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I can flirt with men who are younger than me because I don't take it seriously. It is fun and I love it but I don't expect they will respond to me on account of our age difference. When I meet a man my age that I am interested in I struggle to flirt because I don't want him to come onto me too strong. I like to get to know someone first and I am afraid to end up in an uncomfortable situation or worse.
To be called beautiful with your accent… sooo alluring… Just like when my man says, “ honey, this is the best meal ever!!” Never ever get tired of such affirmations 💕
I'd add: 1- smile 2- be spontaneous and playful 3- stay away from looking for his faults accept that he is human and has faults like you and any human being 4- be genuine and notice and give genuine complements
Thanks for the vid! It's nice to see an example what we can do, I've gone to different marriage coaches and have been left empty when they tell us gals 'how to behave' because it's hard to know what they are talking about when you come from a broken family and have nothing to base your actions off of.
Wonderful explanation & guidance once again 💯..... The way u explain everything is so graspable !!! Please just never stop making these videos..they are so informative and helpful everytime ☺️
I heard that giving a guy a compliment is a good way to show interest “drop the handkerchief” so I’ve been practicing this and so far all I’ve got was “thanks” and then they move along. Apparently that isn’t as easy as it sounds for a conversation starter.
Late to the channel but learning lots❤ never knew about triangle method its awesome, married for a long time and i have to say all the vids are so right i have proven these tips over the years...wish the new generation would find these vids
It’s interesting to watch your videos. I married at 40. Probably took so long because I literally never knew how to flirt. Still don’t but I’m learning
Giving people compliments is not flirting. If you are genuine about it, it is coming from a place of recognition, acknowledgment and appreciation. Make it a practice to do it daily, not just with the opposite sex. Just do it so you give others the gift of your words and energy. And do it without expectations also. If you want to make a difference in the world, this simple act would already be changing their world.
Thanks Ismael ;-) Every single word you have shared in this video is extremely useful. For me, it helped me understand why is it important that a woman flirts with a man. I never thought about them feeling like creeps! Your content is amazing. Thanks again for sharing your knowledge. Best!
I would not play any manipulation games, but give yourself permission to be more yourself in a positive way. < When you feel you have to work it, effort it, over think it, you will fall into the resentment trap! You will burn the candle at both ends and create a lot of confusion and self sabotage. > If you are plotting to manipulate I would think highlight your best aspects and minimize your major negatives a few degrees. Stay yourself as you learn to fully accept yourself more and more however its up to you how you wish to be seen, thus you can highlight your good qualities a few degrees.
My compliment to my friend hopeful more to come in the future and the truth ...you make me laugh you should have a comedy hour ..but your advise has been so helpful to see if wants time with me thank you Ismael❤
I married a bald guy. Find what makes the man attractive. Honestly a guy who isn't "eye candy" will appreciate you all the more for loving his "ugly mug". It shouldn't be mostly about looks, that's really shallow. We have movies to enjoy the "eye candy" if that's all you're looking for
As a coach you really know how to make us women comfortable in dating by keeping your message short and clear and you inspire like no other to bring the best version out of us. Thank you Ismael. The flirting tips seems like great guidelines. I'll have to try them out soon. 😘 I just have one thing nagging me with the tactic in ending the conversation. I would feel bad to do it for that reason and for a specific outcome. This is not the rihgt reason for me to end the conversation. I"d rather feeI the urge to end it because I am driven to do to it out of love. In this case I would end it first so that I do not get overwhelmed or overwhelm him and when I have a schetual of course, like you mentioned. I'm. curious. What do you think of this perspecitve?
🎉thankyou so much Ismael.. you are easy to understand and I need all the advice a d help I can as I am in a serious relationship ow at 52yrs in Australia 🇦🇺
I don’t know if is good to flirt with a man, everytime I do it. They think I am easy and just want to sleep with me, I am a little playful and when I like the guy i match his energy, if they are flirting with me i do it too. If they are serious with me I’m serious with them, but flirting always get me in trouble, maybe I won’t do it anymore even if they try to flirt.
Thank you for posting Ismael,. I’m crushing on a younger guy I used to work with.. We only txt work stuff. Would love to know what to say to get him thinking.. any suggestions!? 🙏
What I took the most of is ending phone conversations. I definitely keep them talking too much because I love talking to them but from now on… I’m going to be the one to sweetly end them. I think that will get me more phone conversations with him knowing I have my own time limit. That and the eye flirting…. Very sexy. Keep feeding us ladies with these. I and maybe we really need this. God bless you ❤
Hello Ismael, I have a question for you. What do men think when a woman blushes and gets nervous in front of them? because that happens to me with the man I like, and I don't know if they are attracted to that in a woman or just the opposite. Thank you for your videos, greetings from Argentina :)
This is good. I am very shy and I am terrible with boys. And to be quite honest, I am a feminist and I do believe that I am free to do whatever I want, but I think these tips are quite useful for me. Specially because I am very shy and I have been hurted in the past which was fucked up. The glance I found interesting! I am gonna try it more and I think the compliments the ones that I think its not too much in the face...is "you are great listener" and " most guys i know are insecure but you know exactly what you want in life", those are quite great. Thank you!
I met a guy once and for some reason the energy I felt in my body was uncomfortable. I tried not to let it surface. I'm still not sure if he noticed. I even told myself , calm down it's ok. So what could I have done in this particular situation?
Very interesting lecture... The only exception in my life was when my husband and I were courting trans Atlantic (he lived in Manchester England and I lived in San Francisco California) we would have phone calls that lasted 8 hours until finally I said I had to hang up and he still said he didn't 😊want to. I guess we were a special case Love out of Legend. Yet I think in principle all of Ishmael's tips are 100% spot-on, especially the one about men loving to be touched. Yet I would encourage women to be more subtle and gentle. It's the difference between male and female and what makes we females so attractive.
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more emotionally intelligent, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind-hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women regulate emotion better. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Also, girls that are friends touch each other in ways that guys just don’t.
So much, if not all, of what you write is false. For example, men are just as emotional they just don't let it hang out. Do you see men as objects? Insulting really
Know that he is LUCKY or BLESSED to get you! Walk away from him, quick! If he only flirts, waiting for you to chase - DO NOT CHASE (calling, texting, being available at last second).. def. no s*x!!
@@starcatcher3691 You shouldn't be dating if you're not serious, otherwise you're just using her for fun and games. Finding out as much as you can about each other is necessary, otherwise you're just wasting her time. The woman should be vetting the man from the very start. She wants a king, not a clown. 🤡
@@SaveTheMessenger dont worry its not a case of reverse psychology because I have self confidence issue or where I don’t find me attractive. It bothers me because it looks like a technique to get the attention of the females that can have self confidence issues and they find you attractive so it will make them more attentive to your videos.. you’re super good as you are Ismaël, you don’t need to call us all of the ladies who look at your videos beautiful repeatedly, you just need to continue to tell us the real talk as it is. My opinion.
@@juliegagne-gravel2024 I respect your opinion... I´m also a self confident woman and it doesn´t bother me when he call us beautiful because we are !! I´m very confortable with my feminine energy so it really doesn´t bother me. Cheers !
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I can flirt with men who are younger than me because I don't take it seriously. It is fun and I love it but I don't expect they will respond to me on account of our age difference. When I meet a man my age that I am interested in I struggle to flirt because I don't want him to come onto me too strong. I like to get to know someone first and I am afraid to end up in an uncomfortable situation or worse.
Me too.
Fr lol!!
That’s my problem, I like to flirt. But it seems the flirting is a bad sign for a serious relationship, you say it you don’t take it seriously.
Same with me!
To be called beautiful with your accent… sooo alluring…
Just like when my man says, “ honey, this is the best meal ever!!”
Never ever get tired of such affirmations 💕
1. First to End
2. Saying his name
3. touching
4. Triangle
5. Compliments
I'd add:
1- smile
2- be spontaneous and playful
3- stay away from looking for his faults accept that he is human and has faults like you and any human being
4- be genuine and notice and give genuine complements
Marilyn knew the tricks 😂😂❤😊
Good..
Ismael you are so good and comforting. I find this dating thing overwhelming.
I love that you say "Beautiful" to your audience.
Thanks for the vid! It's nice to see an example what we can do, I've gone to different marriage coaches and have been left empty when they tell us gals 'how to behave' because it's hard to know what they are talking about when you come from a broken family and have nothing to base your actions off of.
I'm glad you found it helpful.
I simply love you Ismael,, you explain everything so well.❤
Wonderful explanation & guidance once again 💯..... The way u explain everything is so graspable !!! Please just never stop making these videos..they are so informative and helpful everytime ☺️
Your comment made me smile. I appreciate you.
Aree didi tum kya kar rahe ho yaha pe
i love your ending....thats personal touch 🎉🎉
You re a great speaker Ismael so hard ro find nowdays❤
I heard that giving a guy a compliment is a good way to show interest “drop the handkerchief” so I’ve been practicing this and so far all I’ve got was “thanks” and then they move along. Apparently that isn’t as easy as it sounds for a conversation starter.
Late to the channel but learning lots❤ never knew about triangle method its awesome, married for a long time and i have to say all the vids are so right i have proven these tips over the years...wish the new generation would find these vids
seriously i loved your advices and thankyou it is working well ig you are the best advisor...
It’s interesting to watch your videos. I married at 40. Probably took so long because I literally never knew how to flirt. Still don’t but I’m learning
Giving people compliments is not flirting. If you are genuine about it, it is coming from a place of recognition, acknowledgment and appreciation. Make it a practice to do it daily, not just with the opposite sex. Just do it so you give others the gift of your words and energy. And do it without expectations also. If you want to make a difference in the world, this simple act would already be changing their world.
Your lectures are so touching. Thank you for being there
Thanks Ismael ;-) Every single word you have shared in this video is extremely useful. For me, it helped me understand why is it important that a woman flirts with a man. I never thought about them feeling like creeps! Your content is amazing. Thanks again for sharing your knowledge. Best!
Thank you. I'm glad you find my content insightful.
I would not play any manipulation games, but give yourself permission to be more yourself in a positive way. < When you feel you have to work it, effort it, over think it, you will fall into the resentment trap! You will burn the candle at both ends and create a lot of confusion and self sabotage. >
If you are plotting to manipulate I would think highlight your best aspects and minimize your major negatives a few degrees. Stay yourself as you learn to fully accept yourself more and more however its up to you how you wish to be seen, thus you can highlight your good qualities a few degrees.
My compliment to my friend hopeful more to come in the future and the truth ...you make me laugh you should have a comedy hour ..but your advise has been so helpful to see if wants time with me thank you Ismael❤
I love your videos ❤ Thanks for sharing 👍🏼
I love the triangle method. Too bad I never seem to encounter men so handsome, it seems appropriate to use it :(
Daaamn, what a diss to all guys 😂😂
@@GirlCore101 lol! Maybe it's where I live, but seriously I don't seem to encounter stunning men.
@@daniellem.gibson4658stunning men are busy with stunning women
I married a bald guy. Find what makes the man attractive. Honestly a guy who isn't "eye candy" will appreciate you all the more for loving his "ugly mug". It shouldn't be mostly about looks, that's really shallow. We have movies to enjoy the "eye candy" if that's all you're looking for
@@kathreyn34 Very wise thank you. I just don’t know what would initially attract me if he is not somewhat good looking.
Thank you for the tips. I will certainly try them
Sweetheart if a man was interested, you wouldn't have to try anything😂
As a coach you really know how to make us women comfortable in dating by keeping your message short and clear and you inspire like no other to bring the best version out of us. Thank you Ismael.
The flirting tips seems like great guidelines. I'll have to try them out soon. 😘 I just have one thing nagging me with the tactic in ending the conversation. I would feel bad to do it for that reason and for a specific outcome. This is not the rihgt reason for me to end the conversation. I"d rather feeI the urge to end it because I am driven to do to it out of love. In this case I would end it first so that I do not get overwhelmed or overwhelm him and when I have a schetual of course, like you mentioned. I'm. curious. What do you think of this perspecitve?
🎉thankyou so much Ismael.. you are easy to understand and I need all the advice a d help I can as I am in a serious relationship ow at 52yrs in Australia 🇦🇺
This is good Ismael, thank you
I love your advice, and that you call us beautiful! Thank you!
GREAT video!
Thank you for the great video. Wink.
I don’t know if is good to flirt with a man, everytime I do it. They think I am easy and just want to sleep with me, I am a little playful and when I like the guy i match his energy, if they are flirting with me i do it too. If they are serious with me I’m serious with them, but flirting always get me in trouble, maybe I won’t do it anymore even if they try to flirt.
Listen to your inner voice, I feel your body can sense energy n send your brain messages.
Thank you for posting Ismael,. I’m crushing on a younger guy I used to work with.. We only txt work stuff. Would love to know what to say to get him thinking.. any suggestions!? 🙏
I used this method it works thank you.😂
I wish I could flirt with you Ismael. 🙈 I really like you... & thanks a lot for helping us out... You're a nice person. God bless you. 😇
😂😂😂😂
You look like you'd match!
😂😂😂
Thanks for Another Beautiful Advice ❤❤❤
End the conversation first.
-Cinderella 👠💖
Very helpful thank you.
This is lovely.
You are a great coach ❤Ismael
Awesome!
Could you speak to whether your comments and advice are exclusive to young women, or relate to seniors as well?
All ages, unless I specify an age range when I make a point.
Him and i spend over an hour or 2 on call. We usually call while gaming together or streaming anime.
What I took the most of is ending phone conversations. I definitely keep them talking too much because I love talking to them but from now on… I’m going to be the one to sweetly end them. I think that will get me more phone conversations with him knowing I have my own time limit. That and the eye flirting…. Very sexy. Keep feeding us ladies with these. I and maybe we really need this. God bless you ❤
Hello Ismael, I have a question for you. What do men think when a woman blushes and gets nervous in front of them? because that happens to me with the man I like, and I don't know if they are attracted to that in a woman or just the opposite.
Thank you for your videos, greetings from Argentina :)
The woman a man likes is a reflection of himself. Ponder.❤
When you do the triangle thing, should you also have your mouth slightly open like Marilyn? 😊
Gracias por tus consejos,pero que pasa cuando alguien es timido.
Listening to learn English ❤
men are so much hard work nowadays! in the past everything was so easy. men dont know what they want.
Thank you so much!
This is good. I am very shy and I am terrible with boys. And to be quite honest, I am a feminist and I do believe that I am free to do whatever I want, but I think these tips are quite useful for me. Specially because I am very shy and I have been hurted in the past which was fucked up. The glance I found interesting! I am gonna try it more and I think the compliments the ones that I think its not too much in the face...is "you are great listener" and " most guys i know are insecure but you know exactly what you want in life", those are quite great. Thank you!
I'm glad my video inspired you to try a new approach. Good luck.
Oh man! Now this is homework 😂
Ismael, I really like your videos.
I feel only holding your man's hand/hands and looking at his gaze with a genuine smile is just enough.Anything more will be a negative signal.
thanks this helps
wow, I guess I'm a natural lol ❤
Thank youuuu
High quality men
I met a guy once and for some reason the energy I felt in my body was uncomfortable. I tried not to let it surface. I'm still not sure if he noticed. I even told myself , calm down it's ok. So what could I have done in this particular situation?
This is me currently
Same !!! Ismael we need your help
old ladies tried that "direction" flirt but doesn't work on me
How do you get him to notice you?
I would say, you’re a charming man, Ismael :)
Am I a good student ?)😊
Johnny Depp is a master in my house
I've had a few panic lunges from men when I wasn't flirting and neither were they, so men have become hairy women to me 😂
Triangle method, u mean that thing I find myself doing to this one guy's got a name😳, wow. Im so guilty, and I didn't even realise
👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍 and 👍!!!
Very interesting lecture... The only exception in my life was when my husband and I were courting trans Atlantic (he lived in Manchester England and I lived in San Francisco California) we would have phone calls that lasted 8 hours until finally I said I had to hang up and he still said he didn't 😊want to.
I guess we were a special case Love out of Legend.
Yet I think in principle all of Ishmael's tips are 100% spot-on, especially the one about men loving to be touched. Yet I would encourage women to be more subtle and gentle. It's the difference between male and female and what makes we females so attractive.
Nice lovely
Tried all these but he’s too nonchalant 😩
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other.
Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.
Women tend to be more emotionally intelligent, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind-hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women regulate emotion better.
Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Also, girls that are friends touch each other in ways that guys just don’t.
So much, if not all, of what you write is false. For example, men are just as emotional they just don't let it hang out. Do you see men as objects? Insulting really
How can someone with a disability find someone ?
⭐️🦋☺️
Dating our days makes me sick 🤮🤮🤮
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
What if ma man is bald.. I'm gonna need a script.. 😂
❤
lol I’ve done all of these things and still got rejected 😂
Know that he is LUCKY or BLESSED to get you! Walk away from him, quick! If he only flirts, waiting for you to chase - DO NOT CHASE (calling, texting, being available at last second).. def. no s*x!!
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😉 👍
I rather have the man flirt on .
how bout if i tell a fella his essence captivates me
I have two boyfriends and one is going to get me pregnant
When you say Beautifull🫦🔥
Thank you for the tips as allways🙏
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Focus on his eyes and look south. They go cross-eyed.
Why are all the women here looked liked over 40+😂
I love your posts but the beautiful is kinda creepy
WHY FLIRT WHEN HE IS NOT MARRYING THE PERSON ? Does not make any SENCE …..
NEITHER MEN OR WOMEN SHOULD FLIRT. Its immature.
Its far better to develop a deep interest and respect with each other.
You are not fun. And whose to say you can't have both? Flirting is necessary at the beginning to signal interest.
@@starcatcher3691 You shouldn't be dating if you're not serious, otherwise you're just using her for fun and games. Finding out as much as you can about each other is necessary, otherwise you're just wasting her time. The woman should be vetting the man from the very start. She wants a king, not a clown. 🤡
If you could STOP 🛑 calling us beautiful this video would be way better..
Why does that bother you?
@@SaveTheMessenger dont worry its not a case of reverse psychology because I have self confidence issue or where I don’t find me attractive. It bothers me because it looks like a technique to get the attention of the females that can have self confidence issues and they find you attractive so it will make them more attentive to your videos.. you’re super good as you are Ismaël, you don’t need to call us all of the ladies who look at your videos beautiful repeatedly, you just need to continue to tell us the real talk as it is. My opinion.
@@juliegagne-gravel2024 I respect your opinion... I´m also a self confident woman and it doesn´t bother me when he call us beautiful because we are !! I´m very confortable with my feminine energy so it really doesn´t bother me. Cheers !
@@nanan797 I respect your opinion too 😊
Because it's not true. I feel humored. 😔@@SaveTheMessenger
Great advice. Thank you ❤