Its love. I've been having a rough time with my boyfriend of almost 2 years now but we're both trying to get better and help each other with our own problems and grow with each other and we both appreciate each other and are always there for each other all couples have rough spots Hope everyone is having a great day/night 💜💜
Timestamps 1. 0:19 How long did it take you to develop feelings? 2. 0:54 Do you idealize the person? 3. 1:20 is your attraction just physical? 4. 1:41 do your feelings change? 5. 1:52 Is your relationship focused on desire or friendship?
I was sold on my wife's smile. Met at a bus stop on a winter's night 28 years ago. Got talking and the rest is history. I wasn't planning on it. Some things were just meant to be I guess.
could you please share some of the talking lead to your relationship grow? would love to hear, cus i'm maybe in your 28 years ago stage. such as, when do you ask her out? how do you approach her? when do you say you like her n stuff.. and others. if you could.
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. It seems like it's impossible for men and women to emotionally connect with each other. I heard that gay and lesbian couples are happier than straight couples are, and I heard that gay and lesbian relationships are healthier than straight relationships are. The more similar you are to someone, the more easier it is to bond and connect with them. People of the same sex/gender understand each other more easily, and there are no inbuilt societal power imbalances as there are between opposite-sex couples. Gay and lesbian couples understand each other better than straight couples do (due to them being the same gender as each other). I heard that most straight couples are not happy being together, and I heard that people who are straight are much happier and much better off being single than they are being in a romantic relationship.
@@icysnow57cold64Hello! I’m a bi person here and honestly even though I’m more attracted to girls (as a girl). Guys and girls can still bond quite nicely. My older sister is straight and has a boyfriend of 8 years (getting married soon!) and they act so well with each other. They’ve known each other since middle school and they both comfort each other well emotionally, they are basically best friends and have such similar thought processes and they have differences that complement each other quite nicely but also with much more similarities. Honestly it’s kind of nice to hear you put gay people in a nice light, especially because I’m so tired of people saying it’s unnatural and whatever, but honestly I really think love is love, and it doesn’t matter the genders of the people as long as they can connect in a loving way 💕
@@icysnow57cold64Personally, I feel like the difference in their minds is what draws them together. Gay and lesbian couples still think very differently from each other, because we are all different people. The major difference is that they understand each other’s emotions better, which is why gay/lesbian couples are usually healthier. Back to the initial question, the brain is attracted to things it wants to know more about. Learning new things is what allows the brain to strengthen. The difference in their chemistry is what makes people fall in-love with each other in the first place. They see it more as a passion or admiration than a connection. It’s like when you see someone do cool tricks while roller skating, but you still have to use the helpers. They fall in-love simply because it’s something they don’t recognize, but they feel so drawn to it. If anyone has a different perspective, I would love to hear.
@@ALittleLateLotusBlossom The characters are from a video game called Omori. The game can be a bit long, so if what you want to see is the story and the characters, I recommend that you watch a video that tells you about it. But if you dare to play it you will obviously have a better experience.
We remember stuff from 14 years ago when we were in school together, and I'll always support him just like he supports me. We are taking our time to make sure it is what we think it is.
Crush: A sudden or unexpected feeling of attraction or romantic desire for someone you've recently met. Love: Strong feelings of affection and attachment towards a special person with a strong urge to spend as much time with them as possible. Anyways, this is my idea of love and crush.
So basically crush is the start and then we gradually grow once we pass the initial talking stage? I'm new to all of this and I want to understand because I care, but I have so many people giving suggestions on how to deal with this and it makes me feel like crap being distant to her to show her I am not so needy. I like your idea tho. Love is a bit more intense.
Mine is in between, It's not recent in fact it was 2 years ago but Meh. We still have contact and I sometimes talk to him. Idk I'm stuck between friendship, attraction, crush and mutual. And I also know someone who also had a crush on him and he used to have a crush lol. Idk it's confusing, I remember moving on but then it came back 4 some reason. sheesh.
@@littleforfeited With all due respect, please ask him out if you haven't already. You may be missing out on a great opportunity. And if he doesn't feel the same way at least you can move on with no regrets.
@@avidhossanmansur9830 I think I'm too young (I'm 13 and his 14) I feel like I'm ok with friends and I also don't wanna be in a relationship because I'm not mentally ready and I have some mental healh issues that im trying to cope rn.
when i was on grade 4, there’s a guy that I have a crush with. I like him for almost 2 years and idk if that is just a “crush” or maybe a puppy love...?
@@ishaanvi_51 same I changed school but can't stop thinking abt him he always make me laugh but I have his contact tho but still idk whether we meet or not :(
Love in general is really just something we'll personally have to learn overtime as even if we learn it from other's experiences, we won't actual know until it happens to us. I feel experience in person is better than just hearing it from others, but it could work both ways. I think of it as hearing from people who've experienced something before and we'll know what the answer to the problem in the end.
I've had feelings for someone for 2 years now and I didn't at first, things were slow at first, we didn't talk much, I remember noticing flaws they had at first, and I thought they were physically attractive but I cared more about what we talked about and how we were around each other and stuff. I realized I started to crush on them and got the classic crush feelings, the butterflies, feeling great around them while also feeling incredibly nervous, and so on, and it was like that for a while but it's been a quite some time since then, we talk more, we get along really well, and there was a point when I couldn't see a thing wrong with them, they were perfect to me, but I'm seeing flaws again, nothing crazy, everyone has them, but my feelings are the same, idc about their flaws, I want to give them the world and I seriously care about them so much I care about her well being, about helping her about doing nice things for her and I think about her so much I dream about her and like, I've never felt so strongly about a person that I wasn't yet in a relationship with, idk if I've ever felt so much for someone, I think I'm actually in love and it's scary.
Same it was never that much love i had for someone it was weird, but then they moved schools and she got picked on and i wanted to move to that school so i could deal with that crap and to meet some of my old friends. But im still at my school enjoying life
Interestingly, this makes me think that it had to be love, when I liked the person I met. I didn't have feelings for them for some from the beginning of the school year, and later on. I will say that they were in a group and such, and I liked their behavior and looks, but I also wanted to get to know them better and would (if I could) have had married them. I'm hoping it wasn't infatuation, because the feelings were around for sometime.
Sort of the same thing happened to me, except it was a few years back there was this guy let’s call him Tamale, Tamale was great he was and still is my best guy friend. However his best friend likes him and it’s pretty obvious but at the same time he likes him I liked him and it was kinda a mutual thing. We only talked about it once and we decided just to stay friends because things were so complicated. But I still think he likes me and I think I like him. But the question is should I tell him? His best friend still likes me but also my EX best friend dated both of these guys, while I liked tamale. But it’s really weird and confusing.
This is exactly how I feel about the guy I like😭idc if he’s a little weird, he’s such a nerd and yaps about so much but I still love listening to him talk even if I don’t understand everything he’s saying lol he has such a kind soul and we’re even of the same religion. He makes my heart melt man so idk if this is still liking him or even I even love him
I finally have a shot at true love, she makes me feel like I can finally be with someone for the rest of my life. I’ve never trusted someone with my heart as much as her.
Y'all surely made lots of videos on the last 4 months, aand i guess imma watch them all! Im glad to see you guys keep improving over time and changing for the better with your channel You are an amazing team!
I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THE VOICEOVER OF THIS VIDEO! IT'S A REFRESHING ONE! I also am glad that this video popped up because I am trying to figure out what I feel towards my crush 😳
i met a girl a few years ago and sort of recently realised i have some pretty big feelings for her and it's been freaking me out because it's completely different to any crushes i've had. usually if i like someone and i confess and they reject me, my confession actually helps me move on so i get over it fairly quick. but with this girl, even after confessing, my feelings for her haven't disappeared or changed, in fact they feel stronger. and what doesn't help is that she hasn't given me closure over her feelings for me, all she's told me is she wants to stick as friends (which i respect so i never push, but it's still difficult to deal with y'know). i've been rlly worried about my feelings for her because i've never had these feelings for anyone, and i think this vid basically told me that it's more than just a crush at this point. idk if i could call it love, i mean if it is i'm pretty sure it's one-sided, but this vid did help me a bit lol
i'm currently in your stage right now , and all of my research about this type of crushes and love.. just like vid said, takes time to know if they meant for us.. so i related to ur story a lot. hope we can find our true love.
i know exactly how you feel, i went through this 'on edge' stage for about two years. i confessed about 2-3 times, and each time he said he still wanted to be friends. it sucked, i never moved on. at the end, it turns out he only wanted to use my body to get over his ex. (who he's still, to this day, in love with) the only thing i can recommend, is to always listen to how you're feeling, and to CONVEY those feelings to this person. Tell her EXACTLY how you feel; how staying her friend isn't helping you get over her, and how you probably need some time to yourself to get over them. Moreover, and from my own experience, if you fear that telling them how you feel will ruin/damage the relationship you hold now, and if you think that they'll only think "not again", then it probably isn't a completely healthy relationship in the first place. (again, this is all based on my own personal experience) truly, i wish you the best with this. If it EVER becomes too much for you to bear, remind yourself of that. You should NEVER put yourself through emotional hell for the idea that someone MIGHT like you back at some point. you are only neglecting your own feelings in doing so. I know you posted this comment almost a year ago, and so i hope that by now you're doing better :) if you ever need someone to talk to, my instagram is @xwisteria, i'm always open to dms :)
There was a girl in my class about a year or two ago and we got on so incredibly well! (One of my astrology friends chalked it up to me being an Aries and her being a Sag haha.) Every lesson we’d be sat next to each other laughing about the dumbest stuff. She got held behind that year and we kind of lost contact because she’s not on her phone often and I’m not a fan of talking over text. Everytime I’d see her in the halls, though, we’d stop to make small talk and my heart stuttered every single time. Then, when I dropped out, we didn’t really talk at all and I was sure that this was just a crush and it was done now. UNTIL she sent me a happy birthday text and gave me her Snapchat, and the past week we’ve been talking to each other every day on Sc and I still get butterflies. She’s coming over tomorrow for a late birthday celebration and I’m honestly so nervous. I feel like we have insanely good chemistry, and she’s also joked before about wanting to marry me and me being the only person she really talks to online. At this point I’m not sure if this is still just a crush or if I’ve really fallen in love. Most crushes I’ve had were over quickly but it’s been two years now and every single time we talk either irl or online I still get flustered😅
I havent seen her in like 5 years and my feelings for her did not change. I wanna tell her, hoping she would actually crush me so the nightmare is finally over...
I met this girl about 5-6 months ago, even though we’ve been on phone calls for 5 hours multiple times, I can’t help but get giddy and nervous. She just makes me so happy I don’t even have words half the time. I’m pretty sure I’m in love with her.
Update: she cut everything off with me and she left. She said she couldn’t talk to me anymore and wanted to stop what we had going on. It still has me in shock to this day. I don’t even know how to react.
my feelings for her never fade away, they just get burried down under the pretense that im mad at her. i love her eyes, her smile, her hair, her voice, her musical taste is way beyond what anybody else listens to. the way she talks is mesmerizing, and i really appreciate how smart she is. i dont think this is just a crush, it's been 2 months now and it's only getting stronger over time. i really wanna break down the awkwardness between us, maybe she doesnt like me, maybe she likes someone else already. im not the type to pursue a gril, but oh god how pretty she is. im fighting urges to write her peoms, to hold her soft hands, seal her sweet smile with my lips. i never knew what enamored meant until i saw myself in the mirror after seeing her, she makes my heart melt, and my brain go numb. i can't even think properly when i talk to her. she bewitched me, soul and brain. and now i dont even know if i'm madly in love with her, or genuinely mad at her. but how could i ever be mad at such an angelic being, for her eyes alone makes me experience universes and her smile foils a turmoil of feelings unforeseen to me. i thought about friendzoning her, telling her that she could never be more than just a friend and this all was just me flirting like i do with people i feel at ease with, but deep down, i know what i want, and i know it's her. i dont even know what to call this atp, but i know it's unforeseen to me, for this is the first time feeling this way even after 20 years of living, and many relationships experienced. im not socially anxious, i think im pretty for a guy, im confident in myself and talking to girls is second nature to me; but this time, something is different. im too tongue-tied to even have a proper thought whenever im talking to her, i might even look stupid yapping about whatevers and whatnots, while in reality, i know she's too shy so i have to make her comfortable by talking and making her talk too, but i seem not to find the right balance, and i think it is unsavable now. i hate her so much. i whole-heartedly love her. my feelings are such a mess. but i know this is not just a mere crush, for these measly human could never comprehend the deep affection and infatuation my feable heart got for her. i wanna love her like the movies, but i've been around females far too long to know that it's the best way to lose a woman, but i would still love to show her the extent i'd go to show her how much i love her. i would literally kill for her, and she wouldn't even believe that. P.S. : I wrote this while crying, i genuinely had to write down my thoughts. if u stumbled upon this, well thank you for reading this rant about my weird feelings. idk if it was the right decision to write my feelings down on the internet, but who cares. maybe this will serve as an archive, a portal to what my feelings were like at my 20s, 2 months before 2025. i probably wontconfess to her, for that would make the situation more awkward, especially since its a college setting, and i dont want it to ruin other relationships i have with other people. that would make the thing just more awkward. and yeah if you're reading this Chaymae, i love you. i love your eyes, your demeanor, your music taste, i love how weird you talk like u're unsure if u should've said the things u said moments ago ,it just adds to the charm. but hey, my ego won't let me go, head to ur house, scream ur name with a tulip bouquet, and talk with you about everyday shenanigans. i've already thought about doing that, the only obstacles are my friend, and my reason. but the heart has reasons that the reason can't reason with.
It was in middle school when I started to get a big crush on this girl in my class. I even worked up the courage to ask her out and she said yes! Sadly though, it was never followed up on, and she ended up getting with a boyfriend the last time I saw her which was back in sophomore year of high school. Instead of being jealous and resentful, I was happy for her and allowed myself to see the positives with someone who I enjoyed and admired so much being with someone who (hopefully) was the right fit for her! :) I have no idea where she is or even what she is doing now, but I do know her full name so I might be able to find that out if I ever wanted to.
For me it's really difficult if the person I like is a crush or love. After a few dates, it was a crush. Someday, I hope I will find the one where there's love and where I can feel that difference from a crush.
Love, she's the one person who can always make me happy even when I'm in a low. Her smile always lights up my day. I comfortable around her and know she won't judge me.
I really like him for who is he and I can see all his flaws, and our personalities mesh together really well. We click like no one else I have met. I’m scared to lose him. We are friends but I want to be more someday. Hopefully when he gets to know me better. I am a closed-off person but when I feel like it’s the right time, I’ll talk to him more seriously. I still consider this all a crush, but I think that I can someday love him too if I get to know him even better. He is precious to me.
I was not feeling energetic in the morning, so was just laying on sofa being lazy. But the sec you start to speak woah.. so cheerful, happy and positive 😍🤧 You just lit me 🔥🌟
This is so so good!! I like to ask the question: if you take away the physical attraction (or physical aspect of the relationship), do you see yourself genuinely being best friends and enjoying your time with this person? It can be difficult to be completely honest with yourself, but I promise it will save you a lot of heartache down the road ❤️
I'm pretty sure it was/is love, everything about her (eyes, smile, laugh, general quirky things about her) made my heart flutter and my mind would lose all its logic when she was there. But I was too scared to let her in (I set boundaries based on my past, scared of getting hurt or hurting her even) eventhough our chemistry was great I was afraid I would lose her friendship to this. In the end I self sabotaged and ended up pushing her away and I think I hurt her more than I could ever dread. I know for me it's something that haunted me years after the fact. If you feel the moment trust your gut and trust him or her, take a leap of faith before it's too late.
@@loekvanhoof6557 honestly, start small, anything worth having; any relationship is based on foundation. That needs time to get formed, and it takes both of you to do that. How and when you choose to divulge those feelings is up to you, just trust that you have something to offer. It's hard I know, but guess what the more you think about it the more considerate you are and you have a good heart these are all great things. Try to fight that inner demon within you against yourself, that will never go away (we all have it) but learning to live with that and challenging yourself is key to be happiness. You have a lot to offer, and In my experience .... if you see her (even if you haven't spoken to her) she sees you. Take your time and trust yourself, you will only achieve things by taking risks but how you go about it matters a lot cause if it's a person worth having around ... whatever happens don't let that go if their willing to stick around.
Have never been this early. But it has been 11 years and everytime I see her, it's like falling for her all over again. It definitely started out as a highschool crush though :p P.S. I am 24. And Psych2Go, thanks for making these videos. Even though they won't replace professional advice, they have helped me question some stuff about myself and how I handle certain situations and subsequently to work on them!
I fell in love within 11 days… even though I’ve only met them once 5 years ago. Now we don’t talk at all but I’m trying my best to move on… it’s a twin flame relationship and it hurts 😪
I once had a crush I idealized. After time away, I was thinking back on our good times together and realized: what good times? Yes, we had a nice friendship but I was actually in love with somebody who didn't exist. Years later I fell for somebody who I had no interest in at first sight (it was her co-worker I had a crush on). She was dating somebody else but it showed me what real chemistry was like.
It's recent. Her personality just feels right. I love her drive and passion, her strength and determination is absolutely amazing and she shares a bunch of common interests. I don't think it's a Crush but this is the second time ever that I have felt about someone this much.
I'm 56 years old. I've experienced or seen so many relationships begin and end, some that lasted for years, that I have started to wonder if being "in love" is even a real thing. Like maybe it's just something we convince ourselves of because we want so badly to be with one person forever. I would genuinely love not to be thinking this way, but I think time is running out for me.
Aww. I really hope you get to meet someone someday who will make you believe in love again, bring out the best in you, and will make you wonder why you ever doubted. 🌻
My girlfriend and I broke up after 5 years and she mentioned during the breakup that we were never in love, that it was just an infatuation. Months before I was looking at wedding rings. I hate life sometimes.
I remember I was shy the first few weeks that my partner and I were talking, and she probably was too, and I could not stop blushing and smiling like an idiot, but yeah overtime I was sold by her personality and their cozy brown eyes, I could just stare into her eyes all day, and they just make me smile🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
My bf confessed to me at September but I ask for time to think of it cuz I'm really bad at telling the difference between romantic and platonic love, now we r together and I'm very happy, I feel like the more I know him the more I like him. I hope this will last for the both of us ☺️
I believe that I have been in love once It was this girl I met online and we texted and voice chatted quite a bit To this day, I still have no clue what she looks like And that's okay, it wasn't and isn't a priority It was her personality Who she truly was That's what it was for me I don't really know if I'll ever feel about someone the way I did about her But it was some of the happiest memories of my life spending time with her
I’ll be honest, this did not help at all. I still have no idea if I have a crush or if I’m in love, because it’s kinda split in half for most of the questions
I have a crush on this guy I met in school 2 years back and now I think I'm in love with him . The feeling never fades away but became stronger with time .
excellent video : anything that clarifies the difference between attraction and a real lasting relationship between two persons is always good - thanks
I love your channel, they have helped me get through a lot, especially the anxiety and depression videos, I don't feel so alone, so it's less scary, you guys are awesomexx
Here’s the tricky part- I’ve known the girl I have feelings for, for about 9 years off and on, we’ve recently reconnected and I almost instantly started feeling for her (again) but I don’t know if this is just a crush, or love? It’s weird and tricky- I love who she is, and how she acts, I love those small little flaws and quirks, and more! But I don’t know how I feel about her yet- it’s weird and I just feel like- I’m so confused…
Can you love someone you used to talk to, but haven’t for years or is that infatuation? It feels like love but our memory could alter what we want to remember.
when i first met her, I legit don't feel anything AT ALL. and as time goes on (I always see her because we are church mates and at school), the fire inside my heart begins to grow as I see her being herself. Then we became friends because of a school project. I got a good feeling that this will end well in the near future 🥰. ALSO, I think she also likes me because at the end of church (I was the church pianist and she is the guitarist and a singer.), she asked me "Hey, play 'Oceans' " (It is a Christian song) then started to playfully hit me BUT we were not officially friends yet. I sat down to play piano then, GUESS WHAT? she LITTERALLY stood beside me SLANTING BESIDE ME. MY HEART WAS RACING. "C'mon hurry up, play it" telling me while playfully hitting my shoulder. I started to play the song's intro and when I hit the first chord of the first verse she started to sing. Her. Beautiful. Voice. ❤️ (btw this actually just happend this month alone.) I' am an 8th grade student and she is in 9th grade. 😊
i had a crush on someone for over 3 and a half years. it developed slowly but it ended suddenly. she had no feelings for me and i didnt tell her that i liked her. so i was happy when it was over :)
Started out as really awkward associates, and it took months for there to be any feelings at all. Later on me and my partner both realized how we felt from the very start and now we're together, and based off this video, I'd say it's in between infatuation and true love
I totally agree with all of the content of the video, but about the end, I must say that not all love takes time I believe in love on first sight, it's rare but real
Love lives within us. Always. We are the source of love. Another person is just a reflection of how much we are filled with love, how much we love ourselves. Infatuation or “falling in love” is just a phase when we are blinded by the fact that we are chosen by someone who we like, that’s why we don’t see clear in that stage. I would say the difference between falling in love and infatuation is that infatuation is more impulsive/obsessive, and falling in love is more rational/logical - and that difference depends on our attachment type with our parents, those who were deprived of attention and felt unworthy will always go for infatuation, but both can lead to relationships, that then will lead you to either love or hate, depending on your childhood. There’s no love without loving yourself first and that’s a skill that needs to be mastered everyday, I know it takes away all the romanticism, but that’s what it is.
I went for coffee at my church this afternoon and was served by this girl I'd never seen before but she was so sweet so i went back and sucked up my courage, gave her my number (my phone was flat) and now I'm nervously waiting for her to send a message. I hope she does we conversed a little and she seems so nice. That's a crush😉😂
Before quarantine, I found myself feeling a little...happy? whenever I looked at a kid in my class, who I used to sit next to. Now this confirmed my thoughts. Now I need to accept a reality where I fell in love for the first time when I was 12.
A crush fades until the next best thing comes, a crush is self fulfilling....love never fails, love would climb mountains, and overcome challenges for the one they love..
My first ever crush (I've had two crushes, counting this one) I had a crush on for 5 years, almost 6 years. I hid it though because they liked someone else (she's one of my friends. I also didn't admit to anyone besides my parents until this year) and she used to like them back. I'm not sure whether or not it was but I liked them for awhile until they started changing as a person for the worse as of last year. They're really falling down a bad rabbit hole now..
The last time I developed a crush was in Grade 2, and it went away quickly. Now, 7 years later, after not feeling any sort of crush/love attraction to anybody, I randomly develop a crush in 9th grade. This one has lasted a while, and the feelings and emotions have fluctuated.
im just a year 3 this year, and i like this someone a lot. my feelings started for him in year 1, but i lost feelings soon after but my feelings for him grew again in year 2 when i sat in front of him. we got very close and we talked everyday, even till today. u may say its just puppy love, crush, infatuation, whatever u call it. But i think that what i have now is abt to develop into true love. at most vulnerable moments, i cried because he wasnt by my side and that i missed him. i see him in my future, my family, the father of my kids, us old and sick and me reading newspapers by his side. he isnt perfect perfect to me, but ive come to realise that i can accept what i might not like about him, coz i like him so much, even if hes not perfect perfect, its still perfect in my eyes. i often tell myself at those low times where i considered if i shld give up on this crush i have, because i thought he doesnt have a quality i value soo much. maybe in the long run i can no longer like him as much, i thought. but i couldnt, if i liked him, all of him comes in a package. and i say this without doubt, i like him a lot. im not sure if its love yet, but i know i do like him alot
I dont know when i started liking him, but i think it was near when i was crying alone in the small doorway leading to the drama classroom, ive been friends with him for a while before then but he came in and comforted me, it might be because nobody has ever been that way to me before and overtime its grew, im trying to get to know fallout more since he loves that series, i dont know whether its a crush or love but ive felt this way for months
Guess I'm the first one here. anyways,I have notice that my feelings have expanded around or to think about someone I like.And my feelings never did that before but this video might have helped my problem if it is a crush or love
I really like your video so much. it’s very useful and informative. Can you try to make a video about how to make your true love feelings disappear from someone?
I think I'm slowly experiencing it... but the trouble is we have misunderstoods and that he is still probably insecure about how he feels, a friend told me that he said "I like and don't like her", still, called me " Pretty", looks at me a lot when I don't. Before, when we talked in real life, he was always trying to keep the conversation going until recess was over, he let me stay beside him one time and read a book he took to the college to me
Well, I desire my guy. When he texts me, I sometimes feel giddy and other times, I just think about what it means. I don't think he accepts me. I accept him. We have common values and interests, but not goals yet. I don't idealize him, but I admire him.
Is it crush or love? Comment below :)
It’s been 4 years…I don’t think it’s a crush anymore 😅💕
His eyes
His smile
His smell
His laugh
His built
His style
His touch
His hair
Both
Its love. I've been having a rough time with my boyfriend of almost 2 years now but we're both trying to get better and help each other with our own problems and grow with each other and we both appreciate each other and are always there for each other all couples have rough spots
Hope everyone is having a great day/night 💜💜
I'm somewhere in between 😶
Timestamps
1. 0:19 How long did it take you to develop feelings?
2. 0:54 Do you idealize the person?
3. 1:20 is your attraction just physical?
4. 1:41 do your feelings change?
5. 1:52 Is your relationship focused on desire or friendship?
How much time do u have ? LOL
Im worried I might love one of my friends
Thanks a lot!! 😊
It was really helpful... didn't want the long intro and found your comment:)
@@jellyricesamy1576 Just as much as u have for hate comments:)
@@supreetihegde8982 i don’t think that was a hate comment
I fell in love at 8, and 25 years later, I'm still in love with him
Aww
I love this
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IM GONNA CRY THATS SO SWEET😭
I fell for his shyness and good heart. These two things are what drew me closer to him in the first place.
Sameeee
I wish there were more girls like you
same
I like loud people with a good heart lol
Or maybe just a good heart in general and smarts
I was sold on my wife's smile. Met at a bus stop on a winter's night 28 years ago. Got talking and the rest is history. I wasn't planning on it. Some things were just meant to be I guess.
could you please share some of the talking lead to your relationship grow?
would love to hear, cus i'm maybe in your 28 years ago stage.
such as, when do you ask her out?
how do you approach her?
when do you say you like her n stuff..
and others. if you could.
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. It seems like it's impossible for men and women to emotionally connect with each other.
I heard that gay and lesbian couples are happier than straight couples are, and I heard that gay and lesbian relationships are healthier than straight relationships are. The more similar you are to someone, the more easier it is to bond and connect with them.
People of the same sex/gender understand each other more easily, and there are no inbuilt societal power imbalances as there are between opposite-sex couples. Gay and lesbian couples understand each other better than straight couples do (due to them being the same gender as each other).
I heard that most straight couples are not happy being together, and I heard that people who are straight are much happier and much better off being single than they are being in a romantic relationship.
@@icysnow57cold64Hello! I’m a bi person here and honestly even though I’m more attracted to girls (as a girl). Guys and girls can still bond quite nicely. My older sister is straight and has a boyfriend of 8 years (getting married soon!) and they act so well with each other. They’ve known each other since middle school and they both comfort each other well emotionally, they are basically best friends and have such similar thought processes and they have differences that complement each other quite nicely but also with much more similarities. Honestly it’s kind of nice to hear you put gay people in a nice light, especially because I’m so tired of people saying it’s unnatural and whatever, but honestly I really think love is love, and it doesn’t matter the genders of the people as long as they can connect in a loving way 💕
@@icysnow57cold64Personally, I feel like the difference in their minds is what draws them together. Gay and lesbian couples still think very differently from each other, because we are all different people. The major difference is that they understand each other’s emotions better, which is why gay/lesbian couples are usually healthier.
Back to the initial question, the brain is attracted to things it wants to know more about. Learning new things is what allows the brain to strengthen. The difference in their chemistry is what makes people fall in-love with each other in the first place. They see it more as a passion or admiration than a connection. It’s like when you see someone do cool tricks while roller skating, but you still have to use the helpers. They fall in-love simply because it’s something they don’t recognize, but they feel so drawn to it.
If anyone has a different perspective, I would love to hear.
If a man and woman cannot be bonded, then how did you get birth?@@icysnow57cold64
I love the Sunny x Aubrey reference :3
@@spreadlove894 0:26 & 0:49
Now that's pure
THIS IS THE ONLY COMMENT IVE SEEN ADRESSING THIS SO THANK YOU- 😭😭😭
I don't know who those two characters are, but I need to watch their story. What is this anime and how glorious is it?
@@ALittleLateLotusBlossom The characters are from a video game called Omori. The game can be a bit long, so if what you want to see is the story and the characters, I recommend that you watch a video that tells you about it. But if you dare to play it you will obviously have a better experience.
We remember stuff from 14 years ago when we were in school together, and I'll always support him just like he supports me. We are taking our time to make sure it is what we think it is.
Crush: A sudden or unexpected feeling of attraction or romantic desire for someone you've recently met.
Love: Strong feelings of affection and attachment towards a special person with a strong urge to spend as much time with them as possible.
Anyways, this is my idea of love and crush.
So basically crush is the start and then we gradually grow once we pass the initial talking stage?
I'm new to all of this and I want to understand because I care, but I have so many people giving suggestions on how to deal with this and it makes me feel like crap being distant to her to show her I am not so needy. I like your idea tho. Love is a bit more intense.
Mine is in between, It's not recent in fact it was 2 years ago but Meh. We still have contact and I sometimes talk to him. Idk I'm stuck between friendship, attraction, crush and mutual. And I also know someone who also had a crush on him and he used to have a crush lol. Idk it's confusing, I remember moving on but then it came back 4 some reason. sheesh.
@@littleforfeited With all due respect, please ask him out if you haven't already. You may be missing out on a great opportunity. And if he doesn't feel the same way at least you can move on with no regrets.
@@avidhossanmansur9830 I think I'm too young (I'm 13 and his 14) I feel like I'm ok with friends and I also don't wanna be in a relationship because I'm not mentally ready and I have some mental healh issues that im trying to cope rn.
@@littleforfeited You're right.
Sorry, I got the wrong idea from our reply.
I mean I wasn't ready to have a long-term relationship until I was 20.
when i was on grade 4, there’s a guy that I have a crush with. I like him for almost 2 years and idk if that is just a “crush” or maybe a puppy love...?
Which class are you in now
Dude same, I'm 21 now still didn't get over him 🙃
Oh damnnn same, it ended after 2 years because I changed my school...
I also don't know what it is with the guy I know.
So I can relate
@@ishaanvi_51 same I changed school but can't stop thinking abt him he always make me laugh but I have his contact tho but still idk whether we meet or not :(
whatever it is, i get so addicted to them
Love in general is really just something we'll personally have to learn overtime as even if we learn it from other's experiences, we won't actual know until it happens to us.
I feel experience in person is better than just hearing it from others, but it could work both ways.
I think of it as hearing from people who've experienced something before and we'll know what the answer to the problem in the end.
I agree. Currently dealing with this now!
When I was younger I always confused the two so I think this is perfect for younger viewers ☺️
I've had feelings for someone for 2 years now and I didn't at first, things were slow at first, we didn't talk much, I remember noticing flaws they had at first, and I thought they were physically attractive but I cared more about what we talked about and how we were around each other and stuff. I realized I started to crush on them and got the classic crush feelings, the butterflies, feeling great around them while also feeling incredibly nervous, and so on, and it was like that for a while but it's been a quite some time since then, we talk more, we get along really well, and there was a point when I couldn't see a thing wrong with them, they were perfect to me, but I'm seeing flaws again, nothing crazy, everyone has them, but my feelings are the same, idc about their flaws, I want to give them the world and I seriously care about them so much I care about her well being, about helping her about doing nice things for her and I think about her so much I dream about her and like, I've never felt so strongly about a person that I wasn't yet in a relationship with, idk if I've ever felt so much for someone, I think I'm actually in love and it's scary.
Same it was never that much love i had for someone it was weird, but then they moved schools and she got picked on and i wanted to move to that school so i could deal with that crap and to meet some of my old friends. But im still at my school enjoying life
Interestingly, this makes me think that it had to be love, when I liked the person I met. I didn't have feelings for them for some from the beginning of the school year, and later on. I will say that they were in a group and such, and I liked their behavior and looks, but I also wanted to get to know them better and would (if I could) have had married them. I'm hoping it wasn't infatuation, because the feelings were around for sometime.
Sort of the same thing happened to me, except it was a few years back there was this guy let’s call him Tamale, Tamale was great he was and still is my best guy friend. However his best friend likes him and it’s pretty obvious but at the same time he likes him I liked him and it was kinda a mutual thing. We only talked about it once and we decided just to stay friends because things were so complicated. But I still think he likes me and I think I like him. But the question is should I tell him? His best friend still likes me but also my EX best friend dated both of these guys, while I liked tamale. But it’s really weird and confusing.
This is exactly how I feel about the guy I like😭idc if he’s a little weird, he’s such a nerd and yaps about so much but I still love listening to him talk even if I don’t understand everything he’s saying lol he has such a kind soul and we’re even of the same religion. He makes my heart melt man so idk if this is still liking him or even I even love him
How are things? Did you two end up together?
I finally have a shot at true love, she makes me feel like I can finally be with someone for the rest of my life.
I’ve never trusted someone with my heart as much as her.
Y'all surely made lots of videos on the last 4 months, aand i guess imma watch them all! Im glad to see you guys keep improving over time and changing for the better with your channel
You are an amazing team!
I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THE VOICEOVER OF THIS VIDEO! IT'S A REFRESHING ONE! I also am glad that this video popped up because I am trying to figure out what I feel towards my crush 😳
i met a girl a few years ago and sort of recently realised i have some pretty big feelings for her and it's been freaking me out because it's completely different to any crushes i've had. usually if i like someone and i confess and they reject me, my confession actually helps me move on so i get over it fairly quick. but with this girl, even after confessing, my feelings for her haven't disappeared or changed, in fact they feel stronger. and what doesn't help is that she hasn't given me closure over her feelings for me, all she's told me is she wants to stick as friends (which i respect so i never push, but it's still difficult to deal with y'know). i've been rlly worried about my feelings for her because i've never had these feelings for anyone, and i think this vid basically told me that it's more than just a crush at this point. idk if i could call it love, i mean if it is i'm pretty sure it's one-sided, but this vid did help me a bit lol
Wish u get 2 sided....i cheer for u
i'm currently in your stage right now , and all of my research about this type of crushes and love.. just like vid said, takes time to know if they meant for us..
so i related to ur story a lot.
hope we can find our true love.
i know exactly how you feel, i went through this 'on edge' stage for about two years. i confessed about 2-3 times, and each time he said he still wanted to be friends. it sucked, i never moved on. at the end, it turns out he only wanted to use my body to get over his ex. (who he's still, to this day, in love with)
the only thing i can recommend, is to always listen to how you're feeling, and to CONVEY those feelings to this person. Tell her EXACTLY how you feel; how staying her friend isn't helping you get over her, and how you probably need some time to yourself to get over them. Moreover, and from my own experience, if you fear that telling them how you feel will ruin/damage the relationship you hold now, and if you think that they'll only think "not again", then it probably isn't a completely healthy relationship in the first place. (again, this is all based on my own personal experience)
truly, i wish you the best with this. If it EVER becomes too much for you to bear, remind yourself of that. You should NEVER put yourself through emotional hell for the idea that someone MIGHT like you back at some point. you are only neglecting your own feelings in doing so. I know you posted this comment almost a year ago, and so i hope that by now you're doing better :)
if you ever need someone to talk to, my instagram is @xwisteria, i'm always open to dms :)
I like how the video subtitles tell that these are about crashes and not crushes.
There was a girl in my class about a year or two ago and we got on so incredibly well! (One of my astrology friends chalked it up to me being an Aries and her being a Sag haha.) Every lesson we’d be sat next to each other laughing about the dumbest stuff. She got held behind that year and we kind of lost contact because she’s not on her phone often and I’m not a fan of talking over text. Everytime I’d see her in the halls, though, we’d stop to make small talk and my heart stuttered every single time. Then, when I dropped out, we didn’t really talk at all and I was sure that this was just a crush and it was done now. UNTIL she sent me a happy birthday text and gave me her Snapchat, and the past week we’ve been talking to each other every day on Sc and I still get butterflies. She’s coming over tomorrow for a late birthday celebration and I’m honestly so nervous. I feel like we have insanely good chemistry, and she’s also joked before about wanting to marry me and me being the only person she really talks to online. At this point I’m not sure if this is still just a crush or if I’ve really fallen in love. Most crushes I’ve had were over quickly but it’s been two years now and every single time we talk either irl or online I still get flustered😅
So, how did it go?
Bro that’s so nice ☺️
How’s it going now?
I havent seen her in like 5 years and my feelings for her did not change. I wanna tell her, hoping she would actually crush me so the nightmare is finally over...
An odd sense of hope tends to prevail over logic when you’re in love
So true
Brooooooo😭
It's just that like sense of a some weird lingering feeling inside
Exactly
Jesus loves you!❤✝️Repent and God bless
I met this girl about 5-6 months ago, even though we’ve been on phone calls for 5 hours multiple times, I can’t help but get giddy and nervous. She just makes me so happy I don’t even have words half the time. I’m pretty sure I’m in love with her.
Update: she cut everything off with me and she left. She said she couldn’t talk to me anymore and wanted to stop what we had going on. It still has me in shock to this day. I don’t even know how to react.
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my feelings for her never fade away, they just get burried down under the pretense that im mad at her. i love her eyes, her smile, her hair, her voice, her musical taste is way beyond what anybody else listens to. the way she talks is mesmerizing, and i really appreciate how smart she is. i dont think this is just a crush, it's been 2 months now and it's only getting stronger over time. i really wanna break down the awkwardness between us, maybe she doesnt like me, maybe she likes someone else already. im not the type to pursue a gril, but oh god how pretty she is. im fighting urges to write her peoms, to hold her soft hands, seal her sweet smile with my lips. i never knew what enamored meant until i saw myself in the mirror after seeing her, she makes my heart melt, and my brain go numb. i can't even think properly when i talk to her. she bewitched me, soul and brain. and now i dont even know if i'm madly in love with her, or genuinely mad at her. but how could i ever be mad at such an angelic being, for her eyes alone makes me experience universes and her smile foils a turmoil of feelings unforeseen to me. i thought about friendzoning her, telling her that she could never be more than just a friend and this all was just me flirting like i do with people i feel at ease with, but deep down, i know what i want, and i know it's her. i dont even know what to call this atp, but i know it's unforeseen to me, for this is the first time feeling this way even after 20 years of living, and many relationships experienced. im not socially anxious, i think im pretty for a guy, im confident in myself and talking to girls is second nature to me; but this time, something is different. im too tongue-tied to even have a proper thought whenever im talking to her, i might even look stupid yapping about whatevers and whatnots, while in reality, i know she's too shy so i have to make her comfortable by talking and making her talk too, but i seem not to find the right balance, and i think it is unsavable now. i hate her so much. i whole-heartedly love her. my feelings are such a mess. but i know this is not just a mere crush, for these measly human could never comprehend the deep affection and infatuation my feable heart got for her. i wanna love her like the movies, but i've been around females far too long to know that it's the best way to lose a woman, but i would still love to show her the extent i'd go to show her how much i love her. i would literally kill for her, and she wouldn't even believe that.
P.S. : I wrote this while crying, i genuinely had to write down my thoughts. if u stumbled upon this, well thank you for reading this rant about my weird feelings. idk if it was the right decision to write my feelings down on the internet, but who cares. maybe this will serve as an archive, a portal to what my feelings were like at my 20s, 2 months before 2025. i probably wontconfess to her, for that would make the situation more awkward, especially since its a college setting, and i dont want it to ruin other relationships i have with other people. that would make the thing just more awkward.
and yeah if you're reading this Chaymae, i love you. i love your eyes, your demeanor, your music taste, i love how weird you talk like u're unsure if u should've said the things u said moments ago ,it just adds to the charm. but hey, my ego won't let me go, head to ur house, scream ur name with a tulip bouquet, and talk with you about everyday shenanigans. i've already thought about doing that, the only obstacles are my friend, and my reason. but the heart has reasons that the reason can't reason with.
woah, hope things go out the best for you!
It was in middle school when I started to get a big crush on this girl in my class. I even worked up the courage to ask her out and she said yes! Sadly though, it was never followed up on, and she ended up getting with a boyfriend the last time I saw her which was back in sophomore year of high school. Instead of being jealous and resentful, I was happy for her and allowed myself to see the positives with someone who I enjoyed and admired so much being with someone who (hopefully) was the right fit for her! :) I have no idea where she is or even what she is doing now, but I do know her full name so I might be able to find that out if I ever wanted to.
Every time I see an Omori reference, my heart skips a beat.
For me it's really difficult if the person I like is a crush or love. After a few dates, it was a crush. Someday, I hope I will find the one where there's love and where I can feel that difference from a crush.
Love, she's the one person who can always make me happy even when I'm in a low. Her smile always lights up my day. I comfortable around her and know she won't judge me.
I really like him for who is he and I can see all his flaws, and our personalities mesh together really well. We click like no one else I have met. I’m scared to lose him. We are friends but I want to be more someday. Hopefully when he gets to know me better. I am a closed-off person but when I feel like it’s the right time, I’ll talk to him more seriously. I still consider this all a crush, but I think that I can someday love him too if I get to know him even better. He is precious to me.
great to know of your story. I hope it all comes great.. wishes
I wonder how your channel uploads so frequently- I love it, thanks for all your tips and recommendations!!
I was not feeling energetic in the morning, so was just laying on sofa being lazy. But the sec you start to speak woah.. so cheerful, happy and positive 😍🤧 You just lit me 🔥🌟
This is so so good!! I like to ask the question: if you take away the physical attraction (or physical aspect of the relationship), do you see yourself genuinely being best friends and enjoying your time with this person? It can be difficult to be completely honest with yourself, but I promise it will save you a lot of heartache down the road ❤️
You should do a video about how to reject someone hurting them the least possible
I'm pretty sure it was/is love, everything about her (eyes, smile, laugh, general quirky things about her) made my heart flutter and my mind would lose all its logic when she was there.
But I was too scared to let her in (I set boundaries based on my past, scared of getting hurt or hurting her even) eventhough our chemistry was great I was afraid I would lose her friendship to this. In the end I self sabotaged and ended up pushing her away and I think I hurt her more than I could ever dread. I know for me it's something that haunted me years after the fact.
If you feel the moment trust your gut and trust him or her, take a leap of faith before it's too late.
@@loekvanhoof6557 honestly, start small, anything worth having; any relationship is based on foundation. That needs time to get formed, and it takes both of you to do that. How and when you choose to divulge those feelings is up to you, just trust that you have something to offer. It's hard I know, but guess what the more you think about it the more considerate you are and you have a good heart these are all great things.
Try to fight that inner demon within you against yourself, that will never go away (we all have it) but learning to live with that and challenging yourself is key to be happiness. You have a lot to offer, and In my experience .... if you see her (even if you haven't spoken to her) she sees you. Take your time and trust yourself, you will only achieve things by taking risks but how you go about it matters a lot cause if it's a person worth having around ... whatever happens don't let that go if their willing to stick around.
Sounds more like infatuation to me.
Have never been this early. But it has been 11 years and everytime I see her, it's like falling for her all over again. It definitely started out as a highschool crush though :p
P.S. I am 24. And Psych2Go, thanks for making these videos. Even though they won't replace professional advice, they have helped me question some stuff about myself and how I handle certain situations and subsequently to work on them!
i like the same girl since i was 9, now i’m 19, and my feelings are so so strong
I fell in love within 11 days… even though I’ve only met them once 5 years ago. Now we don’t talk at all but I’m trying my best to move on… it’s a twin flame relationship and it hurts 😪
Woah why aren't there any comments? This video is exactly what I was looking for.
Because you commented 11 days before it existed
@@Satibogurl-Sat lol
@@Satibogurl-Sat lol it existed it was just unlisted
I once had a crush I idealized. After time away, I was thinking back on our good times together and realized: what good times? Yes, we had a nice friendship but I was actually in love with somebody who didn't exist. Years later I fell for somebody who I had no interest in at first sight (it was her co-worker I had a crush on). She was dating somebody else but it showed me what real chemistry was like.
It's recent. Her personality just feels right. I love her drive and passion, her strength and determination is absolutely amazing and she shares a bunch of common interests. I don't think it's a Crush but this is the second time ever that I have felt about someone this much.
you really upload the right topics to the right time. Thank you!!
Thx for that! I've been starting to catch feelings for a friend in my friend group but wasn't sure if I was just crushing or in love.
The animation is beautiful 😍
I can't be the only one who noticed the Sunny and Aubrey references at 0:23 and 0:49 right? Such an underrated game
These signs aren't clear enough but I know I'm in love because my feelings have never died down just grown 😍🥰
I'm 56 years old. I've experienced or seen so many relationships begin and end, some that lasted for years, that I have started to wonder if being "in love" is even a real thing. Like maybe it's just something we convince ourselves of because we want so badly to be with one person forever.
I would genuinely love not to be thinking this way, but I think time is running out for me.
Aww. I really hope you get to meet someone someday who will make you believe in love again, bring out the best in you, and will make you wonder why you ever doubted. 🌻
I love how peppy and happy this voice over sounds
My girlfriend and I broke up after 5 years and she mentioned during the breakup that we were never in love, that it was just an infatuation. Months before I was looking at wedding rings. I hate life sometimes.
I'm sorry, I hope you can move on and get over it as fast as you can imagine.
@@thaiavssts Thank you. I hate that I will never be able to trust like that again
Same bro. Seven years to be told she didn't love me anymore.
@@Moonless6491 Awful
I remember I was shy the first few weeks that my partner and I were talking, and she probably was too, and I could not stop blushing and smiling like an idiot, but yeah overtime I was sold by her personality and their cozy brown eyes, I could just stare into her eyes all day, and they just make me smile🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
really nice to know i have 4-5/5 of these
Edit: OH MY GOD MY CRUSH JUST SUBTLY CONFESSED THROUGH A VIDEOGAME HOW IS THIS REALITY
I really love this channel its so entertaining and you can enjoy in here
Psych2Go really had to bring up the important questions about life at 2:03
Milk first and cats are the correct answers to those questions, and no one can change my mind
@@virusmisashi9911 Agreed
I I’m really curios about this and I love the game Omori!So thank you for making this video!
0:48 mann Sunny that's really cute, and thanks for the video really helpful.
So, I finally can say... it was just a crush. Thanks for this video
they making money over the same thing over and over..... and im all here for it :)
Love the omori parts. Good job animator!
My bf confessed to me at September but I ask for time to think of it cuz I'm really bad at telling the difference between romantic and platonic love, now we r together and I'm very happy, I feel like the more I know him the more I like him. I hope this will last for the both of us ☺️
I believe that I have been in love once
It was this girl I met online and we texted and voice chatted quite a bit
To this day, I still have no clue what she looks like
And that's okay, it wasn't and isn't a priority
It was her personality
Who she truly was
That's what it was for me
I don't really know if I'll ever feel about someone the way I did about her
But it was some of the happiest memories of my life spending time with her
You just referenced one of my favorite games- eEEEEEEEE Y E S also love the contents you make :))
Omg love how they used Aubrey x Sunny
Remember : Love can't exist without friendship and trust ❤. Attraction is mostly a distraction but love is growth.
I’ll be honest, this did not help at all. I still have no idea if I have a crush or if I’m in love, because it’s kinda split in half for most of the questions
the omori in the beginning 🙏🏻‼️
I have a crush on this guy I met in school 2 years back and now I think I'm in love with him . The feeling never fades away but became stronger with time .
excellent video : anything that clarifies the difference between attraction and a real lasting relationship between two persons is always good - thanks
I love your channel, they have helped me get through a lot, especially the anxiety and depression videos, I don't feel so alone, so it's less scary, you guys are awesomexx
“What is love?… Baby don’t hurt me no more.”
Here’s the tricky part- I’ve known the girl I have feelings for, for about 9 years off and on, we’ve recently reconnected and I almost instantly started feeling for her (again) but I don’t know if this is just a crush, or love? It’s weird and tricky- I love who she is, and how she acts, I love those small little flaws and quirks, and more! But I don’t know how I feel about her yet- it’s weird and I just feel like- I’m so confused…
Can you love someone you used to talk to, but haven’t for years or is that infatuation? It feels like love but our memory could alter what we want to remember.
when i first met her, I legit don't feel anything AT ALL. and as time goes on (I always see her because we are church mates and at school), the fire inside my heart begins to grow as I see her being herself. Then we became friends because of a school project. I got a good feeling that this will end well in the near future 🥰. ALSO, I think she also likes me because at the end of church (I was the church pianist and she is the guitarist and a singer.), she asked me "Hey, play 'Oceans' " (It is a Christian song) then started to playfully hit me BUT we were not officially friends yet. I sat down to play piano then, GUESS WHAT? she LITTERALLY stood beside me SLANTING BESIDE ME. MY HEART WAS RACING. "C'mon hurry up, play it" telling me while playfully hitting my shoulder. I started to play the song's intro and when I hit the first chord of the first verse she started to sing. Her. Beautiful. Voice. ❤️ (btw this actually just happend this month alone.) I' am an 8th grade student and she is in 9th grade. 😊
i had a crush on someone for over 3 and a half years. it developed slowly but it ended suddenly. she had no feelings for me and i didnt tell her that i liked her. so i was happy when it was over :)
Also this is exactly how I feel. We meet all 10 and I’m always wondering if it’s too good to be true. So in love
Started out as really awkward associates, and it took months for there to be any feelings at all. Later on me and my partner both realized how we felt from the very start and now we're together, and based off this video, I'd say it's in between infatuation and true love
I totally agree with all of the content of the video, but about the end, I must say that not all love takes time
I believe in love on first sight, it's rare but real
Love lives within us. Always. We are the source of love. Another person is just a reflection of how much we are filled with love, how much we love ourselves. Infatuation or “falling in love” is just a phase when we are blinded by the fact that we are chosen by someone who we like, that’s why we don’t see clear in that stage. I would say the difference between falling in love and infatuation is that infatuation is more impulsive/obsessive, and falling in love is more rational/logical - and that difference depends on our attachment type with our parents, those who were deprived of attention and felt unworthy will always go for infatuation, but both can lead to relationships, that then will lead you to either love or hate, depending on your childhood. There’s no love without loving yourself first and that’s a skill that needs to be mastered everyday, I know it takes away all the romanticism, but that’s what it is.
I went for coffee at my church this afternoon and was served by this girl I'd never seen before but she was so sweet so i went back and sucked up my courage, gave her my number (my phone was flat) and now I'm nervously waiting for her to send a message. I hope she does we conversed a little and she seems so nice. That's a crush😉😂
1:16 lego blocks face is soo cute >_
Aww Omori!! I love seeing all the references here!
Okay, how big is the Psych2Go team? I really want to know.
Today was good. Today was fun. Tomorrow is another one.
I truly needed this
I mean it was going on for TWO YEARS NOW and just NOW it’s kicking in
I already love how I get a few minutes in there was a omori reference with Aubrey and omori/sunny
Before quarantine, I found myself feeling a little...happy? whenever I looked at a kid in my class, who I used to sit next to. Now this confirmed my thoughts. Now I need to accept a reality where I fell in love for the first time when I was 12.
A crush fades until the next best thing comes, a crush is self fulfilling....love never fails, love would climb mountains, and overcome challenges for the one they love..
ok so i am finally relieved that its just a crush
same i was going crazy
My first ever crush (I've had two crushes, counting this one) I had a crush on for 5 years, almost 6 years. I hid it though because they liked someone else (she's one of my friends. I also didn't admit to anyone besides my parents until this year) and she used to like them back. I'm not sure whether or not it was but I liked them for awhile until they started changing as a person for the worse as of last year. They're really falling down a bad rabbit hole now..
The last time I developed a crush was in Grade 2, and it went away quickly. Now, 7 years later, after not feeling any sort of crush/love attraction to anybody, I randomly develop a crush in 9th grade. This one has lasted a while, and the feelings and emotions have fluctuated.
MG love the new art style
I was JUST discussing with my friend TODAY about love vs infatuation and then you pull up with this
(I sent it to them btw)
I LOVVVVE THE OMORI CHARACTERS
I fell in love with him the moment i met him. And after 9 months i still love him
Love ❤️ is the greatest. Choose love ❤️.
im just a year 3 this year, and i like this someone a lot. my feelings started for him in year 1, but i lost feelings soon after but my feelings for him grew again in year 2 when i sat in front of him. we got very close and we talked everyday, even till today. u may say its just puppy love, crush, infatuation, whatever u call it. But i think that what i have now is abt to develop into true love. at most vulnerable moments, i cried because he wasnt by my side and that i missed him. i see him in my future, my family, the father of my kids, us old and sick and me reading newspapers by his side. he isnt perfect perfect to me, but ive come to realise that i can accept what i might not like about him, coz i like him so much, even if hes not perfect perfect, its still perfect in my eyes. i often tell myself at those low times where i considered if i shld give up on this crush i have, because i thought he doesnt have a quality i value soo much. maybe in the long run i can no longer like him as much, i thought. but i couldnt, if i liked him, all of him comes in a package. and i say this without doubt, i like him a lot. im not sure if its love yet, but i know i do like him alot
I dont know when i started liking him, but i think it was near when i was crying alone in the small doorway leading to the drama classroom, ive been friends with him for a while before then but he came in and comforted me, it might be because nobody has ever been that way to me before and overtime its grew, im trying to get to know fallout more since he loves that series, i dont know whether its a crush or love but ive felt this way for months
Guess I'm the first one here.
anyways,I have notice that my feelings have expanded around or to think about someone I like.And my feelings never did that before but this video might have helped my problem if it is a crush or love
I really like your video so much. it’s very useful and informative. Can you try to make a video about how to make your true love feelings disappear from someone?
I think I'm slowly experiencing it... but the trouble is we have misunderstoods and that he is still probably insecure about how he feels, a friend told me that he said "I like and don't like her", still, called me " Pretty", looks at me a lot when I don't.
Before, when we talked in real life, he was always trying to keep the conversation going until recess was over, he let me stay beside him one time and read a book he took to the college to me
I fell for his personality months ago, I am only now just realising his gorgeous shining blue eyes
Well, I desire my guy. When he texts me, I sometimes feel giddy and other times, I just think about what it means. I don't think he accepts me. I accept him. We have common values and interests, but not goals yet. I don't idealize him, but I admire him.