I absolutely love you! Everything you say resonates with me. I’ve watched a lot of counselors and read books and just found you on TH-cam and I love it! You are so right❣️❣️❣️
1. He wants to spend time with you 2. He doesn't act hot and cold 3. He feels safe to be vulnerable with his woman 4. He can honestly say his woman make him to be a better man 5. He protectives his woman 6. He gives that look "WOW"
I would have loved to see you guys at that moment being vulnerable, emotional and holding hands in a moment of Sorrow. I love men who can do that and not be ashamed. That is very attractive to a woman.
I saw a post that said that if he looks at you like he's seeing a unicorn, that's a sign that he's falling for you. I clearly remember turning to see that look on my friend's face before we became a couple. I just relaxed and returned the look. That's when I knew that I was feeling the same attraction. He still gives me that look several times a week.
This is my husband's tablet ,but I use it all the time for crosswords and news and shows like yours. I would like so,much to talk with you. I agree with so much that you say. I've been married to a narcissist for almost 38 years. Think this is my last year. Can't take the craziness anymore. Thanks for listening. Elissa .
Jonathon don't change anything about yourself, you are PERFECT just the way you are. I love when you cuss to make a point...it makes me chuckle and that's a good thing!!
Your not egotistical, your a Leo . I’ve been watching your videos & I have adopted your teachings & broke off dating an avoidant. I took my power back & feel soo much better! Im hoping to meet a man with your qualities, Thank you 🙏
I literally wiped the vomit from my ex as he went through a stem cell transplant, I was there daily for as long as the hospital allowed, for 63 days, when only one of his grown children showed up once. As a retired nurse I did his daily care and was expected to do so by the staff, but I was happy to do this for him because I loved him. Come to find out he was exchanging love messages between 2 other women, as sick as he was, he still had the energy to cheat. Ironically, he was a former pastor. I have your books, and I love myself finally too much to even risk my heart again. I’d rather have a dog…they are loyal. And you are right…I gave away my power…I didn’t listen to my intuition over the 7 years we were together. I’m ok with being single…finally, and I’m happy.
Here on a Sunday morning cleaning the bathroom and listening to this GEM. I am LOL continually with the yelling, the apologizing, the OMs, the Jonathan lady voice, the fbombs, the sweaty pits. Thank you JA.
He shows up at your door with flowers, he wants to see your smile as he gifts you... he wants to feel the joy of gifting....he wants to make you happy.... he's obsessed with making you smile with gifts, that's how you know he's crazy about you
I kind of knew already. But the moment he shared a difficult subject with me and cried in my arms was such an intimate moment. I am so grateful for this. 😍 Oh, and in the end it's the small gestures: buying this salad servers cause he just thought I would like them etc....
My fiance cheated on me with two different women in 2019, I dumped him and have been single ever since. I currently study and work remotely and am a recluse. I have no idea how to reconnect to society. I am in my early 30's, smart, pretty(so I am told) and successful. But I have trust issues up the wazoo!
You are so brave. You’re reconnecting by being vulnerable and sharing your story on this platform. My fiancé also cheated on me early in our relationship and while I’ve chosen to forgive, I still feel the impact of his actions. You are powerful and brave!
I love how Jonathan is so strong and powerful in who he is as a person and coach. You don't show up as what people want from you. You show up as who you are. And if f bombs, cursing, swearing, making jokes and being real with your audience is who you are, he should be that. Not try to not swear and "sugar coat" things.
@@JonathonAslay I’m a 68 yr old widow and been dating a man who is 10 years younger which is no big deal. Im actually you feel in my energy then he is and we have had ups and downs like normal relationships have and thanks to you and your real talk . I love listening to you. Love your f bombs , you just crack me up and talk real at the same time. I enjoy every podcast and video. Keep it up from Toronto!
Thank you Jonathan! You’ve helped me a lot; to detect extreme infatuation for what it is! A hundred hours of getting to know a person is a basic standard for me now, or even a longer period! Yes! And my power is mine and should never be given away! And I’ll not idealise sex as a proof of love! The deeper trust is a must! Hot and cold behaviour is a warning sign! Greatfulness! Vulnerability! Keeping my bounderies! The inner work! That look of WOW!!!!My inner beuty!!!WOW! I feel 💪 You took me back to my own boundarises! Thank you so much! It works! I feel like a better woman! You’re WOW Jonathan!
I like what you share Jonathon! It's helping me a lot! I'm 46 and recently divorced, I want a healthy, happy relationship that will last the rest of my life. Your wisdom is appreciated 🙏 Thank you 😊
Love takes time , but tell me when you just starting to know then , don’t go to far , just tell us how you know if the guy is into you when we just meet!
JA your videos are my daily 'pick me up'. You motivate me not only to be a stronger woman but you have shown me how to 'love my self' I'm grateful for your wisdom and advice! THANK YOU JA 🙏. PS swear as much as you want! I love it ❤
After a long day at work, I am very grateful and appreciative to have you share this list here. It resonates deeply with me - especially #6. I remember when my late husband first gave me the "wow" look and I asked him why he was staring at me the way he was. What he said made me speechless...something that's not easy to do...lol. I know I have been giving my power away and have been completely clueless when I started looking for a man again. I will do my best to use this complete list in the future and no longer give my power away and stand in my sovereignty. Thank you again Jonathon - YOU ROCK!!! 🎸☺👍
I learned a year ago, just because my heart is open, which in turn, my legs were open. I finally realized, just because I was feeling this, doesn't mean he was. But he "cared deeply" for me. I've run into that a couple of times. I end up being "the runner up" Love your advice Jonathon. I wish we could just hang out! Lol
I think Pastors/ Priest and Religion leaders needs to start teaching young people about relationship about what to allowed and what not to allowed. Good points. I love your videos.
Men are so sweet when they realise you are Really vulnerable.. Not needy. There is a difference. They enjoy a warrior in life to relate to.. Not a clingy, lazy, needy mentally dependant bulk.. much less an agressive, impolite girl who's insincere and unrealistic.
I am getting so much out of your videos. I believe I'm in a very genuine space with my guy, though it's only been six weeks. I am great at giving him space, because I have the same need. I am learning to speak up if I feel my value isn't being honored or appreciated (which is very rare), and I can easily take text breaks. I just want to learn to do whatever else I need to do to foster positive and healthy habits to see if we end up continuing to grow together. I definitely have some defects that can be frustrating for him, after all they annoy me too). So far, it seems we could be on a great path. I'm going to continue to learn from you. Every time he does something for me, no matter how big or little, I let him know that I am grateful. Your affirmation that this is important is something I am grateful for. Thank you!
The first 22 minutes of this video made me cry with relief from the resonance!!! My boyfriend hasn't been vulnerable with me since we started out as friends. He sometimes expects me to know him well and he sometimes thinks he knows me, then becomes stunned when he sees he was pegging me wrong. We've had at least five hours for 25 days spread out for 12 months. We haven't had sex, at all. Thank God because we haven't really talked about a relationship, other than we want marriage "with someone." Maybe I shouldn't even call him my boyfriend. He's been busy, but also with other women he's dating, so he says.
OMG I just finished reading “The Untethered Soul” truly a Gem, I didn’t realized there was a book like so, why are so many asleep people around 😮 thanks for referring this book, loved every bit of it ❤
Mr. Jonathan Aslay , if most of our women had you be big brother, we are lucky, thanks you so much for sharing your great experience to everyone, you are nice.
I believe in all that you are saying. I am 62 and divorced 21 years, remarried and widowed 10 years. It is so hard to even get a date now. I go online and can’t get any dates from men my age. They were looking for women in their 50s or younger. I get discouraged, but I have finally learned to love myself. So, if I can’t find someone that I even slightly am attracted to. I love where I live and don’t want to look too far away. Any ideas on attracting more men here in my happy place?
I listened to the audio book The Untethered soul’ thank you so much for bringing it to my attention! I’ve shared it with many friends struggling with the lockdowns! Most helpful Jonathan- arohanui (love) from NZ!
'There is always a blind vendee, for each blind vendor'. I did my best to translate it. It's a Turkish proverb and also my grandmother used to tell it a lot. We have many other proverbs like that, which means if you exist on earth there is always someone who is going to like you. Point is firstly allow yourself to see your intrinsic beauty, allow yourself to fall in love with your real self, as you said Jonathon. By the way great video, thanks a lot❤
Jonathon your words of wisdom saved me from feeling used. Now, i know i am being loved .I won't be cod and alone in a Michigan Winter: Count down to the P in the V has started...and as time passes i feel so good, prepared...appreciating his patience and respect. is he reading your book...? he is still in the first chapter...the point he wants to go through the process ...Who am i to win the heart that middle seasoned attractive man with big blue eyes?.I am not that special...simply Jonathon channel showed up in our lives and our stars are aligning again. Thank you Jonathon...you are way better than some pastors out here...you provide value...and TRULY you are a spiritual being having a human experience.
Curiosity seems to get me into trouble. I need to be intellectually and emotionally stimulated too. Maybe it narrows the dating pool. But i can't imagine the horror of being locked into a situation with a man who has no taste for adventure, knowledge, personal growth; along with depth, curiosity, willingness to communicate, enhance our relationship, plus a measure of empathy, integrity, and stability, attraction
Yeah cold hard fact is that highly intelligent people have a very limited pool; most people are dullards. Intelligent people are the most lonely of all and have little in common with the average person, especially when there's a gap of 40 IQ points or more I've read.
Johnathan….Golden nuggets of wisdom, thx u. I laughed out loud when listening to your answers to some of the final questions….priceless! It really is so hard to bump into your forever, right person. You have your beautiful person now, but we all feel the struggle. So happy for you! And thanks for the truth and the laughs!!
Hey Jonathan. I’ve got to tell you this funny thing just happened when you said “hey google” and you asked the 101 question …my bedroom radio heard you and began answering the question. 😂 that’s freaky.
It's hard to believe when I saw my test results turned negative of HSV2 after using the herbal medications I got from (Dr. Ani) a great doctor who I came across on TH-cam who help people get rid of their sickness thank you so much dr.aniherbalhome1@gmail.com for your wonderful work.
Robin, check at the Oscar winning movie “Marty” made in the 1950’s about a man who is average looking for a woman to marry. He meets up with a shy introvert lady. Love finds a way….It was a big move back then since there were many people who had no self esteem when dating and very insecure. I met the movies star Ernest Borgnine in 2006 when he vacationed for the summer in my home town. He was friendly, a great guy to talk to as the summer passed.
Exactly Jonathan! Consistency in your message is key. Repetition has always helped me to remember in learning. I’m glad that you addressed that in your video. I also wanted to let you know that your usage of profanity is always welcomed. It is how you show passion for what you do, and is authentically you. Something that I have learned from Marissa Peer is,”people can only reject you, if you allow it in.” I appreciate that you are a person that is self-aware and are open to constructive criticism. The comments that you get from women that you mentioned in your live videos, appear to be giving destructive criticism and aren’t worth your attention or feeding into their negativity and bringing attention to it. Those people will continue to say things that attack your character are seeking negative attention, because they aren’t happy with themselves or don’t love themselves enough to be able to write words with respect or with compassion. Fuck that shit! The people that are worth your time accept you as you are, so you don’t need to explain yourself(At least from my perspective.). One of my favorite quotes that I have been professing to people, to help ease their mind, and are worried about what others think of them is… “Those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.” -Dr. Suess
So true. Mine kick me out when I could just walk on my broken ankle. And when he found out I had bowel cancer, that was the end. He lefted and walked into another relationship the next day.
Jonathon you provide good content...and we have to be tolerant to one another. I consider you as a messenger of a divine message. I like your style ...you are vulnerable...and real. You speak from experiences....i can't stand the so called " godly men" preaching to women. I want to learn from someone who went through the process.
Excellent! I'd heard many advices of some famous relationship coaches, but Jon said it the best. Jon is straightforward & explained it thoroughly. He is very to the point! Good job, Jon!
You are something else...and I mean that in a good way! You could easily be a psychologist if you wanted, but as a life coach you are phenomenal! I usually don't like F Bombs, but the way you drop them makes me laugh every time!
Hi Jonathan, I don’t cheat on a man. I only dated one man at a time. You mention Porn in your show tonight; and how it can mess a person up. I feel that if every person took a vail, to practice (Celibacy for one year; only single people). The world be a better place. A.) Men and Women would have more respect for each other. B.) Dating would become more meaningful. A man or woman would take the time to appreciate the dating experience, getting to know one another. C.) Couples would be more committed to each other. Which could lead to more marriages and lessen the potential for divorce. D.) Jonathan, this is the big one. It would lessen the potential for sexually transmitted diseases and unplanned pregnancies. I have been Celibate for 37 years. I made a promise to God, that the only man that I will ever have sex with; will be my future husband. I went through a lot of childhood trauma and sex abuse.The men that I dated in my early twenties and thirties treated me with disrespect. (I am not crazy, I have morals and respect for my body). Amen
There is a saying" tell me i will lilsten, teach me I will learn...show me i will practice. " in the showing/sharing of your real lived experiences...we are convinced to practice. This is a church Jonathon...you need a deacon...bringing water and handkerchief wiping your face...( am joking but you get what i mean) . I appreciate you.
Ohhh I wish exactly the same for men my age (I am 25), men who are curious, who like to talk, who want to try new things, who are excited about life and want to do life with me!!! I swear in all my relationships, I'm always the one feeling so excited to do things and have an opinion or want to comment about something and want to grow with someone. But they think it's "I'm too much" or they are soo freaking boring. And they are okay with being so average and so normal lol. It's like, don't you get excited when it's super sunny outside, or excited to make a huge breakfast or excited about reading an amazing book??? Why are you so monotoned LOL.
I appreciate the repetition! Please keep it up. You are 100% correct. I was in martial arts for years and it's all about repetition. It's drilling it into my subconscious. Thank you. 🙏
How funny. Your answer to the question "What do you think of long distance relationships and you said "I think they rarely work out". Then you found Marie. ❤
@@JonathonAslay this is true, a lot of people are damaged and are not strong enough to do the work to fix themselves. I think I met someone normal recently but I'm taking it slow.
Gosh, your content can be potentially life-saving (I mean, literalllllly...like another 1 poor relationship away from just ending it all !!!) ....you're gifted in verbal communication. You're not overdoing it. Thanks for helping women. You just don't know how many vulnerable emotionally messed up already women ur saving from just suicide-ing bc they repeat another bad relationship cuz they're plain ignorant about how men view the relationship
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I love your honesty and your F-bombs..... you speak my language!
I absolutely love you! Everything you say resonates with me. I’ve watched a lot of counselors and read books and just found you on TH-cam and I love it! You are so right❣️❣️❣️
1. He wants to spend time with you
2. He doesn't act hot and cold
3. He feels safe to be vulnerable with his woman
4. He can honestly say his woman make him to be a better man
5. He protectives his woman
6. He gives that look "WOW"
Thank you! Took him forever to get there. 🙄
That's the best part of Jonathon. His squirrel moments.
Thanks. I don't have 90 minutes to hear him repeat things he's said in other videos.
💯 Debbie
“If you are not smiling about the guy you’re with, he is not your guy.” So true!
So, so true!
When a man loves a woman, she’s the first thing he thinks of when he wakes up. She’ll be the first person he texts that morning.
Same feeling as for women
Sharing the love story of your parents' love throughout the years. ❤. The "wow" factor is precious.
Yes!
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I would have loved to see you guys at that moment being vulnerable, emotional and holding hands in a moment of Sorrow. I love men who can do that and not be ashamed. That is very attractive to a woman.
It's sacred and precious when it is guenuine
"If it comes from the heart, you can NEVER say the wrong things to the right person"
Exactly
I saw a post that said that if he looks at you like he's seeing a unicorn, that's a sign that he's falling for you.
I clearly remember turning to see that look on my friend's face before we became a couple. I just relaxed and returned the look. That's when I knew that I was feeling the same attraction. He still gives me that look several times a week.
This is my husband's tablet ,but I use it all the time for crosswords and news and shows like yours. I would like so,much to talk with you. I agree with so much that you say. I've been married to a narcissist for almost 38 years. Think this is my last year. Can't take the craziness anymore. Thanks for listening. Elissa
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Jonathon don't change anything about yourself, you are PERFECT just the way you are. I love when you cuss to make a point...it makes me chuckle and that's a good thing!!
F bombs are a shock......
Found you yesterday and I have been binge watching you since. I love how real and brutally honest you are. It's like a breath of fresh air. Thank you!
Awe... thank you 😊
Your not egotistical, your a Leo . I’ve been watching your videos & I have adopted your teachings & broke off dating an avoidant. I took my power back & feel soo much better! Im hoping to meet a man with your qualities, Thank you 🙏
I literally wiped the vomit from my ex as he went through a stem cell transplant, I was there daily for as long as the hospital allowed, for 63 days, when only one of his grown children showed up once. As a retired nurse I did his daily care and was expected to do so by the staff, but I was happy to do this for him because I loved him. Come to find out he was exchanging love messages between 2 other women, as sick as he was, he still had the energy to cheat. Ironically, he was a former pastor. I have your books, and I love myself finally too much to even risk my heart again. I’d rather have a dog…they are loyal. And you are right…I gave away my power…I didn’t listen to my intuition over the 7 years we were together. I’m ok with being single…finally, and I’m happy.
Here on a Sunday morning cleaning the bathroom and listening to this GEM. I am LOL continually with the yelling, the apologizing, the OMs, the Jonathan lady voice, the fbombs, the sweaty pits. Thank you JA.
"If you're not smiling about your guy you're with, then, he ISN'T your guy! " 😂😂😂
Ex
He shows up at your door with flowers, he wants to see your smile as he gifts you... he wants to feel the joy of gifting....he wants to make you happy.... he's obsessed with making you smile with gifts, that's how you know he's crazy about you
I kind of knew already. But the moment he shared a difficult subject with me and cried in my arms was such an intimate moment. I am so grateful for this. 😍
Oh, and in the end it's the small gestures: buying this salad servers cause he just thought I would like them etc....
Yes, it’s about time. Somebody said exactly what love is.
My fiance cheated on me with two different women in 2019, I dumped him and have been single ever since. I currently study and work remotely and am a recluse. I have no idea how to reconnect to society. I am in my early 30's, smart, pretty(so I am told) and successful. But I have trust issues up the wazoo!
Date yourself. Prepare for nurture & entertain yourself. Your suitor will appear when you're in your element
You are so brave. You’re reconnecting by being vulnerable and sharing your story on this platform. My fiancé also cheated on me early in our relationship and while I’ve chosen to forgive, I still feel the impact of his actions. You are powerful and brave!
I love how Jonathan is so strong and powerful in who he is as a person and coach. You don't show up as what people want from you. You show up as who you are. And if f bombs, cursing, swearing, making jokes and being real with your audience is who you are, he should be that. Not try to not swear and "sugar coat" things.
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@@JonathonAslay I’m a 68 yr old widow and been dating a man who is 10 years younger which is no big deal. Im actually you feel in my energy then he is and we have had ups and downs like normal relationships have and thanks to you and your real talk . I love listening to you. Love your f bombs , you just crack me up and talk real at the same time. I enjoy every podcast and video. Keep it up from Toronto!
I love him too Brenda Lee
You are a hero and remind me of the person who takes off his coat when a woman is cold. I’m so glad I’m listening to you and thank you.🦸♂️
Thank you Jonathan! You’ve helped me a lot; to detect extreme infatuation for what it is! A hundred hours of getting to know a person is a basic standard for me now, or even a longer period! Yes! And my power is mine and should never be given away! And I’ll not idealise sex as a proof of love! The deeper trust is a must! Hot and cold behaviour is a warning sign! Greatfulness! Vulnerability! Keeping my bounderies! The inner work! That look of WOW!!!!My inner beuty!!!WOW! I feel 💪 You took me back to my own boundarises! Thank you so much! It works! I feel like a better woman! You’re WOW Jonathan!
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"Get busy living or get busy dying!" You nailed it, Jonathan!
I like what you share Jonathon! It's helping me a lot! I'm 46 and recently divorced, I want a healthy, happy relationship that will last the rest of my life. Your wisdom is appreciated 🙏 Thank you 😊
I was marred for 60 years from 18 to 70 he passed in 2021 miss him very much he was the only one in my whole life my sole mate
You were blessed 🙌
You are incredible ! WE need more men like you in the world.
Love takes time , but tell me when you just starting to know then , don’t go to far , just tell us how you know if the guy is into you when we just meet!
I can’t believe how many people don’t ask real questions
Timing is everything!
I ask real questions but a lotta people are full of 💩 and will lie so you wind up in the same position unfortunately either way 😢
JA your videos are my daily 'pick me up'. You motivate me not only to be a stronger woman but you have shown me how to 'love my self' I'm grateful for your wisdom and advice! THANK YOU JA 🙏. PS swear as much as you want! I love it ❤
You're right about falling in love, because everything falls break, but you can say growing in love, sounds much better.
After a long day at work, I am very grateful and appreciative to have you share this list here. It resonates deeply with me - especially #6. I remember when my late husband first gave me the "wow" look and I asked him why he was staring at me the way he was. What he said made me speechless...something that's not easy to do...lol. I know I have been giving my power away and have been completely clueless when I started looking for a man again. I will do my best to use this complete list in the future and no longer give my power away and stand in my sovereignty. Thank you again Jonathon - YOU ROCK!!! 🎸☺👍
I learned a year ago, just because my heart is open, which in turn, my legs were open. I finally realized, just because I was feeling this, doesn't mean he was. But he "cared deeply" for me. I've run into that a couple of times. I end up being "the runner up"
Love your advice Jonathon.
I wish we could just hang out! Lol
I love the fact of 100 hours face-to-face time to know if he is falling in love with you and vice versa.
I think Pastors/ Priest and Religion leaders needs to start teaching young people about relationship about what to allowed and what not to allowed. Good points. I love your videos.
Men are so sweet when they realise you are Really vulnerable.. Not needy. There is a difference. They enjoy a warrior in life to relate to.. Not a clingy, lazy, needy mentally dependant bulk.. much less an agressive, impolite girl who's insincere and unrealistic.
Exactly
Best compliment my Man ever gave
"You're not need" He always returns
I am getting so much out of your videos. I believe I'm in a very genuine space with my guy, though it's only been six weeks. I am great at giving him space, because I have the same need. I am learning to speak up if I feel my value isn't being honored or appreciated (which is very rare), and I can easily take text breaks. I just want to learn to do whatever else I need to do to foster positive and healthy habits to see if we end up continuing to grow together. I definitely have some defects that can be frustrating for him, after all they annoy me too). So far, it seems we could be on a great path. I'm going to continue to learn from you. Every time he does something for me, no matter how big or little, I let him know that I am grateful. Your affirmation that this is important is something I am grateful for. Thank you!
I may be wrong! I'm not sure my radar is working properly. Trouble in paradise.
I also believe that a relationship is a TWO-WAY STREET! It has to be a "give and take" thing.
I like your show. You tend to over explain yourself. Us women are pretty intelligent.
The first 22 minutes of this video made me cry with relief from the resonance!!! My boyfriend hasn't been vulnerable with me since we started out as friends. He sometimes expects me to know him well and he sometimes thinks he knows me, then becomes stunned when he sees he was pegging me wrong. We've had at least five hours for 25 days spread out for 12 months. We haven't had sex, at all. Thank God because we haven't really talked about a relationship, other than we want marriage "with someone." Maybe I shouldn't even call him my boyfriend. He's been busy, but also with other women he's dating, so he says.
OMG I just finished reading “The Untethered Soul” truly a Gem, I didn’t realized there was a book like so, why are so many asleep people around 😮 thanks for referring this book, loved every bit of it ❤
Indeed 🙏
Jonathan, of course you are making a difference. Your heart says that all the time. Your words are also eloquent. ♥️
Wow, thank you
You are awesome Jonathan. I love your ‘F’ bombs and excitement for the truth. You provide great content. LOVE IT! 😊
#1] ⌛️ He leans into you -- he spends time with you
#2] He's consistent with his actions 🎬 & his word 🗣
#3] He feels safe w/you
Yeah .. then what?
Jonathon your repeating your explanation is a very good way that what you are sharing as a coach is a very good thing to do.
Mr. Jonathan Aslay , if most of our women had you be big brother, we are lucky, thanks you so much for sharing your great experience to everyone, you are nice.
I believe in all that you are saying. I am 62 and divorced 21 years, remarried and widowed 10 years. It is so hard to even get a date now. I go online and can’t get any dates from men my age. They were looking for women in their 50s or younger. I get discouraged, but I have finally learned to love myself. So, if I can’t find someone that I even slightly am attracted to. I love where I live and don’t want to look too far away. Any ideas on attracting more men here in my happy place?
I listened to the audio book The Untethered soul’ thank you so much for bringing it to my attention! I’ve shared it with many friends struggling with the lockdowns! Most helpful Jonathan- arohanui (love) from NZ!
'There is always a blind vendee, for each blind vendor'.
I did my best to translate it. It's a Turkish proverb and also my grandmother used to tell it a lot. We have many other proverbs like that, which means if you exist on earth there is always someone who is going to like you. Point is firstly allow yourself to see your intrinsic beauty, allow yourself to fall in love with your real self, as you said Jonathon. By the way great video, thanks a lot❤
Thank you... btw, my parents are from Istanbul
Sorry they moved to US. You could be in Istanbul
Even though I’m Greek , that’s a pretty good Turkish proverb.
Robin, I am short and it’s not really a bad thing we’re called “fun size” 🤣🎉
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Jonathon, you are my go to relationship guru. This is AMAZING. I'm so grateful for your content ❤
Wow, thank you!
Enjoy listening to you..just started few wks ago..keep the truth going Johnathan...
Thank you so much, Jonathon. Your videos always awesome!
Love how real you are! Being straight forward and sincere saves time and any doubts! Thank you!
Your "slowly fading away...." moves and emoting are So incorporating the best parts of The Twilight Zone. 👏💫
I am stunned people have the odasity to complain. I guess the truth really hurts some people. The truth will set you free!
Audacity
Jonathon your words of wisdom saved me from feeling used. Now, i know i am being loved .I won't be cod and alone in a Michigan Winter: Count down to the P in the V has started...and as time passes i feel so good, prepared...appreciating his patience and respect. is he reading your book...? he is still in the first chapter...the point he wants to go through the process ...Who am i to win the heart that middle seasoned attractive man with big blue eyes?.I am not that special...simply Jonathon channel showed up in our lives and our stars are aligning again. Thank you Jonathon...you are way better than some pastors out here...you provide value...and TRULY you are a spiritual being having a human experience.
"Repetition is the mother of skill" 👍🏼👏🏼
My friend looks at me with a Wow! I can feel the love between us but it is a platonic friendship and always will be.
You are awesome, Jonathon! Keep encourage us to do it the right way
Jonathon we see at least 100 hours of you so your fans just love you.😀
awe... thanks
Curiosity seems to get me into trouble. I need to be intellectually and emotionally stimulated too. Maybe it narrows the dating pool. But i can't imagine the horror of being locked into a situation with a man who has no taste for adventure, knowledge, personal growth; along with depth, curiosity, willingness to communicate, enhance our relationship, plus a measure of empathy, integrity, and stability, attraction
Yeah cold hard fact is that highly intelligent people have a very limited pool; most people are dullards. Intelligent people are the most lonely of all and have little in common with the average person, especially when there's a gap of 40 IQ points or more I've read.
Johnathan….Golden nuggets of wisdom, thx u. I laughed out loud when listening to your answers to some of the final questions….priceless! It really is so hard to bump into your forever, right person. You have your beautiful person now, but we all feel the struggle. So happy for you! And thanks for the truth and the laughs!!
Glad you enjoyed it
Watched many of your videos J
This so far for me is the best, cause everything you've shared is how I feel and look at life. THANK YOU 🌹
Yes, I believe when you can just think of someone and say wow then you know you are in love.
Jonathan is just the best!!get busy living or get busy dying - love that quote ❤
haha you have the most liberating personality, Jonathon! If adopting strangers for brothers was a thing I would choose you
Awe... thank you 😊
You are so funny 😂. I love watching your video’s. I’m a new subscriber. If I’m having a bad day or need advice I go to your video’s first.
Thanks for subbing!
Hey Jonathan. I’ve got to tell you this funny thing just happened when you said “hey google” and you asked the 101 question …my bedroom radio heard you and began answering the question. 😂 that’s freaky.
Lol 😆
This is awesome
Heck yeah, people reveal themselves all the time!! Especially in veiled humor or twisted rhetoric.
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Robin, check at the Oscar winning movie “Marty” made in the 1950’s about a man who is average looking for a woman to marry. He meets up with a shy introvert lady. Love finds a way….It was a big move back then since there were many people who had no self esteem when dating and very insecure. I met the movies star Ernest Borgnine in 2006 when he vacationed for the summer in my home town. He was friendly, a great guy to talk to as the summer passed.
Get bizzy living, or get bizzy dyeing! My vagina is dried up. 😂😂😂😂😂
You speak your truth and I love it 😻
Hey Jonathan, you are awesome❤❤
Exactly Jonathan! Consistency in your message is key. Repetition has always helped me to remember in learning. I’m glad that you addressed that in your video.
I also wanted to let you know that your usage of profanity is always welcomed. It is how you show passion for what you do, and is authentically you. Something that I have learned from Marissa Peer is,”people can only reject you, if you allow it in.” I appreciate that you are a person that is self-aware and are open to constructive criticism. The comments that you get from women that you mentioned in your live videos, appear to be giving destructive criticism and aren’t worth your attention or feeding into their negativity and bringing attention to it. Those people will continue to say things that attack your character are seeking negative attention, because they aren’t happy with themselves or don’t love themselves enough to be able to write words with respect or with compassion. Fuck that shit! The people that are worth your time accept you as you are, so you don’t need to explain yourself(At least from my perspective.). One of my favorite quotes that I have been professing to people, to help ease their mind, and are worried about what others think of them is… “Those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.” -Dr. Suess
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38:26 omg your exuberant expression of frustration here has me laughing hysterically 😂
📞 Jonathon! I met a great guy and you’re awesome! Thank you for sharing your experience and keep doing it with a passion!
Found your information very insightful. Looking into some of the books recommended. I Have a new perspective.
He's growing closer than I thought. 8 months in.
You crack me up! Great content!
Glad you enjoyed
So true. Mine kick me out when I could just walk on my broken ankle. And when he found out I had bowel cancer, that was the end. He lefted and walked into another relationship the next day.
😔
That wasn't a partner. 😑 Take time to heal... 💝 Big Hugz
Jonathon you provide good content...and we have to be tolerant to one another. I consider you as a messenger of a divine message. I like your style ...you are vulnerable...and real. You speak from experiences....i can't stand the so called " godly men" preaching to women. I want to learn from someone who went through the process.
No 6 is awesome Jonathan. Thank you so much for sharing. ♥️💯🇬🇧
Excellent!
I'd heard many advices of some famous relationship coaches, but Jon said it the best.
Jon is straightforward & explained it thoroughly.
He is very to the point!
Good job, Jon!
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Amen
You are right. People often pull away when they don't care. Mm
Yes
Just btw I find the swearing hilarious! And the weed smoking jokes lmao 👍
You are something else...and I mean that in a good way! You could easily be a psychologist if you wanted, but as a life coach you are phenomenal! I usually don't like F Bombs, but the way you drop them makes me laugh every time!
WOW, thank you 😊
When Harry Met Sally. My absolutely favorite movie 🍿💕
For anyone who saw ALL OF THIS HONEST AND PASSIONATE VIDEO... Love is NOT the icing on the Fucking CAKE!!! IT'S the CHERRY on TOP! ❤😂🍒
Your cool I like how you tell people they can log off your channel if they don't like cursing lol. Generation x is the coolest generation I'm one too.
Lo e your, advice..keep up the great work!!!
Appreciate it!
I like the "vulnerable with you" sign.
Hi Jonathan, I don’t cheat on a man. I only dated one man at a time. You mention Porn in your show tonight; and how it can mess a person up. I feel that if every person took a vail, to practice (Celibacy for one year; only single people). The world be a better place.
A.) Men and Women would have more respect for each other.
B.) Dating would become more meaningful. A man or
woman would take the time to appreciate the dating experience, getting to know one another.
C.) Couples would be more committed to each other. Which could lead to more marriages and lessen the potential for divorce.
D.) Jonathan, this is the big one. It would lessen the potential for sexually transmitted diseases and unplanned pregnancies.
I have been Celibate for 37 years. I made a promise to God, that the only man that I will ever have sex with; will be my future husband. I went through a lot of childhood trauma and sex abuse.The men that I dated in my early twenties and thirties treated me with disrespect. (I am not crazy, I have morals and respect for my body). Amen
There is a saying" tell me i will lilsten, teach me I will learn...show me i will practice. " in the showing/sharing of your real lived experiences...we are convinced to practice. This is a church Jonathon...you need a deacon...bringing water and handkerchief wiping your face...( am joking but you get what i mean) . I appreciate you.
Hi jonathon you are a diamond in the rough keep up the good work and the cursing from Belfast chick 😊 ❤
Thank you, I will
Jonathan,I wish you lived in PA. I love your spunk
Ohhh I wish exactly the same for men my age (I am 25), men who are curious, who like to talk, who want to try new things, who are excited about life and want to do life with me!!! I swear in all my relationships, I'm always the one feeling so excited to do things and have an opinion or want to comment about something and want to grow with someone. But they think it's "I'm too much" or they are soo freaking boring. And they are okay with being so average and so normal lol. It's like, don't you get excited when it's super sunny outside, or excited to make a huge breakfast or excited about reading an amazing book??? Why are you so monotoned LOL.
I appreciate the repetition! Please keep it up. You are 100% correct. I was in martial arts for years and it's all about repetition.
It's drilling it into my subconscious. Thank you. 🙏
Well said!
Ahaha you're so candid, I like how you spill the beans, reality bites really
How funny. Your answer to the question "What do you think of long distance relationships and you said "I think they rarely work out". Then you found Marie. ❤
But then again... local relationships rarely work either.
@@JonathonAslay this is true, a lot of people are damaged and are not strong enough to do the work to fix themselves. I think I met someone normal recently but I'm taking it slow.
Gosh, your content can be potentially life-saving (I mean, literalllllly...like another 1 poor relationship away from just ending it all !!!) ....you're gifted in verbal communication. You're not overdoing it. Thanks for helping women. You just don't know how many vulnerable emotionally messed up already women ur saving from just suicide-ing bc they repeat another bad relationship cuz they're plain ignorant about how men view the relationship
You can do it!
Yes please repeat yourself Jonathan so I don’t have to rewind your important points.