Men Are Ridiculously Attracted to Women Who Have These 3 Habits

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  • @JonathonAslay
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  • @user-bz1gh9zp6q
    @user-bz1gh9zp6q หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    A younger man introduced himself to me a couple of months ago. I asked him how he knew me, and he said from there, Tim Hortons. He's very handsome, very sweet, but he is still healing from an accident, and personal stuff. I heard him say he does not want to get involved in a relationship, so, we are just friends which is fine with me. Any time we see each other, we have a nice chat, then, I get a nice hug from him.

  • @staceywood7800
    @staceywood7800 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I’ve been single 6 years. Working hard with a psychologist and would love a healthy loving relationship. I have periodically tried online but it’s triggering, traumatic and discouraging. The first dates I have been on, was a no for me. Thank you for the wonderful tips Johnathan 🌷 I’ll work on being hopeful, open and positive… keep working on myself. 🌸

  • @loiswall5601
    @loiswall5601 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Yes that’s the way I feel about dating online. I rather meet someone in person like the olden days!🤗❤️

    • @lynnhigley8787
      @lynnhigley8787 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly the way it happened for me. I'm 63. My husband passed away 2 years ago and the man I met bought a vehicle that I was selling. That is how we met 8 months ago.

    • @lynnhigley8787
      @lynnhigley8787 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Neither of us was looking to meet someone really. So you never know when it could happen.

    • @TeaRose9
      @TeaRose9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same.

    • @TeaRose9
      @TeaRose9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love what you’re saying that the dating experience today does allow us to have insight into ourselves and realize what we truly want in an relationship, rather than jumping in mindlessly as our parents’ generation mostly did.

    • @elaussies
      @elaussies หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, people have become complacent because online is easy & addictive. I also think it is difficult to vet opportunistic people and psychopaths

  • @brendahart3754
    @brendahart3754 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    My ex was always competing with me, and unwilling to accept me for who I was. He tried to make me feel less than, even though I was more driven and accomplished than him. So yes, he used gaslighting, too. He became quite toxic, and angry when he couldn't have the upper hand.

    • @elaussies
      @elaussies หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I also found this to be true with the man I met. What type of man competes with his sweetheart 🧐 ? I would have to say we are living in a psychologically damaged society

  • @conniesalamy8486
    @conniesalamy8486 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I hate being lectured as an adult myself and I totally agree with you.

  • @coriaaquila6488
    @coriaaquila6488 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    The powerful bond of heart/love is worth the wait! I am grateful you understand and respect this bond! ❤

    • @loiswall5601
      @loiswall5601 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes you connect with your heart, soul, feelings, and you never have to question it! You are always there for one another!❤️🤗🙏💁‍♀️

  • @hazeleyeschickjen1816
    @hazeleyeschickjen1816 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I'd love a video dedicated to first date tips 🙏

  • @martihunnewell7200
    @martihunnewell7200 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Julianne, you don’t have to worry about being less than polite to a guy who is just after sex. Screw curiosity if you’re feeling a lack or f respect. Move on girl, there’s better out there

    • @julieanne25
      @julieanne25 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      😂❤ appreciate this!! Ty

    • @Bb-k4gd
      @Bb-k4gd หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Exactly my thoughts, you did good Julieanne.

  • @donzybid
    @donzybid หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love this! Totally agree with the habits discussed!

  • @susancourtney882
    @susancourtney882 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I thought this was one of your best videos - totally in the flow. Julieanne also addressed a relatable issue. It is off-putting when men ask nothing about you or don't try to know you but yet want something from you in return. I understand her concerns, but maybe they don't realize they're doing this and we should bring it to their attention. 🤔

  • @julieanne25
    @julieanne25 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks for the advice and encouragement. Working on that list now! 😅

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You are very welcome... if you'd like to hear about my coaching, click here Www.jonathonaslay.com/coaching

  • @patriciapage4625
    @patriciapage4625 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Right on Johnathan ❤

  • @angelinpdx2297
    @angelinpdx2297 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Golden advice!!! Saving this for future reference. Thank you for the continued awesome advice, Jonathon. Sticking to our dealbreakers and setting healthy boundaries, yes! ✨✨✨ Holding onto hope. ✨✨✨

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Awe... thank you 😊

  • @livinglargecoachingcounseling
    @livinglargecoachingcounseling หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    "What am I doing that's makes you think this is ok?" He says about the knuckle dragging Neanderthal trying to kiss poor Julie. LOL. How did she keep a straight face about this? I bust a gut every time come on this channel. Jonathon in rare form tonight.

  • @pjdava
    @pjdava หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Jonathon Aslay, You're the best! I just had to subscribe!

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Awe... thanks ☺️

    • @Bb-k4gd
      @Bb-k4gd หลายเดือนก่อน

      He has a men’s channel …

  • @daisygulpan7625
    @daisygulpan7625 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks Jonathan for sharing this video👍❤

  • @lynnhigley8787
    @lynnhigley8787 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awesome Jonathan!!!!!

  • @corichang
    @corichang หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Extremely valuable content!!! Thank you so much, Jonathon🥰😇🙏

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Glad you enjoyed it!

    • @corichang
      @corichang หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JonathonAslay Heck ya!!!! You rock, Bro!!!

  • @bettyschmiemann1837
    @bettyschmiemann1837 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Jonathan..you are amazing!I really appreciate all you say and I really like the humer that you also bring to all topics. I enjoy watching your videos. You bring light to all who need your words...thank you 😊

  • @loiswall5601
    @loiswall5601 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Yes I had relationships before I started dating my husband when I was 24 and lasted we lasted til death due us part.😔🙏❤️Got married and have 3 kids.❤❤❤

  • @Suzy2QPA
    @Suzy2QPA หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is so valuable ❤😊

  • @sallyal5266
    @sallyal5266 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Jonathon I wish I'd known you years ago ...oh the lessons I could've learnt, the heartache I could've avoided... But I'm thankful I know you now, well that i can listen to you anyway. Finally I have the power to stay true to myself, and agree mostly with what you say and how you believe... I truly hope( yes I believe in the adage of 'hope' like you do) Shawshank redemption makes me cry at the end when he talks of hope 😊, I digress. I truly hope that I'll get to meet you someday, to smile, say thank you and give you a hug... 🙏💕

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me too... I always cry at that scene 😢

  • @Jewelzoftheisle
    @Jewelzoftheisle หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you! 😊

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're welcome 😊

  • @lindam4006
    @lindam4006 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    P.S. Love the book recommendations. Thank you Jonathan. Bought I Hear You audiobook. E.I. is next. Love that Sorensen is poignant & succinct. Love the E.I. audio sample. If you naturally value integrity & are empathic, it's just tweaking.

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hope you enjoy it!

  • @MargaretCampbell583
    @MargaretCampbell583 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great blog

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you enjoyed it

  • @lindam4006
    @lindam4006 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great hot seat Julieanne!

  • @truemorris6695
    @truemorris6695 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow over 5000 views Jonathon🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @teralecole316
    @teralecole316 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This video was fire 🔥 Thanks Johnathan🤍

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      WOW, thanks 😊

  • @loiswall5601
    @loiswall5601 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Hey I’m 61 and have 40 some years hitting on me!💁‍♀️❤️🤗

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  หลายเดือนก่อน

      How does that feel?

    • @lindam4006
      @lindam4006 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I have the same experience with Younger men. They can be appealing as friends but will usually back off seeking anything more when I let them know they're too young for me. As kindly and subtly as possible. Its not about the physical. Younger men grew up in different time periods with different music, different aspects of humanity's evolution. They do not appeal to me as potential life partners. I want the common experience & perspective. And there is a wisdom factor. There are cycles of life. No matter how deep you are. You develop over time. LOVE this video. You are rocking this one Jonathan. Thank you.🌻

    • @noraknudsen6104
      @noraknudsen6104 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Totally on point, Linda! The same happens to me.

  • @Obtlgw
    @Obtlgw 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My past guy came on very strong and then breadcrumbed

  • @kayesmith8040
    @kayesmith8040 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So special❤❤

  • @sallyal5266
    @sallyal5266 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Jonathon! " What am I doing to make you think this is ok?" Great question! " Am I giving you the 'come F**k me' eyes...?" Hilarious 🤣🤣

  • @brendabright49
    @brendabright49 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I so relate to and respect your decision to NOT date 🙏🏻😌

  • @NANa-sn2rh
    @NANa-sn2rh หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    What are the three things? Pleasss

  • @kumral76
    @kumral76 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Depends on what that man wants....😅😂

  • @vivianjones5904
    @vivianjones5904 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I TRUELY WANT TO SAY, THANKS.😂

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're welcome 😊

  • @PATH918
    @PATH918 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sovereignty but not attracts Narcissist🙏

  • @bcreative2772
    @bcreative2772 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I knew the man I wanted to marry since I was a girl he was 4 years older than me. We both had other opportunities and I regret losing him

  • @user-bz1gh9zp6q
    @user-bz1gh9zp6q หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If your''e ever in Kingston, Ontario, would you mind if I hugged you Johnathon?

  • @gamerchristina1079
    @gamerchristina1079 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    48:24 👏👏❤️❤️‼️

  • @emilyhagen4975
    @emilyhagen4975 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    People put a lot of emphasis on having a relationship with oneself. While it's true that not everyone needs to be in a relationship with another person in order to be healthy and whole, navel-gazing is NOT healthy and NOT spiritual. Obsession with "self" will be one's downfall, and it is the very reason why so many divorces are even happening. People are getting more and more SELFish. If someone claims to be "spritual," they should read Matthew 7. 😮Many, many people will hear the most horrifying words ever spoken from Christ: "I never knew you." What good is a woman who gains the whole world but loses her soul? Ladies... look up. Stop looking for a MAN to give your life meaning. Not possible.

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don't believe in obsessing with oneself...

    • @Sunlightsam24
      @Sunlightsam24 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@JonathonAslay 😳

  • @loiswall5601
    @loiswall5601 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yeah so true you both have to grow with each other in a relationship and want that with that every day. It’s a 2 way relationship.❤️

  • @karenoyama8950
    @karenoyama8950 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really only dated two men, and ended up marrying both.

  • @truemorris6695
    @truemorris6695 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Juicy delicious healthy happy relationship I WANT IT!!!!!

  • @donnapitts-abas2921
    @donnapitts-abas2921 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My BFF is single now. How long should I give him to mourn his spouse?

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      All the time he needs...

    • @donnapitts-abas2921
      @donnapitts-abas2921 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @JonathonAslay thank you! I spoke briefly with him, and he appeared emotionally sad 😔. Respectfully.

  • @elaussies
    @elaussies หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I don’t like online dating. As Dr Tatkin said most people are @ss 🕳️. How about having a form with a background check, health & financials. 🤣.
    This may need to be after the first or second date.
    Jonathon please be sitting in the back seat with your shot gun, LOL .
    There are so many opportunists lurking 👀.
    On the beer question. I just dated one and the Peter Pan Syndrome fit him perfectly. He was more concerned with impressing his drinking “groups”
    than putting his interests in a relationship. Drop him right away. Just be yourself and you attract the person who meshes with you.
    I am done with the opportunists & Peter Pans.
    It would be great if a man with ethics shows up on the path of life.

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Call that man in...

    • @elaussies
      @elaussies หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      💗

  • @rosiemac2538
    @rosiemac2538 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awe Jonathan I don't think your over Marie yet ( so you're just not ready for a romantic relationship)..just my thoughts.

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      If the right person shows up, I am ready...

  • @daynaking3647
    @daynaking3647 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How do I forgive myself for ignoring red flags?
    For almost 5 yrs. I feel so ashamed……

    • @brendahall5658
      @brendahall5658 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don't give up. You will find a good tender love
      And never feel shame. You have learned a valuable lesson. Bless you.

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  หลายเดือนก่อน

      That must be hard

    • @daynaking3647
      @daynaking3647 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@brendahall5658 Just enjoying being alone right now. I was ready to move on. I just cant get over my abilility to make excuses for someone. I lost a significant time of my life but I have learned a lot

    • @daynaking3647
      @daynaking3647 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JonathonAslay is that supposed to be profound?

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@daynaking3647 I simply wanted to acknowledge that feeling ashamed must be hard. As far as answering your question about forgiveness, it takes inner work to heal those parts of you that feel ashamed.

  • @MargaretCampbell583
    @MargaretCampbell583 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Jonathon that you ignored my description of my trauma is not encouraging. Most men will do this as they don’t know how to answer or want to avoid this topic. I understand this but it is not helpful. There are good men out there certainly, not all men are good guys. This does not give me a very good impression. Maybe I should think of a better way to illustrate this

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  หลายเดือนก่อน

      What description?

    • @MargaretCampbell583
      @MargaretCampbell583 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JonathonAslay I did put the description down not so long ago and now I’m trying to find it. Silly me I can’t find it now. Geez I don’t know where I put it. Sometimes I do dumb things

  • @robynalvin2849
    @robynalvin2849 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Loving parents don’t traumatize their children. Come on, Jonathan. I’ve been listening to you for years but you’re just going overboard here.

    • @streaming5332
      @streaming5332 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If people keep telling you your parents were loving when they weren't, that can traumatise you.

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Even loving parents can yell or say no, which can be traumatic to a child.

    • @estherdistefano6997
      @estherdistefano6997 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You can traumatize your child without you even knowing