1.watch for warning signs , respect boundaries 2.make eye contact 3.smile 4.start simply 5.be a conversationalist 6.keep it light, no religion politics sports 7.listen to your body language 8.break the touch barrier 9.complement ealry, complement often 10.keep it short and sweet.
@Liam Obrien lol, I mean I can't lie, even when it's obviously fluke or something, I get a little feeling og happiness when I see a loner ad or wholesome meme come my way
Justin Eatman flirtatious friends are the best tbh, you flirt but never date because you both know you would never date but you guys both flirt for fun and without even realizing sometimes.
yes! and worse thing is she tries talk to me, so i have all chances to do right but i freeze up and reply with small talk and i guess its making her think im not interested but i really am >.
these are the top 11 things they talk about in the video. 1. watch for warning signs 1:15 2. make eye contact 2:12 3. smile 3:16 4. start simply 4:06 5. be a conversationalist 4:50 6. keep it light 5:54 7. listen to your body language 7:21 8. break the touch barrier 8:20 9. compliment early, compliment often 9:39 10. keep it short and sweet 11:11 11. be honest 11:51
Me watching TV Guy: **gets close** Girl: **gets close** Girl whispering: I like you Me: *_HAHAHAHAHA THATS SO FUNNY THAT THAT IS POSSIBLE!! HAHAHAH_* **slowly fades into crying**
I like how it mentions that persistence works in the movies but comes across as creepy in real life. Sometimes, it does work, but too bad, not too often.
Thank you so very much for making this video. I have been trying to tell one particular person for several years exactly what you stated in this video. I sent this video to that person and stated that this is what I've been talking about. Maybe now they will understand and not be offended. They told me that there was absolutely no way I was telling them the truth. They told me that nobody is like this. I have been very frustrated with this person over the years. However I'm hoping that your video will show them that everybody is like this and I have been telling the truth. Maybe now they'll listen. Anyhow thank you so very much.
Bright Side, you always make my day with your videos! They help me be a better person and live a healthier life! I've been subscribed since 70k. Keep up the good videos.
Just be yourself. Don't try too hard. Don't overthink things, the right person will be right for you. If you're simply not their type, then you're simply not. ❤
here’s the tips! 1. be attractive 2. don’t be unattractive 3. be uncomfortably confident 4. randomly stare at them and hope they don’t think you’re weird 5. be attractive
that hair thing at 8:52 really works.... I was casually talking with her and some of her friends when she said she really hated it when people touch her hair, by now I was already flirting subtly with her. After a while it was just me her and one of her friends. Thats when I move in... I looked at her with a serious stern expression and moved a strand of her hair that was covering her face then made a goofy face with my tongue....She was totally ok with it said "aw, thanks" and blushed. after that we started talking more often and hit things off
TIMESTAMPS Watch for warning signs. 1:12 Make eye contact. 2:12 Smile 3:13 Start simply. 4:05 Be a conversationalist. 4:49 Keep it light. 5:52 Listen to your body language. 7:18 Break the touch barrier. 8:19 Compliment early, and compliment often. 9:39 Keep it short and sweet. 11:11 Be honest. 11:52
I'm super introverted guy when I was junior high but now I'm high school and sometimes extrovert sometimes no I realized that I shouldn't be shy person like I was before I don't regret it either cuz introverts like being in their safe zones
ITS HARD TO SMILE INFRONT OF HIM!! He’s so cute I just look at him and can’t do anything else... (edit: GUYS WE LITERALLY TALKED FOR HALF AN HOUR LAST NIGHT, HE TOLD ME THINGS HE NEVER TOLD ANYONE (he mentioned that) AND HE SAID I MAKE HIM HAPPY!!!!??! He also mentioned he was single😍❤️)
Just now got realized a girl has been flirted with me since so long whom I wasn't interested with... She often used to give compliments, nicknaming me, tried to make me laugh, appreciated me for small things...etc.
My crush is friends with me and is single, she said she doesn't have feelings for the other guy that told her, I always catch her looking at me, in too afraid to say anything, I think she likes me but I also think we are to scared to talk to each other, I can tell because we completely avoided each other today on Valentine's day, its funny because this is an infinite cycle
I've been able to do most of this fairly well, the only thing is that I am a socially awkward introvert, so at times it's difficult for me to keep a conversation going and there are awkward silences at times... 😅
@@dasbarchen4037 I'm happy-ish, I've been struggling with self esteem and other mental issues for some amount of time but I'm doing alright these days, I've gotten better :)
I have a friend in my form at college, I really want to get to know her better on a relationship level but I don’t know if she will feel the same way. She is also the type of person to have a boy friend group but i don’t think others in our friendship have got feels yet. So idk, I don’t wanna finish our friendship or make it awkward in our group but i want to ask her out. Her name is Mhia Bustrillos btw.
@@xueieu I did about a year ago, around 4 days after I made that comment. She said yes, we dated for a while before my (ex) friend stole her from me and then made my friends desert me too. And still to this day - I only have 2 loyal friends.
@@Bear-nr9jo aw dw you'll find someone who'll love you with their whole heart Ó^Ò till then try to enjoy being single (it can have a lot of up sides yk) and stay healthy :)
When you’re awkward af and need these videos or else you’ll be lonely forever ;(
Delalipop it's ok, you'll find someone one day
Delalipop ikr
Duuude I’m going back to school soon and I just need someone to stick wit me ya know so hopefully highschool goes good
You said it better than I could have
Nothing wrong with being alone forever
“Start with a simple line of dialogue”
It’s a me, Mario
I just might use that.
🤣🤣
and you've got all the girls
Then a compliment.
Crystal Dating Coach “Mario number one!”
me: **gets close**
crush: **gets close**
me: **whispers** It's free real estate
Yessss!!!! I'm dead😂😂😂
* Estate
WHEEEZE
I'M DYING 😂😂😂😂
👊
Me flirting in class -
"So which school are you from?"
Ahahahha such an underrated comment😂😂
@@SHQIPTVGaming 😜
@Lead Your Love
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Maan why is it relatable 😂
*when you realise you flirt with everyone without trying*
OMG YOU TOO?! i thought i was alone ;-;
Literally not me
same
Lol me too
Me too
1.watch for warning signs , respect boundaries
2.make eye contact
3.smile
4.start simply
5.be a conversationalist
6.keep it light, no religion politics sports
7.listen to your body language
8.break the touch barrier
9.complement ealry, complement often
10.keep it short and sweet.
TYSMM!
“watch, smile, be” ahh yes
Thanks. Saved me 13 minutes
11. Be honest ..thanks for 1-10
Thank you
Tip # 1 : Be attractive
Harsh but true
Already have that tip done 😉
J Laurence kudos to you I don’t
Dawn Corona inner beauty ❤️
Think what you want
If I had a dollar for every girl that didn’t find me attractive,they’d eventually find me attractive.
Most underrated comment ever :)))
Best line of the century
Haha! Awesome comment. So slept on.
Bro just hit up UnbreakableConfidence. com..
If only more guys read those books instead of watching these TH-cam vids..
Makes a huge difference.
Man Spell me
Female M. E
Male U forgot the d
Female Theres no d in me
Male Not yet
He: say something funny
Me: *googles* how to be funny
That’s funny
😂😂😂😂
That’s actually a good thing!
Imagine not being funny
...
Imagine a socially awkward person trying to remember & apply all of this 🤣🤣🤣
I am socially awkward
Michael Molina Love how you made even this awkward :DD
Hahaha😆😆😆
SassShea me
I feel attacked because that's what I'm gonna do
i can only flirt with people i don’t like 😂 when i get around a boy i like i just go awkward
😂😂
SAMEWEE
Same so then I got all these boys liking me a saying we go out
Sameee it’s like people I don’t like I flirt with them better
@@bensimmonsforr3 because flirting is like pretending and sometimes it's harder to pretend with someone u actually like.
2:43 she broke her neck.. 🤣
Lol
I thought I was the only person who saw that😂😂😂
Oml.... I'm dying.... XD
OMG I WAS GOING TO SAY THE SAME THING BUT DIDN'T THINK ANYONE Cared
Right
Uhhhh not to be rude but at 2:43 GURL WHAT IS WRONG WITH UR NECK
Legend 27 it looks like some sort of stick
Me: Hi
My crush: hey
Me: soooo, how long have you been a girl
If you have 2 ask that...chop the addams apple and run
🤪😂🤪😂
If I get lost in the flood of comments- REMEMBER MEEEEEEEEE!!!!
Nope
You will always be remembered. 😯🤚
That's the closest I could get to the two finger whistle thing... XD
OK I will remember u😃
Are you Clara Oswald? Lol
But if you leave me now you'll take away the best of me
i flirt without even trying or realizing it’s hard to stop..
Same
web noir what’s ur zodiac sign? leo, aries?
yasmine renee im a taurus :)
SUPER SAME
web noir Are you a April or May Taurus?
When you’re so lonely that TH-cam puts this on your recommended.
Lol. You just won the thread
Undderated comment
@Liam Obrien lol, I mean I can't lie, even when it's obviously fluke or something, I get a little feeling og happiness when I see a loner ad or wholesome meme come my way
@Liam Obrien then feel insulted
...XD
Flirtatious friends can be fun if done honestly.
Justin Eatman honestly though
I'm just laughing bc smile at ur crush when you pass by... Not a big goofy grin
Justin Eatman flirtatious friends are the best tbh, you flirt but never date because you both know you would never date but you guys both flirt for fun and without even realizing sometimes.
And if I have no friends... ?
Im going to try this on a women that I havent seen in forty years I left her alone and have to explain things why only the truth
Whatever you do don’t tilt your head like the girl at 2:46
Lps Galaxy owl LFMAOOOOOOOOOOOO THIS COMMENT IS SLEPT ON
oh yeah yeah 😂
11:16 He failed
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
Me flirting:
sits next to crush
....
So, what colors your toothbrush mine's red..
😂
😂😂
Then... will you brush clockwise or anti- clockwise?.. I used to start with molar..
Close up lol
Me: gets close to my crush
"Crush moves away" ;-;
forever alone
rip
Guys my crush get really close to me when we talk
Move on :)
F
I don’t even like someone but I am just bored
Alexia Kolagki same😂
Same
Me too
SAME!!
Same
But I will still end up freezing and acting like a fool in front of my crush
So true...
Same
He/she might think it's cute. If not and they laugh or are mean about it, maybe you just dodged a bullet.
yes! and worse thing is she tries talk to me, so i have all chances to do right but i freeze up and reply with small talk and i guess its making her think im not interested but i really am >.
Tell me about it
8:04
Me: *plays with hair*
Snowflakes starts to fall...
Hahha. Today my friend's asked my crush if he has touched snow .He said no. And my friends said him to touch my hair.
Living that dandruff life
*l e t i t g o*
That’s when the time comes for you to eat the snow
*me trying to chat with my crush*
Me: excuse me is the oxygen here for everyone ?
There's never enough oxygen when you talk to your crush.
Its a FACT
BEEP OXYGEN
How I flirt with hooman females...
Me: Do you like bread?
hooman XDD
Yes I do like bread
My crush once randomly asked me what I like on my bread 😂
YES
I would go out with you straight away... well... no... but.... yknow... XD but seriously I love bread
🍞🍞🍞🍞
You know you're back on this side of TH-cam when you got that big new hopeless crush
these are the top 11 things they talk about in the video.
1. watch for warning signs 1:15
2. make eye contact 2:12
3. smile 3:16
4. start simply 4:06
5. be a conversationalist 4:50
6. keep it light 5:54
7. listen to your body language 7:21
8. break the touch barrier 8:20
9. compliment early, compliment often 9:39
10. keep it short and sweet 11:11
11. be honest 11:51
Thank u
David Zambia
Me flirting: um I like your teeth there very um...sturdy?
Me: hey
Him: oh hey
Me: how’s life (licks lips and wiggles toes)
Him: ummm it’s fine I guess
Me: oh cool (sweats)
Him: yeah
Me: (runs off and cries)
😂😂🤣
Me asf
I would lick my lips only a date...if not. Too flirty...might get wrong idea.
😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Me: I won't be awkward today.
Crush: Hi !
Me: fine thanks
🤦♀️ 🤦♀️
Mary Am lol
Ok
I love how he keeps on emphasizing that when you are rejected step away so sad but very important
"My dad passed away yesterday"
"What no way! You're too awesome for that kind of bad luck!"
That might not work man..😂😂
@@sakilasamaraweera6151 hahahahaha
😂 😂😂😂😂😂😂😃😃😃😀😀😀😀😢😢😢😢😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I am glad I have gotten to the point in my life where I had to look up how to flirt on TH-cam.
Crush: the weathers nice...
Me: thanks
Lol
Made my day😂
Oh my god 😂😂😂
I would actually do that lol 😂
Me flirting: “do you like ... uhm ..apples?”
Response: yeah! Yeah i do! Why don't we go get some😉
@@KD.... me : umm what kind I like gala but other apples Are good too. Even though gala apples are the best
@@lonelysam3090 I prefer pink lady 😉
Me watching TV
Guy: **gets close**
Girl: **gets close**
Girl whispering: I like you
Me: *_HAHAHAHAHA THATS SO FUNNY THAT THAT IS POSSIBLE!! HAHAHAH_* **slowly fades into crying**
Join the club.
Ty for adding warning signs/ unwanted attention not every person understands when someone doesn't want to be bothered at times!
Best tip:
Just say u like her😂😂😂
The fastest thing to do lol
Can u sub to me and watch my fortnite stream high lights
Janayja O.m.g when will u finally post content
That's a terrible thing to do
david barrera best but hardest
I like how it mentions that persistence works in the movies but comes across as creepy in real life. Sometimes, it does work, but too bad, not too often.
She blocked me on messenger
Edit: I got a girlfriend 😁
JelleH_Z haha classic.. I have messenger too
You should've asked her in person
Lol
Rigby maybe worse? 😂
Hadie Tovar True, but you do have a better chance if you do it in person
Thank you so very much for making this video. I have been trying to tell one particular person for several years exactly what you stated in this video. I sent this video to that person and stated that this is what I've been talking about. Maybe now they will understand and not be offended. They told me that there was absolutely no way I was telling them the truth. They told me that nobody is like this. I have been very frustrated with this person over the years. However I'm hoping that your video will show them that everybody is like this and I have been telling the truth. Maybe now they'll listen. Anyhow thank you so very much.
Making eye contact and smiling....oh my that's impossible for me😁😁
A shared glance, my crush did that, and oh my heart felt the warmest touch ever.
Me: makes eyecontact with crush
Crush: why you looking at me?!?
Me : makes eye contact
Crush: looks back
Me : runs the other way
@@hyperhelix5987 ha ha
This happened with me:-
Me: makes eye contact with her
She(crush): u wanna eat me?
@@anshulanand02 😂😂😂
Bright Side, you always make my day with your videos! They help me be a better person and live a healthier life! I've been subscribed since 70k. Keep up the good videos.
Flirting is the easy part
What makes the all different and the hardest thing is to make the flirt or the conversation FLOW AND SMOOTH
Just be yourself. Don't try too hard. Don't overthink things, the right person will be right for you. If you're simply not their type, then you're simply not. ❤
Do not be yourself if you’re a man
here’s the tips!
1. be attractive
2. don’t be unattractive
3. be uncomfortably confident
4. randomly stare at them and hope they don’t think you’re weird
5. be attractive
Nice tips. Sad to say, 1-5 don't apply to me.
that hair thing at 8:52
really works.... I was casually talking with her and some of her friends when she said she really hated it when people touch her hair, by now I was already flirting subtly with her. After a while it was just me her and one of her friends. Thats when I move in... I looked at her with a serious stern expression and moved a strand of her hair that was covering her face then made a goofy face with my tongue....She was totally ok with it said "aw, thanks" and blushed. after that we started talking more often and hit things off
Oh boy !!! I can't wait to try on all of these methods to get the girl that I always dream of. Thanks Bright Side
Pro tip: If she has a bracelet, turn slightly her wrist and compliment the bracelet or watch or ring. THAT'S how to break the touch barrier!!!
TIMESTAMPS
Watch for warning signs. 1:12
Make eye contact. 2:12
Smile 3:13
Start simply. 4:05
Be a conversationalist. 4:49
Keep it light. 5:52
Listen to your body language. 7:18
Break the touch barrier. 8:19
Compliment early, and compliment often. 9:39
Keep it short and sweet. 11:11
Be honest. 11:52
Been a while since I tried getting with anyone and needed some touch up this was like everything I used before so yes helpful recap.
Same, I actually had to type this up 😂
You can flirt but beware of her parents nearby 😂😂
@Lead Your Love
stay away from kindergardens
eye contact and smile is the most important one .
Well I think I’m a flirting genius 😂😂😂
I’ve done all of these things before I watched this video 😂
Unless they stalk you.
You know these videos aren't gonna help, but still they're fun to watch
4:32 so you meant to break yo neck? Worth it.
This is the best channel i have suscribed😊
I'm only watching this to know if somebody is flirting with
@@snowball1993?!?!?!?
This girl I think was flirting with me at basketball practice yesterday
@@aed3032 thanks for the laugh
I'm tryin' to make eye contact with every character passing through the video...
Why do boys get girls so quick and girls can’t even get them🙁
The other way around buddy.
Liar
@@jorgeaguilar5677 youre right
Nope
@@jorgeaguilar5677 yeah
this video is extremely effective would recommend to anyone with no flirting experience 👍
Real he rizzed me up
4:50 I hear that April Showers in the background 😂
I'm super introverted guy when I was junior high but now I'm high school and sometimes extrovert sometimes no I realized that I shouldn't be shy person like I was before I don't regret it either cuz introverts like being in their safe zones
I sit next to my crush!!
Same with me in school! Or sitted before the second lesson... Then the whole class switched sitting places, as always in the end of the month.
My crush sat behind me
Me too!
Sit on him hehe
@@nadinnerooa7191 same!
Me: i have the money
Crush: what?
Me: you eat?
Crush: ummm yes
Me: good...........bye (leaves room)
A nice voice goes a long way☺☺
Coffee Now accurate
It definitely helps. Speaking slowly is good.
After scrolling down all the comments- Thanks Brightside, the comics are attractive, and as always I applaud your work.
Bianca B. Garvin your cute
I think I need to go back and learn how to do basic interactions, this stuff is advanced.
thanks for the great tips ❤
Thanks dude will help me a lot/love the channel keep up the great work
Even with these tips, I’ll probably forever be a SINGLE PRINGLE
(Like To joint the single Pringle squad 😂)
Why do you think i am watching this video.😂
THE PRINGLE CAN IS TO SMALL
ITS HARD TO SMILE INFRONT OF HIM!! He’s so cute I just look at him and can’t do anything else... (edit: GUYS WE LITERALLY TALKED FOR HALF AN HOUR LAST NIGHT, HE TOLD ME THINGS HE NEVER TOLD ANYONE (he mentioned that) AND HE SAID I MAKE HIM HAPPY!!!!??! He also mentioned he was single😍❤️)
Ayyyyyyyye
❤️❤️
ayyaa anna
Just now got realized a girl has been flirted with me since so long whom I wasn't interested with... She often used to give compliments, nicknaming me, tried to make me laugh, appreciated me for small things...etc.
Haha! My crush goes to another school so we text and call everyday so I don’t get nervous!
Love this channel
My crush is friends with me and is single, she said she doesn't have feelings for the other guy that told her, I always catch her looking at me, in too afraid to say anything, I think she likes me but I also think we are to scared to talk to each other, I can tell because we completely avoided each other today on Valentine's day, its funny because this is an infinite cycle
Give it up dude. Start watching some Terrence Poop n learn. Trust me.
Better to take the risk and know the outcome than to not risk it and miss a chance at something special.
My crush doesn't like me back😔😭😭
January 9,2022
And today is her birthday
Happy birthday jeena ❤
I still loves u ❤
I've been able to do most of this fairly well, the only thing is that I am a socially awkward introvert, so at times it's difficult for me to keep a conversation going and there are awkward silences at times... 😅
does this still happen?
@@dasbarchen4037 Yup 😂 I've gotten a little better but I still find myself doing this sometimes
@@wolfcry087 but it's okay because you're happy?
@@dasbarchen4037 I'm happy-ish, I've been struggling with self esteem and other mental issues for some amount of time but I'm doing alright these days, I've gotten better :)
@@wolfcry087 that's awesome maybe you will get way better in the future
needed this!!! worked so well!
Made me laugh so much!! I do the SAME thing with my crush. 🤣😃😄😅
my partner told me to take a flirting class so now we're here.
The best dating advice I've heard so far. Great work!
Keep it light n Keep it short and sweet the best for me
Believe me eye contact will help
Narayan Gowda 👀
👀👀👀👀
👁👄👁
With your my look it wont
@@krishnatiwari6262 this is very rude
"Richard. Nice" bruh
That's like saying "Wow, your name is Amanda? Great job, I'm proud of you."
In starting 10 sec i like the video and after every 10 sec i want to like it again thank you so much
Richard, nice. Lol 😂
I have a friend in my form at college, I really want to get to know her better on a relationship level but I don’t know if she will feel the same way. She is also the type of person to have a boy friend group but i don’t think others in our friendship have got feels yet. So idk, I don’t wanna finish our friendship or make it awkward in our group but i want to ask her out. Her name is Mhia Bustrillos btw.
so have you asked her out yet? :)
@@xueieu I did about a year ago, around 4 days after I made that comment. She said yes, we dated for a while before my (ex) friend stole her from me and then made my friends desert me too. And still to this day - I only have 2 loyal friends.
@@Bear-nr9jo aw dw you'll find someone who'll love you with their whole heart Ó^Ò till then try to enjoy being single (it can have a lot of up sides yk) and stay healthy :)
Thanks Bright Side, very cool!
Excellent video this was great. Great job!
I get lost in his voice. He's so intriguing!
I found using all these tips very useful ....
My next court date is Friday
Lol 😂
“If you think your crush wants to be touched...”
Me: *Closes TH-cam and goes to get a restraining order*
tl;dr "Just don't be awkward. Just don't be nervous. Just don't mess it up." Yeah real helpful.
Tip #1 : Be Good Looking
THANKS BRIGHT SIDE YOUR TIPS WERE VERY HELPFUL NOW I AM HAPPY AND COOL GUY
Or stay Lonely for the rest of your life
I have too much I want to do to ever worry about being lonely for the next 60 years (shooting for 110).
This is the strategy I've adopted. Seems to be working.
Like queen Elizabeth l
Nice idea😀😀😀 btw you're beautiful
Hello, I’m socially interacting rn r u proud of me