I wish I weren't shy and introverted because everything is geared towards extroverted people -_- It's so hard to take this advice because I'm so drained after talking to so many people.
@@jellyfishi_ You have no idea what you're talking about. That's not what the commenter meant, you just went over the top with what you're trying to say about introverts and extroverts. Make sense nest time.
I was once an extrovert, but I got hit by a freight train of anxiety a the start of college. I still come off the same to all my friends I'd assume but if I'm ever in the center of attention for over 10 seconds or if I'm hanging out with more then 5 of my friends at the same time, my mind loses it. I have very good 1 on 1 relationships with all my friends, but having to be with all of my friends at the same time makes me realise that I portray myself in a unique way to all the them and that I can't manage how social or non social any them are expecting me to be since I have different relationships with them. At this point the physical symptoms of anxiety will kick in and my body will turn into a human dishwasher. I'm usually freaking out on the inside in a never ending loop of confusing shame, emptiness and misery, but i sucks trying to hide that to 10 of your friends with in a game of basketball. I used to be the guy who couldn't get tired of having fun with my friends, but now I can only last around 1 hour in a crowd of people until I feel like I'm disliked and that everyones out to get me. The only reason I think this happens to me now is that my anxiety has carried me so far away from the old me that I used to be, that i don't even know who I am and how to act anymore. When I hangout with my friends now, it isn't really me hanging out with them, Its me trying to behave like the person I used to be because I don't even know who I am myself. Saddest part about it was that I used to have elaborate opinions about my friends and personal connections with all of them that made me feel things like joy and laughter, but I don't think that way anymore. I can think back of old memories to the times me and my friends had back at school which is awesome, but those are only memories. When I spend times with friends nowadays, I feel no motive behind it, emotionless, and like my friends are just companions I happen to be around and not like the people who they really are.
@@sqkuiadecray563 How can you be sure I'm not shy? Just because I have commented on this doesn't mean I'm not an introvert.. I know I'm an introvert. I even go to therapy for it and my therapy sessions I have to do online, since I'm too scared to leave my own house. 🤦🏻♀️ That's why I said I'm 100% an introvert. I don't even have friends, did online school, work from home, etc. Speaking with someone face to face is different from commenting on a video online.
I hate the correlation between being introverted and "shy" and "socially awkward". Being introverted only means hanging out with people drains your energy. I am very confident and social but I am still slightly introverted because it saps my energy if I am outgoing for too long.
I feel ya and i agree. Im not shy at all and i like beeing social. However my energy gets depleted faster when i hang out with lots of ppl. I pefer hanging out with 3 ppl over 10.
I hate when people say that I’m introverted when in reality I’m just tired and I can’t be asked to go out to places with my friends. And people think that being an introvert is not going out and being shy and not talking but it not at all true. And the teachers don’t do shit when students take the piss out of being an introvert *i wonder why people aren’t extroverts and why there introverts*.
It's bwcause u have a lot to say, a lot of thoughts, but are used to keeping them to yourself or filtering. I think the best way to "become more extraverted" is to just stop filtering and letting yourself do and say whatever comes up in your mind. It is in some ways a good quality to keep to oneself but unfortunately it is really hard to thrive social that way.
A lot of very talkative and popular people are like this. This video seems to assume that introverts can't be social or have speaking skills. Many of them do.
This video demonstrates a lack of understanding what an introvert is. It has nothing to do with being charming or in your head or even being shy. Its that you dont get energy from talking to others and instead it takes energy.
David Olson Correct . The current definition of introvert/extrovert is : The extrovert recharges their energy by being around others. The introvert, recharges by being alone. I'm a musician/performer. I love being in public and around others. But I recharge, every day, by withdrawing to my own space.
Dope Fresh it is important. With the wrong definition you not only get the idea that being an introvert is cureable, as this video says but the method to become more extroverted is totally wrong.
@@hubbabubba4242 I've been a musician since I was a kid. I perform regularly, so that has helped me over the years to learn how to be sociable and likable in big group situations. Best advice. Practice. Practice some more. It gets better. It gets easier.
You should the more you let your thoughts take over as an introvert you are finished it's so simple to find a thing to talk about ,just say one sentence and connect it with other stuff simple as that ,introverts who speak are also better at grabbing and holding attention cause they have so much more important stuff to say ,extroverts on the other hand may speak more but most of the stuff is not important for anyone cause they provide quantity over quality ,introverts can provide quality over quantity which can make you attractive af
being extroverted is definitely living in the moment and worrying about, or correcting what comes after. as someone who has lived in a "what if" scenario his whole life, I'm ready to fire then aim at whatever comes naturally!
I've said it before, but I freaking love this channel. I've visited so many self-help channels, but this one's simply the best. You guys talk about the stuff I need to know and you explain it so damn well. Many Thanks and much Love from the Netherlands! ✌️🙏😎
I'm in love with a boy, he's very shy and introvert. I'm also really quiet and everything but I'm trying hard to make him more comfortable and make him at least laugh a bit. I really love him
You don't need to be an extrovert. There's always someone who stay by you for who you are. Being introvert is no way a bad thing. Generally introvert people have made a huge impact on society as per history. So don't change be who you are.
Yeah, Albert Einstein is one introvert who left a major impact to the world's theory of physics. He's definitely not a person who did what the video said.
This Is really true. I have been an introvert all my life. When I graduated from College I had a great mentor at my first job, who I was able to watch. He was an extrovert, and I watched him and later started apply g what he did. Now in my life everyone thinks I’m the biggest extrovert that has ever been. And what is strange, and I never thought about it until I heard this video, but I can actually turn it in or off. And I actually remember this mentor telling me one time , that I need to learn to be a chameleon. He meant in the business sense. In other words, whatever customer your around adapt yourself to be a person they feel comfortable around. If we were in the south , would use a more southern accent, because I have a natural one, being from Tennessee, and vice versa. Good video.
Hey one tip from me that actually worked:put a timer in your head say 5 sec.Say that thing u want to say within that time period if you do this as a habit you can always talk freely.
I'm more extroverted and personally something I've always naturally done is the 3 second rule. I always make (most) decisions within 3 seconds. I've done it so much that it's so easy so maybe it's something to try if you want to be more extroverted. Also what he said in the video about not letting yourself indulge in the self doubt thoughts and instead focus on something else and visual details. Trust me this works so well but remember that you shouldn't feel the need to be more extroverted and force is because you are already so perfect
I wish this channel was directed at helping women too. Or at least neutral. Some of these tips are very helpful. But most of the videos on this channel are aimed at shy guys who want to get laid.
I'm a guy who doesn't even care about relationship, I think a relationship just would be problematic. And I would more want to fix my problems with social Anxiety on the phone with strangers which is the only time that I am socially anxious, so it shouldn't be more about women but about introverted people in general not just the ones searching for a relationship.
“When you don’t give yourself time to get into your head, you don’t give yourself time to create self doubt.” So simple yet so effective. Probably the best piece of info in this video 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾
I know this is an old comment but you're getting social anxiety confused with introversion like everyone else. Introversion is not social anxiety or shyness or anything like that. There are plenty of introverts who are great at socializing and don't struggle with any type of anxiety or fear around it. They just don't enjoy socializing and they find it exhausting. They always feel extremely drained afterwards. I should know because that's me. I have no anxiety around socializing. I just hate feeling drained and exhausted afterwards. It's a lot of work for an introvert. There are plenty of extroverts with social anxiety, they enjoy socializing and it gives them energy, they just have a lot of anxiety about being judged or saying the wrong thing. And there are plenty of introverts without social anxiety. So this video was a lot about overcoming anxiety and didn't give any tips on conserving energy or how to actually gain energy from socializing.
Ngl I used to be such an extrovert but I’ve been betrayed and done wrong by so many people that I dont feel safe anymore and need to reteach myself how to be an extrovert again
That this is how brain works. Introverts gain energy from being alone, Extroverts from company of other people. It has nothing to do with your social skills What you described is how to be more social, not how to be extrovert, because it's impossible to change from one to another.
@@liljimmy454 hey with that confidence, my fellow introvert, you can make it happen. But keep in mind, there’s nothing wrong with being an introvert, we have our strengths and weaknesses, and so do extroverts. I’d say do a total ‘me’ thing to do and embrace it, but make sure you remember that being an introvert doesn’t = antisocial or shy!
How did I end up THIS introverted. My entire human experience occurs within, in my head. I can intentionally be extroverted at my job and in meetings, but my energy drains drastically even just after a couple sentences roll off my tongue. Ans the concept that extroverts are actually recharging via interaction BAFFLES me. I do like being around people, but SOLELY to observe my surroundings and external stimuli, which I am heavily in tune with, and taking in rapidly. I never miss a detail. When I have to interact w/anyone, it disrupts my inner world and feels so unbelievably foreign and I need to get back to being alone asap. I love being alone more than anything. If I could become a mute I would. Or invisible!
those who think ready, fire, aim is a good idea are the same people that no one trusts with anything because of all their bad decisions and failures. They should watch a How to be more introverted!
No, it's everyone with social anxiety and self-consciousness wants to be able to socialise easily like the extraverts do. Introverts who explore and know about themselves do not worry too much about not socialising. Introverts socialise whenever it is necessary for them to do so, they may be interested in experiencing how being an extravert is like, but they will most likely not interested in fully becoming one.
@@bigblack111 No, every introvert does want to be an extrovert. and not having social anxiety and being able to coerse easily with people is essentially being an extrovert. im an introvert and wish i wasnt. so i can speak on behave of all introverts.
@@boyboy2000ful , I do agree that some introverts do want to become extroverts because they just want a change. However, not all of them do. Social anxiety has nothing to do with introversion. Introverts are people who are more interested in exploration towards inner-self and self-reflection compared to interactions with other people, they usually do not hate interactions with people. On the other hand, extroverts are people who prefer more towards interacting with other people. The decisive difference between introverts and extroverts is their sensitivity towards the stimulations from surrounding social environments. Introverts tend to get tired after being in social situations for too long, and they will need time to replenish their energy alone afterwards. On the other hand, extroverts gain energy from interaction with people, but when they are alone, they tend to get bored and tired. I suggest that before you make quick assumption on what introversion is about, look for what extraversion and introversion are about from many other TH-cam videos, such as videos from TEDtalk that discuss about introverts. You can also search about extraversion and introversion from other websites. Wikipedia will provide you a general idea on the differences between extraversion and introversion. Regards from an introvert.
@@bigblack111 Nah man. im telling u that every introvert suffers the same exact circumstance which is they are unable to become extroverts when they want to be. it has nothing to do with inner-realizations or not craving social interactions but everything to do with social anxiety and being akward with people. every introverted person desires to be extroverted and thats final.
@@boyboy2000ful Like I said, introverts are not people with social anxiety. If you are willing to search for other sources of information which discuss about extraversion and introversion, you will find that they are explaining things that are significantly different from the ideas conveyed by this video. I can sense your annoyance towards opposing ideas, and the intention to dominate and enforcing your own opinions on others without analysis on the ideas conveyed from the opposing opinion. Believe it or not, your type of comment and behaviour of unwillingness to analyse and reflect it in your mind is more commonly found in extroverts. I would say that you already have traits of extroverts. You are an extrovert who is shy and socially anxious. If you want to get rid of shyness and social anxiety, you can follow what the video says, but keep in mind that it has nothing to do with introversion. You are most likely already an extrovert or at least an ambivert in the first place. If you insist on keeping your own idea after this, I will not say anything more. Enjoy your life. Regards from an introvert.
But in fact people call me a weirdo when i tried to be like one of them. Maybe i just didn't know anything about "extrovert" and I'm still trying to avoid falling into conversation and activities with people.. I'm having this social anxiety for almost SIX years and still have no clue how to encounter it for some reason.
I kind of agree but i find that when i have a busy social schedule (usually against my liking) and i am forced to expend a lot of social energy every day for a while, i crave it a bit more. Which feels weird because usually i just wanna chill alone & am scared of being busy but it honestly can change depending on how much you are exposed to for a while.
That’s so stupid that introverted people would put on a extroverted mask, if you take that mask off it feels much better, like you can breath. I wouldn’t pretend to be a outgoing guy or whatever the majority prefers, all for what? A girl? She will probably leave you after a few weeks that she has found out you are introverted or shy whatever stupid shit people say... anyway you can’t have a mask on forever. It feels way better when someone likes you for who YOU are, not for who you want to be. But there’s nothing wrong with pretending I guess. If you are desperate or don’t have a choice, but I personally just don’t think its worth it.
If you’re an introvert, trying to be an extrovert is only going to make you unhappy. Work on your social skills, but don’t try to change who you are. Introverts often come across as shy, but definitely not always, you just have to put yourself out of your comfort zone to improve your social skills. I would recommend the book Quiet for any introverts because it honestly changed my life, and I am a much more confident person having read it.
This is psuedoscience. Being an introvert isn't a choice, it's a naturally engraded, permanent aspect of your personality. Anyone who truly says that "i used to be introverted" never was introverted to begin with. Introvertion is more than being quiet and reserved. See past the stereotypes to grasp the truth. Alot of extraverted people often mistype themselves as introverts just because they relate to the stereotypes concerning introvertion.what they fail to understand is that Extraverted people can have social anxiety, feel shy or be have a reserved temperament. Think for yourselves and never compromise your individuality to gain the acceptance of others.
@@Shahkabul3399 That is true. Being a child I was definitely an extrovert. I did not care what anyone thought of me. But after growing up I have been drowning in doubt of myself. People think yeah just go and talk to that person but your mind really controls you.
Finally after almost 19 years of introversion , I learnt how to be extrovert Although I read that introvert will be introvert ,they can't change that I have to say that there is no a magic bill to transform you to extrovert and you can't be extrovert with a help from the Internet You'll have to figure it out ur self like I did
Idk depend on the time of year for example during the winter time I become a introvert because of the weather change winter make me more depressed then I loose confidence and self esteem and forget how to talk to people. If it’s fall or summer im an extrovert people view me as loud, happy, and excited. During spring after it’s winter some of that winter rub off into spring so I would say I am a like introverted but a little extroverted during the spring. I also get bad anxiety where my chest hurts really bad but not just the weather that effect how I feel but I always go though stuff at home and I have some much work to do and I want a job it’s so much stuff. If your still reading thank you so much I just typed from my mind I need to find a way to stop thinking so much and live in reality. Any tips can help
The person I'm becoming I never was I was always shy and silent but due to my new frnds I gained confidence....but idk y it's uncomfortable sometimes I feel like I should not be this comfortable with others I have started speaking everything that comes to my mind and I feel like I've lost my freaking senses
Actually this video is a big help..I'm introvert and I work in Sales.. I'm really thankful that u made this.. Now I understand myself, and I applied these techniques, and then I performed very well. My colleagues see my changes..thank you & god bless u..
this video is honestly so inspiring, im gonna need to refer to this often just to remind myself that in a group of people having a discussion i want to join in, that they will probably let me join in so long as i dont just dwell on what i was doing to say too long that the subject changes.
I'am an introvert (some would say ambivert) and you can't fully change who you are, but I know that we can learn a lot from each other (introverts from extroverts and the opposite). Love your videos!
I hate when people say that I’m introverted when in reality I’m just tired and I can’t be asked to go out to places with my friends. And people think that being an introvert is not going out and being shy and not talking but it not at all true. And the teachers don’t do shit when students take the piss out of being an introvert *i wonder why people aren’t extroverts and why there introverts*.
For all the introverts out there, I used to be an introvert 10 of 10, and am considered an extreme extrovert right now. Don't give up!!! Sometimes, what it takes is someone from your family or friends to break your thoughts. Trust them and try and believe in what they say instead of just thinking yourself and caging yourself. If you were once an introvert and become an extrovert, you will have a different level in charm from a lot of others. Having a thoughtful personality, and as a great listener, you'll have a lot of outgoing friends. Being able to communicate well and give a good reaction will make you look much charming and will also help you later with jobs and works. (Social life)
I can get behind the Ready Fire Aim, if Aim instead is getting whatever your doing on a well thought out track. Its like stacking paper....if you line of each page individually, you'll never get anywhere. If you take immediate action, and fix those mistakes as you get INTO it you'll know what needs to be fixed WAY faster than trying to do it before hand.
I was already very skeptical, when I saw the title of this video. Being an introvert doesn't correlate to shyness. Sure, many introverts are shy, but it ultimately boils down to the fact that *some people find social interactions relaxing, whereas others find them tiresome.* I'm a good example for the latter: I have no problem of asserting myself, staying true to my opinion, but also admit errors. However, I can't f-ing stand masses of people. For me it's too many noises, smells and people walking in my path. It doesn't just make me tired, but aggressive when I can't avoid it. I need time for myself to recover from social interactions. Unlike many people, I could live probably a year without talking to anyone, as long as I got something to keep me busy. It's not that I need to muster all my courage to speak to someone, but for me it's a pain to recall all the names to the faces of people I see and everyone expects me to remember who that guy was, although most of them are completely irrelevant for me. I hate being asked how I feel, when people don't want to hear the truth, when I feel bad. In short *it tires me to wear a masque to please other people.* When I'm nice to others, it should be because I like them and not because it is expected of me. The same goes for showing interest in other peoples lives. I simply don't get why people are so keen on stuffing their brain with useless facts on the Kardashians and all the other celebrities that became famous without ever doing anything great (unlike some artists, politicians etc.).
Your videos are presenting in a very professional way and that s why I enjoy watching them. You explain in a clear, concise, creative and perfect way. Great job ! Thank you
Great vid man some ppl dont rly listen to the video n miss the encouraging message. keep up the good work man the vid is here for those who need it not for those who criticise it remember that
When im talking to my friends online i can just say what ever i want and i won't feel a thing. At school i become the quiet kid and i am just horrible at starting conversations...
This really works. I watched this video a month ago and it changed me the next day. I recommended this video to my friend who is also an introvert (he is my friend because I was introverted too), he too said it works. The best investment of time in my whole life. No joke. 🔥🔥
Am I the only one who HATES being called an extrovert? Like, some reason I just cringe thinking of myself as an extrovert and I hate it when my mom says that I’m an extrovert I want her to stop 😕
The problem with me is that I just can’t find the energy to talk to people. Literally when I’m in class I want to join in with all the talking and shit but all I do is just sit there and not say a peep. My brain would literally be telling me, “Nah bruh think about games and shit”. There’s this one girl in two of my classes and is extremely extroverted. She loves to brown nose all the teachers and has a nice personality and it makes me jealous and upset like you wouldn’t fricking believe. Literally for two semesters I’ve been trying so hard to find the energy but I just can’t. I want to be outgoing. I want to have more friends. I’ve literally had to go and buy $120 shoes and changed my haircut just so extroverts can talk to me instead of me trying to find the energy to talk to them. And of course it didn’t work. I always worry about how others think of me. I don’t want to look like the quiet kid.
Do you find you doubting what you will say? Like "man i'm gonna mess my sentences up" or " eh wtf that isn't that important, i got other things to do"?
Usually I’m about to say something and then my brain would be like, “nah bruh you got better shit to think about” so yeah I definitely end up doing that
Is it only me or do u also feel shy in front of their parents but talk to people who r not among Ur family damn I think I m different kind of introvert then 😂
Massive action...sounds like a Tony Robbins video. I can't stand these guys like Mike Manson who advise men who are introverted to go out and talk to 100 women every day - yeah, like, I'm totally willing to be verbally crapped on 100 times in a row. Contrary to a lot of PUA'S opinion, facing the crushing prospect of humiliation 100 times in a row is no form of motivation to get better at approaching. I don't try to talk to women - at all - anymore, as I seem, according to them, to be a homohabilis ( lower than a neanderthal).
I think you are right. Extroverts take massive action and introverts aren't. It seems this video is about the general opinion: Extroverts > Introverts. But thats just bullshit in my opinion. It's like those videos ''How to be attractive to women by doing xyz.'' It's like : Be someone else. Not yourself and u will live a good and happy life. I say: Better develop the things you actually wanna be better at. If u want to be better with approaching women. Do that. But that has nothing to do with being introvert or extrovert. It's more like being yourself and showing it.
Talk to 100 women a day, while you can not run in to 10 worth talking to... sounds legit. Unless, it is ment to make you "facing the crushing prospect of humiliation 100 times in a row", so you simply stop giving a shit about it. If I am a homo habilis acording to them, I am free to act as a caveman, simple as...
For me
Home=Extra extrovert
School=introvert
Me too
same here buddy.
Same 😭😭😭😭😭
Same here man
Sameee
"Hard work beats talent, when talent fails to work hard." That's a simple hard truth there
Afterschool Psychology indeed
how about a talent that works hard?
One of the greatest quotes of life!
CEXEBLY1 dumb niageer
@@raulmirut6519 ironic because a black man said it
I wish I weren't shy and introverted because everything is geared towards extroverted people -_-
It's so hard to take this advice because I'm so drained after talking to so many people.
Why is everything geared towards extroverts? What they are so famous for? Being loud, talkative, and annoying?
@@chisomololo9138 literally none of the above, most extroverts are not shallow like a kiddie pool.
@@jellyfishi_ You have no idea what you're talking about. That's not what the commenter meant, you just went over the top with what you're trying to say about introverts and extroverts. Make sense nest time.
@@chisomololo9138 Ew, Too much gacha energy
@Chisom Ololo well extroverts around me always be the smart kids in class, get straight A and kind(?) it's hard life for a shy person like me
Home: Ambivert
Work: Introvert
With friends: The weirdest extrovert on earth
I feel like that's most people
Online: cringe
True af
there’s no such thing as an ambivert ur just average
LITERALLY
Introvert
Extrovert
Ambivert
I’m Lil Uzi Vert
no
I'm pervert XD
@@jeeshaanjoshi WHAT LMAO
Lmao 😂
@@jeeshaanjoshi tf lol
Take MASSIVE ACTION immediately. Don't give yourself time to create self-doubt.
I believe it is a strong philosophy to live with.
@@hankrowe8515 plus please don't watch useless videos like these. They just waste your time
@zedanga saleh 🤨🤨🤨🤨
@@aldairmartinez5001 hello
i know the secret... alcohol
😂😂😂 so true
Relatable 😂
That explains a lot..
Exactly😂
won't care to scream as loud as I can around people when I'm drunk
I was once an extrovert, but I got hit by a freight train of anxiety a the start of college. I still come off the same to all my friends I'd assume but if I'm ever in the center of attention for over 10 seconds or if I'm hanging out with more then 5 of my friends at the same time, my mind loses it. I have very good 1 on 1 relationships with all my friends, but having to be with all of my friends at the same time makes me realise that I portray myself in a unique way to all the them and that I can't manage how social or non social any them are expecting me to be since I have different relationships with them. At this point the physical symptoms of anxiety will kick in and my body will turn into a human dishwasher. I'm usually freaking out on the inside in a never ending loop of confusing shame, emptiness and misery, but i sucks trying to hide that to 10 of your friends with in a game of basketball. I used to be the guy who couldn't get tired of having fun with my friends, but now I can only last around 1 hour in a crowd of people until I feel like I'm disliked and that everyones out to get me. The only reason I think this happens to me now is that my anxiety has carried me so far away from the old me that I used to be, that i don't even know who I am and how to act anymore. When I hangout with my friends now, it isn't really me hanging out with them, Its me trying to behave like the person I used to be because I don't even know who I am myself. Saddest part about it was that I used to have elaborate opinions about my friends and personal connections with all of them that made me feel things like joy and laughter, but I don't think that way anymore. I can think back of old memories to the times me and my friends had back at school which is awesome, but those are only memories. When I spend times with friends nowadays, I feel no motive behind it, emotionless, and like my friends are just companions I happen to be around and not like the people who they really are.
@Arya Jain haha same, anyone has any solution to it?
I think you’re just an extrovert with anxiety correct me
@@sync_mxlly5610 that's definately alot of it forsure. Without the anxiety I speak lots
I came here to learn to be an extrovert... 😂 I'm 100% introvert.
So how is your progress going? Are you an extro or still in that phase?
Bruhhhhh
You're not 100% if you comment
Cuz all introverts are shy as heck
@@sqkuiadecray563 How can you be sure I'm not shy? Just because I have commented on this doesn't mean I'm not an introvert.. I know I'm an introvert. I even go to therapy for it and my therapy sessions I have to do online, since I'm too scared to leave my own house. 🤦🏻♀️ That's why I said I'm 100% an introvert. I don't even have friends, did online school, work from home, etc. Speaking with someone face to face is different from commenting on a video online.
I can be your friend cuz I'm an extrovert and I will adopt you
Oh I didn't say that you're not an introvert,I said that youre not a 100% introvert
I hate the correlation between being introverted and "shy" and "socially awkward". Being introverted only means hanging out with people drains your energy. I am very confident and social but I am still slightly introverted because it saps my energy if I am outgoing for too long.
J 21 nah it's just impossible to socialize forever even the extroverts are done after going out for too long
Alex Van Horssen yea but for me I just want alone time after a day at school or 5 hours with friends
just sucks the life force outta ya unless you vibin with a hottie
I feel ya and i agree.
Im not shy at all and i like beeing social. However my energy gets depleted faster when i hang out with lots of ppl. I pefer hanging out with 3 ppl over 10.
Stefan Andersson same
In my heart: Extrovert
Outside: Introvert :/
I hate when people say that I’m introverted when in reality I’m just tired and I can’t be asked to go out to places with my friends. And people think that being an introvert is not going out and being shy and not talking but it not at all true. And the teachers don’t do shit when students take the piss out of being an introvert *i wonder why people aren’t extroverts and why there introverts*.
Same here. I’m an extrovert trapped inside an introverts body
It's bwcause u have a lot to say, a lot of thoughts, but are used to keeping them to yourself or filtering. I think the best way to "become more extraverted" is to just stop filtering and letting yourself do and say whatever comes up in your mind. It is in some ways a good quality to keep to oneself but unfortunately it is really hard to thrive social that way.
@@urmama4108 that's because embarrassment
@@ArcticZombie Yeah we can embrace ourselves and constantly express ourselves and by time become extro
Am i the only one who is an introvert but not at all Shy??
nope. This guy thinks all introverts are lousy and shy. NOT AT ALL TRUE!!!!!
Nah, fella just generalizes more than healthy...
No. I am the same way. I think, before I speak. I am not shy but I am definitely on the cerebral side.
Jaqen H'ghar Maybe you're bipolar... 🤔
Introvert and kinda shy toward talking to a girl who crush on in my junior year
Okay so don’t think.. just do.
*thiNks AbOUT WHat I shOUld DO*
I failed
Wishii me: doesn’t think - forgets what I am doing
I’m an introvert that plays an extrovert in the real life. ✌🏼
A lot of very talkative and popular people are like this. This video seems to assume that introverts can't be social or have speaking skills. Many of them do.
clear mist social situations aren’t always easy for me but I usually warm up to them fairly quickly
VagabonDaze that's not how it works
How do u do that...
No you can't, introvert is your mind set not yourself, so you don't have 2 mind set
This video demonstrates a lack of understanding what an introvert is. It has nothing to do with being charming or in your head or even being shy. Its that you dont get energy from talking to others and instead it takes energy.
David Olson introverts can be extremely attractive.
I’m not sure he misunderstood that. He just said that introverts generally come across as shy which is true.
David Olson
Correct . The current definition of introvert/extrovert is : The extrovert recharges their energy by being around others. The introvert, recharges by being alone.
I'm a musician/performer. I love being in public and around others. But I recharge, every day, by withdrawing to my own space.
Unfortunately many don't look up the definition and use the term introvert in place of reserved
Dope Fresh it is important. With the wrong definition you not only get the idea that being an introvert is cureable, as this video says but the method to become more extroverted is totally wrong.
I'm an outgoing introvert.
216trixie
I was too, untill I let self doubt and overthinking take over my life. Always be aware of this. It will save you from suffering massively.
216trixie I’m. An introvert and at school the kids put me to a challenge to talk more than the most social person. HOW DO YOU EVEN TALK
Yes so am I
@@hubbabubba4242 I've been a musician since I was a kid. I perform regularly, so that has helped me over the years to learn how to be sociable and likable in big group situations.
Best advice. Practice. Practice some more. It gets better. It gets easier.
For me my brain just tries to interpret people and my dyslexia kicks in and can’t figure out how to respond back making the conversation weird
Anyone else get really insecure and sad whenever someone says something like “you never talk” or “you’re so shy”
It's so true, I never focus on my external environment. I am so happy to hear this.
You should the more you let your thoughts take over as an introvert you are finished it's so simple to find a thing to talk about ,just say one sentence and connect it with other stuff simple as that ,introverts who speak are also better at grabbing and holding attention cause they have so much more important stuff to say ,extroverts on the other hand may speak more but most of the stuff is not important for anyone cause they provide quantity over quality ,introverts can provide quality over quantity which can make you attractive af
i am so introverted im sometimes even too shy to be the first one to say “hello”
Me also
I'm a introvert and this has truly helped me look within myself and see I can benefit from having extrovert qualities.
being extroverted is definitely living in the moment and worrying about, or correcting what comes after. as someone who has lived in a "what if" scenario his whole life, I'm ready to fire then aim at whatever comes naturally!
I've said it before, but I freaking love this channel. I've visited so many self-help channels, but this one's simply the best. You guys talk about the stuff I need to know and you explain it so damn well.
Many Thanks and much Love from the Netherlands! ✌️🙏😎
I've always been an extrovert, however these few months things have changed and now here I am trying to get my old self back
how to be extrovert 101:
1. be social
2.have introverts hate you
3. ???
4.profit
This list gave this poor introvert a heart attack bahaha
This video is really helpful for me .I always think a lot about what others will think of me and I suffocate myself due to overthinking..
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i feel u 💯💯
I'm in love with a boy, he's very shy and introvert. I'm also really quiet and everything but I'm trying hard to make him more comfortable and make him at least laugh a bit. I really love him
You don't need to be an extrovert. There's always someone who stay by you for who you are. Being introvert is no way a bad thing. Generally introvert people have made a huge impact on society as per history. So don't change be who you are.
Yeah, Albert Einstein is one introvert who left a major impact to the world's theory of physics. He's definitely not a person who did what the video said.
I just want to be happy
i just want to get my balls drained i literally couldn't give a shit less about all the other elements of dealing with people
So happy bcz I read this comment today. Thanks.
@@UrineDeity LMAOOOOOOO
I’m already an extrovert, why am I watching this?
Omg so lucky
@@tessayasmine3673 :)
Same
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This Is really true. I have been an introvert all my life. When I graduated from College I had a great mentor at my first job, who I was able to watch. He was an extrovert, and I watched him and later started apply g what he did. Now in my life everyone thinks I’m the biggest extrovert that has ever been. And what is strange, and I never thought about it until I heard this video, but I can actually turn it in or off. And I actually remember this mentor telling me one time , that I need to learn to be a chameleon. He meant in the business sense. In other words, whatever customer your around adapt yourself to be a person they feel comfortable around. If we were in the south , would use a more southern accent, because I have a natural one, being from Tennessee, and vice versa. Good video.
Hey one tip from me that actually worked:put a timer in your head say 5 sec.Say that thing u want to say within that time period if you do this as a habit you can always talk freely.
I once tried acting like I was in a movie and learned that I had more control over my thoughts, facial expressions, and words. It has helped!
i’m gonna try that
I'm more extroverted and personally something I've always naturally done is the 3 second rule. I always make (most) decisions within 3 seconds. I've done it so much that it's so easy so maybe it's something to try if you want to be more extroverted. Also what he said in the video about not letting yourself indulge in the self doubt thoughts and instead focus on something else and visual details. Trust me this works so well but remember that you shouldn't feel the need to be more extroverted and force is because you are already so perfect
I wish this channel was directed at helping women too. Or at least neutral. Some of these tips are very helpful. But most of the videos on this channel are aimed at shy guys who want to get laid.
i know right 😒
Same!
I'm a guy who doesn't even care about relationship, I think a relationship just would be problematic.
And I would more want to fix my problems with social Anxiety on the phone with strangers which is the only time that I am socially anxious, so it shouldn't be more about women but about introverted people in general not just the ones searching for a relationship.
“When you don’t give yourself time to get into your head, you don’t give yourself time to create self doubt.”
So simple yet so effective. Probably the best piece of info in this video 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾
I know this is an old comment but you're getting social anxiety confused with introversion like everyone else. Introversion is not social anxiety or shyness or anything like that. There are plenty of introverts who are great at socializing and don't struggle with any type of anxiety or fear around it. They just don't enjoy socializing and they find it exhausting. They always feel extremely drained afterwards. I should know because that's me. I have no anxiety around socializing. I just hate feeling drained and exhausted afterwards. It's a lot of work for an introvert. There are plenty of extroverts with social anxiety, they enjoy socializing and it gives them energy, they just have a lot of anxiety about being judged or saying the wrong thing. And there are plenty of introverts without social anxiety. So this video was a lot about overcoming anxiety and didn't give any tips on conserving energy or how to actually gain energy from socializing.
I'm liking the new edits. I prefer this over the hand drawing thing you always put in your videos
The hand drawing makes it look like an ad
lights473 no these cheapen the video..the drawings were good
How to stop being introverted video:start being extroverted
Me:really thanks i didnt think about that one even though i think about everything smh
Ngl I used to be such an extrovert but I’ve been betrayed and done wrong by so many people that I dont feel safe anymore and need to reteach myself how to be an extrovert again
‘Imagine an attractive girl WALKING by’
*Shows a girl flying on a broom*
you had ONE job 😂
That this is how brain works.
Introverts gain energy from being alone, Extroverts from company of other people. It has nothing to do with your social skills
What you described is how to be more social, not how to be extrovert, because it's impossible to change from one to another.
It's not impossible, it's highly possible and tomorrow I'm gonn do it at school
@@liljimmy454 gll
@@liljimmy454 hey with that confidence, my fellow introvert, you can make it happen.
But keep in mind, there’s nothing wrong with being an introvert, we have our strengths and weaknesses, and so do extroverts. I’d say do a total ‘me’ thing to do and embrace it, but make sure you remember that being an introvert doesn’t = antisocial or shy!
How did I end up THIS introverted. My entire human experience occurs within, in my head. I can intentionally be extroverted at my job and in meetings, but my energy drains drastically even just after a couple sentences roll off my tongue. Ans the concept that extroverts are actually recharging via interaction BAFFLES me. I do like being around people, but SOLELY to observe my surroundings and external stimuli, which I am heavily in tune with, and taking in rapidly. I never miss a detail. When I have to interact w/anyone, it disrupts my inner world and feels so unbelievably foreign and I need to get back to being alone asap. I love being alone more than anything. If I could become a mute I would. Or invisible!
those who think ready, fire, aim is a good idea are the same people that no one trusts with anything because of all their bad decisions and failures. They should watch a How to be more introverted!
Every introvert wants to be like an extravert but no extravert wants to be like an introvert.
No, it's everyone with social anxiety and self-consciousness wants to be able to socialise easily like the extraverts do. Introverts who explore and know about themselves do not worry too much about not socialising. Introverts socialise whenever it is necessary for them to do so, they may be interested in experiencing how being an extravert is like, but they will most likely not interested in fully becoming one.
@@bigblack111 No, every introvert does want to be an extrovert. and not having social anxiety and being able to coerse easily with people is essentially being an extrovert. im an introvert and wish i wasnt. so i can speak on behave of all introverts.
@@boyboy2000ful , I do agree that some introverts do want to become extroverts because they just want a change. However, not all of them do. Social anxiety has nothing to do with introversion.
Introverts are people who are more interested in exploration towards inner-self and self-reflection compared to interactions with other people, they usually do not hate interactions with people. On the other hand, extroverts are people who prefer more towards interacting with other people.
The decisive difference between introverts and extroverts is their sensitivity towards the stimulations from surrounding social environments. Introverts tend to get tired after being in social situations for too long, and they will need time to replenish their energy alone afterwards. On the other hand, extroverts gain energy from interaction with people, but when they are alone, they tend to get bored and tired.
I suggest that before you make quick assumption on what introversion is about, look for what extraversion and introversion are about from many other TH-cam videos, such as videos from TEDtalk that discuss about introverts. You can also search about extraversion and introversion from other websites. Wikipedia will provide you a general idea on the differences between extraversion and introversion.
Regards from an introvert.
@@bigblack111 Nah man. im telling u that every introvert suffers the same exact circumstance which is they are unable to become extroverts when they want to be. it has nothing to do with inner-realizations or not craving social interactions but everything to do with social anxiety and being akward with people. every introverted person desires to be extroverted and thats final.
@@boyboy2000ful Like I said, introverts are not people with social anxiety. If you are willing to search for other sources of information which discuss about extraversion and introversion, you will find that they are explaining things that are significantly different from the ideas conveyed by this video.
I can sense your annoyance towards opposing ideas, and the intention to dominate and enforcing your own opinions on others without analysis on the ideas conveyed from the opposing opinion. Believe it or not, your type of comment and behaviour of unwillingness to analyse and reflect it in your mind is more commonly found in extroverts.
I would say that you already have traits of extroverts. You are an extrovert who is shy and socially anxious. If you want to get rid of shyness and social anxiety, you can follow what the video says, but keep in mind that it has nothing to do with introversion. You are most likely already an extrovert or at least an ambivert in the first place.
If you insist on keeping your own idea after this, I will not say anything more. Enjoy your life.
Regards from an introvert.
I’m an introvert. But I wish I was an extrovert
Me too
Actually, I don't think you need to be an extrovert. You're an introvert and that's kinda who you are; you don't need to change it.
It's not that i'm shy, it's more like I don't know what to talk :(
Me to 😂..Im in eleventh grade and im trying to be an extrovert but its a train wreck cause I don't know what to talk about in a conversation 😂
@@joshuatrujillo6150 i feel u bro, *gives a friendly hug
But in fact people call me a weirdo when i tried to be like one of them. Maybe i just didn't know anything about "extrovert" and I'm still trying to avoid falling into conversation and activities with people..
I'm having this social anxiety for almost SIX years and still have no clue how to encounter it for some reason.
There is no way to be an extrovert, only pretend. It's easy for me to pretend but once my social battery dies I'm K.O.'d
I believe it, but I don't want to believe it.
I kind of agree but i find that when i have a busy social schedule (usually against my liking) and i am forced to expend a lot of social energy every day for a while, i crave it a bit more. Which feels weird because usually i just wanna chill alone & am scared of being busy but it honestly can change depending on how much you are exposed to for a while.
That’s so stupid that introverted people would put on a extroverted mask, if you take that mask off it feels much better, like you can breath. I wouldn’t pretend to be a outgoing guy or whatever the majority prefers, all for what? A girl? She will probably leave you after a few weeks that she has found out you are introverted or shy whatever stupid shit people say... anyway you can’t have a mask on forever. It feels way better when someone likes you for who YOU are, not for who you want to be. But there’s nothing wrong with pretending I guess. If you are desperate or don’t have a choice, but I personally just don’t think its worth it.
nothing has been this accurate 4 me
I’m an extrovert but sometimes I can just be randomly an introvert
Extrovert ....??
No .
Introvert.....??
No.
Ambivert ....??
No.
I am pervert !
This is the best video I’ve found on this subject. No more videos on this for me, now is TIME FOR ACTION
If you’re an introvert, trying to be an extrovert is only going to make you unhappy. Work on your social skills, but don’t try to change who you are. Introverts often come across as shy, but definitely not always, you just have to put yourself out of your comfort zone to improve your social skills. I would recommend the book Quiet for any introverts because it honestly changed my life, and I am a much more confident person having read it.
MrAlexanderbezz could you tell the exact title of the book? , do you mean quit power ;by Gregory Mone?
tommyninjaturtle @ I think he/she is referring to Susan Cain's book.
Sísifo # thank you sisifo, i'll look it up
I read it. What a great book!
Yes. That's the one. Well worth the read.
This is psuedoscience. Being an introvert isn't a choice, it's a naturally engraded, permanent aspect of your personality. Anyone who truly says that "i used to be introverted" never was introverted to begin with. Introvertion is more than being quiet and reserved. See past the stereotypes to grasp the truth. Alot of extraverted people often mistype themselves as introverts just because they relate to the stereotypes concerning introvertion.what they fail to understand is that Extraverted people can have social anxiety, feel shy or be have a reserved temperament. Think for yourselves and never compromise your individuality to gain the acceptance of others.
Can u pls help me I was a extrovert and I became a introvert I wanna be a extrovert again
Introversion and extroversion are not genetic they are just habits so you can easily switch between them and believe me it's very easy
Delaver Bhat But it probably takes a lot of "deprogramming".
InShaAllah i hope so. Thanks
It is a tough journey
@@Shahkabul3399 That is true. Being a child I was definitely an extrovert. I did not care what anyone thought of me. But after growing up I have been drowning in doubt of myself. People think yeah just go and talk to that person but your mind really controls you.
Finally after almost 19 years of introversion , I learnt how to be extrovert
Although I read that introvert will be introvert ,they can't change that
I have to say that there is no a magic bill to transform you to extrovert and you can't be extrovert with a help from the Internet
You'll have to figure it out ur self like I did
I am an extrovert proudly
Lucky
You nail this tutorials, mate. Great job!
In home:introvert
School:introvert
Public:super duper introvert ultra pro max
thanks for always making one of the most informative and practical videos out there!
Idk depend on the time of year for example during the winter time I become a introvert because of the weather change winter make me more depressed then I loose confidence and self esteem and forget how to talk to people. If it’s fall or summer im an extrovert people view me as loud, happy, and excited. During spring after it’s winter some of that winter rub off into spring so I would say I am a like introverted but a little extroverted during the spring. I also get bad anxiety where my chest hurts really bad but not just the weather that effect how I feel but I always go though stuff at home and I have some much work to do and I want a job it’s so much stuff. If your still reading thank you so much I just typed from my mind I need to find a way to stop thinking so much and live in reality. Any tips can help
The person I'm becoming I never was I was always shy and silent but due to my new frnds I gained confidence....but idk y it's uncomfortable sometimes I feel like I should not be this comfortable with others I have started speaking everything that comes to my mind and I feel like I've lost my freaking senses
Maybe I never was a introvert I was a extrovert with low confidence that kinda makes sense cuz I was always insecure of me being skinny.....
Pls help me I was a extrovert then I became intro I wanna be extrovert again teach me ur ways this kinda quiet life is not for me 😢😢
@@bok5370 i really don't have any ways tbh....it just happened on itself....i started talking to everyone and my shyness gradually went away😅
Actually this video is a big help..I'm introvert and I work in Sales.. I'm really thankful that u made this.. Now I understand myself, and I applied these techniques, and then I performed very well. My colleagues see my changes..thank you & god bless u..
Your an angel sent from heaven
No he's a human born on earth
this video is honestly so inspiring, im gonna need to refer to this often just to remind myself that in a group of people having a discussion i want to join in, that they will probably let me join in so long as i dont just dwell on what i was doing to say too long that the subject changes.
Thank you, I think I finally realize how to escape from my head😎
The true introverts are the ones who didn't even comment saying they are one
I'am an introvert (some would say ambivert) and you can't fully change who you are, but I know that we can learn a lot from each other (introverts from extroverts and the opposite). Love your videos!
Home: Extra Extrovert
School: Ambivert
I’m an introvert but I don’t like being one
I hate when people say that I’m introverted when in reality I’m just tired and I can’t be asked to go out to places with my friends. And people think that being an introvert is not going out and being shy and not talking but it not at all true. And the teachers don’t do shit when students take the piss out of being an introvert *i wonder why people aren’t extroverts and why there introverts*.
I'll just be myself and don't care about anything else
Introvert are actually perceived as more attractive
No
For all the introverts out there, I used to be an introvert 10 of 10, and am considered an extreme extrovert right now. Don't give up!!!
Sometimes, what it takes is someone from your family or friends to break your thoughts. Trust them and try and believe in what they say instead of just thinking yourself and caging yourself.
If you were once an introvert and become an extrovert, you will have a different level in charm from a lot of others.
Having a thoughtful personality, and as a great listener, you'll have a lot of outgoing friends.
Being able to communicate well and give a good reaction will make you look much charming and will also help you later with jobs and works. (Social life)
So if I'm an introvert, and many people who claimed to be now extroverts makes it seem like its a good thing, does that mean that being me is bad?
I can get behind the Ready Fire Aim, if Aim instead is getting whatever your doing on a well thought out track.
Its like stacking paper....if you line of each page individually, you'll never get anywhere. If you take immediate action, and fix those mistakes as you get INTO it you'll know what needs to be fixed WAY faster than trying to do it before hand.
2:09 exactly why I'm watching this.
Wow thanx man I always hated being an introvert bt now I have a new perspective about it so I'll just follow your advise, great video
I was already very skeptical, when I saw the title of this video. Being an introvert doesn't correlate to shyness.
Sure, many introverts are shy, but it ultimately boils down to the fact that *some people find social interactions relaxing, whereas others find them tiresome.* I'm a good example for the latter:
I have no problem of asserting myself, staying true to my opinion, but also admit errors.
However, I can't f-ing stand masses of people. For me it's too many noises, smells and people walking in my path. It doesn't just make me tired, but aggressive when I can't avoid it. I need time for myself to recover from social interactions. Unlike many people, I could live probably a year without talking to anyone, as long as I got something to keep me busy.
It's not that I need to muster all my courage to speak to someone, but for me it's a pain to recall all the names to the faces of people I see and everyone expects me to remember who that guy was, although most of them are completely irrelevant for me. I hate being asked how I feel, when people don't want to hear the truth, when I feel bad. In short *it tires me to wear a masque to please other people.* When I'm nice to others, it should be because I like them and not because it is expected of me. The same goes for showing interest in other peoples lives. I simply don't get why people are so keen on stuffing their brain with useless facts on the Kardashians and all the other celebrities that became famous without ever doing anything great (unlike some artists, politicians etc.).
As an introvert who has been learning the concepts of extroversion and introversion, I agree with your comment.
Yea you have a point I didn’t realize how stereotypical this video is… it’s better to transform into a social introvert
Your videos are presenting in a very professional way and that s why I enjoy watching them. You explain in a clear, concise, creative and perfect way. Great job ! Thank you
Great vid man some ppl dont rly listen to the video n miss the encouraging message. keep up the good work man the vid is here for those who need it not for those who criticise it remember that
I'm here to learn on how to socialize my friends
I just don't have a lot of friends and when I meet new people I'm afraid of getting in trouble or them hating me even when I try
At home with family: Extrovert
School or public: introvert
With friends: too much of an extrovert💀
SAMEE
This is an amazing video, thanks man! I'm gonna put it to practice. =D
When im talking to my friends online i can just say what ever i want and i won't feel a thing. At school i become the quiet kid and i am just horrible at starting conversations...
ikr we introverts are the best texters but in school I can barely speak up, its quite difficult to live like this :/
This really works. I watched this video a month ago and it changed me the next day. I recommended this video to my friend who is also an introvert (he is my friend because I was introverted too), he too said it works. The best investment of time in my whole life. No joke. 🔥🔥
Am I the only one who HATES being called an extrovert? Like, some reason I just cringe thinking of myself as an extrovert and I hate it when my mom says that I’m an extrovert I want her to stop 😕
But it's a good thing
The problem with me is that I just can’t find the energy to talk to people. Literally when I’m in class I want to join in with all the talking and shit but all I do is just sit there and not say a peep. My brain would literally be telling me, “Nah bruh think about games and shit”. There’s this one girl in two of my classes and is extremely extroverted. She loves to brown nose all the teachers and has a nice personality and it makes me jealous and upset like you wouldn’t fricking believe. Literally for two semesters I’ve been trying so hard to find the energy but I just can’t. I want to be outgoing. I want to have more friends. I’ve literally had to go and buy $120 shoes and changed my haircut just so extroverts can talk to me instead of me trying to find the energy to talk to them. And of course it didn’t work. I always worry about how others think of me. I don’t want to look like the quiet kid.
Do you find you doubting what you will say? Like "man i'm gonna mess my sentences up" or " eh wtf that isn't that important, i got other things to do"?
Usually I’m about to say something and then my brain would be like, “nah bruh you got better shit to think about” so yeah I definitely end up doing that
Lmao same.
Starting a talk is such an ache
Both have pros and cons. Look up "Introverts are smarter than Extroverts". But Extroverts are better at communication than Introverts.
honestly I think the best way is to just throw yourself out there, speak whatever you think and just think abt what you're talking about
I think I’m an ambivert.
Best one to be
Doesn’t really exist
I think im an extrovert like around 60%, but... tbh i actually just dont want to talk to people irl and feel exhausted...
Ya’ll know it’s VERY hard being an introvert in the south..
"Wrong action is better than no action."
Massive takeaway! 😃😀😃😀
Is it only me or do u also feel shy in front of their parents but talk to people who r not among Ur family damn I think I m different kind of introvert then 😂
Anywhere in the world: most extrovert
School: introverted introvert
The only reason I'm here is because I'm socially awkward. ☠
I dont know if it is realted to being an introvert but whenever I try to speak up most people cant hear me does this happen with someone else too
I also have that.
Best channel out there
This channel is different🔥
Happy that we have it!
Make A Video About How To Be A Good Introvert
Kiran Javed yas boi
@El Desó Drugs also kill
Just started watching this channel and I must say there is such thought out content.... Honestly one of my favorites... Keep up the great work 👍
Massive action...sounds like a Tony Robbins video. I can't stand these guys like Mike Manson who advise men who are introverted to go out and talk to 100 women every day - yeah, like, I'm totally willing to be verbally crapped on 100 times in a row. Contrary to a lot of PUA'S opinion, facing the crushing prospect of humiliation 100 times in a row is no form of motivation to get better at approaching. I don't try to talk to women - at all - anymore, as I seem, according to them, to be a homohabilis ( lower than a neanderthal).
I think you are right. Extroverts take massive action and introverts aren't. It seems this video is about the general opinion: Extroverts > Introverts.
But thats just bullshit in my opinion. It's like those videos ''How to be attractive to women by doing xyz.'' It's like : Be someone else. Not yourself and u will live a good and happy life.
I say: Better develop the things you actually wanna be better at. If u want to be better with approaching women. Do that. But that has nothing to do with being introvert or extrovert. It's more like being yourself and showing it.
I don't agree, the next 100 would be the same. You do have things to lose. Humiliation is the worst.
Talk to 100 women a day, while you can not run in to 10 worth talking to... sounds legit.
Unless, it is ment to make you "facing the crushing prospect of humiliation 100 times in a row", so you simply stop giving a shit about it.
If I am a homo habilis acording to them, I am free to act as a caveman, simple as...
Better be humiliated 100 times and find the girl of your dreams than to live the rest of your life alone.