It all depends on the person and the people around them. Most important thing is that when someone wants to improve then it's important to at least allow them to. Stopping them from improving just so you can look down on them just so you can make yourself feel better isn't helping anyone and you're the problem in that situation.
That’s something that no one will ever understand. Sex offenders who don’t change with no remorse need a bullet to the head. But the ones who are trying to change need a second chance. Imagine trying to better yourself with a fucked up reputation like that and no one allowing you to... that’s never gonna solve anything
Don't hate, find forgiveness and help them recover, I'm also a victim of sex abuse, physical abuse, and mental abuse. I wanted to die, I hated everyone around me, I hated smiles, happy people, everyone was a monster to me. I read an article about someone who was killed by regular college students, who hated a transgender. That person made me see that hate it's a cycle of murder, a cycle that never ends. Forgiveness was the key to change, help those in need, and help them. I am a victim of a triple crime, 3 times the pain, 3 times I was killed, but I came back to live and make a change for those in need, I learned to forgive!!
Hi there, I'm glad that you were able to make it just fine, I hope you're in good health and making the most of it, the thing is, I always believe that people can change, regardless of how heinous they are, if their advances towards change and improvement are genuine, then there is hope in humanity, I hope you keep on living and succeeding, look out for yourself, and stay safe.
Young children, teenager, and even young adults 21 and under should be given chance to change and become law abiding citizens. Putting these youngsters on registry is a human violation. These people are still maturing and can become better person in future.
Thank you. A criminal charge is enough for young teens or kids .. I heard of a case where a 10 year old was out on a registry, at 12 year old he end up getting bullied and judged throughout all of society
Everyone saying no, what is your solution? Death? Permanent imprisonment? If you dont think others can change for the better it's hard to imagine how you think you can improve yourself
@@jessicagallegos3497 unfortunately some of these people dont give a shit a watchlist yea I'll be real honest 5% of those on the registry and those not reported and those behind bars or anywhere will still do the same shit unfortunately
@@officerpetergriffin101 because raping a child is a different level of evil. Some mistakes shouldn’t get second chances, and if they are willing to do it once, statistically they are more likely to reoffend.
I really hope one day the people in these comments can see that grabbing their pitchforks and calling for the death or castration of people is just going to lead to more children being abused and this cycle repeating. We need to have support for people with these thoughts to go to before they cross that line of downloading these images or committing horrific acts, otherwise they'll just be unable to control themselves and do something horrible, but you can't punish someone just for having the thoughts, especially when they have often been victims of child abuse themselves.
I think those that are guilty also needs to be properly loved and cared and rehabilitated, or else they might end up offending more. Especially if we do that to people for merely downloading CP.
@@redeemingpatriot3487 I think any meeting between the victim and the offender needs to be consensual though. Some do not want to do it, though that doesn't mean we can't rehabilitate the offender and set them free once they are cured I think.
@@redeemingpatriot3487 I think a lot of lawmakers already goes after a lot of other felons. I think some general societies in general has a huge problem with sex offenders usually due to it's moral panic which is usually sad in my opinion...
My father was an ambulance driver he got a call where a sex offender had just been recently released. The man knew he would do it again and didn't want to, he chose to cut his genital area off.
Honestly the register, the hate and them being essentially cast out of society probably makes them more dangerous. If someone is told they're pure evil by everyone and is never given a chance to change then they probably will just embrace that evil and continue their crimes. Its one of those "if everyone thinks you're a monster then you might as well be one" kind of things. There are many who make mistakes, whether they be big or small and learn from it, feel ashamed etc. However. Some of them are genuinely evil, we all know the ones. The types that documentaries and true crime videos are made about.
I feel like if people truly want to change and change their life around from doing those things, then we should atleast give them a second chance to improve. Second chances are powerful and in the hands of a person who truly utilises it can bear great fruit. most of the time its talking about the victims of the offense who were harmed and that's right and all but nobody's really thinking about the the ones who did the crime and if they can or should be given a chance to change
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I really hope more to be done. The strange and evil addiction to having sex with kids is crazy. If I see signs of a man or woman I know luring to such a habit, I want to try to stop it from the root.
I saw a documentary about this by the bbc a few years back and they talked with a non-offending pedophile as well as a neuroscientist studying pedophilia and both indicated that it is a trait developed prior to birth and develops no differently than heterosexuality or homosexuality and the scientist suggested that the primary factor in preventing them from offending is early intervention and long term treatment. This was backed up by the other mans personal experience and wish. To be able to be treated for a condition he does not want to have without being criminalized for losing the biological lottery. The expert consensus according to that documentary seems to indicate that unless these people feel comfortable seeking help and we as a society get better at identifying it, it is more likely than not that they will go on to harm a child
It's a difficult discussion, but imperative. Sex offenders bring out a rage in me that nothing and no one else can, but I remind myself that such people are genuinely, mentally sick, and if we want to prevent them from hurting more ppl - and other animals - we must find ways to help them. I commend the woman in this video for trying to understand them despite her sad history. I don't think I could have met up with the "changed" man. I probably would have had an anxiety attack.
Not only that SO’s aren’t mainly about change anyway a good number of them reoffend, we shouldn’t have to waste time and money over trying to fix what’s broken beyond repair
@@jeanmichellelaurent I'm sorry you went through that but it doesn't mean that most don't/can't change. The data we have for reoffending rates show us that it's as low as 3% all the way up to potentially 25%, with a lot of those reoffences being technicalities, such as failing to register or breaking a rule. Very few continue to commit acts of abuse of the same nature.
This is magical thinking at an alarming level. Putting the public and particularly children at risk when the rates of recidivism for sex offenders are at 34% among male offenders is immoral
I've said it before... We need mental health treatment available for those attracted to children. They need to be able receive treatment BEFORE they commit offences. We need to stop dealing with them after the fact. We're so focused and blinded by the hatred of them, nobody wants to take that step and invest in those services because it's viewed as sympathising or showing compassion to those who we feel don't deserve anything other than a bullet. Would you rather have a paedophile living next door and you know they're a paedophile and getting treatment or not know. Because the former is far less likely to offend.
@@T-lists5 I'm not sure 'education' is the key as much as being able to access mental health care. But it turns out there are organisations out there. You might want to give them a shout if you're still struggling.
To all victims out there don't let what happened define you you are stronger than you think you are all lovely people you are more than what happened ❤ And to offenders take full responsibility For what you did when you leave prison make the world a better place no more victims no more causing pain no more hurting others And to both don't dwell on the past Our pasts do not define us what we do to make a better tomorrow does
I love whoever made this comment, this is how the how the world should think, this is how we should be, I understand the hatred, I understand the mental pain. But to be better we must learn forgiveness, to be forgiven, and try our best to move on. Accept punishment, but also seek to repent and change. We shouldn't shudder hatred with more hate. To be better we must learn to shudder hatred with kindness, because only light to shine on darkness
Remorseless, emotionless predators can change...I am one...and I did. For most of my life I was driven by overpowering urges to act out and I did so without thinking twice about it. Its to long a story to tell here but in an instant I learned to feel remorse, guilt and regret for all the pain I caused. Im much better now but its still hard. I will forever fight the beast that is inside me. I want to say im so very sorry to anyone out there who has been hurt by someone like me. Please forgive me!
This makes me so sad for this young woman. She has so much courage and heart to even talk out about what she went through and what she wants to see. What an inspiring woman to take her pain and try make something positive from it. My heart gos out to her and yet I feel deeply inspired by her
@Meth Smoking Neanderthal #TrailerPark That what I was just thinking,not what I would call a mistake.a mistake is putting a red sock in with ur white t-shirt.
Everyone can change, it’s about not whether they can but whether they *WILL.* Those that continue with their thoughts and actions in that nature are just not willing to change and don’t want to. They need to want to in order to change.
I was once asked if i ever hated anyone, i said yes...him... if a purge was an event, hed be my first, n if i had the ability to bring him back to life, i would, and kill him again, hypothetically of course. Id never act on it, just a dream I was 7 through 10. He was 31
They can. I've never dealt with it ever again and I feel blessed and thankful. Of course I can never forget something so traumatic, but it makes me happy to know that things have changed for the better.
@@безлюдныеокна Whats suicide got to do with it? Let me put it another way, There is no experience that happens to you that justifies abuse of a minor. NONE.
Ann Ex sex offender told me that they will always offended sooner or later and that is very scary. He also told me that it's not those that have been caught people should worry about, but those that haven't been caught are the ones to worry about.
@@Meetinmichigan I do wonder why you decided to just say something so blatantly wrong? Like what motivated you to say a straight up lie which you know isn’t accurate? I’m curious. As a general rule most rapists do go to prison if convicted however they definitely should be sentenced for far longer then they currently are. Either way that doesn’t change the fact that sex offenders still have the lowest rates of reoffending something that you can find yourself from a single google search.
@@redtob2119 🤧😢sorry rapists get raped in prison + they will never change + you have more empathy for them than for victims of sexual abuse + ratio + deeznuts + your mom + nobody cares + ligma + L you + W me
What sexual content are you refering too? If you are talking about people who share child abuse images, or who openly sexualize children in social media, then I agree. I don't think mainstream media sexualized children, although the focus on them "turning legal" is something I want eradicated.
@@NotAnotherKuromi see this is the issue with putting 'sex offenders' in the same category. the title says 'sex offenders', that includes many sex offenses that have nothing to do with kids.
When it comes to the sex offenders, most of them i see as humans as make mistakes or poor decisions in life. And they deserve a second chance. They may have done something monsterous in their past but that doesn't make them a monster. But i can't say the same for some of them. A dad who sexually abuses his 12 year old daughter for YEARS will never change and they deserve to be locked up for life. I advise people take a long hard look at what the individual is actually on the registry for and take into account the age they commited their offence.
Your comment contradicts itself, First you say they did som monstrous and deserve a Second chance then you mention something else monstrous and say they don't deserve it, Even the dad who did something monstrous can change by the power of God just like any other wicked Sexual addiction, It's all sick, and can be healed by God, Some may be worse than others, But that sick dad, Needs Help and Prayer too, Even as sick as messing with your 12 yr old daughter is, God can even forgive that if he truly Repented ☝🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽💯
Why is sex offense something so terrible that it is beyond forgiveness? People forgive and understand every other criminal offense and mental illness, why not sex offense? Certain disorders like BPD and APD cause serious irrational and illogical behaviors such as unhealthy sexual habits. If sex offenders get therapy and counseling why not give them a second chance? Im not talking about repeat offenders.
@@jonmarsh7914 Disorders such as BPD or ASPD (I’m guessing you meant aspd not apd) are personality disorders not actions & do not inherently mean someone will hurt others or commit crimes. A sexual offense is an action which IS inherently wrong and hurts other people/society. People don’t chose to have a mental illness but you do CHOOSE TO COMMIT A SEXUAL OFFENSE.
@@CalebBradshaw-x2cHealing is possible however it’s not realistic to believe everyone will reach that point (most won’t) hence the word “ruined”
!!There are Cases Of grown men being charged for sex crimes they committed as juveniles, meaning they werent prosecuted until years later and somehow the statute of limitations wasnt run. These were grown men who lived their whole lives past their alleged crime and now have to register for a lifetime. In their case, how can anybody asses or even question that they changed if as an adult they never commited the offense they were accused of as a juvenile?
What about if an 11 year old child commits a sex offence do you seriously think he should be locked up and put on register a just think that’s crazy that some people are saying all sex offenders can’t change so you are saying children ages 11 that have committed a sexual offence shouldn’t be given a second chance absolutely bonkers to even think tht
@@raygunreagan2274 well the murderer took a persons life and they can't give that persons life back no matter what after that victims can heal and get better and move on.
@@Acidreflux0000 I know but there are children facing all the same hate the adults are the one who deserves this hate more then anyone why ruin a kids life.
I know we need programs to help these people, but I don't know how I feel about those people being free in society and in some instances there are people that are barely adults and make one stupid mistake (I'm not talking about those). I don't feel sympathy for those that truly harm others. It's especially hard when that person or persons happen to be people who are supposed to protect you, that you trust and even love. I wish those feelings were as black and white for victims, but they aren't.
I'm wondering if the woman in the video's father ever asked her for forgiveness? It sounds like there were multiple victims. I'm not sure if a person could ever forgive someone or something like that but at least that would be a start. Hopefully she received the help and treatment needed for dealing with that trauma?
That was brave to step up and go public with your story, if your input protects one child it was worth it, thank you. I just could not take a chance on an offender, I honestly would end up in a jail if anyone even looked at my children in that manner.
Um , YES THEY CAN AND DO ! Why ? Because they had the discipline to start with , and eventually they stop feeling the desire . They age out ! At least for men . For women , there are so many liers it’s hard to tell what the truth is . When asked the women NEVER give a straight answer .
I know that sex offenders can change but if i come across one who has a job and living a normal life i still won't trust them cus i really dont know if it's worked on. I agree that even the worst person can change but at the same time i wont trust them but can forgive after i'm done ranting and being angry. You can forgive and not trust a sex offender.
You don't need to trust anyone if you don't want to and yes the worst of the worst can change considering Sex offenders have a very very low re offending rate And most who say they have changed don't re offend
As long as they aren't working with vulnerable people, leave them be, the vast majority are of no threat at all. Don't need to invite them to your dinner table (also don't trust any stranger 100%)
Before the whole adoption thing my birth mother hung out with a known pedophile. It scares me to this day. I was too young to remember anything but it scares me to think something could have happened.
How old were you when you were taken off your mother? I'm glad you got out of that dangerous enviroment & hope the rest of your childhood was much happier.
The better question for that woman should be. Can her feelings towards her father ever be change? If not. Is it right for her to project her own personal fear of her father onto everyone else?
How does that woman know they have reoffended? Maybe they had but they haven’t been caught. They’re now twice as careful as they were the first time they did it.
To be fair in my opinion it depends on if they actually want to change or not for the better so they can only make their own lives better but kids around them feel better and safer as well azerbaycan live decent lives atheletes however pedophiles web severely sexually assaulted or I'm traumatized children I made them severely and refused to seek mental health or act like they did nothing wrong do not deserve a second chance in my opinion pedophiles on the other hand who have looked up c**************** is disgusting and gross but I think they still deserve a second chance
I’m not sure someone like that can really change. Even if they didn’t reoffend, the fact that they have those thoughts in the first place. That girl is incredible for speaking up like this! 🙏🏽☺️💖✨✨
You can't fault a person for thoughts, it's actions that are the problem. There are many mental illnesses where people have unwanted thoughts they can't control and don't want but are perfectly productive members of society who have never hurt anyone. I'm not condoning those kinds of thoughts that the offenders have, but I'm just pointing that out to you or anyone else that might not know.
@@bakende1103 exactly. We don't have such a thing as Thought Crime in this country thankfully, its not 1984 but still a rational person can know some of their impulses are bad and not act on them or repress them.
What about being in their shoes? Some know what they did is terribly wrong, and believe they deserve to die for it. Bad people can develop a conscience, as life is only constant change and impermanence.
if they have thoughts like those they need help they harm anybody sexually they should be locked up forever they’re useless and bring nothing for this world but make it worse
"to stop re-offending we have to give them a place in society" uh, not being funny but if you found out your best mate raped a 5 year old a few years beforehand, pretty sure you wouldn't wanna be their mate anymore?
I worry about the ones I don’t know about. That friendly neighbor who always has a job around children. But now days it’s the pretty woman that’s acting like a role model getting them trafficked. Point of the story love everyone but don’t be blind expect everything out of everyone. Look at what the person feeds off of too. Don’t trust anyone And In every situation plan a way out. And never go anywhere without someone else knowing. If you can’t tell someone else what you’re doing maybe you shouldn’t be doing it.
While I believe some sex offenders are mentally ill or can't control there sexual urges as opposed to just being evil, there actions in my opinion are beyond forgiveness weather they are pure evil or not.
We live in times, where falling in to a situation and coming out or changing oneself is very difficult! Re offending will always happen no matter the offense! This is because of the difficult era we are living in today!
you cant say they always reoffend.. you dont know that as a fact.....in an ideal world theses things wouldnt happen....whether these people change or not is different for each personn
Only 3 to 5 percent reoffend most sex offenders don't commit anymore felons, and sex offense is more than just rape or child offense but sex workers or even peeing outside
It doesnt matter who they are or what they did, everyone if deserves a second chance. We have all hurt someone at some point in our life. Its up to the indiito change but they need support if they allow it and want it. Outcasting them and shuning them only makes them feel like there is notl point to changing and thats were the problem is. Let them have room in society and prove to themselves that they can change. Some people are monsters but most its a mental illness. And like all mental illnesses it can be cured with hard work ajd dedication and support. If you dont give these people atleast a chance than your just asking for them to re offend and that makes you the monster. Not everyone has a easy life. Alot of us are sex offenders and dont realize it. Its not black and white. If you have a fetish or you look at someone and start feeling sexual or anything like that its normal but wrong at the same time. People that are attracted to kids is the same thing in their mind, its normal to them and no one knows where the thoughts emerged. But afterwards if they want to change then give them a chance to change. Stop locking the door. God believes in second chances and forgiveness why cant you, its only satans temptation. And satan has control of you to want to outcast these people. Everyone can change if allowed to. But you cant expect someone with no hands or legs to open the door and walk the hallway if you dont help them open the door first.
Yes but if you know you have an attraction to kids DONT go and get a job working in a school,go and live in caravan in the middle of nowhere,where there are no children ffs,
No dude it's not because there are people being hurt by these peoples actions we need to treat these people because if not it will cause issues Also they can't work with kids(witch is good) They should be able to live in citys Also we need to teach the public to stop sexual abuse if you see a grown man talking to a child and they are luring a kid away from the family step in and stop it if you notice a family member is acting strange around a child in the family step in and stop it
It's very hard to have any sympathy for these people. I understand that some of them might have been molested themselves which flipped some switch in their heads BUT choosing to do it knowing it's bad is what hinders my ability to feel anything but disgust. Even if we give it the mental illness treatment, still...as the saying goes: it's not your fault but it is your responsibility to seek help and deal with it.
The thing, if it’s indeed caused by trauma, then they probably don’t see much wrong with what they are doing (at least in cases involving illegal pornography). Others might just be so traumatized or sick that they don’t really care about hurting others since maybe they were / felt hurt like that, or others may *know* completely that their thoughts are harmful, but lack of mental help / therapy affordability alongside with (external factors) will probably make them snap at some point (e.g; pedophiles). We as a society have to understand that sex offenders are a diverse group with different motivations / mentalities, and that they are humans too, even if we don’t want to see them that way because they have a different thought process / conditions than the norm. In any case, even if you decide not to care for them, it’s in society’s benefit to rehabilitate them in order to avoid more offenses AND get more contributing members into society, and also to develop and research techniques and methods to treat juvenile or potential offenders in order to avoid victims in the first place.
I get where you are coming from. But this kind of avoidant attitude will only make matters worse and may increase the frequency of committed offenses. It's a touchy subject, we are still speaking about people who violated others, but if we don't have this conversation - we'd be depriving those who want to do better and have a chance of changing. And that doesn't benefit anyone.
here's a better one they should have been the better person and not repeated a act as a grown person it doesn't define what you are you are suppose to be the bigger and better person then the one who abused you especially if you are a grown adult and no better.
not all people with crimes against children are Pedophiles like as an example a lot of people who watched child porn have an addiction to porn which got out of control and lead to more taboo and sick stuff to get them off, some people sexually abuse children without a actual sexual attraction to children just so they can abuse them but if a true Pedophile abused a child and watched child porn then obviously they can’t change because they’ll always be a pedophile it’s jkt always black and white.
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NO! Why is this a topic? They deserve to experience the same pain and trauma inflicted in on their victims. Where I come from, they're beaten to death. I have no understanding nor sympathy for evil. They can all roast in peace.
If you believe in the kind of revenge you said on here, then you're no different than a rapist who believes in the same for an innocent person in terms of personality. Revenge is not justice.
It’s really not as easy as that, though. People do all sorts of things knowing it’s wrong and then feel guilty afterwards. The very dangerous ones are incapable of guilt but that’s a small minority of them. If it really was as simple as that we wouldn’t have people who do things like this.
@Niki Hamilton indeed i say that for all offenders honesty also inspire others to change and possibly bring the people who did them very dirty to light as well also heal the damage they've done if they really want redemption forgiveness and respect
It all depends on the person and the people around them. Most important thing is that when someone wants to improve then it's important to at least allow them to. Stopping them from improving just so you can look down on them just so you can make yourself feel better isn't helping anyone and you're the problem in that situation.
FRRRRRR
Facts
That’s something that no one will ever understand. Sex offenders who don’t change with no remorse need a bullet to the head. But the ones who are trying to change need a second chance. Imagine trying to better yourself with a fucked up reputation like that and no one allowing you to... that’s never gonna solve anything
This doesn’t apply to rapists. Just perverts who took sneaky pics.
facts thx for saying that
Don't hate, find forgiveness and help them recover, I'm also a victim of sex abuse, physical abuse, and mental abuse. I wanted to die, I hated everyone around me, I hated smiles, happy people, everyone was a monster to me. I read an article about someone who was killed by regular college students, who hated a transgender. That person made me see that hate it's a cycle of murder, a cycle that never ends. Forgiveness was the key to change, help those in need, and help them. I am a victim of a triple crime, 3 times the pain, 3 times I was killed, but I came back to live and make a change for those in need, I learned to forgive!!
Hi there, I'm glad that you were able to make it just fine, I hope you're in good health and making the most of it, the thing is, I always believe that people can change, regardless of how heinous they are, if their advances towards change and improvement are genuine, then there is hope in humanity, I hope you keep on living and succeeding, look out for yourself, and stay safe.
You know, we could use more people like you.
God Bless You 🙏🏽💯❤️🔥🙌🏽☝🏽
you're strong yeah I have to agree
Do you mean physical or like emotionally you died?
Of course they can change!!! It's not a matter of CAN but rather WILL. Will they change? That's entirely up to the individual.
I wish the best for everyone that went through this. Healing is possible. Take care
Young children, teenager, and even young adults 21 and under should be given chance to change and become law abiding citizens. Putting these youngsters on registry is a human violation. These people are still maturing and can become better person in future.
Agree, and the could be repeating some kind of abuse they had as children or teenagers.
I think that would be a great idea.
Thank you. A criminal charge is enough for young teens or kids .. I heard of a case where a 10 year old was out on a registry, at 12 year old he end up getting bullied and judged throughout all of society
I completely agree with that statement
Sometimes they aren’t even predators. They just made one bad decision that ruins their lives because there is no mercy 🫤
Everyone saying no, what is your solution? Death? Permanent imprisonment? If you dont think others can change for the better it's hard to imagine how you think you can improve yourself
Chemical castration and putting them on a watch list, which is something that already happens
@@jessicagallegos3497 unfortunately some of these people dont give a shit a watchlist yea I'll be real honest 5% of those on the registry and those not reported and those behind bars or anywhere will still do the same shit unfortunately
@Will Fryer 2 is this in the uk or usa
@@officerpetergriffin101 because raping a child is a different level of evil. Some mistakes shouldn’t get second chances, and if they are willing to do it once, statistically they are more likely to reoffend.
@@officerpetergriffin101 you ought to be on that watch list.
I really hope one day the people in these comments can see that grabbing their pitchforks and calling for the death or castration of people is just going to lead to more children being abused and this cycle repeating.
We need to have support for people with these thoughts to go to before they cross that line of downloading these images or committing horrific acts, otherwise they'll just be unable to control themselves and do something horrible, but you can't punish someone just for having the thoughts, especially when they have often been victims of child abuse themselves.
I think those that are guilty also needs to be properly loved and cared and rehabilitated, or else they might end up offending more. Especially if we do that to people for merely downloading CP.
@@redeemingpatriot3487 I think any meeting between the victim and the offender needs to be consensual though. Some do not want to do it, though that doesn't mean we can't rehabilitate the offender and set them free once they are cured I think.
@@SpaceOmega-zz6vs where are you from
@@SpaceOmega-zz6vs also why just go after sex criminals we go for all felons! let's be honest tax payer money needs to be instilled to rehabilitate
@@redeemingpatriot3487 I think a lot of lawmakers already goes after a lot of other felons. I think some general societies in general has a huge problem with sex offenders usually due to it's moral panic which is usually sad in my opinion...
My father was an ambulance driver he got a call where a sex offender had just been recently released. The man knew he would do it again and didn't want to, he chose to cut his genital area off.
Good
Shows you they can change
Honestly the register, the hate and them being essentially cast out of society probably makes them more dangerous. If someone is told they're pure evil by everyone and is never given a chance to change then they probably will just embrace that evil and continue their crimes. Its one of those "if everyone thinks you're a monster then you might as well be one" kind of things.
There are many who make mistakes, whether they be big or small and learn from it, feel ashamed etc. However. Some of them are genuinely evil, we all know the ones. The types that documentaries and true crime videos are made about.
Mind over matter,if they want to change, they can.
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I feel like if people truly want to change and change their life around from doing those things, then we should atleast give them a second chance to improve. Second chances are powerful and in the hands of a person who truly utilises it can bear great fruit.
most of the time its talking about the victims of the offense who were harmed and that's right and all but nobody's really thinking about the the ones who did the crime and if they can or should be given a chance to change
I really hope more to be done. The strange and evil addiction to having sex with kids is crazy. If I see signs of a man or woman I know luring to such a habit, I want to try to stop it from the root.
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I saw a documentary about this by the bbc a few years back and they talked with a non-offending pedophile as well as a neuroscientist studying pedophilia and both indicated that it is a trait developed prior to birth and develops no differently than heterosexuality or homosexuality and the scientist suggested that the primary factor in preventing them from offending is early intervention and long term treatment. This was backed up by the other mans personal experience and wish. To be able to be treated for a condition he does not want to have without being criminalized for losing the biological lottery.
The expert consensus according to that documentary seems to indicate that unless these people feel comfortable seeking help and we as a society get better at identifying it, it is more likely than not that they will go on to harm a child
Somebody pin this up. The main comments are becoming a frenzy.
xpose of em
@@OdinOfficialEmcee Society is never proactive. Just lock them up when the crime is done. No understanding. Stigma everywhere
It's a difficult discussion, but imperative. Sex offenders bring out a rage in me that nothing and no one else can, but I remind myself that such people are genuinely, mentally sick, and if we want to prevent them from hurting more ppl - and other animals - we must find ways to help them. I commend the woman in this video for trying to understand them despite her sad history. I don't think I could have met up with the "changed" man. I probably would have had an anxiety attack.
Not only that SO’s aren’t mainly about change anyway a good number of them reoffend, we shouldn’t have to waste time and money over trying to fix what’s broken beyond repair
@@jeanmichellelaurent False, the vast majority do not reoffend. The rates for reoffending is incredibly low compared to other criminals.
@@DavidSmith-oy4of we still don’t know if they can change, I’ve been manipulated by a sicko before and he pretended to change, he didn’t
@@jeanmichellelaurent I'm sorry you went through that but it doesn't mean that most don't/can't change. The data we have for reoffending rates show us that it's as low as 3% all the way up to potentially 25%, with a lot of those reoffences being technicalities, such as failing to register or breaking a rule. Very few continue to commit acts of abuse of the same nature.
@@jeanmichellelaurent 😌Says the one with a £μ¢king Patrick Bateman Profile pic!🤦🏾♂️
This is magical thinking at an alarming level. Putting the public and particularly children at risk when the rates of recidivism for sex offenders are at 34% among male offenders is immoral
An old friend once told me if god can give people a second other people should too
I've said it before...
We need mental health treatment available for those attracted to children. They need to be able receive treatment BEFORE they commit offences. We need to stop dealing with them after the fact.
We're so focused and blinded by the hatred of them, nobody wants to take that step and invest in those services because it's viewed as sympathising or showing compassion to those who we feel don't deserve anything other than a bullet.
Would you rather have a paedophile living next door and you know they're a paedophile and getting treatment or not know. Because the former is far less likely to offend.
Yes exactly, if I was educated better, I probably wouldn't have done anything
@@T-lists5 I'm not sure 'education' is the key as much as being able to access mental health care.
But it turns out there are organisations out there. You might want to give them a shout if you're still struggling.
@@Michelle_Schu-blacka I will go to prison most probably and part of the process ask for any help that I need
To all victims out there don't let what happened define you you are stronger than you think you are all lovely people you are more than what happened ❤
And to offenders take full responsibility
For what you did when you leave prison make the world a better place no more victims no more causing pain no more hurting others
And to both don't dwell on the past
Our pasts do not define us what we do to make a better tomorrow does
I think there can even be room for forgiveness if one acknowledges what they've done.
I love whoever made this comment, this is how the how the world should think, this is how we should be, I understand the hatred, I understand the mental pain. But to be better we must learn forgiveness, to be forgiven, and try our best to move on. Accept punishment, but also seek to repent and change. We shouldn't shudder hatred with more hate. To be better we must learn to shudder hatred with kindness, because only light to shine on darkness
@@theluckiesteh9058 they don't care they do it for fun and for power omg
@@Meetinmichigan who does what for fun and power
@@eddiegranberry5276 pedophilia/rape is all about power
Remorseless, emotionless predators can change...I am one...and I did. For most of my life I was driven by overpowering urges to act out and I did so without thinking twice about it. Its to long a story to tell here but in an instant I learned to feel remorse, guilt and regret for all the pain I caused. Im much better now but its still hard. I will forever fight the beast that is inside me. I want to say im so very sorry to anyone out there who has been hurt by someone like me. Please forgive me!
Hey looks heather going to whine whine whine all night
@@Meetinmichigan what?
Ask Allah for forgiveness too
@@ShreyDoshiWasTaken I asked Jesus Christ for forgiveness
@@dhpitcher good 👍😊 I'm so glad you changed I forgive you too
Ignore the haters
This makes me so sad for this young woman. She has so much courage and heart to even talk out about what she went through and what she wants to see. What an inspiring woman to take her pain and try make something positive from it. My heart gos out to her and yet I feel deeply inspired by her
not sure, all i know is they will never have my sympathy.
Me too
Peter File ohk
Don't need it 🤷🏼♂️
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Only Some of them have my sympathy, I had a look on the sex offender registry and I would say 1 in every 10 of them don't deserve to be on there.
Some can, some can't. But life has a way of repeating itself... Could be one opportunity away from making a big mistake again...
@Meth Smoking Neanderthal #TrailerPark That what I was just thinking,not what I would call a mistake.a mistake is putting a red sock in with ur white t-shirt.
So what your thought on this ?
Sex offender
Yes relapses is possible but with the right help and watching over them I doubt it
Everyone can change, it’s about not whether they can but whether they *WILL.* Those that continue with their thoughts and actions in that nature are just not willing to change and don’t want to. They need to want to in order to change.
I was once asked if i ever hated anyone, i said yes...him... if a purge was an event, hed be my first, n if i had the ability to bring him back to life, i would, and kill him again, hypothetically of course. Id never act on it, just a dream
I was 7 through 10. He was 31
Is this just the teaser? Because it seems like a super-short video for such a complex topic.
You can watch it on BBC iplayer for free, it's called "can sex offenders change?"
I don't care how well rehabilited the person is. They should not be around children. Just to be extra safe.
I feel sorry because they can't change their sexual orientation, I'm not defending them I am merely feeling sorry
They can. I've never dealt with it ever again and I feel blessed and thankful. Of course I can never forget something so traumatic, but it makes me happy to know that things have changed for the better.
Yes. I believe they can.
Bollocks, weve all been through bad times and manage to not abuse people underage...
@@безлюдныеокна Whats suicide got to do with it? Let me put it another way, There is no experience that happens to you that justifies abuse of a minor. NONE.
Ann Ex sex offender told me that they will always offended sooner or later and that is very scary. He also told me that it's not those that have been caught people should worry about, but those that haven't been caught are the ones to worry about.
Sex offenders have some of the lowest reoffending rates of any criminal.
@@redtob2119 not true lmao rapist don't even go to prison they will molest every single persons they see
@@Meetinmichigan I do wonder why you decided to just say something so blatantly wrong? Like what motivated you to say a straight up lie which you know isn’t accurate? I’m curious. As a general rule most rapists do go to prison if convicted however they definitely should be sentenced for far longer then they currently are. Either way that doesn’t change the fact that sex offenders still have the lowest rates of reoffending something that you can find yourself from a single google search.
@@redtob2119 🤧😢sorry
rapists get raped in prison + they will never change + you have more empathy for them than for victims of sexual abuse + ratio + deeznuts + your mom + nobody cares + ligma + L you + W me
@@Meetinmichigan *rapes you*
How can we expect change if the very sexual content is still all over the media and is glorified and makes billions
What sexual content are you refering too? If you are talking about people who share child abuse images, or who openly sexualize children in social media, then I agree. I don't think mainstream media sexualized children, although the focus on them "turning legal" is something I want eradicated.
and porn needs to be harder to access.
@@NotAnotherKuromi see this is the issue with putting 'sex offenders' in the same category. the title says 'sex offenders', that includes many sex offenses that have nothing to do with kids.
if you don't give them a chance to change then they could end up committing suicide everyone deserves a chance to change
Sadly people just believe in the bad, cause that’s the only interest they want to believe.
When it comes to the sex offenders, most of them i see as humans as make mistakes or poor decisions in life. And they deserve a second chance. They may have done something monsterous in their past but that doesn't make them a monster. But i can't say the same for some of them. A dad who sexually abuses his 12 year old daughter for YEARS will never change and they deserve to be locked up for life. I advise people take a long hard look at what the individual is actually on the registry for and take into account the age they commited their offence.
Your comment contradicts itself, First you say they did som monstrous and deserve a Second chance then you mention something else monstrous and say they don't deserve it, Even the dad who did something monstrous can change by the power of God just like any other wicked Sexual addiction, It's all sick, and can be healed by God, Some may be worse than others, But that sick dad, Needs Help and Prayer too, Even as sick as messing with your 12 yr old daughter is, God can even forgive that if he truly Repented ☝🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽💯
Why is sex offense something so terrible that it is beyond forgiveness? People forgive and understand every other criminal offense and mental illness, why not sex offense? Certain disorders like BPD and APD cause serious irrational and illogical behaviors such as unhealthy sexual habits. If sex offenders get therapy and counseling why not give them a second chance? Im not talking about repeat offenders.
Because they have ruined the life of a person,, they can rot in prison
@@Meetinmichigan so do murderers and thieves and all sorts of other criminals yet where is the same hate? I don't think you understood the question
@kennybastet5442 ruined is a strong word.
Healing is always possible, and some offences are more traumatic than others.
@@jonmarsh7914 Disorders such as BPD or ASPD (I’m guessing you meant aspd not apd) are personality disorders not actions & do not inherently mean someone will hurt others or commit crimes. A sexual offense is an action which IS inherently wrong and hurts other people/society. People don’t chose to have a mental illness but you do CHOOSE TO COMMIT A SEXUAL OFFENSE.
@@CalebBradshaw-x2cHealing is possible however it’s not realistic to believe everyone will reach that point (most won’t) hence the word “ruined”
People around him should have helped him and tell him its not right. Some people do not know right from wrong at the time and make dumb decisions.
He knew it wasn’t right but he still did it anyway. Please
!!There are Cases Of grown men being charged for sex crimes they committed as juveniles, meaning they werent prosecuted until years later and somehow the statute of limitations wasnt run. These were grown men who lived their whole lives past their alleged crime and now have to register for a lifetime. In their case, how can anybody asses or even question that they changed if as an adult they never commited the offense they were accused of as a juvenile?
What about if an 11 year old child commits a sex offence do you seriously think he should be locked up and put on register a just think that’s crazy that some people are saying all sex offenders can’t change so you are saying children ages 11 that have committed a sexual offence shouldn’t be given a second chance absolutely bonkers to even think tht
Anyone can change but society is very rough on people. Our Lord told us to forgive as you were forgiven.
Even murderer can change. What is so special about sexual crime?
Because you’re sexually violating someone against there will and they have to live with that for the rest of their life’s
@@raygunreagan2274 well the murderer took a persons life and they can't give that persons life back no matter what after that victims can heal and get better and move on.
I hope you can still think of r*pe as not that bad if a burly man prolapsed your anus unconsensually
@@eddiegranberry5276 but don’t get better though. Some learn to cope but it stays with them.
@@Acidreflux0000 I know but there are children facing all the same hate the adults are the one who deserves this hate more then anyone why ruin a kids life.
Wrongful convictions happen so idk who's sex offender
I know we need programs to help these people, but I don't know how I feel about those people being free in society and in some instances there are people that are barely adults and make one stupid mistake (I'm not talking about those). I don't feel sympathy for those that truly harm others. It's especially hard when that person or persons happen to be people who are supposed to protect you, that you trust and even love. I wish those feelings were as black and white for victims, but they aren't.
I'm wondering if the woman in the video's father ever asked her for forgiveness? It sounds like there were multiple victims. I'm not sure if a person could ever forgive someone or something like that but at least that would be a start. Hopefully she received the help and treatment needed for dealing with that trauma?
Wrongful convictions happen all the time
That was brave to step up and go public with your story, if your input protects one child it was worth it, thank you. I just could not take a chance on an offender, I honestly would end up in a jail if anyone even looked at my children in that manner.
I have commited lots of sex crimes
There is no cure for evil
Most definitely
Um , YES THEY CAN AND DO !
Why ? Because they had the discipline to start with , and eventually they stop feeling the desire . They age out ! At least for men . For women , there are so many liers it’s hard to tell what the truth is .
When asked the women NEVER give a straight answer .
They have some work. Butt for the ones caught up in the system are shit out of luck.
They can change but we cannot forgive them for their actions. But if they don't change that's a dangerous problem
I know that sex offenders can change but if i come across one who has a job and living a normal life i still won't trust them cus i really dont know if it's worked on. I agree that even the worst person can change but at the same time i wont trust them but can forgive after i'm done ranting and being angry. You can forgive and not trust a sex offender.
you are wise
You don't need to trust anyone if you don't want to and yes the worst of the worst can change considering
Sex offenders have a very very low re offending rate
And most who say they have changed don't re offend
As long as they aren't working with vulnerable people, leave them be, the vast majority are of no threat at all.
Don't need to invite them to your dinner table (also don't trust any stranger 100%)
That pretty much goes for anyone, not just sex offenders.
OK now do the 1million + little girls who got pimped out by guests ......
Before the whole adoption thing my birth mother hung out with a known pedophile. It scares me to this day. I was too young to remember anything but it scares me to think something could have happened.
How old were you when you were taken off your mother? I'm glad you got out of that dangerous enviroment & hope the rest of your childhood was much happier.
Anyone who sexually abuses man, woman and child should never see the light of day
The better question for that woman should be. Can her feelings towards her father ever be change? If not. Is it right for her to project her own personal fear of her father onto everyone else?
That woman is brave, but I don't know.
How does that woman know they have reoffended? Maybe they had but they haven’t been caught. They’re now twice as careful as they were the first time they did it.
Yes they can
No they can't lmao
The only way possible for true change involves repentance and surrender to Jesus!
I think people hardly change when they reached age 25.
With man it is Impossible but with God All things are Possible ☝🏽🙌🏽❤️🔥🙏🏽💯
Absolutely yes
To be fair in my opinion it depends on if they actually want to change or not for the better so they can only make their own lives better but kids around them feel better and safer as well azerbaycan live decent lives atheletes however pedophiles web severely sexually assaulted or I'm traumatized children I made them severely and refused to seek mental health or act like they did nothing wrong do not deserve a second chance in my opinion pedophiles on the other hand who have looked up c**************** is disgusting and gross but I think they still deserve a second chance
Ok After seeing this I’m Going to change My Life I regret the Things I do😢
Simple answer: Nope
“No.”
end of the video.
"Yes"
end of the video.
Maikeru ASMR no.
Yeah can others
NO THEY CANT CHANGE!! There monsters that don’t deserve to breath the air around them!!
YES
AMEN
@john c what yes they can change or yes you agree?
@@sharongirlpower8104 yes I agree
I feel like some can change, but some of them are a lost cause
Those who asked this question, still has a long way to go with learning about society. Please keep learning.
It's an important question though.
You need to keep learning as well. You don't know enough.
I’m not sure someone like that can really change. Even if they didn’t reoffend, the fact that they have those thoughts in the first place. That girl is incredible for speaking up like this! 🙏🏽☺️💖✨✨
You can't fault a person for thoughts, it's actions that are the problem. There are many mental illnesses where people have unwanted thoughts they can't control and don't want but are perfectly productive members of society who have never hurt anyone. I'm not condoning those kinds of thoughts that the offenders have, but I'm just pointing that out to you or anyone else that might not know.
@@bakende1103 exactly. We don't have such a thing as Thought Crime in this country thankfully, its not 1984 but still a rational person can know some of their impulses are bad and not act on them or repress them.
What about being in their shoes? Some know what they did is terribly wrong, and believe they deserve to die for it. Bad people can develop a conscience, as life is only constant change and impermanence.
if they have thoughts like those they need help they harm anybody sexually they should be locked up forever they’re useless and bring nothing for this world but make it worse
@@brandonbrown198 i’m glad they think they should die because they should!
"to stop re-offending we have to give them a place in society" uh, not being funny but if you found out your best mate raped a 5 year old a few years beforehand, pretty sure you wouldn't wanna be their mate anymore?
I worry about the ones I don’t know about. That friendly neighbor who always has a job around children. But now days it’s the pretty woman that’s acting like a role model getting them trafficked. Point of the story love everyone but don’t be blind expect everything out of everyone. Look at what the person feeds off of too. Don’t trust anyone And In every situation plan a way out. And never go anywhere without someone else knowing. If you can’t tell someone else what you’re doing maybe you shouldn’t be doing it.
Can they change ?
While I believe some sex offenders are mentally ill or can't control there sexual urges as opposed to just being evil, there actions in my opinion are beyond forgiveness weather they are pure evil or not.
We live in times, where falling in to a situation and coming out or changing oneself is very difficult!
Re offending will always happen no matter the offense! This is because of the difficult era we are living in today!
Nope they won’t, because they always reoffend
you cant say they always reoffend.. you dont know that as a fact.....in an ideal world theses things wouldnt happen....whether these people change or not is different for each personn
What should I trust, an irrational claim like yours? Or the evidence that seems to suggest the opposite?
Actually no. Only about 3% reoffend
Only 3 to 5 percent reoffend most sex offenders don't commit anymore felons, and sex offense is more than just rape or child offense but sex workers or even peeing outside
@Dreaming European A price worth paying I say.
It doesnt matter who they are or what they did, everyone if deserves a second chance. We have all hurt someone at some point in our life. Its up to the indiito change but they need support if they allow it and want it. Outcasting them and shuning them only makes them feel like there is notl point to changing and thats were the problem is. Let them have room in society and prove to themselves that they can change. Some people are monsters but most its a mental illness. And like all mental illnesses it can be cured with hard work ajd dedication and support. If you dont give these people atleast a chance than your just asking for them to re offend and that makes you the monster. Not everyone has a easy life. Alot of us are sex offenders and dont realize it. Its not black and white. If you have a fetish or you look at someone and start feeling sexual or anything like that its normal but wrong at the same time. People that are attracted to kids is the same thing in their mind, its normal to them and no one knows where the thoughts emerged. But afterwards if they want to change then give them a chance to change. Stop locking the door. God believes in second chances and forgiveness why cant you, its only satans temptation. And satan has control of you to want to outcast these people. Everyone can change if allowed to. But you cant expect someone with no hands or legs to open the door and walk the hallway if you dont help them open the door first.
They are "born that way." Who are we to judge, right?
Yes but if you know you have an attraction to kids DONT go and get a job working in a school,go and live in caravan in the middle of nowhere,where there are no children ffs,
No dude it's not because there are people being hurt by these peoples actions we need to treat these people because if not it will cause issues
Also they can't work with kids(witch is good)
They should be able to live in citys
Also we need to teach the public to stop sexual abuse if you see a grown man talking to a child and they are luring a kid away from the family step in and stop it if you notice a family member is acting strange around a child in the family step in and stop it
God / Jesus can change lives
It's very hard to have any sympathy for these people. I understand that some of them might have been molested themselves which flipped some switch in their heads BUT choosing to do it knowing it's bad is what hinders my ability to feel anything but disgust. Even if we give it the mental illness treatment, still...as the saying goes: it's not your fault but it is your responsibility to seek help and deal with it.
The thing, if it’s indeed caused by trauma, then they probably don’t see much wrong with what they are doing (at least in cases involving illegal pornography).
Others might just be so traumatized or sick that they don’t really care about hurting others since maybe they were / felt hurt like that, or others may *know* completely that their thoughts are harmful, but lack of mental help / therapy affordability alongside with (external factors) will probably make them snap at some point (e.g; pedophiles). We as a society have to understand that sex offenders are a diverse group with different motivations / mentalities, and that they are humans too, even if we don’t want to see them that way because they have a different thought process / conditions than the norm.
In any case, even if you decide not to care for them, it’s in society’s benefit to rehabilitate them in order to avoid more offenses AND get more contributing members into society, and also to develop and research techniques and methods to treat juvenile or potential offenders in order to avoid victims in the first place.
I get where you are coming from. But this kind of avoidant attitude will only make matters worse and may increase the frequency of committed offenses.
It's a touchy subject, we are still speaking about people who violated others, but if we don't have this conversation - we'd be depriving those who want to do better and have a chance of changing. And that doesn't benefit anyone.
here's a better one they should have been the better person and not repeated a act as a grown person it doesn't define what you are you are suppose to be the bigger and better person then the one who abused you especially if you are a grown adult and no better.
Wow she is a very beautiful white girl with a nice foreign accent. Hopefully she has got some counseling and a support group
Irrelevant. They should be put in a dustbin and welded shut then given to the family of the victim to do as they please with
No period 💯
no because some things are a line that once you cross, thats it. you can never go back. that is definitely one of those things.
@Will Fryer 2 k
do you feel the same way about murderers? are they irredeemable?
Depends on if the person is a pedophile and the circumstances imo.
@@King09-v4o what is the point of your question. SA is irredeemable no matter what
@@King09-v4o no duh. but that doesn’t mean i could ever be redeemed. i’d carry that status with me forever
so what’s the point of your question
He did it to you because it was done to him.
So she will do it to her children because he did it to her? This doesn't make any sense, he did it because he is a sick person
Love love love to you all 🌸
They will always be attracted to kids so no
Sex offenders can target adults too.
not all people with crimes against children are Pedophiles like as an example a lot of people who watched child porn have an addiction to porn which got out of control and lead to more taboo and sick stuff to get them off, some people sexually abuse children without a actual sexual attraction to children just so they can abuse them but if a true Pedophile abused a child and watched child porn then obviously they can’t change because they’ll always be a pedophile it’s jkt always black and white.
Dumb logic
Short answer: No
I had to look it up, and it turns out that most don't reoffend once released.
@Brown Incel incel moment
@Brown Incel goofy
Simple answer! No.
I dont know if they can change but I believe we should not give them the benefit of the doubt. Just in case they offend again.
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I'm Muslim but I respect everyone's beliefs. Thank you and may God bless you too ♡♡
You too
@@caovuonglam please come to Jesus Christ as there is no way to he father but through the son. Love you in Jesus's name, Amen.
listen i respect your religion but i don’t really think that’s how the world works
@@cloverbird5785 don’t force your religion on people
NO! Why is this a topic? They deserve to experience the same pain and trauma inflicted in on their victims. Where I come from, they're beaten to death. I have no understanding nor sympathy for evil. They can all roast in peace.
Beaten to death? You from a third-world country?
@@樂樂樂-l5m No!
Divinity's Child how can people be beaten to death....
If you believe in the kind of revenge you said on here, then you're no different than a rapist who believes in the same for an innocent person in terms of personality. Revenge is not justice.
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no they can’t if they felt bad they wouldn’t have done it easy as that
It’s really not as easy as that, though. People do all sorts of things knowing it’s wrong and then feel guilty afterwards. The very dangerous ones are incapable of guilt but that’s a small minority of them. If it really was as simple as that we wouldn’t have people who do things like this.
All this been happening because the bible of king james
They will never change.
Yes they will
@@Tuggytheseal no they won’t
@@Tuggytheseal dickriding sex offender ? Or maybe you are one ?
In my opinion people who judge other people they have they own issue...
(not sex offence of course but any other issue)
I try to have compassion for everyone, but I'm not sure if these sort of people deserve any compassion after they do something so evil.
good point the same could be said about murderers or gang bangers
What if they were very young themselves?
@ RedeemingPatriots gang bangers can actually change, pedophiles can’t.
@@galacticspike2842 What makes people say that? I ain't a pedophile and would never want to be one, but how are you so sure?
thank you
Hard
Poop
Spoilers: no
Child abusers cannot change. They are what they are.
Spoken like someone who knows all about them, personal experience ??
@@devilinthedarkness4830 well i knew a pedophile (family member) but i ain’t one i still know how works easier based on knowing him.
Mind over matter.They can if they want to.
yeah but they dont deserve forgiveness
they got to earn it though
None of Us Deserve Forgiveness for Our Sins, But God...
@@redeemingpatriot3487 obviously
@Niki Hamilton indeed i say that for all offenders honesty also inspire others to change and possibly bring the people who did them very dirty to light as well also heal the damage they've done if they really want redemption forgiveness and respect