myself falling back into things and I be like what’s going on I stopped this like a year ago

    • @OneArmASMR
      @OneArmASMR หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Brilliant quote

    • @leelaadhar1767
      @leelaadhar1767 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I too feel the same

  • @sammy.whammles
    @sammy.whammles หลายเดือนก่อน +2570

    like this to remind me not to do it gents 🙏🙏

    • @GITAisBASED
      @GITAisBASED หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      You still with us sammy?

    • @juanp3825
      @juanp3825 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Reminder for you lil bro 🙏❤️

    • @JunkEmail-j7i
      @JunkEmail-j7i หลายเดือนก่อน

      I love you, and God loves you!!!🙏🙏🙏✝️✝️✝️❤️🙏❤️🙏🙏
      Just because you feel like you wanna do something, That doesn't mean that it's Ok or acceptable to DO it.
      Your sinful urges are not what get you to hell.
      And you ARE not your SINFUL URGES, They are the devils misguidence, and IT'S NOT YOUR IDENTITY!!!🙏🙏🙏✝️✝️
      Your actions ARE WHAT GET YOU TO HELL, NOT YOUR URGES, THOUGHTS, AND FEELINGS, WHICH OFTEN ARE MADE TO SEEM OK BY THE DEVIL MISGUIDING U!!!, and if you keep living this way, and don't turn to Christ, and don't try, and do your best to stay away from said sins, then You're headed streight for hell, and it's the same for EVERY SIN!!!
      But if you turn to CHRIST, Ask him for forgiveness, and ask him to help you to give you strength to NOT SIN, and to RESIST TEMPATATION, and you try YOUR BEST to stay away from sin, and ask JESUS for forgiveness when you fall, and ask him for strength every time you fall, and you try your best to not sin again every time u fall, and ask God to fill you with the holy spirit, and to let the holy spirit guide you each, and every time u fall, then JESUS will help you, and will forgive you of your sins, and you'll be clensed by the blood of CHRIST, and you'll go to heaven, and the slate will be wiped clean, and all your sins will be forgotten!!!🙏🙏🙏✝️✝️✝️✝️
      But remember to not use Jesus as an excuse to sin or as a get out of jail-free card so you can sin freely, and if you have done that or end up doing it, then do what i said above.
      TURN TO CHRIST, OUR ONE, AND ONLY LORD, SAVIOUR, AND GOD, AND TURN AWAY FROM YOUR SINS!!!✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️ IN JESUS CHRISTS HOLY NAME I PRAY THAT YOU TURN TO CHRIST, AMEN!!!✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏💚💚💚
      FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD, HE GAVE HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON, SO THAT WHOEVER BELIEVES IN HIM SHALL NOT PARISH, BUT WILL HAVE EVERLASTING, AND ETERNAL LIFE-John 3:16, AMEN!!!🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️✝️🙂

    • @yblc1
      @yblc1 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      100 likes, don't relapse

    • @nutsberserk1
      @nutsberserk1 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      like farming to not touch yourself 😭😭

  • @-irritatora-3998
    @-irritatora-3998 หลายเดือนก่อน +681

    Our comments might just be text on a screen, but I hope you can hear our voices saying: thank you, your a lifesaver bro, you do many great things. It’s not a joke, we mean it. It might just be some text on a screen but, it’s more than that.

    • @unendingpinelate940
      @unendingpinelate940 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      yeah its some dude with their own lives on the other side of the planet taking their time to comment.

    • @JunkEmail-j7i
      @JunkEmail-j7i หลายเดือนก่อน

      I love you, and God loves you!!!🙏🙏🙏✝️✝️✝️❤️🙏❤️🙏🙏
      Just because you feel like you wanna do something, That doesn't mean that it's Ok or acceptable to DO it.
      Your sinful urges are not what get you to hell.
      And you ARE not your SINFUL URGES, They are the devils misguidence, and IT'S NOT YOUR IDENTITY!!!🙏🙏🙏✝️✝️
      Your actions ARE WHAT GET YOU TO HELL, NOT YOUR URGES, THOUGHTS, AND FEELINGS, WHICH OFTEN ARE MADE TO SEEM OK BY THE DEVIL MISGUIDING U!!!, and if you keep living this way, and don't turn to Christ, and don't try, and do your best to stay away from said sins, then You're headed streight for hell, and it's the same for EVERY SIN!!!
      But if you turn to CHRIST, Ask him for forgiveness, and ask him to help you to give you strength to NOT SIN, and to RESIST TEMPATATION, and you try YOUR BEST to stay away from sin, and ask JESUS for forgiveness when you fall, and ask him for strength every time you fall, and you try your best to not sin again every time u fall, and ask God to fill you with the holy spirit, and to let the holy spirit guide you each, and every time u fall, then JESUS will help you, and will forgive you of your sins, and you'll be clensed by the blood of CHRIST, and you'll go to heaven, and the slate will be wiped clean, and all your sins will be forgotten!!!🙏🙏🙏✝️✝️✝️✝️
      But remember to not use Jesus as an excuse to sin or as a get out of jail-free card so you can sin freely, and if you have done that or end up doing it, then do what i said above.
      TURN TO CHRIST, OUR ONE, AND ONLY LORD, SAVIOUR, AND GOD, AND TURN AWAY FROM YOUR SINS!!!✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️ IN JESUS CHRISTS HOLY NAME I PRAY THAT YOU TURN TO CHRIST, AMEN!!!✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏💚💚💚
      FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD, HE GAVE HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON, SO THAT WHOEVER BELIEVES IN HIM SHALL NOT PARISH, BUT WILL HAVE EVERLASTING, AND ETERNAL LIFE-John 3:16, AMEN!!!🙏💚✝️💚✝️💚🙏❤️😊

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +54

      Thank you so much brother, same goes with me, I hope you can sense my appreciation because if it wasn't for words like these I wouldn't be making videos still, thank you man ❤

  • @_dinnerbox
    @_dinnerbox หลายเดือนก่อน +142

    he acts like that one friend who isint afraid to tell you his embarrisment, hes a really genuine nice guy really

    • @slyrak6669
      @slyrak6669 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@YSL.KNUCKLES hope you'll stop 💔 I've been there and trust me its all about your mentality if u think its hard it'll definitely be hard

    • @_dinnerbox
      @_dinnerbox 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      e

  • @Jarked__
    @Jarked__ หลายเดือนก่อน +313

    Dude I truly do hope that the people who you know never make fun of you because your helping the community and showing young men that they’re worth it, they don’t have to relapse and they are loved. Never stop doing this mate love ya.

    • @JunkEmail-j7i
      @JunkEmail-j7i หลายเดือนก่อน

      I love you, and God loves you!!!🙏🙏🙏✝️✝️✝️❤️🙏❤️🙏🙏
      Just because you feel like you wanna do something, That doesn't mean that it's Ok or acceptable to DO it.
      Your sinful urges are not what get you to hell.
      And you ARE not your SINFUL URGES, They are the devils misguidence, and IT'S NOT YOUR IDENTITY!!!🙏🙏🙏✝️✝️
      Your actions ARE WHAT GET YOU TO HELL, NOT YOUR URGES, THOUGHTS, AND FEELINGS, WHICH OFTEN ARE MADE TO SEEM OK BY THE DEVIL MISGUIDING U!!!, and if you keep living this way, and don't turn to Christ, and don't try, and do your best to stay away from said sins, then You're headed streight for hell, and it's the same for EVERY SIN!!!
      But if you turn to CHRIST, Ask him for forgiveness, and ask him to help you to give you strength to NOT SIN, and to RESIST TEMPATATION, and you try YOUR BEST to stay away from sin, and ask JESUS for forgiveness when you fall, and ask him for strength every time you fall, and you try your best to not sin again every time u fall, and ask God to fill you with the holy spirit, and to let the holy spirit guide you each, and every time u fall, then JESUS will help you, and will forgive you of your sins, and you'll be clensed by the blood of CHRIST, and you'll go to heaven, and the slate will be wiped clean, and all your sins will be forgotten!!!🙏🙏🙏✝️✝️✝️✝️
      But remember to not use Jesus as an excuse to sin or as a get out of jail-free card so you can sin freely, and if you have done that or end up doing it, then do what i said above.
      TURN TO CHRIST, OUR ONE, AND ONLY LORD, SAVIOUR, AND GOD, AND TURN AWAY FROM YOUR SINS!!!✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️ IN JESUS CHRISTS HOLY NAME I PRAY THAT YOU TURN TO CHRIST, AMEN!!!✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏💚💚💚
      FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD, HE GAVE HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON, SO THAT WHOEVER BELIEVES IN HIM SHALL NOT PARISH, BUT WILL HAVE EVERLASTING, AND ETERNAL LIFE-John 3:16, AMEN!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️✝️🙂

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      I get "made fun of" sometimes bro, but it is what it is, I signed up for the smack talk, I never let it effect my quality of work though, it's just fuel ❤

    • @Fabio_Playz
      @Fabio_Playz หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@JakPiggott Haters gonna hate but they are just inderictly making you a better man.keep up the good work.

  • @mag1kal
    @mag1kal หลายเดือนก่อน +305

    The thing I like about Jak is the thing that separates him from other self improvement creators, he seems to focus more on his outview of life. Instead of "do this" and "don't do that", his content consists more of "think of it this way" and "do it this way".

    • @HockeytoAtlanta
      @HockeytoAtlanta หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      And every time he says, "If you don't like it, then don't do it, but just give it a shot."

    • @mag1kal
      @mag1kal หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@HockeytoAtlanta exactly

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      100% bro, I'm a big believer of thinking for yourself, a lot of influencers will disagree with me and say that the majority of people don't have the ability to do that, I disagree, I believe everyone does, you just need to adopt the confidence to do so ❤

    • @user-xe7mz7pu9w
      @user-xe7mz7pu9w หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I 100% agree because unlike other channels that just demand you to “do this” “do that” like you said, Jak is actually helping and guiding us to go down th correct path in life❤️ur a lifesaver bro

    • @HockeytoAtlanta
      @HockeytoAtlanta หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @JakPiggott you just give me so many good ideas, and some I've completely implemented and they work.

  • @tankenjoyer1891
    @tankenjoyer1891 หลายเดือนก่อน +167

    Today i started my semen retention streak again pray for me yalls every time i get a comment notification i will remember my purpose to end this addiction thats draining all my motivation in life...

    • @DizzyRL
      @DizzyRL หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yo, I know it’s the same day but you got this!

    • @thegamelord3932
      @thegamelord3932 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      No way. I‘m also starting today. Let’s do this together!🔥

    • @Sky_Watchers
      @Sky_Watchers หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hmmm w

    • @DizzyRL
      @DizzyRL หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@thegamelord3932 same here

    • @noneotherthanmyself173
      @noneotherthanmyself173 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You guys got this❤❤🔥🔥

  • @jetthesweat3863
    @jetthesweat3863 หลายเดือนก่อน +155

    Incase anyone needs a quote that helped me overcome lust in general here it is: "The force of lust is not in the desire, but in the lack of control over the desire." Meaning that overcoming Lust is all a huge mind game. Meditating is one of the best ways to overcome lust.
    Just sharing my experience incase someone here needs it.
    Love the video Jak much love 👊❤️

    • @xanderxxvblaze
      @xanderxxvblaze หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very true. It only has the power you give it.

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I love this bro and its absolute facts, much love ❤

    • @paultrends4418
      @paultrends4418 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thankyou

  • @wevjijijidvdvwu
    @wevjijijidvdvwu หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    The sheer amount of courage, to make this kind of video, to a WIDE audience as an influencer, WHILE not effecting the viewing in a negative way or at least trying to, is unimagineable, like the people that could make this kind of video is crazy, let alone a 16yr old sharing this shit. REALLY respectable.

    • @Taigu1306
      @Taigu1306 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He is NOT 16 years old tho

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Our generation needs authenticity man, who cares if my ego gets hit, sacrifices must be done ❤

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Taigu1306 Haha yeah and that 😂

    • @JonG27
      @JonG27 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@@JakPiggott💯 Unfortunately there is barely any authenticity left on TH-cam, everything and everyone is 99% of the time fake. Glad you think the same way I do, let's bring back authenticity on TH-cam. ✝️💯

  • @richy_edits
    @richy_edits หลายเดือนก่อน +74

    realest guy ever man, keep it up bro!

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thank you brother 👊❤

  • @St33ph
    @St33ph หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    Its not cringe brother, its inspiring actually. You're able to share your struggles to thousands people only to realize that your not the only one who is struggling with this addiction.
    As for me, i think its my day 5 of semen retention. Im still battling it with God. Pray for me guys

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Thank you man, I need to hear this sometimes cause I'm surrounded by people at my school everyday who think it is haha ❤

    • @youare_beloved
      @youare_beloved หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      You can do this. God's got you brother.
      Thing to think about though- When Jesus was on earth, he never truly pulled the God card (the father I mean). He souly relyed on the holy spirit. You have that same exact power brother, you just have to use it. ❤

  • @davidca571
    @davidca571 หลายเดือนก่อน +74

    Pls guys. Like this to remind myself to not do it. I’ve been addicted for not kidding 8 years. Started watching when I was 13. I am now 21. The realization of how corrupt and addicted I am to pornography and masturbation is so terrible. But as of the writing of this comment I am 7 days clean. I have noticed such a change from my mental and physical health but more mental. Help me keep it up and pls give me encouragement as well

    • @savvamaster5498
      @savvamaster5498 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Keep it up!👊

    • @sloane_300
      @sloane_300 หลายเดือนก่อน

      you got this stay strong alright? 💪

    • @EimysGD
      @EimysGD หลายเดือนก่อน

      8 YEARS? I hope you to be clean and find the beauty in life

    • @Crykittie_
      @Crykittie_ 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Stay strong brother

    • @JoshOnBS
      @JoshOnBS 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hey man! Addictions are hard to quit even if you have a huge urge and give in keep going! I believe in you

  • @FieryFiore
    @FieryFiore หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    lust is one of the hardest thing to control, stay strong brothers!

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      It is brother, but because its so hard - when you do have the ability to control it, the world is wonderful ❤

  • @pragashwangoo8603
    @pragashwangoo8603 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    You are totally right brother. People think that semen retention is bullshit but it really changes your life in a positive manner. Channeling of sexual energy actually works and makes one the best version of themselves.

  • @sweatyspammersammy
    @sweatyspammersammy หลายเดือนก่อน +158

    rare footage of him not using subwoofer lullaby as the music

    • @spohg2887
      @spohg2887 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Its sad because that's a great background. But he cuts it off too early, it's jarring when it restarts before the part

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Haha I had to change it up a lil

    • @parcusmeake3642
      @parcusmeake3642 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JakPiggott use the blonde interlude music for one video surely i put it on myself sometimes

    • @EmeraldBoi
      @EmeraldBoi หลายเดือนก่อน

      Still from Minecraft lol (nothing wrong with it it’s an amazing soundtrack)

  • @bygood4905
    @bygood4905 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Each time I come to this channel from the hells of social media’s dark side, it feels like all the videos are like a rest stop, where all of us can chill & learn & improve upon ourselves. I greatly enjoy watching your videos and learning more about how to live this gift called life. The 2 most important things I’ve learnt is:
    1) We are all on our own time line
    This one is so good because it helps create that mindset that one may achieve his/her meaning of success earlier or later than another’s. We shouldn’t be so tuned into others lives when we have one to worry about ourselves
    2) Follow the correct path, not the popular path
    This one speaks for it self. Just because something is popular doesn’t necessarily mean it’s good. Sure you’ll stand out and maybe looked down upon by your peers for doing something different, but it’s much more worth to be shunned upon for doing the right thing rather than be praised for doing the wrong thing.
    Everyone’s got their own way to success. Good luck & god bless.
    “Some beautiful paths cannot be discovered without getting lost”
    -Erol Ozan

  • @BahnschriftRegular
    @BahnschriftRegular หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Very inspiring :D // I made it to 10 days recently, which was my best streak yet. I was feeling amazing, and now I know I can do it . . . wish me luck guys! And Jak your videos are so amazing ;)

    • @Tshilidzi_innocent
      @Tshilidzi_innocent หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Am on day 53

    • @BahnschriftRegular
      @BahnschriftRegular หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Tshilidzi_innocent you got this brother! :)

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      LFG brother, make your future self proud aye 👊

  • @shadowgamerhope
    @shadowgamerhope หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    I wait every night and day to watch you, your videos are really a motivation. I love your work thank you for posting these awesome videos.

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you for your kind words brother ❤

  • @StethGodin
    @StethGodin หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    It takes a lot of courage to share the vulnerable moments of your life. I see you making efforts to improve yourself, I feel there is hope for me too. Thank you so much for your videos

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Much love, our generation needs some authenticity 👊

  • @NawtZakk
    @NawtZakk หลายเดือนก่อน +207

    Bros gonna raise the worlds sea levels by 5 meters if he busts 💀☠️

    • @UncleLester999
      @UncleLester999 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      rip netherlands will become white

    • @ANTI_UTTP_FOR_REAL
      @ANTI_UTTP_FOR_REAL หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Bro wtf 💀💀💀

    • @itzerez2662
      @itzerez2662 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Unfunny

    • @chodowski_legacy
      @chodowski_legacy หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      So funny

    • @unendingpinelate940
      @unendingpinelate940 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Down made me chuckle so hard i busted anyway

  • @nafisasoibnazarova4514
    @nafisasoibnazarova4514 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    brother, you made me cry, the feelings and emotions you are expressing are just both reletable and genuine, i can almost touch the pain you've experienced. shoutouts from younger sister

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน

      This comment is gold, thank you ❤️

  • @NatNat513
    @NatNat513 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    You're so inspiring, I am trying to quit watching p*rn and doing bad habits, and it's hard. But watching your videos always help me and motivate me. Keep up the good work and keep doing what you're doing bro

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you for your words brother, keep your head up and keep grinding ❤

  • @Roller7913-n3c
    @Roller7913-n3c หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    Bro returned to his edging streak... NO! 😭

    • @bettercallfrog
      @bettercallfrog หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      He was trying to become a sigma

    • @apsode.
      @apsode. หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      @@bettercallfrogyour brain is half liquid lil bro

    • @MrTortiePlays
      @MrTortiePlays หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      The 7 year olds with these brainrot terms are crazy 💀

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Nah brother hell nah

    • @PyroJovanny912
      @PyroJovanny912 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@apsode.bros sigma

  • @sinjy9288
    @sinjy9288 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Jesus loves you all, even on the days when you mess up and feel like crap, he loves you. He loves you more than any girl or any friend might love you, and the happiness and love you feel from him is greater than anything this world says will give you. So my bros, instead of chasing girls or money or muscles or anything that the world is good for you to chase, chase Jesus instead, because he is the way the truth and the life and his love and happiness is greater than anything else this world has to offer. Im not saying dont work out or try to make money or anything like that, but dont make it your goal in life and dont make those things the only things that will bring you happiness

  • @phonesecretsfinder
    @phonesecretsfinder หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Thanks for all your videos... I'm really grateful for the man you've made me become

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน

      You should give yourself more credit than you give me, you should be immensely proud of yourself ❤

  • @mirandawagan444
    @mirandawagan444 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Keep on going Jak, your videos always make my day

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you much love ❤

  • @theonesiam7796
    @theonesiam7796 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    He is the definition of
    "The man who beats lust, can not be beaten"

  • @jeevanm5807
    @jeevanm5807 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    bro thank you for listening to my thoughts, my inner voices... like really i dont want to beat it(my m**t) ...like staying alone in a room with good internet connection and letting my minds to ruin my self ... i think by watching ur videos .. ur stories on how to cut out porn out of life was most inmportant ... i am really thank ful to u .. really really thankful

  • @e_m4n_
    @e_m4n_ หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Jak you need to understand you are helping so many people in understanding their urges and how things in day to day life effect those urges and emotions, you’re an amazing man my guy, and from the complete bottom of my heart, thank you so much for these types of videos, and I know so many other people can agree as well

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for your kind words my brother ❤

    • @e_m4n_
      @e_m4n_ หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JakPiggott np brother keep it up 🙏

  • @Fyrestare
    @Fyrestare หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I really resonate with your videos more than anyone else because you're basically the same age as me. I'm barely 18, just starting my adult life, and it's hard to work toward becoming a better version of myself without positive influence from people like you

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That's so good to hear man, I always question myself because I'm technically still a teen and making videos like this, but I just remind myself I only speak from my most authentic experience and their can't be anything wrong with that

  • @ibal8125
    @ibal8125 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This guy is so inspiring to me. He is so confident in himself that he's willing to come out here and openly discuss things that most people hide for fear of judgement. I respect him so much for that. Thank you Jak, you are a role model to me.

  • @max_well3329
    @max_well3329 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Your not the only one, I also fell back to my addiction this morning after not doing it for 6 days. I felt guilty cuz I felt I was going to not do it for the a month after reading the bible. But temptation got to me and I lost the battle of it. It scars me after wards but I know not to give up

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Ruts come and go, as long as you learn from them 👊

  • @romaniageography
    @romaniageography หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    You're pretty strong but you need God too! I was addicted to the stuff and now after the Lord changed me, i rarely even get those thoughts to do it. Whenever i get it, God tells me to focus on Him. It is so easy to resist now! God bless you!🙏

    • @bettercallfrog
      @bettercallfrog หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      real

    • @internetuser736
      @internetuser736 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yep. Keep the word in your life

    • @JunkEmail-j7i
      @JunkEmail-j7i หลายเดือนก่อน

      I love you, and God loves you!!!🙏🙏🙏✝️✝️✝️❤️🙏❤️🙏🙏
      Just because you feel like you wanna do something, That doesn't mean that it's Ok or acceptable to DO it.
      Your sinful urges are not what get you to hell.
      And you ARE not your SINFUL URGES, They are the devils misguidence, and IT'S NOT YOUR IDENTITY!!!🙏🙏🙏✝️✝️
      Your actions ARE WHAT GET YOU TO HELL, NOT YOUR URGES, THOUGHTS, AND FEELINGS, WHICH OFTEN ARE MADE TO SEEM OK BY THE DEVIL MISGUIDING U!!!, and if you keep living this way, and don't turn to Christ, and don't try, and do your best to stay away from said sins, then You're headed streight for hell, and it's the same for EVERY SIN!!!
      But if you turn to CHRIST, Ask him for forgiveness, and ask him to help you to give you strength to NOT SIN, and to RESIST TEMPATATION, and you try YOUR BEST to stay away from sin, and ask JESUS for forgiveness when you fall, and ask him for strength every time you fall, and you try your best to not sin again every time u fall, and ask God to fill you with the holy spirit, and to let the holy spirit guide you each, and every time u fall, then JESUS will help you, and will forgive you of your sins, and you'll be clensed by the blood of CHRIST, and you'll go to heaven, and the slate will be wiped clean, and all your sins will be forgotten!!!🙏🙏🙏✝️✝️✝️✝️
      But remember to not use Jesus as an excuse to sin or as a get out of jail-free card so you can sin freely, and if you have done that or end up doing it, then do what i said above.
      TURN TO CHRIST, OUR ONE, AND ONLY LORD, SAVIOUR, AND GOD, AND TURN AWAY FROM YOUR SINS!!!✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️ IN JESUS CHRISTS HOLY NAME I PRAY THAT YOU TURN TO CHRIST, AMEN!!!✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏💚💚💚
      FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD, HE GAVE HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON, SO THAT WHOEVER BELIEVES IN HIM SHALL NOT PARISH, BUT WILL HAVE EVERLASTING, AND ETERNAL LIFE-John 3:16, AMEN!!!🙏🙏🙂🙏🙂💚

  • @Pettpon
    @Pettpon หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Thanks for being honest with us, as always.
    Like some guy already said in the comments, our comments are just text on screen, but I hope you realise that they're from real people who you are actually helping.
    Keep grinding, much love brother 🙏

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you my brother, I hope you realise this means more than you think ❤

  • @paulwagner544
    @paulwagner544 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    How is it even possible, that people dont judge in their videos. I love your Videos for that. You always respect everyone and dont push those who do several things down. Thank you ❤

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน

      The world needs more of it definitely ❤

  • @we1come2thesyst3m
    @we1come2thesyst3m หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    love ya man, you help so may people without even realizing it, ur a hero. stay safe man.

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Love ya to brotha ❤

  • @appleitree
    @appleitree หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I am really sorry you've been going through stuff, but I also am happy that you talked about it. We can see how gebuine you and your content is. In this pool of overwhelming infodmation, with so maby self improvement advices do this so that, I dont know if some even work. You share your genuine experience and that's what we need. Thank you and dont worry, addiction is addictive. You need you to overcome it. Don't be too dramatic about it. Just relax and take over the moment

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you Apple Tree, life is going to present its challenges but that's the whole point, I like it when I go through stressful days because I always learn a lesson to create even happier times - it represents the quote "hard times create strong men, strong men create easy times, easy times create weak men, weak men create easy times"

  • @danielward4868
    @danielward4868 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    My advice for quitting an addiction is to not start at all. For those who are trying to break out of an addiction, it will not be easy but you can build your mind to be strong enough so you don't depend on it anymore.

  • @TechedCactus
    @TechedCactus หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    "Life can stumble, life can be elating, life can be confusing, but with a singular destination all we can do is enjoy the journey."
    Not mine but a good quote I like to remember, just thought I'd share with y'all. You guys are amazing, and I'm so happy that both you and I found Jak's channel. Together, we are gonna get through those tough times my fellow brothers, just keep going, don't stop. God created you to be amazing and unique, there is only one of you. Go out there and life you life to its fullest, and live. every moment like it's your last.

  • @user-zy5uc4ng5x
    @user-zy5uc4ng5x หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love that you stay real and dont beat other over the head and devalue them. Thank you so much for the videos

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The world doesn't need more polarisation brother, it just needs more of a real positive impact, much love ❤

    • @user-zy5uc4ng5x
      @user-zy5uc4ng5x หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JakPiggott God bless you are a gift from God

  • @SharkyTS
    @SharkyTS หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    1 hour clean, I hope I can never go back to that again..

  • @Turbomax4247
    @Turbomax4247 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Hey Jak. Just go on leaving your mark on the world, which is evident from the number of Guys especially teenagers who are a big fan of yours. Love ya pal

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you Turbo ❤

  • @someone.205
    @someone.205 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    starting day 1
    wish me luck boys
    edit: i just can't. there isn't anything that motivates me..

    • @Non-chronological
      @Non-chronological หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      my tip to u is try to always be busy and have someone around u always and when u get the thought of doing tell someone u trust like ur brother or anyone u trust so they can stay near and not let you be alone by yourself.

    • @someone.205
      @someone.205 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Non-chronological it's always the hard times that gets me to do it.
      but don't worry brother I'll do my best 👍

  • @Anna_Borosova
    @Anna_Borosova หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I extremely value your honesty Jak. Looking forward to your call in AS today. I missed you. And just to reassure you, retaining semen is not bad for prostate. No study ever said it does or doesn't cause cancer. It has not been proven. Thanks for this video :)

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน

      No worries Anna, it was good to be back 🙏

  • @EwizaBananas
    @EwizaBananas หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    even as a girl, this video is extremely helpful. thank you so much bro.

  • @mIrOkAKkO
    @mIrOkAKkO หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    this man is surpassing Hamza
    his channel is literally growing faster than Hamza's 😂

  • @1234GOWDAAAA
    @1234GOWDAAAA หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The fact that he is undergoing the same stress trauma and uncontrollable urges like the same way we are undergoing

  • @cmsthegod
    @cmsthegod หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Always a good day when Jak uploads🔥🙌

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Much love brother ❤

  • @Chazm774
    @Chazm774 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    hes very genuine and honest i rlly like him he has taught me a lot espacially jak and noel deyzel have taught me the most and its cuz of them i decided not to end my life so thanks to both of them im standing here today. life isnt fixed yet but i have that hope so thank you jak and noel i owe it you both❤

  • @arska2586
    @arska2586 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    thank you for making this video. imma head to the gym now💪

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good on ya 👊

  • @f4_infinity
    @f4_infinity หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm on day 8 bro and i haven't got the urge to relapse i think i might get out of this addiction 💪

    • @1james
      @1james หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Gl bro you’ve got this 💪

    • @RyanLee-or4cj
      @RyanLee-or4cj หลายเดือนก่อน

      Im not saying it will happen but take the advice from this video seriously and remove yourself from any tempting situation bro, god bless.

    • @Angeleyes12956
      @Angeleyes12956 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It always happens eventually 😢😢

  • @AvatarAang100
    @AvatarAang100 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I made it to day 21, then i relapsed...since then i have been on a continuous cycle of relapse once every 4 days, 1 week or 2 weeks. Im fighting really hard to conquer lust rn but i believe i can do it

  • @MrTierGuy
    @MrTierGuy หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    For people talking about their addiction to masturbating. It’s natural. Everyone does it and too much isn’t bad so don’t feel like it’s a bad habit or a sin

  • @ratcheese9065
    @ratcheese9065 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I don't know how to thank this guy soo much for saving peoples lives and changing lives. ❤

  • @yuvz197
    @yuvz197 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

    “End my semen retention streak” 😭😭😭

  • @Majestic-Wolf
    @Majestic-Wolf หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I hope you realize how much impact you've made to the community, thank you so much for telling your story. Subbed

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Much love brother ❤

  • @youare_beloved
    @youare_beloved หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I know there is probably not a lot of women watching your videos, not to mention that thats not your thought process when you make them, but I just wanted to say that what you are doing here is a beautiful thing, truly. And that I'm here XD
    But again, as a woman, I don't completely relate or truly understand the deep addiction to the physical feeling, but definetly to more of the porn and what some of those people say. For me, it was any of the guy ASMR's or just having someone tell me that they love me, even if just in that way. I know now the effects that it had on me physically and mentally. I still have strong urges, especially when I lay awake at night, but I just think about the consequences instead.
    Anyway, sorry for going on a rant there, but I just want to reconize what an amazing thing you're doing here Jak. Think about us when you get self concious, just like when we think about you when the same happens to us.

  • @kapixon8869
    @kapixon8869 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The video turned out much different than what I was expecting, but definitely in a good way. Thank you for sharing. After watching I started to think a bit and ask myself, and I think I just figured out that I feel terrible because I am basically not in control and the urges dictate everything...
    I have been struggling with this PMO stuff and being tired/ unfocused for quite a while and I believe that if I give it my all and keep reminding myself of how much better of a person I could be I will in the end feel much better and more of a man for not letting these urges/feelings dictate my actions.
    That seems to be a much more meaningful and purposeful life to me. Stay strong and take care now 🙏

  • @priyanshu029
    @priyanshu029 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you for these kind videos in which you share authentic experiences regardless of being judged, because these types of videos are rare and help us so much. ❤

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's the whole point of this channel man, much love ❤

  • @FNAFTDLOVER-q6v
    @FNAFTDLOVER-q6v 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Bro was being genuine 😭🙏🏻

  • @NinosIoannou
    @NinosIoannou หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Congrats for the 800k subs bro🎉🎉🎉

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you bro, 8 for Kobe ❤

  • @MinecraftsMoon
    @MinecraftsMoon หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey Jak, your great at being the motivator but i really hope you read this motivation, just as much as others read yours. You notice how your sexual urging related youtube videos do a lot more in terms of statistics than others, that shows you how messed up people are in todays age and im sure your already aware. In this video, you've mentioned how you get overwhelmed and stressed occasionally and i just really hope that when you dont make these kinds of videos, your not stressed out as much as your personal problems become to you, like losing important people. I've been there and it sounds stupid to say but its true to you as a content creator. your veiwers lives are important to you but yours should be more, because... you're you. Your a great person Jak, and I hope you know that deeply through your heart, and do Not Let Anything that you cant control effect who you are, just like how your day is, but dont push away your goals because it is, find a way around it. Thank you for being a gift to our 'presence'. :)

  • @agentpapayatree
    @agentpapayatree หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thanks for being honest👍🏻🙏🏻

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Much love brother ❤

  • @internetuser736
    @internetuser736 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love to watch videos like these to watch late at night, to be inspired / motivated in the morning. was going through something similar ngl. Going strong on a streak

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This literally made my night brother, thank you ❤

  • @andreharrison6392
    @andreharrison6392 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    U can't over come this addiction without Jesus christ

    • @bettercallfrog
      @bettercallfrog หลายเดือนก่อน

      Real

    • @JunkEmail-j7i
      @JunkEmail-j7i หลายเดือนก่อน

      I love you, and God loves you!!!🙏🙏🙏✝️✝️✝️❤️🙏❤️🙏🙏
      Just because you feel like you wanna do something, That doesn't mean that it's Ok or acceptable to DO it.
      Your sinful urges are not what get you to hell.
      And you ARE not your SINFUL URGES, They are the devils misguidence, and IT'S NOT YOUR IDENTITY!!!🙏🙏🙏✝️✝️
      Your actions ARE WHAT GET YOU TO HELL, NOT YOUR URGES, THOUGHTS, AND FEELINGS, WHICH OFTEN ARE MADE TO SEEM OK BY THE DEVIL MISGUIDING U!!!, and if you keep living this way, and don't turn to Christ, and don't try, and do your best to stay away from said sins, then You're headed streight for hell, and it's the same for EVERY SIN!!!
      But if you turn to CHRIST, Ask him for forgiveness, and ask him to help you to give you strength to NOT SIN, and to RESIST TEMPATATION, and you try YOUR BEST to stay away from sin, and ask JESUS for forgiveness when you fall, and ask him for strength every time you fall, and you try your best to not sin again every time u fall, and ask God to fill you with the holy spirit, and to let the holy spirit guide you each, and every time u fall, then JESUS will help you, and will forgive you of your sins, and you'll be clensed by the blood of CHRIST, and you'll go to heaven, and the slate will be wiped clean, and all your sins will be forgotten!!!🙏🙏🙏✝️✝️✝️✝️
      But remember to not use Jesus as an excuse to sin or as a get out of jail-free card so you can sin freely, and if you have done that or end up doing it, then do what i said above.
      TURN TO CHRIST, OUR ONE, AND ONLY LORD, SAVIOUR, AND GOD, AND TURN AWAY FROM YOUR SINS!!!✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️ IN JESUS CHRISTS HOLY NAME I PRAY THAT YOU TURN TO CHRIST, AMEN!!!✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏💚💚💚
      FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD, HE GAVE HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON, SO THAT WHOEVER BELIEVES IN HIM SHALL NOT PARISH, BUT WILL HAVE EVERLASTING, AND ETERNAL LIFE-John 3:16, AMEN!!!🙏✝️💚✝️✝️🙏🙂

    • @kossibwaya
      @kossibwaya หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@bettercallfrogExactly 💯👆🏿

    • @ASDUB18
      @ASDUB18 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Real

    • @kossibwaya
      @kossibwaya หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@andreharrison6392 fr

  • @sober_katz
    @sober_katz 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    i'm a teenage girl. i stopped doing...it for a long time. up until last month - yup, i got too comfortable when i was home alone in bed and...i'm sure you know what i did.
    i suppressed the urge for a while, but i fell back into it again. i was so, so disappointed in myself because i view it as sinful (i'm Christian). yes it's good for the body in some ways, but not good for my spirit.
    lovely people in the comments, please help encourage me not to do it. bless you all :)

  • @zv6202
    @zv6202 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    my guy jak ❤ your content is so good

    • @JakPiggott
      @JakPiggott  หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤❤

  • @SamuRhino2023
    @SamuRhino2023 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    You guys might find it cringe, but Satan is the one who leaves those thoughts in your mind. But if I remember correctly, Jesus said; “Nothing can stop the birds from flying overhead, but you can stop them from building their nest.” This essentially means that as these lustful thoughts enter our minds, we can’t let that bird build the nest. And when the bird can’t build the nest, it flies away.

  • @Samuelselevatorchannel
    @Samuelselevatorchannel หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I wonder why I sin and feel like a loser.

  • @Anden_ywg
    @Anden_ywg หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bless this man for being strong enough to share his stories with us, hes a true man we need in society to help educate the younger generation!

  • @bullets888
    @bullets888 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    we have our ups and downs

  • @Sonic_YTx--
    @Sonic_YTx-- หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey man ive been off doing it for a while now and about what you've said, what your experience was to be honest i felt the same but i didnt watch 'corn'flakes but my friend told me how to do it and which they told me accounts to yk is weird i know but we all learnt our ways and they made me addicted when i was younger but ever since I started focusing on my youtube channel and stopped yk it has really improved my life and my channel is about entertaining little kids so i had to make a change, about ever since i was born i never wanted a girlfriend i rejected every girl i saw but 1 yr ago when my friends told meabout how to yk i was never the same so i am happy i stopped. Thank you so much for this, this is keeping my mentality to my heightest and im finally working out more then i used to and im finally a kid now.. ❤

  • @Jesus_is_Lord4444
    @Jesus_is_Lord4444 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Jesus loves you guys!✌️😁

  • @w.c.s.m.4215
    @w.c.s.m.4215 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Christ will save you next time appeal to Christ

    • @Meth_0002
      @Meth_0002 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Brainwashed bro

  • @Aidenso503
    @Aidenso503 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Jak your like a real friend to me u get me through so much stuff and ur a really good role model ty for everything man❤

  • @sejangamer
    @sejangamer หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    If you become true muslim its impossible to Relapse❤❤❤

    • @LakshyaGupta-qg3nk
      @LakshyaGupta-qg3nk หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂

    • @olis3907
      @olis3907 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@ViewStxarAtleast Muslims don’t worship two gods 🤷‍♂️. Jesus isn’t a god. Why would a powerful god be a father. A powerful god wouldn’t need to be a father. I only believe in one god, Allah. 😊

    • @JunkEmail-j7i
      @JunkEmail-j7i หลายเดือนก่อน

      I love you, and God loves you!!!🙏🙏🙏✝️✝️✝️❤️🙏❤️🙏🙏
      Just because you feel like you wanna do something, That doesn't mean that it's Ok or acceptable to DO it.
      Your sinful urges are not what get you to hell.
      And you ARE not your SINFUL URGES, They are the devils misguidence, and IT'S NOT YOUR IDENTITY!!!🙏🙏🙏✝️✝️
      Your actions ARE WHAT GET YOU TO HELL, NOT YOUR URGES, THOUGHTS, AND FEELINGS, WHICH OFTEN ARE MADE TO SEEM OK BY THE DEVIL MISGUIDING U!!!, and if you keep living this way, and don't turn to Christ, and don't try, and do your best to stay away from said sins, then You're headed streight for hell, and it's the same for EVERY SIN!!!
      But if you turn to CHRIST, Ask him for forgiveness, and ask him to help you to give you strength to NOT SIN, and to RESIST TEMPATATION, and you try YOUR BEST to stay away from sin, and ask JESUS for forgiveness when you fall, and ask him for strength every time you fall, and you try your best to not sin again every time u fall, and ask God to fill you with the holy spirit, and to let the holy spirit guide you each, and every time u fall, then JESUS will help you, and will forgive you of your sins, and you'll be clensed by the blood of CHRIST, and you'll go to heaven, and the slate will be wiped clean, and all your sins will be forgotten!!!🙏🙏🙏✝️✝️✝️✝️
      But remember to not use Jesus as an excuse to sin or as a get out of jail-free card so you can sin freely, and if you have done that or end up doing it, then do what i said above.
      TURN TO CHRIST, OUR ONE, AND ONLY LORD, SAVIOUR, AND GOD, AND TURN AWAY FROM YOUR SINS!!!✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️ IN JESUS CHRISTS HOLY NAME I PRAY THAT YOU TURN TO CHRIST, AMEN!!!✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏💚💚💚
      FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD, HE GAVE HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON, SO THAT WHOEVER BELIEVES IN HIM SHALL NOT PARISH, BUT WILL HAVE EVERLASTING, AND ETERNAL LIFE-John 3:16, AMEN!!!🙏💚🙂💚🙂💚✝️🙏

  • @Oltiemal
    @Oltiemal 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    It's painful. I made the choice. I decided, with all deep in my soul and heart to better myself, and I've been actively making an attempt.
    But when all your 24 hours a day you have infinite freetime, it feels fucking impossible. I'm getting better, but I just made massive decisions, finally decided to commit and double down on it, then just one slight lapse in judgement, and it's all fucking gone. I know it isn't the end, that mistakes will happen, but it feels so fucking awful knowing I absolutely swore by my soul, decided with full intent I would, but then when I'm about to go to sleep, at my weakest most brainrotted, barely motivated point, I ruin it fucking all. It's hard to move on when you prove yourself wrong again and again to the point where you can't trust yourself. But I will. Lest it be days or years, I will come out on top.
    I have a friend. I will tell my friend anything. I'd tell him if I were involved with the cartel for fuck's sake. Yet I'm so ashamed, so fucking appalled with myself that I wouldn't tell him. Not a soul. So I only have myself to help. But I need to not be lying. If there's something that I wouldn't tell him, that's something I'm not to be fucking doing.
    So, the original big commitment isn't just to stop entirely, not yet, but to start trying. Do better every day.
    I'll come back to this comment daily. See how far I make it.
    Funny how I'd say this online with people I know not a thing about. Just the only way to get it off my chest.

    • @xanderxxvblaze
      @xanderxxvblaze 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Think of all the things you can do & learn if you have infinite free time. Learn sum new skill, go on a hike, learn kung fu or sum bro
      You don't need to swear by your soul man. You're already paying with your potential & your soul when you jump on the hub.
      Perhaps I'm erroneous about this but I can smell desperation...
      Quitting out of desperation? What happens when the desperation eases up a little after a day or a week?
      Desperation is a strong fuel but also a quick one. It runs out quick.
      Purpose on the other hand... perennial, as long as you don't try to neglect & abdicate it.
      Have a reason to quit. Abide by that reason. Success still isn't a guarantee. This battle of lust is lifelong.
      People set this imo unrealistic expectations that they're gonna quit it for x say 90 days & then it's done.
      Its lifelong, the battle is lifelong cuz retention is more than just a habit. It's a lifestyle.
      The right goal imo is not to never have an impulse (which idk how realistic that is) but to not be slaves to our impulses. Let the urge come, but don't allow yourself to attach to the urge & become the urge.
      "It" only has the power we give it.
      Don't just invest all your energy into chiseling your strengths, also use it to build on & alleviate your weaknesses. Cuz like you said.... you're tempted at your weakest hours
      You fail when you quit trying, not when you take a setback.
      I know all that I've proposed is way easier said than done...but isn't that the whole point? What significance or worth would it wield had it been that facile to obtain without having any need to shed some blood for?
      I too fail at times. I failed recently. I know I've got a long way to go too. Im not gonna become stronger overnight. Like the saying goes- "A master of patience is a master of everything." Gotta keep getting back up.👍🏾🤝🏾

  • @nataliebyrd3894
    @nataliebyrd3894 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    making an 8 minute video about losing your edging streak is crazy

  • @legendary_azil1238
    @legendary_azil1238 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Its been 2 weeks guys. The longest I went was 40 days. Im changing my values and getting out my comfort spot and using my energy for training physically. I dont even feel like nutting anymore because I use my energy for the right things

    • @OfficialFarmerTed
      @OfficialFarmerTed 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Same here I’ve quit vaping and I’ve started eating more 💪. I wish you the best on your journey. I have a really obsessive personality and I get addicted to things really easy, so I’m finding this pretty difficult.

  • @iftnmb1
    @iftnmb1 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i love how open is this guy fr

  • @Zade_Luna
    @Zade_Luna หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love how you're so open minded. a truly great quality to have.

  • @leviglasser3671
    @leviglasser3671 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Just discovered your channel by circumstance. You're my new friend. Thank you.

  • @Ryguy2112.
    @Ryguy2112. หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s truly amazing what you do, and make me believe more in myself that you also struggle even until today. It makes what you have gone through much more relatable, and make it feel like I can stop. Please never stop doing this, you are changing lives.

  • @COELACANTHofficial
    @COELACANTHofficial หลายเดือนก่อน

    Man has balls to share something like this to millions of people. Respect.

  • @TheAmazingSpiderFan18516
    @TheAmazingSpiderFan18516 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You're a genuine inspiration and I love your kind words. I'm in the midst of fighting because I want to live up to the person I believe God has called me to be. It's tough but your kindness and encouragement reaches a lot of people. Keep doing you, man.

  • @wyldc4t316
    @wyldc4t316 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    4:25 being mad honest the way you are helps big time for us to get your meaning

  • @aidenbrown6813
    @aidenbrown6813 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’ve really tried. I’ve gotten a good (for me that’s 4 days tops) non-jerk streak, but I always end up going back. I decide every day that I’m going to start a new streak, I decided that today too, but I go back. Including today. We all struggle.

    • @savvamaster5498
      @savvamaster5498 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don't forget that God is with you.

    • @aidenbrown6813
      @aidenbrown6813 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@savvamaster5498 🙏

  • @jambang6204
    @jambang6204 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just started with my retention journey AGAIN and this time I just came across your channel. Hoping everyday I watch your videos, it motivates me to be more productive and grow with you.

  • @kidiceyvr6101
    @kidiceyvr6101 หลายเดือนก่อน

    really appreciate these videos bro. u always say that u sound cringe saying certain things but u dont. u keep it real and authentic and tell us real experiences from your point of view which i love. keep it up

  • @Joshualemay1
    @Joshualemay1 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your videos are the most pure and genuine form of self improvement content I've ever seen. What you're saying doesn't seem cringe to me but authentic and real.

  • @rodrizyy
    @rodrizyy หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    i dont do it because its a sin. if i sin knowing its a sin, i will forever be afraid of God when He returns.

  • @Elite_Serox
    @Elite_Serox หลายเดือนก่อน

    this guy drops the most real videos and they always help my mental 🙂

  • @xXchillbillXx
    @xXchillbillXx หลายเดือนก่อน

    One of the only self improvement TH-camr to believe in, keep going man.

  • @abelbaby5
    @abelbaby5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This man needs to reopen his discord, helped me so much. Love you jak❤ thanks for the videos

  • @Tix6969
    @Tix6969 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    my streak of not busting one is 147 days rn thanks for the past advice man

  • @eliabdian7816
    @eliabdian7816 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I lost my 240+ day streak due to urges... I feel like i did really good and kept myself engaged in many beneficial activities that contributed to my growth but im still pissed off that I broke my streak! man... i was doing so good but I collapsed. But I'm starting again and try to beat these unclean lustful urges... thank you Jak for encouraging me and many other people to become better humans!

  • @DeepfinArtist
    @DeepfinArtist หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jak your just absolutely amazing I wouldn’t be where I am today without your videos. Thanks man

  • @eklavayachopra8886
    @eklavayachopra8886 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As a 25 year old who just saw ur "craving for love" video before this one. What all u said is true. We think we need sex or a sexual way to release seed but in reality all we need is intimacy. The top tier intimacy that's it. Both mental and physical.
    Being a one woman man, I got cheated on last year after being promised of getting married after few years around 29-30, these videos goes deeper into the heart.
    Great content and keep on doing such videos. And no, you are not cringe.