Hi there, If you do not mind me sharing; a well-planned, organic, unrefined and untempered with vegan diet (consuming edible raw plant foods where possible so as not to denature or destroy the life-forces and enzymatic activities beneficial to the human system. If disagreeing on this matter, please try planting some steamed carrots and see if they will grow; if they fail to, it is because they are 'dead' plant food that cannot benefit one's 'living' cells) consisting of organic fruits, vegetables, legumes, nuts, seeds and whole grains is the best diet to provide mankind with ultimate health and longevity. Concerned about protein? There are 'high protein' plant food sources e.g nuts and legumes, and from gathered information, too much protein can lead to kidney problems. Please note: processed meats are classified as carcinogenic to humans in Group 1, which is as bad as it can get, where as plant foods are classified as anti-cancer foods. Vegan diets cause anorexia? Although badly planned vegan diets can lead to anorexia, one actually needs plant food sources (starchy carbohydrates e.g organic potatoes) that help with weight gain. Please avoid factory produced meat alternatives whose chief ingredient can be 'soy' and may contain preservatives as well as additives (e.g vinegar, a corrosive agent). Food toxicity and nutrient deficiency (e.g white bread, white rice and white sugar) are a deadly combination as one is hindering the body's building materials needed to action healing whilst at the same time taxing the system with more toxic stuff, thus bringing about disease and possibly even an early death. Soon Fulfilled Prophecy: 1. Food shortage will lead to a civil war in America. 2. Climate change will lead to Sun-day laws. Helpful websites: 1. www.remnantofGOD.org 2. www.pluckedout.co.uk GOD Bless 💙💙💙
Are you impressed bacause she can speak Japanese, which is her mother tongue? Or are you surprised that after living 10 years in Shanghai she can speak Chinese? As for English, being able to speak it is no praiseworthy feat...
@@1969mmoldovan No shit. How many languages do you speak fluently? The host speaks all 3 at a really high level. That alone is praiseworthy no matter what.
@@1969mmoldovan English is very hard to learn for Japanese speakers. The grammar is completely different, there are no words in common, the pronunciation has many sounds that don't exist in English. Basically if you go to Japan, you won't find many people able to speak English. Most of the people with proficient English have studied/worked abroad/have foreign friends. It's not easy to speak Chinese at such a high level and if you go to China you will find many foreigners who cannot speak Chinese. Especially in Shanghai where she lives, because all the expats live there, you can survive with English. It looks like from your profile, you are from Moldova or Romania. Romanian is an Indo-European language like English and English using a lot of vocab from Latin and French. Of course Romanians don't have a big problem with English but even within Europe there are still a lot of people who don't speak English well, especially as soon as you venture outside the tourist areas.
The one lady that studied in the U.S. was the only one that realized that western men are not that different than Asians men. Also she noted that it was not the difference that makes for a good long term relationship, but what couples have in common. I am from the U.S. of Hispanic background, and I agree with the lady’s opinion. 😊
It's probably true Western/Chinese men are more similar than they are different but this lady hasn't dated any western men and I seriously doubt you've dated a man born in China.
Almost all these responses show me how people's perceptions can be warped and that Asia isn't racist enough. I didn't hear a single negative thing associated with western guys. It's almost all positive representation it seems. Meanwhile in the west, very different story for anyone non-white yet I bet you the western guys over there complain about "racism" when they don't get their way.
Totally wrong. She is very into men doing all for her and paying her way...she is what western men call a user, and she was probably told that a few times. You forget...there was a girl toward the end that swore by western men and listed so many differences.... and SHE was the only one to actually date a westerner. I am a westerner and married to a Hispanic women...one with a top education...who will tell you there is not comparison between Asian and Hispanic men to western men! I also met more than a few Hispanic women that were users...you been told now, lol!
I was surprised at how consistent the Chinese women's answers were to your questions. Honest reality; everyone lives in their own fish bowel so to speak. You are an exception Kaho, but most people have their obligations of school, work, family, etc. So it's quite an effort to travel to a different society, and even more of a challenge to spend more than two weeks there. ...and there is the challenge of language as well. Always difficult. I am from the US and had the opportunity to work in Monterrey Mexico part time for one and a half years. I am also 6"7" tall with blue eyes. You can imagine the curiosity the local residents had in me! It was one of the best experiences in my life. Thanks for your video Kaho!
You're from the US and you typed "...fish bowel..." instead of the correct "...fish bowl..."? Don't blame autocorrect. Take time to proofread before pressing Reply.
I wonder if they change their names or go by nicknames, a lot of the names were very unique. I really liked that they are open to different cultures tho. I have traveled a lot, I lived in Europe for over 15 years before moving back to America and I am always so attracted to people with different cultures than mine. I def have more traveling to do
I lived in Shanghai for 10 years and loved it. Had 3 serious relationships with Chinese girls and they were new, exciting, and refreshing for both sides. I'm now back in Los Angeles but preparing to head back soon for work. Great vid! Cheers
When it was so "refreshing" why was not successful any of it?! And what other job is possible there for foreigners where already are not Chinese people except "teaching English"?!
Funny how perception works. I currently live in NYC one of the fashion meccas on the planet, and work completely in Chinatown. The Chinese men here( who are largely born and predominantly Mandarin speaking ) are by far better dressed than the average population, and usually more so than you find in more fashion forward districts. Also because of nutrition here, very tall Chinese men isn’t that uncommon, I even regularly encounter women well above average height for men.
@@crnackasmeca It's not necessarily the milk. Cow milk is what many Westerners drink, but it is not the most optimal source of calcium. Dairy products are super high in calcium. Pick what you like, what your stomach will enjoy. Yogurt, goat milk, cheese, whatever is fine. Generally, you find about 300 mg calcium per serving. However, it's only 30% bioavailable, meaning only about 100 mg will be absorbed by the body. It's a large shotgun blast of calcium, but only some of it sticks in the body. Leafy greens (e.g. bok choy) have less total calcium per serving, but it's more readily bioavailable. I think for bok choy it's something like 150 mg calcium per serving, but a whopping 50% bioavailable so you absorb about 75 mg of calcium. However some green vegetables have anti-absorption components (like oxalates) that inhibit/prevent calcium absorption. Spinach is a good example of this, with something like only 5% of calcium absorbed into the body from eating spinach. However, obviously green vegetables have many other good nutrients, so you should definitely eat lots of them for the other nutrients. Just get your calcium elsewhere. Overall, kids (and adults) should eat lots of good protein (fish, nuts, beans, lean white meat), fruits, and vegetables. In early development years (from birth to approximately age 15 years old), having a complete or even surplus diet is very important for growth. That's anywhere from 1500 to 2000 kCal daily for children. Protein, vitamin D, calcium, and other nutrients. For protein, that's something like 70-100 grams per day (whether meat, nuts, or beans). Historically, portion sizes have been much smaller and protein/calcium consumption has been proportionally much lower in Asian diets. This has recently changed in the past few decades, with industrialized and urban Asian diets trending closer towards Western levels of dietary consumption. After roughly age 15, skeletal growth is pretty much done, and a person will see little to no additional increase in height. Height growth generally starts earlier and ends earlier for girls compared to boys. This is true for children in the US, Australia, other developed countries, and increasingly in the past 2 decades for urban Chinese children with above-average privilege and resource access. So if you are older than 15, your height is pretty much done for life. :( However, you should still keep up your calcium intake to protect your bone strength and body height. Deficiency can lead to shrinking and losing the height you have, as you get older (into middle age and old age). None of this constitutes actual medical or nutrition advice! I'm just a random person on the Internet! Please do your own research and consult a health specialist for your serious questions. :P
I came across your channel today and I'd like to say that you're doing a great videos. It's interesting to watch especially for me who learning English and Chinese at the same time. And also small wish for the next video - can u ask a foreigners what they think about dating with Chinese (advantages and disadvantages?) It'd be cool :)
Hi there, If you do not mind me sharing; a well-planned, organic, unrefined and untempered with vegan diet (consuming edible raw plant foods where possible so as not to denature or destroy the life-forces and enzymatic activities beneficial to the human system. If disagreeing on this matter, please try planting some steamed carrots and see if they will grow; if they fail to, it is because they are 'dead' plant food that cannot benefit one's 'living' cells) consisting of organic fruits, vegetables, legumes, nuts, seeds and whole grains is the best diet to provide mankind with ultimate health and longevity. Concerned about protein? There are 'high protein' plant food sources e.g nuts and legumes, and from gathered information, too much protein can lead to kidney problems. Please note: processed meats are classified as carcinogenic to humans in Group 1, which is as bad as it can get, where as plant foods are classified as anti-cancer foods. Vegan diets cause anorexia? Although badly planned vegan diets can lead to anorexia, one actually needs plant food sources (starchy carbohydrates e.g organic potatoes) that help with weight gain. Please avoid factory produced meat alternatives whose chief ingredient can be 'soy' and may contain preservatives as well as additives (e.g vinegar, a corrosive agent). Food toxicity and nutrient deficiency (e.g white bread, white rice and white sugar) are a deadly combination as one is hindering the body's building materials needed to action healing whilst at the same time taxing the system with more toxic stuff, thus bringing about disease and possibly even an early death. Soon Fulfilled Prophecy: 1. Food shortage will lead to a civil war in America. 2. Climate change will lead to Sun-day laws. Helpful websites: 1. www.remnantofGOD.org 2. www.pluckedout.co.uk GOD Bless 💙💙💙
I enjoyed your interviews very much! It’s an excellent opportunity to practice my Chinese. I was a foreigner living in Nanjing but haven’t been back since Covid.
I lived in China for several years in the very early 2000s in a few cities close to Wuhan. A lot of my students had grown up with the impression the all English guys were gentleman who walked around wearing a suit and hat - looking like Charlie Chaplin
I listen to these videos to get a sense of how Chinese is spoken on the streets. I am just getting started, but I do recognize a few words as they speak. The content is also interesting.
Great range of interviews! I found it notable that the one black-dressed woman who mentioned she had studied in the US had an understandably more grounded view of Western/American men. Several of the others seemed to be showing signs of (understandable) perception bias based on their social/news media consumption of Western male impressions. [Most of what I describe below is generalizations based on my own experiences or observations of others, not indicative of the full range and variety of both good and bad people, Western, American, Chinese, or otherwise Asian] Westerners can consider Chinese or Asian men to be less macho, assertive, or manly, but the flipside is that Westerners, women in particular, can sometimes find Asian men to be more considerate or attentive. This can stem from social values where relative to Americans Asians tend to prioritize collectivist action for the sake of their family/community/group, rather than to self-promote at the expense of others or making a noisy scene. Family-wise, Asians can respect their parents, elders, and/or female relatives, and this carries into their own adult personal relationships. Obviously, this is very much a generalization, and individually there are many Asians who do and do not respect others, as well as Westerners who do and do not. In the US at least, women in the dating scene can get jaded and burned out (embittered) by too much exposure to brash, loud men who act and talk big but never follow through. Call those guys players, douchebags, whatever. I realize this is not limited to Americans, of course. That's just what we call them here. There are a LOT of normal, everyday Americans who I would not consider to be particularly open-minded. Perhaps more open-minded than the extreme end of chauvinist Asian/Chinese men (b/c I've heard of some really 1950s-level power tripping and abusive relationships that I hope are more outlier than the norm in Chinese dating culture), but I couldn't say without specific examples to consider. Sinophobia is very much a thing, and a somewhat complex topic in the US. On social media, I feel a lot of the general sinophobia is, as with many other sociopolitical issues, a matter of people with little to no real personal experience projecting the macro political issues between the US govt and the Chinese govt onto individuals undeservingly. The wronged individual then feels the injustice of receiving unwarranted prejudiced behavior, which potentially creates counter ill will. This has been a social/sociopolitical issue regarding Chinese students in the US. Some cases of genuine Chinese political interference and industrial espionage have occurred, and certainly must be addressed in and of themselves -- I'd go as far to say the US has visibly done far less to meaningfully tackle this threat to sovereignty than Australia has. The news has been heavily played up in US news media, causing wider distrust and increased yet ineffectual and pointlessly harmful sinophobia. Similar with the US sinophobic treatment of COVID. China is not innocent, though, with its heavy-handed treatment and coverups of the initial outbreak reporting and investigations, all due to a need to save political face (and I definitely have to admit that I have a Western bias on this since I can only read at best non-US English news, e.g. from Europe, India, and English sources in Asia). This has disillusioned some Chinese students and workers who are caught up in this anti-Chinese US sentiment despite being personally sincere and innocent in their genuine pursuit of work and study abroad. The same characteristics of a person or cultural group can be seen as either good or bad, depending on its extreme expressions, the particular individual in question, etc. Open-mindedness, for example, can go both ways. I'm biased towards being a socially progressive and economically moderate person. Very rarely an outright activist, but sometimes a minor contributor to charitable or activist groups that resonate with me in their stance and methodology. But my Chinese ex-GF (who was more cosmopolitan and artsy than me by a lot) usually considered me to be tiresome if I even briefly mentioned a conversation topic about any related news or current events. She and I similarly had a range of social circles, including various cultural, ethnic, orientation groups. But the larger social issue landscape was actively a turn-off for her, while it interested me enough to at least follow the news occasionally. I didn't mind deprioritizing these topics when I was with her, b/c I had other friends and outlets to indulge my interest. It was interesting to note that I had some friends who were far more invested, and sometimes called me part of the silent, moderate majority that passively condones the status quo. Contrast that with my ex-GF, who thought that I was far too caught up in irrelevant macro social issues. The seemingly tiny yet sometimes surprisingly impactful nuances of this example replayed themselves in many other little differences between Chinese and American culture. The majority of American guys prefer a level of dress that is perhaps far more casual (even unacceptably so) than cosmopolitan Chinese men or women might approve of in public. In the wrong mood, this American/Western preference for natural appearance, comfort, or practicality can be seen by Asians as sloppy, lazy, or rudely ignorant, unmindful of the reputation of the woman you're seen in public with. The language and culture obstacles can be big things, but also many little things. I personally enjoy a very casual, indie, journalistic kind of candid photography if I take pictures of people. I like to capture spontaneous smiles, laughter, motions, and activities. My ex-GF was somewhat aghast at this, and I horrified her when I would catch her in moments where she wasn't prepared to smile a specific way for the camera -- even if she wasn't looking at the camera. She'd insist that I delete the "unflattering" picture and retake it with a staged shot that I, in turn, considered pretty (understandably prettier than the candid shots) but artificial and somewhat lacking in the spirit of the genuine moment. Neither of us were wrong, but our preferences clearly clashed. There were also purely relationship expectations that I failed to grasp initially. I was completely oblivious to Qixi, the double-seven Chinese equivalent of Valentine's Day. And the scope of dating expectations on relationship romantic holidays or anniversaries. A casual night staying in or staycation is sometimes emphatically NOT acceptable for these big days. In the same vein that Western guys might prefer to split the bill on a date, some guys might consider these anniversaries to be arbitrary, socially contrived constructs without personal value -- and that could be taken very badly by a partner who has grown up invested in these anniversaries. Asians and Westerners may also have differences in personal space. With American women I dated, they usually wanted more personal time and space to do their own activities or spend time with other friends. With the one Chinese woman I dated, I found that she generally considered me to not spend enough time with her -- I was usually the one who felt the need to ask for some separate personal time. Personally, as a bicultural non-Chinese Asian-American, I found it hard enough to bridge cultural gaps to a more strongly Chinese partner. I had thought myself to be somewhat cosmopolitan, educated, or open-minded. And I repeatedly learned the lesson that there were many unexpected ways I was not; some I had been aware of peripherally but did not realize the full scale, and others I was completely unaware of previously. I belatedly apologize for this huge text dump. I hadn't thought about these things for years, so thank you for making this video that provoked these thoughts. And thanks to whomever had the patience to endure my combination rant/introspection. :)
Don't you think that sinophobia as you perceive it in the media has more to do with the fact that their success is the undesired proof that there is no such thing as "racism" which stops ethnic or race minorities from climbing up the ladder? In Germany it is the Turks and Arabs who beat up or kill Vietnamese business owners, in the US it is the Blacks who do the same to East Asians.
@@Greenforrest7342 I'm quite aware that I'm long-winded. :) It's the Internet. Everyone is welcome to completely ignore what I say, just as I can write whatever I want. :D There's no obligation one way or another. I mostly write these as a way of processing my own thoughts, so it doesn't matter if anyone else ever reads my comments. I just appreciate that the video provoked these thoughts and gave me a reason to think about something I otherwise would not have! 👍
spot on. As a Chinese women i also had similar study abroad experience like her. I just realised when i was younger like under 20 how i was brainwashed by media i consumed since i started date men outside of my race. Men everywhere are the same, good ones and douchebags lol
Nov 30th 2023: This came in my recommends, and because I have been interested in China for the past 3-4 years, if not longer, I clicked on it. I have been watching videos regarding Filipinas for dating, and to find a channel for Chinese women is wonderful. To be clear the possibility of dating a Chinese woman is as remote as me travelling to Mars. Of the women I found Zicky to be the type I would prefer to have a relationship with. The others appear to be more modern in outlook. A more traditional woman would appeal to me. Knowing a bit about some of your culture, history, my heart would gravitate towards someone from the Suburbs or Rural. She would be more attuned to my background, regardless of the cultural differences. I have met a few over here in Canada, the last one being a Muslim Uyghur girl from Xinjian Province. We spoke for 5-10 minutes, having met quite by accident while out walking. She impressed me with her openness and caring attitudes. Having been in Canada from Feb 14 to Nov 23, she hadn't been spoilt by the contact with modern Western women, even though her English was better than mine 😅
Very interesting video! If you won't be offended, Please turn down the music in the intro. I could not hear what you were saying very well over it. Good luck with this channel!
My wife is Chinese and some of the biggest problems she faced was leaving her family, food she was use to and culture differences in ideals. She has now lived with me in Canada for 11 years and she would advise many Chinese to carefully to give thought before dating a westerner.
I'm a westerner, and my GF lives in Singapore. I think there's some things she would agree with, but there's also a fair bit of stereotypes, too. Not all Western guys are "tall" or masculine, and not all Western guys are open-minded. In fact, depending on where they're from, they too can be quite closed-minded and traditionalist. If the common conception of a Western guy is what's presented in Western films and TV shows, that's not very realistic. Many of those guys are male models, playing a role for the camera. Grass is always greener on the other side, right?
On average they're taller. There's also a huge cult around working out in the West. Sure, most people don't actually partake in that cult, but the fact that it exists at all is significant. And yes, Westerners are by far more "open-minded" in comparison-and they don't usually use the term in a positive sense, although these girls seem neutral. In China people almost always date with marriage as a goal, and while virginity before marriage is no longer a thing, it's still rare for anyone to have slept with more than 2-3 people, including their eventual spouse.
@@Fredman16 this is not based on opinion whatsoever you freak. This is only based on collective data and average info of the overall facts. He’s wrong, that’s proven in so many aspects. He’s essentially comparing to the low end of one group with the average high end of the Asian group, to try to fabricate what is actually the reality. Its messed up and false
From my experience, Shanghai in the north, and Guangzhou, Shenzhen, and Hong Kong have a lot more interaction with foreigners than many other cities, so they are more amenable to dating foreigners. i've been to Zhangjiajie National Forest Park, Lijiang, Jiuzhai National Park, and the Ice Festival in Harbin. All these are not places where many foreigners are seen, and they are often afraid of foreigners. I will admit that many Chinese would come up to me just to practice their English with me, but if they were female and I showed interest they almost ran away.
It does make sense since the westerners in China today need to have post-secondary professional education in order to remain in China. I think it's a very similar phenomenon as immigrants from China or India to America generally being high income earner professionals, thereby causing the Asian American demographic to be the highest income earners in America. In the same way that Asian Americans are generally stereotyped as being smart and hardworking and law-abiding on account of their careers, it would also make sense for westerners in China today to be stereotyped as professional and outgoing and openminded in China on account of the careers they likely have in China and the fact that they decided to travel to China. Overall, I am a proponent of believing that we are all human, and we are all much more alike than different.
I like xixi she’s pretty she seems a little shy but I like that ! They all seem very nice I’ve always liked Chinese food! I think that Japanese women are very beautiful and no I’ve never dated any . It seemed complicated to maybe ask traditions are different I know there are very cultural beliefs they have . I was always afraid they would say they could not talk to me or get close because they were not allowed. I remember getting a Chinese food waitress to ask me if my daughter and her cousin were both my girl friends they were like 16-17 years old. Maybe I should have ask for her number? Idk but maybe one day.
Her accent is just perfect. I guess she's been living in China for a long time. I'm also learning Japanese, it's quite difficult, you need to redouble your efforts.
1:40 isn't "dedede" a Korean expression? Is it also said in Mandarin? It confused me because this clip is from a Japanese woman and a Chinese woman talking to each other lol!
Some 30 years ago I worked at a Chinese restaurant here in America and made very good friends with Eddie and Mai Chow the owners of the restaurant. They were both from Canton. In a nutshell their attitude was Chinese only marry Chinese. Many of these girls in this video are open to dating Western men. The world has definitely changed in 30 years.
I lived in China for 2 years on business about 10 years ago. I can say from experience that I was very popular with the ladies, but I settled on one very special young woman. One is enough.
Be the western guy the Chinese think you are! 😂😂 Would be nice if you lower down the music sound a bit int the beginning and the end as it overpowers your voice 😅😅. But great video though.
beautiful people with good and smart answers… it’s very impressive how china has changed over the last 40 years… (fashion, style, architecture, technology etc)
imagine a world where everyone is mixed blood there would be little to no racial difference any two person. i guess it starts from being more open to possibilities/embracing changes
@@marimo66666 why should i imagine this? i grow up with 3 different cultures, speaking 5 languages, there exist a certain beauty in local traditions, you understand more about the history and this has nothing to do with racism… this said…i visited china 1997 (my former teacher was there in 1980) the evolution of china is truly remarkable… (similar to dubai but infinite bigger)…
Very interesting how similar their opinions were, although most of them never dated a Western guy. But it seems we come across as interesting, physically attractive, open-minded, etc. Thanks for the positive view on us. :)
I think they base their views on Hollywood. They would be disappointed once they find out the vast majority of Westerners at least in America are overweight. Something like 2/3.
I want to date I Chinese girl but I don’t know which app they use if you can recommend to me something I will appreciate a lot. And this is a great video
As a black man who would love to date an Asian woman, it was encouraging hearing the woman at 3:50 say she likes black men :-). I need to take a trip to Asia!
Yea man Alot of them seem to always talk about “tall pale white blonde blue eyed” men From hollywood but once in a while you will get one who likes tanned or black skin
Your interviews are excellent. however, the music is too loud in your intro and outro, plus the lighting is boo hao. Need to up those production values. Peace.
I'm honestly impressed you speak Japanese, Chinese, and English! Very cool.
Hi there,
If you do not mind me sharing; a well-planned, organic, unrefined and untempered with vegan diet (consuming edible raw plant foods where possible so as not to denature or destroy the life-forces and enzymatic activities beneficial to the human system. If disagreeing on this matter, please try planting some steamed carrots and see if they will grow; if they fail to, it is because they are 'dead' plant food that cannot benefit one's 'living' cells) consisting of organic fruits, vegetables, legumes, nuts, seeds and whole grains is the best diet to provide mankind with ultimate health and longevity.
Concerned about protein? There are 'high protein' plant food sources e.g nuts and legumes, and from gathered information, too much protein can lead to kidney problems. Please note: processed meats are classified as carcinogenic to humans in Group 1, which is as bad as it can get, where as plant foods are classified as anti-cancer foods.
Vegan diets cause anorexia? Although badly planned vegan diets can lead to anorexia, one actually needs plant food sources (starchy carbohydrates e.g organic potatoes) that help with weight gain.
Please avoid factory produced meat alternatives whose chief ingredient can be 'soy' and may contain preservatives as well as additives (e.g vinegar, a corrosive agent). Food toxicity and nutrient deficiency (e.g white bread, white rice and white sugar) are a deadly combination as one is hindering the body's building materials needed to action healing whilst at the same time taxing the system with more toxic stuff, thus bringing about disease and possibly even an early death.
Soon Fulfilled Prophecy:
1. Food shortage will lead to a civil war in America.
2. Climate change will lead to Sun-day laws.
Helpful websites:
1. www.remnantofGOD.org
2. www.pluckedout.co.uk
GOD Bless
💙💙💙
Are you impressed bacause she can speak Japanese, which is her mother tongue? Or are you surprised that after living 10 years in Shanghai she can speak Chinese? As for English, being able to speak it is no praiseworthy feat...
@@1969mmoldovan No shit. How many languages do you speak fluently? The host speaks all 3 at a really high level. That alone is praiseworthy no matter what.
@@1969mmoldovan English is very hard to learn for Japanese speakers. The grammar is completely different, there are no words in common, the pronunciation has many sounds that don't exist in English. Basically if you go to Japan, you won't find many people able to speak English. Most of the people with proficient English have studied/worked abroad/have foreign friends.
It's not easy to speak Chinese at such a high level and if you go to China you will find many foreigners who cannot speak Chinese. Especially in Shanghai where she lives, because all the expats live there, you can survive with English.
It looks like from your profile, you are from Moldova or Romania. Romanian is an Indo-European language like English and English using a lot of vocab from Latin and French. Of course Romanians don't have a big problem with English but even within Europe there are still a lot of people who don't speak English well, especially as soon as you venture outside the tourist areas.
Majority of Chinese know English actually
Video just got recommended to me hope this channel blows up
Thank you!
This was very good video, it is nice to see the perspective from the other side.
Thank you for this glimpse into Chinese viewpoints. I am impressed with their independent thinking.
The one lady that studied in the U.S. was the only one that realized that western men are not that different than Asians men. Also she noted that it was not the difference that makes for a good long term relationship, but what couples have in common. I am from the U.S. of Hispanic background, and I agree with the lady’s opinion. 😊
It's probably true Western/Chinese men are more similar than they are different but this lady hasn't dated any western men and I seriously doubt you've dated a man born in China.
Almost all these responses show me how people's perceptions can be warped and that Asia isn't racist enough. I didn't hear a single negative thing associated with western guys. It's almost all positive representation it seems. Meanwhile in the west, very different story for anyone non-white yet I bet you the western guys over there complain about "racism" when they don't get their way.
unfortunately for her she has not met this western man, because i am unlike any you could ever meet. you will never meet a man like me
Totally wrong. She is very into men doing all for her and paying her way...she is what western men call a user, and she was probably told that a few times. You forget...there was a girl toward the end that swore by western men and listed so many differences.... and SHE was the only one to actually date a westerner. I am a westerner and married to a Hispanic women...one with a top education...who will tell you there is not comparison between Asian and Hispanic men to western men! I also met more than a few Hispanic women that were users...you been told now, lol!
@@safetydepartmentthat alone sounds desperate! 😅
I've always found Asian women attractive. I met Rosalind Chao when I was 18, she was dating my cousin. She was really nice.
Please keep the videos coming, Kaho....cheers!!!!
I was surprised at how consistent the Chinese women's answers were to your questions.
Honest reality; everyone lives in their own fish bowel so to speak. You are an exception Kaho, but most people have their obligations of school, work, family, etc. So it's quite an effort to travel to a different society, and even more of a challenge to spend more than two weeks there. ...and there is the challenge of language as well. Always difficult.
I am from the US and had the opportunity to work in Monterrey Mexico part time for one and a half years. I am also 6"7" tall with blue eyes. You can imagine the curiosity the local residents had in me! It was one of the best experiences in my life.
Thanks for your video Kaho!
You people really love to toot your own horn
poor people
I've been to Asia 4 times. Asian women treat white guys like Rock stars.
Interesting@@spartanx169x. I think we all like the unusual and the uncommon. A nice change from our everyday lives.
You're from the US and you typed "...fish bowel..." instead of the correct "...fish bowl..."? Don't blame autocorrect. Take time to proofread before pressing Reply.
I wonder if they change their names or go by nicknames, a lot of the names were very unique. I really liked that they are open to different cultures tho. I have traveled a lot, I lived in Europe for over 15 years before moving back to America and I am always so attracted to people with different cultures than mine. I def have more traveling to do
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Basically are nicknames in video, Chinese usually do not use their real names on informal occasions.
I lived in China for some years and a lot of them(mostly young people) have their real Chinese name and an 'English' name.
Cool interviews! People are people wherever you go. Our customs and languages may be different, but we are all humans together!
My older brother is married to a lady from China, I haven't met her yet, but I have spoken to her on the phone, she is a really nice woman.
I wish your brother good luck with that. Really. Odds are not in his favor unfortunately, but I do know some who are happy, so I hope for the best.
don't forget to tell your brother that your family needs to give a big wedding dowery gift to her family!
@@thejiffinator 哈哈哈 都能嫁给洋大人了 怎敢要彩礼？
If you don’t have a passport get one then get overseas and meet some Beautiful Asian women and have them make you fall in love. I Did.
i had a friend amrried witha japanese he said he cant stand her she plans everything ,, so they divorced..kekek also accused her of being very cold :)
I lived in Shanghai for 10 years and loved it. Had 3 serious relationships with Chinese girls and they were new, exciting, and refreshing for both sides.
I'm now back in Los Angeles but preparing to head back soon for work.
Great vid! Cheers
Cuz you can't get any job other than teaching english
When it was so "refreshing" why was not successful any of it?!
And what other job is possible there for foreigners where already are not Chinese people except "teaching English"?!
Ver direct, consistant and to the point. Interesting video.
Funny how perception works. I currently live in NYC one of the fashion meccas on the planet, and work completely in Chinatown. The Chinese men here( who are largely born and predominantly Mandarin speaking ) are by far better dressed than the average population, and usually more so than you find in more fashion forward districts. Also because of nutrition here, very tall Chinese men isn’t that uncommon, I even regularly encounter women well above average height for men.
So chinese man from nyc is taller then other chinese because off nutrition??
I didn’t know that.
Thanks for info.
@@crnackasmeca Actually correction, Chinese men in our generation in general are taller due to nutrition.
@@crnackasmeca I live in Australia. Asian men who lived in Australia most of their life is taller due to nutrition and milk.
@@MightyCats2011
Oh ok
What kind off milk they drink
I want to be taller
@@crnackasmeca It's not necessarily the milk. Cow milk is what many Westerners drink, but it is not the most optimal source of calcium. Dairy products are super high in calcium. Pick what you like, what your stomach will enjoy. Yogurt, goat milk, cheese, whatever is fine. Generally, you find about 300 mg calcium per serving. However, it's only 30% bioavailable, meaning only about 100 mg will be absorbed by the body. It's a large shotgun blast of calcium, but only some of it sticks in the body.
Leafy greens (e.g. bok choy) have less total calcium per serving, but it's more readily bioavailable. I think for bok choy it's something like 150 mg calcium per serving, but a whopping 50% bioavailable so you absorb about 75 mg of calcium. However some green vegetables have anti-absorption components (like oxalates) that inhibit/prevent calcium absorption. Spinach is a good example of this, with something like only 5% of calcium absorbed into the body from eating spinach. However, obviously green vegetables have many other good nutrients, so you should definitely eat lots of them for the other nutrients. Just get your calcium elsewhere.
Overall, kids (and adults) should eat lots of good protein (fish, nuts, beans, lean white meat), fruits, and vegetables.
In early development years (from birth to approximately age 15 years old), having a complete or even surplus diet is very important for growth. That's anywhere from 1500 to 2000 kCal daily for children. Protein, vitamin D, calcium, and other nutrients. For protein, that's something like 70-100 grams per day (whether meat, nuts, or beans). Historically, portion sizes have been much smaller and protein/calcium consumption has been proportionally much lower in Asian diets. This has recently changed in the past few decades, with industrialized and urban Asian diets trending closer towards Western levels of dietary consumption.
After roughly age 15, skeletal growth is pretty much done, and a person will see little to no additional increase in height. Height growth generally starts earlier and ends earlier for girls compared to boys.
This is true for children in the US, Australia, other developed countries, and increasingly in the past 2 decades for urban Chinese children with above-average privilege and resource access.
So if you are older than 15, your height is pretty much done for life. :( However, you should still keep up your calcium intake to protect your bone strength and body height. Deficiency can lead to shrinking and losing the height you have, as you get older (into middle age and old age).
None of this constitutes actual medical or nutrition advice! I'm just a random person on the Internet! Please do your own research and consult a health specialist for your serious questions. :P
Kaho! Excellent channel! Shanghai for 4 years from America. Keep up the great work. Hope to see you in Jing’an sometime!
good video! the intro music is a little loud though it's hard to hear you
Your channel is great!! But something need to fix, maybe you can turn the music volume down a little bit to make your own voice more clear
got it😌👌🏻
Nice to hear street interviews in Shanghai. Most of what is on the internet either hi-speed Beijing speech or Taiwan accent
Good video, but keep the music lower so we can hear your voice more clearly.
Kaho! I watched your other videos and were surprised at how good your English is and wow you can speak mandarin so well too! :) Trilingual!
I came across your channel today and I'd like to say that you're doing a great videos. It's interesting to watch especially for me who learning English and Chinese at the same time. And also small wish for the next video - can u ask a foreigners what they think about dating with Chinese (advantages and disadvantages?) It'd be cool :)
Hi there,
If you do not mind me sharing; a well-planned, organic, unrefined and untempered with vegan diet (consuming edible raw plant foods where possible so as not to denature or destroy the life-forces and enzymatic activities beneficial to the human system. If disagreeing on this matter, please try planting some steamed carrots and see if they will grow; if they fail to, it is because they are 'dead' plant food that cannot benefit one's 'living' cells) consisting of organic fruits, vegetables, legumes, nuts, seeds and whole grains is the best diet to provide mankind with ultimate health and longevity.
Concerned about protein? There are 'high protein' plant food sources e.g nuts and legumes, and from gathered information, too much protein can lead to kidney problems. Please note: processed meats are classified as carcinogenic to humans in Group 1, which is as bad as it can get, where as plant foods are classified as anti-cancer foods.
Vegan diets cause anorexia? Although badly planned vegan diets can lead to anorexia, one actually needs plant food sources (starchy carbohydrates e.g organic potatoes) that help with weight gain.
Please avoid factory produced meat alternatives whose chief ingredient can be 'soy' and may contain preservatives as well as additives (e.g vinegar, a corrosive agent). Food toxicity and nutrient deficiency (e.g white bread, white rice and white sugar) are a deadly combination as one is hindering the body's building materials needed to action healing whilst at the same time taxing the system with more toxic stuff, thus bringing about disease and possibly even an early death.
Soon Fulfilled Prophecy:
1. Food shortage will lead to a civil war in America.
2. Climate change will lead to Sun-day laws.
Helpful websites:
1. www.remnantofGOD.org
2. www.pluckedout.co.uk
GOD Bless
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Subscribed today! Greetings from The Netherlands!
I enjoyed your interviews very much!
It’s an excellent opportunity to practice my Chinese.
I was a foreigner living in Nanjing but haven’t been back since Covid.
I lived in China for several years in the very early 2000s in a few cities close to Wuhan. A lot of my students had grown up with the impression the all English guys were gentleman who walked around wearing a suit and hat - looking like Charlie Chaplin
Hey my name is Lian I am from Brazil I am very interested in this channel how the China have Incredibles people's as Japan, thanks for doing this.
Mix your voice at a higher volume than the background sound.
I listen to these videos to get a sense of how Chinese is spoken on the streets. I am just getting started, but I do recognize a few words as they speak. The content is also interesting.
One of my best friends happens to be from Hong Kong, she is really nice.
Thank you and I was born in HK but Canadian citizen
You are beautiful ❤️ and your topics are great 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I'm living up to how I've always been been expressed, strong but slow, because I paused the video to read each subtitle! But it's great thanks.
Great range of interviews! I found it notable that the one black-dressed woman who mentioned she had studied in the US had an understandably more grounded view of Western/American men. Several of the others seemed to be showing signs of (understandable) perception bias based on their social/news media consumption of Western male impressions.
[Most of what I describe below is generalizations based on my own experiences or observations of others, not indicative of the full range and variety of both good and bad people, Western, American, Chinese, or otherwise Asian]
Westerners can consider Chinese or Asian men to be less macho, assertive, or manly, but the flipside is that Westerners, women in particular, can sometimes find Asian men to be more considerate or attentive. This can stem from social values where relative to Americans Asians tend to prioritize collectivist action for the sake of their family/community/group, rather than to self-promote at the expense of others or making a noisy scene. Family-wise, Asians can respect their parents, elders, and/or female relatives, and this carries into their own adult personal relationships. Obviously, this is very much a generalization, and individually there are many Asians who do and do not respect others, as well as Westerners who do and do not. In the US at least, women in the dating scene can get jaded and burned out (embittered) by too much exposure to brash, loud men who act and talk big but never follow through. Call those guys players, douchebags, whatever. I realize this is not limited to Americans, of course. That's just what we call them here.
There are a LOT of normal, everyday Americans who I would not consider to be particularly open-minded. Perhaps more open-minded than the extreme end of chauvinist Asian/Chinese men (b/c I've heard of some really 1950s-level power tripping and abusive relationships that I hope are more outlier than the norm in Chinese dating culture), but I couldn't say without specific examples to consider. Sinophobia is very much a thing, and a somewhat complex topic in the US. On social media, I feel a lot of the general sinophobia is, as with many other sociopolitical issues, a matter of people with little to no real personal experience projecting the macro political issues between the US govt and the Chinese govt onto individuals undeservingly. The wronged individual then feels the injustice of receiving unwarranted prejudiced behavior, which potentially creates counter ill will. This has been a social/sociopolitical issue regarding Chinese students in the US.
Some cases of genuine Chinese political interference and industrial espionage have occurred, and certainly must be addressed in and of themselves -- I'd go as far to say the US has visibly done far less to meaningfully tackle this threat to sovereignty than Australia has. The news has been heavily played up in US news media, causing wider distrust and increased yet ineffectual and pointlessly harmful sinophobia. Similar with the US sinophobic treatment of COVID. China is not innocent, though, with its heavy-handed treatment and coverups of the initial outbreak reporting and investigations, all due to a need to save political face (and I definitely have to admit that I have a Western bias on this since I can only read at best non-US English news, e.g. from Europe, India, and English sources in Asia). This has disillusioned some Chinese students and workers who are caught up in this anti-Chinese US sentiment despite being personally sincere and innocent in their genuine pursuit of work and study abroad.
The same characteristics of a person or cultural group can be seen as either good or bad, depending on its extreme expressions, the particular individual in question, etc.
Open-mindedness, for example, can go both ways. I'm biased towards being a socially progressive and economically moderate person. Very rarely an outright activist, but sometimes a minor contributor to charitable or activist groups that resonate with me in their stance and methodology. But my Chinese ex-GF (who was more cosmopolitan and artsy than me by a lot) usually considered me to be tiresome if I even briefly mentioned a conversation topic about any related news or current events. She and I similarly had a range of social circles, including various cultural, ethnic, orientation groups. But the larger social issue landscape was actively a turn-off for her, while it interested me enough to at least follow the news occasionally.
I didn't mind deprioritizing these topics when I was with her, b/c I had other friends and outlets to indulge my interest. It was interesting to note that I had some friends who were far more invested, and sometimes called me part of the silent, moderate majority that passively condones the status quo. Contrast that with my ex-GF, who thought that I was far too caught up in irrelevant macro social issues.
The seemingly tiny yet sometimes surprisingly impactful nuances of this example replayed themselves in many other little differences between Chinese and American culture. The majority of American guys prefer a level of dress that is perhaps far more casual (even unacceptably so) than cosmopolitan Chinese men or women might approve of in public. In the wrong mood, this American/Western preference for natural appearance, comfort, or practicality can be seen by Asians as sloppy, lazy, or rudely ignorant, unmindful of the reputation of the woman you're seen in public with.
The language and culture obstacles can be big things, but also many little things. I personally enjoy a very casual, indie, journalistic kind of candid photography if I take pictures of people. I like to capture spontaneous smiles, laughter, motions, and activities. My ex-GF was somewhat aghast at this, and I horrified her when I would catch her in moments where she wasn't prepared to smile a specific way for the camera -- even if she wasn't looking at the camera. She'd insist that I delete the "unflattering" picture and retake it with a staged shot that I, in turn, considered pretty (understandably prettier than the candid shots) but artificial and somewhat lacking in the spirit of the genuine moment. Neither of us were wrong, but our preferences clearly clashed.
There were also purely relationship expectations that I failed to grasp initially. I was completely oblivious to Qixi, the double-seven Chinese equivalent of Valentine's Day. And the scope of dating expectations on relationship romantic holidays or anniversaries. A casual night staying in or staycation is sometimes emphatically NOT acceptable for these big days. In the same vein that Western guys might prefer to split the bill on a date, some guys might consider these anniversaries to be arbitrary, socially contrived constructs without personal value -- and that could be taken very badly by a partner who has grown up invested in these anniversaries.
Asians and Westerners may also have differences in personal space. With American women I dated, they usually wanted more personal time and space to do their own activities or spend time with other friends. With the one Chinese woman I dated, I found that she generally considered me to not spend enough time with her -- I was usually the one who felt the need to ask for some separate personal time.
Personally, as a bicultural non-Chinese Asian-American, I found it hard enough to bridge cultural gaps to a more strongly Chinese partner. I had thought myself to be somewhat cosmopolitan, educated, or open-minded. And I repeatedly learned the lesson that there were many unexpected ways I was not; some I had been aware of peripherally but did not realize the full scale, and others I was completely unaware of previously.
I belatedly apologize for this huge text dump. I hadn't thought about these things for years, so thank you for making this video that provoked these thoughts. And thanks to whomever had the patience to endure my combination rant/introspection. :)
Don't you think that sinophobia as you perceive it in the media has more to do with the fact that their success is the undesired proof that there is no such thing as "racism" which stops ethnic or race minorities from climbing up the ladder? In Germany it is the Turks and Arabs who beat up or kill Vietnamese business owners, in the US it is the Blacks who do the same to East Asians.
You have written your opinion in detail from your own point of view. That's great, but it's so long-winded that few people will read it.
@@Greenforrest7342 I'm quite aware that I'm long-winded. :) It's the Internet. Everyone is welcome to completely ignore what I say, just as I can write whatever I want. :D There's no obligation one way or another.
I mostly write these as a way of processing my own thoughts, so it doesn't matter if anyone else ever reads my comments.
I just appreciate that the video provoked these thoughts and gave me a reason to think about something I otherwise would not have! 👍
Bro. I want to read it. Your thoughts are like a gateway…. To heaven!
spot on. As a Chinese women i also had similar study abroad experience like her. I just realised when i was younger like under 20 how i was brainwashed by media i consumed since i started date men outside of my race. Men everywhere are the same, good ones and douchebags lol
tip：
You video background music too big😀
I will improve that, thank you!
Wow Kaho's spoken Mandarin is soooo good
Just found your channel. Love the content
Nov 30th 2023: This came in my recommends, and because I have been interested in China for the past 3-4 years, if not longer, I clicked on it. I have been watching videos regarding Filipinas for dating, and to find a channel for Chinese women is wonderful. To be clear the possibility of dating a Chinese woman is as remote as me travelling to Mars.
Of the women I found Zicky to be the type I would prefer to have a relationship with. The others appear to be more modern in outlook. A more traditional woman would appeal to me. Knowing a bit about some of your culture, history, my heart would gravitate towards someone from the Suburbs or Rural. She would be more attuned to my background, regardless of the cultural differences.
I have met a few over here in Canada, the last one being a Muslim Uyghur girl from Xinjian Province. We spoke for 5-10 minutes, having met quite by accident while out walking. She impressed me with her openness and caring attitudes. Having been in Canada from Feb 14 to Nov 23, she hadn't been spoilt by the contact with modern Western women, even though her English was better than mine 😅
Great Thank you 😘🥰
Very interesting video! If you won't be offended, Please turn down the music in the intro. I could not hear what you were saying very well over it. Good luck with this channel!
Good to know that! 😁🤗🙏
Chinese people seem nicer and less hostile compare to us Americans and other foreigners -- especially the ones from other Anglosphere countries .
My wife is Chinese and some of the biggest problems she faced was leaving her family, food she was use to and culture differences in ideals. She has now lived with me in Canada for 11 years and she would advise many Chinese to carefully to give thought before dating a westerner.
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That's her problem or failure 😂
Could you add Chinese subtitles too? It would help with my Chinese study !
3:23 "I'm Soda"... BASED AF name! 🤣
NEXT,please Ask Chinese girls "What do you think of overseas chinese guys?"
Nice try Andi
Of course, it's jealousy🤣🤣
Of course, it's jealousy🤣🤣
Good question LOL
@@billfarley9167 LOL why are you offended? It's a legitimate question
I think you and your content are awesome
Good job girl you asked the right type of questions ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤you will be very successful here❤❤❤❤❤good luck
What a variety of opinions. It's interesting to hear what people have to say. But who knows their past and what they think.
Kaho, nice interview. I am learning Chinese. Any chance you can use Mandarin subtitles?
Good video. How's the Covid situation in Shanghai now? Hope everything is ok.
Cool!!!
Whoa horse... The CC captions were displayed so fast i missed the final results, ..🤙
Always thank you😊😊😊😊😊
2:57 was my favorite clip 👏🏾
The last girl was beautiful. Actually, all of them and the interviewer.
Good video I watch it from Canada 😃👍
I like the your street interviews. If you got time then will go to Tibet . Lhasa city .
Thanks. I am moving to Shanghai in August.
I'm a westerner, and my GF lives in Singapore.
I think there's some things she would agree with, but there's also a fair bit of stereotypes, too.
Not all Western guys are "tall" or masculine, and not all Western guys are open-minded. In fact, depending on where they're from, they too can be quite closed-minded and traditionalist.
If the common conception of a Western guy is what's presented in Western films and TV shows, that's not very realistic. Many of those guys are male models, playing a role for the camera.
Grass is always greener on the other side, right?
Thank you!!
On average they're taller. There's also a huge cult around working out in the West. Sure, most people don't actually partake in that cult, but the fact that it exists at all is significant. And yes, Westerners are by far more "open-minded" in comparison-and they don't usually use the term in a positive sense, although these girls seem neutral. In China people almost always date with marriage as a goal, and while virginity before marriage is no longer a thing, it's still rare for anyone to have slept with more than 2-3 people, including their eventual spouse.
@@Fredman16lol you are thanking him for such a flawed false comment
@@AndreasViking1 there’s nothing flawed or false about it because in the end it’s his opinion!
@@Fredman16 this is not based on opinion whatsoever you freak. This is only based on collective data and average info of the overall facts. He’s wrong, that’s proven in so many aspects. He’s essentially comparing to the low end of one group with the average high end of the Asian group, to try to fabricate what is actually the reality. Its messed up and false
Nice ❤
Maybe turn down the music playing over the video in the beginning. :)
From my experience, Shanghai in the north, and Guangzhou, Shenzhen, and Hong Kong have a lot more interaction with foreigners than many other cities, so they are more amenable to dating foreigners. i've been to Zhangjiajie National Forest Park, Lijiang, Jiuzhai National Park, and the Ice Festival in Harbin. All these are not places where many foreigners are seen, and they are often afraid of foreigners. I will admit that many Chinese would come up to me just to practice their English with me, but if they were female and I showed interest they almost ran away.
Good luck with your channel. I am so impressed - talented with all your languages and a very attractive young lady.
Keep it up! You earned a subscriber!
Chinese women are beautiful, women of every nationality is beautiful, but Asian women in general are stunning.
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Good video but the frequency of the video cuts between question and answer was distracting
You are so beautiful. Job well done. Love your attitude and being so natural.
It does make sense since the westerners in China today need to have post-secondary professional education in order to remain in China. I think it's a very similar phenomenon as immigrants from China or India to America generally being high income earner professionals, thereby causing the Asian American demographic to be the highest income earners in America. In the same way that Asian Americans are generally stereotyped as being smart and hardworking and law-abiding on account of their careers, it would also make sense for westerners in China today to be stereotyped as professional and outgoing and openminded in China on account of the careers they likely have in China and the fact that they decided to travel to China. Overall, I am a proponent of believing that we are all human, and we are all much more alike than different.
Nice video , greetings from Turkey
I like xixi she’s pretty she seems a little shy but I like that ! They all seem very nice I’ve always liked Chinese food! I think that Japanese women are very beautiful and no I’ve never dated any . It seemed complicated to maybe ask traditions are different I know there are very cultural beliefs they have . I was always afraid they would say they could not talk to me or get close because they were not allowed. I remember getting a Chinese food waitress to ask me if my daughter and her cousin were both my girl friends they were like 16-17 years old. Maybe I should have ask for her number? Idk but maybe one day.
You speak really good Chinese language, very impressive! I wish I could speak Japanese too. But it’s just so hard to learn a new language.
Her accent is just perfect. I guess she's been living in China for a long time. I'm also learning Japanese, it's quite difficult, you need to redouble your efforts.
Kaho so adorable.🌹
enjoyed the vid kaho, u are beautiful
MexiCan here with a girl from Shanghai, my girl very open minded n kind very feminine
I love you, Kaho
Arigato!!!
Woah they were so beautiful!
Witziges Video from Germany Hamburg 😊
1:40 isn't "dedede" a Korean expression? Is it also said in Mandarin? It confused me because this clip is from a Japanese woman and a Chinese woman talking to each other lol!
It means yes yes yes in Mandarin
That's "dui dui dui" in Mandarin which means "right right right."
Wow, 'Sunny' @2:31 is just supermodel *gorgeous* ... TINY nose, full lips, pronounced chin and jawline, and killer cheekbones!
Some 30 years ago I worked at a Chinese restaurant here in America and made very good friends with Eddie and Mai Chow the owners of the restaurant. They were both from Canton. In a nutshell their attitude was Chinese only marry Chinese. Many of these girls in this video are open to dating Western men. The world has definitely changed in 30 years.
I lived in China for 2 years on business about 10 years ago. I can say from experience that I was very popular with the ladies, but I settled on one very special young woman. One is enough.
Be the western guy the Chinese think you are! 😂😂
Would be nice if you lower down the music sound a bit int the beginning and the end as it overpowers your voice 😅😅. But great video though.
beautiful people with good and smart answers… it’s very impressive how china has changed over the last 40 years… (fashion, style, architecture, technology etc)
imagine a world where everyone is mixed blood there would be little to no racial difference any two person. i guess it starts from being more open to possibilities/embracing changes
@@marimo66666 why should i imagine this? i grow up with 3 different cultures, speaking 5 languages, there exist a certain beauty in local traditions, you understand more about the history and this has nothing to do with racism…
this said…i visited china 1997 (my former teacher was there in 1980) the evolution of china is truly remarkable… (similar to dubai but infinite bigger)…
@@marimo66666 Eeeeeew dude, what??? People are beautiful when they're NOT mixed. Let people preserve their races, thank you.
Where is this filmed, Shanghai ?
Love Aiko!
Very fast video but nice video
Saludos a todas las damas hermosa ❤en felicidades y bendiciones hermoso lugar 😍 me gustaría aprender chino
Very interesting how similar their opinions were, although most of them never dated a Western guy. But it seems we come across as interesting, physically attractive, open-minded, etc. Thanks for the positive view on us. :)
I think they base their views on Hollywood. They would be disappointed once they find out the vast majority of Westerners at least in America are overweight. Something like 2/3.
where did you learn English, Kaho? Your english is perfect
I like what I see here. Never dated a Chinese or Japanese girl but definitely would.
Hello nice to meet you i, m from bali
Hello Kaho, my name is also Kaho.
Please make the music louder I can still hear you
Hi Kaho do you maybe be in Poland or you have friends from Poland ?
The video background music is so loud I wasn't sure if I could watch this at all so I decided to skip it.
I want to date I Chinese girl but I don’t know which app they use if you can recommend to me something I will appreciate a lot. And this is a great video
Aiko is definitely a catch!
As a black man who would love to date an Asian woman, it was encouraging hearing the woman at 3:50 say she likes black men :-). I need to take a trip to Asia!
Yea man Alot of them seem to always talk about “tall pale white blonde blue eyed” men From hollywood but once in a while you will get one who likes tanned or black skin
Can you get Aikos social media?
Fascinating.
Your interviews are excellent. however, the music is too loud in your intro and outro, plus the lighting is boo hao. Need to up those production values.
Peace.
没想到Kaho的中文和英文说得都超级棒啊。