I feel ya with the dating thing.. I was always the single one while at university and in my early 20's, and only met my boyfriend at 26 yrs old, and now I'm not as guarded and I'm insanely happy. Love will come to you when the time is right 😊💜
giiiiiirl ! the grass is always greener - you're so independent and YOUNG - you live life the way you want to, the right person will come along and only add to that ! it will never be too late.
As someone going through a truly Not Fun time where dating and relationships are concerned, the comments on this video are making me 🥺 thank you for opening up more about this Conagh! It’s nice to be reminded sometimes that you’re not the only one going through it 💜
I think it's completely normal to be guarded especially when it comes to dating because ultimately you are trying to protect yourself. And when you've been hurt in the past by people you have dated, you're obviously going to go into the next experience with a bit of a wall up.. it's only natural. But don't let that "guard" or that "wall" become so high to the point that no one can get in or really get to know the real you. I understand what you were saying about self-sabotaging and I know I am guilty of it because when you have been hurt all you want to do is retreat to your own fortress and build up those walls even higher so you can just stay safe in your own little cocoon. But at the end of the day the only one in the fortress you've made for yourself is you. And for me, it did feel lonely, isolating and made me compare myself more to the people around me. But it can get better if you can start to bring those walls or guard down. I know it's easier said than done, and it may not be an overnight thing. But don't think of it as bringing down your wall all at once because then obviously you can feel exposed and vulnerable, just take off one brick at a time. It's a journey but we can all come back from being hurt and break down those walls we've built for ourselves. Thank you for always being for real, raw and honest x I love your videos x
Giiiiirl I felt that🥺 and yes we built that wall to protect ourselves but it has been so hard for me lately to let anyone get through that wall simply cuz I know that the samz senario would happen and I know that according to their behaviour. So I am just focusing on my self and my personal growth. I hope you are healthy and safe.
I didn't have my first boyfriend till I was 26, i learnt to be content by myself and planned my life to be single forever and boom I met him. The best thing you can do is work on you and it'll happen xx
I’m going through the same thing with wanting to find a partner- of course when it comes down to it you can’t control when you meet the right person, all you can do is make sure you are happy and complete yourself for win that person comes into your life. It’s so hard when there’s no formula saying if you do X, then Y will happen when it comes to dating. I am nowhere near ready to date, as recently my relationship ended shockingly and unexpectedly a month before I was about to be married to the person and I genuinely thought was the love of my life. I LOVE love but it feels difficult that there’s no plan you can follow to find your person. But never drop standards! You deserve to have the highest of standards, we all do🥰
It’s normal to be like this in your dating stage. You just have to remind yourself that this is your time to focus on yourself, get to know yourself more and take yourself on these solo dates whilst also discovering your likes and dislikes in a person. I’m sure you know that your time will come, it always happens when you least expect it 🤍
Truuuuueee! It happens when you never expect it. I met my husband when I did not want a relationship in my life. Next Month we’ll be 4 years of marriage ❤️
I felt the same after my last break up. Wasn't even trying to chat to someone new. But now I'm happily engaged buying a house with my soulmate🥰 it's gonna happen for you too and it's gonna be with the wait 🥰
I understand being guarded I was the same. I think it’s okay to just take time and not force yourself to go on dates when you’re not fully ready. I totally totally understand the feeling of loneliness but there’s nothing more peaceful than finding that peace within yourself and not chasing anyone or anything. I hate to be that person but the right person will just make you feel at peace and it’ll happen very naturally! Enjoy the journey girl
I’m 23 and literally don’t have any friends other than my “coworker friends” who I don’t really want to go and party/drink with. 😅 I’m so sad that I don’t have any besties to go do this with 🥺
I felt guilty the first few times I ever went out. I grew up in the “Bible belt” of the US lol and went to a very religious school my whole life so of course we were always encouraged to not drink/party. But then I joined the Air Force haha and it was a very different vibe and all we did on the weekends was go out. I don’t really go out often anymore though not because it isn’t fun but because the hangovers are a different story now at almost 30 😂
Hey Conagh! Have you ever tried air frying those rice paper rolls? It crisps them up soooooo nicely 😊 Now I want to make some for lunch!! 😁 Love your videos (and love Charlie 💕
Honestly I feel the exact same with the dating scene 🙄 All the girls I was in school with have kids and are married now and please note I'm only 22😂 some have 2 kids already and here I am celebrating my 6 months with my current bf and still feel so behind🙄which is stupid but it's a usual feeling honestly 🤦🏼♀️
I just want to know why European women tan their skin color or are they born with bronze skin color?? I love natural white skin so much I hope this behavior changes
Possibly because women’s actions are performed to appeal to their own selves. As a European woman, we tan because WE like it. This behaviour won’t change, so I suggest you change your mindset instead.
@@ibrahimlovesblink There’s a difference between fake-tanning to the degree that the sun would naturally tan you (such as a lot of people in Australia do, to avoid skin cancers), and tanning to a degree that you appear as a BPOC. The latter is wrong. Not sure what “sufficient answer” you’re looking for, considering your original comment had nothing to do with the darkness of a tan, just that your personal preference is non-tanned skin. Your preferences isn’t needed on this video.
I feel ya with the dating thing.. I was always the single one while at university and in my early 20's, and only met my boyfriend at 26 yrs old, and now I'm not as guarded and I'm insanely happy. Love will come to you when the time is right 😊💜
giiiiiirl ! the grass is always greener - you're so independent and YOUNG - you live life the way you want to, the right person will come along and only add to that ! it will never be too late.
As someone going through a truly Not Fun time where dating and relationships are concerned, the comments on this video are making me 🥺 thank you for opening up more about this Conagh! It’s nice to be reminded sometimes that you’re not the only one going through it 💜
Conagh's videos are free therapy 💗
I love seeing you happy and motivated about vlogging☺️
🥰🥰🥰 thank you!!
I think it's completely normal to be guarded especially when it comes to dating because ultimately you are trying to protect yourself. And when you've been hurt in the past by people you have dated, you're obviously going to go into the next experience with a bit of a wall up.. it's only natural. But don't let that "guard" or that "wall" become so high to the point that no one can get in or really get to know the real you. I understand what you were saying about self-sabotaging and I know I am guilty of it because when you have been hurt all you want to do is retreat to your own fortress and build up those walls even higher so you can just stay safe in your own little cocoon. But at the end of the day the only one in the fortress you've made for yourself is you. And for me, it did feel lonely, isolating and made me compare myself more to the people around me. But it can get better if you can start to bring those walls or guard down. I know it's easier said than done, and it may not be an overnight thing. But don't think of it as bringing down your wall all at once because then obviously you can feel exposed and vulnerable, just take off one brick at a time. It's a journey but we can all come back from being hurt and break down those walls we've built for ourselves. Thank you for always being for real, raw and honest x I love your videos x
Giiiiirl I felt that🥺 and yes we built that wall to protect ourselves but it has been so hard for me lately to let anyone get through that wall simply cuz I know that the samz senario would happen and I know that according to their behaviour. So I am just focusing on my self and my personal growth.
I hope you are healthy and safe.
@@asmaekheir1822 aw I feel for you! I hope things get better for you 🤎
@@taylalouisearmstrong2528 thank you sweetie❤️
Feel this so much! You've literally put exactly how I feel perfectly into words
thank you so much for this amazing advice!!! 🥺🥺🥰🥰
Amazing video! God bless you all🙏🏽God is so good🙌🏽Jesus loves us all so much🙏🏽❤Turn to God He will guide you and give you strength🙏🏽Trust in Him🙏🏽
I didn't have my first boyfriend till I was 26, i learnt to be content by myself and planned my life to be single forever and boom I met him. The best thing you can do is work on you and it'll happen xx
I’m going through the same thing with wanting to find a partner- of course when it comes down to it you can’t control when you meet the right person, all you can do is make sure you are happy and complete yourself for win that person comes into your life. It’s so hard when there’s no formula saying if you do X, then Y will happen when it comes to dating. I am nowhere near ready to date, as recently my relationship ended shockingly and unexpectedly a month before I was about to be married to the person and I genuinely thought was the love of my life. I LOVE love but it feels difficult that there’s no plan you can follow to find your person. But never drop standards! You deserve to have the highest of standards, we all do🥰
It’s normal to be like this in your dating stage. You just have to remind yourself that this is your time to focus on yourself, get to know yourself more and take yourself on these solo dates whilst also discovering your likes and dislikes in a person.
I’m sure you know that your time will come, it always happens when you least expect it 🤍
Truuuuueee! It happens when you never expect it. I met my husband when I did not want a relationship in my life. Next Month we’ll be 4 years of marriage ❤️
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Yay love the hair, blonde Conagh is coming back 🤩
missed you conagh !!!! loved this hun. loved loved loved 🥹🥹💗💗
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I felt the same after my last break up. Wasn't even trying to chat to someone new. But now I'm happily engaged buying a house with my soulmate🥰 it's gonna happen for you too and it's gonna be with the wait 🥰
I understand being guarded I was the same. I think it’s okay to just take time and not force yourself to go on dates when you’re not fully ready. I totally totally understand the feeling of loneliness but there’s nothing more peaceful than finding that peace within yourself and not chasing anyone or anything. I hate to be that person but the right person will just make you feel at peace and it’ll happen very naturally! Enjoy the journey girl
Very true! My partner was the same when we first started dating, I was just patient and very understanding. Eventually his walls came down 🥰
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I’m 23 and literally don’t have any friends other than my “coworker friends” who I don’t really want to go and party/drink with. 😅 I’m so sad that I don’t have any besties to go do this with 🥺
Your vlogs are the best Conagh I cant think of a better way to start my birthday then watching your videos!💜💜
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The sunglasses r flattering on ur face shape they look nice
The sunglasses are so cute on you!!
how are the length of the white wide leg jeans on you ? i feel like white fox pants are always quite long and I'm 5'2
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Where’s your console table from
My comfort TH-camr, love u so much ❤️
ily!!! ❤️🔥
Omg I’m going back to my blonde era too
Do whatever you are happy I reckon, it doesn’t matter you are single or couple. I am sure one day you will find a good love.
I felt guilty the first few times I ever went out. I grew up in the “Bible belt” of the US lol and went to a very religious school my whole life so of course we were always encouraged to not drink/party. But then I joined the Air Force haha and it was a very different vibe and all we did on the weekends was go out. I don’t really go out often anymore though not because it isn’t fun but because the hangovers are a different story now at almost 30 😂
My cat thinks it's a game whenever I have a hoodie with draw strings on them. It's a life or death decision with draw strings 🤣
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Hey Conagh! Have you ever tried air frying those rice paper rolls? It crisps them up soooooo nicely 😊 Now I want to make some for lunch!! 😁
Love your videos (and love Charlie 💕
Sorry - posted too quickly 🙄
Was saying: Love Charlie 💕 - your relationship with her reminds me of myself with my doggie).
omg yum!!! hehe thank you lovely 🥰🥰
0:20 Aww… I wish I was the dog 😊
Oh my gosh, you had such an epic time!
A another great video as always
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Is Elise on your payroll?
Honestly I feel the exact same with the dating scene 🙄 All the girls I was in school with have kids and are married now and please note I'm only 22😂 some have 2 kids already and here I am celebrating my 6 months with my current bf and still feel so behind🙄which is stupid but it's a usual feeling honestly 🤦🏼♀️
Love you ....and moroco🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸
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Video idea: making dog treats for Charlie and having her rate them 😘
omgggg 🥺🥺
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مرحبا ،يوم جميل لكِ 🦋
Sunglasses look great on u
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Hey babe,for you the most beautiful and special girl ❤️🌹🌷💐
I just want to know why European women tan their skin color or are they born with bronze skin color?? I love natural white skin so much I hope this behavior changes
Possibly because women’s actions are performed to appeal to their own selves. As a European woman, we tan because WE like it. This behaviour won’t change, so I suggest you change your mindset instead.
@@abbyrose527 I did not find a sufficient answer. This means that you are tanning your skin to look like black women. I see that??
@@ibrahimlovesblink There’s a difference between fake-tanning to the degree that the sun would naturally tan you (such as a lot of people in Australia do, to avoid skin cancers), and tanning to a degree that you appear as a BPOC. The latter is wrong.
Not sure what “sufficient answer” you’re looking for, considering your original comment had nothing to do with the darkness of a tan, just that your personal preference is non-tanned skin. Your preferences isn’t needed on this video.
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Please make something new, we dont like weekly vlogs anymore. I love you ❤️🌹 you are very kind girl
Who is we
Someone report this 😂 literally everyone's favourite videos are vlogs 💙
Speak for yourself 🤣🤣
whattttt! everyone is not just you
The f… we always want weekly vlogsss💓 never stop conagh xo