How I built my confidence [it’s a process]
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I'm Joanna Franco, aka Jo, a multilingual storyteller, documentarian, language lover, and lifelong learner. If it's going to grow my mind, wellness, global understanding, finances, or love, I'm all about it. You may know me from my Netflix Show, The World's Most Amazing Vacation Rentals, or from Shut Up and Go, my former channel and company with over 1.2 million subscribers and 600+ videos in travel! Welcome to the next chapter.
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I love your vids...those outfits were lovely!!! My life experiences and teaching a class of mini adults (4 year olds) have made me more confident.
Jo Jo, can you talk about confidence of entering countries of not knowing the language. I traveled most of my life and let me tell you. I don’t know why when I travel to new places, I feel overwhelmed and insecure that I do not know their language. Is this normal to feel that way?
Hey, Jo! Tudo bem? Sou professora de inglês aqui no Brasil (Recife) e gostaria de usar você como exemplo nas minhas aulas sobre trabalhar em um país estrangeiro e ter sucesso mesmo sendo imigrante. Se você puder/quiser me ajudar nisso, um simples vídeo ou um textinho falando sobre essa jornada (em inglês mesmo) significaria o MUNDO pra mim. Você me inspira muito e tenho certeza que terá o mesmo impacto nelas.
Meu instagram é @sejanativa :)
I started to become more confident when I realized there’s no reason why I shouldn’t be.
Me too !!
exactly, what helped me a lot is realizing that people don't really care about you.
Your account is so underrated, I hope more people find this quality content!!
@@jofranco aww
I am 30 years old but still virgen
@@jofranco be more consistent Jo!
I just found it now and am in love..
the "fake it till you make it" is really impressive once you actually implement it to daily life . its weird because after some time (not even that long) you actually don't have to "lie" to yourself because you really do end up loving every aspect of your being. it takes time to train our minds into seeing the positive, but its always been there.
also i've been told that when you immediately start to point out the negative and judge other people/strangers, your mind is trained to do only that. then when you look in a mirror your brain will inadvertently do the same to yourself. once you see the beauty in other people, its easier to see yours. brain will be nice 2u:)
This is what the internet is made for.
This video felt like a hug. I’ve been struggling with self-confidence so much and I really needed this. ❤️
sending you another virtual hug
i love ur filming space
I'm so excited to show the tour of it! Have so many videos to edit 😂
I am 30 years old but still virgen
Yes to the toxic productivity!! I was so glad you mentioned that!! It’s real and the pressure is there!
This is a gem. "You need to know what's your definition of ENOUGH".
You know what, Jo....thank you for being REAL. Confidence is so much more complicated than the "love yourself" speech! It's about self-knowledge, putting in the work, letting go of habits and trauma, opportunities...and in different levels, building it is painful and scary for most of us. But definitely worth it. I hope to get there soon, and I wish everyone the best of luck in their journey!! We make each other better.
I start watching their show on Netflix and I noticed there something about her. I started looking her up in social media and boom I can't stop watching her contents. Keep it up jo!!
I'm always happy when I see her in her OWN HOUSE
"Defining your own enough" - I LOVE the way you phrased this. A really great way of making sure that we're striving towards our own goals and wants, and not what society tells you they should be. Thanks for this video Jo, super helpful!
All of this was so true!! I just went to an event on Imposter's syndrome and they also talked about journaling. I was so surprised by how much I learned about myself from journaling- including how I'm motivated more by negative thoughts because I used to think that was the only way I could be better. And it's forcing me to go more on faith and trusting that positive thoughts will be more effective. It can be scary, but sometimes it just requires you to turn off your brain and go with it. Still working on it, but at least its getting better - I never thought it would.
Ohhhhhh this is a whole Masterclass Jo!
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I agree it's not always about the outside, but I feel confident when I take care of my skin, have my eyebrows nice and my nails painted. Also I love journaling, it allows me to process my thoughts and let go of any negative feelings and worries; the burden gets light after I release it on the page ✨
Jo you are truly a gem. I've been doing a hypnosis that supposed to help boost confidence for a little over 2 weeks now and it seems like this video has the perfect timing. thank you so much for just existing
Sweet ladyyyy! Thank you! I always appreciate seeing your comments!
I NEEDED this! I swear you can read minds Jo haha. Love this type of content, watching your videos feels like chatting with the older sister I never had 💛
Thank you for watching
I really took the time to note my positive traits and to shut out my inner negative Nancy. That combination taught me to value how amazing of a person I truly am.
OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I AM SO EXCITED I FOUND YOU!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL. Just uplifting, funny and motivating.....OH AND HOW DO I FORGET TRANSPARENT AND REAL! Thank you!
❤️❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍 welcome to the family
I discovered your channel because Olly Richards talked about you. You make a beautiful work, it's very inspiring, very knowledgeable and very well-thought. Thanks to you I started to journal again ❤❤❤
Thank youuuuu for watching 💜😍
Thank you Jo! I feel like I've found you at the right time of my life. I'm soon quitting my job to work on my own business, and for the first time in my life actually listening to what I want to do (not my parents, or friends, or "society). Your videos always motivate me and make me more confident that I'm not making a mistake.
I feel confident when I wear an outfit I put together or I get a sing a song well. I love that you make lifestyle videos and you radiate confidence. I will absorb some today :)
The best book e-v-e-r on confidence and building your "skill stack" that I’ve read is “How to Fail at Almost Everything and Still Win Big” . You are touching on some of its themes. I wish they taught it’s lessons and insighs in school. Great Video Jo.
For me, the fact I am the biggest blusher stops me being my most confident self. As soon as I’m in any situation out of my comfort zone My face will go bright red and I feel I’ve given away my cover of being confident. Anyone else feel the same?
Full coverage concealer baby 🥰
The Half Brazilian I love. Keep it up, you help me a lot.
I just subscribe to you, you made my day. We need more of these vibes on the internet. Thank you and God bless you.
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This girl makes so many awesome videos... totally entrepreneur material
i’ve been subscribed for so long and i love seeing your growth as a creator and human
i just wanna say i adore this video a lot. keep sharing your light n love w the world 💞
I have been ....... SO ......... incredibly SAD. Not after watching this!! Thank you! Found this today 3/9/2021 You are amazing. Just what i needed and funny and positive. i am tired 😫of this pandemic!! Anyway, i do go to ongoing professional therapy but this is nice and not clinical like therapy can be. i feel confident when i wear a pretty outfit or new sneakers and get a compliment.
I Love This!❤❤ ... I struggle with confidence & self-trust, because I'm always focused on pleasing/benefiting other people. (Don't know if anyone else can relate)
What makes me more confident is consistently asking myself if "this" is what I really want and allowing myself to pause & reflect before making decisions.
Thanks Jo!
absolutely loving your self growth and self love content these days, jo 💌
Ooh that definition of enough is so crucial. The reason I'm feeling myself more than ever is because I know who I am, what I will and will not stand for and do things intentionally that bring joy, however big or small to my everyday.
thank you Jo!! love your videos!
This is the quality of utube am looking for. Thk you💟
Trusting my ability to follow through and finish what I started is what makes me confident. And in the cases that I don't succeed I'm not hard on myself and I just let it go. btw your intro is so good!
your energy is amazing Jo!
Girl!!! You a freaking star. Love you so much
I am lovingggg all the Jo we’ve been getting lately ♥️
so good, thank you! one of my goals for the year is to build more confidence and you just gave me allllll the tools.
“have no fear; go persevere”
thank you, jo, i needed that💕
I love your videos so much!! They are a mood booster for ME! LOL you are a serious role model to people, even if you don’t think you are. I love the fact that you brought up about being confident in a skill because I definitely feel my most confident when I am in my work / element. Still working on a lot of other things to be confident about but glad I know I have a building block. Thanks for sharing this video, Jo!!! Happy Saturday 💕
Jo just embodies elegance and confidence ♡
I don't know the last time I hit the subscribe button so fast, just partway through the video I knew this was some stuff I really needed to hear. Awesome work!
Thank god your posting more often so i can finally get my daily does of jo🥰🥰🥰
yes Jo, write that book!!! I love this video!! surrounding myself with my friends and having those deep authentic conversations definitely make me more confidence and feel better about life in general! :)
Thank you Jo this was so so helpful! Especially the tip about writing down what's enough. We're so encouraged to dream big that we lose sight of ourselves. This is a really good way to organise our ambitions in to realistic, manageable goals.
I just paused the video to say its message is so meaningful to me, that my heart started to beat a little faster 💖 thanks, Jo!
I feel like I’ve been plugged in and fully charged! Your energy is everything! Thanks you wonderful woman
Another wonderful video of wisdom to add to my life guide playlist- thank you!☺️
Love you sis so much! My smile makes me feel confident
I took down notes. This is what I needed right now. Trusting myself. Thanks!
I absolutely adore this video, thank you xx
Congratulations on 100K ... and now beyond!
PLEASE WRITE THAT BOOK!!! Would LOVE to read ANY book from Jo
I agree so much - taking the best care of myself and learning skills boost my confidence so much 🙌🏼 also keeping my space tidy. Wanna challenge myself to face my fears more 😌
I love your energy! Thanks for creating this video, so many amazing insights! New subscriber!
Your confidence is 🔥
Needed a dose of good Jo energy today + this video was right on time. Thank you!
I just truly enjoy this woman’s vibe
I really needed this. Thank you for making another great video!
Wow! Where has this channel been all my life?🙌 I'm subscribing! 👏👏
i didnt realize i needed this ;; thank you!! i just started journaling and my spiritual journey and this is definitely something to think about im excited ahh // i hope its not weird to ask but id love to see a video about detaching yourself from people/ how to cut people off as you mentioned. ive been seeing lots of people talk about attachment styles but id love to hear your take on it
I compare myself to you but only in a positive way sometimes I’m legit in a situation and I’m over here like “what would Jo do??” And then I do that 😌😌 you are my INSPIRATION and I’m talking language, fitness, business, mindset AND travel over here I’ve been watching you since the beginning of your French Friday days and I’m still going strong 😩😩✊✊ love you jo thank you for the constant inspiration!!!
😍 thank you for being here!
AYEE! Yes to the INTRO and your whole vibe!!
thank you so much Jo!!! I have an interview tomorrow and this made me feel a lot better.
Thank you for no commercials and excellent advice 😊
You’re so wonderful, this video is incredible xx
Love your words and love Madewell! Looking lovely and I appreciate all of your realness, Jo! :)
Thank you Jo!
Coffee fuels confidence and awareness.
so happy to see you posting regularly again =,)
I'm so glad I found this, thank you ❤
Yeeeey a new video ! I was about to start your sport routine 🥰🥰
I love this
Thinking that I'm literally working with something that I have always dreamt of make me feel confident.
Also, que medo do café cair todo em você hahaha amando seus vídeos, Jo.
Yes Jo! They tie into your ideas, but I also feel that a sense of community, plus a sense of moving forward/progressing, really helps with confidence 😁
I totally agree! couldn't have said it better
Absolutely love this video, I always walk away with so many gems but this one was especially great - I had to take down some notes!!! Love the vibes, the content, all of it! Thank you ❤️❤️
Realizing that I have made a lot of progress in my own growth and have gained skills - helps me feel more confident which leads to feeling cute and WANTING to look cute :)
Thank you jo!
This is really helpful. Thanks gal for always bringing good content
This is amazing ❤️ thank you!
Yay we love big sister Jo advice
love the way you emphasized trusting oneself as the definition of confidence! we so often forget that's what it means and that its not about looks. actually the more courageous you become the more you become outwardly beautiful in return. love the sentiment THANKS for the reminder Jo. you the bomb baby
❤️❤️❤️ it’s totally about the trust! Nothing to do with the physical!
I’m so glad I found your channel ☀️
Welcome ❤️❤️
I'm not so weeew with words but you are amazing 💛
You hit all ✔s, thanks for sharing! 🙂💛
OKAY!! come on intro! loving the educational content
THANKS SO MUCH. Gave me a good push today
I needed this today.
This decor though.... Ma'am! We need the tour! 😍
using my voice. oh my god. literally singing and posting it has made me so much more confident.
REALLY FANTASTIC VIDEO!!!!
When I can make myself and even one other person laugh or smile cause that means we are livin life together makin it through
Go Jo! Break it down sista lol I love it!
Thank you Jo!
Thank you for these tips ❤️😊
You're so inspiring😍😍😍😍💙
So I need to buy new clothes and do more things that make me happy lol. Def not the most confident time in life during covid having temporary jobs and having to move back in with family but its something I need to work on. Glad you made a vid on this
Accomplishing tasks makes me confident 😃
OBRIGADAAAA! Lately in my language learning journey confidence has been my biggest obstacle. You are the BEST!
I should make a video about "why you're still not fluent in a new language"
@@jofranco YESSSS! Like I am fluent in spanish in the comfort of my own home. But I talk to someone real and it's gone. Brain empty
I really needed to hear this today 😣