asking my husband hard questions about intimacy, conflict & purpose | *his unedited & raw answers*
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Thank you for watching this Q&A yall! It’s always fun getting to share some insight based off of our personal experience! If you want me (chad) to ask Tori hard questions comment below!
Now for the encouragement! Slow down. Lol. How’s that for some encouragement… I have noticed it in my life that when I am rushed, or pressured with an impulse moment, I tend to do things I wouldn’t do ordinarily. Don’t get me wrong, some things require you to make a quick decision, but for the majority of the things we do, don’t be afraid to take a moment, collect your thoughts, do a pro & cons list and then make a sound decision! I know this sounds redundant but it’s real… Our decisions lead to our actions. Our actions lead to our habits and our habits lead to our future… well what comes before decisions… That’s where thought comes into play and it’s worth your time to slow down, even if for a minute, or a week! There is nothing wrong with that! 2 Tim 1:7 says God has given us the spirit of Sound Mind… This means that we make decisions with self control and that only happens when we control ourselves lol. Anyways, this seems like a weird encouragement but it was something I have needed lately and want to encourage you in that too! Don’t let pressure or fear lead you into a decision you wouldn’t make if you had time to make a sound minded decision.
Love yall,
Chad & Tori
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Yes please
I love how she's always so honourable and attentive with him and a good listener and stares at him in awe as he talks it's so loving and beautiful
Yes!
“Your spouse is not your savior”. This is so true! It’s so easy to try to run to your spouse for everything and think they are the ultimate source of help….when we must first and ultimately run to God who is our ultimate source of peace and help. ❤
Great video Chad and Tori! ☺️
Let us know if you want me (chad) to ask Tori hard questions!!!
Obviously
YESSS PLEEEASE
Of course!!!!
duh
Of course! Is that even a question?😂
As someone who’s watched you guys “from a distance” over the years, I’ve found myself from time to time feeling like there are moments of forced or a false sense of positivity in certain responses or conversations. BUT the authenticity in this video felt the most I’ve seen from Chad in particular. I don’t make that statement in criticism but as more as an encouragement to keep tapping into that. It’s 100% reaching a deeper level that other spouses/future spouses need to reflect on! Thank you for speaking your truth in love and letting us see these intimate parts of your marriage!
Awww we have to appericate how valnerable Chad is. That deserves credit :)
You guys shine a light on so many important topics in this video. Thank you so much for your openness and for sharing your wisdom with the world.
I don’t think I could ever get tired of y’all’s videos! Such wisdom nuggets. Thank you both for being genuine and intentional in what you say, and how you say it! Praying blessings and favor upon your growing family 🤍 just signed up for Summit… thank you for sharing!
Such deep questions! I love the part about how our roots are so important so that we will have good fruit later in life. Such a good reminder.
I love all your videos, but this one I think is the best one yet. So many things that are ringing true in the season I’m walking through right now. Thank you so much for your honesty and imperfect wisdom ❤
Great advice and perspective! I've been married for 39 years, and I still learned some things today, and was reminded of things that are important - thank you!
Thank you so much for this video. It was so real and honest and encouraging. Sometimes it’s easy to get trapped into believing that others have it all together, and you broke that down beautifully. I really needed that, thank you!
I just wanted to tell you guys how much I appreciate your videos. Every time you post a video I'm so excited to watch them and I always leave feeling very peaceful and encouraged, it's the best feeling and it brings me so much energy. I'm learning so much from you guys as an 18 yo figuring out adulthood and life and I'm really thankful for you! You are such an example for me and I feel so much more prepared for the next seasons I'm gonna face, but also encouraged to act on it now and take steps towards who I wanna be and who I am to others. I really appreciate how open en humble you are and the effort you put into encouraging and helping young adults figuring out godly relationships, life and all the hardship in that. So thank you... and may God bless the work you do and give you the time, energy and ability to continue doing so.
i love this SO much!! these are the depths of topics i need advice on, and your rawness here is the best- when you guys are so real about what you're still figuring out, etc. thank you!!!
I absolutely love this video and would be thrilled to see a reversal with Tori. Ya'll are so wise and honest, while being self aware that it's such a treat to get an inside perspective on things we might not otherwise be told. I just feel so blessed to be apart of the Master's fam. ❤
Happy 36 weeks btw! The home stretch is tough but so amazing. Pretty soon, your arms will be filled with God's love in human form. What a miracle ✨️💙
I love all of you guys content!! The longer the better. Helps me get through my work day and I always look forward to the encouragement 🤍
I LOVE his self awareness! The fact that he knows he was a selfish person is so important for growth.
You guys are just about the only influencers with sponsorships that I give a rip about. 😆 I know I'm just little ol' me, and my opinion doesn't go far (especially on the internet), but my comment is meant as a token of gratitude for you guys, for choosing quality material to introduce us to!
You both stay so intentional in the world of overwhelming absorption, and I'm very grateful for that. 🙏🏻
It’s always a pleasure listening to you!
Much love and kindness from Romania! 🇷🇴
Thanks for showing up and listening!!!
Romanian sister over here also.
GOD is ALAWAYS by your side FAM.
Such an amazing video! I love how open and honest you guys always are! 💕
You guys are seriously such an inspiration! There is so much goodness in your videos😉
Love this! Really appreciate you guys being so honest and open ❤
You guys are such a blessing to me. Thank you 🙏🏼 Just thank you
I haven’t even finished watching the video and this is SO good!! You guys always give great advice, it’s been so edifying in my life!!❤
I honestly have been so busy, I haven't sat to watch you all in a long time. But this video just reminded me of why you two are my favorites! I love you all so much! & I just have to say that I love your hearts.
You guys bring so much joy into my life, especially when I struggle with finding faith and learning more about myself
aww thank you for sharing that with us! It really means a lot and left us encouraged!
So very good and so honest. Your talk of God and how he impacts your love as you try to be faithful to the word melts my heart. Sorry if I am way off base, but you seem to be getting along better right now. Love you.
Love how you guys ALWAYS encourage us!! Literally a minute into the video and there's already some encouragement
We are so thank you for you!!
Oh I loveee these types of videos!! I always rewatch them and you guys are always so honest, love that! Chad the description is brilliant - and I actually did a talk about slowing down to some college students recently! but it was more about slowing life down. Feel like college students are in such a hurry to graduate and settle down and have a family but it becomes so easy to miss the beauty of being IN the learning process. I've started carving in slow mornings into my day because healthcare is such a busy field in itself, I think its important to have time to appreciate just having breath in your lungs and being alive! Oddly enough I've found it useful to not read or listen to sermons or anything, I just go on a walk and watch the same people get ready for work, the same mailman, same dog walkers etc. Its so comforting to have some consistency to slow down the start of my day. Love you guys so much, I could ramble on about this with y'all all day haha 😂💛💛
yes and AMEN TO ALL OF THIS! so good! Thanks for sharing Aaisha!!
You guys are so cute. Thank you for being so open and honest. It is healing to hear that you also haven't figured everything out.
Love Chad’s honesty and vulnerability 🤗🙏
The Purpose vs purpose explanation was so spot on! So true - the Bible outlines our 'general' calling as believers in the guidance on how to live - its so easy to bypass this for our unique calling that's aligned to our gifts. But agree both are so important and a lot of the time living in accordance with our purpose can prepare and mature us for our Purpose.
Thank you so much for the video guys!! Always love watching you, taking your advice and of course being encouraged!! Love from a happy wife and mama in Greece! 🥰😘😘😘
Love your honesty and vulnerability. Appreciate your thoughts always!
Listening to your videos has been a comfort to say the least! Awesome as always 👍
aww that means a ton. Thank you!!!
Love this video guys! Also, Summit Ministries is AMAZING! I've been to their Worldview Conference and it was life-changing.
Absoluty love what Chad said about the triangle. Thank you so much for these videos!❤
I love you guys ❤️🔥! I'm on a marathon of ur videos, mostly because I missed a couple ones. lol im sorry.
I loove you guys so much! Your honesty and light that comes from inside is everything! Always watching your videos with a pure joy and I get so much precious information for my life. Can’t be more grateful for what you do!!! Thank you Tori and Chad ❤❤❤ Btw, I live in St Pete and wish we could meet one day, maybe it would be a meeting of people of Masters fam who lives close by, so we could all know each other and maybe find new friends too
this is so helpful!!! Especially for your girl on her period almost, knowing that when my emotions rise and the enemy is also attacking me that I need to turn to God and have self control! Thank you!
I love when you guys upload. God bless your family
God bless you too!!!
I'm late to the party today but happy to see that yalls are doing so well! Less than a month till baby boy arrives! Eeeekkk so excited for yalls!! :)
I really needed the encouragment because this week i've been doing everything so fast lol! Thank youu!
Sending love and blessings for the three of you 💗🙌🏻!!
awww thanks for reading that Luana! Means a lot!
Love you guys!! Thank you for all your encouraging videos, God bless you both and specially baby masters
Sending hugs, love and prayers your way💕😇
We love you! Thank you for showing up for us! It means a lot!
I must say, in my current season of dating, Im hoping to find a guy like you, Chad. You’re refreshingly authentic with a great balance of manliness and softness! Tori- what a lucky lady you are! :)
It's super true that you can't keep anything to yourself because whatever doesn't come out (healthily or unhealthily) in conversation comes out in your spirit & attitude. My husband is the 'avoid conflict' kind of personality & i'm the complete opposite so he often just won't communicate his thoughts/feelings with me but I can ALWAYS tell when there's some thought or emotion that he's withholding from me.
im so glad i subscribed to this couple 🤍
Yay another upload 💃🏾
Much love you guys❤❤
Much love to you too!!!
hey tori and chad! going through a tough time rn trying to seek God's will as to whether i should pursue a relationship with someone! your sharing gave me more clarity and im so ecnouraged by the vulnerability of both of you! thank you!
I love what Chad said about still figuring things out. Honestly that’s the Christian walk. It’s hard to be satisfied with what you know/achieved so far and even to be satisfied with your purpose because know you have the mind of Christ, there’s so much you could do, it’s overwhelming. These are the moments where we leave in in God’s hands and allow Him to be God. He has already figured out everything for us and anytime I feel like “this” is way bigger than me, and I acknowledge that I don’t know what I’m doing, I tell God and He lifts that burden off my heart. The Christian wall/life is REAL. It’s a REALITY. God is with us. Yes we cannot see Him but He is actively walking with us, which makes life more bare able/ enjoyable. I say embrace that and sink into His Sovereignty. See how God has given you both a Son, in the midst of figuring out how you would get one. Let that speak to you that God will always sort it out and do what you cannot do. Keep on having faith and doing your part. Do the part that you DO know! And God will handle the rest. After all since Christ resurrected, we have been called into His rest.❤️🙏🏾
Psalm 23:4-5
“Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.
Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over.”
May our cup run over with God’s peace and joy and confidence and All-Knowingness. Amen❤️
I know it’s a serious topics q&a but why is it so fun to watch 😂😂 you guys dynamic are cute, sweet, and fun! also, been following for quite some time and just now know Tori’s name is Victoria! keep up the good work guys & may God bless your little family 💜
Ooooooooooo yay I love these types of videos! How have you guys been doing?
slowing down and appreciating the little things in the moment - that's good dating advice :)❤
I can’t wait to watch this! But I’m going to sleep now. Hahaha. So I’ll watch it later. Hope you have an awesome rest of the week!
hahah sleep well my man!
Love your videos ❤
Tori, you're naturally beautiful the way you are. Whatever aesthetic pressures might be put on you as an influencer, just remember you're not here to fulfill this world's expectations. Preserve your clay the organic way my sister. Love you.
I love you guys!
Whoooooowei this is good!!
first …. love this video!!!
second… chad where is your hat from?! my fiancé has been looking for one like that
Aww the first question got me some tears 😭🥺 I feel that answer so much tho!
it got me too! hahah
I love Tori's name both ways. I actually would have named my daughter Victoria then called her Tori too, but I had 2 sons. Chad kudos to you for being so transparent & vulnerable. You both are going to be awesome parents. Love you, but GOD LOVES YOU MORE!!! I PRAY DAILY for the Masters family🙏🙏🙏
Is there such a thing as "overcommunication?" Yes, and no. In general, when you are married, between the husband and wife, the more communication the better. However, if there is a SPECIFIC issue that you cannot seem to fully resolve, you CAN overcommunicate on THAT SPECIFIC ISSUE, to the overall detriment of your relationship. The best answer in those specific cases is generally to seek outside counsel and advice (and mentorship) to help the pair of you navigate a resolution that works for you both -- and avoids the potential pitfalls of overthinking, and focusing on what you want instead of what's going to work for you both. That's my opinion, and it's totally worth what you paid for it! 😁 Great video!!
When Chad responds, “It’s more important to be loving than it is to be right!”
Love you so much guys
Hey guys, I love you guys always very encouraging and you guys always make me happy. I sent a parcel the other day all the way from Australia for baby boy. I hope you love it. ❤🥰🙂
Good Morning Chad and Tori!! Here is a little piece of encouragement for you! "You are not too dirty for God to cleanse. You are not too broken for God too fix. You are not too far for God to reach. You are not too guilty for God to forgive. And you are not too worthless for God to love."🥰🥰💞💞
aww that is so good!!! Let's go! Hope you and the family are doing well!
@@ToriAndChad yes we are doing great. I'm just trying to figure out life with my new job and balancing work, school, and home life! It's challenging but I'm getting through it. Hope you guys are well too🤍
The last line! Thank you so much for this Rachel! ❤️
@@aaishakara7116 ofc! It's so true!!
yeah that is a lot to balance! WIll pray over that now!
I loved Tori's laugh in this video... Anyone else?? 🤗💗
i'm new to your channel!
Oh I love the name Victoria so much more ❤
36 weeks! Baby Master's is almost here.
Chad: “I’ve been trying to compliment you more 🤭 have you noticed 👀🥺👉🏼👈🏼” THATS SOOO CUTEEEE
Love u guys!!
I like the bit about Intimacy outside of the bedroom
“IM ACTUALLY A WOMEN!!” 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣 busted out w that one Chad 😂
Gosh Chad had good answers here!
i spent half the video trying to figure out if you guys were sitting in front of a green screen because Chads right hand has a white thing around it, so i had to re-start hahaha
Love you guys, always so calming listening to you💘
How do you deal with having jealousy and how do you know if some activities somehow makes it more intense? How do you negotiate external relationships individually and as a couple?
Whoooo it's hereee
wooooo! Sorry about that exporting issue... the file would not render audio files :(
🎉🎉🎉
@@ToriAndChad don't worry at all!
My favorites ❤️ #Goals
thank you for being here with us!!
We talked about it. I asked him to handle it and he handled it how your man should handle it. He is super sweet. We kissed and made up.🥰
It’s hard for a man when the baby first comes along as now that baby will be number one in your wife’s eyes but as you as a man gets the contact and the love with your baby you will start to understand and your children will always be the number one. But as a couple you must remember your still a couple and find that time for one another
Can you please do a video on dealing with conflict and misunderstanding
yes we can!
Looking forward to it
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Aww Chad was so anxious 🙈😅
hahahah
My favorites😍
aww you're so kind!!
I don't have too many set hobbies either, like Tori 😆 my bf is like Chad and wants to show interest except there's not a whole lot to show interest in lol.
🙌🏼 Helloooo
HELLOOOOOO!!!
Tori where did you get your sweatshirt???? 😍😍😍😍
Pretty sure it’s from shop twenties! I have the same one :)
I'm Victoria too😊
you guys ever talked to nate and sutton
Im here first
you were so close!!! lol
@@ToriAndChad 5 seconds close ... like almost 🙈
SO CLOSE! hahah
Chad, as someone who struggles with stammering/blocking as well, would you be willing to share how you've dealt with this?
Hey Andrew! this is of course hard to respond too over comments, so feel free to email me if that helps! I know struggling with this since I was 7 it goes much deeper than a simple comment but here are some things that helped me... I noticed my stammer increase when I was nervous, around people I don't know or had too many thoughts going through my head... I think there were other issues as well, but those stood out to me. So what I do is try to rectify those.. For example if my stammer spiked when I was nervous speaking around people then I would practice speaking around people to help that not be something i struggle with as much. I also have learned to slow myself down to not let too many thoughts go through my head and I do my best to put myself out there so I feel comfortable communicating with new people. It's an intentional effort for sure. For the other times when it pops up, I've just learned to hide it.. I will make it appear as though I am thinking about what I'm saying when I'm definintely not hahah Another thing thing I worked on was not beating myself up over it..
@@ToriAndChad Thanks for the thoughtful reply! I may reach out another way if I have any other questions. I work with people so I run into this a lot. I use some of the same strategies, like acting as if I am thinking about what to say. I really do not notice it in your videos, is it something you still deal with?
Are you guys planning on having your kids on your TH-cam channel? How do you feel about having them in a public view while so young? All love!
Chad has "pregnancy brain" even more than Tori😂
This is so random but tori kinda looks like Lizzie from Maverick city music in this video hahaha
Have you guys done a video on your testimonies? I started walking with Jesus at 17. Its been a hard road. Speaker and writer Annie F Downs says we shouldnt label Thomas a doubter but I am a doubter. It is hard for me to believe in Jesus. Easier to believe in God. I appreciate your channel. Even on the days its hard to digest Christianity. I understand testimonies are incredibly personal so if you dont plan on sharing them I understand. Have had this idea to ask the Christians I know or know of why they believe. Thus the question.
Is this twin flame or soulmate couple tori and chad. Please answer.
Bc you inspire me
Really
Who selected me
I had no idea tori's name was Victoria
I'm similar to Tori re: hobbies lol
👏👏❤
Hello Chad and Tori
hi thereeee!!
@@ToriAndChad How're y'all doing?
we're good! How are you?!?
@@ToriAndChad Doing well. Any prayer requests?
for good meetings today!!
Why did I not know that Toris real name is Victoria? 🙊🤭