There is perhaps a reason we say things like "he makes my skin crawl" or "rip my hair out", etc, it's like the body is trying to warn us, when we refuse to run...
I was repeatedly yelled at by the narcissist assistant pastor's wife when no one was around for not giving her my money, not getting vaccinated... & then the head pastor yelled at me for things I never said, so I left the church. But I got shingles & eczema & psoriasis... and am getting REST & Peace & my boundaries back again. Thank you so much!
I am 51 and raised religious background. Have met many pastors. But not one good one. Now I am allergic to Pastors. I don’t want them anywhere near me. Only those who have experienced them can understand their manipulations, criminal minds, selfish motives, toxic behaviors, hypocritical behaviors, and double standards
@@priyanesan3299 I am so sorry you were so mistreated. There is a WONDERFUL church that I went to for 3 years! Going back when I can drive that far. Pastor Eric & his wife Jessica at Elevated Church in Pinellas County, Florida, are the BEST! They take no salary, donate Tens of Thousands of their dollars to the church & funding all the many ministry groups. They paid $30,000 to replace all the air conditioning systems. The Sweetest people ever! He took us monthly to bus depos, strip malls... and after 2 years, 3,000+ people became Christians & the church had to go to 2 services. They funded food & laundry outreaches... Vans to pick up people for church... These Beautiful churches are out there. God AWESOMELY BLESS you ❤🙏🕊
@@dianezemliak5606 Thank you. I did. And she & her husband are moving out of the country permanently. Win. Win. No hard feelings at all. God AWESOMELY BLESS you 🙏
In those sects the amount of narcissists are incredible, always playing the pious character.....but they are the devil in human form, don't loose your faith because of them, may God erase them all, amen!
Danish has so much wisdom and compassion. He is a true healer! Very few therapist on youtube is as holistic as this man. I pass your videos around in hope that it will help many narc abuse survivors who didn't even know they were in an abusive environment. God bless.
So true. My skin cleared up. Is healthier since walking away from a miserable 14 year marriage to a covert narcissist. I am happier. And photos show how relaxed I am. My skin is softer. No more pimples or rashes. My skin is very happy because I am happy. No more stress or anxiety.
Doctors treat symptoms, not the cause of a disease. By the time I was 20 I had experienced severe eczema, a bleeding stomach ulcer, sky high cortisol levels and cluster headaches. Yet none of this raised an alarm in the doctor's brain that I might be experiencing abuse at home. How my life could have been different if someone had recognized the problem.
Earlier this year, I had to take my son to urgent care for a bad cold he had. On the screening questions, it asked if I was experiencing domestic abuse because children always end up suffering along with you one way or another. What a great way to reach out to people! I wish that had been a thing when he was younger, I might have figured out narcissism earlier, but I was impressed at the clever tactic for finding toxicity in family homes and reaching out. ❤
@@cc1k435 But if the child is experiencing abuse at the hands of the parent, asking the parent about potential abuse does not work. Worse yet, the parent can flip the script and tell the doctor that the child has mental health issues. Doctors need to look at the symptoms and then talk to the child alone....or get a therapist to talk to the child alone. In some countries it isn't legal for that to even happen without a parent present. No wonder children experience so much abuse.
@@cc1k435 competent care workers have always asked in some subtle way. We just don't experience much competence these days. Soon, with AI, healthcare will be largely automated... Probably be better than what's available where I live.!! Yikes! We are expendable to the Elitists.
Exactly! My opinion is that the doctors probably know that something must going on, but they simply doesn’t care. U know, until it’s not life threatening. That’s how healtcare systems works.
I have been taking medication for acid reflux ( which caused a duodenal ulcer to burst) . And meds for high blood pressure. 4 weeks ago I left my Narc, and in that time I stopped taking the acid reflux tablets ( I couldn't go one day without them) and I haven't looked back... no pain. I stopped taking my blood pressure tablets and I had my blood pressure done; it's a little low but I don't take my meds any more. My body doesn't lie.
Autoimmune system is always ready to crash under narcissist abuse. I hope I won't always need to worry about it, but I definitely have seen how it impacts the body, sometimes permanently. ❤
Great information. When I think back to when the narcissist came into my life, that is when I began to have skin problems. After 6 years, I was covered. Once I escaped and began to heal and live healthy, my skin cleared up.
When the pandemic started working from home culture also started. It made my health condition worse. My narcissist husband n his mother made my days worse. Itching n spots started on my skin which I never had in whole 40 years. No medicine worked given by dermatologist. Nothing was diagnosed. Biopsy also was done. Steroids also were given. Only some cream gave me temporary relief.. Finally Dermotologist told me to consult psychiatrist . She gave me mild single tablet for stress n relaxing which made me feel drowsy for a while and my skin problem got vanished. U r an Angel Danish who knows in n out of our lives. U r helping me a lot thru ur videos. Thq n God bless u with abundant amount of happiness n strength.
The hair is a part of the scalp and should be seen as an extension of the bodily issues triggered by narcissistic abuse. My hair was falling out a lot when I was still with the ex-narc and my hairstylist noticed it. In the end, I had to see a doctor to get medication to control the hairfall. It was also a reflection of the violence the ex-narc visited on me sometimes by pulling at my hair.
When I was a kid growing up in grade school, I developed a very itchy nasty condition on my feet. I remember mom taking me to the foot doctor and him saying it was some type of 'fungus'. I don't think he even knew what it was he was dealing with at the time. This was the 70s. He gave me some packets of stuff that you'd mix with water and I had to soak my feet for so many minutes a few times a day. This was in the form of clusters of blisters that would develop on my toes, between my toes and would run up my foot (spread) if I scratched too much. I never knew what it was called and my parents weren't educated enough to question these things. As I got older I wondered what it was that I had. Eventually it did go away, but it took a long time for it to clear up. I googled until I could find pics of what I had. I believe it was dyshidrotic eczema or dyshidrosis. It was miserable. I have also read this could be brought on by stress. Living in a narcissistic household, with parents constantly at each other's throats, taking out their lack of coping skills on us kids, no wonder. Later on, being in a narcissistic abusive marriage and even after I got out, I have went thru a lot of weird things with my skin. This really makes a lot of sense. TY :)
OMG, I'm dealing with that now from toxic narcissist co-workers!! I've been wondering why I'm breaking out in skin rashes!!! Wow! I didn't see the correlation!!!! 😡🤬
I ended up in hospital with a severe skin infection whilst pregnant, and then had emergency surgery. I didn't realise until later it was due to living with narcissistic abuse.
Baking soda and water to make a paste. The only thing that would finally work and help with all the burning , and itching. Creams of any kind did not help. Experienced all of this as well. Danish keep spreading the truth!!❤
Thank you for all your amazing content. I got skin cancer as a result of 33 years of this narcissistic abuse. I wish the best of health, joy and peace in your life ❤
I was wondering why I have started developing all these skin problems. First it was wart like lumps all over me and just recently developed eczema or psoriasis on the back of my head in the hair. I have been living in extreme stress with my narcissistic husband for many years. Thank you for explaining this Danish.
Yes during my first year married to him, I broke out in hives. I did not think I was stressed, I actually thought I was happy, on cloud nine. But my body was telling a different story. I have not had hives before marrying him, nor after leaving him. So go figure.
My grand list of diseases 1. Gerd 2. Seborrheic dermatitis 3. Both facial and ocular rosacea. The latter has caused meibomian gland dysfunction, and trying to cure it has also caused supratarsal papillae. 4. High blood pressure 5. Pelvic floor syndrome 6. Undiagnosed mental conditions There maybe more. The common thread... stress from 30 years of narc abuse by father.
I use to suffer with exema when I was younger, as I got away from the situation years later, exema vanished, I never equated it with Narcissist abuse at the time, but it makes sense.😏🚩🏃♀️
I have skin issues because of the narcissistic abuse. My first divorce lawyer belittled me because of it. Nobody believes me. Although it is known that the skin is known to be a mirror of the soul. F# those who look at me with aversion. Be sure I don’t like it myself. I wish it would be different.
As a young teen I'd get what i called 'stress spots' that would appear soon after one of my mother's fits. They'd take multiple weeks to resolve. My father was sure they were ringworm or some other fungus but cultures never grew anything. Later in life, triggered by an extended very high stress situation i developed full blown psoriasis. I guess my body just couldn't hold it in any longer. Now i deal will minimal symptoms through the summer months but of course it gets worse in the winter and will flare with stressors.
I am actually dealing with this for the first time, or else I've just come to realize it had to do with stress from abuse. My nerves have had quite a workout this year. 😢
Had a specialist tell me I had the worst case of eczema in my ears that he had ever seen. I wonder if my body was subconsciously trying to block out the sound of the abuse from my mother? That was 40 years ago and my skin has been fairly stable but I just quit a job that hired a narc boss who was bullying me very badly. I have a new job now, but I my skin has really flared up in the aftermath.
That's really interesting about the ears! The summer I've had, I don't think my skin has ever looked worse than it does right now. Looking forward to a quieter winter and spring to come. ❤
When I was in my deep state of meditation I could feel a server pain on the right side of my face, felt like some kind of lava on my cheek and right ear. I learnt that it was a parental trauma from my father. What you are saying is absolutely true. Not only that when I had done my past life regression therapy I saw myself in a series of narc abuse. I was carrying it with me for lives. I can validate from my personal experience that this video is absolutely true.
Danish, you are spot on! Like others commenting. I experienced various physical problems becase of constant extreme stress. At first it is very hard to believe other people's actions cause such damage to your physical being. Only once you take the action of removing yourself and them from your life, you see your health vastly improve, can you accept the reality. Thank you❤️
This is so true! I suddenly had eczema on my face and body and it seemed very strange to me because I didn't suffer from them even in adolescence. My hairs were also strange as shoked.
Dear brother, what you are saying is absolutely true. I am also passing through this experience,trauma, skin -gut issues so and so... Your words opened my eyes, they empowered me. Now I am recovering slowly. I am thankful to you. God bless you. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Sir.... I don't know whether u will read my comment. But I genuinely wish I had heard of narcissism years back. I have put an end to my 25 year marriage... Got a divorce two months back. Life was just hell........ Living with a monster. Your videos literally brings tears to my eyes. But God has helped me throughout the ordeal........... Please guys if you r in such a relationship just get out of it....... There is much things better in life...... Just enjoy it before you leave.
Danish, As you explain, the abuse suppresses the immune system. In my case, I developed advance stage breast cancer. For me the cancer saved me - woke me up - removed the lenses implanted by my mother which had distorted my view - making me believe the false world view she created. Cancer saved me 💥 I had developed eczema as a child.
Dr. Danish You really are such a good person with a big heart ❤️ ! Thank you so much for all your precious advice and your commitment to protecting us all with all the valuable information!
Danish, in your previous video, you said period problems may happen if you had Narcissistic abuse. I had this problem. Now you're saying skin issues may also be caused by NPD abuse. I have had severe excema since my mid twenties, which was directly caused by severe PTSD caused by a Narcissistic boyfriend. You really know your stuff!!! Your intimate knowledge of NPD issues is clearing up my questions related to my health problems.
OMG 5 months after the discard and I suddenly got these weird round dry scabs on my arms!!! Absolutely out ot nowhere 😢 THANK YOU SO MUCH! Because of you, I was able to find out what I have! It's discoid eczema. Going through divorce sure has a lot of these unforeseen side effects!
This has really opened my eyes. I’ve been struggling after leaving my ex months ago. Even though it was mutual, she shifted the power dynamic of the breakup by blaming me, accusing me, and twisting stories to make her the victim. During the relationship, I experienced a multitude of symptoms I’ve never had in my entire life. I got skin rashes under my armpits, broke out into hives all over my body. Then that got better and went away, but then I started pulling beard hair. After being no contact with her, no more hives, no more rashes, beard is healthier, healthier skin tone, and lost weight. That’s crazy to think about.
This is a great example of mind, body, and spirit, my narcissistic abuse started after I became disabled. It only got worse. The last 7 years have been hell but I finally see a light at the end of the tunnel as my main abuser is actually in jail. Unfortunately I am still living with his family at the moment but getting my own place away from them and their control over my life. I also suffer from eczema and all 3 classes of psoriasis as well as a degenerative genetic spine disease. I was actually on 520mg of morphine a day for pain and 25 other medications that sent me into the beginnings of kidney and liver failure. I managed to get off all allopathic medication and now only use naturopathic methods. The one exception is ivermectin. The psoriasis started a month after a flu vaccine in 2007 my mother had the same vaccine and manifest psoriasis at the exact same time. No coincidence there folks. It's been a long road but I finally see hope
Wow, this info explains so much. So many health issues, including weird skin problems, oily skin, dry skin, exema, shingles. He was also drugging and poisoning me, so I had lots of health issues, including very severe digestive issues. I even got a terminal diagnosis because all my systems were shutting down, and the doctors couldn't figure out what was going on.
Stress can overload the body to making all sorts of crazy things happen. The stress hormone cortisol weakens the immune system and when it is weak all sorts of genetic and disease issues pop out. I am still recovering from being burnt out for 3 years taking care of my father through the pandemic, through my own sudden health issues, through all the stress the lockdowns caused. Did he help lessen the burden? No of course not. He just made it all worse every single day.
Damn that might explain the patches of dry skin I've had develop all over my legs that is like eczema patches without itching and only started during that relationship.
Yeh man great video topic: I was 'raised' by covert malignant narcissistic single mother, I got severe cystic acne like the worst youve ever seen, got bad scarring on my face back, etc, it was really bad, Im 'marked for life' by it, despite some treatments to revise the scars. I can confirm there is most definitely a link between narcissistic abuse and severe acne on one's skin. And I was a healthy boy I didnt expect to have any skin problem, but it got so bad, blood, puss, no social life, no gf etc. HORROR.
I had been healed of my skin acute atopic eczema ( the severest form) . With medication this was gone and my skin was perfect everyone commented on how my skin looked so good. Then I met the devil ..,, for the 2yr marriage my skin began to flare up, the itch came back .. he even commented I scratch a lot . My skin became dry and scaly. When I left. It went. Thank you god. For helping me get out. !! Thanx for your info Danish !!
I had a horrible breakout from the "V" and the doc said I had hives. When I get stressed now I itch like crazy. Most of the time I just itch all over. Thank you so much for this Video! Really spot on...
My poor dad.... he had been itchy for years..... they blamed it on his renal failure. My mom blamed it on his "dry skin." Turned out..... it was my mom's hoard. She hoards clothes. Piles and piles of clothes all around their bed...... She uses her hoard as her narcissistic supply now, since people are leaving her. So when I challenged her to get rid of her clothes (that she doesn't even USE!) and donate them, she said, "No!" Just like a petulant toddler. Well...... after she stole my dying dad's wallet, and my dad asked me to look under their mattress... I found the bedbugs. Ugh! Such a selfish narcissist, she made my dying dad pay $8000 for a whole-house fumigation, rather than just get RID OF THE FREAKING CLOTHES. After the fumigation.... my dad said, he was no longer itchy. Narcs. Gotta hate em.
Hi, Danish I love your video's. It's truth I have many immuun diseesis. I have a narsist father. And I also had a narsistic sister and brother in law. I 'm autistic, and autistic people are very senstitif to stress.
@zoeboer9470, Eat nutritional yeast, a half a cup in tomato juice, to de stress. We Autistic people have anxiety. The B-vitamins will relax and balance us.
Wow I just has to move in with my daughter and I suddenly broke out in eczema. I haven't had it since I left her Father Father. Its only in one spot on my foot. I went away for a couple of weeks and its healed. I knew I was getting it because of the drama and chaos. No drama when I'm by myself. Thank you so much ❤
I have bullous pemphigoid from it. This is a huge issue because I am working to help children in Uttar Pradesh, so I have to instead likely stay in himachal because over 24°/75° my epidermis is devolves and I have constantly bleeding wounds. I had to go on a therapeutic diet because of how many inflammatory and autoimmune conditions. Covid Vax made me go without skin on my face for 7 months. It's been a deemed a trigger. I RECCOMEND talking to me or a dr . If the rash wasn't diagnosed
@@sunnyadams5842 I have hEDS as well so my skin is fragile it will dot everything below the neck, my chin up was just gone ans my scalp at the crown and hairline. I should have invested in hydrochloride bandages..... but now I rarely get flair ups I just have to have a strict diet. I do have a huge hospital lawsuit I could and should pursue after the ADA said sorry we have too many hard cases and you should go after them. I know it's an easy win and a blatant violation of my ADA. Adding insult to the malpractice injury. (1 am screaming in pain triage nurse denys me ER access because of my LEGAL SERVICE DOG in the rudest of fashion) long story short I left screaming in rage driving half blind to another ER.
I got welts on my body just hanging around in a casual hookup scenario with a narcissist and he wasn’t even abusing me really. But I was still picking up on his energy I guess.
My skin issues has been my cross with which ive been going through life for decades now. I used to look monstrous with skin issues earlier I was anxious to walk on the street for people to curiously look at me, now its somewhat better but my skin is so sdnsitive and easily red i cannot go out without a heavy makeup foundation, all the venues that include fgoing somewhere when i cannot put my makeup are just out of question. I look at my childhood photos and i looked like an angel and it breaks my heart
This makes so much sense! I wanted to sleep next to him, but I would start itching, all over. When I was with another one, my hair started falling out for no apparent reason.
I can't thank you enough for always coming up with very honest and relatable issues concerning toxic abuse, I am trying hard with different body lotions inorder to get my skin back but they all proved futile, almost four years since I left the marriage, this is not a joke anymore people must take this topic very seriously.
Thank you so much for sharing out your knowledge and experiences. you are truly a blessing . your videos helping people who can't even step out of the house or share or discuss with anyone. God bless you.🙏🙏
Thank you for this. I agree; I developed skin allergies couple of years ago, that took me almost a month to heal. I'm finally moving out of this toxic relationship.
So interesting and makes sense. I have like some skin stuff and issues and always have since a teen ish and wonder if this is why and related as have figured from this as a child. Restore microbiome of gut. Nice.
Past five years, I've been experiencing unexplained physical conditions. I even ended up in hospital for 4days, still undiagnosed . My doctor to this day, still says he doesn't understand what im talking about, because i look the epitome of health, but i keep coming back, with somethings wrong, Even xrays find nothing, except the one gastroscopy that found bacteria in my gut. I just cannot put my finger on what's been physically wrong with me all this time My dr must think I'm a hypochondriac I go every 2years, for a full physical So the rest of the time , i pretty much just live with these inexplained ailments There are no bruises to show for this kind of abuse And only victims, like ourselves, can understand this "phenomenon" It's on these narc awareness channels that i find peace and comfort on where im at while i plan my escape If all goes well, im hoping to be out by end December 2023
Thank you Danish....😊 ..I know that the skin problems are caused by stress and nobody told me about the name of urticaria I am suffering for years...I think its because my blood is not purified that is why it occurs..Now I realized its the after effect of narcissistic abuse. Thanks alot.😊
Been dealing with delayed pressure urticaria for years now. Everyday things are so painful. Continous hives, itching, swelling and bruising under the skin. After a walk my feet feel like I'm walking on golf balls. Life has become so miserable because of it.
The very first sentence is 💯 Danish. I wonder how healthy I would be if I didn't ever have to interact with narcissists. I haven't been able to heal myself physically because my conditions are too chronic now.
It hurts my situation is also for my two children. I cant even say ' our ' cause I raised them not him. He was my 3rd child. I'm so glad my 2 children 22 and 14 are smart and great people, kind, caring but damaged, I teached them how to handle evil people. It took me years to find out about this. They have skin issues and I'm still fighting out so to escape this. It's very difficult but it must succeed. Hipe the best for all of you here❤😢💪
i really want to move away from my environment too but keep having to move back in when i run out of money… it’s great u were able to find a sustainable way to stay iut
Nobody causes me stress. I've lost jobs over over having a 'piss off' attitude towards a boss. I would personally rather murder someone who stresses me out than ever get into a relationship with such a person. My tolerance threshold towards people who annoy me is zero. And I don't get annoyed easily. As long as your annoying habits or personality makes me laugh or smile, I like you. If you're a bully or a narc I automatically hate you and would rather see you bleed from every pore and suffer unspeakable agony than have to deal with you.
Any tips on dealing with severe panic/ anxiety attacks? Tried most of the teas, most recently Yogi stress. Don t know if it s the adrenal mass, but, amplified the attacks. Don t want anything to do with scrip meds. Eucerin baby excema cream helps. I use it on my daughter. Gets patches on her face. Old Burt s Bees baby wash, Puricy, Shea Moisture Chamomile baby wash are good. As for me, n my skin issues.. cause us adrenal mass peeps are prone to skin and fungal issues... tea tree oil body wash or Equate dandruff shampoo as a body wash... for the zinc. Digestive issues.. probiotics and zinc
Yes. I am suffering with eczema and urticaria from years. It's always idiopathic. But I healed with out treatment during no contact with my narc family. It's 100% true that skin never heals when a narc is in ur life.
Yes I have a terrible skin rash it was when I was going throughtb so much stress with the nark the funny thing she was most happy like she knows she caused it
Danish I request , pls explain the narcissistic abuse from the Islamic POV as they use different hadith let says, treat your parents nicely, and the enablers use the same type of language don't say uff to parents and mothers have a special place and hence the enablers or the people I talk about my trauma eventually after me hours or even days explaining them each and every single detail , they make it all zero .... pls someone in the comments help how could I give a fitting reply to such people it's so frustrating!!
Yes,i hade so much acné,and my face is so beautiful and clear now without narcissist ❤
Body keeps the score. It remembers everything
There is perhaps a reason we say things like "he makes my skin crawl" or "rip my hair out", etc, it's like the body is trying to warn us, when we refuse to run...
I was repeatedly yelled at by the narcissist assistant pastor's wife when no one was around for not giving her my money, not getting vaccinated... & then the head pastor yelled at me for things I never said, so I left the church. But I got shingles & eczema & psoriasis... and am getting REST & Peace & my boundaries back again. Thank you so much!
I am 51 and raised religious background. Have met many pastors. But not one good one. Now I am allergic to Pastors. I don’t want them anywhere near me. Only those who have experienced them can understand their manipulations, criminal minds, selfish motives, toxic behaviors, hypocritical behaviors, and double standards
@@priyanesan3299 I am so sorry you were so mistreated. There is a WONDERFUL church that I went to for 3 years! Going back when I can drive that far. Pastor Eric & his wife Jessica at Elevated Church in Pinellas County, Florida, are the BEST! They take no salary, donate Tens of Thousands of their dollars to the church & funding all the many ministry groups. They paid $30,000 to replace all the air conditioning systems. The Sweetest people ever! He took us monthly to bus depos, strip malls... and after 2 years, 3,000+ people became Christians & the church had to go to 2 services. They funded food & laundry outreaches... Vans to pick up people for church... These Beautiful churches are out there. God AWESOMELY BLESS you ❤🙏🕊
I'm so sorry that happened to you! Praying you find a new church with more authentic people!!❤🌹❤
@@dianezemliak5606 Thank you. I did. And she & her husband are moving out of the country permanently. Win. Win. No hard feelings at all. God AWESOMELY BLESS you 🙏
In those sects the amount of narcissists are incredible, always playing the pious character.....but they are the devil in human form, don't loose your faith because of them, may God erase them all, amen!
Danish has so much wisdom and compassion. He is a true healer! Very few therapist on youtube is as holistic as this man. I pass your videos around in hope that it will help many narc abuse survivors who didn't even know they were in an abusive environment. God bless.
It's always when no one's around
So true. My skin cleared up. Is healthier since walking away from a miserable 14 year marriage to a covert narcissist. I am happier. And photos show how relaxed I am. My skin is softer. No more pimples or rashes. My skin is very happy because I am happy. No more stress or anxiety.
Doctors treat symptoms, not the cause of a disease. By the time I was 20 I had experienced severe eczema, a bleeding stomach ulcer, sky high cortisol levels and cluster headaches. Yet none of this raised an alarm in the doctor's brain that I might be experiencing abuse at home. How my life could have been different if someone had recognized the problem.
I can SO RELATE!!
Earlier this year, I had to take my son to urgent care for a bad cold he had. On the screening questions, it asked if I was experiencing domestic abuse because children always end up suffering along with you one way or another. What a great way to reach out to people! I wish that had been a thing when he was younger, I might have figured out narcissism earlier, but I was impressed at the clever tactic for finding toxicity in family homes and reaching out. ❤
@@cc1k435 But if the child is experiencing abuse at the hands of the parent, asking the parent about potential abuse does not work. Worse yet, the parent can flip the script and tell the doctor that the child has mental health issues. Doctors need to look at the symptoms and then talk to the child alone....or get a therapist to talk to the child alone. In some countries it isn't legal for that to even happen without a parent present. No wonder children experience so much abuse.
@@cc1k435 competent care workers have always asked in some subtle way. We just don't experience much competence these days. Soon, with AI, healthcare will be largely automated... Probably be better than what's available where I live.!! Yikes! We are expendable to the Elitists.
Exactly! My opinion is that the doctors probably know that something must going on, but they simply doesn’t care. U know, until it’s not life threatening. That’s how healtcare systems works.
I have been taking medication for acid reflux ( which caused a duodenal ulcer to burst) . And meds for high blood pressure.
4 weeks ago I left my Narc, and in that time I stopped taking the acid reflux tablets ( I couldn't go one day without them) and I haven't looked back... no pain. I stopped taking my blood pressure tablets and I had my blood pressure done; it's a little low but I don't take my meds any more.
My body doesn't lie.
👍👏👏👏👏👏👏I'm getting there. You give me hope!! Good for You!!!
Autoimmune system is always ready to crash under narcissist abuse. I hope I won't always need to worry about it, but I definitely have seen how it impacts the body, sometimes permanently. ❤
Great information. When I think back to when the narcissist came into my life, that is when I began to have skin problems. After 6 years, I was covered. Once I escaped and began to heal and live healthy, my skin cleared up.
When the pandemic started working from home culture also started. It made my health condition worse. My narcissist husband n his mother made my days worse. Itching n spots started on my skin which I never had in whole 40 years. No medicine worked given by dermatologist. Nothing was diagnosed. Biopsy also was done. Steroids also were given. Only some cream gave me temporary relief.. Finally Dermotologist told me to consult psychiatrist . She gave me mild single tablet for stress n relaxing which made me feel drowsy for a while and my skin problem got vanished. U r an Angel Danish who knows in n out of our lives. U r helping me a lot thru ur videos. Thq n God bless u with abundant amount of happiness n strength.
The hair is a part of the scalp and should be seen as an extension of the bodily issues triggered by narcissistic abuse. My hair was falling out a lot when I was still with the ex-narc and my hairstylist noticed it. In the end, I had to see a doctor to get medication to control the hairfall. It was also a reflection of the violence the ex-narc visited on me sometimes by pulling at my hair.
When I was a kid growing up in grade school, I developed a very itchy nasty condition on my feet. I remember mom taking me to the foot doctor and him saying it was some type of 'fungus'. I don't think he even knew what it was he was dealing with at the time. This was the 70s. He gave me some packets of stuff that you'd mix with water and I had to soak my feet for so many minutes a few times a day. This was in the form of clusters of blisters that would develop on my toes, between my toes and would run up my foot (spread) if I scratched too much. I never knew what it was called and my parents weren't educated enough to question these things. As I got older I wondered what it was that I had. Eventually it did go away, but it took a long time for it to clear up. I googled until I could find pics of what I had. I believe it was dyshidrotic eczema or dyshidrosis. It was miserable. I have also read this could be brought on by stress. Living in a narcissistic household, with parents constantly at each other's throats, taking out their lack of coping skills on us kids, no wonder. Later on, being in a narcissistic abusive marriage and even after I got out, I have went thru a lot of weird things with my skin. This really makes a lot of sense. TY :)
OMG, I'm dealing with that now from toxic narcissist co-workers!! I've been wondering why I'm breaking out in skin rashes!!! Wow! I didn't see the correlation!!!! 😡🤬
I ended up in hospital with a severe skin infection whilst pregnant, and then had emergency surgery. I didn't realise until later it was due to living with narcissistic abuse.
Baking soda and water to make a paste. The only thing that would finally work and help with all the burning , and itching. Creams of any kind did not help. Experienced all of this as well. Danish keep spreading the truth!!❤
Thank you for all your amazing content. I got skin cancer as a result of 33 years of this narcissistic abuse. I wish the best of health, joy and peace in your life ❤
I was wondering why I have started developing all these skin problems. First it was wart like lumps all over me and just recently developed eczema or psoriasis on the back of my head in the hair. I have been living in extreme stress with my narcissistic husband for many years. Thank you for explaining this Danish.
Yes during my first year married to him, I broke out in hives. I did not think I was stressed, I actually thought I was happy, on cloud nine. But my body was telling a different story. I have not had hives before marrying him, nor after leaving him. So go figure.
My grand list of diseases
1. Gerd
2. Seborrheic dermatitis
3. Both facial and ocular rosacea. The latter has caused meibomian gland dysfunction, and trying to cure it has also caused supratarsal papillae.
4. High blood pressure
5. Pelvic floor syndrome
6. Undiagnosed mental conditions
There maybe more. The common thread... stress from 30 years of narc abuse by father.
I use to suffer with exema when I was younger, as I got away from the situation years later, exema vanished, I never equated it with Narcissist abuse at the time, but it makes sense.😏🚩🏃♀️
I have skin issues because of the narcissistic abuse. My first divorce lawyer belittled me because of it. Nobody believes me. Although it is known that the skin is known to be a mirror of the soul. F# those who look at me with aversion. Be sure I don’t like it myself. I wish it would be different.
As a young teen I'd get what i called 'stress spots' that would appear soon after one of my mother's fits. They'd take multiple weeks to resolve. My father was sure they were ringworm or some other fungus but cultures never grew anything. Later in life, triggered by an extended very high stress situation i developed full blown psoriasis. I guess my body just couldn't hold it in any longer. Now i deal will minimal symptoms through the summer months but of course it gets worse in the winter and will flare with stressors.
I am actually dealing with this for the first time, or else I've just come to realize it had to do with stress from abuse. My nerves have had quite a workout this year. 😢
Had a specialist tell me I had the worst case of eczema in my ears that he had ever seen. I wonder if my body was subconsciously trying to block out the sound of the abuse from my mother? That was 40 years ago and my skin has been fairly stable but I just quit a job that hired a narc boss who was bullying me very badly. I have a new job now, but I my skin has really flared up in the aftermath.
WoW!! The correlation is clear!
That's really interesting about the ears! The summer I've had, I don't think my skin has ever looked worse than it does right now. Looking forward to a quieter winter and spring to come. ❤
When I was in my deep state of meditation I could feel a server pain on the right side of my face, felt like some kind of lava on my cheek and right ear. I learnt that it was a parental trauma from my father. What you are saying is absolutely true. Not only that when I had done my past life regression therapy I saw myself in a series of narc abuse. I was carrying it with me for lives. I can validate from my personal experience that this video is absolutely true.
Danish, you are spot on! Like others commenting. I experienced various physical problems becase of constant extreme stress. At first it is very hard to believe other people's actions cause such damage to your physical being. Only once you take the action of removing yourself and them from your life, you see your health vastly improve, can you accept the reality. Thank you❤️
This is so true! I suddenly had eczema on my face and body and it seemed very strange to me because I didn't suffer from them even in adolescence. My hairs were also strange as shoked.
Indeed I got rosacea not one year in the relationship. No one ever told me this was because of constant stress.
Dear brother, what you are saying is absolutely true. I am also passing through this experience,trauma, skin -gut issues so and so...
Your words opened my eyes, they empowered me. Now I am recovering slowly. I am thankful to you. God bless you. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Sir.... I don't know whether u will read my comment. But I genuinely wish I had heard of narcissism years back. I have put an end to my 25 year marriage... Got a divorce two months back. Life was just hell........ Living with a monster. Your videos literally brings tears to my eyes. But God has helped me throughout the ordeal........... Please guys if you r in such a relationship just get out of it....... There is much things better in life...... Just enjoy it before you leave.
Danish, As you explain, the abuse suppresses the immune system. In my case, I developed advance stage breast cancer. For me the cancer saved me - woke me up - removed the lenses implanted by my mother which had distorted my view - making me believe the false world view she created. Cancer saved me 💥 I had developed eczema as a child.
So true the narcs had me looking like I was the monster 😢
I developed awful rosacea after moving in with my narc. My skin was bright red, inflamed, and achy 24/7 until I got laser treatments to minimize it
Ive got a rash right now! I knew it was from the tension of dealing with the "uglies".
Dr. Danish You really are such a good person with a big heart ❤️ ! Thank you so much for all your precious advice and your commitment to protecting us all with all the valuable information!
Danish, in your previous video, you said period problems may happen if you had Narcissistic abuse. I had this problem. Now you're saying skin issues may also be caused by NPD abuse. I have had severe excema since my mid twenties, which was directly caused by severe PTSD caused by a Narcissistic boyfriend. You really know your stuff!!! Your intimate knowledge of NPD issues is clearing up my questions related to my health problems.
Very good information! It’s important and vital to leave the narcissist to save yourself!
I've seen a lot of people went from toads to gorgeous youthful glowing skin after the narc was out of their lives.
OMG 5 months after the discard and I suddenly got these weird round dry scabs on my arms!!! Absolutely out ot nowhere 😢 THANK YOU SO MUCH! Because of you, I was able to find out what I have! It's discoid eczema. Going through divorce sure has a lot of these unforeseen side effects!
OMG, yes... I suddenly developed exema while living in Narciscist abuse.
This has really opened my eyes. I’ve been struggling after leaving my ex months ago. Even though it was mutual, she shifted the power dynamic of the breakup by blaming me, accusing me, and twisting stories to make her the victim. During the relationship, I experienced a multitude of symptoms I’ve never had in my entire life. I got skin rashes under my armpits, broke out into hives all over my body. Then that got better and went away, but then I started pulling beard hair. After being no contact with her, no more hives, no more rashes, beard is healthier, healthier skin tone, and lost weight. That’s crazy to think about.
This is a great example of mind, body, and spirit, my narcissistic abuse started after I became disabled. It only got worse. The last 7 years have been hell but I finally see a light at the end of the tunnel as my main abuser is actually in jail. Unfortunately I am still living with his family at the moment but getting my own place away from them and their control over my life. I also suffer from eczema and all 3 classes of psoriasis as well as a degenerative genetic spine disease. I was actually on 520mg of morphine a day for pain and 25 other medications that sent me into the beginnings of kidney and liver failure. I managed to get off all allopathic medication and now only use naturopathic methods. The one exception is ivermectin. The psoriasis started a month after a flu vaccine in 2007 my mother had the same vaccine and manifest psoriasis at the exact same time. No coincidence there folks. It's been a long road but I finally see hope
Run as fast as you can. Don't go back
Yes got fungal infection on my face and when I left his place my face came back to normal 🤗
Wow, this info explains so much. So many health issues, including weird skin problems, oily skin, dry skin, exema, shingles. He was also drugging and poisoning me, so I had lots of health issues, including very severe digestive issues. I even got a terminal diagnosis because all my systems were shutting down, and the doctors couldn't figure out what was going on.
My skin started turn really dark and gloomy and dead. And i was abused further for my looks and made to feel grateful for having him still stay
Stress can overload the body to making all sorts of crazy things happen. The stress hormone cortisol weakens the immune system and when it is weak all sorts of genetic and disease issues pop out. I am still recovering from being burnt out for 3 years taking care of my father through the pandemic, through my own sudden health issues, through all the stress the lockdowns caused. Did he help lessen the burden? No of course not. He just made it all worse every single day.
Damn that might explain the patches of dry skin I've had develop all over my legs that is like eczema patches without itching and only started during that relationship.
Yeh man great video topic: I was 'raised' by covert malignant narcissistic single mother, I got severe cystic acne like the worst youve ever seen, got bad scarring on my face back, etc, it was really bad, Im 'marked for life' by it, despite some treatments to revise the scars. I can confirm there is most definitely a link between narcissistic abuse and severe acne on one's skin. And I was a healthy boy I didnt expect to have any skin problem, but it got so bad, blood, puss, no social life, no gf etc. HORROR.
Yes I too suffer from skin rashes, eczema and many more on skin
I had been healed of my skin acute atopic eczema ( the severest form) . With medication this was gone and my skin was perfect everyone commented on how my skin looked so good.
Then I met the devil ..,, for the 2yr marriage my skin began to flare up, the itch came back .. he even commented I scratch a lot . My skin became dry and scaly.
When I left. It went. Thank you god. For helping me get out. !!
Thanx for your info Danish !!
I had a horrible breakout from the "V" and the doc said I had hives. When I get stressed now I itch like crazy. Most of the time I just itch all over. Thank you so much for this Video! Really spot on...
I have seborrheic dermatitis and rosacea. I salute you Danish. My father is responsible to this.
My poor dad.... he had been itchy for years..... they blamed it on his renal failure. My mom blamed it on his "dry skin." Turned out..... it was my mom's hoard. She hoards clothes. Piles and piles of clothes all around their bed...... She uses her hoard as her narcissistic supply now, since people are leaving her. So when I challenged her to get rid of her clothes (that she doesn't even USE!) and donate them, she said, "No!" Just like a petulant toddler. Well...... after she stole my dying dad's wallet, and my dad asked me to look under their mattress... I found the bedbugs. Ugh! Such a selfish narcissist, she made my dying dad pay $8000 for a whole-house fumigation, rather than just get RID OF THE FREAKING CLOTHES. After the fumigation.... my dad said, he was no longer itchy. Narcs. Gotta hate em.
That's great Danish, it sounds like you are truly on the mend. God bless you and thanks for your videos they have been a great help to me.
Hi, Danish I love your video's. It's truth I have many immuun diseesis. I have a narsist father. And I also had a narsistic sister and brother in law. I 'm autistic, and autistic people are very senstitif to stress.
@zoeboer9470, Eat nutritional yeast, a half a cup in tomato juice, to de stress.
We Autistic people have anxiety.
The B-vitamins will relax and balance us.
Wow I just has to move in with my daughter and I suddenly broke out in eczema. I haven't had it since I left her Father Father. Its only in one spot on my foot. I went away for a couple of weeks and its healed. I knew I was getting it because of the drama and chaos. No drama when I'm by myself. Thank you so much ❤
So beautifully and perfectly said, and so true. Choosing to stay in a toxic environment because of a fear of loss “you’re losing your biggest wealth”.
I have bullous pemphigoid from it.
This is a huge issue because I am working to help children in Uttar Pradesh, so I have to instead likely stay in himachal because over 24°/75° my epidermis is devolves and I have constantly bleeding wounds.
I had to go on a therapeutic diet because of how many inflammatory and autoimmune conditions.
Covid Vax made me go without skin on my face for 7 months. It's been a deemed a trigger. I RECCOMEND talking to me or a dr . If the rash wasn't diagnosed
Cripe!! I'm so sorry. Thought my scalp being one big wound was bad!! Prayers and blessings to you 🙏💕🙏
@@sunnyadams5842 I have hEDS as well so my skin is fragile it will dot everything below the neck, my chin up was just gone ans my scalp at the crown and hairline. I should have invested in hydrochloride bandages..... but now I rarely get flair ups I just have to have a strict diet.
I do have a huge hospital lawsuit I could and should pursue after the ADA said sorry we have too many hard cases and you should go after them. I know it's an easy win and a blatant violation of my ADA. Adding insult to the malpractice injury.
(1 am screaming in pain triage nurse denys me ER access because of my LEGAL SERVICE DOG in the rudest of fashion) long story short I left screaming in rage driving half blind to another ER.
I had IBS for 18 of 30 years of marriage to a narc. No more.
I got welts on my body just hanging around in a casual hookup scenario with a narcissist and he wasn’t even abusing me really. But I was still picking up on his energy I guess.
Everything you said is so true.
My skin issues has been my cross with which ive been going through life for decades now. I used to look monstrous with skin issues earlier I was anxious to walk on the street for people to curiously look at me, now its somewhat better but my skin is so sdnsitive and easily red i cannot go out without a heavy makeup foundation, all the venues that include fgoing somewhere when i cannot put my makeup are just out of question. I look at my childhood photos and i looked like an angel and it breaks my heart
Yup that happened to it’s so clear now!
This makes so much sense! I wanted to sleep next to him, but I would start itching, all over. When I was with another one, my hair started falling out for no apparent reason.
I can't thank you enough for always coming up with very honest and relatable issues concerning toxic abuse, I am trying hard with different body lotions inorder to get my skin back but they all proved futile, almost four years since I left the marriage, this is not a joke anymore people must take this topic very seriously.
my hair started shedding n now my barber noticed n asked if i am losing hair- almost a bald spot
Thank you so much for sharing out your knowledge and experiences. you are truly a blessing . your videos helping people who can't even step out of the house or share or discuss with anyone. God bless you.🙏🙏
Thanks!
Thank you for this. I agree; I developed skin allergies couple of years ago, that took me almost a month to heal. I'm finally moving out of this toxic relationship.
So interesting and makes sense. I have like some skin stuff and issues and always have since a teen ish and wonder if this is why and related as have figured from this as a child. Restore microbiome of gut. Nice.
Past five years, I've been experiencing unexplained physical conditions.
I even ended up in hospital for 4days, still undiagnosed .
My doctor to this day, still says he doesn't understand what im talking about, because i look the epitome of health, but i keep coming back, with somethings wrong,
Even xrays find nothing, except the one gastroscopy that found bacteria in my gut.
I just cannot put my finger on what's been physically wrong with me all this time
My dr must think I'm a hypochondriac
I go every 2years, for a full physical
So the rest of the time , i pretty much just live with these inexplained ailments
There are no bruises to show for this kind of abuse
And only victims, like ourselves, can understand this "phenomenon"
It's on these narc awareness channels that i find peace and comfort on where im at while i plan my escape
If all goes well, im hoping to be out by end December 2023
@jbrown2908 Thank you, friend...
I sure will do that ❤️
Thank you Danish....😊 ..I know that the skin problems are caused by stress and nobody told me about the name of urticaria I am suffering for years...I think its because my blood is not purified that is why it occurs..Now I realized its the after effect of narcissistic abuse. Thanks alot.😊
Been dealing with delayed pressure urticaria for years now. Everyday things are so painful. Continous hives, itching, swelling and bruising under the skin. After a walk my feet feel like I'm walking on golf balls. Life has become so miserable because of it.
My grandma was a narc. My mom is a narc. I was diagnosed with psoriasis at age 10.
God Almighty I started to have insane health issues
The very first sentence is 💯 Danish. I wonder how healthy I would be if I didn't ever have to interact with narcissists. I haven't been able to heal myself physically because my conditions are too chronic now.
It hurts my situation is also for my two children. I cant even say ' our ' cause I raised them not him. He was my 3rd child. I'm so glad my 2 children 22 and 14 are smart and great people, kind, caring but damaged, I teached them how to handle evil people. It took me years to find out about this. They have skin issues and I'm still fighting out so to escape this. It's very difficult but it must succeed. Hipe the best for all of you here❤😢💪
i really want to move away from my environment too but keep having to move back in when i run out of money… it’s great u were able to find a sustainable way to stay iut
This makes so much sense for me! Plz will you break down everything you use step by step as well as you’re healing process for your mental care?
PMLE polymorphic light erruptions. Suffering from the last14 years apart from other severe issue
My eczema is gone by going keto, get rid of the carbs and sugar.
I never had skin issues and now feet few months I develop rash or itching !
True! I can't remember a day when I didn't had any skin issues since I was a kid. Its always there.
God took one out of my life and my skin is getting better. I forgive him. Thank God
Nobody causes me stress. I've lost jobs over over having a 'piss off' attitude towards a boss.
I would personally rather murder someone who stresses me out than ever get into a relationship with such a person. My tolerance threshold towards people who annoy me is zero. And I don't get annoyed easily. As long as your annoying habits or personality makes me laugh or smile, I like you. If you're a bully or a narc I automatically hate you and would rather see you bleed from every pore and suffer unspeakable agony than have to deal with you.
Yes I have pigments trying everything but not healed
This is so freaking unbelievable man
My narcissistic mother has done a lot of bad things to me but the worst of all is my health deteriorates every day because of her
Yes for me. Since puberty until now in my 40's my skin and gastro intestinal systems have been awful.
What we have in common...we thought we could fix people
I have a skin rash right now!!! I ended a narc relationship a month ago and I still have the rash on my back, chest and leg
thanks... I hade zona and regular eczema now I know why!!!!!
Any tips on dealing with severe panic/ anxiety attacks? Tried most of the teas, most recently Yogi stress. Don t know if it s the adrenal mass, but, amplified the attacks. Don t want anything to do with scrip meds. Eucerin baby excema cream helps. I use it on my daughter. Gets patches on her face. Old Burt s Bees baby wash, Puricy, Shea Moisture Chamomile baby wash are good. As for me, n my skin issues.. cause us adrenal mass peeps are prone to skin and fungal issues... tea tree oil body wash or Equate dandruff shampoo as a body wash... for the zinc. Digestive issues.. probiotics and zinc
Wow.. glad I found this ! Thankyou
Yes. I am suffering with eczema and urticaria from years. It's always idiopathic. But I healed with out treatment during no contact with my narc family. It's 100% true that skin never heals when a narc is in ur life.
Thank you Danish.
I had severe hotflashes. I love uou videos they have helped me to be strong.
Yes I have a terrible skin rash it was when I was going throughtb so much stress with the nark the funny thing she was most happy like she knows she caused it
My hyperpigmentation is healing after I started healing from Narcissistic abuse.... strange but very real !
I'm downloading this video, bless u danish
Suddenly have skin issues 😢
Danish I request , pls explain the narcissistic abuse from the Islamic POV as they use different hadith let says, treat your parents nicely, and the enablers use the same type of language don't say uff to parents and mothers have a special place and hence the enablers or the people I talk about my trauma eventually after me hours or even days explaining them each and every single detail , they make it all zero .... pls someone in the comments help how could I give a fitting reply to such people it's so frustrating!!