Men Will RESPECT Your Value When They See THESE 5 Things
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- Men Will RESPECT Your Value When They See THESE 5 Things... Knowing how to understand your value is essential to cultivating self-confidence and a positive self-image. I want you to understand your value on first dates, online dating, or elsewhere in the dating process. Take heed to this relationship advice to learn more about how to understand your value and ensure you watch to the end.
I want you to know how to get men to respect your value and be able to make choices that prioritize your well-being. Getting men to respect your value is important because when you can get men to respect your value, you empower yourself to build healthier and more fulfilling connections. Pay attention to this dating advice to understand men better and know how to get men to respect you.
As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray that you find this video helpful and that you can enjoy dating and have a fulfilling, healthy relationship.
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I really needed to hear this today thank you for make the video and sharing it.
Thank you for your quick answer. Maybe I'll order the book
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1. Not every man is built to see your value
2. You need to be confident and authentic
3. Creating peace around you
4. Create peace within you
5. Not accepting less than you deserve
6. To show that you are open to correction and growth
7. Be the woman God wants you to be.
I know my worth and it's priceless. I'm not chasing anyone, I'm not looking, I'm waiting on God's promises 🙏🏾 eggs don't chase sperm the sperm chase the egg
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
🙏 Amen 👍
God doesn’t promise marriage to anyone tho. Marriage isn’t a biblical promise.
@@Laoriginal718Who said anything about marriage?
@@Laoriginal718 honey you live your life and let God guide mines
This video had me crying happy tears. Because I’m walking in my value as we speak. Many have passed me by. Until, one man saw my value and he asked me to marry him and I said. Yes! All Praises for this confirmation 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Thank you for sharing this
Congratulations Sis 🎉
Great for you ❤
Congratulations 🎉
Congratulations to you queen!! 🎊 👏🏽 💐 🥳
The way y’all seek male validation and really see marriage as a win is pretty sad! 💀
I would rather have a peace of mind than a piece of man. He's absolutely 💯 right. Ladies have confidence and love yourself. Don't let any man devalue your worthiness.
“Some of you have a dirty unorganized home” 😫😭😂😂😂😂I’M SCREAMING because he’s right! This was me until I got it together. I was a newly divorced single mom of three young kids, leaving that bad relationship left me in a deep depression and I let myself and my home go. My sister finally had a serious talk with me and I addressed it starting getting back into clean habits again. It totally changed my whole mood and the way I carried myself around and my kids. ❤thanks for always speaking truth! We need to hear it
Lol ummmm I like to say mine just looks lived in...😅
Signs
"Confidence is not about thinking you're going to always get it right, it's about not being afraid to get it wrong.. it's not about thinking everyone's going to like you, it's about not caring when someone doesn't.. it's accepting yourself, loving yourself.. Whoever's going to like it, like it, and whoever doesn't doesn't" 💖💖💖
That's gift-giving.
This is beautiful
Chased him for 2 weeks. I’m so embarrassed. Not any more! I will NOT be ignored and my value not seen! Amen!!
🙏 ❤️
I've learned the more you chase someone, the more they run away from you. It's so hard when you feel like you had a genuine connection with someone but if they can't see your value, gotta let it go.
Amen 🙏🏾
You are not designed to chase, you are designed to attract. That's why personal development is key, and working on yourself to become a better person and the right person will find you effortlessly because without chasing.
@weinerwagon6667 Never chase a man YOU are the prize.
As a woman who was married to a narcissist, who left me in a very bad place when I divorced him, it took me five years to get back to my full potential, build up my business by my own home, and be financially successful, spiritually, and mentally strong. It took me so much to get to that point yet now that I am in a new relationship, I will never disclose how poorly my ex-husband treated me. It’s in the past, and I fear it will paint me as a woman who will tolerate disrespect. I told my new boyfriend that I was spoiled beyond belief, which is true financially, but not emotionally. I told him that I was spoiled beyond belief and he treats me like gold. You have to mark yourself in a positive light. All I’m saying is don’t tell your new man that your last man was disrespectful. It will make him think it’s OK.
That's powerful and very smart. I never thought of it that way.
i had to learn that the hard way. now i always lie on dates and tell them i’m use to men buying me things and paying for dates. i also lie and say i have a great relationship with my dad. weeds out shit men and sets the bar high for those who are interested.
Love the wisdom! Thank you
@@sweetcheeks5775 why lie ... Why not say what we learnt
and viola the very things shera seven teaches which i just posted about on my channel
I feel like you’re the older brother I never had! Thank you ❤
My pleasure ❤️
Man… the knowledge this man speaks! He feels more like a mentor to me. He’s in the rotation for my daily personal development time.
I had to tell a guy just a few days ago that I want a man who loves & fears God, who has integrity, is abstaining from sex until marriage & has a well paying job and manages his finances well, those are my standards in how I started valuing myself when it comes to dating. The guy I told this to said that as we're getting older (I'm only 32), my standards are too high. I asked him how are my standards too high (for my age)? Firstly I'm still young, 2ndly, why are we rushing to settle for trash on the streets? For who, for what, for why? I knew that this guy just wouldn't meet my expectation & I'm not forcing anyone to, he's just not for me & it's really ok. There's some good guys out there who will have similar values. God told me never to settle, so I've learned from my past experience, ain't no way Imma be disobedient & allow someone to devalue me by settling for less than what God wants for me. The right one will come 😊
Many men or people in general think 30+ is quite a lot already because of the limited ability of a woman to have kids. Especially in men channels they are promoting this idea: to date and marry women who are younger than 30...
Trust me,its not about money,love is priceless
Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that and pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you ❤ 🙏
🙏 to that! Stand strong in your faith and God will bring you the right man.
Yesss Okayyyyy talk to em 🗣️🗣️🙌🏽🎯
It breaks my heart to detach from people that I love or once loved because I still hold them close
I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
Not me!
You have no idea how timely this message is. I've been crying all morning after another disappointing meeting. I'm tired of this diabetic, soda drinking, septic dating pool! It's infested! I've been questioning my standards because I feel like no one is meeting them. I'm acknowledging now that it's not my standard. It's the quality of men I've been meeting. I won't diminish myself for a relationship. If I'm alone for the rest of my natural life, so be it. I'm not going away from the plan.
I hear you, I affirm you, I am standing right there beside you with this comment, and I am going through this with your same mindset. We got this girlfriend! Lets get out of the cesspool and figure out how to put ourselves in better company as we pray for God's guidance :)
Thank you for writing this, I feel you 100% and I have the same mindset. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, now I confirm that I am not the only one and that I am not crazy.
After another situation that ended disappointment, I absolutely agree with this!
Bless your heart
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*When we love, we always strive to become better than we are. When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too.*
I know my worth🤗🤗🤗God will never fail me , 👏👏i deserve better things in life😊😊😊
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
It's the not letting the bad behavior slide for me.. He will try you and try you and try you some more.. Stand firm no matter what level he's on..
Being the woman God wants you to be is the principal cornerstone of all this.
Most definitely!
I’m in 💯 agreement on all you’ve said. I watched my daughter lose 150 lbs and boom, she was lighter, healthier and her confidence blossomed. True beauty showed up. She’s an out door enthusiast and now she blogs, is a photographer and engaged. For myself, health, fasting ( currently) detoxing, prayer, peace and purpose are what God desires for us and where he can do amazing things in and through us. I just stepped away from 18 yrs of chaos in a marriage. I had to leave to find peace. I felt stuck and not appreciated for my true self. It was so freeing and I will guard my space and keep the peace to attract the next right man if God chooses that for me. I love your videos Stephen and find your wisdom so impactful and helpful.
Stephen, you have helped me so much. I am now sungle after being in a 21 year abusive relationship. Your words have helped me to heal. Thank you for being honest, genuine, and honest. You are the big brother we all need.
First and foremost there s only one me
I love being me
There s no one like me
And there never will be
I always embrace this genesis thought
Am fearfully and wonderfully made
That's conformation from the good book the BIBLE
Thanks coach Steph for this reminder
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Car analogy is great!
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Someone’s worth and value is priceless, but we should not go and try selling ourselves to another person. They should see it when you show it in time!!
My homework is not only in fully understanding my worth, but more in the practice of not advertising it. It's not my place to convince anyone of sampling or even purchasing what I have to offer. 11 times out of 10, those that I'm trying to convince are just not interested or even in the market
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
Loving that yellow on your beautiful skin. Thanks for the new videos.
My pleasure ❤️
I'm getting to know my worth at 39 😌💯
Yessss sis!
Checking your weight... really got that haven't heard this before..
That was what I did in the pass years..i was so sick to the extent of me hating my own self..i was so scared, complaining to myself that no man will ever want someone want me the way I was because I was definitely out of place...i started seeking for solutions everywhere and anywhere but to no avail. So i decided to start praying to God to make a way for me so that I can become healthier and beautiful...booms God did it
I mean for the past 2yrs i haven't been in any relationship i use those years taking care of my health and beauty... here i am now everyone is appreciating God in my life. Even with that am still taking my time because I deserve the best man.
Youre Dropping Gems Stephan!
You hit it on the nose when you mentioned "changing the peace around you" ❤
Thanks for always looking out for us Stephan ❤. Working hard to be the woman that is more precious than rubies.
Hey Stephan, I just want to comment by aging thank you. I have learnt a lot from you over the course of two years. I notice a massive side rent when I implement certain things within my relationship versus when I wasn’t. The moment I walk with an air of value, he is different with me and guess what, he steps it up a few notches because he hasn’t to match or better my energy. He calls me his inspiration and motivation because of how I see myself and what I do to constantly improve and grow
Thank you Stephan for this video! It was filled with great advice. You keep it real even when it’s something that we may not want to hear about ourselves. The truth is very very needed. You speak from a good perspective every time and your included analogy’s makes it understandable and helps me to remember the point that you made. Your wisdom and knowledge is very appreciated! Thank you so much!
😆 Those disclaimers are sooo sweet!! I really feel you try to describe your divine counterpart! Good luck Stephan! ❤
It is so beautiful the way you speak , the extra care, attention & kindness you use for delicate topics . The truth always hurt, it’s a knockout so softening the blow or setting up a soft cushion to land on are the only options when you love or care about the person and even ourself. Keep excelling Stephan 🙏🏻💕. Thank you for all your outstanding teachings. God bless.
Stephan you really are doing Gods work in regards to relationships. Thank you for the time, thought and effort you devote to these videos and articulating the truth. I am in a relationship going on 4 months and we are passing the honeymoon stage and going on to the being triggered stage/getting comfortable stage and it feels like a cross roads for me. Watching your content allows me to consider other perspectives and look at his behaviour to really understand the nuances and then ask myself the hard questions. I am 32 and don’t have the time to give to someone who isn’t willing to put in the work a mature relationship requires….. anyway, just wanted to say thank you for what you do for us women🙏🏻
The Wright point is on point 😁
I prayed and asked to be healed in my body and be helped on my health journey, and God helped me stay on track when I couldn't before even though I knew what needed to be done. And yes I feel better in my body, my mindset and the glow is visible, attracting different opportunities. I feel better and I know I'm heading to what's for me, in a more confident way. Thank you
You're an amazing man/soul. You confirm my entire vibe. Love listening to you!
Always on point.. Stephan, you're definitely in your purpose when it comes to your gift.. continue to get closer and closer to GOD!!! GOD knows my heart and HES ALWAYS Speaking through you!!! Thank you Jesus!!! 👑
This is so well said and presented well! As women we must stay in tune with ourselves and remember to have patience. ❤
Weight is a really sensitive topic and I thank you for proceeding with caution. I needed to hear that. Thank you for teaching us all what a healthy relationship and person looks and how to cultivate that. God bless you 🤍
This was what I needed. I didn’t get the notification from TH-cam but I definitely got the email notification. I am going through it I was questioning myself. Healing is where I am at now. Taking my notes. This message was God sent. 🙏🏾 Thank you.
HAHA LOVE THE ANALOGIES ! THANK YOU for reminding us all to get back to our highest value that we know we are worth!!
The way you care for the heart & souls of women is so appreciated. Your energy is powerful & healing. Thank you for sharing so much knowledge, love, and positivity.
I know my worth and I refuse to settle for less. I trust God to send me the right person. I don’t run behind men I keep it moving. 😊
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith ❤️ 🙏🏼
Amen 🙏🏽
Thank you for mentioning the home environment this is important you always give great jewel's of wisdom!
You being brave will change someone’s life. Way to go, Stefan, saying things many think but are hesitant to say. You did it very well too
Thank you for this Stephan i understand my worth and i am never gonna chase anyone that doesnt appreciate my value
I have done it before sold myself for short I forgave myself and I feel so much better definitely feel much more confident felt like that was the test of time and that’s ok pray for peace and that God will bless me ❤❤❤thank you for this message 😊
GREAT ANALOGY! I needed to hear that!
Men dedicated to serve in the name of kindness, respect, wellbeing, creation, love is a majestic shift in a society, specialy nowadays. My deepest bow to you, dear Stephan, and to all men who were serving, are serving and will serve to that. 🧡🙏
Yes! That is me. I've been told that my walk says I act like I'm better. I told this ex neighbor that I've had this walk as a preteen. I told him that I'm usually in a good space, and my walk must show that. In my head; those that have a problem with my presence has an internal challenge
As usual, this was an awesome video, full.on love on the delivery. Thank you, @Stephan ❤
My pleasure ❤️
Stephan, I'm grateful for your messages, especially the tough topics! Thank you for your respectful strength, gentle tone and sensitive words.
That's incredible. You have outdone yourself today. Your advice absolutely resonated with me. I could feel what you mean. Thank you very much, it will accompany me for a while and make me think.
You really spoke to me Stephan. I was so confident until I met a particular man online. Since this man I completely stopped dating all men of this particular race. I cut myself short!! Thank you Stephan. My eyes are now open.
Wow, just wow. Nicely put and so true. In my current situation it’s as if I heard God in my spirit telling me to remember who I am. All I could say was yes lord and the what followed just has me in awe. This message is a reminder of that. Thank you
Love this so much. This past month I’ve been really finding myself. Turning to God, building a relationship with God. Following truth, happiness and putting in a lot of hard work to be my best self. I’ve been in the gym every other day for this entire month and have lost 10 pounds just this month. I feel amazing, spiritually , mentally, physically.. self love makes the world of a difference. I’m married but it doesn’t change how helpful and inspiring this video was. ❤ thank you 🙏🏽
Some people can't handle the truth. They run from it. But running affects us more. Thanks for advice ❤❤❤
The creating peace around us concept makes so much sense.
And love that you pointed out that ‘messy’ houses - it’s huge revelation. .
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
Thank you Stephan for your words and this message and all the blessings that always you send us. God bless you always!
❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much and may God bless you as well 🙏
Love the house Analogy! Real talk!!!
He's really good at expression... You feel what he's talking about...
It is so true that our weight can impact in so many ways...thanks to the man he's brought into my life since my weight loss journey, I'm not where I want to be but I'm getting there with lots of support
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
Thank you, as bright as the Sun. Most important is to clarify your own value to yourself as a woman.
I SO NEEDED THIS MESSAGE!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH!! GOD BLESS YOU!!! 🙌
❤️ 🙂 Thank you and may God bless you as well 🙏
Amen brother thank God for all his blessings and joy he brings to your heart
A wife of Noble character
Who can find? I am worth more then Rubies 🙌🏾 Proverbs 31:10
Thank you so much Stephen for this video.
Thank you! It’s good to hear this message.
Stephan, thank you so much for your content. It is very helpful and you adress so many important points in your videos. You speak respectfully and you aren't afraid to bring up the things we need to hear. May God reward you
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
God bless you Precious Stephan I thank God for giving me the confidence in knowing my true worth. And being Authentic is what I value the most. I Shall continue to trust God 💯. I know that God has the right King for me that will receive me as the Loving Queen that I Am. I love being in a peaceful state because it's healthy for your heart, mind and Spirit. Precious Stephan I truly appreciate you always sharing words of wisdom and knowledge that's a blessing to All. I've asked God to restore, rejuvenate and to bless you beyond measures in the Miraculous and on time name of Jesus.
Always Love Almeta ❤️🙏
Stephan be preaching 👏🏼 like you can definitely tell God is speaking through him to us. Thank you for this message 🫶🏼
Real appreciation for this video! Thanks again for this Stephan 🙏🏼
My pleasure ❤️
Stephen always speaking the true values on life & relationships. This man is a blessing walking. 💗
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
I'm only 2 minutes I LOVE IT! That car analogy was 🔥🔥🔥🔥 thank you so much!
Thank you for the video. Very enlightening. I definitely have a few areas to work on and I am encouraged and motivated to make the necessary changes to better myself ✨🥰
The house analogies you used for several key points were spot on. One unintended thing I got from this was that it allowed me to take inventory for some course correction. I try to be open to it where possible. So good…
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts. I appreciate that!
Thank you so much Stephan , i love this.
My pleasure ❤️
You're such a kind and thoughtful coach! Always say it like it is!!
Very helpful! Thank you Stephan!
That’s what bothers me. Every time we talk about the healing part. I don’t watch reality tv hell or tv at all, I don’t listen to bs, I workout 5 times a week, maybe even 6 I have an exceptional diet. I’ve lost over 65lbs… I keep my home clean, I take time for myself I journal, but some kind of way… I have found myself back in a weird situation and I can’t understand for the life of me why God would allow me to go through this AGAIN… I have came so far and worked so hard to get to this place this space of peace. Now I feel this gentleman seriously came in my life to disturb my peace and play with me. It has taken everything in me to keep it together and just say okay and walk away but not understanding WHY is really blowing mine. It’s so annoying… smh I hate having to be the bigger person… I feel like I’m saying it’s cool and just leaving and it’s not cool! SMH having to give myself the closure is so annoying! None of this makes any sense. But okay… smh yall this going on real time 🤦🏽♀️😩let me get ready for this damn gym smh I can’t…
I feel you! It’s frustrating.
It's a test. Learn whatever you can from it and move on. You're now operating from experiencing, growth, and peace. You got this. I went through this last summer it's taken me 7 months to heal. Now I've healed better than before. Because I was able to heal things with that individual that were still unconsciously lingering.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
You may never get closure from that person and that's ok. Accept this truth, learn from the experience, and the same discipline you use for the gym, use to do what you need to do to heal. Whether it be therapy, self-care, or no contact
@@thebeamli thanks mamas! 🤞🏽
I’m a Christ Centered Holistic Personal Trainer and a Specialist in Detoxification and Cellular Regeneration. You’re right about plant based eating. Meat and processed foods absolutely create inflammation in the body which inflames your cells and your brain can not function properly, nor can the organs. I’m heart break, this is especially important. I have had to really watch my diet during heart break! Your mental health depends on what you eat spiritually and physically. ❤
Narc abuse caused me to become MCs/ei, I almost lost my life in 2020. Changing my diet to natural foods 100% changed my life. I lost 55 lbs already and I physically feel like a different person. I was so sick and I now I am so much better. I was allergic to EVERYTHING, and now it’s only 2 things praise God Almighty. Full recovery in Jesus name. Also I want to say I am 38 and have 4 kids all naturally. I was at 250 lbs and currently at 195. Still working on becoming fit enough to ever save someone in an emergency 😂❤🎉.
Good morning Bobbi. Yes, this is a beautiful message for today. Thank you. Have a wonderful day. See you and Chris tonight!❤️
Thank you.. for every point
I love this🥰🥰🥰 . God bless you Stephan.🙏
Thanks Stefan you always give great advice and you always inspiring❤❤❤❤❤
Stephen it took me years to figure this out and so many tough lessons. I agree with you 💯 percent and have started pouring this lesson into my daughters.
Great analogy
Thank you, Stephan - you're very wise and entertaining. 🙏
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
Amen! Value our worth!
Most definitely!
This was beautiful thank you for making this video. From my experience all of this is true. Years ago I was not making room for a relationship and my home wasn’t peaceful or put together. I thank God He’s helped me throughout the years and it’s made a huge difference in my life and how I can enjoy a peaceful home and life without those things.
I will say, I never realized it until I did it. For those unsure just do it, it’s worth the peace of mind. ❤
Thank you Stephan... another great video with excellent advice
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Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
I needed this. Whew!!!! Thank you!!!
Love the car analogy! ❤
Thank you Stephen
What your saying is true a certain someone don’t see the value or worth I have been putting into him I’m not talking about just money I’m talking about what I need from a man I’m not getting in him and I’m not settling for less or any man selling me short .
This is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you Stephan ❤ I appreciate you
Love you brother🙏🏻
Profound and insightful
I missed a lot of red flags with the last man I dated. When they all came into view after the second date & he asked for too much if we had a third, I told him no. The man was a narcissist who had been lying at every opportunity, and when I called him on it, he told me God hated people like me. I laughed so hard over that one. The complete lunacy and bloated ego that he would even begin to know who "god" liked or disliked. Dodged a huge bullet with that one. I also started screening even more thoroughly. I know people have pasts that many haven't healed from or even explored, but that doesn't give anyone the right to judge me. I don't judge, but I do learn from their actions what to expect from them.
You didn't miss them. You were in denial and overlook. Been there.
Home run ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ this was awesome!!!!!
I received it ALL in love. Thank you for being so careful and thoughtful in your approach. ❤ I love watching your videos..
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Great video Stephen Thank you 😊