"We fear rejection, want attention, crave affection and dream of perfection. We should no longer expend energy for meaningless friendships, forced interactions or unnecessary conversations. Do not wish to impress. Wish to Inspire" - Buzz Lightyear
@@christianv-h3278 becase you were to young to understand kids don t understand what buzz lightyear says their little brains arent developed enough, but kids are cute i want to be a daddy one day.
@@Baraodojaguary 100% agree. To be honest, compare me watching Wall-E when I'm a kid and rewatching it a decade later... I actually appreciate the film more these days than I did when I was younger.
Same here, I've said "i like you" yesterday (valentine) then he said "i know" after telling him i like him i feel like Im gonna explode. I always stare( not in a creepy way ) at him, if we exchange glances i would smile and somehow wave my hand. Now that i think about it, do they like me? Or maybe they don't like me. Pray for me please i really want to be with him...
The animations keep getting cuter and cuter 💜 I also agree with showing them your skills. It could be a way to bond and allow them to get to know you better ☺️
Step 1: don't be afraid to meet their gaze My social anxiety: oh I don't think so! Also, everyone I've ever developed feelings for is already dating somebody.🙃
6 sure-fire ways to get your crush to notice you ✨ 0:30 Don't be afraid to meet their gaze 😃 1:23 Take baby steps 🐾 1:58 Show them your talents and skills 👁️ 2:27 Show off who you really are- in actions and style 🤌🏻 3:02 Use open body language to seem approachable 😌 3:41 Show them you care and get to know them 😏 hope this helps!
Used to happen to me all the time. I think it's when Your body shuts down (sleeping) while your mind wakes up/super aware. I reckon it's best to stay calm and go back to sleep 🥴.
Lol whenever I feel sleep paralysis come on I just meditate, focus on my breathing and then bring awareness to my hand and reach up. Snaps me out of it fairly effectively.
Humans: “OMG MY CRUSH!!!! I MUST get them to notice me!!!!” *_proceeds to do everything in their power to make sure they’re completely invisible_* There’s only one thing you need to know to get ur crush to notice you. *Don’t be scared.* How can you get in a relationship with them if you can’t even say hello? Just say hi! Don’t even think about how pretty they are. Just get to know them and be friendly. And don’t force anything. Let the friendship (and if you’re lucky, the romance) come naturally, because otherwise it simply isn’t worth the investment. Also be patient. You’re gonna have to wait a while but it’ll happen eventually. (From me: a guy still in high school who has never dated)
I don't want my crush to notice me lol, I'm just like you.... I've never dated and I'm high school... but anyways Thanks for the advice Oh and I think my crush has a girl friend 🤷♀️, meh I'll get over him.
I’ll give an update tomorrow. My shift got cut today. I’m hella nervous just thinking about it. Bit more nervous seeing as I just got out of a 6 year relationship in December. Just the thought of potentially dating someone who doesn’t know anything about me, besides what little she knows of me from work. Don’t know if that’s a good thing or a bad thing.
For me, it'd be more like "6 sure-fire ways to overthink more about what should I do when I'm near my crush" But srsly, you produce such decent videos, everything's just lovely.
0:30 Don't be afraid to meet their gaze 1:23 Take baby steps 1:58 Show them your talents and skills 2:27 Show off who you really are- in actions and style 3:02 Use open body language to seem approachable 3:41 Show them you care and get to know them
It's not a laughing matter,your afraid to make a daunting move,don't be shy,communication is needed for you to show interest,your personality and body language should be interesting,if you don't care,you won't be that popular,if they sense you playing mind games, you'll be labelled a narcissist ❌🚩💲✔️💥
Funny thing is- I already did all these steps when I’m with my crush :D 1. I’ve met their gaze a couple of times 2. And since I not afraid to approach my crush- taking the baby steps we’re easy ✨ 3. Of course I would show them my talents and skills- 4. I usually do this when I first meet someone soo yeh 5.I never knew that crossing your arms weren’t open body language but I usually never cross my arms so I guess I’m using open body language 6. I of course I did this! This is kinda the most important part because yeah you wanna get to know them and stuff but you have to try and show that you actually care about them. And guess what? Ding ding! I confessed to my crush and they liked me back 😀 (ps. Good luck to all the ppl who want their crush to notice you! I believe in you!
@@Je11keng I met my crush uhh ok when I first saw them I actually bullied them hehe.. I feel really bad for doing it. But uhh we met again a year later and I actually was crying because of personal reasons and they started comforting me and that’s how technically we met :>
Even tho u have hacker issues, you still manage to ensure that we get a new video to help us out, the amount of effort you put is amazing! Keep doing what u love! Much love!
*6 Sure-fire Ways to Get Your Crush to Notice You* 1. Don't be afraid to meet their gaze - 0:30 2. Take some baby steps - 0:23 3. Show them your talent & skills - 1:57 4. Show off who you really are, in actions and style - 2:29 5 . Use open body language to seem approachable - 3:05 6. Show them you care & get to know them - 3:43
*Summry* 1. Don't afraid to meet their gaze 2. Take some baby steps 3. Show them your talent & skills 4. Show off who you actually are_ in action & style 5. Use open body language to seem appochable 6. Show them you care & get to know them Thank you🌸🌸
My crush knows I exist, it’s just I’m not important so I’m pretty sure they don’t care. Not trying to assume. But every time we are near each other I tense up. It’s like weird, sometimes I feel like a connection, like they know something is up with me.
Just get shy.. especially when I like you😊.. plus it's not all that easy for me to put it out there.. I enjoy every single thing you talk about..not only that..I can feel you..a lot.. I like that too..a lot.. Your easy to listen to..it's actually comforting to hear all you talk about..your delivery is amazing to me .
I always thought the goal of being outside your home was to not be noticed nor notice anybody else. Eyes straight ahead, blank expression, talk as minimally as possible, is the way I enter the world. I want nobody to notice me.
@@galah8893 It assures safety. The flashiest, most social people will always be the first victim of a criminal looking for prey. If never noticed, I will never fall victim to a criminal, nor a social predator, ever again. This method has worked flawlessly since 2000. Even the clothing I wear is as bland as possible, with absolutely no kind of writing, nor pictures on it. The safety, independence, self-reliance, and freedom, I have by having nobody in my life, is worth any price.
@@indridcold8433 i agree with you. The way you reasoned why you are the way you are is really impressive. I've never thought of it that way. I also just want to keep it to myself. Only because sometimes it's too tiring to deal with people, with all the misunderstandings and drama, i don't wanna waste my energy on that.
@@thedrogba246 You do not know the unequalled freedom, independence, self-reliance, fulfillment, that a solitary life gives. There is no way anybody that depends on being part of the social herd can have the incredible life I have. It is nearly magical! It is so free, It is also incredibly affordable. There is no kind of peer pressure, any need to fit in, nor any need to think of what to say in a, conversation. All of that means nothing if one is alone and truly free. A small example is, I have a 550 gallon aquarium in my living room, right in the middle. I do not have to conform to any home arrangement standards because I live completely alone. In my dinning room, I have a workshop to rebuild engines in the absolutely cleanest shop I anybody can ever do mechanical work. My bedroom is nothing but a giant place to sleep anywhere in it. It is a giant padded room made with official padded room materials. The second bedroom is a huge walk in closet. The third bedroom is now a formal dining room for me. The fourth bedroom is an enormous pantry. The fifth bedroom is converted to a generating room in case power is interrupted in the rural area I reside. The kitchen has four refrigerators, four freezers, the two and a half detached garage is a mini parts warehouse with parts all catagorised and arranged. The attached garage really is for my vehicle. But that was not out of pressure to conform. It just works fine. Give this life a try. You may find it to your favour.
1. Don't be afraid to meet their gaze 0:30 2. Take some baby steps 1:25 3. Show them your talent and skills 1:59 4. Show off who you really are -in actions and style 2:28 5. Use open body language to seem approachable 3:03 6. Show them you care and get to know them 3:43 Hope it helps ♥️
Tbh whenever I feel bad or having a bad day I watch your videos bcz they are so soothing and relaxing and after that I feel good your voice is so attractive and pleasant
One thing I can proudly say is that I'm not afraid to look into my crush eyes and make eye contact and give a smile, I always try to do something like raise eyebrows and smiling and saying hi. Idk whether it works but I try
i will try the next days to talk to him, questions like "which is your next class?" or "is the teacher coming?" and then I'll try to ask him 1-2 questions. When i see him in the hallways i ALWAYS look deeply in his eyes, its not hard at all, and he always breaks eye-contact and looks down, and when i look at him, i catch him staring at me
@@bradleyma4529 thank you bro. No need to feel jealous. Sometimes there are certain people who aren’t meant for you but trust me. Your soulmate is on their way to you
i wonder when can i find someone to reciprocate the feelings cuz in my case its always one sided now i am more afraid to open up i hope you have a good day sis
@@urdelulufriendrd When I looked for love it always seemed one sided. Not until I stopped looking for it that I found it in my best friend. I hop you have a good day as well :)
the funny thing about love/like/etc the best happens when you dont look for it... i like a guy (only a minor crush) but i came up with a few conversation topics... 2 weeks later (i forgot about the notes, maybe because i was just excited to see him) and we talked for two hrs, really diving in emotionally. I didn't plan for it, it just happened naturally. few days later i came across my notes...we talked about stuff way better than his bday, dog, etc and the best part is i also have that info over time. he doesnt like me back, but he damn sure taught me a lot compared to my other shallow crushes. this crush allowed me to grow and find what it really means to like a person. because through this, unknowingly i started to like him more throughout the conversation. in the beginning, I had a feeling i liked him. So i wanted to get to know more...and I did so now im in a beautiful friendship and a slight unrequited love :)
I really like the way you talk, it gives me an Instant motivation. Your speaking skills are really good. Thanks for all your advices. Would you be doing all this with facecam someday?
Meeting my crushes gaze is something I am working on, everytime I see her where she works I always make sure my head is up and I'm standing straight and one thing I do is wave and smile when I see her, just need to hold my gaze with her for 1 second longer. She always smiles back and we've been talking for quite a bit and I finally got to asking her out for coffee - which she said yes that would be really lovely! Now just need to set a date, I gave her my number but in hindsight the paper I gave it to her on was a little small and easily lost so gonna arrange a date next time I see her. But the fact she said yes is a huge confidence boost and a sign things are going well.
@@MYSTERIOUSasLOVE it didn't even happen in the end she never made any effort to set a date despite my best efforts. So it ended as quickly as it began. I don't think she even meant it when she said yes.
2:16 I do some amount of standup comedy in my tuition, yes, i have a crush there. but this thing just coincidently hit me right in the gut, ofc in a positive way, your vids are awesome!!
Could you maybe do something on how to relief stress? I’ve been so stressed about high school this upcoming year and I’ve been having bad dreams for a month straight 😢
See, the thing is, my crush knows I exist because, well, we’ve been friends for 10 years. The only problem is he is blind as heck and can’t pick up on the hints-
This channel has helped me so much. I remember one time when I was in primary school and I actually fell in love with a girl but then she left the school so that was sad. AND I AM NO-LONGER AFRAID TO APPROACH ANY WOMAN!
6 Sure-fire Ways to Get Your Crush to Notice You 1) Don't be afraid to meet their gaze! 2) Take some baby steps! 3) Show them your talent & skills! 4) Show off who you really are in your actions or style! 5)Use open body language to seem approachable! 6)Show them your care& get to know them! Let's do it
1. Don’t be afraid to meet their gaze. 2. Take some baby steps. 3. Show them your talent and skills. 4. Show off who you really are - in actions and style. 5. Use open body language to seem approachable. 6. Show them that you care and get to know them.
all the tips that i hear in videos of ways to get your crush to notice you or be attracted to you are great but like i'm too shy to talk to my crushes sadly
At lunch on March 15th, my crush finally noticed that I sit a table infront of her and she said “[My name]!” I waved back. Then she did the tik tok heart thing with her middle finger and index finger, the index and thumb heart but with her middle finger and index finger. At that point I’m in cardiac arrest basically, idk if that half heart was towards me and if I was supposed to do the other half. This is the first time a girl has liked me 😭
I think I already got my crush's attetion. Even if he just knows me by seeing me at school. I also don't know if he's noticing me because he's interested or if it's just because I'm a nosy ass person when I'm around my friends. I hope he doesn't think I'm annoying. Actually, I found out that he's walking through the local park next to my school when school's out, so I may or may not have changed my way home and also walk through that park in order to just enjoy the view 💆 But since winter vacation came to an end, he never really walked through that park after school. Idk if he found out he lowkey has a stalker and thinks I'm a total creep. So...I don't really want him to notice me. It would be nice but it's okay for me to just look at him. That alone makes me really happy. As long as he's fine and I can see it, I'm fine with the situation.
@@bradleyma4529 Haha thanks. I totally forgot this comment existed. I already confessed to him and he rejected me but in a very nice way actually. So I'm over it and that's okay. But thank you for your answer :))
I could have needed this video 6 months ago but now that that opportunity with that person has (most likely) passed, I can use it for the current one. Well... sadly the one beforehand was stronger than this one. Or at least I'm still hanging onto the last one so it's hard to move on. Non of my crushes ever involved into relationships, but losing the ability to see them daily, from afar, is painful. Moving does that. Starting over with a new person as the new student is also not easy. I appreciate the video though, I hope this'll help me.
I think he already knows. A lil may be. Idk. I am very nervous around him. I love him and his presence. I will show my doodling skills may be. Or I can make him something or show him a poem that I wrote about him. Last one is kind of scary. Hehe. I showed him that I care. Idk whether he noticed or not. I attentively listened to what he was telling. Everytime. Hope to continue it. Wish me luck guys.🙌🏼💕 I guess that I know why Psych2goers crossed the road. Because we all introverts( mostly) are united here to watch these videos and we are kinda shy and we really don't know how to approach someone. (The other side)Atleast it is the situation for me. I am an INFJ. I have had many crushes, but I have never dated someone cus I am a very nervous person. So Thankyou very muchh. This means a lot.
"maybe they'll be impressed by your sketches or your fluency in french" I ALWAYS DRAW WHEN HES AROUND AND WE ARE IN THE SAME FRENCH CLASS YOU SILLY LITTLE MINDREADER
Even if I did have a crush, how would I do any of this? I'm socially awkward at least if not totally inept with shades of autistic. So no eye-contact for me. (although there once was this one girl that kept looking at me frequently. But there was no romantic tension. At least none that I could've noticed) I also have no talents or skills to show off. How should I incorporate this into a normal situation anyways? Should I start juggling all of a sudden? Also, I don't even know, who I am or what defines me. How can/should I act then? How do you do something 'in your own way'? How do you 'show who you are'? Regarding body language, I try to be open, but crossed arms are just so comfortable. And I don't know what to do with them anyway. For the last point, how do you 'care'? And how do you show this? Further problems/questions: How do you open up to someone? How do you trust someone? What do you talk about? Especially after a few times. At some point, the amount of topics has to run out, doesn't it? Why did I cross the road? Probably to run away from people...
I’m going to meet up with a guy I’ve been crushing on for a few months. He works for my acupuncturist and is his brother in law. He’s extremely kind and sweet and adorable, I shake and my heart races when I see him but I only see him every two weeks and at the clinic. Until I told my acupuncturist I’m learning Korean and he gave my crush my number. We’re going to teach each other our languages and I’m super excited and nervous and scared all at the same time. It’s no more than a friendly hang out right now, but the potential for more makes me giddy and anxious. I hope everything goes smoothly 🙏🙏
I can't even look at their eyes, because I'm so insecure that I'm gashligting myself saying that their too popular, their too good looking to talk to. As if I'm making myself negative, lowering my confidence. It must been so easy to give up, I wanted to take the step to him but its just felt like I excuse myself every time I SEE him and can't even look at his eyes. Sometimes I think that I should give up but sometimes it'll be a waste of opportunity to get to know them. I DO can ask them the little topics I mean they are plenty of TOPICS out there. I'm gashlighting myself that he has already a girlfriend. His like a introvert but one time I saw him he comes close to us(with my friends) he seems to know that I have a crush on him. Since my close friends been coughing while his near huhu.. But sometimes I become a tomato so it makes me flustered everytime I see him. I scroll allot through on tiktok to find some advices and sometimes its making me I have no chance for him. Everytime I remember what he did that time he walks behind me THREE times my friend told me. Its giving me a chance to talk to them get to know. And here I am afraid to make a move to become friends or to talk to. I'll think is, it'll fail, they'll laugh on me., they'll make fun of me. And whenever I look at him the surroundings are like blur like there's no one there except him. He looks intimidating to look at so that's why I can't talk go and approach I'm SCARED of being judged. But I wanted his attention, that day his the one to adjust coming up closer but I'm the one who's thinking a misunderstanding and me myself I avoid him and thinking he ISN'T here but my reactions and actions are obvious. I'm quite concern.. I want to talk to him and get to know but its easy to imagine and by doing it, its difficult. When I see him I probably freeze and don't know what to talk about. Firstly I need to have to myself. Is SELF CONFIDENCE. And I keep avoiding rejection and failure. To think that I'm not enough IS BRINGING ME DOWN, loosing the chances. It's so easy to think of a situation and yet if you are in the situation as if I'm freeze. I need SELF CONFIDENT.
Well I don’t try to be something I’m not feeling at the moment. For instance I don’t feel like smiling all the time due to a painful condition I passed by. He knows that and likes me with or without that. And that’s how he started liking me as well If sbd has communication,chemistry u don’t need any of those. We always feel who understands us and who doesnt
This is starting to get unbearable im 28 years old and i've never had a girlfriend I'm lacking the physical touch and emotional connection to someone. There is a girl out of my league but i cant stop thinking about her, i dont't know where to start. These videos are giving me a slight glimps of hope. There is so much work to do.
"We fear rejection, want attention, crave affection and dream of perfection. We should no longer expend energy for meaningless friendships, forced interactions or unnecessary conversations. Do not wish to impress. Wish to Inspire" - Buzz Lightyear
Why is it only years later that we realise our favourite childhood movies were packed with such beautiful wisdom?
Wow. this.
I ain’t scared of rejection mate
@@christianv-h3278 becase you were to young to understand kids don t understand what buzz lightyear says their little brains arent developed enough, but kids are cute i want to be a daddy one day.
@@Baraodojaguary 100% agree. To be honest, compare me watching Wall-E when I'm a kid and rewatching it a decade later... I actually appreciate the film more these days than I did when I was younger.
We exchange glances but I always feel creepy coz he's probably like "damn she's looking again 🙄🙄"
How did you meet your crush?
Same bro
Same here, I've said "i like you" yesterday (valentine) then he said "i know" after telling him i like him i feel like Im gonna explode. I always stare( not in a creepy way ) at him, if we exchange glances i would smile and somehow wave my hand. Now that i think about it, do they like me? Or maybe they don't like me.
Pray for me please i really want to be with him...
Same I feel like he knows I like him and anytime he sees me he'll be like "Oh that creepy stalker girl again 😐😮💨🤢"
@@cyclelilly3586 lol same 😅 especially cuz he’s a smart one and for some reason I feel like he done figured it out 💀
The animations keep getting cuter and cuter 💜 I also agree with showing them your skills. It could be a way to bond and allow them to get to know you better ☺️
I think that they have different animators to work with them
@Talibland I need help on getting my crush to notice me
Step 1: don't be afraid to meet their gaze
My social anxiety: oh I don't think so!
Also, everyone I've ever developed feelings for is already dating somebody.🙃
I know amd specifically cause I know So much energy is transferred when humans meet eyes 😭
I can relate, it happened to me more than twice
Frr like who tf do y’all think I am I ain’t abt to be doin that ☠️☠️
fuq the social anxiety
and WHY
do i keep getting adrenaline rushes when i see him? aaaaaaaaaaaaaa
What about now
6 sure-fire ways to get your crush to notice you ✨
0:30 Don't be afraid to meet their gaze 😃
1:23 Take baby steps 🐾
1:58 Show them your talents and skills 👁️
2:27 Show off who you really are- in actions and style 🤌🏻
3:02 Use open body language to seem approachable 😌
3:41 Show them you care and get to know them 😏
hope this helps!
Tysm!
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Bruh I can’t even talk to people I like 😭
Tysm and I did all of this and found out he likes me back:D
@@ctrlqae when your crush sits in front of you and talks to you at least twice every hour 😃
Can you please do something on sleep paralysis? I just had one of my scariest cases and it'd be a big relief💘
I couldnt sleep for a few days after my first sleep paralysis scary stuff
Used to happen to me all the time. I think it's when Your body shuts down (sleeping) while your mind wakes up/super aware. I reckon it's best to stay calm and go back to sleep 🥴.
Lol whenever I feel sleep paralysis come on I just meditate, focus on my breathing and then bring awareness to my hand and reach up. Snaps me out of it fairly effectively.
@@Rob-lv3rj sounds like a good idea.
@@poavao6832 you are providing a good point
Humans: “OMG MY CRUSH!!!! I MUST get them to notice me!!!!”
*_proceeds to do everything in their power to make sure they’re completely invisible_*
There’s only one thing you need to know to get ur crush to notice you. *Don’t be scared.* How can you get in a relationship with them if you can’t even say hello?
Just say hi! Don’t even think about how pretty they are. Just get to know them and be friendly. And don’t force anything. Let the friendship (and if you’re lucky, the romance) come naturally, because otherwise it simply isn’t worth the investment.
Also be patient. You’re gonna have to wait a while but it’ll happen eventually.
(From me: a guy still in high school who has never dated)
Hey just another guy who has never dated and is still in high school here... Just wanna say good luck
Same
I agree man, I tried this and it is worth it. Thanks fellow high school student.
Similar, middle school, first crush gonna see her tmr
I don't want my crush to notice me lol, I'm just like you.... I've never dated and I'm high school... but anyways Thanks for the advice
Oh and I think my crush has a girl friend 🤷♀️, meh I'll get over him.
I’m for sure gonna try a couple of these steps tomorrow at work, with a girl I’ve been trying to talk to for a few weeks now. Wish me luck ✌🏽
Keep us on update! Good luck😊
You got this bro!
update?
I’ll give an update tomorrow. My shift got cut today. I’m hella nervous just thinking about it. Bit more nervous seeing as I just got out of a 6 year relationship in December. Just the thought of potentially dating someone who doesn’t know anything about me, besides what little she knows of me from work. Don’t know if that’s a good thing or a bad thing.
@@mellowmedia98 Try not to overthink about it. Remember she is another human being like you and the worst that can happen is an awkward convo.
For me, it'd be more like "6 sure-fire ways to overthink more about what should I do when I'm near my crush"
But srsly, you produce such decent videos, everything's just lovely.
Shared interests was a huge thing in my relationship we both loved historial fashion ! and we developed a deeper bond because of it !
OH MY GOD THATS ADORABLE
0:30 Don't be afraid to meet their gaze
1:23 Take baby steps
1:58 Show them your talents and skills
2:27 Show off who you really are- in actions and style
3:02 Use open body language to seem approachable
3:41 Show them you care and get to know them
It's not a laughing matter,your afraid to make a daunting move,don't be shy,communication is needed for you to show interest,your personality and body language should be interesting,if you don't care,you won't be that popular,if they sense you playing mind games, you'll be labelled a narcissist ❌🚩💲✔️💥
@Talibland youre so brave!! keep going
Imagine your crush has a crush on you and is watching the same video as you at the same time
Keep Imagining
💀
This has single handedly quadrupled my social anxiety
Funny thing is- I already did all these steps when I’m with my crush :D
1. I’ve met their gaze a couple of times
2. And since I not afraid to approach my crush- taking the baby steps we’re easy ✨
3. Of course I would show them my talents and skills-
4. I usually do this when I first meet someone soo yeh
5.I never knew that crossing your arms weren’t open body language but I usually never cross my arms so I guess I’m using open body language
6. I of course I did this! This is kinda the most important part because yeah you wanna get to know them and stuff but you have to try and show that you actually care about them.
And guess what? Ding ding! I confessed to my crush and they liked me back 😀 (ps. Good luck to all the ppl who want their crush to notice you! I believe in you!
Ty so much! 🙏🙏🙏❤
May I ask how you met your crush?
@@Je11keng I met my crush uhh ok when I first saw them I actually bullied them hehe.. I feel really bad for doing it. But uhh we met again a year later and I actually was crying because of personal reasons and they started comforting me and that’s how technically we met :>
@@dango4155 oh wow, that sounds interesting lol! Cool! For me, I just saw this cute boy at school!
@@dango4155 what's their name ?
finally, the video we needed! ive been crushing on this guy for months and havent even been able to talk to him. thanks you ❤️ youre a life saver
Glad to help!! Which tips will you be using?
@@Psych2go same here! He's so cute!.
Even tho u have hacker issues, you still manage to ensure that we get a new video to help us out, the amount of effort you put is amazing! Keep doing what u love! Much love!
*6 Sure-fire Ways to Get Your Crush to Notice You*
1. Don't be afraid to meet their gaze - 0:30
2. Take some baby steps - 0:23
3. Show them your talent & skills - 1:57
4. Show off who you really are, in actions and style - 2:29
5 . Use open body language to seem approachable - 3:05
6. Show them you care & get to know them - 3:43
*Summry*
1. Don't afraid to meet their gaze
2. Take some baby steps
3. Show them your talent & skills
4. Show off who you actually are_ in action & style
5. Use open body language to seem appochable
6. Show them you care & get to know them
Thank you🌸🌸
My crush knows I exist, it’s just I’m not important so I’m pretty sure they don’t care. Not trying to assume. But every time we are near each other I tense up. It’s like weird, sometimes I feel like a connection, like they know something is up with me.
I don't think my crush knows I exist, I'm pretty sure. Want him to notice me so bad ugh
I’m so cared to talk to him but I keep eyeing him looking at me in the hallway and then when I catch him looking he blushes
Bro I do this and come off as weird, creepy, or obsessed 💀
bro i have NEVER approached anyone before and this is my worst fear
IKRRRRR
if youre a woman its ok because they're allowed to do that. men are not.
FACTS
If you are a girl, us boys just think that it’s fine and it’s not weird. Hope this helps
Also, the animation and drawings just keep on being waaaaaaaay cuter!!!!! Keep up the AWESOME work!💪🫂🫂🫂💋
Just get shy.. especially when I like you😊.. plus it's not all that easy for me to put it out there..
I enjoy every single thing you talk about..not only that..I can feel you..a lot.. I like that too..a lot..
Your easy to listen to..it's actually comforting to hear all you talk about..your delivery is amazing to me .
I always thought the goal of being outside your home was to not be noticed nor notice anybody else. Eyes straight ahead, blank expression, talk as minimally as possible, is the way I enter the world. I want nobody to notice me.
aww
thats sad
@@galah8893 It assures safety. The flashiest, most social people will always be the first victim of a criminal looking for prey. If never noticed, I will never fall victim to a criminal, nor a social predator, ever again. This method has worked flawlessly since 2000. Even the clothing I wear is as bland as possible, with absolutely no kind of writing, nor pictures on it. The safety, independence, self-reliance, and freedom, I have by having nobody in my life, is worth any price.
@@indridcold8433 i agree with you. The way you reasoned why you are the way you are is really impressive. I've never thought of it that way. I also just want to keep it to myself. Only because sometimes it's too tiring to deal with people, with all the misunderstandings and drama, i don't wanna waste my energy on that.
@@indridcold8433 That's a pretty sad life
@@thedrogba246 You do not know the unequalled freedom, independence, self-reliance, fulfillment, that a solitary life gives. There is no way anybody that depends on being part of the social herd can have the incredible life I have. It is nearly magical! It is so free, It is also incredibly affordable. There is no kind of peer pressure, any need to fit in, nor any need to think of what to say in a, conversation. All of that means nothing if one is alone and truly free. A small example is, I have a 550 gallon aquarium in my living room, right in the middle. I do not have to conform to any home arrangement standards because I live completely alone. In my dinning room, I have a workshop to rebuild engines in the absolutely cleanest shop I anybody can ever do mechanical work. My bedroom is nothing but a giant place to sleep anywhere in it. It is a giant padded room made with official padded room materials. The second bedroom is a huge walk in closet. The third bedroom is now a formal dining room for me. The fourth bedroom is an enormous pantry. The fifth bedroom is converted to a generating room in case power is interrupted in the rural area I reside. The kitchen has four refrigerators, four freezers, the two and a half detached garage is a mini parts warehouse with parts all catagorised and arranged. The attached garage really is for my vehicle. But that was not out of pressure to conform. It just works fine. Give this life a try. You may find it to your favour.
I loved it....
And I loved the laugh at the first part 😂
1. Don't be afraid to meet their gaze 0:30
2. Take some baby steps 1:25
3. Show them your talent and skills 1:59
4. Show off who you really are -in actions and style 2:28
5. Use open body language to seem approachable 3:03
6. Show them you care and get to know them 3:43
Hope it helps ♥️
I love that evil laugh in the beginning 😂
LMAOO
The evil laugh was hilarious
🤓
Yup, it was adorable :)
@@STABBRClan extremely
Well my crush is the only girl who notices me a bit while other girls don't know about me
Is that why you have crush on her?
I don't know if my crush is flirting with me or is just being friendly, she treats me kinder than her other friends and trusts me a more than others
@@yourtypical1722 take a step toward her and see how it goes it's easy as that
@@yourtypical1722 exactly
@@ameennasar2583 no bro I had on her way before
the fact that this showed up when i'm in prime crushing mode has to be a sign...
Yessssss! It is! It's like God knows you have a crush on someone and sends you this video.
May I ask how u met your crush?
Tbh whenever I feel bad or having a bad day
I watch your videos bcz they are so soothing and relaxing and after that I feel good your voice is so attractive and pleasant
One thing I can proudly say is that I'm not afraid to look into my crush eyes and make eye contact and give a smile, I always try to do something like raise eyebrows and smiling and saying hi. Idk whether it works but I try
In conclusion : stare, take time, skills, authenticity, confident, kind and open.
i will try the next days to talk to him, questions like "which is your next class?" or "is the teacher coming?" and then I'll try to ask him 1-2 questions. When i see him in the hallways i ALWAYS look deeply in his eyes, its not hard at all, and he always breaks eye-contact and looks down, and when i look at him, i catch him staring at me
I smell k-drama
@@amajinarmy2916 yesss
Wishing you luck!
For me I want to look at my crush the whole time, but just afraid he will catch me looking at me. So I like take a quick glance.
@@Je11keng let him see you staring at him, i always do it
Watching Your video gave me the courage to tell my crush i liked her and she said she liked me back!
Congrats!
@@-Lucidity- thank you!
Yo, good job. I’m so jealous
@@bradleyma4529 thank you bro. No need to feel jealous. Sometimes there are certain people who aren’t meant for you but trust me. Your soulmate is on their way to you
I have a boyfriend, we've been together for almost two years. I just really love your videos
i wonder when can i find someone to reciprocate the feelings cuz in my case its always one sided now i am more afraid to open up i hope you have a good day sis
@@urdelulufriendrd When I looked for love it always seemed one sided. Not until I stopped looking for it that I found it in my best friend. I hop you have a good day as well :)
@@urdelulufriendrd it's gonna happen so don't stress out and find things you like to do and do them for me it's playing freaking dota 2
@@lpsredshadows6586 Guys have been saying thus for the longest that sometimes the right guy may be a friend but women are usually against the idea.
@@urdelulufriendrd what if its a gay
the funny thing about love/like/etc
the best happens when you dont look for it...
i like a guy (only a minor crush) but i came up with a few conversation topics...
2 weeks later (i forgot about the notes, maybe because i was just excited to see him)
and we talked for two hrs, really diving in emotionally. I didn't plan for it, it just happened naturally.
few days later i came across my notes...we talked about stuff way better than his bday, dog, etc
and the best part is i also have that info over time.
he doesnt like me back, but he damn sure taught me a lot compared to my other shallow crushes.
this crush allowed me to grow and find what it really means to like a person.
because through this, unknowingly i started to like him more throughout the conversation.
in the beginning, I had a feeling i liked him. So i wanted to get to know more...and I did so now im in a beautiful friendship
and a slight unrequited love :)
Unrequited love is the worst from my experience..
That first one terrifies me. When I stares and she stares back I panic and look away. I mean she notices me and knows me well.
@@Forbidd3n19 *bonk*
I really like the way you talk, it gives me an Instant motivation.
Your speaking skills are really good. Thanks for all your advices.
Would you be doing all this with facecam someday?
Ikr. Its so realxing!
Do you have a crush?
@@Je11keng might be!?
@@Je11keng the voice is so good so might be the face ig.
@@courage04 lol :)
Meeting my crushes gaze is something I am working on, everytime I see her where she works I always make sure my head is up and I'm standing straight and one thing I do is wave and smile when I see her, just need to hold my gaze with her for 1 second longer.
She always smiles back and we've been talking for quite a bit and I finally got to asking her out for coffee - which she said yes that would be really lovely! Now just need to set a date, I gave her my number but in hindsight the paper I gave it to her on was a little small and easily lost so gonna arrange a date next time I see her.
But the fact she said yes is a huge confidence boost and a sign things are going well.
That's awesome
How did it go
@@MYSTERIOUSasLOVE it didn't even happen in the end she never made any effort to set a date despite my best efforts. So it ended as quickly as it began. I don't think she even meant it when she said yes.
I LOVE THESE ANIMATIONS THEY'RE SO CUTE AND RELATABLE AND YUSSIE IS THE BEST!
Thank you so much :) Would you like to see more of this animation?
@@Psych2go I would like to see new content
the thing is… my crush is a man 23 years older than me who doesn’t know i exist lol
lol me2
it's jungkook right or some kpop guy
@@truealpha7258 no, actually it’s a political man😭
@@caroline-xr2jq 😭 Spill sis?
Bruh same xD
2:16 I do some amount of standup comedy in my tuition, yes, i have a crush there. but this thing just coincidently hit me right in the gut, ofc in a positive way, your vids are awesome!!
Hey my fellow Indian. I am also a comedian in my school.
@@Rosecoloredcastigation Ohh, cool!
Could you maybe do something on how to relief stress? I’ve been so stressed about high school this upcoming year and I’ve been having bad dreams for a month straight 😢
So sorry to hear that!
Stay strong! ❤
this is the video i’ve been searching for.
See, the thing is, my crush knows I exist because, well, we’ve been friends for 10 years. The only problem is he is blind as heck and can’t pick up on the hints-
Just like adrien 😔
@@mayooshie THIS WAS THE BEST COMMENT IVE EVER SEEN MLB IS MY FAVORITE SHOW-
AND YES HES AS STUPID AS ADRIEN WHEN IT COMES TO LOVE
Try to be obvious. How did you meet your crush?
@@Je11keng lol i dont rlly remember bc i was 3, but im pretty sure we moved into the same neighborhood he lived in, and our families got really close
@@yourstrulyanshika cool! I just saw this cute boy at school!
This channel has helped me so much. I remember one time when I was in primary school and I actually fell in love with a girl but then she left the school so that was sad. AND I AM NO-LONGER AFRAID TO APPROACH ANY WOMAN!
That's awesome! I'm not their yet 😔
Could you do a video about getting through mental blocks of not wanting to start searching for a relationship?
6 Sure-fire Ways to Get Your Crush to Notice You
1) Don't be afraid to meet their gaze!
2) Take some baby steps!
3) Show them your talent & skills!
4) Show off who you really are in your actions or style!
5)Use open body language to seem approachable!
6)Show them your care& get to know them!
Let's do it
Number 1 is the most relatable one to me, yet I have such a problem doing so
WOW, THAT HELPED 😱😱 THANK YOUUUUUU😫😫
How did I enter so fast, when it's about crush... 😂
I’m so happy and today is my birthday I really love your videos 💖
00:14 HAHAHAHAHAHAHA that got me lol
Hopelessly watching these...
This actually helped me, thank you for the tips I might try them! 😁
I tried to make eye contact but my anxiety immediately skyrockets and i physically can't keep my head from turning away 😭
FOR NOW MUAHAHAHAA💖 I love this video you did an amazing job
i fell asleep watching this, i love your voice
This is so useful 🥺
They crossed the road to help people in need
I really needed this video!
Your voice is relaxing
1. Don’t be afraid to meet their gaze.
2. Take some baby steps.
3. Show them your talent and skills.
4. Show off who you really are - in actions and style.
5. Use open body language to seem approachable.
6. Show them that you care and get to know them.
I like the new characters and the content is so helpful.
The fitnessgram pacer test is a multistage aerobic capacity test that gets more difficult as it continues
Can you do a video on how to be more open and talkative? I no longer really talk to anyone, but I really want to hold on to the relationships I have.
Same!
all the tips that i hear in videos of ways to get your crush to notice you or be attracted to you are great but like i'm too shy to talk to my crushes sadly
Same 😔
At lunch on March 15th, my crush finally noticed that I sit a table infront of her and she said “[My name]!” I waved back. Then she did the tik tok heart thing with her middle finger and index finger, the index and thumb heart but with her middle finger and index finger. At that point I’m in cardiac arrest basically, idk if that half heart was towards me and if I was supposed to do the other half. This is the first time a girl has liked me 😭
I wish my crush notice me ugh 😭😭😭😭😭😭😫😫😫😫😫
@@Je11keng agreed
The more videos I watch the more courage I get to finally talk to her.
Tell your crush your talents but do show off or overly sell otherwise she may call you out to show and tell and now you are nervous.
Love that thumbnail😍😍
I don’t have a crush, I see Spider-Man and I clicky
hi every body I'm here because this channel made me have the courage to ask my crush if she like me tomorrow so I will update on how it went
Loved it psych2Go♡
Keep spreading psychology ;)
Indeed!🤩🤩🤩
@@melaniemartin4319 ✌😎
Needed this right now thanks guys 💗
I think I already got my crush's attetion. Even if he just knows me by seeing me at school. I also don't know if he's noticing me because he's interested or if it's just because I'm a nosy ass person when I'm around my friends. I hope he doesn't think I'm annoying.
Actually, I found out that he's walking through the local park next to my school when school's out, so I may or may not have changed my way home and also walk through that park in order to just enjoy the view 💆 But since winter vacation came to an end, he never really walked through that park after school. Idk if he found out he lowkey has a stalker and thinks I'm a total creep.
So...I don't really want him to notice me. It would be nice but it's okay for me to just look at him. That alone makes me really happy. As long as he's fine and I can see it, I'm fine with the situation.
Well I want my crush to notice me lol !
Us boys don’t think it’s weird for girls to look at us…..hope this helps
@@bradleyma4529 Haha thanks. I totally forgot this comment existed. I already confessed to him and he rejected me but in a very nice way actually. So I'm over it and that's okay.
But thank you for your answer :))
0:15 Her little cackle was cute
When my best friend ended up as my crush, YOU HAVE NO POWER OVER ME
Wait, what does that mean?
I could have needed this video 6 months ago but now that that opportunity with that person has (most likely) passed, I can use it for the current one. Well... sadly the one beforehand was stronger than this one. Or at least I'm still hanging onto the last one so it's hard to move on. Non of my crushes ever involved into relationships, but losing the ability to see them daily, from afar, is painful. Moving does that. Starting over with a new person as the new student is also not easy. I appreciate the video though, I hope this'll help me.
I'm sorry.
How did you meet your crush?
One great way for them to notice you is pulling a gun
I tried this but they pulled one out and shot
Update: am in hospital
Update: this is a joke
I think he already knows. A lil may be. Idk. I am very nervous around him. I love him and his presence. I will show my doodling skills may be. Or I can make him something or show him a poem that I wrote about him. Last one is kind of scary. Hehe. I showed him that I care. Idk whether he noticed or not. I attentively listened to what he was telling. Everytime. Hope to continue it. Wish me luck guys.🙌🏼💕
I guess that I know why Psych2goers crossed the road. Because we all introverts( mostly) are united here to watch these videos and we are kinda shy and we really don't know how to approach someone. (The other side)Atleast it is the situation for me. I am an INFJ. I have had many crushes, but I have never dated someone cus I am a very nervous person. So Thankyou very muchh. This means a lot.
When I go to look at my crush but he's already looking at me I freak out.
Omg same. Like I'm afraid to look at him but want to SOOO BADD, because he's so cute.
May i ask how u met your crush?
@@Je11keng School
@@cheesyyy1679 same lol!
@@cheesyyy1679 how tho?
I miss having a crush ❤. It's so sweet. Hopefully I will get another chance.
The mwahahahahaha got me dying
The way she said it 😂😂😂😂
Oi
Thx for the tips ;),we need more people like you
Ohhh ur voice😍😍😍😍😍
"maybe they'll be impressed by your sketches or your fluency in french" I ALWAYS DRAW WHEN HES AROUND AND WE ARE IN THE SAME FRENCH CLASS YOU SILLY LITTLE MINDREADER
Thank you sister for encouraging me I'll surely try these tips you just gave me ;)
Even if I did have a crush, how would I do any of this?
I'm socially awkward at least if not totally inept with shades of autistic.
So no eye-contact for me. (although there once was this one girl that kept looking at me frequently. But there was no romantic tension. At least none that I could've noticed)
I also have no talents or skills to show off.
How should I incorporate this into a normal situation anyways? Should I start juggling all of a sudden?
Also, I don't even know, who I am or what defines me.
How can/should I act then?
How do you do something 'in your own way'? How do you 'show who you are'?
Regarding body language, I try to be open, but crossed arms are just so comfortable. And I don't know what to do with them anyway.
For the last point, how do you 'care'? And how do you show this?
Further problems/questions:
How do you open up to someone? How do you trust someone?
What do you talk about? Especially after a few times. At some point, the amount of topics has to run out, doesn't it?
Why did I cross the road?
Probably to run away from people...
Me too.....😫😫😫😫
I wish we can be friends irl :(
I’m going to meet up with a guy I’ve been crushing on for a few months. He works for my acupuncturist and is his brother in law. He’s extremely kind and sweet and adorable, I shake and my heart races when I see him but I only see him every two weeks and at the clinic. Until I told my acupuncturist I’m learning Korean and he gave my crush my number. We’re going to teach each other our languages and I’m super excited and nervous and scared all at the same time. It’s no more than a friendly hang out right now, but the potential for more makes me giddy and anxious. I hope everything goes smoothly 🙏🙏
If you’re watching this, I pray everything works out for you! ~❤️Nat
Ty so much!🙏🕯❤🤗🥰
I can't even look at their eyes, because I'm so insecure that I'm gashligting myself saying that their too popular, their too good looking to talk to. As if I'm making myself negative, lowering my confidence. It must been so easy to give up, I wanted to take the step to him but its just felt like I excuse myself every time I SEE him and can't even look at his eyes. Sometimes I think that I should give up but sometimes it'll be a waste of opportunity to get to know them. I DO can ask them the little topics I mean they are plenty of TOPICS out there. I'm gashlighting myself that he has already a girlfriend. His like a introvert but one time I saw him he comes close to us(with my friends) he seems to know that I have a crush on him. Since my close friends been coughing while his near huhu.. But sometimes I become a tomato so it makes me flustered everytime I see him. I scroll allot through on tiktok to find some advices and sometimes its making me I have no chance for him. Everytime I remember what he did that time he walks behind me THREE times my friend told me. Its giving me a chance to talk to them get to know. And here I am afraid to make a move to become friends or to talk to. I'll think is, it'll fail, they'll laugh on me., they'll make fun of me. And whenever I look at him the surroundings are like blur like there's no one there except him. He looks intimidating to look at so that's why I can't talk go and approach I'm SCARED of being judged. But I wanted his attention, that day his the one to adjust coming up closer but I'm the one who's thinking a misunderstanding and me myself I avoid him and thinking he ISN'T here but my reactions and actions are obvious. I'm quite concern.. I want to talk to him and get to know but its easy to imagine and by doing it, its difficult. When I see him I probably freeze and don't know what to talk about. Firstly I need to have to myself. Is SELF CONFIDENCE. And I keep avoiding rejection and failure. To think that I'm not enough IS BRINGING ME DOWN, loosing the chances. It's so easy to think of a situation and yet if you are in the situation as if I'm freeze. I need SELF CONFIDENT.
Me, a bachelor for life: *hmm, this is very interesting*
Well I don’t try to be something I’m not feeling at the moment. For instance I don’t feel like smiling all the time due to a painful condition I passed by. He knows that and likes me with or without that. And that’s how he started liking me as well
If sbd has communication,chemistry u don’t need any of those. We always feel who understands us and who doesnt
Now i have to first find crush for me I'm so convinced 😂
😂ya r not alone
My crush already knows I like them but I’m not so sure if they like me I have a feeling they do :)
How do you get your crush to talk to you online(when u have them online) when you can’t see them
Text them.
@@Je11keng Not all times they will text back
@@Lil.angeli Call them
I like you as a lover, not as a friend.
This is starting to get unbearable im 28 years old and i've never had a girlfriend I'm lacking the physical touch and emotional connection to someone. There is a girl out of my league but i cant stop thinking about her, i dont't know where to start. These videos are giving me a slight glimps of hope. There is so much work to do.
You aren’t alone my friend.
You aren’t alone in this. I’m sorry that this has happened to you. But just keep on taking baby steps and eventually you’ll be able to talk with her ❤
Just go for it, no need for baby steps you got this
This video literally is wat i need right now 🥺🥺❤️