Spot on ! He hoovered from an unknown number two months ago, i took the call as it was an unkmown number... " i said "hello" and it was him. He said " i need your help " , i cut the line without saying a word ! Grey rock & no contact are the keys ! Do not show any emotions to them ! Don't talk to Satan ! Silence is gold !
You nailed it! It takes a lot of strength to maintain no contact and stick to the grey rock method. Your decision to cut the call shows great self-control and awareness. Silence truly is powerful when dealing with manipulation. Keep prioritizing your peace!
She wants to come back to me after calling the police and trying to get me arrested for no reason ? Also everything you say in these videos have blown my mind it’s all been spot on. I’ve been single for 6 months now and I’m still emotionally and mentally screwed up from her
Fish Guy- I'm going through the exact same thing brother, only she didn't call the cops on me yet but she threatened to... she has more red flags than a Chinese parade!
Glad I have healed from mine. She will never have a next chance in this lifetime with me. I have absolutely no feelings towards her. I feels so free and happy from the trauma bond.
Hey fam definitely devil's word em up on the level I'm going threw it now been together since 20 years old I'm 54 now she is a str8 jezzabell spell she having sex with under age boys and girls,even allowed 20 year old pimp her and and help him get cars and trucks for his girlfriend and sleepin with both of them they tried to run her over with a car she calling me film her while they doing it I said that dude had a his friends do it she said that's the dude u laying down and u allowed him to pimp u,she got quite I laughed at her because she thinks she so slick she a slime ball demon narrissit witch craft they in to she is also STDs brought back, demonic possession trampoline narrissit witch craft works but she getting broke going into her 401k bought and she helping them get a car and I bought one for us and they plots with them to have care tow so I'ma catch up with with wit em gaining on em .and she work for Feds and that dude do too been with her since 20 years old and she kept it a secret.
Thank you for sharing your perspective! It’s great to hear from someone with your experience, and I appreciate your endorsement of Dr. R. Their insights can make a significant difference in understanding and healing from narcissistic relationships.
I was a new supply and I know I was a way better quality partner than what he had...but he had to go back because I would not put up with his shit. He was losing with me so please go back to your enabler!😂
It sounds like you made the right choice for yourself by standing your ground! Recognizing your worth and not tolerating unhealthy behavior is so important. Keep embracing your strength, and thank you for sharing your experience! 😂
That’s Not nice….. your cruel, You DO NOT KNOW the Crap and evil practices of the NARC that dominates the poor mind of Primary supply Wives (or husbands) ITS BRAINWASHING… It’s excruciatingly confusing
You were right imagine from 2009 till 2019 then on off till 2024 of October only Oct I learned that my ex is Narcissist I was married 1990 I think Narcissist too oh I’m still here ohh I’m really tough . Thank you so much
It sounds like you've been on quite a journey, and it's amazing that you've gained this insight about your experiences! Recognizing the patterns is a huge step toward healing. Your strength is truly inspiring. Thank you for sharing your story!
Second nex is dying. I agreed to talk to him on the phone after two decades. He did apologize for some things, he apologized for some things I never even knew about. And, denied others. It wasn't worth it. I'll never do it again. It did nothing for me. Total waste of my time. Don't do it. They're rather pathetic and you can see how their minds have deteriorated. Oh. And I saw a photo of him. I'm actually a bit older than him but he looked decades older than me. A walking corpse. He could be an extra in a zombie movie and not need any makeup.
Thank you for sharing your experience. It’s powerful to recognize that reconnecting doesn’t always bring the closure we hope for. It sounds like you’ve gained a lot of clarity and strength from this situation. Stay strong and keep focusing on your own well-being!
Yup. The first nex and I were high school sweethearts. I stayed for five years. He said I ruined his life by getting pregnant. So, I left. He was single for fifteen years and had about a million women. Then he got what he always wanted. A skinny blonde that makes a lot of money. They're still together after a couple of decades. But, all that glitters is not gold.
Thank you for sharing your story. It’s powerful to hear how you took control of your life and moved on from that relationship. You're right. What seems perfect on the surface often hides deeper issues. Your strength and insight are inspiring!
Right on, brother. My malignant narcissist ex-wife told me I was a loser and delete all her contact info; I have been in total no contact for ten years-not one word. A backfire? She continued her hypergamous path and re-married 3 years after our divorce. Women without children have so many more options than the discarded men…
It sounds like you've made a strong choice by maintaining no contact for your own well-being. It’s tough to deal with those hurtful comments, but focusing on your own path and healing is what truly matters. Thank you for sharing your experience. Wishing you continued strength and growth!
Enlightening your Life w/ Joy Eternal w/ Jesus. Set your Focus on High…. “All Good Things come to those who Love the Lord” Whether I ever get married again or NOT…. I must be at peace with myself, My Jesus who loves me so much, and my friends and family. Live Life my friend
I disagree and I’d like you to do a topic on the difference between a male and a female narcissist. The reason being is a female narcissist (especially one who is attractive) has way more options (available supply) than a male narcissist. So this is one of the reasons why my ex will never try and hoover me as she has a long list of potential suitors. The other reason is I exposed her and called her out on her actions so returning to me means feelings of guilt and shame which is her kryponite.
Thank you for your insightful perspective! The dynamics between male and female narcissists can indeed vary significantly, and your experience highlights some important points. I appreciate your suggestion for a future topic, as exploring these differences could provide valuable insights for many.
@MegaRockstar48 Female narcissist do not have more options, they are just more evil and deceptive. Think Jezebel. Both male and female are horrible regardless
Did you make up the terminology for Golden X? I tried Googling it and it doesn't give me a definition for Golden X syndrome in narcissism? I was interested in further detail and clarification please, if possible? Or were you just trying to say someone like me is special to the narcissist so they always will compare their future partners, but they won't measure up?! Praise the Lord! ❤
Great question! "Golden ex" refers to the idea of being the idealized partner or the one the narcissist holds in high regard, often leading to comparisons with future partners. It's not a widely recognized term, but I use it to highlight that special status and the impact it can have.
That's a tough situation, and it can be really disorienting. Many people can unknowingly find themselves in that role. The important thing is to recognize the signs and prioritize your well-being moving forward. Awareness is the first step to breaking free!
It sounds like you're making a strong choice for your well-being, and that’s really important. Focusing on yourself and staying away from negativity can be a powerful step towards healing. Keep prioritizing your peace and take care of yourself!
Give your heart to the King of the Universe; King Jesus…. Focus on Him and His Love and Guidance. He’s leading us to better ourselves for the purpose of HIM, going to heaven with HIM
I’m really sorry to hear that you’re feeling this way. It’s tough when someone we care about expresses such hurtful things. Remember, healing takes time, and it's okay to seek support wherever you can. You deserve kindness and understanding. Keep taking care of yourself!
They couldn't pay me to go back any of them that's fact thrive be alone setting for shit I never deserved me money and new puppy that's happiness to me that's a blessing to me less required and love never have to question
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Spot on ! He hoovered from an unknown number two months ago, i took the call as it was an unkmown number... " i said "hello" and it was him. He said " i need your help " , i cut the line without saying a word ! Grey rock & no contact are the keys ! Do not show any emotions to them ! Don't talk to Satan ! Silence is gold !
You nailed it! It takes a lot of strength to maintain no contact and stick to the grey rock method. Your decision to cut the call shows great self-control and awareness. Silence truly is powerful when dealing with manipulation. Keep prioritizing your peace!
She wants to come back to me after calling the police and trying to get me arrested for no reason ? Also everything you say in these videos have blown my mind it’s all been spot on. I’ve been single for 6 months now and I’m still emotionally and mentally screwed up from her
Fish Guy: After a year out of the toxic relationship it almost seems like things are back to normal.
Fish Guy- I'm going through the exact same thing brother, only she didn't call the cops on me yet but she threatened to... she has more red flags than a Chinese parade!
Glad I have healed from mine. She will never have a next chance in this lifetime with me. I have absolutely no feelings towards her. I feels so free and happy from the trauma bond.
Same. She got a TRO for me saying karma is going to get her.
Hey fam definitely devil's word em up on the level I'm going threw it now been together since 20 years old I'm 54 now she is a str8 jezzabell spell she having sex with under age boys and girls,even allowed 20 year old pimp her and and help him get cars and trucks for his girlfriend and sleepin with both of them they tried to run her over with a car she calling me film her while they doing it I said that dude had a his friends do it she said that's the dude u laying down and u allowed him to pimp u,she got quite I laughed at her because she thinks she so slick she a slime ball demon narrissit witch craft they in to she is also STDs brought back, demonic possession trampoline narrissit witch craft works but she getting broke going into her 401k bought and she helping them get a car and I bought one for us and they plots with them to have care tow so I'ma catch up with with wit em gaining on em
.and she work for Feds and that dude do too been with her since 20 years old and she kept it a secret.
I've been a psychotherapist for 20 years. I find Dr.R to be one of the most superior practical therapists.
Thank you for sharing your perspective! It’s great to hear from someone with your experience, and I appreciate your endorsement of Dr. R. Their insights can make a significant difference in understanding and healing from narcissistic relationships.
I was a new supply and I know I was a way better quality partner than what he had...but he had to go back because I would not put up with his shit. He was losing with me so please go back to your enabler!😂
It sounds like you made the right choice for yourself by standing your ground! Recognizing your worth and not tolerating unhealthy behavior is so important. Keep embracing your strength, and thank you for sharing your experience! 😂
That’s Not nice….. your cruel, You DO NOT KNOW the Crap and evil practices of the NARC that dominates the poor mind of Primary supply Wives (or husbands) ITS BRAINWASHING… It’s excruciatingly confusing
You were right imagine from 2009 till 2019 then on off till 2024 of October only Oct I learned that my ex is Narcissist I was married 1990 I think Narcissist too oh I’m still here ohh I’m really tough . Thank you so much
It sounds like you've been on quite a journey, and it's amazing that you've gained this insight about your experiences! Recognizing the patterns is a huge step toward healing. Your strength is truly inspiring. Thank you for sharing your story!
Second nex is dying. I agreed to talk to him on the phone after two decades. He did apologize for some things, he apologized for some things I never even knew about. And, denied others. It wasn't worth it. I'll never do it again. It did nothing for me. Total waste of my time.
Don't do it. They're rather pathetic and you can see how their minds have deteriorated. Oh. And I saw a photo of him. I'm actually a bit older than him but he looked decades older than me. A walking corpse. He could be an extra in a zombie movie and not need any makeup.
Thank you for sharing your experience. It’s powerful to recognize that reconnecting doesn’t always bring the closure we hope for. It sounds like you’ve gained a lot of clarity and strength from this situation. Stay strong and keep focusing on your own well-being!
Yup. The first nex and I were high school sweethearts. I stayed for five years. He said I ruined his life by getting pregnant. So, I left. He was single for fifteen years and had about a million women. Then he got what he always wanted. A skinny blonde that makes a lot of money. They're still together after a couple of decades. But, all that glitters is not gold.
Thank you for sharing your story. It’s powerful to hear how you took control of your life and moved on from that relationship. You're right. What seems perfect on the surface often hides deeper issues. Your strength and insight are inspiring!
Right on, brother. My malignant narcissist ex-wife told me I was a loser and delete all her contact info; I have been in total no contact for ten years-not one word. A backfire? She continued her hypergamous path and re-married 3 years after our divorce. Women without children have so many more options than the discarded men…
It sounds like you've made a strong choice by maintaining no contact for your own well-being. It’s tough to deal with those hurtful comments, but focusing on your own path and healing is what truly matters. Thank you for sharing your experience. Wishing you continued strength and growth!
Enlightening your Life w/ Joy Eternal w/ Jesus. Set your Focus on High…. “All Good Things come to those who Love the Lord”
Whether I ever get married again or NOT…. I must be at peace with myself, My Jesus who loves me so much, and my friends and family. Live Life my friend
I disagree and I’d like you to do a topic on the difference between a male and a female narcissist. The reason being is a female narcissist (especially one who is attractive) has way more options (available supply) than a male narcissist. So this is one of the reasons why my ex will never try and hoover me as she has a long list of potential suitors. The other reason is I exposed her and called her out on her actions so returning to me means feelings of guilt and shame which is her kryponite.
Thank you for your insightful perspective! The dynamics between male and female narcissists can indeed vary significantly, and your experience highlights some important points. I appreciate your suggestion for a future topic, as exploring these differences could provide valuable insights for many.
@MegaRockstar48 Female narcissist do not have more options, they are just more evil and deceptive. Think Jezebel.
Both male and female are horrible regardless
Did you make up the terminology for Golden X? I tried Googling it and it doesn't give me a definition for Golden X syndrome in narcissism? I was interested in further detail and clarification please, if possible? Or were you just trying to say someone like me is special to the narcissist so they always will compare their future partners, but they won't measure up?! Praise the Lord! ❤
Great question! "Golden ex" refers to the idea of being the idealized partner or the one the narcissist holds in high regard, often leading to comparisons with future partners. It's not a widely recognized term, but I use it to highlight that special status and the impact it can have.
What if you were the new supply and had no idea a narcissist existed.
That's a tough situation, and it can be really disorienting. Many people can unknowingly find themselves in that role. The important thing is to recognize the signs and prioritize your well-being moving forward. Awareness is the first step to breaking free!
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Im trying to say away she doesn't care don't bother her any ill say away longer
It sounds like you're making a strong choice for your well-being, and that’s really important. Focusing on yourself and staying away from negativity can be a powerful step towards healing. Keep prioritizing your peace and take care of yourself!
@@NarcPedia I do feel peice she had me smoking meth I went and got help and I'm clean Feeling good about my self
She not coming back she said she hates me said I'm weird these videos don't help really
Give your heart to the King of the Universe; King Jesus…. Focus on Him and His Love and Guidance. He’s leading us to better ourselves for the purpose of HIM, going to heaven with HIM
I’m really sorry to hear that you’re feeling this way. It’s tough when someone we care about expresses such hurtful things. Remember, healing takes time, and it's okay to seek support wherever you can. You deserve kindness and understanding. Keep taking care of yourself!
@@NarcPedia think u just some times I think its not fair and she sleeping with other man but and again I don't know that i need to move on
These videos are helping a lot and I learned so much things for the help
@StevieHoneycutt-v6j dude as soon as she is with someone else it's over! Never take her back ever ! Sever all ways that she can contact you .
They couldn't pay me to go back any of them that's fact thrive be alone setting for shit I never deserved me money and new puppy that's happiness to me that's a blessing to me less required and love never have to question