I literally exactly known these facts, but it s not easy to apply. They are pretty much saying “be a confident cool guy”. Yeah easy to say, but if you are not confident and cool in reality, it is really hard to overcome that. You end up doing pretending to be a cool guy which is not good in anyway.
@@AppleFrogTomatoFace yeah bro/sis, i always felt those feeling inside of me. a bit of guilt because you're just pretending to be something you weren't suppose to be.. like you probably have to stop but can't because a big bit of your personality may be affected
1.)Have a sense of humor-0:15 2.)Show you like them-0:46 3.)Learn to play a musical instrument-1:31 4.)Own a pet-2:09 5.)Show confidence-3:42 6.)Choose deeper conversation-4:22 7.)Be a leader-5:03
I asked my crush out, and she said yes! :D I'm really nervous, but I believe everything will work out okay. I'd like to thank your videos for giving me the courage to do it, really helped a lot!
Omg you’re so brave! I’m happy for you because if you have the courage to do that, you deserve a brilliant relationship. I am terrified to ask my crush out, how did you get the bravery for that?
Made this as a recap for my hopeless self, but if anyone needs it then hopefully this comment will make it high up! :D 1: Have a sense of humor 2: Show you like them 3: Learn to play a musical instrument 4: Own a pet 5: Show confidence 6: Choose deeper conversation over small talk 7: Be a leader
I have all of those and honestly, alot of people have confessed to me in the past.
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@@dream_y1000 same lol but I have crush on only one boy who has not yet confessed to anyone 😂
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People around me are always happy I like em yes but I don't show too much. Not instrument but I sing well I own a pet too. My confidence is on another level.. I prefer long talks I'm the leader too, but kinda kind and caring 😂😂😂
alrighty then! music class forces me to play one but after winter break I can quit the instrument so uh.. that’s not gonna go the way I want (although I’m in the same band class as him which actually makes it harder to do stuff) and unfortunately I have no sense of humor at all, so that’s not gonna plan out he has a girlfriend, and she’s in my friend group I don’t want them all to scream at me if I let him know I like him i own a bunny and a dog but idrk if he’ll care lol I’m the opposite of a leader, I hate attention, I stand in the back and I can’t handle the ownership you’d need and- gd I haven’t even said a word to him, biggest milestone for me is saying hi
Just sharing my opinion so don’t judge me, but I think it’s okay to have a crush. It’s perfectly normal, but still don’t waste your time and energy on trying to go get anyones attention no matter who it is. Just be yourself, and when you fall in love with who you are and love being yourself. Other people see your beauty and accept you for just those reasons. So if you want someone to notice you, just pay mores attention to yourself instead of seeking them. They probably do notice you and then your crush may want to get to know more of you, then they might be the ones watching this video instead of you 😂 love you guys ❤️🙏
Fr. Right before the school year ended I was known as the weird kid but I joined football and started working out and I changed but I don’t know how to approach my crush bc she hasn’t added me back on snap bc I use to be weird.
At this point I've realised that i can't make everyone like me, I used to think that way and it hurt me whenever someone didn't like me. Stop putting so much effort into making others like you, and start liking yourself more. Now my only problem is trying to love again, is there any way to help that?
Forgiveness helps with being able to love again. Either the "easy" kind of forgiving that other person who hurt you... OR the "harder" kind of forgiving yourself for falling into a pitfall of loving. It hurts to get hurt, and that should go without saying... no matter how the hurt comes, it's hard on us for the simple and laughable reason that we don't want those "mistakes"... BUT to authentically Love again, you can't be stuck in the "blame" stage. AND not for nothing, here, but it's often ourselves that we have the WORST kind of patience for. It's often ourselves we hold some of the worst grudges against. Even to the degree that many of us (humans in general) lash out temperamentally at the rest of the world over our own displeasure with ourselves... Anger is a "self preservation emotion"... It's often rooted in some kind of Fear. SO maybe if there's no one else there for you to be dwelling upon and angry about, deep down you resent yourself for a hurt you endured in the past. That was a learning experience... a "life lesson" and they don't get easier as you go along. BUT you've learned and grown, and you can forgive yourself (or whoever)... That's okay, too. It's harder to do than it sounds... BUT it's do-able. ;o)
Why do i need to show my confidence? Why I need to pretend to be someone else? To make my crush like me? I rather want to be with someone who like me of who I am,what i'm doing and be my self all the time.
me who can play ukulele and also a bit of piano but dropped it out just because i was not being a complete professional after a few months of learning: lets go lesbians!!!!!
I did all this in college. Nobody cares if you're ugly. If anything you come across as annoying and tone deaf. I play guitar, I have a dog, I took the lead in every group project I was in, I can talk to anyone and people have told me I should try stand up comedy. But I'm still single, 26 years and counting. And cry myself to sleep every single night.
Meh... relationship seeking advice gets over-rated. I've made it to 45... AND single. It's not bad. I've got a motorcycle, and the balls to ride it... like two-days in the saddle for a hotel stop ride it. If you're really crying yourself to sleep, then something needs to change... Either you can change your "hunting" style or you can change the "hunt". These are tips based on statistical models, and all scientific rigor aside, every statistical model has two parts... 1 The curve... and 2. The outliers... It doesn't have to be depressing that you aren't coupled up by now... Nor is it wholly depressing that you might stay single. I know this ain't exactly the thing you want to hear or read... It's worth sharing though. I'm not half of a couple. I'm a single COMPLETE human being. If I get the likes of a life partner or S.O. or whatever, it can be great... If I don't... I can be a complete man on my own, just fine, too. Marriage may well be a fine thing and all, but if you're not a complete person before you get into a relationship, the relationship isn't going to magically complete you. That notion is as much hog-wash as sticking it out in an abusive relationship "for the sake of the children"... ;o)
You might need to adjust your preferences in a person to make it easier for yourself, even the ugliest people have been able to find their life partner at a certain age in the history of mankind, and they will continue to do so. I know this because I'm currently doing this myself and the people who confessed to me, or confessed their feelings about me to my friends, have been below my preferenfes and standards, physically and characteristically, for the most part Try to adjust it and see what happens. If it still doesn't work out for you, then at least breaking the guiness world record for being single the longest would be a commited achievement
There are also tons of people that don't even own a pet but still managed to find a fiance. There are people who also never play a guitar in their life but still managed to get a fiance. All this video tells you is be rich then you automatically win your crush's heart because it is like telling you to own materialistic things. This basically does not teach us to be ourselves to get any crush to like us. I mean what if your crush have no interest in guitar? What if your crush prefers to live in a home with no pets?
I think one of the most important things is to be comfortable and make someone feel comfortable. The deep talks and the confidence will come by itself then dont force it.
I talked to my crush a while back and we laughed about the situation we were in and ever since he’s been talking to me more irl and he has been around when I’ve been joking around my friend so I hope it goes well for future me 👍
Hey YOU, incredible person reading this...The truth is you are confident and good enough already with who you are, where you are at and what you have right now to have the success you want in life. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn that skill and go after it! I believe in you so much! Have an awesome day! - Love, Nat ❤️
Ya know, I've had crushes before and not a single one noticed me or possibly thought that i was a romantic interests and I've been single for years and now seeing lovely couples nowadays quite literally wants to make me sit in corner and cry but then i remember i might still have a chance to finally fall in love. I've never been on a date, never gone out on said date, never had my first kiss, my first hand hold, not even a romantic sentimental moment. I hope one of these days the right woman comes into my life and hopefully gives me a small kitten because I'll love her forever if that happens to me.
With #2, I literally admitted to my crush way before this, and I can prove that this is indeed fact (for the most part), because before I told her, she showed no interest whatsoever, but after I told her, I noticed subtle things like the occasional stare at me. So take it from me, this mostly works. 👍
I feel so cool rn. I have anew crush, my first impression was humor, we’ve been super confident towards eachother, and I play piano, she plays drums 😍🙏
"Have a sense of humor" I guess I can make someone laugh, but it's more on sarcastic or pun jokes. "Show you like them" welp... I missed my chance by a longshot "Learn to play an instruement" I guess. I stopped learning the violin many years ago and I wasn't even halfway... guess I can go back "Own a pet" done. Except... one of them my dad made a guard dog, and the other is still maturing "Show confidence" . . . that ship has sailed "Choose deeper conversation" I'm less comfortabke talking deep to other people "Be a leader" nope. Well... I guess back then I did help her in leading a group. Guess that's something.
ofcourse remember that if your perhaps shy or have anxiety (etc) and cant see yourself maybe saying jokes outloud, appearing more confident (etc) don’t change yourself for your crush! love you psych2go!
Psy: "Be a leader" Me: OK im done... There's no hope... Psy: "You can Show it by teaching them" Me who has taught my crush maths, chemistry and History often already: Lol what
I'm introverted too but I did have a crush back in middle school to sophomore year and you'd just know we had reciprocal interest towards eachother but I guess my body language made me not seem approachable bwahaha
I had a crush on a didi, but as didi was a didi, i had to reconsider my feelings for didi, thus didi remained a didi and i didn't had a crush ever after,
I really enjoyed this list and I believe it will prove it's use! But one thing, I have a SERIOUS problem trying to get to start a deep conversation, considering I feel like the change from a small talk to a deep one is way too quick and too dangerous. Do you guys have any tips for this? Thank you :)) Can't wait for the next video, Psych2Go!
Think about it like this Anyone can talk to her about the weather If you we’re hit by a bus right after you both talked What memory do you want her to have of you ? Would you want her to remember-your conversation about the weather ? Or Do you want her to remember about how you made her feel when you shared a deeper conversation about yourself?
The conversation doesn't really need to be super deep or philosophical, more of just something a little more thought provoking than "the weathers good today huh?" Asking them questions about themselves is a great way to start a semi-deep conversation. If its a person who I haven't talked to much before, I personally like to ask them what they enjoy doing, and then ask more questions about the subject matter. Hope this helps!
I’ve told my friends that learning to play guitar would increase my chances, but they laughed it off. Little do they know literally every girl I asked agreed that a guy who knows guitar is more attractive than I guy who doesn’t. This video only proves my point further.
How can you get your crush to like you. It's either they are interested or not because no amount of effort could possibly make them like you. Many people you come across will like while many won't.
I have no idea why, but this video makes me so happy! This is just what I need after a long Monday. A soothing video made by Psych2Go about a problem I’m facing rn lol 😁
My humour or body language sometimes suck but having an adorable fluffy doggo and playing piano kalimba and guitar types plus being an artist makes more chances :)
Number 2 is especially true and definitely stands out to me because, well I have done the exact same thing 8) Honestly I've never really had any crushes at all through high school or whatever, maybe one time for for like a couple weeks and it quickly died. It wasn't that intense anyway. But the last few months, I've been speaking with loads of Japanese people on a language exchange app, and have been voice calling a few on Discord. Of them, two girls I've spoken to, who I genuinely did not have any feelings for at all initially, started showing signs of attraction, and were/are getting quite playful and flirty. It's important to remember people will always want to be loved and appreciated, even subconsciously, everyone will be wanting that. Of course going in guns blazing with flirting and that might seem too tryhard, but once you get to know someone don't be afraid to pull things a little closer with small little jokes and playful banter/flirting. Once you turn on that lightbulb of "Maybe this person likes me?" in their head, that is now an outcome or decision that they have become aware of. Just a guess, but I feel like if you are always FRIENDLY and not showing signs of like LIKING someone, you'll be in a place in their mind where going out with you never even crossed their mind because they only ever acknowledged and saw you as wanting to be a friend.
bruh every time I look at one of these videos I am like omg literally all of these tips that she is giving I already do and use them through my social interactions.
It's true that it's good to actually show them you like them and to show openness. I don't think one girl that has approached me has been open about things. It has pretty much always been distant, discreet, or prompting of *me* to actually do the thing they're trying to do, and if I don't, they just end up not doing it themselves. It would hit me like a truck if one of them had actually full-stop done the thing, and I wouldn't have been able to help thinking about them a lot. x)
should i ask him out? we call a lot, text every day, our siblings are close , we always send goodnight and good morning text and always comfort each other idk what do u think
My crush is one of my closest friends... and my best friend is her cousin, and my pastor is her dad, and my youth leader is her uncle, and one of my other closest friends is also her cousin, and my teacher is her mom, and my camp director is also her uncle, and... yeah, basically all the people I'm close to are closely related to her. You can probably understand why I'm a bit more nervous of rejection.
“Show confidence” I think what’s nice here is that she didn’t say “BE confident” Confidence isn’t easy to build up unless you, along with other people believe in you
I own a dog, and I do play instruments like guitar, but I can't even see my crush's eyes. Yesterday, he saw me multiple times in campus when we were attend our courses at the same class, but I was so shy and I didn't know how to react when he walks passed me. I don't even gave him some friendly smile even though we'd met two weeks ago. At that time, he was smiled at me and then asked me something like, " Owh, so you just arrived?" I said, " Yes, I have second courses, " Then surprisingly, he encouraged me with hand gestures "✊" as saying, " Okay, break a leg! " DAMN! I WAS SO HAPPY THAT TIME! Feels like in cloud nine 😩 But yesterday, when he seems like he wants to greeting me, I tend to ignore his presence so he just walked passed me and we didn't say hello to each other at all😔 I lowkey know his social media. Everytime I see it feels like I wanna tap that " Follow " button in order to make friends. But after that awkward situation, I made up my mind 🙂 Kinda curious about what kind of reaction he has if I follow him, but I guess I'm not gonna do anything for now.
With the second one, this is true. I never really noticed my (new) crush, but after i heard that he likes me by his friends, i began to notice him alot more and pay more attention to him. I noticed how funny he was.
Tried all of these things before by having a conversation with them and telling them about your feelings for your crush only to be crushed by them saying they are not interested in you.
I have this crush and I’ve liked him for almost a year we’ve had many weird interactions like he drank out my cup and said it taste better now and then we went to the movies together and we also went on this trip for school and we kept messing around with eachother I’ve told him I like him and I’ve asked him out but idk he said he doesn’t know what he wants
I'm An Introvert, I Cannot Talk To People Properly Took Me 1 Year To Finally Be Able To Talk To My School Friend Have Been Friend For 2 Years Now Also, It Is Especially Hard To Talk To Girls, Not Just My Crush I Don't Know What To Say At All To Her
All the crushes I had rejected me. But if I ever have one again I will keep this in mind. Maby I should stop being negative. That Proboly annoys y'all.
I watched this as if my “crush” and I haven’t confessed our feelings for each other, and say we love each other all the time. Hahahaha, but distance is hard so we’re holding out from making things official.
I hadn't thought asking someone I have interest in to bring a friend if we'd visit each other increased odds, I thought it was just something I'd do as an introvert to encourage conversation
I really like one girl since week. I saw her visially just 2-3 times in 3 years, but I always remember her face and body. She`s 16 and I`m 18. She`s so cute and beautiful, I`m unattractive and embarrassed. Knowing I will leave school in just few months without telling her I like her is so depressing, because I will NEVER see her anymore. She probadly doesn`t know me and I don`t know her, but her vision makes me dream that we`re happy couple. But this will be left as just a dream. 😭😔
someone help me, I really dk what to do ahead, so me and my crush had been classmates like a few years ago and like never really talked to each other, but this year he shifted in another college but somehow I managed to become his insta friends skejjs and he remembered me so now I only talk to him there, usually I'm the one to start a convo, it's been only like 2-3 months we've been talking like this and he does love small talks, but usually whenever I talk to him, I bring his topic of interest, so he then has a lot to talk about lmao and we did have kinda deep conversations you could say ? but they weren't about ourselves, just world. but yes he's really kind, very polite. from the tips, firstly I can't have a physical interaction with him as we don't even live near so but for now my aim is to be just his friend, not just a friend, but a close friend, I've always given him enough of hints/signs of me liking him and I'm pretty sure he knows at this point, but I don't wanna confess just yet coz then it'll be a state of awkwardness and possible rejection, so I want to give him all the time he requires, to know me well enough, to trust me (most important) and then only I can think about it, so our current state is just of a friendship and he's not completely open to me yet but I really hope he does!! also he does play keyboard aah and sings as well and is amazing in art, I do sing but I don't know to play any instrument but yes I really wanna learn so maybe someday~ but other than all that, I wish for him to like me for the person I am, I don't wanna change myself and be my own self and I want him to accept me the way I am :)
this video is a keeper this helped me get my best friend to be my girlfriend she is so sweet and loving and she always wants to go in the bed for cuddles 🥴
well i actually don't use any tips just go tell them i like them and they start to like me back lol but hope u guys be happy with the one u love, love u all♡
Let's see what I have to work in. Having a sense of humor: I do from time to time Show you like them: Well, I don't show I dislike him- Learn to play a musical instrument: Yasss, I love you piano
I gave my crush candy before halloween and since then he’s been staring at me (especially when I’m not looking) and he talks about me with his friends, like I said he stares at me the most when I’m not looking. I have a few classes with him, and I was arriving in one class. I turned around to do something and when I turned back I caught him staring at me but he completely looked away quickly once I turned. He ignores me when I’m near him but when I’m far in the distance or when I’m not looking at his direction he stares at me. I think he does that because he doesn’t want me to think that he’s weird for staring at me. But I have no problem with it but he doesn’t know that….
This video came at the right time for me as I have a crush right now, but I don't know how much use it will do me as I live on the other side of the planet of her
To the *worthwhile person* seeing this, your dream is not dead. Don’t allow the past and current pains and hurts stop and define you. You’re more than a conqueror. Rise up and put yourself together. Keep pushing your future depends on it. I wish you all the best in life ❤️.
Sense of humor: Yes Show you like her: Yes Play musical instrument: Yes, just harmonica :'D Own a pet: Yes Show confidence: Yes, but no Deep conversation: Always has been Be a leader: Oh, hell no! **heavily sweating*
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How's December starting out for you? Comment below!
Pretty good ngl
Not much... trying to rush some work.
Like a piece of paper.
Tear-able
Good, your videos brighten my day whenever I watch them
Bad actually, just waiting for new year
some introverts be like: if it’s really meant to be, my crush will teleport into my bedroom
very very true
you're pretty
That's me
@@gargi9319 bro down bad
@@creationfied I was just complementing dude, I'm a girl too (straight) 😐
all of these tips are facts... i wish i would have known this sooner
that’s true and i agree with you about your last sentence
@@feliciatran5667 same i wished i known these much sooner *sniff sniff*
I literally exactly known these facts, but it s not easy to apply. They are pretty much saying “be a confident cool guy”. Yeah easy to say, but if you are not confident and cool in reality, it is really hard to overcome that. You end up doing pretending to be a cool guy which is not good in anyway.
@@AppleFrogTomatoFace yeah bro/sis, i always felt those feeling inside of me. a bit of guilt because you're just pretending to be something you weren't suppose to be.. like you probably have to stop but can't because a big bit of your personality may be affected
U still gonna die a virgin, just like me.
1.)Have a sense of humor-0:15
2.)Show you like them-0:46
3.)Learn to play a musical instrument-1:31
4.)Own a pet-2:09
5.)Show confidence-3:42
6.)Choose deeper conversation-4:22
7.)Be a leader-5:03
Thanks for putting this together!
u know the future
Own a pet-
I guess I already have better chances with my two cats XD
Omg
2 months ago?
I asked my crush out, and she said yes! :D I'm really nervous, but I believe everything will work out okay. I'd like to thank your videos for giving me the courage to do it, really helped a lot!
Good Luck! Tell how it went then :)
Omg you’re so brave! I’m happy for you because if you have the courage to do that, you deserve a brilliant relationship. I am terrified to ask my crush out, how did you get the bravery for that?
Nice
I got friendzoned.. but congrats!! Hope you both become soulmates
OMG YOURE SO LUCKY
Made this as a recap for my hopeless self, but if anyone needs it then hopefully this comment will make it high up! :D
1: Have a sense of humor
2: Show you like them
3: Learn to play a musical instrument
4: Own a pet
5: Show confidence
6: Choose deeper conversation over small talk
7: Be a leader
I have all of those and honestly, alot of people have confessed to me in the past.
@@dream_y1000 same lol but I have crush on only one boy who has not yet confessed to anyone 😂
People around me are always happy
I like em yes but I don't show too much.
Not instrument but I sing well
I own a pet too.
My confidence is on another level..
I prefer long talks
I'm the leader too, but kinda kind and caring
😂😂😂
alrighty then! music class forces me to play one but after winter break I can quit the instrument so uh.. that’s not gonna go the way I want (although I’m in the same band class as him which actually makes it harder to do stuff)
and unfortunately I have no sense of humor at all, so that’s not gonna plan out
he has a girlfriend, and she’s in my friend group I don’t want them all to scream at me if I let him know I like him
i own a bunny and a dog but idrk if he’ll care lol
I’m the opposite of a leader, I hate attention, I stand in the back and I can’t handle the ownership you’d need
and- gd I haven’t even said a word to him, biggest milestone for me is saying hi
I do all of this and more and can confirm that it doesn't work.
"Do you feel like they're barely aware of your existence?"
Me, who crushes on a fictional dude: Well no, but actually yes.
Bruhhh
Same bruv
Loife's hard innit?
I feel you're pain lad
mine just ignore me :(
how to get them to notice you: chase them while screaming "notice me senpai" as loud as you can. works like a charm
Makes sense
i tried it, now been married 15 years with 3 children
@@dynosaurrrr I'm pretty sure that it's illegal to marry children
@@crabbyface586 you know what she meens
@@crabbyface586 lol
But when adopting a pet, it's a good idea to consider whether you can take good care of it!
Yes, big disclaimer!
here's a plus point, if they don't like you back, you still have the pet to love you :3
Ah yes "Hi my crush" while dragging a starving puppy around
Just sharing my opinion so don’t judge me, but I think it’s okay to have a crush. It’s perfectly normal, but still don’t waste your time and energy on trying to go get anyones attention no matter who it is. Just be yourself, and when you fall in love with who you are and love being yourself. Other people see your beauty and accept you for just those reasons. So if you want someone to notice you, just pay mores attention to yourself instead of seeking them. They probably do notice you and then your crush may want to get to know more of you, then they might be the ones watching this video instead of you 😂 love you guys ❤️🙏
me: *does all of this*
my crush: *"hey about the person next to you-..."*
You: *Depression*
@@Lavabird827 😭😂😛🙃👌😐
"Own a pet"
Me with 10 cats: well....that's 10 checks on that checkbox.
YOURE LUCKY I WANT THAT MANY CATS TOO I ONLY HAVE 3
I had 2 bugdies but they died. I don't know if that counts
Same
@@andreeagheorghe9516 budgies are awesome
Me with ten years of experience with Guitar
The worst pain is when you have a crush on a random person in your school that you don't even talk to.
Demiromamtic/demisexual people be like:
True
Fr. Right before the school year ended I was known as the weird kid but I joined football and started working out and I changed but I don’t know how to approach my crush bc she hasn’t added me back on snap bc I use to be weird.
I tried to add her like 2 months ago. Everyone has known I’ve liked her for two years at this point. (Almost 3)
@@Manckerdang bro but sometimes life is life and you gotta let it go if she’s taken my crush is friendzoned with me so I’m in a sticky situation
At this point I've realised that i can't make everyone like me, I used to think that way and it hurt me whenever someone didn't like me. Stop putting so much effort into making others like you, and start liking yourself more. Now my only problem is trying to love again, is there any way to help that?
Forgiveness helps with being able to love again. Either the "easy" kind of forgiving that other person who hurt you... OR the "harder" kind of forgiving yourself for falling into a pitfall of loving. It hurts to get hurt, and that should go without saying... no matter how the hurt comes, it's hard on us for the simple and laughable reason that we don't want those "mistakes"...
BUT to authentically Love again, you can't be stuck in the "blame" stage. AND not for nothing, here, but it's often ourselves that we have the WORST kind of patience for. It's often ourselves we hold some of the worst grudges against. Even to the degree that many of us (humans in general) lash out temperamentally at the rest of the world over our own displeasure with ourselves...
Anger is a "self preservation emotion"... It's often rooted in some kind of Fear. SO maybe if there's no one else there for you to be dwelling upon and angry about, deep down you resent yourself for a hurt you endured in the past.
That was a learning experience... a "life lesson" and they don't get easier as you go along. BUT you've learned and grown, and you can forgive yourself (or whoever)... That's okay, too. It's harder to do than it sounds... BUT it's do-able. ;o)
Pump and dump-
Why do i need to show my confidence? Why I need to pretend to be someone else? To make my crush like me? I rather want to be with someone who like me of who I am,what i'm doing and be my self all the time.
It's hard to ignore sometimes, my actions would maybe suggest that but if/when my mind doesn't follow suit, it can be a struggle to get over it
@c a m i thats so helpful
"Learn to play a musical instrument."
Me who can play a recorder: BRO LETS GO!!
Me, who can play a harmonica: LET'S GO, BOY!!
me who play guitar: *LET'S GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO BOIS!!!!!!!!!!*
me who can play ukulele and also a bit of piano but dropped it out just because i was not being a complete professional after a few months of learning: lets go lesbians!!!!!
me who can play the frickin MELODICA of all things:mashallah
My crush sits next to me for music lessons so erm 😅
Its working! The time machine is working!
We better leave our mark here before we go back to our time! Hi people of the future! :))
SAME
MY PEOPLE !!!!!!!
hiiii
we’ve cracked the code!
I did all this in college. Nobody cares if you're ugly. If anything you come across as annoying and tone deaf. I play guitar, I have a dog, I took the lead in every group project I was in, I can talk to anyone and people have told me I should try stand up comedy. But I'm still single, 26 years and counting. And cry myself to sleep every single night.
Meh... relationship seeking advice gets over-rated. I've made it to 45... AND single. It's not bad. I've got a motorcycle, and the balls to ride it... like two-days in the saddle for a hotel stop ride it.
If you're really crying yourself to sleep, then something needs to change... Either you can change your "hunting" style or you can change the "hunt". These are tips based on statistical models, and all scientific rigor aside, every statistical model has two parts... 1 The curve... and 2. The outliers...
It doesn't have to be depressing that you aren't coupled up by now... Nor is it wholly depressing that you might stay single. I know this ain't exactly the thing you want to hear or read... It's worth sharing though. I'm not half of a couple. I'm a single COMPLETE human being. If I get the likes of a life partner or S.O. or whatever, it can be great...
If I don't... I can be a complete man on my own, just fine, too.
Marriage may well be a fine thing and all, but if you're not a complete person before you get into a relationship, the relationship isn't going to magically complete you. That notion is as much hog-wash as sticking it out in an abusive relationship "for the sake of the children"... ;o)
You might need to adjust your preferences in a person to make it easier for yourself, even the ugliest people have been able to find their life partner at a certain age in the history of mankind, and they will continue to do so. I know this because I'm currently doing this myself and the people who confessed to me, or confessed their feelings about me to my friends, have been below my preferenfes and standards, physically and characteristically, for the most part
Try to adjust it and see what happens. If it still doesn't work out for you, then at least breaking the guiness world record for being single the longest would be a commited achievement
There are also tons of people that don't even own a pet but still managed to find a fiance. There are people who also never play a guitar in their life but still managed to get a fiance. All this video tells you is be rich then you automatically win your crush's heart because it is like telling you to own materialistic things. This basically does not teach us to be ourselves to get any crush to like us. I mean what if your crush have no interest in guitar? What if your crush prefers to live in a home with no pets?
Perfect, I have a date tomorrow, but when I said “see ya tomorrow” I was left on read. So I hope it goes well.
I wish you the best my good man
How did it go?
@@beef387 it went great. We laughed a lot and had so much fun. Thanks for asking.
@@Atlantis.account_no_name I'm so happy for you! I ship you two even though I don't know you 😂
@@Atlantis.account_no_name how are yall now?
I think one of the most important things is to be comfortable and make someone feel comfortable. The deep talks and the confidence will come by itself then dont force it.
"Your crush is more likely to like you back if ou have a pet"
Me who wants a pet and a girlfriend: stonks
I don't know why this is funny to me lol
same but boyfriend ☹️
You will get much further in life being interested in others than trying to get others interested in you
-Paraphrased from Dale Carnegie
I talked to my crush a while back and we laughed about the situation we were in and ever since he’s been talking to me more irl and he has been around when I’ve been joking around my friend so I hope it goes well for future me 👍
Hey YOU, incredible person reading this...The truth is you are confident and good enough already with who you are, where you are at and what you have right now to have the success you want in life. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn that skill and go after it! I believe in you so much! Have an awesome day! - Love, Nat ❤️
Thanks
I got a crush on your voice, but most importantly the value you bring on this channel. Thank you 🙌😄
1:29
I remember my crush played this amazing piano song and he was wearing A SUIT and I absolutely fell for him 😌💓💓
Ya know, I've had crushes before and not a single one noticed me or possibly thought that i was a romantic interests and I've been single for years and now seeing lovely couples nowadays quite literally wants to make me sit in corner and cry but then i remember i might still have a chance to finally fall in love. I've never been on a date, never gone out on said date, never had my first kiss, my first hand hold, not even a romantic sentimental moment. I hope one of these days the right woman comes into my life and hopefully gives me a small kitten because I'll love her forever if that happens to me.
With #2, I literally admitted to my crush way before this, and I can prove that this is indeed fact (for the most part), because before I told her, she showed no interest whatsoever, but after I told her, I noticed subtle things like the occasional stare at me. So take it from me, this mostly works. 👍
Umm I think the staring is because she thinks youre creepy tbh
I feel so cool rn. I have anew crush, my first impression was humor, we’ve been super confident towards eachother, and I play piano, she plays drums 😍🙏
"Have a sense of humor" I guess I can make someone laugh, but it's more on sarcastic or pun jokes.
"Show you like them" welp... I missed my chance by a longshot
"Learn to play an instruement" I guess. I stopped learning the violin many years ago and I wasn't even halfway... guess I can go back
"Own a pet" done. Except... one of them my dad made a guard dog, and the other is still maturing
"Show confidence" . . . that ship has sailed
"Choose deeper conversation" I'm less comfortabke talking deep to other people
"Be a leader" nope. Well... I guess back then I did help her in leading a group. Guess that's something.
ofcourse remember that if your perhaps shy or have anxiety (etc) and cant see yourself maybe saying jokes outloud, appearing more confident (etc) don’t change yourself for your crush!
love you psych2go!
Psy: "Be a leader"
Me: OK im done... There's no hope...
Psy: "You can Show it by teaching them"
Me who has taught my crush maths, chemistry and History often already:
Lol what
Wait- What-💀
Me, an introvert; watching this, knowing well that I don’t have a crush
I'm introverted too but I did have a crush back in middle school to sophomore year and you'd just know we had reciprocal interest towards eachother but I guess my body language made me not seem approachable bwahaha
I had a crush on a didi, but as didi was a didi, i had to reconsider my feelings for didi, thus didi remained a didi and i didn't had a crush ever after,
@@InfrequentOutrage sorry but that's kinda funny...(I mean the way you wrote it)
@@NRDM02 loll
Nah dont say sorry, it was made to be funny C:
@@InfrequentOutrage I thought it can hurt you... So, I just said sorry...
I really enjoyed this list and I believe it will prove it's use! But one thing, I have a SERIOUS problem trying to get to start a deep conversation, considering I feel like the change from a small talk to a deep one is way too quick and too dangerous. Do you guys have any tips for this? Thank you :))
Can't wait for the next video, Psych2Go!
Think about it like this
Anyone can talk to her about the weather
If you we’re hit by a bus right after you both talked
What memory do you want her to have of you ?
Would you want her to remember-your conversation about the weather ?
Or
Do you want her to remember about how you made her feel when you shared a deeper conversation about yourself?
The conversation doesn't really need to be super deep or philosophical, more of just something a little more thought provoking than "the weathers good today huh?" Asking them questions about themselves is a great way to start a semi-deep conversation. If its a person who I haven't talked to much before, I personally like to ask them what they enjoy doing, and then ask more questions about the subject matter. Hope this helps!
Go buy the game "we're not really strangers" and ask them to play - its so amazing *-*
Stay tuned!
"Here comes my crush, better pick up on my drumming lesson" 😂😂😂
Just be yourself and the right people will like you for who you are
me talking to my crush for more than a year straight, watching this video: 👁👄👁
"Own a pet"
I'll just bring my cactus plant with me, it will be fiiiiine
Fantastic video. It was a great distraction from thinking about how truly uninterested my crush is in me
As a guitar player, that music one really made me smile 🥰
2. If someone tells you that they like you, you would surely wonder why. Thus making you think of them more.
This just popped in my notifications and I swear you're reading my mind
I’m very thankful for this channel’s crush tip videos.. I now successfully have a non-binary spouse! I love them
Glad this helps :) Which tips do you find most helpful?
No. 6! 😊
I’ve told my friends that learning to play guitar would increase my chances, but they laughed it off. Little do they know literally every girl I asked agreed that a guy who knows guitar is more attractive than I guy who doesn’t. This video only proves my point further.
You're completely right. I have a huge crush on this boy in my guitar class. He looks gorgeous when he plays.
How can you get your crush to like you. It's either they are interested or not because no amount of effort could possibly make them like you.
Many people you come across will like while many won't.
you're a life saviour! Im with my crush now! THANK YOU!!1
I have no idea why, but this video makes me so happy! This is just what I need after a long Monday. A soothing video made by Psych2Go about a problem I’m facing rn lol 😁
I dont need anyone to like me nor would I change for the person I adore and that's ok someone will come in my hands eventually
They'd be lucky to have you
God is waiting for you to seek him out now th-cam.com/video/MGqCrbjH0pA/w-d-xo.html
@@kathyk5589 why would I do that lol
I always have a crush but no one ever have a crush on me 😂😂
My humour or body language sometimes suck but having an adorable fluffy doggo and playing piano kalimba and guitar types plus being an artist makes more chances :)
Number 2 is especially true and definitely stands out to me because, well I have done the exact same thing 8)
Honestly I've never really had any crushes at all through high school or whatever, maybe one time for for like a couple weeks and it quickly died. It wasn't that intense anyway. But the last few months, I've been speaking with loads of Japanese people on a language exchange app, and have been voice calling a few on Discord. Of them, two girls I've spoken to, who I genuinely did not have any feelings for at all initially, started showing signs of attraction, and were/are getting quite playful and flirty.
It's important to remember people will always want to be loved and appreciated, even subconsciously, everyone will be wanting that. Of course going in guns blazing with flirting and that might seem too tryhard, but once you get to know someone don't be afraid to pull things a little closer with small little jokes and playful banter/flirting. Once you turn on that lightbulb of "Maybe this person likes me?" in their head, that is now an outcome or decision that they have become aware of.
Just a guess, but I feel like if you are always FRIENDLY and not showing signs of like LIKING someone, you'll be in a place in their mind where going out with you never even crossed their mind because they only ever acknowledged and saw you as wanting to be a friend.
bruh every time I look at one of these videos I am like omg literally all of these tips that she is giving I already do and use them through my social interactions.
Can you please do how to rekindle a friendship?
And how to revive a dead friendship?
Yeah i need it
Yes, that's a good topic!
I don't even need this video as of now, but knowing about that second fact will motivate me to confess anytime I have feelings in the future.
It's true that it's good to actually show them you like them and to show openness. I don't think one girl that has approached me has been open about things. It has pretty much always been distant, discreet, or prompting of *me* to actually do the thing they're trying to do, and if I don't, they just end up not doing it themselves. It would hit me like a truck if one of them had actually full-stop done the thing, and I wouldn't have been able to help thinking about them a lot. x)
should i ask him out? we call a lot, text every day, our siblings are close , we always send goodnight and good morning text and always comfort each other
idk what do u think
It sounds pretty safe. For how long have you been friends with him, if you don't mind me asking?
@@antonio.3432 sorry for not replying but for like 3 months
Yes
one time with my crush. we sit on the bench, she said that she is cold. so i said as a joke: take my hand you won't be cold anymore. AND SHE DID
We ALL have a crush on the narrators voice 💜
My crush is one of my closest friends... and my best friend is her cousin, and my pastor is her dad, and my youth leader is her uncle, and one of my other closest friends is also her cousin, and my teacher is her mom, and my camp director is also her uncle, and... yeah, basically all the people I'm close to are closely related to her. You can probably understand why I'm a bit more nervous of rejection.
Really love your tips on all of the subjects
yes that would be intresting
i’m sorry but you can’t get out of the friendzone
i’m glad i found this
even if he already knows me and says “hey [my name]” everytime i pass by him
“Show confidence”
I think what’s nice here is that she didn’t say “BE confident”
Confidence isn’t easy to build up unless you, along with other people believe in you
I got a "Date" tomorrow and this just showed up
you're a savior lmao
I own a dog, and I do play instruments like guitar, but I can't even see my crush's eyes.
Yesterday, he saw me multiple times in campus when we were attend our courses at the same class, but I was so shy and I didn't know how to react when he walks passed me.
I don't even gave him some friendly smile even though we'd met two weeks ago. At that time, he was smiled at me and then asked me something like,
" Owh, so you just arrived?"
I said, " Yes, I have second courses, "
Then surprisingly, he encouraged me with hand gestures "✊" as saying,
" Okay, break a leg! "
DAMN! I WAS SO HAPPY THAT TIME!
Feels like in cloud nine 😩
But yesterday, when he seems like he wants to greeting me, I tend to ignore his presence so he just walked passed me and we didn't say hello to each other at all😔
I lowkey know his social media. Everytime I see it feels like I wanna tap that " Follow " button in order to make friends.
But after that awkward situation, I made up my mind 🙂
Kinda curious about what kind of reaction he has if I follow him, but I guess I'm not gonna do anything for now.
Just go for it
With the second one, this is true. I never really noticed my (new) crush, but after i heard that he likes me by his friends, i began to notice him alot more and pay more attention to him. I noticed how funny he was.
How the hell am i supposed to start a deep convo when we don’t even know eachother that well
Sense of humor as number one right off the bat and the sense of leadership as the last tip - now I wonder why I feel closer to my crush than before XD
The thing is I'm humorless,shy, scared of animals, not at all confident and to make things worse I've social anxiety
Tried all of these things before by having a conversation with them and telling them about your feelings for your crush only to be crushed by them saying they are not interested in you.
Funny thing-I actually used to hate the guy but I’ve found myself crushing on him all year 😭
I have this crush and I’ve liked him for almost a year we’ve had many weird interactions like he drank out my cup and said it taste better now and then we went to the movies together and we also went on this trip for school and we kept messing around with eachother I’ve told him I like him and I’ve asked him out but idk he said he doesn’t know what he wants
I'm An Introvert, I Cannot Talk To People Properly
Took Me 1 Year To Finally Be Able To Talk To My School Friend
Have Been Friend For 2 Years Now
Also, It Is Especially Hard To Talk To Girls, Not Just My Crush
I Don't Know What To Say At All To Her
Oof i know exactly how you feel
All the crushes I had rejected me. But if I ever have one again I will keep this in mind. Maby I should stop being negative. That Proboly annoys y'all.
i was literally waiting of this
These tips would help me in another world, where I am not afraid of confronting people......
I watched this as if my “crush” and I haven’t confessed our feelings for each other, and say we love each other all the time. Hahahaha, but distance is hard so we’re holding out from making things official.
I hadn't thought asking someone I have interest in to bring a friend if we'd visit each other increased odds, I thought it was just something I'd do as an introvert to encourage conversation
2:09 own a pet
Me: *named my pet after him*
I really like one girl since week. I saw her visially just 2-3 times in 3 years, but I always remember her face and body.
She`s 16 and I`m 18. She`s so cute and beautiful, I`m unattractive and embarrassed. Knowing I will leave school in just few months without telling her I like her is so depressing, because I will NEVER see her anymore. She probadly doesn`t know me and I don`t know her, but her vision makes me dream that we`re happy couple. But this will be left as just a dream. 😭😔
My crush who looking for someone who are very pretty:
🙂that's not me
Have confidence bud 😌✨
he sounds like a right jerk
Doesn’t deserve your inner beauty then
Been pretty doesn't matter to me looks don't define a beutiful heart
@@ameerah2959 thanks🤗
“Having a pet will make you more attractive”. Yes, those guppies will finally come to use!
someone help me, I really dk what to do ahead, so me and my crush had been classmates like a few years ago and like never really talked to each other, but this year he shifted in another college but somehow I managed to become his insta friends skejjs and he remembered me so now I only talk to him there, usually I'm the one to start a convo, it's been only like 2-3 months we've been talking like this and he does love small talks, but usually whenever I talk to him, I bring his topic of interest, so he then has a lot to talk about lmao and we did have kinda deep conversations you could say ? but they weren't about ourselves, just world. but yes he's really kind, very polite. from the tips, firstly I can't have a physical interaction with him as we don't even live near so but for now my aim is to be just his friend, not just a friend, but a close friend, I've always given him enough of hints/signs of me liking him and I'm pretty sure he knows at this point, but I don't wanna confess just yet coz then it'll be a state of awkwardness and possible rejection, so I want to give him all the time he requires, to know me well enough, to trust me (most important) and then only I can think about it, so our current state is just of a friendship and he's not completely open to me yet but I really hope he does!!
also he does play keyboard aah and sings as well and is amazing in art, I do sing but I don't know to play any instrument but yes I really wanna learn so maybe someday~
but other than all that, I wish for him to like me for the person I am, I don't wanna change myself and be my own self and I want him to accept me the way I am :)
Hmm I know somebody with 100% percent confidence and boy, it worked out well for them 😆
this video is a keeper this helped me get my best friend to be my girlfriend she is so sweet and loving and she always wants to go in the bed for cuddles 🥴
My Humor is Good to Me Some Other People Probably Would Think It's Shit but I'm Fine with My Humor. I'm proud of it infact.
Praying that everyone falls asleep quickly and has a peaceful sleep. Hope you all wake up happy and well rested 😜😜😜😜
You too
dawg i just dreamed about my crush and i was so upset when i woke up cuz i realized it wasnt real😭😭
u too many
well i actually don't use any tips just go tell them i like them and they start to like me back lol
but hope u guys be happy with the one u love, love u all♡
Her: Learn to play a instrument
Me: Goes in a music school with my crush
I'm not a funny person, no matter how much I try, I'm not spontaneous and goffy. I admire that people, they get a lot of romantic attention
in 2:22 there was a mistake, you said "2018" but the animation wrote "2008". Im not sure which one is real, but I hope I helped :)
Let's see what I have to work in.
Having a sense of humor: I do from time to time
Show you like them: Well, I don't show I dislike him-
Learn to play a musical instrument: Yasss, I love you piano
Thank you so much! These tips are really helpful and I needed some help with this.
the worst feeling is when your crush likes your bsf. MY BSF IS LITERALLY SO FRICKIN PERFECT 😢
me with no crush: Interesting
I gave my crush candy before halloween and since then he’s been staring at me (especially when I’m not looking) and he talks about me with his friends, like I said he stares at me the most when I’m not looking. I have a few classes with him, and I was arriving in one class. I turned around to do something and when I turned back I caught him staring at me but he completely looked away quickly once I turned. He ignores me when I’m near him but when I’m far in the distance or when I’m not looking at his direction he stares at me. I think he does that because he doesn’t want me to think that he’s weird for staring at me. But I have no problem with it but he doesn’t know that….
How to tell him i like him when we haven't talked to each other yet🚶🏻♀️💔
This video came at the right time for me as I have a crush right now, but I don't know how much use it will do me as I live on the other side of the planet of her
To the *worthwhile person* seeing this, your dream is not dead. Don’t allow the past and current pains and hurts stop and define you. You’re more than a conqueror. Rise up and put yourself together. Keep pushing your future depends on it. I wish you all the best in life ❤️.
aw ty
@@creationfied You welcome 🙏🏾.
OH THANK GOD JUST IN TIME! THANK U GOD FOR ANSWERING MY PRAYERS! 😭💗
This is really helping, thank you so much! :D
Glad to hear!
Sense of humor: Yes
Show you like her: Yes
Play musical instrument: Yes, just harmonica :'D
Own a pet: Yes
Show confidence: Yes, but no
Deep conversation: Always has been
Be a leader: Oh, hell no! **heavily sweating*
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