@@rayvenschreidell6585 This is horrible. I'm not an expert. But have you tried to ask an expert, I tried and for me it was the right choice. I'm sorry that I can't help💗
Nari Park The worst part is thinking i'm never going to be good enough even with my new partner. Sure we're about to celebrate four years but my mind is still stuck on 'if he proposes, he'll just flip a coin also and start to control you like the last one. No more friends. No more family.'
OwnyOne 😭 I always jump a little at sudden movements close behind my back. Coworkers have called me jittery and overreacting. Even my dad doesn’t understand, he’s just like “what, you don’t know I’m in this house too? Cut it out.” But I honestly can’t help it
“You know that I do respect you right? I don’t ever want to belittle you” I thought this audio was cute and all, and then this line comes in and so do the waterworks! As someone who has felt belittled A LOT, this felt really good to hear. Just take my heart already!
the way you hug her, rub her back and lightly pat on her back is just so comforting. i like this audio a lot, especially this line "i want home to be comfortable for you, i want you to be comfortable around me". as always, your soothing voice calms me down. and when you give her forehead kisses, then you chuckle and tell her you love her, it feels safe. like you've found someone to rely on and catch you when you fall
I wish all men could be this comforting and understanding! I mean u never know what is going on in some else’s life ya know! great audio, everything is so genuine and true! Ily
"hey darling" hey... "whats the matter" ...someone ate my food i know abuse is a horrible thing my mom was in a abusive relationship with my dad he wasnt abusive towards me and made me completely oblivious for 12 years she finally divorced him and we are trying our best to get back on our feet... that also gave me major trust issues ive always had trust issues but now they are way worse
i’ve been abused but not physically, it wasn’t a boyfriend or girlfriend it was a cousin. thank you for what you do it really means a lot and helps me ❤️
This video actually made me sad not in a bad way. Its honestly hard to find someone who will stand by your side through this... speaking from experience... because its to much for them. Your amazing for making this to help people out who don't have that person to get that emotional support.
"You are worth it" - don´t forget that, even if no one said it to you yet. And you can also start with saying it to yourself. You deserve to hear that daily. You´ve got this! x Mel
K is literally the person I needed the most in my childhood. Someone who I feel save with and who calms me down, someone who is there for me and not just manipulating and mentally and physically hurting me
bro how do u knowww???my dad shouted and called me "idiot,depressed girl" and ur supporting me and cheering me up.lets say im so glad i found u here. :D
The one thing that got to me was when he said, “You are not defective.” The amount of times I've said that to myself... I've really been my own worst enemy over the years. Any kind of abuse emotional or physical. It takes a toll on a person's body and self worth. To anyone who needs to hear this, healing doesn't mean the damage never existed. It means the damage no longer controls our lives.
I know that hearing and believing in such a statement are two different things. I hope him saying "You are not defective" helps you to believe it. Thank you for your kind words - and I totally agree: We control our lives. Stay strong! x Mel
@@shewolf_m4851 Its not that simple. However, I am working on believing it to be true. Thank you for the extra words of encouragement. I will be okay. I promise! I'm very good at smiling my way through it. :)
@@smileymel07 I know it isn´t easy. I didn´t meant to imply that. The truth is: everybody has to do the work for one´s own sake. But sometimes it can help to be reminded and be told that this statement can be true - even if the accepting still takes time. Take all the time you need. You are brave - you really are for working so hard on yourself! I am rooting for you! x Mel
@@shewolf_m4851 Of course! It's very helpful to be reminded! Speaking words of encouragement to one another is so important. For me, I didn't realize such a statement would hit me so hard. I think that's part of the healing process. Also, I never intended to come off defensive. This kind of communicating is difficult because you can't see each others expressions behind the words being conveyed. Thank you truly, for your *Kindness!* I really do appreciate it. :)
Who else watched Cardlinaudio's 5 year anniversary stream and heard him say yes he would do a collab with K? Someone write a script they would love and let's get it done! Please!
@@jacelyn2623 I am glad I could offer you some support. You know what you need, so don´t be afraid to act on that. You´ve got this! I am rooting for you! x Mel
I wasn’t abused but sexually assaulted by my ex best friend(who is a guy) and this made me feel better about my whole situation since I’m being blamed by almost my entire school
Hey, everything is gonna be okay. It was not your fault. The people saying it is are WRONG. They are victim blaming. You are strong and I believe in you. To make your day better here's a cookie and flower!!! 🍪 🌼 Not sure how else I can help, but I hope you feel a lot better!!! Remember. You're a survivor. You can get through this. You are smart and amazing and it wasn't your fault, it was his fault. Remember that.
I love how you ask her what's wrong just to comfort her knowing that it's hard to open up and trust people telling her she doesn't have to go into much detail and you just giving her comfort. The way that you hug her , rub her back and kiss her forehead is just everything that is needed in this case, my favorite line is "I want home to comfortable for you, I want you to be comfortable around me". Thank you K for being a comfort zone to most of us ❤️ And thanks Mel this script is so we'll written ^^
When you’ve been bullied, sexually assaulted by someone you thought you could trust when you were only 8yrs old, had a bf who moved away without telling you, and you broke a guy’s Heart by accident and feel extremely guilty about it, have severe general anxiety, problems with self hate/self harm… this is heaven and hits home harder than anything ever has.
"Life is.. really hard enough without you putting yourself down." This is something that I need to work so hard on stopping. :\ Honestly, everything from 7:18 to the end made me ugly cry.. 🥺 I know I'm deserving of a love like this, but sometimes it's hard to believe with everything I've been through.. But I know it will happen when the time is right. 🥺 The forehead kisses made me close my eyes lol, I love them. This was so friggin sweet and it tugged at my heartstrings so much. She did such a great job on the script and you delivered so perfectly. ❤️
Thank you for being brave and sharing! Sometimes crying helps and it is good you know you are deserving of love like this. Hope you and your heartstrings are okay. Thanks for your kind words regarding my script! x Mel
I seriously can’t thank you enough for being here, honesty I don’t know what kind of witchcraft it is but you voice just clams me down on a whole other level.hearing your voice today made me feel so much better. My whole day has been stressful I’m in the hospital but having your voice to help me fall asleep makes me feel like I’m not alone❤️❤️.Again just thank you so so much.you have no idea what it means to me your voice just makes me feel so much better like I don’t know what I would do without you keep being your amazing self. You’re great at your voice and your words make me smile when I don’t have a reason to. Keep doing what you do. Ily🥺❤️ I really hope you see this🥺.
I love how comforting this is for people who actually go through stuff like this. We should all be supportive about what has happened to other people, this man proves that people can really be generous and kind in there own ways!
It’s not physical but I’ve always been emotionally abused and it’s more than accurate to say that I hate everything about myself. Thank you so much for this audio. Having someone who cares about me or for my well-being is just so rare actually no one has really cared about me at all
My parents physically and emotionally abused me for most of my life and this audio is almost a year old but finding your channel has helped me feel so safe somehow. Thank you K
I'm in church but just reading the title I know this will be strong. I want to cry, thanks K, this is perfect. 🤍 I hope that the person who has gone through any type of abuse, everything will improve for you. I wish you the best of the best and much success in everything. You got this 🤍✨
when i was 12, i was harassed by a guy friend of mine and i never really trusted any male after that. i genuinely didn’t realise the severity of it until now and just thinking about it just dkakwndjsje it really messes with me, the part about being behind the listener hits really close to this whole video was just so special , thank you
i have been through an emotionally abusive relationship and honestly this video just helps a lot it makes me realize that there's people that would care even if i think that what's bothering me is dumb, i'm so glad that this is such a comfortable channel where people can just open up about stuff, thank you K for creating such an amazing community 💗
@@nayuu666 You are most welcome! You deserve love and care as well as every other human being. I am sure this world and people are going to surprise you. Chin up and keep going! x Mel
I- I have never been abused per say but let’s just say a guy did something when I said no :/ so this made me have like a cold wash over me. I love you k thanks for this 🥺💓
I am sorry that happened to you! A no should always be respected - no matter what. I see you and think you are brave for sharing. All the best to you! x Mel
For those who have experienced abuse physical/emotional/mental I hope you are doing well. You don’t ever have to stay with your abuser 😞 and you deserve happiness ❤️😁 hope you have a good day.
If every man was like this, we would all be blessed. This is how men should treat women! With chivalry and respect, comfort and kindness, we need more of this in this world.
What a great script by Mel! When you've been through some type of abuse, it can manifest in unexpected ways even long after you have done your best to come to terms with it. I thought this audio captured that reaction and how it can impact relationships really well.
Thank you so much for your kind words regarding the script! Yeah, it manifests sometimes in certain behaviours, even if the threat passed. I wanted to show that behaviours stay sometimes, but that there are people who care and understand. I am glad this felt authetic to you! x Mel
@@shewolf_m4851 Thank YOU for sharing your script. It is so important for people to see there can be a future after abuse. There can be happiness after abuse. You are not broken just because someone did some horrible things to you that you did NOT deserve. You can find the people who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated and you deserve to be treated well. 💜
Me sensing that K posted from the kitchen. Me doing a little hay dance while walking to go to my bedroom: "🎶~Making my way downtown~🎶" My Brother: "Mom am I adopted?" Mom: "No, why did you ask?" My Brother pointing at me: "There is no way I'm related to that weirdo"
I didn’t get abused or something but I’m still here to say to the people that have been trough that, you are so so so strong ❤️ I’m sorry that this happened to you, this is not your fault and I love you I hope that you are doing better now ❤️❤️❤️❤️ you are so loved
K, you are the most beautiful man on the planet! Abuse is a terrible thing to go through and the way you try to help is really nice. Your voice gives me hope.
This was so sweet 💜💜💜- I've never been the victim of physical abuse at the hands of a partner, but I know what it's like to be so emotionally raw and open that everything just feels like too much; like any kind of stimuli is salt in an open wound, and it's not fun (anxiety and depression are awful). It takes a really special kind of person to be able to make space for someone else's trauma, and to put aside the time and energy to help somebody work through the parts of themself that they struggle with alone, and to know that sometimes they'll struggle even more with choosing to be that vulnerable with someone else too.
I just got called damaged by a guy who felt what happened to me was unfair to him since I have physical boundaries with people. Thank you, I wish everyone reacted this way. 🥺🥺
Getting therapy for my abuse, but God if hearing these words doesn't break a little part of my heart. It's been 4 years since the bad things happened but it's still really needed to hear someone say it's not my fault, even if at least some of it feels like it.
I am glad that this audio could provide some of the things you needed to hear. I am saying it again: "It is not your fault". I think it is brave and strong to get therapy - helped me personally a lot. No matter how long the "bad things" are over, you are worthy of help. Stay strong! x Mel
To the person reading this:🥺❤️ Hey how are you,no truly how are you feeling? If you need someone to talk I’m here for you... In case no one said it yet today: you’re great! Have a wonderful day! You make the world a better place. I’m so glad you were born! Wow! You look stunning today! You are beautiful. You do an amazing job of being you I believe in you! You are enough! You are loved! Wherever you are right now, here’s a imaginary hug 🤗 Please drink water and eat something I love you,stay safe Ok but who let you be this pretty Ur literally perfect,it’s unfair... Can I have your gorgeous eyes And your flawless hair oml Your eyelashes are beautiful How about your perfect body,I would kill to have this curves. Ur height is literally so perfect for you And your amazing personality! You have the most perfect teeth and lips Your smile makes everyone’s day People love being around you Your taste in style is amazing,I want your clothes Even tho I don’t know you,you’re literally flawless. NEVER LET ANY BOY OR GIRL TELL U OTHERWISE!!! YOURE ENOUGH,YOU DESERVE THE WORLD ❤️❤️❤️🥺 now have a good day
TW: my brother sexually abused me when i was around 9 or 10 and he's verbally bullied me basically my entire life. i tried telling my friends, they said to tell my therapist. i tried telling my therapist, she called cps. i tried telling my parents and they didn't do anything. cps isn't doing anything and he's not getting punished. im fucking trapped with him. im terrified around him and im not getting help. he hurts me with what he says every single fucking day. he made my already horrible mental health plummet. im not getting justice. im so scared.
@@milktears9000 your little hope DEEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DOWN IN YOUR SOUL
Wish i could find a guy like this. Just had a horrible day at work followed by a bad mental health day at home. It gets hard when you don't have anyone to talk to. I've never really been comforted by anyone my whole life. I've always had to deal with it on my own. It's nice to feel loved and cared for even if it isn't real. Videos like this are really all I have sometimes.
I had my first panic attack at school because people kept asking me if it was true that my ex bf came up to me aggressively after class (after not answering his texts) and it was so awful, I was being surrounded by his friends who were asking questions, and i felt like I was suffocating. This happened last year but this audio is helping so much rn
I am so sorry that happened to you! Glad you this audio helped you. Know that is valid to get help for things like this, if you need support and guidance (especially with panic attacks). Stay strong! x Mel
Soooo this is my first time listening to your audios and i chose this one to hopefully help me fall asleep to because I'm just out of a very abusive relationship (like... court case, criminal charges, everything) and its had me in a bad place and its just... your voice sounds so much like a really good long term friend that my abusive ex made me cut off (understandable because I honestly did have feelings for him) and I have since lost contact with and now im laying here crying because 1) I miss him so much and I'm so mad that I let myself choose a shitty guy over one of my closest friends and 2) I really needed to hear this
😢😭😭 I feel you . Please, please try not to blame yourself for all that has happened. We have made certain decisions to cut some people off because we were just trying to survive. We didn't realise at that time that we're not actually in love with the person who's making us do this. We're actually trauma bonded to them. We we're trying our best to deal with the situation at hand and didn't know any better. I know that the feeling of guilt could be eating us up.... It's still not our fault. I'm sure you will feel better in the months to come. You will be in a much better place and will get back more than what you have lost. Thank you for sharing your story and being vulnerable in front of so many of us. I respect you for that. 🙏
@@saadhna7260 Thank you so much for this response! I hope I wasn't trauma dumping too much, just felt like getting that off of my chest haha.. Every day gets a little better but I do still have things to work through xx
@@sellidionne you will make it to the other side. I have faith in you. You are Resilliant ! I am glad that you have made it till this day and believe me beautiful, I know it's tough. You are braving it every day 😊.✨*big hugs* ✨
Me: *scrolling thru the comments while listening* Also me: *sees funny comment and trys not to smile or laugh* Edit: its in the playlist. I think I need help tho I have a playlist of just K's audio
thank you for this. i usually don’t comment under this boyfriend asmr videos like , EVER but this truly helped a lot and is so so comforting. thank you. 🥺💗 sending lots of love to you and anyone reading this :)
Being a survivor of child abuse is a traumatic experience.... it’s nice having this and people here who care about each other. I love you all and we all love K!!
abuse is apart of my past. but sometimes it shows up in my present, but I know that that doesn’t define me... and anyone going through the same thing, remember it doesn’t define you either. you got this love... keep going!! And K thank you for the amazing video as always :D
This is a fantastic and beautiful gift. It seems appropriate for many of the different types of abuse or assault. Mine was being sexually abused by a step father from 6 years old to 16 years old, and watching him beat my mother for those 10 years as well. I have PTSD and it is hard, and humiliating, to explain it to people. Triggers that involve a certain smell, sound, type of touch, etc. And what it looks like when it happens so they can know what to do. You did a great job of navigating this topic with love and compassion. Thank you.
*being someone who has gone through this kind of stuff I just want to say thank you so much for making this audio* because I have gone through this I just wanna say that if anyone is making you feel uncomfortable or does things that break your boundaries or you feel like it's your fault for whatever that idiotic person did then you should talk to someone you trust I know it's hard and you feel a burden on your chest but I promise you it gets better it really does even if you don't have friends or a family there are professional helplines and youtube channels like this who are here to support you. *One last time I wanna say that it's not your fault, it's ok not to be ok AND THINGS DO GET BETTER* Stay Strong, sending hugs and love to you! Stacy
Thank you Stacey for showing your support others through your words and story as someone who experienced these things. This is very kind of you and I appreciate your comment very much. I hope you are in a good and safe place, continuing your story of recovery. Stay strong! x Mel
Rat I also live in an abusive relationship. I was frozen and holding my breath through most of it. His words are so beautiful, but there is something SO scary about even imagining talking about it.
I am sorry you are suffering at the moment. Know that you are not alone in this and that there are safe spaces and ressources you can get help. I wish you the best - stay strong! x Mel
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“she looks so cute rn”
*me here with a bag of Cheetos sat on the kitchen counter like a racoon* 👁👄👁🤚🏽
I shouldn't be laughing this hard in the early morning 🤣🤣
Same
*Pink raccoon noises*
➖👄👁 how to see without my eyes but I gotta keep an eye out for k
@@Mina-yx5rg oh no
Abuse is such a horrible thing, to everyone who suffer because of this pls stay strong dont be afraid to get help💖
How can i get help when everyone i turned to said the mental abuse wasnt real?
Rayven Schreidell I feel you. I’m here for you 🥺💓
@@rayvenschreidell6585 This is horrible. I'm not an expert. But have you tried to ask an expert, I tried and for me it was the right choice. I'm sorry that I can't help💗
Nari Park The worst part is thinking i'm never going to be good enough even with my new partner. Sure we're about to celebrate four years but my mind is still stuck on 'if he proposes, he'll just flip a coin also and start to control you like the last one. No more friends. No more family.'
Rayven Schreidell I get how you feel but I promise you’ll be ok.
this is what a boyfriend should be like.
AngstAudio i definitely agree sorry if that was worded weird
Totally agree
Boyfriend, girlfriend, signifinact other
kiri Erjiro k is a guy so that’s why we’re saying bf. Okay?
@@talileonard2553 i get that, im just saying that anyone should treat their partner like this no matter their gender
When someone understands instead of being mad at you because of your reaction 😭
OwnyOne 😭 I always jump a little at sudden movements close behind my back. Coworkers have called me jittery and overreacting. Even my dad doesn’t understand, he’s just like “what, you don’t know I’m in this house too? Cut it out.” But I honestly can’t help it
It means a lot that you felt understood by listening to the audio - your reactions are all valid! x Mel
@@rynsoo4310 didyou go through it
My parents/family hate me when I scream because I'm startled because I had PTSD from abuse haha
@@isabellalesher8487 that must be rough, I’m sorry you went through that but I hope you’re doing better and hopefully happy
TH-cam: Boyf-
My hands: wanna see some real speed
Me: *reads this comment*
Me with my dirty mind: wOaH-
Yes
@Chile Anyways 😏
GURL I THOUGHT YOU WERE- NVM💀
@@Morbid_Kandy Same
think we all agree that k is literally the best person ever.
Yess
yesss🥺
Yess yess✔️
I fully agree!! 💜💜💜
Agreed 👌🏾❤️
“You know that I do respect you right? I don’t ever want to belittle you”
I thought this audio was cute and all, and then this line comes in and so do the waterworks! As someone who has felt belittled A LOT, this felt really good to hear. Just take my heart already!
“Whoever trampled all over your boundaries...” what a good/accurate way to put it, Mel.
Lexi Hinde I LOVE that line. It describes it perfectly.
I put it a bit different in words, so this is pure gold from K. Glad you found this line valuable! x Mel
k: i never wanna hear you talk bad about yourself
me: *honey you got a BIG storm comin*
Lol yass
OMG YES
YEP YEP
You could stop at five or six stores... or just one
Omg ur pfp
i have now come to the conclusion that k’s full name is king. a respectful king to be exact.
We Stan
Frosh thinks so too! (Only fairy tail fans would understand)
“ hey darling ”
not me Turing into the biggest softie.
hi once can i ask something??? do you know if he posts on specific days or if he posts randomly??
@@Katerina8054 I think random, when he has something to post
@@seasins660 okayy tysm
K: “Can I hug you?”
Me: yes, of course you can!! Please hug all my worries and pain away until I am filled up with love and happiness!!🥺
Literally me on the inside ^
the way you hug her, rub her back and lightly pat on her back is just so comforting. i like this audio a lot, especially this line "i want home to be comfortable for you, i want you to be comfortable around me". as always, your soothing voice calms me down. and when you give her forehead kisses, then you chuckle and tell her you love her, it feels safe. like you've found someone to rely on and catch you when you fall
I wish all men could be this comforting and understanding! I mean u never know what is going on in some else’s life ya know! great audio, everything is so genuine and true! Ily
@@bri_rebecca I am glad K could convey the comfort and understanding so well and it felt true and authentic to you. x Mel
K literally deserves the best human ever award for doing this 🥺
"hey darling"
hey...
"whats the matter"
...someone ate my food
i know abuse is a horrible thing my mom was in a abusive relationship with my dad he wasnt abusive towards me and made me completely oblivious for 12 years she finally divorced him and we are trying our best to get back on our feet... that also gave me major trust issues ive always had trust issues but now they are way worse
I....👁️👄👁️
if u need someone to talk to im here :))
Stay strong❤
I hope that your doing well
She did the best thing😊
K stans are the best stans and it’s not up for discussion
PERIODT~
Periodttttt
Periodt💅
i’ve been abused but not physically, it wasn’t a boyfriend or girlfriend it was a cousin. thank you for what you do it really means a lot and helps me ❤️
If you ever need someone to talk to, let me know❤ I'm here for you
Mayra Rovers thank you ❤️
...
You’re so strong remember that 💛
The. Shadow what’s the point in commenting if ur just gonna type “...” either I’m interpreting what you wrote wrong or you’re being rude.
K: **sneaks up** HeY darling!
Me: **accidentally smacked him with a frying pan** ohsh-
edit: i’m very easy to scare alright😀
At least it wasn’t the kitchen knife
Clara Catlady lets just hope whatever was close to me wasn’t that dangerous😌
Bruh that would be me but with meh hand
Lmfaooooo can’t help but think of tangled 😂😂
ThatAnonymousChocolate K be our flynn rider🙊
As someone who has gone through an abusive relationship. Something like this means the world to me.
I hope your ok
Me too. ❤️
Same
I am glad this means so much to you and it could bring you comfort after your past experiences! x Mel
The fact that his voice is so relaxed it’s cute
Yes
me coming here listen comfort BECAUSE MY SISTER EAT MY CANDYES
sorry everyone who has experienced something like that * hugs *
I rlly like your pfp UuU
@@Lovi1628 thx! i like your's to
My heart goes out anyone that has dealt with/are dealing with abuse
I have come for your hearttt
@@beebum451 huh
Thanks bby😔
Tyzm bb
this title only made me think of one song lyric:
*yooooooure heeeere there’s nooooothing i fearrr”
My Heart Will Go On :)
This audio hit way to close to home, but beautifully done **Chefs kiss**
Hope you are doing okay! And that despite the audio being close to home you could still feel comforted by the content! x Mel
K: do you want a tissue?
Me a snotty, crying mess: yes please 🥺
This video actually made me sad not in a bad way. Its honestly hard to find someone who will stand by your side through this... speaking from experience... because its to much for them. Your amazing for making this to help people out who don't have that person to get that emotional support.
Yess I appreciate K so much,his audios help so much honest to god such a cute and kind person
Speaking from experience myself: yes, it is hard. But never forget: you´ve always got yourself and you are strong! x Mel
Gosh, last time I was this early, Todoroki had a happy family and didn't have his scar
Wow-
Damn . You really gonna do us like that
NOOO YOU DID NOTTTTT- JAILLLL
Oh my-
i- JAIL
Nearly cried when he said 'I think you're worth it'. No one has ever said that to me.
"You are worth it" - don´t forget that, even if no one said it to you yet. And you can also start with saying it to yourself. You deserve to hear that daily. You´ve got this! x Mel
Hi
Same
K is literally the person I needed the most in my childhood. Someone who I feel save with and who calms me down, someone who is there for me and not just manipulating and mentally and physically hurting me
BF AUDIO: "I don't want to hear your talk bad about your self"
ME: "Well heck now I can't....man! "
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bro how do u knowww???my dad shouted and called me "idiot,depressed girl" and ur supporting me and cheering me up.lets say im so glad i found u here. :D
Sorry to hear that :( I hope your ok now
I am insanely sorry that happened to you, you don’t deserve that happening to you, I hope you’re ok now :(
Just know ur worth it. And ily😀✨❤️
I want you know your self worth and no one, not even relatives should ever make you feel terrible about yourself. Wishing you all the love
@@seonamjoo thank you so much, u made my day better❤❤
“She looks so cute”
*Me with my mouth full of marshmallows looking like a dark bunny in my dark af room and muffled* “thank you!”
me editing:
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me: clicks on notifs 🥰
Yes.
The one thing that got to me was when he said, “You are not defective.” The amount of times I've said that to myself... I've really been my own worst enemy over the years.
Any kind of abuse emotional or physical. It takes a toll on a person's body and self worth. To anyone who needs to hear this, healing doesn't mean the damage never existed. It means the damage no longer controls our lives.
Physical abuse attacks one’s dignity. It’s humiliating.
I know that hearing and believing in such a statement are two different things. I hope him saying "You are not defective" helps you to believe it. Thank you for your kind words - and I totally agree: We control our lives. Stay strong! x Mel
@@shewolf_m4851 Its not that simple. However, I am working on believing it to be true. Thank you for the extra words of encouragement. I will be okay. I promise! I'm very good at smiling my way through it. :)
@@smileymel07 I know it isn´t easy. I didn´t meant to imply that. The truth is: everybody has to do the work for one´s own sake. But sometimes it can help to be reminded and be told that this statement can be true - even if the accepting still takes time. Take all the time you need. You are brave - you really are for working so hard on yourself! I am rooting for you! x Mel
@@shewolf_m4851 Of course! It's very helpful to be reminded! Speaking words of encouragement to one another is so important. For me, I didn't realize such a statement would hit me so hard. I think that's part of the healing process. Also, I never intended to come off defensive. This kind of communicating is difficult because you can't see each others expressions behind the words being conveyed. Thank you truly, for your *Kindness!* I really do appreciate it. :)
Who else watched Cardlinaudio's 5 year anniversary stream and heard him say yes he would do a collab with K? Someone write a script they would love and let's get it done! Please!
I’m on it! I just have to finish part 2. Poke at me so I finish it!
how would that work tho? two boyfriends in one audio?
onlineextrovert the more the merrier 💗
One is the Listener's brother! ^_^ That's how I'm going to do it anyway.
KimCarter omggg kim i can’t wait to read it c: will you be posting it anywhere?
why have i become emotionally attached 🧍♀️
“ where he did, i’m here for you “
i feel like this a sign i should stop talking to my ex and stop letting him hurt me and control me
You deserve more than pain; you matter very much. Do what you have to do to be and feel safe. All the best! x Mel
SheWolf_M i really need this today :) thank you
@@jacelyn2623 I am glad I could offer you some support. You know what you need, so don´t be afraid to act on that. You´ve got this! I am rooting for you! x Mel
i know its been 3 months since u commented but ummm YES. YES YES IT WAS A SIGN AND IM HOPING U STOPPED AND IF NOT STOP 🛑 RN STOP! LMAOO
@@melmoscarosaa6114 i did and thank you :)
My quarter grades are due tomorrow and I'm behind on a bunch of assignments...
*_They can wait a little longer_*
You should see my grades🔪🔪🔪🤣
Okay but same tho 💀💀
I’m in the exact same boat 😂😭
Same
That is my life
I wasn’t abused but sexually assaulted by my ex best friend(who is a guy) and this made me feel better about my whole situation since I’m being blamed by almost my entire school
Hey, everything is gonna be okay. It was not your fault. The people saying it is are WRONG. They are victim blaming. You are strong and I believe in you. To make your day better here's a cookie and flower!!! 🍪 🌼 Not sure how else I can help, but I hope you feel a lot better!!! Remember. You're a survivor. You can get through this. You are smart and amazing and it wasn't your fault, it was his fault. Remember that.
@@sleepycryptid8275 thank you so much. I really appreciate the cookie and flower
@@_starlight_614 your welcome!!!
i’m so sorry love
I love how you ask her what's wrong just to comfort her knowing that it's hard to open up and trust people telling her she doesn't have to go into much detail and you just giving her comfort.
The way that you hug her , rub her back and kiss her forehead is just everything that is needed in this case, my favorite line is "I want home to comfortable for you, I want you to be comfortable around me".
Thank you K for being a comfort zone to most of us ❤️
And thanks Mel this script is so we'll written ^^
Thank you for your lovely comment and the compliment for the script! x Mel
@@shewolf_m4851 no need it is a great script ❤️
@@Rana-mp4fb Thanks again! x Mel
No need x
K: She looks so cute right now
My heart: 🥰✨♥️🤪💕😘🌸😍❣️💫
Same
Same 🦋💗🥰
omg i see you everywhereeee💀
Emalee idk if I should take that in a good way or bad haha
@@paishencejoi679 oh definitely good aha
My abusive Dad tried comming back into my life again and i was like NOOOOOO and I really needed this rn. Thank you sm
Him:
I just want you to look on my eyes
Me:
S-sir my anxiety doesn't allows that...
Me: *knows he should posting the next video*
TH-cam: LETS GIVE HER THE NOTIFICATION 4 HOURS LATE! HAHAHA
Same suga-
Does Daichi know about this ?
@@caroline7079 shhhhhhh dont tell him-
Siri add this to blackmail folder called “suga345”
When you’ve been bullied, sexually assaulted by someone you thought you could trust when you were only 8yrs old, had a bf who moved away without telling you, and you broke a guy’s Heart by accident and feel extremely guilty about it, have severe general anxiety, problems with self hate/self harm… this is heaven and hits home harder than anything ever has.
"Life is.. really hard enough without you putting yourself down." This is something that I need to work so hard on stopping. :\ Honestly, everything from 7:18 to the end made me ugly cry.. 🥺 I know I'm deserving of a love like this, but sometimes it's hard to believe with everything I've been through.. But I know it will happen when the time is right. 🥺 The forehead kisses made me close my eyes lol, I love them. This was so friggin sweet and it tugged at my heartstrings so much. She did such a great job on the script and you delivered so perfectly. ❤️
Thank you for being brave and sharing! Sometimes crying helps and it is good you know you are deserving of love like this. Hope you and your heartstrings are okay. Thanks for your kind words regarding my script! x Mel
I seriously can’t thank you enough for being here, honesty I don’t know what kind of witchcraft it is but you voice just clams me down on a whole other level.hearing your voice today made me feel so much better. My whole day has been stressful I’m in the hospital but having your voice to help me fall asleep makes me feel like I’m not alone❤️❤️.Again just thank you so so much.you have no idea what it means to me your voice just makes me feel so much better like I don’t know what I would do without you keep being your amazing self. You’re great at your voice and your words make me smile when I don’t have a reason to. Keep doing what you do. Ily🥺❤️ I really hope you see this🥺.
My dad has always mentally abused me, calling me bad names, sometimes hitting me, just overall I dont like him. And this helped, a lot, thank you!
Thank you ! Finally I’m tired of my abusive father always ruining my day 🥺
Awww I hope everything gets better🥺❤️
k is the definition of bae
YEAHAHHSJAJAJDIDKD
I'm sorry but:
"Every kiss begins with k"
Itzel Flores BAHHHAHAHAHAHAH NOOOOO 😆😆✌️✌️
That rhymes 😳
I love how comforting this is for people who actually go through stuff like this.
We should all be supportive about what has happened to other people, this man proves that people can really be generous and kind in there own ways!
It’s not physical but I’ve always been emotionally abused and it’s more than accurate to say that I hate everything about myself. Thank you so much for this audio. Having someone who cares about me or for my well-being is just so rare actually no one has really cared about me at all
As a victim of abuse, thank you K for doing this audio, the communication and care in this roleplay are everything.
I am glad you found the way I with the script and K with the audio with the topic of abuse authentic and relatable. Stay strong! x Mel
ur voice is addictive
*Me here after searching boyfriend audio on da hub* 👁👄👁🤚🏽
Ik I’m late but when he said “Baby Doll” my heart dropped-
My parents physically and emotionally abused me for most of my life and this audio is almost a year old but finding your channel has helped me feel so safe somehow. Thank you K
I'm in church but just reading the title I know this will be strong. I want to cry, thanks K, this is perfect. 🤍
I hope that the person who has gone through any type of abuse, everything will improve for you. I wish you the best of the best and much success in everything. You got this 🤍✨
I miss being loved ;(
I love you stay strong 😍❤️
Him- Hey darling😊😆
Me-got so scared I slapped him with a slice of cheese😅😂
Edit:thanks for the likes😁
when i was 12, i was harassed by a guy friend of mine and i never really trusted any male after that. i genuinely didn’t realise the severity of it until now and just thinking about it just dkakwndjsje it really messes with me, the part about being behind the listener hits really close to this whole video was just so special , thank you
Me:updating my phone
TH-cam: boyfriend-
Me:I can wait🤷🏽♀️
i have been through an emotionally abusive relationship and honestly this video just helps a lot it makes me realize that there's people that would care even if i think that what's bothering me is dumb, i'm so glad that this is such a comfortable channel where people can just open up about stuff, thank you K for creating such an amazing community 💗
I am glad the audio helped you. That means a lot! You are not dumb; you are brave for sharing. Stay strong! x Mel
@@shewolf_m4851 omg thank youuuuu for telling me this 🥺💗💗
@@nayuu666 You are most welcome! You deserve love and care as well as every other human being. I am sure this world and people are going to surprise you. Chin up and keep going! x Mel
this is instantly making me cry because no one ever in my life has been this caring and careful with me
when TH-cam gives you the video notification a minute late:
🔪
I- I have never been abused per say but let’s just say a guy did something when I said no :/ so this made me have like a cold wash over me. I love you k thanks for this 🥺💓
I'm sorry hope you're doing good💖
♥️
Nari Park it’s fine I guess
Dark Inside 💓
I am sorry that happened to you! A no should always be respected - no matter what. I see you and think you are brave for sharing. All the best to you! x Mel
For those who have experienced abuse physical/emotional/mental I hope you are doing well. You don’t ever have to stay with your abuser 😞 and you deserve happiness ❤️😁 hope you have a good day.
If every man was like this, we would all be blessed. This is how men should treat women! With chivalry and respect, comfort and kindness, we need more of this in this world.
What a great script by Mel! When you've been through some type of abuse, it can manifest in unexpected ways even long after you have done your best to come to terms with it. I thought this audio captured that reaction and how it can impact relationships really well.
Thank you so much for your kind words regarding the script! Yeah, it manifests sometimes in certain behaviours, even if the threat passed. I wanted to show that behaviours stay sometimes, but that there are people who care and understand. I am glad this felt authetic to you! x Mel
@@shewolf_m4851 Thank YOU for sharing your script. It is so important for people to see there can be a future after abuse. There can be happiness after abuse. You are not broken just because someone did some horrible things to you that you did NOT deserve. You can find the people who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated and you deserve to be treated well. 💜
Me sensing that K posted from the kitchen.
Me doing a little hay dance while walking to go to my bedroom: "🎶~Making my way downtown~🎶"
My Brother: "Mom am I adopted?"
Mom: "No, why did you ask?"
My Brother pointing at me: "There is no way I'm related to that weirdo"
Okay whys this relatable🤣🤣
I didn’t get abused or something but I’m still here to say to the people that have been trough that, you are so so so strong ❤️ I’m sorry that this happened to you, this is not your fault and I love you I hope that you are doing better now ❤️❤️❤️❤️ you are so loved
K, you are the most beautiful man on the planet! Abuse is a terrible thing to go through and the way you try to help is really nice. Your voice gives me hope.
This was so sweet 💜💜💜- I've never been the victim of physical abuse at the hands of a partner, but I know what it's like to be so emotionally raw and open that everything just feels like too much; like any kind of stimuli is salt in an open wound, and it's not fun (anxiety and depression are awful). It takes a really special kind of person to be able to make space for someone else's trauma, and to put aside the time and energy to help somebody work through the parts of themself that they struggle with alone, and to know that sometimes they'll struggle even more with choosing to be that vulnerable with someone else too.
Thank you for your sweet comment and sharing your thoughts! Being vulnerable is being brave. Stay strong. x Mel
youtube: *boyfriendaudio*
me: “yes pleaseeee”
him:"that's it baby doll"
me: AHHHHHHSKSNWWKK EEEEEEEE
I just got called damaged by a guy who felt what happened to me was unfair to him since I have physical boundaries with people. Thank you, I wish everyone reacted this way. 🥺🥺
You are not damaged. Having and setting boundaries is a healthy coping mechanism, when you were hurt in the past. Stay strong. You´ve got this! x Mel
Getting therapy for my abuse, but God if hearing these words doesn't break a little part of my heart. It's been 4 years since the bad things happened but it's still really needed to hear someone say it's not my fault, even if at least some of it feels like it.
I am glad that this audio could provide some of the things you needed to hear. I am saying it again: "It is not your fault".
I think it is brave and strong to get therapy - helped me personally a lot. No matter how long the "bad things" are over, you are worthy of help. Stay strong! x Mel
i wish we all get someone who will shine light to our dark past experiences
To the person reading this:🥺❤️
Hey how are you,no truly how are you feeling?
If you need someone to talk I’m here for you...
In case no one said it yet today:
you’re great!
Have a wonderful day!
You make the world a better place.
I’m so glad you were born!
Wow! You look stunning today!
You are beautiful.
You do an amazing job of being you
I believe in you!
You are enough!
You are loved!
Wherever you are right now, here’s a imaginary hug 🤗
Please drink water and eat something
I love you,stay safe
Ok but who let you be this pretty
Ur literally perfect,it’s unfair...
Can I have your gorgeous eyes
And your flawless hair oml
Your eyelashes are beautiful
How about your perfect body,I would kill to have this curves.
Ur height is literally so perfect for you
And your amazing personality!
You have the most perfect teeth and lips
Your smile makes everyone’s day
People love being around you
Your taste in style is amazing,I want your clothes
Even tho I don’t know you,you’re literally flawless.
NEVER LET ANY BOY OR GIRL TELL U OTHERWISE!!!
YOURE ENOUGH,YOU DESERVE THE WORLD
❤️❤️❤️🥺 now have a good day
THIS IS AN UNDERRATED COMMENT
Good job hun 🥰
Me whos a 5'10" 14 year old i know love my hight too
Hey ur the one telling us this but UNO REVERSE CARD! You are fabulous to inside and out :))
TW:
my brother sexually abused me when i was around 9 or 10 and he's verbally bullied me basically my entire life.
i tried telling my friends, they said to tell my therapist.
i tried telling my therapist, she called cps.
i tried telling my parents and they didn't do anything.
cps isn't doing anything and he's not getting punished.
im fucking trapped with him.
im terrified around him and im not getting help.
he hurts me with what he says every single fucking day.
he made my already horrible mental health plummet.
im not getting justice.
im so scared.
you can come live with me 🥺💜
@@imalivebutimdead273 that’s very helpful what u fucking said
I feel very comfy here😌💞 This channel is my safe haven.
Baby bear tensed up🥺
*K bear defensive shield activated*
_im afraid that i will never find someone like u_
we probably won't ✊👊😎
@@kazakukog girlll dont say that im still havin lil hope 😭
@@milktears9000 your little hope DEEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP
DOWN IN YOUR SOUL
same 😔
@@kei_leen 😩
Wish i could find a guy like this. Just had a horrible day at work followed by a bad mental health day at home. It gets hard when you don't have anyone to talk to. I've never really been comforted by anyone my whole life. I've always had to deal with it on my own. It's nice to feel loved and cared for even if it isn't real. Videos like this are really all I have sometimes.
You return like autumn
And I fall everytime
(Read this somewhere and it fits perfectly in this case)
This is amazing love it
I had my first panic attack at school because people kept asking me if it was true that my ex bf came up to me aggressively after class (after not answering his texts) and it was so awful, I was being surrounded by his friends who were asking questions, and i felt like I was suffocating. This happened last year but this audio is helping so much rn
I am so sorry that happened to you! Glad you this audio helped you. Know that is valid to get help for things like this, if you need support and guidance (especially with panic attacks). Stay strong! x Mel
mine is a pretty difficult situation, and it’s been for years now, but i’m glad i found u, thank you so so so much🥺♥️
Soooo this is my first time listening to your audios and i chose this one to hopefully help me fall asleep to because I'm just out of a very abusive relationship (like... court case, criminal charges, everything) and its had me in a bad place and its just... your voice sounds so much like a really good long term friend that my abusive ex made me cut off (understandable because I honestly did have feelings for him) and I have since lost contact with and now im laying here crying because 1) I miss him so much and I'm so mad that I let myself choose a shitty guy over one of my closest friends and 2) I really needed to hear this
😢😭😭 I feel you .
Please, please try not to blame yourself for all that has happened. We have made certain decisions to cut some people off because we were just trying to survive. We didn't realise at that time that we're not actually in love with the person who's making us do this. We're actually trauma bonded to them. We we're trying our best to deal with the situation at hand and didn't know any better. I know that the feeling of guilt could be eating us up.... It's still not our fault. I'm sure you will feel better in the months to come. You will be in a much better place and will get back more than what you have lost. Thank you for sharing your story and being vulnerable in front of so many of us. I respect you for that. 🙏
@@saadhna7260 Thank you so much for this response! I hope I wasn't trauma dumping too much, just felt like getting that off of my chest haha.. Every day gets a little better but I do still have things to work through xx
@@sellidionne you will make it to the other side. I have faith in you. You are Resilliant ! I am glad that you have made it till this day and believe me beautiful, I know it's tough. You are braving it every day 😊.✨*big hugs* ✨
@@saadhna7260 thank you
Me: *scrolling thru the comments while listening*
Also me: *sees funny comment and trys not to smile or laugh*
Edit: its in the playlist. I think I need help tho I have a playlist of just K's audio
I literaly downloaded 73 (to be exact) of his audios to my phone oml I am obsessed,I admit it
thank you for this. i usually don’t comment under this boyfriend asmr videos like , EVER but this truly helped a lot and is so so comforting. thank you. 🥺💗 sending lots of love to you and anyone reading this :)
another sub user omg 👁👄👁
@@saintaura ofc < 3
Whoever’s watching this needs a hug 🤗 🥺 Love you, guys, hope you’re alright 💕
Being a survivor of child abuse is a traumatic experience.... it’s nice having this and people here who care about each other. I love you all and we all love K!!
I am glad the audio was a comfort for you. You are not alone with having traumatic experiences. Stay strong! x Mel
abuse is apart of my past. but sometimes it shows up in my present, but I know that that doesn’t define me... and anyone going through the same thing, remember it doesn’t define you either. you got this love... keep going!!
And K thank you for the amazing video as always :D
Your past experiences don´t define you - even if they raise their heads sometimes. Stay strong! x Mel
SheWolf_M ah my heart! thank you! ❤️
@@meredithstark5053 You´re most welcome. Wish you the best! x Mel
I’m going to have to add this audio to the long list of your audios, to listen to when I have anxiety. These are ✨ therapy ✨
u forgot to say breathe out im still holding my breath
BYEE
This is a fantastic and beautiful gift. It seems appropriate for many of the different types of abuse or assault. Mine was being sexually abused by a step father from 6 years old to 16 years old, and watching him beat my mother for those 10 years as well. I have PTSD and it is hard, and humiliating, to explain it to people. Triggers that involve a certain smell, sound, type of touch, etc. And what it looks like when it happens so they can know what to do. You did a great job of navigating this topic with love and compassion. Thank you.
*being someone who has gone through this kind of stuff I just want to say thank you so much for making this audio* because I have gone through this I just wanna say that if anyone is making you feel uncomfortable or does things that break your boundaries or you feel like it's your fault for whatever that idiotic person did then you should talk to someone you trust I know it's hard and you feel a burden on your chest but I promise you it gets better it really does even if you don't have friends or a family there are professional helplines and youtube channels like this who are here to support you. *One last time I wanna say that it's not your fault, it's ok not to be ok AND THINGS DO GET BETTER*
Stay Strong, sending hugs and love to you!
Stacy
Thank you Stacey for showing your support others through your words and story as someone who experienced these things. This is very kind of you and I appreciate your comment very much.
I hope you are in a good and safe place, continuing your story of recovery. Stay strong! x Mel
This audio is so sweet 🥺 I suffer from abuse and this really made me feel loved
Rat I also live in an abusive relationship. I was frozen and holding my breath through most of it. His words are so beautiful, but there is something SO scary about even imagining talking about it.
I am sorry you are suffering at the moment. Know that you are not alone in this and that there are safe spaces and ressources you can get help. I wish you the best - stay strong! x Mel
Literally me going back and forth from TH-cam to patreon 🏃♀️💨🏃♀️it's literally the biggest work out I've done all quarantine. Love you K
boyfriend of the year