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Do Breaks Help a Relationship?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 ก.พ. 2019
- Sometimes we get overwhelmed with our relationships that we think a break will help. Today on Relationship 911, Relationship Coaches Jan and Monika offer different perspectives on why taking a break is beneficial. Listen as they share the importance of determining rules to the break. And by making sure both partners agree to work on what you need to do inside each of you.
Have you tried taking a break from a relationship that is not working? Share your experience by leaving a comment below.
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My girlfriend and I are on a 2 week break right now. She said she loves me so much and that I’m amazing and she’s never been treated so well before but she has a block and doesn’t know what it is and needs to work on herself to figure it out and thought we should break up. We were both devastated by that. She even said she didn’t want this to end but didn’t know what else to do. I so suggested a 2 week break. She looked so relieved and said “you’re willing to do that for me?” With a sigh of relief. We defined the rules. We said “this is not a Ross and Rachel break” and we laid out the ground rules. It’s been killing me these past 2 weeks that I can’t talk to her or see her or tell her I love her. One more day and she’s coming over to talk about everything. I’m really hoping for a good outcome but I’m prepared for both. We both are going to have a lot to say to each other. I’m just scared I’m gonna lose the best thing that’s ever happened to me because of our 2 week no contact break
Any update? Hope everything went well bro 🙏
Yea I hope it turned out well for you 💗 but you seemed like a very supportive and sweet boyfriend
@@ants1568 she ended things. She said that she’s known since day one she wasn’t emotionally ready for a relationship and she was hoping the feelings would change but they didn’t. She kept saying how I’m everything she wants in a boyfriend and then some and doesn’t know what’s wrong with her and that it’s the right person wrong time. Either way. As much as I could prepare for the bad outcome, she still destroyed me. I’ve been a complete mess ever since.
@@tianbowen721 thank you for saying that. It didn’t tho. Long story but she wasn’t emotionally ready for a relationship and I was all in willing to compromise and do whatever it takes and she said “you’re willing to do that and compromise, but I’m not” and after a 6 hour talk, it ended. I’ve never felt so broken in my life. I put my house up for sale and I’m moving from Tampa to Boise to start a new life and start fresh. Been wanting to move for a long time but pushed my time frame back for her but now I’m just doing it
@@Mountains4ever It's been 7 months, I hope things are getting better for u now..
This helped me, how does it only have 2k views lmao
We live together and we had an argument and he wants to take a break. It’s his house so he did kick me out but has said we need to work on ourselves and says eventually I need to find a place and get my stuff…he’s mentioned he’ll take care of my puppy as long as I need but I feel is he just using this to push me out?
how is it going?
@@subtitledlamb8462 it went from rock bottom to actually better. It’s a breakup but he doesn’t want to throw away 2 years he wants us to get back together after therapy. He’s told his family and friends were going to get back together. The only thing killing me id being broken up and acting like roomies. Sucks. He’s always the one initiatinngbhugs in the morning and before we go to bed. Just recently he held my hands and said “ this may be awkward but I have been wanting to say it so much. I love you “ and that made me tear up. Like it rests a lot of my doubts. He said we’re gonna have a healthy new relationship like full relationshop but of course if we fall into old patterns or have a fight like we did then wr know it’s not meant to be. So it’s deff improved and he shows he still cares and loves me but he’s just better at acting roomie than me. I’m also his wallpaper still on his phone
@@atlation sounds very difficult i hope it turns out well for u.
@@atlation How are you guys doing now? Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing.
@@the.integrativenurse being open and vulnerable has helped a lot. We’re actually a lot better. He’s talking to me reached out I had to go away for a month he’d want to talk to me on the phone. But anyways back home now and we’ll.. he kind of hinted at stuff and we’ll we basically hooked up? And we’re gonna get back together end of next month vs 3-4 months