State of Sex Offenders | Our America with Lisa Ling | Full Episode | OWN

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  • @ThatBlasianChick
    @ThatBlasianChick 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3305

    imagine hurting children & thinking you deserve a nice place to live .

    • @kellyv.923
      @kellyv.923 3 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      Even a serial killer wants sympathy/empathy when it’s their turn to experience pain.

    • @kellyv.923
      @kellyv.923 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Xon Xon right.

    • @cdwalter
      @cdwalter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      The psychology of the abuser is that they do not see themselves as an abuser.

    • @temposhop8739
      @temposhop8739 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@cdwalter people like that have no internal sense of ethics or moral code. They can excuse any actions of their own against others, but not those of others even when they were provoked.

    • @JMac-27
      @JMac-27 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Or a pat on the back, sicks Fu*ks!!!!!

  • @beanmom0075
    @beanmom0075 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4554

    I haven't heard any of these guys say they feel empathy for their victims. Or admit they hurt them and ruined their lives. All of their focus is on them and how they feel

    • @Trinity2130
      @Trinity2130 3 ปีที่แล้ว +310

      I'm convinced you have to be some type of Sociopath to hurt children.

    • @yamisomad3486
      @yamisomad3486 3 ปีที่แล้ว +173

      Of course. They are heartless monsters.

    • @sela2992
      @sela2992 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      Omg I was thinking the same thing ! This is ridiculous,

    • @KingNoah85
      @KingNoah85 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@Trinity2130 yes you do!!!!!

    • @pinkpugginz
      @pinkpugginz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      exactly

  • @bgurley1998
    @bgurley1998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5476

    Children affected by this type of violence usually face a lifetime of trauma. These offenders need to remain in jail. Children deserve to be protected

    • @blondie9422
      @blondie9422 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      Most offenders themselves were touched as kids, it’s a horrible viscous cycle. I think they should be humanely chemically castrated.

    • @ShayonceEpperson90
      @ShayonceEpperson90 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Yess they sure do ..

    • @StevenMichaelCunningham
      @StevenMichaelCunningham 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Violence is violence. Go VEGAN & call it what you wish.

    • @pinkysplawn7453
      @pinkysplawn7453 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      bee~Agree🙏 I was that kid ...now 35....pain never goes away...he only got 16 n then been out for years n years

    • @StevenMichaelCunningham
      @StevenMichaelCunningham 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@pinkysplawn7453 I am a survivor too. All pain heals it is just a matter of sobriety. Referred to as Vegan nowadays. They chose what they chose & are weak due to it as all are THEIR responsibility. 🏋️🧘🤸

  • @bones6169
    @bones6169 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +607

    Watching that offender give the baby a bath made my skin crawl. My stepdad was my abuser and I full heartedly believe that they DO NOT change.

    • @taliabraver
      @taliabraver 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why are these monsters allowed to live?

    • @giiiddyup
      @giiiddyup 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      No they do not

    • @IEatWhiteTwinks
      @IEatWhiteTwinks 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Exactly

    • @PneumaNoose
      @PneumaNoose 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Also, that’s his biological child. Of course he will bathe his own baby. This guy is exactly the type of offender who ends up NOT reoffending. When you have someone who freely admits his crime, does everything required to be in compliance, and accepts ACCOUNTABILITY for he has done… THAT is a person who is ready and capable of change. I’ve worked with THOUSANDS of prisoners, and he is doing everything right. Your opinion that he cannot change has nothing to do with him and everything to do with your own pain. I wish you health and healing.

    • @benfarr409
      @benfarr409 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      They don’t

  • @melh8179
    @melh8179 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5649

    The only people I feel sorry for through all of this, Are the KIDS.

    • @itznoelle9563
      @itznoelle9563 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      @Xon Xon this is about people who sexually assaulted kids not adults.

    • @MrJess-el8ku
      @MrJess-el8ku 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Indeed they are the only true victims!

    • @itznoelle9563
      @itznoelle9563 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @Xon Xon are you dumb please tell me?! I never said that this is just for people who sexually assaulted kids moron.

    • @zzgordoxzzgaming4718
      @zzgordoxzzgaming4718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      once a kid been victimized, these predators mentality messed up the kids head and may ended up becoming like the predators themselves, it is why it's important to protect the children because they don't have consent nor know what's right and wrong when being victimized

    • @TMANN-jo1ps
      @TMANN-jo1ps 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Mel H did you graduate from high school back in 2006?

  • @empresslika
    @empresslika 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4091

    The fact that Christina rubbed Steve’s back as if he’s the victim after he told what he did is just sick. Prayers for those girls and their mother because I know it hurts her to know she brought that predator into her home.

    • @pinkpugginz
      @pinkpugginz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      yep her kids have all been abused I bet almost instantly

    • @MarshasJourney
      @MarshasJourney 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      Smh. I can't believe someone can be that stupid

    • @retrochickt7947
      @retrochickt7947 3 ปีที่แล้ว +285

      My thought exactly. He's not the victim at all!!

    • @elanlloyd1224
      @elanlloyd1224 3 ปีที่แล้ว +167

      sickening

    • @alexlewis8143
      @alexlewis8143 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      I feel like she wants him to not shut down and stop talking.

  • @whyisntefavailable
    @whyisntefavailable 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1826

    Lisa Ling can get ANYONE to talk. She's so warm, kind, and engaging.

    • @liesdamnliesandstatsweird1934
      @liesdamnliesandstatsweird1934 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      + Susan Cabins Lisa Ling is GENUINE.👩🏾🙌🏾👏🏾

    • @lisebroder6325
      @lisebroder6325 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      I had absolutely no sympathy for these creatures they have any idea what they done to the survivors that now have to live with the trauma of being sexually abused creatures and they're complaining they're lucky they're alive anybody did that to my child I would like nothing better than to kill them I know I wouldn't really kill them my child needs me but the feelings of wanting to kill them and the anger and every human emotion possible. Thank you again Riesling for doing another incredible in-depth human story. And you can't believe anything they say when it comes to their sickness around children just because they're paroled or whatever they don't change they just don't want to get caught again I don't hear as of yet any remorse for me creatures

    • @jesscolliflower5531
      @jesscolliflower5531 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      7:30 in I was like randy look like uncle no no.. 8:00 mark ,,, told ya !!!

    • @marcogarza3720
      @marcogarza3720 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Its can she fine 🙂

    • @MsIcollins
      @MsIcollins 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      She has the gift all gifts come with a price bigger the gift bigger the price

  • @rebeccar7578
    @rebeccar7578 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +504

    1. You cannot have ‘consensual’ sx with a minor 2. He’s not being ‘labeled as a SO, he IS one!

    • @hardcorenativextreme
      @hardcorenativextreme 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I spoke to a female who lost her virginity at 14 to someone who was 22. She got mad when I said it was statutory grape because she wasn't grape she consented to it. It is not just the perpetrators, sometimes it is the victims who can't comprehend that they are victims because they volunteered.

    • @kitno6415
      @kitno6415 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      @@hardcorenativextreme it doesnt matter what she says. 14 yo can not consent

    • @hardcorenativextreme
      @hardcorenativextreme 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@kitno6415 exactly, I kept telling her it is considered statutory under the law but she wouldn't listen.

    • @johnnycage3881
      @johnnycage3881 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      For the 1st point, neither could teens under 18 "consent" to sx with each other but Americans in their i...di...io..cy, hypocrisy, and evil allow it.

    • @KevinSim-mp1cl
      @KevinSim-mp1cl หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@hardcorenativextremeYou are a low class, uneducated, ignorant chomp. The videos you post of your “niece,” is super suspicious. And that stupid cholo stance in your pic is so cringey

  • @lorenajanet7645
    @lorenajanet7645 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1473

    Oh wow there’s a lot of Christina’s out here and that’s why our babies are being harmed by these animals. Zero sympathy for offenders.

    • @sela2992
      @sela2992 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      You are absolutely right !!

    • @Shayne_T
      @Shayne_T 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Agreed. ZERO

    • @neteruhathor
      @neteruhathor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      She was such a sad excuse for a mom! I do feel that she obviously has self esteem and self worth issues, but to put your child in danger with a man, who has basically stated that there is no other reason to do it except opportunity, is negligent!

    • @katerineella274
      @katerineella274 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      These mothers are often of subnormal intelligence, drug or alcohol addicts. I'm not excusing them but they are not "the reason" why children are abused. The reason, the responsibility lies with the abuser. They want to be powerful and choose the most vulnerable to act out their sexual desires. The mothers of these children are often victims themselves. A sad, sick situation.

    • @timbawangu3038
      @timbawangu3038 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      She's broken too, Christina. She's thinking about herself and how he makes her feel, not the child

  • @shelbs6910
    @shelbs6910 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1798

    As far as Christina goes.. all I have to say is: every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child. They deserve way better than a mother who is risking their safety for a man! Shame on her!!!!!

    • @melodeelewis462
      @melodeelewis462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Some parents need mandatory sterilization to prevent them from having children to harm or kill

    • @Aog0613
      @Aog0613 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      Right. She is not a mother. How can she even look at him without disgust

    • @evelynhernandez-st6xh
      @evelynhernandez-st6xh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Period!!

    • @sandraschaffer5891
      @sandraschaffer5891 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      You got that right. She is desperate and she'll take any kind of man. I wouldn't be able to look in the mirror and have respect for myself if I let a man like that into my life.

    • @gregdahlen4375
      @gregdahlen4375 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      well he did his time

  • @koolkidangel18
    @koolkidangel18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +776

    Christina needs therapy for her low self esteem and trauma because theres no way I'm dating a child molester and I have small children. That's pure desperation. That dude was sober the entire year and it would have been longer if the family didn't find out

    • @CrackberryMe
      @CrackberryMe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Facts

    • @ceciliamorales5302
      @ceciliamorales5302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Omg yes she needs therapy .

    • @thetruepatriot7733
      @thetruepatriot7733 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      She has no right! Its not her life, She has no right to gamble with someone else's life. She has no right to risk her child.

    • @eosohand
      @eosohand 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@ceciliamorales5302 The way he keeps kissing his son

    • @TeaCup1940
      @TeaCup1940 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@juliehayden123 At least you try to show her. You did a good thing. But up to her if she does not want to listen.

  • @EyeofSekhmet
    @EyeofSekhmet 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +406

    Did anyone call Child Protective Services on the mother allowing her 2 daughters around a known abuser of young girls?! How dare they film this and NOT report them.

    • @pkc68
      @pkc68 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

      They worry about people like this but our veterans are homeless?

    • @christinamenhennett
      @christinamenhennett 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      ​@@pkc68that's the really sad thing. No veteran should ever be homeless!! They put their lives on the line for us, and then they're left homeless.

    • @tammypatton4182
      @tammypatton4182 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Unless there is a condition of their conviction to be restricted from ever living with minor children, he can live with them as long as the children aren't making statements of abuse or other corroborating evidence to suggest abuse

    • @its_mallloryyy
      @its_mallloryyy 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      id like to see what ended up happening... this was filmed in 2011

    • @princesssarah1213
      @princesssarah1213 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      37:24 ❤❤

  • @lalalulu17
    @lalalulu17 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1995

    Christina, even if you killed him if he touched your daughter, there's no erasing the damage that has been done to her. The responsible thing to do is to keep Steve away from your life. Its so infuriating how idiotic she was

    • @StevenMichaelCunningham
      @StevenMichaelCunningham 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Killing or molestation of any sort is perverse, corrupt, criminal...be there law or no law.

    • @sarah.j.777
      @sarah.j.777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@StevenMichaelCunningham welp, we know you're a perv

    • @StevenMichaelCunningham
      @StevenMichaelCunningham 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@sarah.j.777 now get s attorney, psychiatrist & social worker. I am a survivor. Next.

    • @StevenMichaelCunningham
      @StevenMichaelCunningham 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      As for those of you insulting each of these people including my SELF it was YOU I made the report concerning & such. Christina...& all as such. Either get help...or wish you did.

    • @beedee778
      @beedee778 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      @Lala Lulu... Way too many needy females think that ANY "pair of pants" is better than none! Smdh..

  • @josi4251
    @josi4251 3 ปีที่แล้ว +651

    Lisa Ling is a national treasure. I know she may take some heat when covering this topic, but her reporting shines. She's not glorifying or excusing them, just shining a light on what their lives are like.

    • @stephaniebailey7923
      @stephaniebailey7923 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      RAY LAMONICA/GOVERNMENT OFFICIALS are a BUNCH of SNAKES in BED with the WORST CRIMINALS on earth. I am TARGET everywhere I go because of these officials FALSE DOCUMENTS/WITNESSES ACCUSSATIONS. People are PAID by these officials with INCENTIVES (get out of jail free cards)

  • @damien1781
    @damien1781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1060

    I was a victim of a child molester and my biggest regret is never turning him in. Ruined a lot of my life

    • @harikari973
      @harikari973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      I’m sorry this happened but, Don’t feel bad telling doesn’t always lead anything . I told and nothing happened at all life went on as normal. Made me feel like a throw away child

    • @stellamary204
      @stellamary204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      So sorry to hear that. I hope you were able to get some kind of help and your life is getting better❤

    • @deborahanderson5681
      @deborahanderson5681 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Yeah I met a monster when I was 6 … I can relate to what your saying

    • @pinkpugginz
      @pinkpugginz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      you can still tell your story and put them on blast online. it's never too late to report. at least get it on the record. even if nothing is done

    • @tattooboo306
      @tattooboo306 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ditto

  • @katiez688
    @katiez688 ปีที่แล้ว +1228

    That Christina is not “giving him a chance”, she is FORCING her innocent 2 year old child to give him a chance.

    • @queenjanee6290
      @queenjanee6290 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      I couldn’t have worded it better

    • @brendaford5542
      @brendaford5542 ปีที่แล้ว

      Any parent having a child molester living in their home with children should be in prison also.

    • @Promise2018
      @Promise2018 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

      She is not a mother. That is so sick

    • @dollfactory
      @dollfactory 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      It's scary

    • @lisadann6736
      @lisadann6736 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      Some chances are not worth the risk those poor poor children

  • @boopiedoopie2223
    @boopiedoopie2223 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1774

    I stopped from the moment Ryan’s dad said "they’re trying to destroy my son’s life" while his son destroyed more than 1 kid’s life….. :)))

    • @oaklandmade007
      @oaklandmade007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      @@flippyflip10 man, I wouldn't want him near my babies if they were swimming in a 3 piece suit💯 his dad is an enabler, just making excuses for a monster 👹

    • @MsTishalish
      @MsTishalish 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      He is a product of his parenting.

    • @cheriray5818
      @cheriray5818 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What a beautiful little kitten

    • @marilyn3605
      @marilyn3605 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      He probably was molested himself,i wouldn’t want him near a kid either 😡

    • @NeganJeff
      @NeganJeff 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Every criminal also. Gang members, drug dealers, burglars, car jackers etc. I was sexually assaulted by a burglar when I was preschool age. Why aren't burglar's required to register!?

  • @merry-lynnallison3002
    @merry-lynnallison3002 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1668

    Being a victim of sexual assault at the age of 8 years of age I still deal with the trauma every single day. I'm 62 years of age and I am still traumatised. Sexual offenders should be charged with murder because they basically kill their victims. Once a child is sexually assaulted their life is over. Keep them all in jail.

    • @mr_imperfectiongamingchann1962
      @mr_imperfectiongamingchann1962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      As much as I agree with this. However we are not god.

    • @cosmicreef5858
      @cosmicreef5858 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Not over fortunately. You can get over it, rebuild your life(just what i am doing).
      But this is definitely does not take away from the fact that sexual abuse is even worse than murder.
      I am 29 years old and was molested by my own half brother when i was 7 and my older cousin when i was 8.
      Top it all of with my father's amotional abuse.
      Fortunately i live my life mostly happily and my recovery is not over. :)
      You will get over it, you are strong, you deserve to be happy.
      Unfortunately a lot of people are not this lucky and ending up taking their own lives because they can not take the pain anymore which is around even after many years.
      I just hope that these parasites(offenders) will finally get what they deserve and spend the rest of their time behind bars.
      They should never be let out.

    • @cosmicreef5858
      @cosmicreef5858 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      @@mr_imperfectiongamingchann1962 You do not need to be a god to do your job and protect the innocent

    • @mr_imperfectiongamingchann1962
      @mr_imperfectiongamingchann1962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@cosmicreef5858 Define the innocent? As I see it guilt runs the world.

    • @grammichal6759
      @grammichal6759 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@cosmicreef5858 I think the reference to God is society executing offenders/charging them with murder.

  • @CarlyGayJepsen
    @CarlyGayJepsen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1368

    “Not all of us are bad”
    That’s a lot of nerve for someone who reoffended....

    • @zanek532
      @zanek532 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Well it's true not all offenders are bad! The registry doesn't really protect anyone.

    • @benedictatshibi2266
      @benedictatshibi2266 3 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      The fact that he offender in the first place is bad enough

    • @zanek532
      @zanek532 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@benedictatshibi2266 no it's not lol, he could've taken a piss outside or something non-violent, the reason the registry exists right now is to make the public feel safer when I'm reality it doesn't! Also you pay tax money on it just to keep it up when it still doesn't protect you, it makes it worse for you! 😉

    • @itznoelle9563
      @itznoelle9563 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@zanek532 these are only for people who sexually assaulted kids.

    • @brookealyssa5079
      @brookealyssa5079 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@itznoelle9563 if u piss near a school (can’t recall exact number of ft) within so many ft u can b put on the offender list- doesn’t happen often but legally it exits

  • @jjoh158
    @jjoh158 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +109

    Christina needs therapy. A man admits he abused children completely sober and she thinks her child is safe.

    • @Western_ENT
      @Western_ENT 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Sober or not is totally irrelevant! It's a NO, period!

    • @SSathe-dd9lo
      @SSathe-dd9lo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I would like to know what happened since this was released over a decade ago. I hope everyone is OK and that these children were not abused.

    • @SSathe-dd9lo
      @SSathe-dd9lo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That should have said, I hope that these partners of these offenders have left them, and these children were never abused by these offenders.

  • @rosesarered2285
    @rosesarered2285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1786

    The girlfriend just being able to sit and listen when he tells his story is very disturbing...almost on the same level as the offender

  • @KatetheGreat3689
    @KatetheGreat3689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +936

    He said it himself! The only way to 100000% make sure they don’t reoffend is by *never* letting them out. These sentences are wayyyy too light for the crimes they commit!!

    • @tatianaantonio5366
      @tatianaantonio5366 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Because of Kinsey

    • @jbarahona623
      @jbarahona623 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Executing them would be an act of mercy.

    • @jdub-oh9wy
      @jdub-oh9wy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      They should at the very least stop putting them in protective custody and let them get destroyed by other inmates

    • @faith_e_8739
      @faith_e_8739 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They don't deserve life hear on earth 😡😡

    • @OURWORLD4EVER
      @OURWORLD4EVER 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Just give them the death penalty, save the tax payers dollars

  • @lisafrass
    @lisafrass 3 ปีที่แล้ว +857

    Classic episode.
    Lisa is one of the BEST investigative/freelance journalists of her time and definitely one of the
    G O A T S .
    I also believe she's super underestimated. There are not many American journalist of color with her type of catalogue. I truly admire her. All her pieces are complete. She always understands the assignment. 🙌🏾

    • @sarahannfisher
      @sarahannfisher 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Totally agree! She treats the subject matter with respect, every interviewee with kindness and courtesy.

    • @freeyremnd312
      @freeyremnd312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Agreed.

    • @bnhyg150
      @bnhyg150 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      She's well spoken and open minded and listens to both sides of the coin.

    • @BB-ts2gu
      @BB-ts2gu 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      G.O.A.T.S.?

    • @maggiee639
      @maggiee639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@BB-ts2gu greatest of all time

  • @TT_09
    @TT_09 2 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    Ryan had a sense of panic and fear when his foot monitor went off. Ironic. I wonder if he contemplates that same sense of panic, fear, anxiety that all of of his victims live with constantly and forever.

    • @tonyprice2256
      @tonyprice2256 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      His 'victims' were all consensual teens - not 4 year olds. None of his 'victims' had any fear of him.

    • @thewanderingfaith
      @thewanderingfaith ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Right?!

    • @Western_ENT
      @Western_ENT 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Right on! They're just putting an act coz they knew this female reporter would love it! 😏

  • @georgiaross6741
    @georgiaross6741 3 ปีที่แล้ว +616

    Steve and Christina's story really troubled me. I felt nervous and physically ill as soon as I saw them bathing their son. I don't understand the law that allows him to be around that child or the fact he can be in the home between 6 am and 10 pm, as if a child wouldn't be abused within those hours. I'm so fearful of how that child's life is going to play out.....

    • @jeremystark3350
      @jeremystark3350 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Yeah this guy will for sure offend again and the child will probably be the victim. Disgusting.

    • @Kam1143
      @Kam1143 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      He made it clear that the rules in place will not prevent someone from reoffending again…if they are going to reoffend again they are going to do it. There’s nothing that is going to stop them aside a lifetime in prison.

    • @komuhangirinah2594
      @komuhangirinah2594 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      thats true

    • @jasmineparker253
      @jasmineparker253 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      I had the local supervisor of CPS tell me that even men who are convicted and go to jail for sexually abusing their own children are often times allowed unsupervised visitation with them after they get out how f****** wrong and sick!!!! Society is going down the toilet.... I think we ALL need to get out and vote and start demanding change, kids depends on us to protect them and we are NOT doing even a remotely good job of that collectively as a whole and it disgusts me

    • @leahflower9924
      @leahflower9924 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel like the women that are with these men Are attracted to abusers because they were abused as girls and or major daddy issues but I heard you attract what's familiar

  • @trista_official
    @trista_official 3 ปีที่แล้ว +407

    The way these offenders play the victim and act like something was done TO THEM is sickening

    • @mrtwister9002
      @mrtwister9002 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It's only okay to minimize a certain class of people as subhuman. What's good for the goose isn't good for the gander. Only some are deserving of human compassion. Thank you for the enlightenment oh center of the universe. You're not helping with a solution.

    • @alva7701
      @alva7701 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agree, face we see but heart we don't know.

    • @gowdsake7103
      @gowdsake7103 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@mrtwister9002 There is NO solution for them

    • @mrtwister9002
      @mrtwister9002 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gowdsake7103 Oh mighty keyboard warrior! Righteous and forth right!!

    • @iposttoxicshorts
      @iposttoxicshorts 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The lisa woman interviewing them doesn’t help.

  • @MzTwEeT1989
    @MzTwEeT1989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +876

    I can't see how anyone could date or be in a relationship with someone who has harmed a child. The wife 20:15 is just sitting there consoling and rubbing his back as if he did nothing wrong wtf, he ruined the lives of those kids. 😭

    • @sarah.j.777
      @sarah.j.777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      agreed, she's just as evil as he is.

    • @bethanyoneal5789
      @bethanyoneal5789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      Right? The part with their baby made me so uncomfortable. Who’s the say he wouldn’t do anything to kids again?

    • @melodeelewis462
      @melodeelewis462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Sick , she will help him next time.

    • @jordangryder375
      @jordangryder375 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@bethanyoneal5789 The way the baby acted when he touched it an the way the baby looked at him. Seemed scared .

    • @thulilenkomo7462
      @thulilenkomo7462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      This chick is sick. 🤮It's actually disgusting.

  • @SamuelStevens-e6o
    @SamuelStevens-e6o 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +105

    As an abused child these men are not pushed into the shadows. They are the frickin shadows

  • @abbigailstone5235
    @abbigailstone5235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +804

    21:00 please tell me someone called the department of child and family services on that delusional mom who’s willing to sacrifice her child’s safety for her own pathetic and selfish desire to be loved. Oh my god that’s just insane. How disgusting

    • @janayialove4414
      @janayialove4414 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Yes please that woman is out her mind!

    • @supermodelatlanta1354
      @supermodelatlanta1354 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Smh. Karen's sister.

    • @abbigailstone5235
      @abbigailstone5235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@supermodelatlanta1354 wait what?

    • @rachelcurtis749
      @rachelcurtis749 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Yes it's sickening!! She's allowing him the opportunity to do the same as he did with the first girlfriend !! It's horrible. God please protect all children from these monsters!

    • @bcvc3365
      @bcvc3365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      I’m wondering why his probation officer is allowing him to be in the same house as her children… shouldn’t that be illegal?

  • @abigailsanchez7722
    @abigailsanchez7722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    I was a victim of child sexual abuse from the age of 4 thru 9, and suffered many years after. I have no compassion for these type of people. The devastation and pain that they cause last a lifetime. I’ve never truly felt whole, and normal. I’ve carried the pain and still the remanence of it remained decades later.

    • @papawnanasaveslovesnlife9530
      @papawnanasaveslovesnlife9530 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I was 3 that I remember till 9, who really knows🙅... When it began , it was a teen in family who then taught other boys n I to play house n drive hotwheels all over him n I had to be the mom 👀💭 ... Im 50 this year n my sister came to live with us when i was 9 n it stopped 👏🙌👏❣️.. ya never have closure, or heal, even with therapy n IT SuXx 🙅💭💯❣️... Im sorry anyone had to suffer , hes not the only 1 , yet family thought hes not to be prosecuted cause he was "young" , Ots sickening n i dont talk to any of them n I raised my kids safely without any of them ✌️♥️✌️, closure will be at his death cause God said "Vengeance is mine" , I know he will suffer with the others who did bad things 🙌🏳️🙌❣️... Im so sorry we went thru SA , 1 was charged n got 16 years n lived in segregation cause they tried to kill him when they found out his charges, he pulled all 16 years n has to register, the others try to associate when they see 👀 me out, n I walk on, after i cuss them 💯🙅 talk to me EVER

    • @mauricefuqua1947
      @mauricefuqua1947 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Stay strong 💪

    • @richikneogi1603
      @richikneogi1603 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Who are "these" people?

    • @connievino4226
      @connievino4226 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope peace and joy for you. Easy too say. But I would hope the best for you.

    • @carolannpacificadam1944
      @carolannpacificadam1944 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As someone with SA past I have no mercy for them

  • @MoMo420
    @MoMo420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +342

    Sadly, Christina is a poor excuse for a woman and especially a mother!! It appears she has some major self-esteem issues and insecurities, this young lady needs to seek professional help, not validation from a man. She desperately needs to learn to love herself and build herself up. I have 2 daughter’s (25 & 17) and I still would NEVER put my “needs” first at the expense of their safety and security!!

    • @badgalbecka
      @badgalbecka 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you!!!!!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @endermann8417
      @endermann8417 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shut up

    • @georgiabulldog7671
      @georgiabulldog7671 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@endermann8417 you shut up. Truth hurts

  • @thealarmclock9307
    @thealarmclock9307 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    Me me me me , put your OWN KIDS AT RISK because he made her feel good.. ohmygod. I'm beyond pissed

  • @ladydede88
    @ladydede88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1211

    I don’t like how this made them look like victims! When they aren’t!

    • @buildingthedream7586
      @buildingthedream7586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      9/10 they are victims. It’s likely been done to them. Definitely no excuse tho.

    • @ladydede88
      @ladydede88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +190

      @@buildingthedream7586 after you induce pain on someone else especially a child you’re no longer a victim but a evil predator.

    • @Theweezle12
      @Theweezle12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@buildingthedream7586 please explain

    • @josi4251
      @josi4251 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I have a former student who most likely is. The girl (also a student) was a known liar, and her lies sent him to prison. The kid had promise, and now he's in his late 30's and has a terrible life. The majority of these guys, though? Sure.

    • @brookealyssa5079
      @brookealyssa5079 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Theweezle12 we’re all victims of victims -still sad and not good

  • @luvdaturtles
    @luvdaturtles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +361

    My abuse started when I was 12 by my dads best friend, when he tried to rape me at 14 is when I finally ran and never let him touch me again. Kept it a secret from everyone and when I was 22 he had a heart attack. I got to be in the hospital room as he came off life support and I watched him slowly die. Best closure ever. Finally came clean about the abuse six years later. My parents were so upset. My mom ripped every photo with him in it out of the frame. Glad I don’t have to see his face when I visit their house anymore.

    • @wezangola8226
      @wezangola8226 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Sorry for what happened to you, you are só strong!
      God bless you ❤️

    • @TeaCup1940
      @TeaCup1940 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Did your parents leave you alone with him or how was he able to abuse you?

    • @SILOPshuvambanerjee
      @SILOPshuvambanerjee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Stay strong

    • @leavemealone7108
      @leavemealone7108 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm sorry you went through that 🙏🏻💖

    • @andrewd4413
      @andrewd4413 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did he actually rape you or only attempt to rape you?

  • @mrsdeannawilliams9282
    @mrsdeannawilliams9282 3 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    I don’t feel sorry for these men that hurt children. I’m thinking of all of the severe trauma they’ve caused, all of the lives they’ve shattered , and they don’t deserve to be released into the community.

  • @kristicollett7887
    @kristicollett7887 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    I'm near 44 years old... I've lived with the trauma of sexual assault for most of my life, 30 plus years! Screw these nasty people!

    • @d.froggiez369
      @d.froggiez369 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Same, will turn 44 on may 18th...
      Sending you love & big hugs 🫂💚🫂

    • @ghhjjffghklklkkj
      @ghhjjffghklklkkj 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Will make loads of prayers for you 💞🙏

    • @marysmith2554
      @marysmith2554 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      60 yrs, here.

    • @kristicollett7887
      @kristicollett7887 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marysmith2554 survivors unite!

    • @marysmith2554
      @marysmith2554 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kristicollett7887 Yes!!!

  • @cranberryjuice8740
    @cranberryjuice8740 2 ปีที่แล้ว +425

    I was molested when I was 4 by a older cousin and the memory is still there and haunts me.... imagine a kid who was older than I was... I in no way feel empathy for these people.

    • @ea3946
      @ea3946 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Yeah. My cousin did that to me at age 8 years old. And it still hurts. But I hope some of these men can change. I don’t know. As a survivor it still hurts me. But my way is just to not have contact ever with him. But I still think they can live their life. But I don’t know. I have mix feelings.

    • @rafaelespinoza6530
      @rafaelespinoza6530 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😮😮😮😮😮😮

    • @nickdelaney6953
      @nickdelaney6953 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      This is proof that the registry doesn't or wouldn't work it should be abolished

    • @Hogue7
      @Hogue7 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      God wants Homosexuals to be Prosperous.
      I am not someone to deny what God wants.

    • @AngelTechno
      @AngelTechno 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @cranberryjuice8740 I'm so sorry you had to experience that..

  • @DrTLEvans
    @DrTLEvans 3 ปีที่แล้ว +313

    No ma’am! Say what you want about single parents, my kids came first. After my divorce, I made the decision to raise my children alone in my home. I co-parented with their dad. If I dated, men didn’t come to my house. Some ppl date single parents just for the kids. I couldn’t live with myself if something had happened to them. No man was coming before my babies. What in the world, lady?

    • @cynthiatumwesigye1363
      @cynthiatumwesigye1363 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      You’re doing great! We need more mothers like you.

    • @tammygause4651
      @tammygause4651 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      A great mom!!!

    • @steavey301
      @steavey301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I feel you … I was single the entire time I was raising my son

    • @telleroflies4373
      @telleroflies4373 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Let's be honest you were never married. There was no divorce. You were a single mom hahahahhahahaha

    • @ilismommy
      @ilismommy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I’ve been single since 2018 and I’ll be damned if I let anyone else in my home. I coparent with my kids dad and that’s it. When he has gfs I tell him you better keep eyes on our kids because you never know! I don’t get women who put a man first.

  • @magnoliax5914
    @magnoliax5914 2 ปีที่แล้ว +847

    "He made me feel like a woman" Disgusting. She puts her needs and feelings first than the reality and safety of her daughter. I'm glad that he accepts his punishment and admits what he has done. Men AND women who are child predators and rapists are disgusting. There is a special place in hell for those.

    • @TheMCNemesisOnAmazonMusic
      @TheMCNemesisOnAmazonMusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I agree with this. It's sick

    • @alicennami4692
      @alicennami4692 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheMCNemesisOnAmazonMusic N I’ll pop lol no I up

    • @kakefyll
      @kakefyll 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Where on earth is CPS, these kids are in danger. That woman is sick

    • @pamelal2063
      @pamelal2063 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      CPS is the largest trafficking organization. Research and you're going to be able to see how screwed up the system is

    • @bubbercakes528
      @bubbercakes528 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She is deranged! That little girl should be taken from her.

  • @slkrik31
    @slkrik31 ปีที่แล้ว +573

    The father at the end of this segment said that they’re trying to destroy his son’s life. No sir, your son destroyed his own life by going after underage girls.

    • @j.l.salayao8055
      @j.l.salayao8055 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      And the life of the victims.

    • @Western_ENT
      @Western_ENT 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Well, dont you think apples don't fall far from the tree?

    • @mksu2991
      @mksu2991 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      all in perspective

    • @slkrik31
      @slkrik31 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@mksu2991 so what are you saying?

    • @nicholasagnew2792
      @nicholasagnew2792 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree, the guy's IQ is obviously pretty low but that doesn't and shouldn't matter really.

  • @angelicapettinato6469
    @angelicapettinato6469 3 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    No matter the topic of discussion, Lisa Ling always handles herself with such class and grace. She is just great.

    • @patr70
      @patr70 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes.. you and her are definately a lot more mature then most of this comment section.

  • @alyssajade7699
    @alyssajade7699 3 ปีที่แล้ว +739

    Christina puts her hand on his back as if he's the victim.. that is just unreal to me.. and I truly believe her letting him be around her kids is putting them In harm's Way.. complete filth!

    • @brandnew2767
      @brandnew2767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      She completely disgusting right along with him! She put her baby at risk for a man she think “treats her good”

    • @oaklandmade007
      @oaklandmade007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I agree 💯 percent! Ugh

    • @olenkap9585
      @olenkap9585 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Well he did suffer the consequences of his actions and had a long time to think about it. People can change. one crime doesnt force you to commit crime all your life. She supports him 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @BB-ts2gu
      @BB-ts2gu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I absolutely agree, Alyssa. It’s so disgusting. He will reoffend again. It’s not a matter of if, but when.

    • @kkw-pal1178
      @kkw-pal1178 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Can you believe that shhh?!!!

  • @gea8347
    @gea8347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1833

    I'm so glad that she is willing to endanger her own daughter because he "makes her feel good" 😡😠

    • @stellamary204
      @stellamary204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +504

      Honestly she gives me the vibes of when the daughter grows up and tells her something happened she would blame the daughter for "seducing" him.

    • @gea8347
      @gea8347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +238

      @@stellamary204 she totally does. I deeply fear for those children. The fact that he knew what he was doing, was completely aware every single time he chose to molest those children and still went ahead with it. No sympathy from me. These disgusting vile humans deserve everything they get. I personally believe they should never be released.

    • @stellamary204
      @stellamary204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@gea8347 100percent!

    • @kimsalmeron1149
      @kimsalmeron1149 3 ปีที่แล้ว +127

      She doesn't deserve her children.

    • @bnhyg150
      @bnhyg150 3 ปีที่แล้ว +110

      This was 10 years ago wonder is she still with the guy or if he's alive.

  • @Byeimky
    @Byeimky ปีที่แล้ว +64

    When one of the women gave her story about her nanny molesting her I really felt that especially with the grooming process. It was always “if you don’t tell I’ll give you candy!” “Let’s go the store for some candy now.” Growing up I felt like it was my fault because I didn’t tell my mom because I was embarrassed and allowed candy to keep me quiet. But I was 5/6. I should never have felt guilty for that being done to me.

    • @Western_ENT
      @Western_ENT 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well, I dont know about you but I'd definitely tell if someone tried to bribe or threatened me AT EVEN 10! I only WOULDN'T tell if I still give people the benefit of the doubt, that they didnt "touch" on purpose. But once they clearly show me their true color, I'd not be afraid to tell on them: if it's not your fault, there's NO REASON to fear or feel ashamed! if people ever have these 2 above feelings, there's definitely something wrong in their home, such as parents' teaching/ignorance..

  • @maddieb.8514
    @maddieb.8514 3 ปีที่แล้ว +800

    How hilarious Randy talks about drug addicts like they're beneath him.

    • @pinkpugginz
      @pinkpugginz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +160

      hes created drug addicts from abusing them. that's why we have an opioid epidemic. people self medicating from childhood trauma

    • @pinkpugginz
      @pinkpugginz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @The Thing yep almost all my friends have been abused either as children or adults and a fair amount are using drugs or alcohol to function

    • @RLDacia
      @RLDacia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Seriously, they only harm themselves not others(if they do harm others especially children then xxxx them too).

    • @jodykurt9935
      @jodykurt9935 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      A humongous majority of addicts are addicted to drugs due to the actions of these monsters. I look forward to the day when any person who abuses kids for any reason can be hung from a tree. That day is coming.

    • @jodykurt9935
      @jodykurt9935 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @The Thing one day they will

  • @nxnxnx800
    @nxnxnx800 3 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    Lisa Ling deserves the highest of honors for her style of reporting on the most important and controversial topics society faces...she does it with professionalism and grace! I feel she should get the Presidential Medal of Freedom! Adore her!

    • @BS-dq1kz
      @BS-dq1kz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree. She’s wonderful.

    • @brandonlee2604
      @brandonlee2604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree!

    • @juliehayden123
      @juliehayden123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She did a good job, some people are not happy that she was civil with the offenders, it’s not as if she can do a good interview being hostile. If you see how police officers interview offenders to get the right information it’s the same affect.

  • @imastatistic8347
    @imastatistic8347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    I was a nanny for three years and the fact someone can come into someone else home and do THAT to children who the are paid to care for sickens me.

  • @GypsyKhi
    @GypsyKhi 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    And then he giggled about it when he admitted that he was completely sober.

  • @SwedBaben
    @SwedBaben 3 ปีที่แล้ว +466

    I think Ryan is a high risk of re-offending if he's let out. He doesn't seem to think he done anything wrong

    • @ninisherebaxley7589
      @ninisherebaxley7589 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Exactly. He doesn't realize that what he's forever altered his victims' lives, and not for the better.

    • @SwedBaben
      @SwedBaben 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@ninisherebaxley7589 and him violating his parole rules on the first day was also kinda telling on his character. It wasn't like he had many rules, don't visit the beach and don't go to your parents house, and he does both in one day yet act like a victim when he was jailed again SMH

    • @ryanlantz8258
      @ryanlantz8258 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      He’s the worst one out of all of them. He got out of jail the first time and immediately reoffended. He will reoffend again.

    • @SwedBaben
      @SwedBaben 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ryanlantz8258 glad I'm not the only one thinking that is very likely

    • @bassssaasuuuup
      @bassssaasuuuup 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They never do

  • @z.c.m9908
    @z.c.m9908 3 ปีที่แล้ว +290

    I love Lisa's journalist investigations and interviews. She's not afraid to get in the nitty gritty of it. She's always super engaging and doesn't try to make it more dramatic than exactly what it is. Why doesn't she have her own talk/interview show??

    • @davidanthony7935
      @davidanthony7935 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yep! She is so dam beautiful! ❤️😍

    • @ceceliasheart
      @ceceliasheart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She’s riding on the backs of CSAS to get views. She’s lost all credibility. This could have been approached with more victim support.

    • @janicepearl7877
      @janicepearl7877 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank God it’s not a life sentence for the victims 😏

    • @6ec6YRFPTcC
      @6ec6YRFPTcC 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@ceceliasheart this wasn't about the victims, it's about what happens to the offenders. Try to keep up

    • @aluraschroeder3588
      @aluraschroeder3588 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cuz shes better then that. A talk show and damand for content will ruin the genuine journalism

  • @sharoncaulder6729
    @sharoncaulder6729 2 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    None of these offenders seem to understand how their actions damage the victims entire lives.

  • @arfriedman4577
    @arfriedman4577 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I love Lisa lings reporting. I remember when this was on tv years ago.

    • @tatianagranger2427
      @tatianagranger2427 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Channel One! I remember too! She’s great!

    • @arfriedman4577
      @arfriedman4577 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@tatianagranger2427 it was a regular TV station, then maybe Oprah own.

  • @crease142
    @crease142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +442

    If I ever, EVER heard a child molester refer to himself as having “made a mistake” I don’t think I’d be able to hold myself back. It’s vile

    • @PraveenSrJ01
      @PraveenSrJ01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Many did just make a mistake and deserve a second chance but the ones who go on to reoffend don’t deserve a second chance and are the evil ones.

    • @maam-yj8ph
      @maam-yj8ph 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I think it's harder to decide the punishment when the offender is a child themselves (maybe until age 18). Ages 18 - 26 is a transition period to adulthood and a peak period for athletic ability; if an offender has little to no control over their impulses and emotions, great harm can be done. I think that a 10 - 20 year sentence with therapy, job training, educational options, and community service (supervised) for the younger offenders can hopefully give enough time to see if these individuals are safe enough to be released from prison.

    • @dianabeurman364
      @dianabeurman364 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm with you

    • @deku3i
      @deku3i 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@PraveenSrJ01 Molesting a child is not a mistake, it’s a conscious choice.

    • @12yearssober
      @12yearssober 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Even if it was a woman?

  • @ZOE_NtombiYaseMancwabeni
    @ZOE_NtombiYaseMancwabeni 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1034

    Let's make it clear. OFFENDERS are NOT VICTIMS.🙄

    • @mike-cs4pv
      @mike-cs4pv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Unless she's a woman

    • @anavaldez2432
      @anavaldez2432 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Period!!!!

    • @cosmicreef5858
      @cosmicreef5858 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Say it louder.

    • @rosaf4661
      @rosaf4661 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Seriously

    • @Chickmamapalletfarm
      @Chickmamapalletfarm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Not all victims will be offenders, but Almost all offenders were victims. That is just the way this horrific cycle goes.

  • @kathiedavis7827
    @kathiedavis7827 2 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    My daughter was sexually assaulted by a family friend of 19 years. When I found out I had him arrested and he went to prison for 5 years. My daughter is grown now and she with life sentence even with years of counseling she had never gotten over this . When I saw that mother allow her husband to bathe that baby I almost threw up what the hell is the matter with her !! With a 2 year old and a baby there with him his just Asking for her children to be abused! Does she need to be with a man so desperately that she hands her children over to have their lives destroyed. The authorities should take her kids away if she chooses to stay with this guy.

    • @ncmariofan3605
      @ncmariofan3605 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That filthy rat got off the hook. Had be been caught smoking pot, he'd never see the sun, ever

    • @boogitybear2283
      @boogitybear2283 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shows how women have the worst taste in men I’ve ever seen. They really do.

    • @slconley
      @slconley ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I think it’s terrifying that he has access to a 2 year old and a baby.

    • @שגרירותאוזבקיסטןבישראל
      @שגרירותאוזבקיסטןבישראל 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Your a good mom, I'm sorry it happened to you❤

    • @nickdelaney6953
      @nickdelaney6953 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@שגרירותאוזבקיסטןבישראלhow do you know she's a good mom

  • @kellyrowns4730
    @kellyrowns4730 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    So this is a way that predators can get together, swap stories and plan things in the future. How wonderful. America, you should be so proud of your justice system.

    • @isaiahbarnes5906
      @isaiahbarnes5906 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You commented 3 months ago, so I'll respond to you. The story that starts at 18:19, how!!! A person that touches a child is bs. Then straight up say it wasn't drugs or alcohol. How is he alive

    • @Sam-gl6fu
      @Sam-gl6fu 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was just thinking that. share houses for pedos with the same desires ? ESPECIALLY with the internet they can exchange vile CP and plan out their next victims.. fking nasty.

    • @Western_ENT
      @Western_ENT 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@isaiahbarnes5906 🤣 in America, telling the truth is more important than being good 🤣 it's the "NEW" kind of "MORAL" for DRUGGIE generations! 🤣

  • @jodidemay5521
    @jodidemay5521 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I love how Lisa can interview these monsters without lashing out.. she has more patience than I do.. these offenders need to be in prison for the rest of their lives

  • @Gigi-ki5su
    @Gigi-ki5su 3 ปีที่แล้ว +323

    6 and 10 year old girls..he needs to be in treatment until he comes up with a clear answer on why??? His girlfriend needs help if she found herself in someone who does not know himself.

    • @sophiademure
      @sophiademure 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Those poor girls :(. That was disturbing to hear. His wife defo needs help if she would trust him around her kids, wtf!

    • @camcam9927
      @camcam9927 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      And she has a 2 year old daughter herself

    • @brendad7582
      @brendad7582 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I don’t know why they let him out he still needs to be locked up.

    • @oaklandmade007
      @oaklandmade007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@TaylorWilliamsnaturalisttaylor yeh, it takes a special kind of evil to lay down with a demon who has assaulted children, and then have a baby with him😡

    • @Camibug
      @Camibug 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I agree. Especially when he openly stated there was no alcohol or drugs involved. Not that that is an excuse but he was very clear that he was in his right mind.

  • @GirlNo111
    @GirlNo111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +627

    Once a predator always a predator. The fact that the 23 year old wife with a young daughter lets him be around her child!!!??? Why would she even want anything to do with him in the first place! I feel sick to my stomach

    • @pinkpugginz
      @pinkpugginz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      clearly she has some trauma surrounding abuse and thinks this is all she deserves.
      all offenders are master manipulators and so hes probably making her feel like she's his entire world and constantly love bombing.

    • @kayjay407
      @kayjay407 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      @@pinkpugginz I understand your point. However, no matter what she has endured, it is no excuse for endangering another child! This just perpetuates the cycle! I am a survivor and I WOULD NEVER put another child at risk for my own gratification. When you are a Mother, you sign up to sacrifice your wants for your childs needs! Period.

    • @jeffreylieberman1668
      @jeffreylieberman1668 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You don't seem too bright. So if you stole a candy bar as a kid, or got into a fight, we can use that against you for the rest of your life too right?! Once a thief always a thief, once a bully always a bully, right?! Wait until it's your son or daughter, or your mom or dad that makes a dumb mistake, we'll see how you feel then. The biggest child molesters in this world have been of the Bible believer faith. Fact.

    • @SD_Chosen
      @SD_Chosen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@jeffreylieberman1668 God Can Change Anyone if They Repent
      You Are Never Too Far Gone With God
      People Will Never Forgive You, But God Will
      God's Word Is the Only thing that Matters.

    • @jeffreylieberman1668
      @jeffreylieberman1668 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@SD_Chosen which one? There are literally billions. You're not talking about (Christ) the one that the child molesters pray to, are you?
      Satan has a better place in his kingdom.
      Try that route.

  • @kristindanger6853
    @kristindanger6853 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    My side will always align to the victim because the PTSD, anxiety and countless other things the victims go through is a prison too....sometimes for life

    • @Western_ENT
      @Western_ENT 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I mean, why align to the predators at all?? The ONLY reason i could find is becoz such one is the SAME KIND AS THESE PREDATORS! 😏

  • @joelleyaghi1658
    @joelleyaghi1658 3 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    Loved the initiative to go to schools and teach kids about protecting themselves and be more aware of danger.

    • @flower5396
      @flower5396 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly. Because the system let these dogs out.

  • @Sshazex
    @Sshazex 3 ปีที่แล้ว +478

    41 taking to a girl that just turned 18? Yeah you’re a danger.

    • @proudmarinemomma827
      @proudmarinemomma827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      These men want arm candy and young girls. It’s totally gross. I wish I could keep those young girls from going with these older men. The whole sugar baby thing is awful.

    • @dall9329
      @dall9329 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Lori don't blame men for being with young girl 18 ,19,20... most of the times these girls just want older men . Look at trump

    • @proudmarinemomma827
      @proudmarinemomma827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@dall9329 sorry if I didn’t add more to my comment. You are also correct. These young women are sometimes looking for that sugar daddy too. It happens a lot in fact. I’m not for that either. I guess I’m more old school in my thinking 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @TheSterlingArcher16
      @TheSterlingArcher16 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Men are & will always be attracted to young, attractive (aka fertile) women. Whether viewed as gross or not that’s basic human sexuality… and if the person is 18 it’s legal for better or for worse. The real monsters are the people abusing innocent children.

    • @joygernautm6641
      @joygernautm6641 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@dall9329 they don’t want older men, they want older man money. Don’t get it twisted.

  • @jojom6657
    @jojom6657 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Ryan, 7 years in jail..."I realized 3 weeks ago that I have a problem"👀

  • @brendaford5542
    @brendaford5542 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    Any child molester deserves a standard death sentence. Worst crime a human being can commit, yet they get the lightest sentences.

  • @lynnetteturner
    @lynnetteturner 3 ปีที่แล้ว +443

    Ryan spends 7 YEARS in prison and 3 WEEKS before his release date he finally realises he has a problem, yeah I'm not buying it!

    • @j.aimebb
      @j.aimebb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      The sparkle in his eye when he talks about the other specific offences being worse… 😬

    • @ladydede88
      @ladydede88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      He said it was an addiction so he may definitely re offend

    • @lynnemelanson6186
      @lynnemelanson6186 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      👿👿👿👿👿👿👿

    • @byleethomas3190
      @byleethomas3190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He won't re offend the rate is so low

    • @georgiabulldog7671
      @georgiabulldog7671 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@byleethomas3190 wrong. He already re-offended before

  • @Josh-md1yi
    @Josh-md1yi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +875

    If a dog attacks a child then it's put down, that's what needs to happen to these child predators!!

    • @flower5396
      @flower5396 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      Right! The thing is that the dog doesn't know what it's doing, it's an innocent being, perhaps dangerous but innocent. These men know exactly that they did.

    • @OURWORLD4EVER
      @OURWORLD4EVER 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Exactly, no re offenders that way

    • @primeleverage2266
      @primeleverage2266 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      It is that simple brother

    • @primeleverage2266
      @primeleverage2266 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Kill them

    • @natnailsit
      @natnailsit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      💯✊🏾 FACTSSSSS

  • @27too2cool
    @27too2cool 2 ปีที่แล้ว +409

    There’s no cure for pedaphiles, so if they have to stay in the woods, that’s luxury in my eyes. I honestly don’t think that’s far enough away. A mom that will subject her kids to that, knowing what he has done, doesn’t deserve to have her kids.

    • @williambilly3269
      @williambilly3269 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I agree. They shouldn't be allowed to work in Congress either like matt gaetz

    • @sarahlear9438
      @sarahlear9438 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      she dont deserve to has kids be called mom or has the honor of being a mom child protective services should be notified the child should be removed from her custody both should be sterilised to prevent future children to be born pedos should has they genitals disabled

    • @coffeecrimegal5968
      @coffeecrimegal5968 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I honestly don’t know or understand why any mother would take a chance like that with her children?? To me that’s putting your needs ahead of your childrens and you gave up the right to be frivolous when you become a parent!

    • @leahflower9924
      @leahflower9924 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It doesn't keep anyone safe though

    • @TheKaidynB
      @TheKaidynB 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      There’s no cure now but I bet there’s one out there. I want to find it.

  • @MeganES
    @MeganES 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I don’t feel bad for them, they made vile decisions and now there is consequences.

  • @soybigpapi
    @soybigpapi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +238

    “Keeping is in prison for the rest of our lives is the only way to make sure we don’t reoffend” yes, so go back to prison.

    • @sarah.j.777
      @sarah.j.777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      or DIE. we should just murder all these dirtbags, not pay to feed & house them. or send them to an island where they work in manufacturing for FREE.

    • @mike-cs4pv
      @mike-cs4pv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That statement applies to all criminals

    • @moviesjean23
      @moviesjean23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Prison is expensive

    • @soybigpapi
      @soybigpapi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@moviesjean23 I agree but so is therapy.

  • @melmc3913
    @melmc3913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    Woah!!! Christina definitely needs help!
    Oh man, this is so heartbreaking.
    As a woman who was molested by my mother's boyfriend turned husband it absolutely breaks my heart to know a woman would allow a man with a molestation charge into her child's life. So damn sad!!!

    • @katierojas8066
      @katierojas8066 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah she’s in denial and super naive and trusting. Her receiving a man’s attention is more important than her children’s safety.

  • @aphiwemagaya3279
    @aphiwemagaya3279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +179

    10 months in jail? That's a pathetic sentence,it's really sad how the justice system fails people!

    • @mrtwister9002
      @mrtwister9002 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And will most likely not reoffend. The longer they stay clean, the more apt they are to stay clean.

    • @jmfia2391
      @jmfia2391 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mrtwister9002 bs

  • @paulinekamau9633
    @paulinekamau9633 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Why are these people out of jail 😡. They should be jailed for 40 years plus

    • @keciaaskew5166
      @keciaaskew5166 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Facts 💯 💯

  • @aggness860
    @aggness860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    He destroyed two children's lives forever and she says she trusts this monster? No, it's just a matter of time before he gets his claws in your child. He wasnt even apologetic for what he did!!! Wheres CPS????

  • @missdaydreamss
    @missdaydreamss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +561

    Honestly, sexual abuse should be taught in school, starting as kindergarten.

    • @cdwalter
      @cdwalter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Agreed! My mom investigated it for her job and told me what to look for. I told her and she didn’t turn in my cousin! I was 5!

    • @GbrJose
      @GbrJose 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Not unless you want to deal with entitled parents and parents who are in control of higher power

    • @bjkeene1114
      @bjkeene1114 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Awareness should be taught. Children sometimes don't know that adults are turned on by them. They should be warned at school if not at home. Parents must agree to this instruction.

    • @grammichal6759
      @grammichal6759 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@bjkeene1114 SAFE touch can be taught.. “No one should touch where your bathing suit covers.” They don’t need to hear about the negative part at that age… Specific crimes. Teach from a positive point of view.

    • @bjkeene1114
      @bjkeene1114 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@grammichal6759 agreed

  • @coryvernon123
    @coryvernon123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +248

    Ryan is the most likely to repeat a crime against children. He smiles and grins throughout the interview like he can't wait to meet another young girl.

    • @iposttoxicshorts
      @iposttoxicshorts 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Thats why his PO put him back

    • @erinjaynes
      @erinjaynes 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Ryan doesn’t listen. Ryan thinks he’s above the law. Ryan doesn’t take accountability. Don’t be a Ryan.

    • @edrefeen4006
      @edrefeen4006 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Ryan is dangerous and needs to be held accountable for his actions

    • @Elizabeth-mf3dn
      @Elizabeth-mf3dn 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yes he’s creepy af

  • @m.s.3798
    @m.s.3798 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    This is NOT a victimless crime

  • @moniquew3603
    @moniquew3603 3 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    Honestly, if my husband and I separate/divorce I will be single until my children are 18+... I would not be able to forgive myself if I brought a monster into my home to abuse my children. No thank you! Prayers for all the children, I hope they get the healing they deserve.

    • @kevinrogers4747
      @kevinrogers4747 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      p.s try not to let him know that !

    • @Redsoxman9991
      @Redsoxman9991 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well that sounds kind of extreme lol. Are grandfathers or uncles banned from the house too?

    • @amysho2192
      @amysho2192 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yup. I am a single mom and it is my worst fear. I am SUPER cautious and untrusting. If a guy shows any hint of being sketchy...bye! And when she was little and couldn't communicate well, I never let a man around her without me. Even at her preschool, I asked if men were allowed to work there. They said yes, but there were currently no male teachers. I was so happy.
      When she went to grade school, I'd ask her every few weeks if any guy has touched her or made her uncomfortable. She KNEW what was right and wrong. Now she is 12...she has been homeschooled since 3rd grade. I am SO happy she doesn't go to school. A male teacher SA'd some girl students here a few years back. And he got caught. Imagine all that don't get caught! 😢 Also at the preschool here, there was a male advocate working there who raped a little girl when they were alone in his office. It's awful. I don't ever want to put her at risk. It's scary you never know who the monsters are til it's too late.
      Could be your friendly, wholesome neighbor. Could be your church's beloved pastor. Could be the maintenance man. Could be your uncle. Could even be the babysitter who is taking videos of the child for her boyfriend. You never know.
      I worked at a preschool once and I was helping change a little girl into her bathing suit for water play. We were in the bathroom and there were no cameras in sight. Once the girl got out of her clothes, she looked sadly at me and asked, "Please don't take videos of me." I thought I misheard her so I asked what she said and she repeated the same phrase. I told her I wasn't going to. I reported it to my supervisor (there were other signs if abuse too and they had been in foster care before). So sad.

    • @Saftey1992
      @Saftey1992 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My neighbour across the street has a young daughter and she has a new bf every month. Always moves her in with them. I fear for her child but she doesn’t care. She is selfish. She can’t survive without having a bf and doesnt focus on her kid. I want to take her kid in so badly but she thinks she’s a good mother.

  • @Shante-330
    @Shante-330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Taking a child’s innocence and taking someone’s life is the same in my book and both murderers and pedo’s need to do life under the jail.

  • @GodBlessedThisBod
    @GodBlessedThisBod 3 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    23 years old and says “ I’ve been with a bunch of bad guys… and this one makes me feel like a person.” But he lives like an animal and you let him around your kid. So sick.

    • @dianabeurman364
      @dianabeurman364 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      These guys are master manipulators!

    • @Shycrochetqueen
      @Shycrochetqueen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just be honest look at her like really look

    • @yart-o5x
      @yart-o5x ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Literally one of The dumbest statement I ever heard

    • @GodBlessedThisBod
      @GodBlessedThisBod ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dianabeurman364 while I know manipulation is very really…. This is flat out stupid

  • @IamSnowRed
    @IamSnowRed 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    They had a chance to live in society normally. They messed it up for themselves 💯 I dont feel bad for any of them

  • @terryhart4090
    @terryhart4090 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I have to admit, I started watching these episodes because I think Lisa Ling is AMAZING, however, now I can't get enough of her in depth thoroughly researched topics! Challenging, and so well done. Thank you Lisa Ling!

  • @raycheldiaz874
    @raycheldiaz874 2 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    Long haired men scare me because of the man that hurt me. I’m 35 and still am traumatized and hurt by this. I shelter my daughter because of what happened when I was 5 from my aunts boyfriend and it keeps me from being open intimately. It NEVER goes away and if you could hurt a child, you could do anything 🥺

    • @izzycarts
      @izzycarts 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Stay strong

    • @dennaecephus3447
      @dennaecephus3447 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Remember YOU did nothing wrong the blame is the offenders....

    • @sarcasticallyrearranged
      @sarcasticallyrearranged ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm sorry for what happened to you and I hope that you received the necessary therapy so it doesn't affect your relationship with your daughter.

    • @carolannpacificadam1944
      @carolannpacificadam1944 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There is a different way to live with trauma
      I know I have a SA background ( my sibling molested me)
      I have been in cognitive therapy. It's really good 👍

    • @Bobbyjhoson
      @Bobbyjhoson 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I don't know wat would make a guy abuse a child like that that is a monster

  • @Sarah-ty5ev
    @Sarah-ty5ev 3 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    This makes me feel sick. Those children got a life sentence. They are going to have to live with the trauma for the rest of their lives. Sorry but I really don’t have much sympathy for people who hurt children.

    • @sarahtonin4727
      @sarahtonin4727 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      No need to be sorry for fighting for our forgotten victims. We get less help and rights than those vile experiments of "humans". I work with people affected by monsters. Hard to get them off the street if not even getting them a warm plate of food. But a disgusting excuse of a person? Living the life with more support 🤮🤮🤢🤢

    • @mike-cs4pv
      @mike-cs4pv 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sarahtonin4727 Women who murder they unborn children are monsters also, right?

    • @sarahtonin4727
      @sarahtonin4727 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mike-cs4pv nah

  • @JigglyPuff777
    @JigglyPuff777 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    The guy that's in real estate finding them a home looks just as disgusting and creepy , as they are profiting off of putting these creatures in our areas with our vulnerable innocent children

  • @lhorn2011
    @lhorn2011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    I hate this world even has to deal with something like this! 😞

    • @act4666
      @act4666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah me too.

  • @claudsintheskyy2898
    @claudsintheskyy2898 2 ปีที่แล้ว +905

    Cristina has a 2 year old kid and is willing to be with a man who ADMITS that he molested his ex gf's kids for over a year, that is DISGUSTING, SELFISH and WRONG! I really hope and pray he does not lay hands on her child. Shame on her for even putting her kid in a possibility like that.

    • @tonyprice2256
      @tonyprice2256 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      She is not very bright, is she?

    • @icant_thinkkk9320
      @icant_thinkkk9320 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

      exactly what i was gonna say. She says she’s been with bad men, just because he’s nice to you you’re gonna take the chance of him touching your children? I think not!

    • @Mmm...yummymummy
      @Mmm...yummymummy 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      She had a kid with him too.
      It seems encouraging to me he is honest about it. I think there is gioe for that one if kept out of dangerous situations,like sleeping at her house

    • @hasanmuhammad3916
      @hasanmuhammad3916 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Ryan was camping out by somebody house pitch the tent 🎪😮

    • @NicOoG-im2yg
      @NicOoG-im2yg 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      ​@@icant_thinkkk9320Of course hes going to try and win her over and prove his trust duhhh these men target single women with kids ..helloooo... so they can get to them

  • @kirsikka1029
    @kirsikka1029 3 ปีที่แล้ว +317

    Why is castration not a requirement & a penalty? People don't have any problem wanting to control women's bodies.

    • @INFJ2
      @INFJ2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Bc u can't stop hands and a tongue

    • @claudiar3553
      @claudiar3553 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Chemical castration could be a contribution to the solution (with therapie etc), it loweres the desires and they become impotent, Androcur its called and as a psychiatric nurse i had patients who got it per injection once per 4 weeks.

    • @kirsikka1029
      @kirsikka1029 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@INFJ2 it's to reduce the testosterone & hormones = like the same side effects animals get! Kind on one more layer of protection. At least there would be no "GUESSING" WHO WAS AT THE LEVEL OF OFFENDING CUASE THEY GOT NO BALLS!

    • @kirsikka1029
      @kirsikka1029 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@claudiar3553 just cut them off! Why are Men's Genitalia in such high regard and women have to beg for their Uterus to have respect & not controlled by the government

    • @pinkpugginz
      @pinkpugginz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      chemical castration doesn't work. sexual abuse is about power and control. even if they had no limbs they would still abuse kids.

  • @mommamoose1639
    @mommamoose1639 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    How about we go ahead and let that mom know that WHEN he assaults her child again, she can go to prison with him! Same charges. Literally enabling him her reoffend ON HER OWN CHILD! That makes me so angry!!

    • @really5453
      @really5453 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don't think she should give the chance or be allowed to give the chance for him to hurt her kid I think the minute she makes a decision like that her parental abilities should definitely be called into legal question

  • @JM33444
    @JM33444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +341

    That dude took a big gulp when she said yeah I trust him with my kid she's crazy

    • @rainsara2795
      @rainsara2795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Agreed

    • @reesejordan8953
      @reesejordan8953 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      He looked shocked his damn self

    • @act4666
      @act4666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      And she barely looked at Lisa. A sign she doesn’t like talking about this.

    • @CrimeTeaTime
      @CrimeTeaTime 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      Some one needs to check on that poor baby

    • @act4666
      @act4666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@CrimeTeaTime oh I’ll guess the police did after this episode aired. Always liked Lisa Ling

  • @anthonyp6755
    @anthonyp6755 3 ปีที่แล้ว +255

    No sympathy for Ryan, he’s the type ppl should fear the most! His father should be more bitter toward his own son’s choices!

  • @Mrs_Kay-u7q
    @Mrs_Kay-u7q 3 ปีที่แล้ว +258

    Felt so uncomfortable when they were bathing the baby and when he was holding her 😩😩 Steve doesn't even seem to trust himself not to reoffend.

  • @stfuporfavor9102
    @stfuporfavor9102 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I was watching this is life on I think discovery+ & I have so much respect Lisa Ling to do what she does to inform the rest of the world is brave. To be as willing and also open to hearing these horrible things and have to grit your teeth for the pain of the victims and you know that the person you're talking to would probably do it again. There's just no words. I think it's so important to be as educated as we can be to keep ourselves, our children, friends, families safe.

  • @debbiecrawshaw8722
    @debbiecrawshaw8722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    This lady is stupid for allowing him around her child! How can you be that desperate for a man that you would choose a known offender? Plus, risk your child's well-being.

  • @breannenyquist
    @breannenyquist 3 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    These men act like they are innocent

  • @wereskikate5259
    @wereskikate5259 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I wish Lisa would do a "where are they now"follow up
    I would like to see how many went back to prison due to re offending.that is the only way we can tell if they can be safe in society

  • @nicholasagnew2792
    @nicholasagnew2792 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    "He has gone above and beyond for me."
    *zips up tent* lmao

  • @dominiquedominiquepresents3291
    @dominiquedominiquepresents3291 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I pray every victim is liberated from gruesome circumstances 🙏🏾 May god rebuke their Demons

  • @Camibug
    @Camibug 3 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    Ryan couldn’t follow the most basic of rules set before him for 24 hours. Don’t go to your parents home until you’ve been approved by parole and don’t go to the beach. If he can’t follow basic rules for 24 hours, can he be trusted long term?
    The fact that he blames the system for him ignoring the rules shows he is quick to shift blame instead of taking responsibility. They have to be strict with offenders like him. There are children on the line.

    • @GabriellaGodessa
      @GabriellaGodessa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      exactly!

    • @cosmicreef5858
      @cosmicreef5858 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      They should rot in jail for the rest of their lives.

  • @nikkivamosh3221
    @nikkivamosh3221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    These predators deserve zero sympathy. Every one of them has created so much trauma in their victims. Their victims are sentenced to a lifetime of severe drug abuse and suicide. These men and drug dealers should literally be the ones in jail. They cause destruction and devastation.

    • @rachelkania5833
      @rachelkania5833 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Omg this comment!! Yes! 🙌 I couldn’t agree more. Predators and drug dealers kill people. And for the ones they don’t kill, they still kill their souls. They need to be locked up.

    • @SophisticatedDogCat
      @SophisticatedDogCat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You literally don’t know that. There are people on the registry who were 18 and slept with their 16 year old high school sweethearts. Kids these days are hoeing themselves out all over TikTok and Snapchat. You really think their lives are “rUiNeD”?

  • @austinballard6815
    @austinballard6815 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    This was made back in 2011...it would be great to see a followup on the people featured in this. I wonder how Steve and Christina his wife made it in these intervening 12-13 years? I wonder what the legal reoffending rate is for these men generally?