Facing Tough Choices and Life's Challenges

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  • @brendariley8982
    @brendariley8982 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    Oh sweety, I'm so sorry. Remember, it's never goodbye but more....I'll see you again someday. He knew you loved him, and he thanks you for letting him go.🤍💜💙💚💛🧡❤

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Thank you! Your words mean a lot to me 💛 ~ Anja

    • @adelegower834
      @adelegower834 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Btw, there are horse chiropractors out there that hv wonderful results, beyond any diagnoses (sp?)....

  • @renitasloan
    @renitasloan 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    I’m sorry about your horse. Our animals are such a gift from God and give us so much joy.

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      They do and thank you so much 💛 ~ Anja

  • @justacountrygirl8750
    @justacountrygirl8750 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am so very sorry for your loss. I’ve never had a horse but I have had to make the same type of decision for a couple of dogs over the years. Do allow yourself to grieve.

  • @Maria-101
    @Maria-101 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m sorry for your loss, I truly understand how you feel.
    I recently started watching your TH-cam channel and I really like everything you share with us.
    I am a believer and believe that God made me click on your video today.
    We lost our dog a week ago, we had to put him to sleep, he was 12 years old and got him when he was a puppy 🐶 , we bought it for our son who was a child then.
    All the emotions that you are going through, we feel as well, and even though our pet was a small dog, no comparison at all with a horse, which I know are very special animals, he was the joy of our household.
    I’m glad you talk about grieve because I think we all need that time to heal . I wish you the best , you are an intelligent person and although I am not German, my mother in law is of German descent and in some ways you remind me of her.
    Take care of yourself, God bless.

  • @BrendaWoods-kn3jd
    @BrendaWoods-kn3jd 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My heart goes out to you. As you said, it is never an easy decision to make. We absolutely must put our emotions aside and do what is best for a pets. Thank you for sharing and a bigger thank you for doing what was best for your horse. 💔

  • @maryderleth7860
    @maryderleth7860 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    I'm so sorry. They really are part of the family no matter what the animal is.

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you💛 ~ Anja

  • @BeatePowell
    @BeatePowell 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Es ist immer schlimm wenn man so eine Entscheidung macht.

  • @partinsheritagehomestead4981
    @partinsheritagehomestead4981 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I completely I understand how your feeling, im so so sorry hun. You're in my thoughts and prayers

  • @marcihill7688
    @marcihill7688 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m so sorry for your loss. The animals we bring into our lives love us so unconditionally. What a gift they are to us. We lost our very old dog last week. It was not due to his age but rather a rattlesnake bite. We had to make the decision to let him go due to his poor health and the unlikelihood that he would recover. It was such a difficult decision. But we know it was kinder not to let him continue to suffer from the bite and then the treatment and its aftermath.
    He was a lucky horse and you also for the love you gave each other.

  • @maryjonorum107
    @maryjonorum107 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My sincere condolences to you. You are put together very well, in all aspects of your life. My late husband and I had three dogs in our life together, along with our 3 children. Our pets are family. Our pets bring us much joy. You realize all of these things. Horses whisper to humans.❤️ I encourage you to take the time you need, but also accept that it is ok to begin again, yet another love story with a magnificent creature that will love you back. I believe you will, as you say. I look forward to ALL of your videos. 💕

  • @divinemotherwisdom6611
    @divinemotherwisdom6611 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hi, Anja. I just saw this video today (YT says it was posted 3 months ago). I am so sad that you lost your beloved horse friend and partner. I am glad you shared about it and that you are allowing yourself to take time to grieve. I remember when I had a puppy when I was 12 years old who, sadly, followed her mother onto a country road to chase a truck carrying chickens to a nearby processing plant. Sadly, while her mother was fine, my puppy was hit by the truck and died instantly. I still remember how strongly the grief and sadness of losing her hit me, and I am sure there are more feelings when one has to consciously make a decision to let an animal be put to sleep. You were brave to do the right thing to release your beautiful horse from pain and disability. Many blessings to you. Be kind and nurturing to yourself. I love your channel for your regular content, and I am glad that you felt you could share on it about something so personal and difficult, as well.

  • @curban616
    @curban616 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am so sorry. Making a decision like this is so incredibly hard. You really have to weigh out what is best for the animals we love..we have had to put down numerous animals and it is incredibly hard to let them go! Hugs to you my dear..🩷🩷🩷

  • @rachelseibert7882
    @rachelseibert7882 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I agree with you on this, it is so very hard, but you did the right thing, God bless and comfort you.

  • @mkhoory2145
    @mkhoory2145 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My deepest condolences and sympathies on your loss .. May Allah grant you peace and show you way of relief

  • @kathrynmoll86
    @kathrynmoll86 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow, I’m not a horse owner, but as a person who has her own and loves all animals I certainly understand your grief and loss. I have tears already. To lessen Donny’s pain & suffering, you had to make the right and painful choice for him. You did a very unselfish thing for him. It is an acceptance of life’s gifts . Hugs to you! Congratulations on 100!

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

  • @KarenLeu-c7m
    @KarenLeu-c7m 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So sorry for your loss. I’ve had animals in my life always & therefore have lost many too. They are a part of our family & hard to let go of them when the time comes.

  • @themamma341
    @themamma341 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I am so very sorry, Anja. I believe animals are a gift from God and I miss those I’ve had the honor to have terribly. Let yourself grieve as you need to and know you gave him a wonderful home❤

  • @kimprindle4819
    @kimprindle4819 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m so sorry for the loss of your friend and partner prayers are coming on Angels Wings!🐴💕🙏

  • @LuciaLeePollard51
    @LuciaLeePollard51 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You were very responsible and did what you felt was best! Prayers with you, and try to remember the great times with him!!!

  • @lindagordon2955
    @lindagordon2955 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I so appreciate you doing this video. We also lost a very precious kitty a few months ago. I can't imagine losing such a special animal. He knew you loved him, and you will see him again.

  • @yolandalynner2978
    @yolandalynner2978 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for being honest.
    So sorry for your loss!
    Letting go of the animlas we love is one of the hardest things we have to do. I appreciate your channel and all you share and teach us here.
    God bless you as you grieve this loss. 💔💔💔

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

  • @gigid.7703
    @gigid.7703 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for sharing your story it was very heart rendering & sad! Prayers & thoughts are with you through my tears!❤️

  • @barbaralongmire1220
    @barbaralongmire1220 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am so sorry, you did a brave thing for your sweet horse. I have had to face putting pets to sleep, I know it is a difficult decision to make. I am sending you a hug, and you take care.💗

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

  • @pamcadd8658
    @pamcadd8658 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have loved your cooking content on your channel. Thank you for being real - this makes me love you more. We've been through this difficult decision several times with cats and a dog, and have walked alongside friends with horses who have had similar experiences. Please take time to grieve and don't force yourself to make new videos until you're ready. Prayers and thoughts and virtual hugs ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @debrademedici864
    @debrademedici864 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m very sorry for your loss .. it is not easy to go through…❤

  • @barbaradieckmann9020
    @barbaradieckmann9020 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    My daughter is going through it as her 26 year old horse needed to pass over because the pain was too severe for the horse to continue. She is having the hardest time. Yes, the support is super important.

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So hard for us, hope she can make the best decision for her horse 💛 ~ Anja

  • @lindav3455
    @lindav3455 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I am so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful being. RIP 💙💙

  • @bonnie5546
    @bonnie5546 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very thoughtful and dear of you to share -life-. I think you'll meet again. Peace be upon you and your circle.

  • @misteenmarshall4092
    @misteenmarshall4092 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sending my condolences. Beautiful story and you made the right decision

  • @ellenmurray7747
    @ellenmurray7747 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    When i was a very young girl I brought home a kitty and wanted to keep it. Ok. The kitty had to live outside. It was my responsibility. I had to be the one to feed it, be kind to it, make sure it had shelter etc. And if it was injured, or old, or seriously ill, I had to have it 'put down'.
    Now at 80 I still remember what my dad said. "Remember, our animals are not volunteers."

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Well said and thank you so much for sharing 💛 ~ Anja

  • @tanjaschulz1823
    @tanjaschulz1823 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Es tut immer weh, wenn man ein Familienmitglied gehen lassen muss und die Entscheidung fällt niemals leicht!
    Möge Dein Pferdchen gut über die Regenbogenbrücke gekommen sein!
    RIP and RUN FREE! 🐴🌈
    Ich wünsche Dir ganz viel Kraft und send viele Grüße aus good old Germany!

  • @Karen-l5q
    @Karen-l5q 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My heart goes out to you!!😢😢
    Allow yourself to grieve and feel it fully and over time things will lessen and become less harsh. We suffered the loss of our beloved cat about 2 years ago who died from cancer of the spleen and it came on very suddenly so we made the decision and it was all for the better of her not for us.

  • @susanhilley8977
    @susanhilley8977 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So very sorry for such a big loss. Take the time you need to grieve. My prayers are with you.

  • @homemadeonourhomestead
    @homemadeonourhomestead 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Oh Anja I’m so sorry. Horses are truly the best animals. Prayers for you my sweet friend.

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for your sweet comment, Brie 💛 ~ Anja

  • @lisapayne7330
    @lisapayne7330 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I know this feeling. We always have had Blue Heelers.
    My soul dog, Gunther, had compression as well. We went for months with him. He finally lost all function in his hind legs and we HAD to make that decision.
    Thank you for being real. And I’m so sorry. ♥️

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

  • @williamandcynthialyons3841
    @williamandcynthialyons3841 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am so sorry for your loss. 💕🌹

  • @tagaustagein
    @tagaustagein 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Viel Kraft, liebe Anja, ich weiß, wie sehr es schmerzt, ein geliebtes Tier zu verlieren.

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Danke Dir, Kerstin 💛!

  • @cfs9828
    @cfs9828 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dear Anya,
    Thank you for this heartfelt video. Having lost animals, I have had a few instances of having to make the hard decisions.
    I truly believe that when animals pass, it is like one door closes for them and another beautiful one opens.
    Sending prayers!

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

  • @turtlemark2
    @turtlemark2 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had to put my heart horse done last year . She had laminitis and had kept it good for several years. But last year was hard and her coffin bone rotated again punched threw the hoof and I choose to end the suffering. It was hard because like yours she was perfectly healthy in every other way. I miss her every day. She was my heart horse and also my last horse at 57 I am no longer able to start over.
    Thank you for choosing your horses life over your comfort... they were lucky to have you...
    We will always love them and they take a piece of our heart with them.

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

  • @wendys556
    @wendys556 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing, it is never easy to make the decision to put down a pet. But like you said it is the right thing to do for the pet.

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

  • @patriciaremonda4789
    @patriciaremonda4789 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh so very sorry. Our friends are precious, both human and animal and it's so painful to part with them. Hugs and prayers, Anja.

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

  • @justanonymous5681
    @justanonymous5681 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    If only all animal owners were as kind, devoted and responsible as you. You did everything humanly possible to help your horse which I hope gives you some comfort. And most of all, you gave him your love!! 💗 🙏🏻

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

  • @susanfoy4794
    @susanfoy4794 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for your honesty and for sharing your difficult times with us. Please give yourself some time and space to grieve. Losing a pet is like losing a family member especially when you had such a close connection, but I like to think that we don't really lose them--we may not see/feel/smell them around us, but he is still loving you just as you still love him. That connection continues.

  • @belieftransformation
    @belieftransformation 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My deepest condolences to you with your parting of your beautiful horse; you did all you could to for him & loved him. Blessings to all 🤗🇨🇦

  • @1grayhouse
    @1grayhouse 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm sorry for your loss. They are such an important part of our family. ❤

  • @FelicitaFlores-Santana
    @FelicitaFlores-Santana 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful horse. May God heal your heart. Blessings and prayers for you. ❤

  • @cherylmeri5143
    @cherylmeri5143 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awww, I'm so sorry you had to make that choice. I know you loved him very much. Go through your stages of grief in your own time, that's how grief works.
    My neighbor has many horses and I see her taking them to the vet several times a week (I'm thinking lots of babies coming soon), but she recently had to put on down too..

  • @d.chesney7807
    @d.chesney7807 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I’m sorry for the loss of your beautiful horse. I grew up on a ranch with many horses and cattle and it’s always hard to lose them. Allow yourself time to grieve and cherish the memories you have.❤

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

  • @homesteadinthewoods
    @homesteadinthewoods 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sending hugs your way. I totally understand your pain. It is always a difficult decision but the peace comes from knowing it is what is the best for the animal. I know I will be in that position in a couple of years and don't look forward to that time. Thank you for sharing your sad times as well as the happy ones.

  • @amdarkcoffee
    @amdarkcoffee 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    this is our world. a mixture of bliss and sorrow. nothing is eternal. touched so much by your courage and perseverance.

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

  • @susiewolfgong3496
    @susiewolfgong3496 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very touching video I’m so glad you expressed this. So many are selfish and keep the animals for them and don’t think of the pain the animal is in.

  • @JulieT..
    @JulieT.. 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm so very sorry for this tough decision you had to make and for your loss. He is at peace and grazing in a beautiful meadow in a new body that allows him to run free. ❤🌈🐴🪽🙏

  • @Barbara-pz8ky
    @Barbara-pz8ky 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So sorry for the loss of your beautiful horse, Anja…it’s good of you to share difficult moments too…take time to grieve and come back when you’re ready.

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

  • @timothyschaible6025
    @timothyschaible6025 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ma'am I am very sorry for your loss, know that you are a responsible owner. Yet, hard decisions are never easy, but the time and love you shared are the relationship stronghold, Blessings to you and yours.

  • @judyblaise1639
    @judyblaise1639 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m very sorry about your horse, your friend. We’ve lost our dogs that were a part of our family and the sorrow is real but I can remember all the funny times and loving times and I did a photo book of all our dog babies to remember.

  • @jeannalichtenberg4944
    @jeannalichtenberg4944 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm so sorry for your loss. 😢

  • @carolynecarrick6292
    @carolynecarrick6292 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such articulate thoughts about your difficult decisions. You are precious~!💖 I love the frank words and thankfulness you express of your stewardship we all owe our animals. He knew and felt your love, now he is enjoying the green pastures of his dreams.

  • @bethshelley561
    @bethshelley561 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Sorry for your loss. It’s a hard decision but you took care of your family member.🙏🙏🙏

  • @marywright9370
    @marywright9370 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wishing you peace and rest like you’ve allowed him to have. It’s a great decision to end the life of a beautiful, loving, and engaging animal. Hardest decision in the world. Thank you for putting him first. Savor the memories and the love you still can share with your family and other animals.❤️

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

  • @padmarubiales5184
    @padmarubiales5184 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Animals are our best friends and our family. It’s the hardest thing ever to decide it’s time to let one go. So sad! I am glad you did what was best for your dear horse. ❤❤❤❤

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

  • @barefootgardener366
    @barefootgardener366 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So sorry!! Hugs to all!!

  • @jvallas
    @jvallas 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a difficult time. Of course, you know you handled it exactly in the best way for your precious animal, but that is always painful. I hope your good memories of him will buoy you through the days and weeks ahead. 🙏

  • @grammym1643
    @grammym1643 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I am so sorry. My heart breaks for you. This was very timely for me personally. Last Monday, I went through a very similar situation with my beloved dog. He had a wonderful life and was constantly at my side. Very suddenly, last Monday, I noticed he started to have extreme pain. I took him immediately to the vet. Tests, x-rays, then finally surgery. Expecting a good report, after 3 hours in surgery, I received the devastating news. I'm thankful I could be there to tell him good bye, wrap him in his favorite blankets and take him home to be buried. Emotionally, it may have been easier to let the vet handle everything, but he was such a loyal, loving companion, I felt I needed to do that final service to him. As hard as it is, I'm allowing myself the room to cry and grieve. My family and friends have all been wonderful and supportive. I'm so thankful God has blessed us with animal companions. I know one day, I will have another dog, but it's important to take the time to grieve. Thank you for your openness to share even the hard times. That is real life.

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes, animals enrich our life and making the best decision for them is the least we can do 💛 ~ Anja

  • @zenaidaoftarsus
    @zenaidaoftarsus 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your love for Donnie will live forever. You have my deepest condolences as you grieve.

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

  • @pibble3962
    @pibble3962 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As horse trainers and caretakers we understand your decision.
    The tendency with our animals is to put personal affection before deciding that which is ultimately a kindness to your four legged friend.
    Thank you for your candor.

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you and I agree!

  • @DianeRichRhea
    @DianeRichRhea 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So sorry for the loss of your guy. I'm a horse owner as well and most of mine are in their late 20's. They have a home with me as long as they are alive.

  • @lindaharbison9616
    @lindaharbison9616 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am crying for you. It is hard. Thank you for sharing. We all grieve in our own way and I am very impressed that you could share so nicely. ❤❤❤

  • @joanhenry8123
    @joanhenry8123 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh my goodness 😢I’m so sorry and thank you sharing. I’m holding you in heart through your grief. I had to let my heart horse go Sept 2022. The grief is still there but I can walk through it now. I’m so grateful for my time with him. I wasn’t ready for it to be over on this earth. I’m blessed to be able to still ride sweet horses. But it took more than a year. My friend the barn owner let me work with some young horses. Ground work. Oh boy. We are so lucky. But it is so hard.

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

  • @debbyowens4941
    @debbyowens4941 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am so very sorry for your loss. It’s so hard when we , as pet owners, have to make those decisions . I have been through this MANY times. I have had dogs and cats my whole life and am in my 60’s.
    We fostered. And many were elderly… in poor health to begin with. My children sadly had to learn this is part of being a pet owner. And when they are blessed to go on their own in their sleep… it is heartbreaking, but also can be a blessing. It’s much harder when you have to decide… 💔💔😢
    Again, I’m so very sorry.

  • @dawnburton5961
    @dawnburton5961 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Prayers and good vibes for your healing heart ❤ Sending hugs. Thank you for sharing all you do. I know this wasn't easy for you, but your youtube family is here for you!

  • @DallasLaxton
    @DallasLaxton 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm so sorry for your loss. He was lucky to be so loved by you.

  • @haythrower
    @haythrower 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well said! Having had Percherons I fully understand!

  • @veronicabush9844
    @veronicabush9844 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful horse. I feel sad for you but overjoyed for the wonderful life you gave to him and the treasured memories he has given to you. Bless you 💔❤

  • @wetravellite9567
    @wetravellite9567 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am so sorry. I still miss every animal I have been blessed to have in my life from childhood to now (2dogs, a horse, a pet rabbit , and 3 chickens). They were each unique and had their own personality and made my life better. I would do it all again , they are worth the pain of their loss because they give us so much. ❤

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

  • @angeliacarpenter8730
    @angeliacarpenter8730 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So sorry for your loss. Our animals are in our heart. Prayers for your family🙏

  • @jillkulis7469
    @jillkulis7469 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thankful for your honesty. I truly hear your love for Donny in your voice. I’m thankful God gave us such big hearts to love others and animals. Press on, you have made wise decisions, very though out.

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

  • @saranebeling6375
    @saranebeling6375 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    So sorry! My heart breaks for you. Take care of yourself right now. He was family and your decision was very hard. Bless you

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

  • @debbielaney5097
    @debbielaney5097 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So sorry for your loss, animals add so much joy to our lives.

  • @sandersida
    @sandersida 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So sorry for your loss. These tough decisions really hurt, but, they also come with a sense of peace from doing what is right. You are in my prayers.

  • @npepperc4437
    @npepperc4437 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😢 my heart breaks for you. My heart horse Annie passed away 1 year ago April 13. I still cry and miss her sweet presence. She was 32 and I knew her time was close but I still did everything I could to keep her going and happy. She went downhill very fast. We were still riding her on short sweet rides just to keep her in shape and keep her from being upset at not being ridden. Then the last year things just started going wrong. She couldn’t keep weight on no matter what we fed her… I did get another horse because I needed a horse for trail rides but it isn’t the same and while I do care for the new horse I can’t attach like I did with Annie. I wish I could tell you that you will feel better soon…. You will move on and carry him with you ❤ take care of yourself, take time for yourself. Thank you for sharing your grief and trusting us to care for you also.

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

  • @Miniver765
    @Miniver765 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My deepest condolences to you. It's never easy to say goodbye, but you did what was best given the circumstances you were presented with. Horses are some of God's most beautiful creations, and Donnie will be forever in your heart.
    Wishing you peace and comfort during this difficult time. 🤗🌞🙏

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

    • @Miniver765
      @Miniver765 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@OurGabledHome You are very welcome. Hugs 🤗

  • @n.watson8497
    @n.watson8497 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So sorry to hear about your loss. I'm praying you will know God's comforting hand.

  • @marliesdahlke4457
    @marliesdahlke4457 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Liebe Anja, das tut mir unendlich Leid für dich und deinen wunderbaren Freund. Den richtigen Zeitpunkt zu finden und eine Entscheidung zu treffen, ist sehr hart. Es ist immer so ein schwerer Gang. Aus Respekt für die grenzenlose Liebe, die wir von unserem geliebten Tier erhalten, ist es wichtig, es ebenso liebe-und respektvoll loszulassen. Ich musste gerade meinen geliebten alten Kater, den ich vor 16 Jahren aus dem Tierschutz übernommen habe, einschläfern lassen. Ich hoffe, dass unsere Tiere wissen, wie sehr sie geliebt werden. In Gedanken bei Dir, Deine Marlies aus dem Norden Deutschlands

  • @paultotoritis475
    @paultotoritis475 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel your pain and I am sorry for your loss. We recently lost our pomeranian Houdini and occasionally we still hear his bark. He died of natural causes, but it makes no difference, although we didn't have the pain you had in making the choice. That is truly painful, stay strong and remember the times you had together.

  • @lilliestefano1762
    @lilliestefano1762 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m so sorry. I had to make that decision with my handsome 9 1/2 year old German Shepherd on 1/17/24. He was losing his legs and come to find out he had cancer. I’m still grieving. Give yourself time to grieve. I try to just remember or the good times. 💕

  • @beckygreen3733
    @beckygreen3733 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, Anja! We are animal lovers too & it IS DIFFICULT to loose them! They're like our children! Praying for you!

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

  • @noragranados6728
    @noragranados6728 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am sorry for your loss, I know how difficult it's to lose a pet. They're part of our life. It's so difficult ❤

  • @tsilbaugh5314
    @tsilbaugh5314 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh, boy. Such difficult times. But, yes, grieve and then, like you said, know that life does move on and you can also enjoy future animals while keeping your beautiful memories close. 💗💗

  • @catherineengel4720
    @catherineengel4720 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Anja, I’m so sorry for your loss, God Bless 🙏🏻

  • @lynne5893
    @lynne5893 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh man😞…..God bless you and yours. I’m sorry

  • @patriciagrace18
    @patriciagrace18 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Anja, much love to you and many prayers. I am sorry you are at this moment in time. We tend to focus on the positive and the celebrations but it is the negative and the losses we need to be coached on most. Thank you for this video. May your balance return when you are ready.

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much for your heartfelt comment 💛 ~ Anja

  • @ceciliarowedder4017
    @ceciliarowedder4017 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My deep condolences. It's so hard to give up our dear animal friends.

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

  • @elledechenestudio
    @elledechenestudio 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I am so sorry for your loss, Anja. Such a beautiful, sweet boy. I lost my boy, Sandro, almost 10 years ago in similar circumstances. One week he was learning canter pirouette, the next he was leaning against the wall, any wall, so that he wouldn’t fall down. When the vet and trainer both are telling you that there is only one compassionate way forward, you do that. He was my boy for 14 years and I miss him always. Listening to you tell your story makes me realize that I haven’t fully faced this loss. And I need another horse in my life. Thank you for sharing.

  • @glendastaples9536
    @glendastaples9536 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So sorry for your loss. Thank for your heart felt video. ❤

  • @Tammy-cj5qu
    @Tammy-cj5qu 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I wish I could give you a big hug full of comfort. It's so hard to lose a pet. They are family. I had to put my 32 year old Paso Fino down on my birthday in 2020. My two other boys were mourning his loss and each dealing with it in a different way. My 30 year old Quarter horse stopped eating. To get nourishment in his body, I had to hand feed him and fill him full of oils and supplements to help his appetite and to put weight on. He was losing weight so quickly and muscle of course. My vet and I tried best we could but he just didn't want to live. He was such a silly and funny horse and because of that his nickname was Monkey. But after the loss of his buddy, he became mean and angry toward our other Quarter horse. It was such a sad time. On my birthday 2021, exactly a year after I loss my Paso. As soon as I got up I looked out the window to check on my boys as I always do and Monkey was down. My vet, my husband and I tried for over an hour to get him up. He didn't want to get up. My vet told me what he thought was best for him and I agreed. So he passed on the same day, a year later as his buddy. It was a tough year because in September of 2020, I had to put my 16 year old Dachshund down and in November 2020, I had to put my 14 year old Dachshund down. Only nine weeks apart. I had lost four of my babies in exactly a year. It's still hard to deal with as I cry and type this. I'm thankful for each of them. They brought so much joy to my life. I miss them so and I am reminded of them each day. Thankful for the memories. My heart will be with you. I'm very sorry for your pain. ❤

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wow, you have been through the wringer but thank you so much for sharing and for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

  • @OkieJammer2736
    @OkieJammer2736 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    What 😢 heartbreak and you have SO many folks lifting you up.

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you so much for your sweet comment 💛 ~ Anja

  • @tovahcarver6049
    @tovahcarver6049 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am so sorry for your loss, Anja. I, too, had to tell my sweet Troubadour good-bye 3 years ago. It is very hard and the decisions are made in great agony. I pray the Lord's comfort and healing for your heart in the coming days. Thank you for being real and sharing such a vulnerable and difficult piece of your life. May God bless you! 🙏💕

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for your heartfelt comment 💛 ~ Anja

  • @deborahyellowhorse467
    @deborahyellowhorse467 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm sorry for the loss of your horse. Our animals are such an important part of our lives.

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much ~ Anja

  • @rebalspirit
    @rebalspirit 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    May God bless you and be your comfort in your grief.
    My husband says that horses are like large dogs and we've lost a number of our dogs over the years. It's hard. Our last elderly husky past on the day after I entered hospital for my emergency spine surgery in 2022. My husband coped alone. That was hard to not be there for him and for our dog. If I wasn't four hours away from our home I would have checked out of the hospital and walked home to comfort my husband.
    I send you love and hugs. May your memories of your horse always make you smile, even amidst your tears.

    • @OurGabledHome
      @OurGabledHome  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you for sharing your story! It's hard not to be able to be there for them but I am sure up until then you always had been 💛🤗 ~ Anja

  • @teresawoods5099
    @teresawoods5099 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Rest in Peace Donnie. ❤