Abusers target vulnerable, single women with kids. You're better off raising your child on your own than getting into a relationship with someone who uses drugs, drinks excessively, "love bombs" you -- all signs of narcissist behavior. You really can't be too careful. It's your mental health at stake. Date a man for a LONG time before you move in or marry.
I’m sorry you and your family went through this! I pray you find healing from your childhood as well as your abusive husband. I’m also thankful your mom did not side with that monster, sadly a lot of mothers do 😔.
I am happy that he passed away and that she felt relief from that. Some people think karma will never ever touch them and that being employed means the most thing is the world. All they will have is a house and a car. Karma is real and victims don't even have to poison their abusers. They can watch them eat food, smoke and drink and do things that cause them to have cancer or diseases; drugs and sex pills and or percs, etc.
You are incredibly strong. The next time i complain about my life i will think of you and shut my mouth. I send you a big hug and hope that you find peace and that you have good people around you
@@Doyouandshutup thanks Adrian, as a single mum of two girls it's nice to hear there's someone who understands the weight these words hold for women not yet willing to give up on love. I also want to remind everyone that this can also happen to children who's mothers are married to their biological father or grandfather inflicting the same trauma upon their children. Blaming the women isn't helpful - we should be blaming these men and putting the responsibility on them not to SA children! In saying that, I've also internalised the same sort of responsibility upon myself as mother of daughters and stopped dating 4 years ago. In addition to working days and nights my girls are with their dad, I'm now using any of the 'free' time I would have previously spent with a partner, working so I'm able to earn enough to keep a single income household running anyway!
@@kellymurphy6667 yes, it's really important for people to remember this. My abuser was my grandfather. My parents have always been together and their family friends were always the nicest.
This is so devastating 😢 i think that educating children on secrets, bad touch, threats etc..may help?. I spoke to my children all the time about bad touch etc. This can be done by anyone anywhere. Its sad that the ones that are the most trusted are the ones to sexually abuse. Sandusky- Catholic demon priest murphy-molested deaf children Teachers The list goes on. My prayers for healing and strength ❤
I worked for a warehouse in 2013 and there was a supervisor who would gaslight me about posts I made online and he acted like he hated me with a passion. I ended up quitting and a while later he was busted for molesting his own wife's teen aged daughter. And she was busted for allowing it. She worked in the office of the warehouse. Now, when someone shows me they hate me, I never wonder why. I blog about trafficking, sexual abuse from The White House to lawyers, judges etc. There were men at work happy to say "that weirdo finally went to jail." Before they were exposed, I took a photo of his wife's "Psycho" plaque that she had up in her office.
Mothers: your kids need to know about these men. They need to promise to tell you anything even uf they're afraid and being threatened. A pox on pedophiles everywhere.
W0W I'm so sorry to hear about all the grief and pain 💔 you and your family went through I'm so glad he died in 2015 one less monster in the world please invite God into your lives also please start journey for you 💔💔💔😇😢😢
If I could find my abusers they would be dead. Good thing they aren’t around and I can’t find them. One of the two boys was killed in the military I heard but I never got the last names
Has anyone ever wondered why it's only women making these videos about being abused as a child ? Well the answer is pretty simple ... no one would give a damn . So my question is , why do women have value in our society and men don't ? Men are obviously more important because without the men keeping this impossible system running ... everyone dies . And the women and children would be the first to pass . So why don't men have value anymore ??? Have the feminists weaponized empathy so perfectly on their behalf that guys no longer matter to the average person ? Boys are abused at more then twice the rate as girls but like I said ... no one gives a damn .
There are men making these videos on this channel about being abused. Women aren’t only valued in our society. Some people would say the opposite of what you’re saying. Men have their struggles and hardships in this society and so do women. We just have different hardships. Men are more likely to feel like they can’t talk about it but women feel that way too. I think there’s just a different reason why women feel like they can’t speak up and why men feel like they can’t speak up. It’s similar but slightly different in the reasoning (I think).
And everyone is important in this society. I don’t think it would run smoothly or well without women. But men are necessary too. There’s no reason to act like women and children aren’t important and that men matter more. We are equal
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People who come forward like this to tell their stories are so incredibly strong.
Abusers target vulnerable, single women with kids. You're better off raising your child on your own than getting into a relationship with someone who uses drugs, drinks excessively, "love bombs" you -- all signs of narcissist behavior. You really can't be too careful. It's your mental health at stake. Date a man for a LONG time before you move in or marry.
I can’t take these stories anymore they just break my heart 💔
Same here😢😢 my relief is so many have overcome this evil and vengeance will be of the Lord’s.
I’m sorry you and your family went through this! I pray you find healing from your childhood as well as your abusive husband. I’m also thankful your mom did not side with that monster, sadly a lot of mothers do 😔.
Congratulations for getting to the point where you have the strength to share this with the world. Thank you for your story.
My heart breaks for that little girl who suffered so much. I'm so proud of you for telling your story. Jesus loves you
I am happy that he passed away and that she felt relief from that.
Some people think karma will never ever touch them and that being employed means the most thing is the world. All they will have is a house and a car.
Karma is real and victims don't even have to poison their abusers. They can watch them eat food, smoke and drink and do things that cause them to have cancer or diseases; drugs and sex pills and or percs, etc.
Dear Jennifer, i am so sorry for what you went through. I send you much love and wish you all the best in the world. You are very beautiful.
I’m so sorry you girls went through that, how horrifying. What a monster!
You are incredibly strong. The next time i complain about my life i will think of you and shut my mouth. I send you a big hug and hope that you find peace and that you have good people around you
You are so strong! Thank you for sharing your story.
Bless you, Single Mothers out there…Plz listen to some of these testimonies from these brave experienced souls.
this hurts to hear. Im glad you are still here and recovering..... how strong you are. Its beyond imagining how strong.
That is sick what the father did
Stepfather/ Pedo
It wasn't the father, just a man her mother married
I LOVE YOU AND GOD PROTECT YOU ❤
You’re so brave ❤
Children should feel save in their houses please mothers don not get marry again or date if your children are still young 😢😢😢
I agree, but if you happen to date, make sure not to take men back home to your kids!
Do not let ANY man into the house if you are not around your children. PLEASE😪😪😪😪😪😪😪
Mothers deserve a life and love too. Not everyone is a bad person but we should be cautious regardless
@@Doyouandshutup thanks Adrian, as a single mum of two girls it's nice to hear there's someone who understands the weight these words hold for women not yet willing to give up on love. I also want to remind everyone that this can also happen to children who's mothers are married to their biological father or grandfather inflicting the same trauma upon their children.
Blaming the women isn't helpful - we should be blaming these men and putting the responsibility on them not to SA children! In saying that, I've also internalised the same sort of responsibility upon myself as mother of daughters and stopped dating 4 years ago. In addition to working days and nights my girls are with their dad, I'm now using any of the 'free' time I would have previously spent with a partner, working so I'm able to earn enough to keep a single income household running anyway!
@@kellymurphy6667 yes, it's really important for people to remember this. My abuser was my grandfather. My parents have always been together and their family friends were always the nicest.
You’re amazing. Keep going. Counseling.
This is so awful & hard.
Chances are Mom knew. She’s repressed it.
bless her heart 💖
So sorry this happened to you. Much love and best wishes for a wonderful future.
This is so devastating 😢 i think that educating children on secrets, bad touch, threats etc..may help?. I spoke to my children all the time about bad touch etc. This can be done by anyone anywhere. Its sad that the ones that are the most trusted are the ones to sexually abuse.
Sandusky-
Catholic demon priest murphy-molested deaf children
Teachers
The list goes on.
My prayers for healing and strength ❤
Horrible what happened to you and your sister. He basically got away with it for only doing 11 years. He's dead now, Good Riddance!
My heart bleed 😢
😢💔😭🙏some ppl r just simply evil 😡but where was the mother the whole time 😳😳😳
You brave lady
I worked for a warehouse in 2013 and there was a supervisor who would gaslight me about posts I made online and he acted like he hated me with a passion.
I ended up quitting and a while later he was busted for molesting his own wife's teen aged daughter. And she was busted for allowing it. She worked in the office of the warehouse.
Now, when someone shows me they hate me, I never wonder why. I blog about trafficking, sexual abuse from The White House to lawyers, judges etc.
There were men at work happy to say "that weirdo finally went to jail." Before they were exposed, I took a photo of his wife's "Psycho" plaque that she had up in her office.
It must have been hell working there. You are very strong for sticking to your beliefs and opinions 👍
How old was the teen daughter at the time?
I still hear the child in her I'm so sorry
Strong Women Warrior!
💪🖤 🤟
Mothers: your kids need to know about these men. They need to promise to tell you anything even uf they're afraid and being threatened. A pox on pedophiles everywhere.
W0W I'm so sorry to hear about all the grief and pain 💔 you and your family went through I'm so glad he died in 2015 one less monster in the world please invite God into your lives also please start journey for you 💔💔💔😇😢😢
If I could find my abusers they would be dead. Good thing they aren’t around and I can’t find them. One of the two boys was killed in the military I heard but I never got the last names
He should have got life
Right!
I go further and say: death
Sad i can relate 😢
I admire you
I had an evil stepfather also.
The law let this monsters keep hurting innocent childs
😢😢😢😢
🙏🙏🙏💪💪💪
What her mum aint good sorry weres her sibling's
Has anyone ever wondered why it's only women making these videos about being abused as a child ? Well the answer is pretty simple ... no one would give a damn . So my question is , why do women have value in our society and men don't ? Men are obviously more important because without the men keeping this impossible system running ... everyone dies . And the women and children would be the first to pass . So why don't men have value anymore ??? Have the feminists weaponized empathy so perfectly on their behalf that guys no longer matter to the average person ? Boys are abused at more then twice the rate as girls but like I said ... no one gives a damn .
There are men making these videos on this channel about being abused. Women aren’t only valued in our society. Some people would say the opposite of what you’re saying. Men have their struggles and hardships in this society and so do women. We just have different hardships. Men are more likely to feel like they can’t talk about it but women feel that way too. I think there’s just a different reason why women feel like they can’t speak up and why men feel like they can’t speak up. It’s similar but slightly different in the reasoning (I think).
And everyone is important in this society. I don’t think it would run smoothly or well without women. But men are necessary too. There’s no reason to act like women and children aren’t important and that men matter more. We are equal
Show me proof of that last ‘fact’ you posted though because from what I know women are way more likely to be abused especially sexually abused.
@@bunnylacy2097 I can agree with that .
I love you beautiful strong woman ❤
Your story...is my story minus a sibling.
I feel your pain, it happened to me too, Most men are Peds🥲