Stop Trying to Understand Her

What we as men need to understand about women is that we don’t understand women.
Reel in the mental energy you spend on trying to understand her and use that energy to understand yourself instead. Watch the whole video to find out what I mean.
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[@nico3641]

When Roger Sterling, from Mad Men was asked, what do women want, he answered: “who cares!”

[@nickbyrne2437]

This message needs to be shared more widely.
We need more men who are brave enough to honestly examine ourselves as men, and then make the tough decisions, changes and actions that come about from this introspection.

[@realBeltalowda]

Definitely been experiencing this. The woman I’ve been dating has been bringing out all kinds of learning and lessons for me

[@suzake2]

I didn't realize how different i was around her until my wife left for 5 days and i took care of the kids by myself, i was more motivated patient happy and involved with my kids.
Its hard to know what to do with this information, i think she makes me a better person in the long run but worse when she's around

[@tarap2825]

Wow. This was incredible. I pray someday I can meet a man who could effectively communicate who he becomes and thinks in response to being around me. I think that in turn would help me understand myself and my place in a man’s life.

[@TheNotoriousFonzy]

This channel is criminally underrated. Really thought-inspiring video.
Never thought to ask myself these kinds of questions when I'm around women but I think I'm getting there!

[@isanivelasquez6043]

Well said!

[@Campion565sc]

I became very insecure around a previous gf (a DA) then I became a f’n stud around the next one (a secure).

[@nilehawkins7878]

Great perspective

[@jakobmyrhoej134]

spot on! well explained wisdom to live by.

[@aalvarez305]

Thank you for such a profound lesson.

[@chrisrae00]

Awesome thought provoking question

[@SS-vu4yu]

Great video...

[@loulou7044]

yes you ae explaining it correctly--curiosity and caring

[@jamesmartin2814]

Good stuff.

[@brianalonso9188]

What a great video

[@mattemenheiser6911]

Haha... Where do i get one of those sharpening stone????
Great helpful insightful video!!!

[@Firerose101]

I have been around the world and found that men have the same experiences with women regardless of race, language, culture. There is a human nature element that transcends all of that. So yes, there is a congruent framework that, in general, can be applied to all women.

[@alequ83]

Great idea with connecting shadow to womans roll.

[@madhatter5147]

I think it's great advice for the whole human race, not just for man.

[@cnbrauns]

Awesome

[@brianhoyt3780]

I disagree and here's why. It helps to understand how they are because I don't take what they say personally. It helps to understand when they are attempting to shame me for something I did or did not do or when I express how I am feeling about a situation. I'm 64 years old. I was with my wife for 20+ years. I don't need that experience again. I am tired when I come home from work. I don't need another battle.

[@mindfulmagician7550]

Then you kind of missed the point. You kind of said it so I’ll attempt to transcribe it for you: you become a person who becomes emotional unstable when your ex wife used to provoke you and have difficulty sharing your perspective about things because you were affected by her reactions. You’re unable to, at the time, to be able to lead the interaction to a resolution because you felt that the only way to do so was to understand her. Read his book, this topic totally reveals the things we’re avoiding and not wanting to admit or confront within ourselves. It sounds like the relationships is done and you’re probably at peace already, but it’s still great to walkthrough and see how things could’ve been different if you knew how to influence the right things in your control.

[@williamsandbach2203]

Commonsensically Brilliant !!

[@PhilipTheHunter]

Is a partner that brings out all the things you don't want to see, not just bad partners? I feel whenever I need therapy when I'm in a relationship, it's because they were unstable and/or they wanted me to be someone I wasn't.

[@Potato_Gnocchi]

"Don't try to understand women, son. Women understand women, and they hate each other." Al Bundy (via H.L. Mencken)

[@urbanart7325]

What about her shadow

[@danielwilberforce7400]

What a reframe. "who do I become" and not "who are you"...

[@bernardmartinez1275]

No talk stay away!

[@Stratton218]

5:19

[@johnsmith-rd3zx]

i learned in life what i think or what others think doesnt matter the only thing that matters is what the bible thinks for example some people glorify and defend sex workers while the bible makes fun of prostitutes in proverbs 7. God makes fun of prostitutes because he knows they corrupt men instead of it being an innocent relationship

[@nohasamir3134]

Understanding your partner is as important as who you become in their presence. You have very subjective and unscientific views, and that's not the first video I watch for you... probably the last.

[@lionsoftruthministries3126]

Hahaha man if you do what the advice is in this video you will be divorced eventually. Married Red pill has the answers

[@davi721]

Too much wheat waffle, maybe?

[@lionsoftruthministries3126]

@@davi721 yeh…